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Temptation Island - Season 7 - Episode 03
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00:06Do you feel like you can sit down and talk to me about it?
00:27If they hold my hand.
00:29I'll do whatever you need.
00:31If you need me to sit with you right here, I'll sit with you right here.
00:35I'm okay.
00:36You sure?
00:37I'm good.
00:37Yeah, they got me.
00:40Isn't that insane?
00:42Am I crazy?
00:43You're not crazy.
00:44No, it is.
00:44You're not crazy.
00:46I think there's some positives here.
00:48Yeah.
00:49I can finally move the fuck on with my life.
00:51That's a positive.
00:54So, Sid.
00:57Let's take a second and see how we can take whatever you're feeling and have it serve
01:02you.
01:03Okay.
01:03So, as best you can, tell me what you're feeling and what part hurt you so hard.
01:10He said, I might mess around and fall for someone.
01:12I want to shoot my shot at India.
01:14What the fuck?
01:16He's literally showing me the person that I know he is.
01:20So, it's like, why am I even upset?
01:22You know?
01:23Like, you know, he's like, I would never do anything to you.
01:25I haven't done anything to you.
01:26Fucking bullshit.
01:27Bullshit.
01:28I was just in Hilton Head with your family.
01:32And you're like, oh my God, I can't wait until we have forever together.
01:35I can't wait to marry you.
01:36I can't wait to do all this stuff.
01:38I should have knew that was bullshit.
01:41I'm sorry.
01:41The word of the night is bullshit.
01:43That'll fucking do it.
01:45Let's hold space that Mikey has a journey to and let's see who he shows up to be.
01:51Well, I wish him the best, but it is not with me.
01:55Like, I've...
01:55It is not with me.
01:57Spots on a leopard do not fucking change.
02:00You've been the same person that you were.
02:03All you did was, like, try to show me something different.
02:05I get all of what you're saying, but I want you to use this experience selfishly to create for yourself
02:11a possibility in the future
02:13that's greater than when you knew existed.
02:16So what I want you to do is try on things to see what you can create so that the
02:24next relationship, when it's time,
02:27is on that next level.
02:29Yeah.
02:29And if that's here, even if you don't leave the island with somebody...
02:32Yeah.
02:32...that you get to experience it so you can get that brain pattern of this is something that's there for
02:38me.
02:38I can have it.
02:39Yeah.
02:39I appreciate that.
02:41I really do.
02:42There's a lot, you guys.
02:44But congratulations, you made it through your first bonfire.
02:49Coming up soon are more dates, and the next dates you'll be having will be double dates.
02:54So think about which guy you'd like to get to know more.
02:58When you're ready, when you're feeling a vibe, ask the guy out on a date.
03:03This is your moment to explore the connections in front of you so that you can lead this island stronger,
03:09happier, and more ready to have the love relationship that you deserve.
03:15All right.
03:16Good night.
03:17Good night.
03:18Good night.
03:19Good night.
03:19Good night.
03:34Good night.
03:37mean nothing to you it feels like to me that there is no respect for me and I deserve better
03:41than that I just did not expect to see literally nothing he's not opening up he's not seeing where
03:51work needs to be done like and now I'm just confused Summit isn't taking accountability
03:57and like the only way we can work through our current problems is if he realizes his wrongdoings
04:02but not if he sits around with a bunch of girls that are going to tell him that his girlfriend's
04:06insecure because I'm fucking not I want to leave it just hurts so bad right now because of what Jack
04:16has done to me in the past we've been together way too long to put me through this he wanted
04:24to bring
04:24me here so that way he could prove to me that this isn't that he doesn't want anybody else and
04:29he only
04:29wants me that was his reasoning for wanting to come here like it's not okay to be fucking around
04:34with a relationship like this I don't feel like he's proving himself I don't feel like he's getting
04:40anything across with the way he's acting from what I saw I feel like anything I see I'm gonna be
04:59upset
04:59I feel like it's gonna be pretty hard to watch but whatever we see guys I just want to let
05:03y'all know
05:04I love you guys and I have your guys's back
05:12I love you guys and I don't even want them
05:24you
05:38I'm scared as hell going into this bonfire.
05:40There is the possibility that we will not leave here together.
05:43So my biggest fear is that Sidney moved on.
05:48I'm totally in my head, and I just don't want to see anything bad.
05:51I just hope me and Cheyenne come back together.
05:54I don't want to lose her.
06:03Gentlemen.
06:03What's going on? How are you feeling?
06:04How are you?
06:05I feel good. I'm glad to see you guys.
06:07You're looking good.
06:09Feeling good.
06:11All right.
06:14Welcome to your first bonfire.
06:17This is the place where we get a chance to chop it up a little bit,
06:20talk about your journey so far.
06:22It's also the place where you're going to watch clips
06:25of your girlfriend's experience here on the island.
06:28So these are just glimpses to get a little bit of an idea
06:31of what's going on with them.
06:33Okay?
06:35All right.
06:36We're going to start with you, Cole.
06:37Okay?
06:38Let's take a look.
06:42Do you ever feel like you're, like, asking for too much
06:46and, like, you'll never feel satisfied?
06:48And I don't think we should be made to feel that way, by the way.
06:51Like, I don't.
06:52Yeah.
06:52Like, that's not right.
06:53Asking for the truth and asking for, you know, better communication
06:58is not asking a lot.
07:00It's asking for a foundation.
07:02Yeah.
07:03Lately, the relationship has just been draining
07:07and it's, like, been a constant battle of, you know, stress
07:11and in my head or whatever.
