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Temptation Island - Season 7 - Episode 03
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00:06Do you feel like you can sit down and talk to me about it?
00:27If they hold my hand.
00:29I'll do whatever you need.
00:31If you need me to sit with you right here, I'll sit with you right here.
00:35I'm okay.
00:36You sure?
00:37I'm good.
00:37Yeah, they got me.
00:40Isn't that insane?
00:42Am I crazy?
00:43You're not crazy.
00:44No, it is.
00:44You're not crazy.
00:46I think there's some positives here.
00:48Yeah.
00:49I can finally move the fuck on with my life.
00:51That's a positive.
00:54So, Sid.
00:57Let's take a second and see how we can take whatever you're feeling and have it serve
01:02you.
01:03Okay.
01:03So, as best you can, tell me what you're feeling and what part hurt you so hard.
01:10He said, I might mess around and fall for someone.
01:12I want to shoot my shot at India.
01:14What the fuck?
01:16He's literally showing me the person that I know he is.
01:20So, it's like, why am I even upset?
01:22You know?
01:23Like, you know, he's like, I would never do anything to you.
01:25I haven't done anything to you.
01:26Fucking bullshit.
01:27Bullshit.
01:28I was just in Hilton Head with your family.
01:32And you're like, oh my God, I can't wait until we have forever together.
01:35I can't wait to marry you.
01:36I can't wait to do all this stuff.
01:38I should have knew that was bullshit.
01:41I'm sorry.
01:41The word of the night is bullshit.
01:43That'll fucking do it.
01:45Let's hold space that Mikey has a journey to and let's see who he shows up to be.
01:51Well, I wish him the best, but it is not with me.
01:55Like, I've...
01:55It is not with me.
01:57Spots on a leopard do not fucking change.
02:00You've been the same person that you were.
02:03All you did was, like, try to show me something different.
02:05I get all of what you're saying, but I want you to use this experience selfishly to create for yourself
02:11a possibility in the future
02:13that's greater than when you knew existed.
02:16So what I want you to do is try on things to see what you can create so that the
02:24next relationship, when it's time,
02:27is on that next level.
02:29Yeah.
02:29And if that's here, even if you don't leave the island with somebody...
02:32Yeah.
02:32...that you get to experience it so you can get that brain pattern of this is something that's there for
02:38me.
02:38I can have it.
02:39Yeah.
02:39I appreciate that.
02:41I really do.
02:42There's a lot, you guys.
02:44But congratulations, you made it through your first bonfire.
02:49Coming up soon are more dates, and the next dates you'll be having will be double dates.
02:54So think about which guy you'd like to get to know more.
02:58When you're ready, when you're feeling a vibe, ask the guy out on a date.
03:03This is your moment to explore the connections in front of you so that you can lead this island stronger,
03:09happier, and more ready to have the love relationship that you deserve.
03:15All right.
03:16Good night.
03:17Good night.
03:18Good night.
03:19Good night.
03:19Good night.
03:27that was like the last straw for me you're saying to girls like i could fall in love with you
03:33what we've been in a relationship for over a year did that mean nothing to you it feels like to
03:38me
03:39that there's no respect for me and i deserve better than that i just did not expect to see
03:44literally nothing he's not opening up he's not seeing where work needs to be done like and now
03:53i'm just confused sama isn't taking accountability and like the only way we can work through our
04:00current problems is if he realizes his wrongdoings but not if he sits around with a bunch of girls
04:05that are going to tell him that his girlfriend's insecure because i'm fucking not i want to leave
04:13it just hurts so bad right now because of what jack has done to me in the past we've been
04:19together way
04:20too long to put me through this he wanted to bring me here so that way he could prove to
04:25me that this
04:26isn't that he doesn't want anybody else and he only wants me that was his reasoning for wanting to come
04:32here like it's not okay to be fucking around with a relationship like this i don't feel like he's
04:37proving himself i don't feel like he's getting anything across with the way he's acting from what
04:42i saw i feel like anything i see i'm gonna be upset i feel like it's gonna be pretty hard
05:01to watch
05:01but whatever we see guys i just want to let you all know i love you guys and i have
05:07your guys's back
05:14how can i set boundaries when i don't even want
05:38i'm scared as hell going into this bonfire there is the possibility that we will not
05:42leave here together so my biggest fear is that sydney moved on
05:48i'm totally in my head and i just don't want to see anything bad i just hope me and cheyenne
05:53come back together i don't want to lose her
06:03gentlemen what's going on how you feeling how are you i feel good i'm glad to see you guys
06:07you're looking good feeling good
06:11all right
06:14welcome to your first bonfire
06:17this is the place where we get a chance to chop it up a little bit
06:20talk about your journey so far it's also the place where you're gonna watch clips
06:25of your girlfriend's experience here on the island
06:28so these are just glimpses to get a little bit of an idea of what's going on with them