07:14And I just, I don't want to waste any more energy on fighting.
07:21Like, Jesus Christ.
07:24I feel like, you know, I have been through a lot
07:29and I'm just at a point in life where I just want to be happy.
07:37What do you think?
07:39Um, she's obviously very emotional about, you know,
07:42some issues in our relationship, you know, based around trust.
07:47There have been, you know, things in the past that, you know,
07:49I've lied about and I've apologized for those things
07:52and, you know, I've shown her accountability
07:54and how sorry I am for those things.
07:56Um, I give that girl everything, you know,
07:59humanly possible in my heart and I, you know,
08:02I drew, I do treat her really well
08:04and seeing her reactions here are kind of a little surprising
08:08considering I think, you know, we've had
08:09a pretty stable relationship, uh, you know, coming into this, so.
08:13I hear you.
08:15And I think what impresses me is the canyon
08:21between your perspective and her perspective.
08:24What I saw was a woman who's really struggling
08:27and not feeling heard and really wondering
08:30if this relationship is working at all.
08:33And then I hear you say, it's been pretty good.
08:36I've given her everything she needs.
08:38So, what do you think that gap's about
08:40between your take and her take?
08:44You know, I don't look at it as, like, her side versus my side.
08:47Her feelings are validated and I'm not here to disprove them
08:50or say they're not, you know, they're not real.
08:52I'm here to, I'm here with open arms to, you know,
08:56try to draw some conclusions between the two of us.
08:58But, obviously, I know in my mind I would never hurt her
09:02and I never have the thought of...
09:04But, but you have.
09:05Well, I...
09:06No, no, I'm just saying,
09:07the clip is showing that she's hurting, right?
09:10I think what gets in the way is that, you know,
09:12I feel like it could be 99% of the time
09:14I am overly transparent with her,
09:17but then that one time you're not,
09:18everything's just, like, thrown out the window.
09:20You're either transparent and honest and truthful
09:23or you're not, okay?
09:27So, now you've seen a little bit
09:28of the kind of conversations she's having
09:30with the other girls in the house.
09:31What have you been up to?
09:32What have you been doing to grow?
09:38Um, I think the key word is, like,
09:40figuring out, like, how to grow.
09:41I don't know.
09:42That's fair.
09:43Don't know kind of the steps or procedures or...
09:46There is no procedure, Cole.
09:48You have to look deeper than you're looking.
09:51I mean, yeah, I'm gonna have to figure it out for sure.
09:54I just want to see you open up.
09:57And not for any other reason but you.
09:59You're going to be happier.
10:02Yeah.
10:04Jack.
10:05Here we go.
10:06Take a look.
10:08You haven't gone on a date in a long time
10:10with your boyfriend.
10:11Yeah, no.
10:11Like, the only time we ever go on, like,
10:13a real, like, planned date by him
10:15is if it's my birthday.
10:16So it's got to be a special occasion.
10:17Yeah, like, even for, like, our anniversaries,
10:19like, we don't do anything.
10:21That's just really sad.
10:23They just pamper you a little bit.
10:24Yeah, that sounds...
10:24You need to be pampered.
10:25Yeah, that sounds really nice, honestly.
10:27Does it?
10:28That's not in Jack's, uh...
10:30His pay grade?
10:30Above his pay grade, yeah.
10:31You got it.
10:32Sounds like he's a bit cheap.
10:33You got it.
10:33He's a bit cheap for your standards.
10:35Yes.
10:35Sounds like...
10:36What the fuck?
10:37When was the last time you had sex with anybody else?
10:39I have only hooked up with Jack
10:40in the past five years we've been together, so...
10:43Gotcha.
10:44Just been stuck with the same penis.
10:46Five years.
10:49Well...
10:50Oh, hell no.
10:54What do you think?
10:55You know, I really have nothing to say.
10:56It's kind of what I expected.
10:58You know, she doesn't look real highly of me,
11:00so really hearing that, like, does not surprise me.
11:03Nah, fuck that, bro.
11:05The pay grade stuff, I hear that all the time.
11:07What do they mean by above your pay grade?
11:09Oh, she shits on me for not having money.
11:13But to be honest, like, money doesn't really matter to me.
11:17And I feel like where she's at in her life,
11:20she's looking for a little bit something different
11:22than she was when we were 19.
11:23What do you want?
11:24I mean, you kind of let me know what you think she wants.
11:27She wants a guy who's making some money.
11:29What do you want it to be?
11:30Relationship.
11:31I mean, overall, I want to, like, fix her relationship.
11:34You know, there's a lot of things that need to be, like, worked on.
11:36And, I mean...
11:37I'm not asking what you want to do with her.
11:38I'm asking what do you want.
11:41I want someone that's, like, supporting of just me, of who I am.
11:45I feel like, you know, there's a lot of talking down on me
11:49in the relationship.
11:50And I do feel like we love each other,
11:52because I know I love her.
11:53But I almost feel like being unloyal to her,
11:56year three ruined that for her.
11:58So I feel like I'm almost chasing,
12:01and she's almost pushing.
12:05I don't have an answer for that.
12:09But I think you can find an answer for that.
12:12A thousand percent.
12:12I think I can, too.
12:13Okay.
12:15Summit, you ready?
12:18Guess so.
12:19Let's go.
12:22Well, one of our issues is that, like,
12:25he doesn't make me always feel like I am, like, enough.
12:29No.
12:30It hurts when you make comments towards me, like,
12:34making me feel like I'm, like,
12:36my body's not your dream body,
12:38and, like, this and that could be better.
12:41Like, I tell him, like,
12:44that hurts when you tell me that.
12:45Things that were said can never be erased.
12:48And I'm sure they stick in your head.
12:50Like, just naturally.
12:51I need to stand up for myself more.
12:54Oh.
12:54I think I'm a confident person,
12:56but if I was more confident,
12:58like, I wouldn't allow this stuff to happen.
13:06What do you want to say?
13:08Yeah, I mean, there is validity to what she's saying.
13:13And it honestly, you know,
13:14it makes me feel terrible that I make her feel that way.
13:18I mean, that girl is such a catch,
13:20and she chose me.
13:22And the fact that I would put her down,
13:26she doesn't deserve that.
13:27She deserves better.
13:28You know, I...
13:30Not that I...
13:31There's any justification for what I've said
13:36that puts her down,
13:37but she'll be like,
13:38I want to grow my butt,
13:39so I'm like, do heavy squats
13:41and your butt will grow.
13:42And then she's like, you know,
13:44you're saying I have a small butt.
13:45I'm putting her down, and I know I am,
13:47but I'm...
13:48In my feeble man brain, I'm helping.
13:51Even when you're a parent,
13:52you do this with your kids,
13:53you think you're supporting them
13:55by pushing them in a direction
13:57because that's showing love,
13:58but in fact, that's not being received as love.
14:01So your version of that interaction
14:04is not the same version that she was saying.
14:06Gosh, I mean, it sounds terrible
14:08hearing it aloud.
14:11I've only been in two serious relationships ever,
14:14and in my one other serious relationship,
14:18this was also a problem.
14:20So obviously, I'm a problem.
14:22No, no.
14:23It doesn't make you a bad guy.
14:24It makes you a guy with a blind spot.
14:27It makes you a guy who has some work to do.
14:30Yeah, because I don't want to be that guy.
14:32Well, then that's 90% of the battle, buddy.
14:37You've admitted there's some work to do.
14:40Yeah.
14:41All right.
14:45You okay?
14:46Yeah.
14:47You know I got you, right?
14:48I know.
14:49All right, let's take a look.
14:50Yeah.
14:51You'll be all right, buddy.
14:54And then the three of me goes, I will say, like...
14:56But even before he did that, so Pete, Pete,
14:58before he did that, right?
15:00Mark was like, do you remember these girls from last night?
15:03He was like, I think I do, I think I do.
15:06I'm like, please, stop.
15:09Like, no.
15:11That whole thing just, like, threw me off, like, all the way.
15:14I mean, off RIP, I guess I just thought it was immature.
15:17Like, granted, tough interaction, like, all the way around.
15:21But I don't want to keep talking about him,
15:22so let's talk about you.
15:26I feel like it's the most satisfying thing
15:27when you get something to, like, sound decent.
15:29Yeah.
15:30Just because I'm in a relationship
15:31does not mean that I need to close myself off from other guys.
15:34I feel like even just knowing Xavier for three days,
15:38like, there's so much that I feel comfortable sharing with him.
15:42Literally, in just talking to Xavier,
15:44I'm like, there has to be something wrong with you.
15:46Like, what have you done wrong to a girl in the past?
15:49Like, that made you, like, so perfect.
15:58Talk to me.
16:04Uh, first and foremost,
16:08her biting her lip while he playing the guitar,
16:12it's cool.
16:13I get it.
16:15If Sidney doesn't want to love me,
16:16then what can I say?
16:17I mean, it's all good.
16:19It just, it doesn't feel good, but...
16:21Then it's not all good.
16:22I want to punch the shit out of him.
16:24I'm going to be real.
16:24I want to punch him right in his fucking shit.
16:26Right.
16:26I'm going to be real.
16:27As a man, I understand wanting to punch him,
16:30but you know it's not about him, right?
16:33It's not about him.
16:34Right.
16:35So, what do you think it's about?
16:42I mean, it's about me.
16:46I'm so open with Sidney.
16:48Hold on.
16:49I don't understand.
16:49Are you?
16:50I tell her everything.
16:52So, do you think she said in that clip,
16:54he doesn't tell me everything?
16:55No, not at all.
16:57Why do you feel attacked on that level?
16:59Because it feels like you feel attacked there.
17:01I just don't.
17:01I'm just trying to figure all this out.
17:03Well, I'm trying to figure it out with you.
17:04So, let's slow it down.
17:06Let's see what we can learn
17:08to make you feel a little bit better
17:09because you're struggling, right?
17:24Okay.
17:25You want some relief?
17:28I'm cool.
17:29No, no, you're not cool.
17:31You're feeling something.
17:32Let's just stop trying to make me feel a way, all right?
17:37You're in your feelings right now.
17:38You're having a hard time.
17:39I don't care about her so much.
17:40You're having a crisis of your own.
17:43Sometimes I, like, talking about, like,
17:45I'm immature and stuff like that,
17:47it's just, like, like,
17:51I feel as if God put me on this earth
17:54to make everyone around me feel comfortable
17:58and have fun.
18:00But do you feel comfortable,
18:01and are you having fun?
18:03No.
18:05Okay, slow down.
18:08The experience you're having internally,
18:10the emotions,
18:12those feelings are legit.
18:14But when we say,
18:15it's all good, it's all good,
18:16and we don't acknowledge how we're feeling,
18:18we do ourselves a disservice.
18:22I feel you.
18:24Yeah.
18:25Hey, don't panic.
18:27You're okay.
18:28It's just really scary when you love somebody, for real.
18:31That's all.
18:33Real talk.
18:35Yes, sir.