06:34okay all right we're gonna start with you cole
06:37okay let's take a look
06:42do you ever feel like you're like asking for too much and like you'll never feel satisfied
06:48and i don't think we should be made to feel that way by the way like i don't
06:52yeah i feel like asking for the truth and asking for you know better communication is not asking
06:59a lot it's asking for a foundation
07:01yeah lately the relationship has just been draining and it's like been a constant battle
07:09of you know stress and in my head or whatever and i just i don't want to waste
07:18any more energy on fighting like jesus christ i feel like
07:27you know i have been through a lot and i'm just at a point in life where i just want
07:32to be happy
07:37what do you think
07:39um she's obviously very emotional about you know some issues in our relationship you know
07:45based around trust there have been you know things in the past that you know i've lied about
07:50and i've apologized for those things and you know i've shown her accountability and how sorry i am for
07:56those things um i give that girl everything you know humanly possible in my heart and i you know
08:01i drew i do treat her really well and seeing her reactions here are kind of a little surprising
08:08considering i think we've had a pretty stable relationship uh you know coming into this so
08:13i hear you and i think what impresses me is the canyon between your perspective and her perspective
08:23what i saw was a woman who's really struggling and not feeling heard and really wondering if this
08:30relationship is working at all and then i hear you say it's been pretty good i've given her everything
08:37she needs so what do you think that gap's about between your take and her take
08:44you know i don't look at it as like her side versus my side her feelings are validated and i'm
08:48not here to
08:49disprove them or say they're not you know they're not real i'm here to i'm here with open arms to
08:55you know try to draw some conclusions between the two of us but obviously i know in my mind i
09:01would
09:01never hurt her i never have the thought of but but you have well no no i'm just saying the
09:08clip is
09:08showing that she's hurting right i think what gets in the way is that you know feel like it could
09:12be
09:1399 of the time i am overly transparent with her but then that one time you're not everything's just
09:19like throwing out the window you're either transparent and honest and truthful or you're not
09:25okay so now you've seen a little bit of the kind of conversations he's having with the other girls in
09:31the house what have you been up to what have you been doing to grow um i think the key
09:39word is like
09:40figuring out like how to grow i don't know that's fair don't know kind of the steps or procedures or
09:45there is no procedure cole you have to look deeper than you're looking i mean yeah i'm gonna have
09:53to figure it out for sure i just want to see you open up and not for any other reason
09:58but you you're
09:59going to be happier yeah jack here we go take a look you haven't gone on a date in a
10:09long time with
10:10your boyfriend yeah no like the only time we ever go on like a real like planned date by him
10:15is if it's
10:15my birthday this has got to be a special occasion yeah like even for like our anniversaries like
10:19we don't do anything that's just really sad this pamper you a little bit yeah that's pampered yeah
10:25that sounds really nice honestly does that's that's not in jack's uh it's pay grade above his pay grade
10:31yeah you got it sounds like he's a bit cheap he's a bit cheap for your standards yeah it sounds
10:35like
10:37when was the last time you had sex with anybody else i have only hooked up with jack in the
10:41past five
10:42years we've been together so gotcha just been stuck with the same penis five years
10:50oh hell no
10:54what do you think you know i really have nothing to say it's kind of what i expected
10:58you know she doesn't look real highly of me so really hearing that like does not surprise me
11:03nah that bro the pay grade stuff i hear that all the time what what do they mean by above
11:08your pay
11:09grade oh she shits on me for not having money but to be honest like money doesn't really matter to
11:16me
11:17and i feel like where she's at in her life she's looking for a little bit something different than
11:22she was when we were 19. what do you want i mean you kind of let me know what you
11:26think she wants she
11:27wants a guy who's making some money what do you want it to be relationship i mean overall i want
11:32to
11:32like fix her relationship you know there's a lot of things that need to be like worked on and you
11:36mean
11:37i'm not asking what you want to do with her i'm asking what do you want
11:41i want someone that's like supporting of just me of who i am i feel like you know there's a
11:47lot of
11:47talking down on me in the relationship and i do feel like we love each other because i know i
11:52love her
11:53but i almost feel like being unloyal to her year three ruined that for her so i feel like i'm
11:59almost
12:00chasing and she's almost pushing i don't have an answer for that but i think you can find an answer
12:11for that thousand percent i think i can too okay summit you ready i guess so let's go
12:22well one of our issues is that like he doesn't make me always feel like i am like enough no
12:30it