18:36It's really scary when you love somebody,
18:39and that's what this experience is,
18:40is getting in touch with,
18:43do you really love somebody,
18:45and the value of that,
18:46and you're getting there.
18:48All right, men.
18:49You made it through your first bonfire.
18:51We have a long way to go.
18:53Let's talk about from this point forward.
18:55Coming up are dates.
18:58Your next date will be double dates.
19:01So find people that you want to get to know better,
19:04or find people that you're already connecting with,
19:06and let's go on dates with them.
19:08When you see somebody you're vibing,
19:10ask her out.
19:12Just like real life.
19:14That's it for tonight,
19:14and I will check up with you soon.
19:16You guys can head back to the villa.
19:18Appreciate you, Mark.
19:19All right, good night, guys.
19:20Thank you, good night.
19:27I feel that she brings up, like, the pay grade thing,
19:29and, you know, just me not being a very truthful person,
19:32because she's not happy in the relationship itself.
19:34I feel like emotionally, we're both trapped.
19:36I feel like we love each other,
19:37but I don't think that it's something that can't be fixed.
19:41It's tough seeing Scarlett, you know, super emotional.
19:44We need to kind of come to some understanding, you know,
19:46because there are wounds of the past
19:47that I'm trying to, you know,
19:48get us and our relationship to, like, move on from.
19:51But, I mean, I'm as open as I can and honest with her,
19:54so I kind of have to think about that one for a little bit
19:56and kind of just decompress,
19:58because I don't have all the answers right now.
20:00Oh.
20:02That didn't go as planned.
20:04I don't even know what to say.
20:06I'm seeing the pain that I caused Kaylee,
20:08and it sucks, and it's upsetting.
20:11You know, there's this sense of
20:13I'm not making Kaylee feel fulfilled.
20:17It's embarrassing, and it makes me feel like
20:20I'm not being the best boyfriend I can be.
20:24I'm so sick of fucking crying over this fucking bullshit.
20:27Sidney does not give a fuck about me.
20:29I'm not here to fuck on girls.
20:31That's not what I'm here for.
20:32Like, I don't care about that shit.
20:34But when you actually love somebody to their core,
20:38and it's like they let somebody else speak on your character,
20:41and that she knows my character,
20:45it's foul.
20:47It's foul.
20:52Check it this shit, bro.
20:57I don't like that.
20:59I don't like that at all.
21:01I don't like that.
21:02I'm a broken heart and money
21:06Just wanna go and vanish
21:10So saddened
21:12Once collapsed
21:13In a love that didn't last
21:20Welcome back!
21:23Welcome back!
21:24Hey, ladies!
21:28How are you doing?
21:29Welcome.
21:30There you are, Sidney.
21:31You're welcome.
21:34These two right here.
21:37It meant so much, like,
21:39knowing that they genuinely cared
21:41and were thinking about us.
21:43Beautiful ladies.
21:43You guys deserve this.
21:45Y'all are top tier.
21:46And it was a great distraction
21:48in terms of everything that was going on.
21:54So, Mikey was talking to a group of girls
21:57and he was like,
21:58you know, I'm really worried
21:59that I could fall in love with any of you.
22:02And I'm like, what?
22:04How is that supposed to make me feel?
22:08That's crazy.
22:10This is exactly who I thought Mikey was
22:12and it's exactly who he is.
22:15So, I'm done.
22:18Literally, like, I've been preaching
22:19about looking for clarity
22:20and I feel like I got that today.
22:24And that's that.
22:25So, yeah.
22:29I know in this experience,
22:31like, you wanted clarity.
22:34I guess I just hate that, uh...
22:36That it had to be like that.
22:39Yeah.
22:39And, like, that thing fast.
22:42But I'm so glad that I have that clarity.
22:44And I know how to move forward.
22:46Like, it's all about Sidney now.
22:48I want better for myself
22:50and I'm going to get better.
22:51He did what he did
22:53and...
22:55I'm gonna do what I'm gonna do.
23:03What's up?
23:04What's up, guys?
23:05How was it?
23:06Hi.
23:07How did you go?
23:07How did you go?
23:09I mean, yeah, I was pretty bad.
23:11What?
23:11Really?
23:11Wow.
23:12Okay, you guys too.
23:13Yeah, right.
23:14What's up, guys?
23:16What's going on?
23:19God playing a sick-ass fucking joke on me.
23:22No, that's right.
23:23What happened?
23:24She letting bro talk down on me,
23:26talking about some childish as fuck.
23:27And what's she saying?
23:28She letting him talk.
23:31She just letting the shit talk.
23:32She letting people talk.
23:33But what is he saying?
23:34Because he doesn't know you, like, literally at all.
23:35He don't know me.
23:36All he said was, like,
23:37yeah, so, like, three musketeer shit
23:38was fucking childish and immature.
23:41I mean, I mean, but that's not bad.
23:43I mean, nothing was physical.
23:44He's going to say whatever he wants to say.
23:46Yeah, he's going to talk shit.
23:47What do you think?
23:47He's going to go in there talking great about you?
23:49That's not happening.
23:49I've never said Sydney's the worst person ever.
23:51Have I ever?
23:52Did she say that about you?
23:54Pretty fucking much.
23:55That's how I'm taking it.
23:56That's how I take it.
23:57My feelings are hurt.
23:58And that's my experience.
23:59And that's what I have to live with.
24:01But I mean how you're feeling.
24:02She could be feeling the same way.
24:04Because you don't know what she's seeing either.
24:06She don't care.
24:08She doesn't care about me, so it's all good.
24:11Mikey definitely has been going through a lot of emotional battles.
24:15He's taking everything super personal.
24:17I don't feel like his girlfriend said anything bad,
24:19but someone is talking bad about you.
24:22Like, do you want to be with somebody like that?
24:25But that's the journey of Temptation Island
24:28to decide if you guys are supposed to be together or not.
24:31And if you guys aren't, then so be it.
24:33She's not the person for you.
24:35And you're just going to have to accept that.
24:37Is that all they showed?
24:38Just the three musketeer thing?
24:40And then bro was playing the guitar.
24:42She was biting her lip.
24:43He played the guitar for her?
24:44Yeah, Jonah's brother's shit.
24:46She over here biting her lip.
24:59So the first thing I was shown was, like,
25:02Jack talking about how, like,
25:03I bet this girl's, like, pussy tastes like candy.
25:06Oh, shit.
25:07And just seeing them, like, vibing in the pool,
25:09it's just, yeah, it's hard, you know?
25:15Yeah.
25:18But on the bright side,
25:19this is the first time I've gotten flowers
25:21in, like, the past year.
25:22There we go.
25:23That's awesome.
25:24Hey, come on, we can clap for that.
25:25And you look amazing with them, so.
25:32Wait, come over here,
25:33because it can't get wet.
25:34Right here?
25:34Yeah, yeah, sit right there.
25:36Make sure it's dry.
25:37I can't mess it up.
25:37Take some time for this.
25:39Oh, my God, can I get a present?
25:39Peel here.
25:41What is this?
25:42Peel that.
25:42Stop.
25:43Uh-oh.
25:44Oh, my God, stop.
25:44Snowflower, too.
25:51Wow.
25:58You like it?
26:07You're the prize, Sidney.
26:11You are.
26:12I know it's hard being that, like,
26:14it hasn't, like, maybe felt like that,
26:16but you are about it, you know?
26:18Yeah.
26:19That's crazy.
26:20Why do you make me feel so right?
26:23This is the card that, um, Xavier gave me.
26:28And it's, like, a present.
26:30It has, like, a cute little bow.
26:32It's very detailed.
26:33And it says, peel here.
26:34So when I peeled this back,
26:37I opened it, and it says,
26:39you're the prize, Sidney.
26:40To have somebody that I just met, like,
26:42acknowledge and see that I'm worth more
26:45than Mikey's making me out to be,
26:48it puts me in the mind frame of knowing that, like,
26:50you're not asking for too much,
26:52you're just asking the wrong person.
26:54That's great that you actually
26:55fucking listened to what I said.
26:58Thank you so much.
27:00I really appreciate that.
27:01Oh.
27:03I really appreciate that.
27:04Why does it feel so right?
27:12You got it to hear his.
27:13Yeah.
27:14Cole and I were, like,
27:15if we had his, we'd be, like, fuck no.
27:18She was, like, disrespecting you, man.
27:20And that was, like, she basically called me, like,
27:23poor in a way.
27:25And her saying that she's only had one penis.
27:29Ooh.
27:30Truthfully, like, I've heard all this shit before.
27:33This is not new, like, new to me.
27:35You were expecting her to shit talk you.
27:37Yeah.
27:38I put up with it because I fucked up in the relationship,
27:41so I feel like I'm chasing,
27:42and she doesn't give a fuck
27:43because she's unhappy in the relationship itself.
27:47Yes, Jack did cheat,
27:49but Jack's girlfriend treats him like a piece of shit,
27:53talks about him poorly.
27:55And she's not able to, like, let that go.
27:57Like, there's not going to be problems.
27:59There's not much that can be done.
28:01Jack needs someone in his life to boost him up,
28:04to make him feel seen, make him feel heard,
28:06and I'm that person for Jack.
28:08She's super hard-headed.
28:10She's scary, bro.
28:18I thought you would be the one to save me,
28:21but now all you ever do is break me.
28:25Do you want to put those somewhere,
28:26or what do you want to do?
28:26Like, do you guys want to figure out
28:27how to put them in the face for me
28:28so I can put them in my room?
28:30Just make sure you make them really pretty.
28:32That way I can have them in display on my room
28:35for Jack to see.
28:36Ah, I love the energy, girl.
28:40After seeing the clips,
28:41I don't feel good about our relationship.
28:43I haven't even seen anything physical.
28:45It's just, I'm just getting in my head.
28:49I'm scared that we're just not growing together,
28:52and we're, like, growing apart.
28:57I just feel like I've wasted so much time
28:59if this is what he's on already.
29:19It just sucks.
29:22If he were to do something like,
29:24then great that you came on here
29:26because that just shows you his true fucking colors.
29:28I know, but it's going to be so hard for him to see it.
29:32It's more of just, like,
29:34I can't live life without him.
29:36Yes, you can.
29:38You don't have to.
29:40I want you guys to work out,
29:41but I want you to know that, yes,
29:42you can be without him as well.
29:45You need to find Cheyenne.
29:48I know.
29:49Like, who are you?
29:51What do you want?
29:52You can't be, like, codependent forever.
29:55I know.
29:57Maybe that is the reason behind all of this,
30:00is that you came here,
30:01and you're going to just blossom.
30:05Everything happens for a reason.
30:06Like, this might be the best thing
30:07that ever happened to you.
30:20All right, good night, guys.
30:22I can't wait to see all your beautiful faces
30:24in the morning.
30:26This is in the morning.
30:51What's going on?
30:55This process has been, like, hard for me
30:58and just seeing...
31:04I don't know, seeing Scarlett's emotional...
31:11It's just, like, seeing her emotion
31:12in, like, the first bonfire.