12:31hurts when you make comments towards me like making me feel like i'm like my body's not your dream body
12:38and like this and that could be better like i i tell him like that hurts when you tell me
12:45that things
12:46that were said can never be erased and i'm sure they stick in your head like yeah just naturally
12:51i need to stand up for myself more oh i think i'm a confident person but if i was more
12:57confident
12:58like i wouldn't allow this stuff to happen
13:06what do you want to say yeah i mean there is validity to what what she's saying
13:13and it honestly you know it makes me feel terrible that i make her feel that way i mean that
13:19girl is
13:19such a catch and she chose me and the fact that i would put her down she doesn't deserve that
13:27she
13:27deserves better you know i not not that i there's any justification for what i've said that puts her
13:37down but she'll be like i want to grow my butt so i'm like do heavy squats and your butt
13:41will grow
13:42and then she's like you know you're saying i have a small butt i'm putting her down and i know
13:47i am
13:47but i'm in my feeble man brain i'm i'm helping even when you're a parent you do this with your
13:53kids
13:53you think you're supporting them by pushing them in a direction because that's showing love but in
13:58fact that's not being received as love so your version of that interaction is not the same version
14:05that she was saying gosh i mean it sounds terrible hearing it aloud um i've only been in two serious
14:12relationships ever and in my one other serious relationship this was also a problem so obviously
14:21i'm a problem no no it doesn't make you a bad guy it makes you a guy with a blind
14:26spot
14:27you make sure you're a guy who has some work to do yeah because i don't want to be that
14:31guy
14:31well then that's 90 of the battle buddy you've admitted there's some work to do yeah all right
14:45you okay yeah you know i got you right i know all right let's take a look yeah be all
14:51right buddy
14:54and then the three amigos i will say like but even before he did that so peep peep before he
14:59did
14:59that right marx was like um something like do you remember these girls from last night he's like
15:03he was like i think i do i think i do i'm like please stop like no um that whole
15:11thing just like
15:12threw me off like all the way like i mean off rip i guess i just thought it was immature
15:16like granted
15:17it's a tough time of interaction like all the way around but i don't want to keep talking about him
15:22so let's let's talk about you i feel like it's the most satisfying thing when you get something
15:28like sound decent yeah just because i'm in a relationship does not mean that i need to close
15:33myself off from other guys i feel like even just knowing xavier for three days like there's so much
15:39that i feel comfortable sharing with him literally in just talking to xavier i'm like there has to be
15:45something wrong with you like what have you done wrong to a girl in the past like that made you
15:50like so perfect talk to me
16:03uh first and foremost
16:08her biting her lip while he playing the guitar
16:12is cool i get it if sydney doesn't want to love me then what can i say i mean it
16:18is it's all good
16:19it just it doesn't feel good but then it's not all good i want to punch the shit out of
16:24him i'm gonna
16:24be real i want to punch him right in this fucking shit right i'm gonna be real as a man
16:28i understand
16:29wanting to punch him but you know it's not about him right it's not about him right so what do
16:36you think
16:42it's about i mean it's about me i'm so open with sydney i don't understand are you like i tell
16:51her
16:51everything so do you think she said in that clip he doesn't tell me everything no not at all
16:57why do you feel attacked on that level because it feels like you feel attacked i just don't i'm just
17:02trying to figure all this out like well i'm trying to figure it out with you so let's slow it
17:05down
17:06and see what we can learn to make you feel a little bit better because you're struggling right
17:24okay you want some relief
17:28i'm cool no no you're not cool you're feeling something let's just stop trying to make me feel
17:35away all right you're in your feelings right now you're having a hard about her so much you're
17:41having a crisis of your own sometimes i like talking about like i'm immature and stuff like that it's just
17:47like like i feel as if god put me on this earth to make everyone around me feel comfortable and
17:58have fun
17:59fun but do you feel comfortable and are you having fun no okay slow down
18:08the experience you're having internally the emotions those feelings are legit
18:14but when we say it's all good it's all good and we don't acknowledge how we're feeling
18:18we do ourselves a disservice okay yeah hey don't panic you're okay it's just really scary when you love
18:29somebody for real that's all real talk yes sir it's really scary when you love somebody and that's what
18:39this experience is is getting in touch with do you really love somebody and the value of that and you're
18:46getting there all right man you made it through your first bonfire we have a long way to go let's
18:53talk
18:53about from this point forward coming up are dates your next date will be double dates so find people that
19:02you want to get to know better or find people that you're already connecting with and let's go on dates