31:26For just what I saw, based off her is what it is,
31:28it, like, comes as a shock,
31:30because, like, I feel like we left on, you know...
31:33We left each other in such a good light, so...
31:39It leaves a super unsettling feeling
31:41and, like, emotional rollercoaster with me
31:45and, like, just kind of, like, scared
31:48for, like, the future.
31:50All right.
31:52I'm trying to go to bed.
31:54It's like, probably the sun's coming up.
31:55I never thought it'd end this way
32:04End this way
32:07Right here.
32:09Wait, throw it to me!
32:14There it is.
32:15Honestly, like, I feel good.
32:17Like, I've processed it.
32:19The bonfire's now in the past.
32:20There's nothing I can do about it.
32:22And now I need to come out of my shell
32:24a little bit with the guys.
32:26So, I'm excited for the dates.
32:28I think we should go on a date.
32:29Do you want to go on a date?
32:30I want to, too.
32:31I like the pink.
32:32Yeah.
32:32I'm a fan of the pink.
32:33A little decent contrast.
32:34Yeah.
32:35I wanted to ask you
32:36if you wanted to go on a date with me today.
32:39Yeah, I'd love to go on a date with you.
32:40Yeah?
32:40I was nervous to ask you.
32:42Yeah.
32:43Well, no, uh, thanks for asking me.
32:46I appreciate it.
32:47Hopefully this one won't be as sad.
32:48Yeah.
32:49It's the last one.
32:50Nah, it'll be a good time.
32:51Meeting a guy like Xavier
32:53has just, like, opened my eyes
32:56to all of the possibilities
32:57of what, like, love should look like,
33:01what a relationship should look like,
33:02what a man truly looks like.
33:06I'm just, like, so happy
33:07working through all of it.
33:09I don't know.
33:10It's crazy.
33:12I'm actually, like, really excited.
33:13Me, too.
33:14I wonder what it's going to be.
33:15It's a brand new day.
33:20Today, we're, uh, we're doing another date,
33:23and I was wondering if you wanted to come with me.
33:25I would love to go with you.
33:26Yeah.
33:27Let's do it.
33:28Hey.
33:29Hello.
33:30Would you want to talk for a second?
33:31Sure.
33:33I don't want to interrupt your breakfast, but...
33:36I already ate.
33:37Or lunch.
33:37There was no food there.
33:38Okay, sorry.
33:39He's nervous.
33:40He's so nervous.
33:42He didn't know what to say.
33:46I feel like we haven't, like, actually talked a lot,
33:50but I wanted to talk to you for a bit, so...
33:52Yeah.
33:53Um, what type of Latina are you?
33:56So my mom's from Bolivia.
33:57My dad's Cuban.
33:58Well, I go to Central America every year.
34:01I have a house in Costa Rica,
34:02but I've always wanted to, like, go farther south.
34:05I don't...
34:06I've never been to South America, so...
34:08Yeah.
34:08Honestly, well, I've been to only Colombia, but...
34:11You haven't been to Cuba or Bolivia?
34:13No.
34:14Oh, you gotta go?
34:14Yeah.
34:16Well, I'd love to, you know, keep getting to know you and...
34:19I know, me too, honestly.
34:21Yeah.
34:21Well, do you want to go on a date today?
34:23Yeah, we could do that.
34:24All right, let's do it.
34:25Let's do it.
34:26Nice.
34:42Hi.
34:43Hi.
34:43Hi, guys.
34:44Are we dancing?
34:44Hi.
34:45Hi.
34:45Yeah.
34:46Brazilian Zook's a really popular partner dance here in Hawaii.
34:49It is what became of the forbidden dance, the lambada in Brazil.
34:54Okay, okay.
34:55Dancing is just, like, a part of me, so this feels right at home.
34:59We'll take her shoulder blade and offer her your hand.
35:03We'll see you in the next step.
35:04Easy, easy.
35:06Clint has always just brought the best energy, so to spend a day with him, I'm really looking
35:11forward to it.