19:07with them when you see somebody you're vibing ask her out just like real life that's it for tonight
19:14and i will check up with you soon you guys can head back to the villa appreciate you mark all
19:19right good night guys
19:20i feel that she brings up like the pay grade thing and you know just me not being a very
19:31truthful person
19:32because she's not happy in the relationship itself i feel like emotionally we're both trapped i feel
19:36like we love each other but i don't think that it's it's something that can't be fixed it's tough
19:42seeing scarlet you know super emotional we need to kind of come to some understanding you know because
19:46there are wounds of the past that i'm trying to you know get us in our relationship to like move
19:50on from
19:50but i mean i'm as open as i can and honest with her so i kind of have to think
19:55about that one for a
19:56little bit and kind of just decompress because i don't have all the answers right now
20:01oh that didn't go as planned i don't even know what to say i'm seeing the pain that i caused
20:08kaylee
20:08and it and it sucks and it's upsetting you know there's this sense of i'm not making kaylee feel
20:16fulfilled it's embarrassing and it makes me feel like i'm not being the best boyfriend i can be i'm so
20:24sick of crying over this fucking bullshit sydney does not give a about me i'm not here to on girls
20:30that's not what i'm here for like i don't i don't care about that but when you actually love somebody
20:37to their core and it's like they let somebody else speak on your character and that she knows my character
20:56i don't like that i don't like that at all no that's not i like that
21:04i'm a broken heart and money just wanna go and punish
21:10it's so sad it won't go last in your love that didn't last
21:20welcome back
21:23hey ladies
21:28how are we doing welcome there you are sydney you're welcome
21:34these these two right here thank you
21:37it meant so much like knowing that they genuinely cared and were thinking about us beautiful ladies
21:43you guys deserve this y'all are top tier and it was a great distraction in terms of everything that
21:50was going on um so mikey was talking to a group of girls and he was like you know i'm
21:58really worried that
21:59i could fall in love with any of you and i'm like what how does that how is that supposed
22:05to make me feel
22:08that's crazy this is exactly who i thought mikey was and it's exactly what he is
22:15so i'm done like literally like i've been preaching about looking for clarity and i feel like i got that
22:21that's right and that's that so yeah
22:29i know in this experience like you wanted clarity
22:34i guess i just hate that uh that it had to hurt like that yeah and like that that dang
22:41fast but i'm so
22:42glad that i have that clarity and i know how to move forward like it's it's all about sydney now
22:48i want better for myself and i'm going to get better he did what he did and
22:55i'm going to do what i'm going to do
23:04what's up guys how was it
23:06i mean yeah that was pretty bad
23:10what really wow wow okay you guys yeah right
23:19god playing a sick ass joke on me no that's right what happened
23:24she letting bro talk down on me talking about some childish as
23:27fuck and what's she saying she let him talk she just letting the talk she letting people talk
23:33but what is he saying because he doesn't know you like literally at all
23:35he don't know me all he said was like yeah so like three musketeer
23:38shit was what's what's what's childish and immature
23:41i mean i mean but that's not bad i mean nothing was physical he's gonna say whatever he wants to
23:45say yeah he's gonna talk he's gonna go in there talking great about you that's not happening i've never
23:50said sydney's the worst person ever have i ever did she say that about you pretty much that's how
23:55i'm taking it that's how i take it my feelings are hurt and that's my experience and that's what
23:59i have to live with but i mean how you're feeling she could be feeling the same way because you
24:05don't
24:05know what she's seeing either she don't care she doesn't care about me so it's all good mikey
24:11definitely has been going through a lot of emotional battles he's taking everything super
24:16personal i don't feel like his girlfriend said anything bad but someone is talking bad about
24:21you like do you want to be with somebody like that but that's the journey of temptation island
24:28to decide if you guys are supposed to be together or not and if you guys aren't then so be
24:33it she's
24:33not the person for you and you're just gonna have to accept that is all i showed just the three
24:39musketeer thing and then bro was playing the guitar she was buying her lip he played the guitar for
24:44oh yeah jonah's brother she she over here buying her lip
24:59so the first thing i was shown was like jack talking about how like i bet this girl's like
25:05tastes like candy oh and just seeing them like vibing in the pool it's just
25:12yeah it's hard you know yeah
25:18but on the bright side this is the first time i've gotten flowers in like the past year
25:22there we go come on we can clap for that and you look amazing with them so
25:32wait come over here because it can't get wet right here yeah sit right there make sure it's dry i
25:37can't
25:37mess it up take some time for this oh my god can i get a present peel here what is
25:41this stop oh my god
25:44a flower too wow
25:58you like it
26:06you're the prize sydney
26:11you are i know it's hard being that like it hasn't like maybe felt like that but
26:16but you are about it you know yeah that's crazy why do you make me feel so right this is
26:24the card that um
26:26xavier gave me and it's like a present it has like a cute little bow it's very detailed and it
26:33says
26:33peel here so when i peeled this back i opened it and it says you're the prize sydney to have
26:40somebody
26:41that i just met like acknowledge and see that i'm worth more than mikey's making me out to be it
26:48puts me
26:48in the mind frame of knowing that like you're not asking for too much you're just asking the wrong person
26:54that's great that you actually listen to what i said
26:58thank you so much i really appreciate that oh i really appreciate that why does it feel so
27:12you got to hear his yeah cole and i were like if we had his we'd be like no she
27:18was like disrespecting
27:19you man and that was like she said she basically called me like poor in a way
27:25and yeah her saying that she's only had one penis truthfully like i've heard all this before
27:33this is not new like new to me you were expecting her to talk you yeah i put up with
27:38it because i
27:39up in the relationship so i feel like i'm chasing and she doesn't give a
27:43fuck because she's unhappy in the relationship itself yes jack did cheat but jack's girlfriend
27:51treats him like a piece of shit talks about him poorly and she's not able to like let that go
27:57like
27:58there's not going to be there's not much that can be done jack needs someone in his life to boost
28:03him
28:04up to make him feel seen make him feel heard and i'm that person for jack she's super hard-headed
28:10and like scary bro
28:25you want to put those somewhere what do you want to do like do you guys want to figure out
28:27how to
28:27put them in the face for me so i can put them in my room just make sure you make
28:31them really pretty
28:32that way i can have them in display on my room for jack to see ah i love the energy
28:38girl
28:40after seeing the clips i don't feel good about our relationship
28:43i haven't even seen anything physical it's just i'm just getting in my head
28:49i'm scared that we're just not growing together and we're like growing apart
28:57i just feel like i've wasted so much time if this is what he's on already
29:08i don't know if it's okay no you're not
29:19it just sucks
29:22if he were to do something like then great that you came on here because that just shows you his
29:27true
29:27fucking colors i know but it's gonna be so hard for him to see it it's more of just like
29:34i can't live life without him yes you can you don't have to i want you guys to work out
29:41but i
29:41want you to know that yes you can be without him as well
29:45you feel like you need to find cheyenne i know like who are you what do you want you can't
29:53be like
29:53codependent forever i know maybe that is the reason behind all of this is that you came here and
30:01you're going to just blossom everything happens for a reason like this might be the best thing that
30:07ever happened to you
30:20all right good night guys i can't wait to see all your beautiful faces in the morning
30:51what's going on
30:54what's going on
30:55stress has been like hard for me and just seeing
31:04i don't know i've seen scarlett's emotional
31:11just like seeing her emotion in like the first bonfire
31:26for just what i saw based off her is what it is it like comes as a shock because like
31:30i feel like
31:30we left on you know we left each other in such a good light so
31:39leaves a super unsettling feeling and like emotional roller coaster with me
31:45and like just kind of like scared for like the future all right
31:52i'm trying to go to bed it's like probably the sun's coming up
31:56i never thought it'd end this way
32:07right here wait throw it to me
32:14there it is honestly like i feel good like i've processed it
32:19the bonfire is now in the past there's nothing i can do about it and now i need to come
32:23out of my
32:24shell a little bit with the guys so i'm excited for the dates i think we should go on a
32:29date
32:29do you want to go on a date a little too i like the pink yeah i'm a fan of
32:33the pink a little
32:33decent contrast yeah i wanted to ask you if you wanted to go on a date with me today
32:38yeah i'd love to go on a date yeah i was nervous to ask you yeah well no uh thanks
32:44for asking me
32:45yeah i appreciate it hopefully this one won't be as sad as the last one no it'll be a good
32:51time
32:51meeting a guy like xavier has just like opened my eyes to all of the possibilities of what like
32:59love should look like what a relationship should look like what a man truly looks like
33:06i'm just like so happy working through all of it i don't know it's it's crazy i'm actually like
33:12excited yeah me too i wonder what it's gonna be today we're uh we're doing another day and i was
33:23wondering if you if you wanted to come with me i would love to go with you yeah let's do
33:27it hey hello
33:30would you want to talk for a second sure i don't want to interrupt your breakfast but i already ate
33:37or
33:37lunch there's no food there okay sorry he's nervous so he's so nervous uh i feel like we haven't like