35:12left chick chick right chick chick like try not to move from side to side back your left guys
35:20forward i'm not gonna lie it started off a little rocky like am i slow i think it's just like
35:25keeping
35:25this cadence once we kept going i think everything like really flowed and it was like really cute
35:31i'm loving the vibes i think this is the perfect way for me and xavier to get closer
35:40two three that's looking pretty damn good yeah all right he said pretty damn good oh so we're good
35:54i'm loving watching sid just blossom and she's glowing way too advanced for that right her energy
36:03has shifted xavier is like the perfect person for her to have this connection with coming off of mikey
36:30oh my god this is aerial yoga you look good yeah welcome i've never done aerial yoga i feel like
36:40that's kind of in my wheelhouse my mom's a yoga instructor yeah i do yoga a lot in costa rica
36:47and such so excited to jump in oh and now as one of you starts to breathe in find each
36:53other's breath
36:56as one breathe in the other breathe out so breathe in kind of feel your breath too yeah you're starting
37:03to feel it nice nice that's how we want it feeling somebody else's energy in that type of way i
37:09truly
37:10just thought that was deep big smiles on both of your faces wow that's the closest me and india have
37:17ever
37:17been like connect like touching wise so let's go forward by pushing the fabric down and we're going to
37:22lean forward
37:28make sure that you have spot on the back thigh uh this is
37:35tell me it wants to go bad spin around you ready
37:46oh there we go and let go of the hands and reach for your own foot reach for your own
37:51foot
37:52reach for your own foot reach for your own foot it looks good it looks good guys
38:02it looks good good good good good good good i'm super excited because i've grown up with four
38:19wheelers all my life bye-bye see you on the other side guys i'm really not into like an intimate
38:25vibe
38:25date like i think that going out and doing an activity will just bring my personality out a little
38:31bit more and preston is just super outgoing he's just fun i want to go fast that's what i'm looking
38:48like
38:54honestly last night was pretty rough a lot of emotions kind of broke down in the early hours
39:00of the morning but this date going in the water snorkeling was the perfect thing and also sydney was
39:04great pick to go on the date i needed someone that i could be at peace with and have some
39:08fun
39:11me and carter are together i feel like we're thriving
39:15and we're having the time of our life
39:18so
39:29yeah that was a good time i haven't gone on a date with another guy besides summit in like a
39:34year
39:36i know last night was tough for you yeah i mean the first bonfire like i knew it was going
39:41to be
39:42really hard it's super weird seeing your boyfriend saying like she doesn't like how i'm outgoing and
39:48like she wants to change me and it's like are you even certain about me if you feel like i
39:53want to
39:53change you like because no one wants to feel like their partner wants to change them do you want him
39:58to be something other than i just want him to like be a good boyfriend yeah like you want your
40:04partner
40:04to like love you and accept you for all of you and i don't always feel like that's how he
40:10prioritizes
40:10my needs like if i were to get mad about that and vocalize that to him like he would make
40:17me feel
40:17like i'm being like a baby
40:22at some point you have to realize like you are enough though like at what point does the breaking
40:27point happen because i mean all the disrespect i mean it builds up like no one should feel like
40:33their their partner is like belittling them i i don't understand like why he does it like i don't
40:39know what he gets out of like making me feel bad about myself i know it's it's awkward i know
40:45it's tough
40:46but i mean you're a cool person thank you like obviously i'm glad i got to do this with you
40:51yeah it's
40:51fun oh it all comes back to you oh it all comes back to you how's your experience so far
41:05are you
41:05learning anything like what's the outcome you want from this i don't know that's a little too deep right
41:09okay we don't gotta get no no no it's a fair question but i want to get to like know
41:13other stuff
41:14first like why didn't you give me a bracelet great for you look at my new first you're gonna be
41:19best
41:22oh um i don't know i think mikey just kind of looked like just a safe place but that's just
41:30like
41:30a quick first impression okay what's your physical type i'm open to everything i don't really go off
41:35physical okay yeah yeah i go off vibes because you can see like the sexiest man on the planet and
41:42he's
41:42if he's an idiot yeah or a narcissist like you know what i'm saying you know you do give off
41:48this
41:48like mysterious yeah vibe you know i don't know if that's a good thing or a bad no it's a
41:53good thing
41:53like you know especially like guys always want like what they can't have type thing you know like
41:59mysterious is fun i am cool i'm cool yeah you're very cool very cool you're almost like too cool
42:06really too cool for school oh okay
42:19last night when you got back from bonfire like obviously you were distraught in a way if that's
42:25the best word i was so emotional now that i'm replaying it back in my head i'm just like
42:30i am so dramatic what was it in the bonfire that triggered you in that way well there's an
42:37infidelity in the relationship and so just being physical with anyone like just took me right back
42:43to the way i was like crushed whenever i first found out that he went that far with somebody but
42:52i don't want to see him like end up with somebody else and not be me is that fair to
42:58you it's not
42:59fair to me at all but how do i fix that thought you know think about what's best for shy
43:04right like
43:06you and jack came here for a reason so do you feel like you are truly happy with him i
43:13don't no no i don't
43:14feel like we are truly happy like i don't think i trust him but it's just because we've been
43:20together for so long so it's like that comfort answer this question for me then what are the
43:27benefits like besides the comfort i don't know what the benefits are this relationship's so
43:31fucked it is so toxic i can tell that you deserve the world and like you deserve someone that's going
43:38to respect you in that fashion and like when you open up and you're confident you're bubbly and stuff
43:41everyone's like yeah look at this hey easier said than done but i'm trying i know no of course
43:46i'm ready to like fully take on the experience and like you've gotten me out of my shell more
43:51than anybody else like i definitely think you'll be like my person here
44:05i've never done anything like this like i think the nicest date i've ever been on was like
44:11a picnic
44:14you're fucking hilarious
44:22do you feel like our connection like scares you at all i mean yeah i'll be yeah i'll be honest
44:29just
44:29weird how how easy it is to talk to you you know things are moving so fast and i feel
44:34like we've known
44:34each other forever
44:39at the end of the day i think we both know what our connection is and how it's like different
44:46from
44:46from anything else no yeah it is it is i'm at the point i could break
44:53i want to make a mistake
44:56you make me
45:04i've never done something like that and it was exciting that's a whole lot you were good
45:09do you feel like it helped you mentally to just get away get out the house after