33:48actually talked a lot but i wanted to talk to you for a bit so yeah um what type of
33:55latina are you so
33:56my mom's from bolivia my dad's cuban well i i go to central america every year i have a house
34:02in costa
34:02america but i've always wanted to like go farther south i i don't i've never been to south america so
34:08yeah honestly well i've been to only colombia but you haven't been to cuba or bolivia oh you gotta go
34:14yeah well i i'd love to you know keep getting to know you and i know me too honestly yeah
34:21well do you
34:22want to go on a date today yeah we could do that all right let's do it
34:42oh hey guys are we dancing yeah brazilian zook's a really popular partner dance here in hawaii
34:49it is what became of the forbidden dance the lambada in brazil okay okay dancing is just like
34:56a part of me so this feels right at home take her shoulder blade and offer her your hand in
35:03marriage
35:04easy easy clint has always just brought the best energy so to spend a day with him i'm really looking
35:11forward to it left chick chick right chick chick like tricking you know try not to move from side
35:18to side back with your left guys forward i'm not gonna lie it started off a little rocky like am
35:24i
35:24slow i think it's just like keeping this cadence once we kept going i think everything like really
35:29flowed and it was like really cute i'm loving the vibes i think this is the perfect way for me
35:35and
35:35xavier to get closer
35:40two three
35:50that's looking pretty damn good yeah all right he said pretty damn good oh so we're good i'm loving
35:56watching sid just blossom and she's glowing way too advanced for that right her energy has shifted
36:04xavier is like the perfect person for her to have this connection with coming off of mikey
36:31oh my god this is aerial yoga you look good yeah welcome i've never done aerial yoga i feel like
36:40that's kind of in my wheelhouse my mom's a yoga instructor yeah i do yoga a lot in costa rica
36:47and
36:48such so it's hard to jump in oh and now as one of you starts to breathe in find each
36:53other's breath
36:56as one breathe in the other breathe out so breathe in kind of feel your breath too yeah
37:02you're starting to feel it nice nice that's how we want it feeling somebody else's energy in that
37:09type of way i truly just thought that was deep big smiles on both of your faces wow that's the
37:15closest
37:15me and india have ever been like connect like touching wise so let's go forward by pushing the
37:21fabric down and we're going to lean forward yes we got one we got two flying down dogs make sure
37:30that
37:30you have spot on the back thigh uh this is oh
37:46oh there we go and let go of the hands and reach for your own foot reach for your own
37:51foot reach for
37:52your own foot reach for your own foot it looks good it looks good it looks good guys
38:02good
38:10it's gonna be so fun yeah i've never done it of course i'm super excited because i've grown up
38:18with four-wheelers all my life bye-bye see you on the other side guys i'm really not into like
38:24an
38:24intimate vibe date like i think that going out and doing an activity will just bring my personality
38:30out a little bit more and preston is just super outgoing he's just fun i want to go fast that's
38:38what
38:53i'm looking for
38:54obviously last night was pretty rough a lot of emotions kind of broke down in the early hours
39:00of the morning but this date going in the water snorkeling was the perfect thing and also sydney was
39:04a great pick to go on the date i needed someone that i could be at peace with and have
39:08some fun
39:11me and carter are together i feel like we're thriving
39:14and we're having the time of our life
39:29yeah that was a good time i haven't gone on a date with another guy besides summit
39:34and like a year i know last night was tough for you yeah i mean the first bonfire like i
39:40knew it
39:41was going to be really hard it's super weird seeing your boyfriend saying like she doesn't like
39:47how i'm outgoing and like she wants to change me and it's like are you even certain about me if
39:52you
39:52feel like i want to change you like because no one wants to feel like their partner wants to change
39:57them do you want him to be something other than i just want him to like be a good boyfriend
40:03yeah
40:03like you want your partner to like love you and accept you for all of you and i don't always
40:08feel
40:08like that's how he prioritizes my needs like if i were to get mad about that and vocalize that to
40:15him
40:15like he would make me feel like i'm being like a baby
40:22at some point you have to realize like you are enough though like at what point does the breaking
40:27point happen because i mean all the disrespect i mean it builds up like no one should feel like
40:33their their partner is like belittling them i i don't understand like why he does it like i don't
40:39know what he gets out of like making me feel bad about myself i know it's it's awkward i know
40:45it's tough
40:46but i mean you're a cool person like obviously i'm glad i got to do this with you yeah it's
40:51fun
41:03how's your experience so far are you learning anything like what's the outcome you want from
41:07this i don't know that's a little too deep right okay we don't gotta get no no no it's a
41:12fair question
41:12but i want to get to like know other stuff first like why didn't you give me a bracelet great
41:17for