45:15the bonfire last night and i don't really think that's the the case when it comes to this type
45:21of stuff i feel like it's more of a like of like of who i'm spending certain moments with
45:27it's just easy when you're talking to somebody who's like cool i think that's why
45:32i i'd be chopping it up so much with you because like i see the i see the opposite because
45:38you're
45:38not me no at all like if i was dating myself that would not work you need somebody that balance
45:46you
45:46out i feel like a lot of people that end up being like compatible like are always are kind of
45:51opposite in ways to be real with you we both know what we got going on it's just mad easy
45:57to
45:57to chop it up with you i mean india's so locked in so it's like that connection is like strong
46:18i want to ask you a couple questions
46:20oh okay do a little digging yeah like in this past year can you think of like a time
46:31that gave you the most joy okay it was valentine's day i had a galentine's party in my apartment yeah
46:40it was just good genuine vibes and like they brought me so much joy and so much happiness because
46:44i was surrounded by like genuine love at the end of the day i'm happy that you had that community
46:50there for you you guys were able to enjoy it yeah but notice how the most joyful thing didn't
46:56involve my king you know like that's shitty yeah that's shitty i can't believe like i was just
47:01sitting in it and like i was content like that's not me like i literally settled like i was okay
47:05with
47:05it that's not okay you want city to be the prize exactly i want city to be the prize like
47:11i don't
47:11think i'm asking for too much you know you know i don't think that you are i'm really glad we're
47:17able to do this today yeah me too it was super fun yeah no this being the third date uh
47:22but like the
47:22other ones were like they weren't even dates to me you know but like this was like the first real
47:25date
47:26yeah so it's just like that easy yeah like i'm super comfortable i'm not gonna lie you make it so
47:31easy no i like it yeah no you make it pretty easy too oh i'm glad okay let's make a
47:38toast yeah new
47:39beginnings fresh and an official first date cheers cheers check me out check me out hey
47:54that actually looks like really good is it really yeah savior like makes me re-examine what love
47:59should feel like there's nothing left to say you take my breath away i should never have to give
48:08somebody more than one chance they should get it right the first time is it smooth if i hold your
48:13hand
48:13slowly i love how you ask now i'm big on this we love that there's nothing left to do but
48:24to keep falling for you
48:39so what do you guys think what like how's it going today it's going good it's good the date was
48:46dates were good yeah dates were good but i got really set like in my feels last night from the
48:51bonfire like
48:52i was expecting just to see like or like interacting going on a date whatever flirting and all i saw
48:57was
48:57just like crying so it was like oh yeah it like kind of shocked me yeah i didn't process it
49:02till
49:02like four in the morning when i was alone in my room and that's when it hit me
49:08what i'm trying to understand is like when we do end up coming back together it's like
49:12we got to figure out how to clean up these like trust issues and how to clean up like i'm
49:15trying to
49:15do the same bro that's just real though like like she doesn't feel safe in the relationship and it's
49:19like how can i how do i navigate because you feel like you're not doing anything to like
49:25let's not have her mistrust in the past yeah but not now it's like if you can't get over the
49:29past
49:29like i can't make you trust me no matter if i'm honest to you or not right you know right
49:33you have
49:33to just let it go and like like we can't keep going back on it you know it's her that
49:39needs to accept
49:40that and also move on and like i can't i can't force you can't force her to do that i
49:45mean for me the
49:46biggest test that i've been kind of experiencing is just like regulating my emotions and just like
49:51the ups and downs and like the emotional roller coasters i just want to figure out how can we move
49:55forward in a better light to ultimately you know leave this island a stronger united couple and go
50:01back to san diego and then the plans after that would be to like you know get engaged or something
50:07like that you know it's complicated i can't explain it
50:17that's good actually thinking like i knew what i was doing yeah
50:42it's really insane because like in like the whole like scheme of things like we were just like
50:51friends yesterday you know yeah you're like yeah i lived it i was there i do i do know actually
50:59i'm from charlotte north carolina i'm like on the outskirts of charlotte so oh really yeah i'm not
51:04i'm not from there uh yeah like harrisburg oh my god my aunt lives in harrisburg okay yeah
51:10we're dating like you know we're exploring we're experiencing
51:15i'm experiencing new feelings i don't know like i can't speak for him i know like i'm on like a
51:21high
51:22just from like the conversations that we've had um and it it's a new feeling like everybody keeps
51:31telling me i'm glowing and i'm just like i don't know i don't like what are we now like we're
51:40nice
51:40we're still friends but like friends who like you know could could be something more i don't know
51:46they don't know i agree with everything she just said ladies tonight is the men of temptation island
51:55talent show i need everybody outside please let's go last night was the bonfire i think morale and
52:06vibe was a little down so tonight we need to get the vibes of our first act of the night
52:12ethan
52:13come on out ethan come on out e i'm double jointed in my knees bam
52:30come on out single arm push-ups
53:08all right guys we're going to be playing never have i ever
53:12sorry i did not mean to sound i'm so sorry i did not respecting the boundaries if you've done it
53:18put down a finger take a drink the person who gets all their fingers down loses the game loser has
53:26to
53:30kiss somebody okay never have i ever had a threesome come on come on come on come on i would
53:37if i
53:37haven't never have i ever had sex with a married man never have i ever had sex with multiple people
53:47in one day i was a whore in college crazy i have you little freak you a big old freak
53:53never have i
53:54ever given a ever given a foot job or gotten gotten gotten yeah let's see yeah i'm too curious
54:03never have i ever wanted to plug somebody within this house oh oh
54:19guys summit has one left never have i ever had sex with a tour because of this situation okay summit
54:25lost summit lost i guess losing never have i ever is like a badge of honor but i don't think
54:32it's something
54:33kaylee or my grandmother would appreciate okay pick someone go i guess i have to kiss someone
54:53i guess mike i got so horny for a second enough conversation give in to temptation
55:20i think that carter might end up in jack's bed tonight
55:24i just hold them oh girl
55:30and then there was two perfect enigma send me a signal
55:41the connection is all that i crave
55:44the connection is all that i think is all that i think is all that i think is all that
55:59i think is
55:59everything i've done is talk about you
56:03jack can't swim he can't swim surprise
56:34you're so dirty
56:47oh
56:50oh
56:55i really need you
56:57I really want you
56:59My beautiful temptation
57:27I really want you
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