41:17you look at my new friend oh um i don't know i think mikey just kind of looked like just
41:29a safe
41:29place but that's just like a quick first impression okay what's your physical type i'm open to everything
41:35i don't really go off physical okay yeah yeah i go off vibes because you can see like the sexiest
41:40man on
41:41the planet and he's if he's an idiot yeah or a narcissist like you know what i'm saying
41:47you know you do give off this like mysterious yeah vibe you know i don't know if that's a good
41:52thing
41:52or a bad thing no it's a good thing like you know especially like guys always want like what they
41:57can't
41:57have type thing you know like mysterious is fun i am cool i'm cool yeah you're very cool
42:04very cool you're almost like too cool really too cool for school
42:19last night when you got back from bonfire like obviously you were distraught in a way if that's
42:25the best word i was so emotional now that i'm replaying it back in my head i'm just like
42:30i am so dramatic what was it in the bonfire that triggered you in that way well there's an
42:37infidelity in the relationship and so just being physical with anyone like just took me right back
42:43to the way i was like crushed whenever i first found out that he went that far with somebody but
42:52i don't want to see him like end up with somebody else and not be me is that fair to
42:58you it's not
42:59fair to me at all but how do i fix that thought you know think about what's best for shy
43:04right like
43:06you and jack came here for a reason so do you feel like you are truly happy with him i
43:13don't no no i don't
43:14feel like we are truly happy like i don't think i trust him but it's just because we've been
43:20together for so long so it's like that comfort answer this question for me then what are the
43:27benefits like besides the comfort i don't know what the benefits are this relationship's so
43:31fucked it is so toxic i can tell that you deserve the world and like you deserve someone that's going
43:38to respect you in that fashion and like when you open up and you're confident you're bubbly and
43:41everyone's like yeah look at this hey easier said than done but i'm trying i know no of course
43:46i'm ready to like fully take on the experience and like you've gotten me out of my shell more
43:51than anybody else like i definitely think you'll be like my person here
44:05i've never done anything like this like i think the nicest date i've ever been on was like
44:11a picnic
44:14you're fucking hilarious
44:22do you feel like our connection like scares you at all i mean yeah i'll be yeah i'll be honest
44:29just
44:29weird how how easy it is to talk to you you know things are moving so fast and i feel
44:34like we've known
44:34each other forever
44:39at the end of the day i think we both know what our connection is and how it's like different
44:46from
44:46anything else no yeah it is it is i'm at the point i could break
44:53i want to make a mistake you make me
45:04i've never done something like that and it was exciting that's a whole lot you were good do you
45:09feel like it helped you mentally to just get away get out the house after the bonfire last night and
45:17i
45:17really think that's the the case when it comes to this type of stuff i feel like it's more of
45:22a like
45:23of like of who i'm spending certain moments with it's just easy when you're talking to somebody who's
45:29like cool i think that's why i'll be chopping it up so much with you because like
45:36i see the i see the opposite because you're not me no at all like if i was dating myself
45:43that would
45:44not work you need somebody that balance you out i feel like a lot of people that end up being
45:49like
45:49compatible like are kind of opposite in ways to be real with you we both know what we got going
45:55on
45:55it's just mad easy to chop it up with you me and india so locked in so it's like that
46:01connection is like
46:02strong i want to ask you a couple questions yeah yeah i want to ask you a little bit do
46:23a little
46:23digging yeah like this past year can you think of like a time that gave you the most joy
46:32um okay it was valentine's day i had a galentine's party in my apartment yeah it was just good
46:41genuine vibes and like they brought me so much joy and so much happiness because i was surrounded by
46:46like genuine love at the end of the day i'm happy that you had that community there for you you
46:51guys
46:51were able to enjoy it yeah but notice how the most joyful thing didn't involve my king you know like
46:58that's shitty yeah that's shitty i can't believe like i was just sitting in it and like i was
47:03content like that's not me like i literally settled like i was okay with it that's not okay
47:06you want city to be the prize exactly i want city to be the prize like i don't think i'm
47:11asking for
47:12too much you know you know i don't think that you are i'm really glad we were able to do
47:17this today
47:18yeah me too it was super fun yeah no this being the third date uh but like the other ones
47:23were like
47:23there weren't even dates to me you know but like this was like the first real date yeah so it's
47:27just
47:27like that easy yeah like i'm super comfortable you make it so easy no i like it yeah no you
47:34make it
47:34pretty easy too oh i'm glad okay let's make a toast yeah new beginnings fresh and an official first date
47:41cheers cheers check me out hey that actually looks like really good is it really yeah savior like
47:57makes me re-examine what love should feel like there's nothing left to say you take my breath away
48:07i should never have to give somebody more than one chance they should get it right the first time
48:11is it smooth if i open your hand slowly i love how you act yeah now i'm big on this
48:20we love that
48:39so what do you guys think what like how's it going today it's going good it's good the date was
48:46dates were good yeah dates were good but i got really set like in my feels last night from the
48:51bonfire like
48:52i was expecting just to see like or like interacting going on a date whatever flirting and all i saw
48:57was
48:57just like crying so it was like oh yeah it like kind of shocked me yeah i didn't process it
49:02till like
49:03four in the morning when i was just alone in my room and that's when it hit me
49:08what i'm trying to understand is like when we do end up coming back together it's like
49:12we got to figure out how to clean up these like trust issues and how to clean up like
49:15i'm trying to do the same bro that's it's real though like like she doesn't feel safe in the
49:19relationship and it's like how can i how do i navigate because you feel like you're not doing
49:24anything to like let's not have her mistrust in the past yeah but not now it's like if you can't
49:28get over
49:29the past like i can't make you trust me no matter if i'm honest to you or not right you
49:32know right
49:33you have to just let it go and like like we can't keep going back on it you know it's
49:39her that needs
49:40to accept that and also move on and like i can't i can't force her to do that i mean
49:45for me the biggest
49:46test that i've been kind of experiencing is just like regulating my emotions and just like the ups and
49:51downs and like the emotional roller coasters i just want to figure out how can we move forward in a
49:56better light to ultimately you know leave this island a stronger united couple and go back to
50:01san diego and then the plans after that would be to like you know get engaged or something like that
50:08you know it's complicated i can't explain it
50:17that's funny i was actually thinking like i knew what i was doing yeah
50:42it's really insane because like in like the whole like scheme of things like we were just like
50:51friends yesterday you know yeah like yeah i lived it i was there i do i do know actually i'm
50:59from
50:59charlotte north carolina i'm like on the outskirts of charlotte so oh really yeah i'm not i'm not from
51:05there uh yeah like harrisburg oh my god my aunt lives in harrisburg yeah we're dating like you know
51:12we're exploring we're experiencing i'm experiencing new feelings i don't know like i can't speak for him
51:20i know like i'm on like a high just from like the conversations that we've had um and
51:27and it it's a new feeling like everybody keeps telling me i'm glowing and i'm just like
51:33i don't know how to i don't like what are we now like we're nice we're still friends but like
51:42if
51:43friends who like you know could could be something more i don't know they don't know
51:48i agree with everything she just said
51:52ladies tonight is the men of temptation island talent show i need everybody outside please let's go
52:00let's go last night was the bonfire i think morale and vibe was a little down so tonight
52:08we need to get the vibes of our first act of the night ethan come on out ethan come on
52:14out
52:27i'm double jointed in my knees bam
52:34oh
52:49this was probably the best night in the villa honestly everyone was so happy and just like alive
53:12i'm so sorry i did not respecting the boundaries if you've done it put down a finger take a drink
53:20the person who gets all their fingers down loses the game loser has to kiss somebody
53:30okay never have i ever had a threesome oh yeah i wish come on come on come on come on
53:36i would
53:37i haven't never have i ever had sex with a married man never have i ever had sex with
53:46multiple people in one day i was a whore in college crazy i have you little freak you a big
53:52girl freak never have i ever given a foot job or gotten gotten you too curious
54:03never have i ever wanted to fuck somebody within this house oh oh
54:19guys summit has one left never have i ever had sex in the car because of this situation okay
54:24summit lost summit lost i guess losing never have i ever is like a badge of honor but i don't
54:32think it's
54:32something kaylee or my grandmother would appreciate okay pick someone go i guess i have to kiss someone
54:53i guess mike i got so horny for a second enough conversation give in to temptation
55:20i think that carter might end up in jack's bed tonight
55:24it's cold though oh girl
55:29and then there was two perfect enigma send me a signal
55:41the connection is all that i crave
55:45we're going
55:59everything i've done is talk about you
56:03jack can't swim he can't swim surprise
56:08my beautiful temptation
56:15is this the button you choose
56:17is this the button you choose
56:18is this the button you choose
56:35you're so dirty
56:36My beautiful temptation
56:40I really need you
56:57I really want you
56:59My beautiful temptation
57:14My beautiful temptation
57:19I really want you
57:26I really want you
57:28I really want you
57:28You
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