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Love Is Blind Season 10 Episode 10
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00:00The type of person that I would have gone after, I do like darker futures, I like certain things in
00:04my woman.
00:04We haven't been into it. Are you not attracted to me?
00:07In the pod, it really came down to like you and Connor.
00:10I appreciate you for like just vigor and energy you have for life, like it's so attractive.
00:14Over the past two days, I was thinking about like what it would be like if I was with the
00:19number two person I had.
00:20Do you think we have a good person with them each other?
00:22I do. Do you not?
00:24I just don't know if it's like there for me.
00:26Did she say she wants to be gone?
00:28Yeah. She's like, I can't be around you anymore.
00:31Emma immediately looked at my ring and she goes, what is that?
00:34Have you guys been to meet her yet, Emma?
00:36No. I'm a little nervous.
00:38Like when she doesn't like me, never have I ever had a hit you.
00:40I can give you a first wedding.
00:41I don't want to hit you.
00:42I don't like that you don't ever really tell me that I'm pretty because I don't know if you're attracted
00:45to me.
00:46You're forcing me. Well, now I don't feel like it's genuine if I say anything.
00:50Do you think you were afraid of having kids because of your birthmarks?
00:54Oh yeah, 100%.
00:55If we get married and then we have a kid and you resent that, you resent your child, you resent
01:00me for what happened, I can never live with them.
01:04So what makes you think you can settle down?
01:06You're tired of moving?
01:07Uh, absolutely.
01:08Different chicks?
01:10I won't lie, absolutely.
01:11Do you still have a relationship with any of her acts?
01:13Yes.
01:14With travel mix?
01:15Yes.
01:16Saw her in Austin for a week.
01:18What was that dynamic when you visited her then?
01:20I mean, we hooked up.
01:21If you had that type of relationship with someone like that, it's kind of concerning.
01:25Okay, go.
01:26So, this is a frat house.
01:28This is literally a normal blue-collar dude.
01:30Like, I work for a dumpster rental company.
01:32You need someone who's going to be more dominant in your life and to help you, like, guide you and,
01:35like, show you a place you've never been before.
01:37I saw you and I was like, that is the girl I would literally propose to.
01:55We saw you and her together.
01:57It was like, you saw it 100%.
01:59It was like, you guys were totally in it.
02:01Because I feel like the emotional connection was, like, there.
02:06Why didn't you say this stuff in Cabo?
02:08Because, like, at the end of it, we were so sure of, like, our decisions.
02:11Like, no hard feelings.
02:12I feel like we were, like, cool.
02:14I'll be honest with you.
02:15Yeah.
02:16That night, where Jess was like, oh, you're my number one, Chris, I told Connor.
02:23Because you knew we were dating.
02:25Yeah.
02:26And he's like, all right, I'm going to go with three then.
02:30I'm going to make her my number one then.
02:33I'm just saying.
02:37I think it's what hooked it up.
02:38I should have told him that.
02:40Because, like, he would have went with Emma?
02:42Yeah.
02:44100%.
02:44I'm being honest.
02:45Would you have, like, broken it off then?
02:47I would have broken it off 100%.
02:48What worried me, honestly, was, like, you were just friends with, like, a lot of dudes.
02:52But, like, you were friends with, like, a lot of loser dudes.
02:56Dudes who were, like, happy with life, going through some vibes, and, like, somebody who's, like, hey, I have a
03:02clear path to where I want to be in, like, five years, ten years, twenty years.
03:06Like, we need to, like, have these, like, assets.
03:08Guys who are, like, literally directional driven.
03:12I'm just going to say it now.
03:13I'm back in the real world, and I'm like, fuck, she lives a half a mile from me, she's hot
03:16as fuck.
03:18And we vibe so well.
03:19Can I ask you a crazy question, can you be honest, with your wedding ring off?
03:22Yeah.
03:23Like, what?
03:26Are you, like, attractive to me?
03:29I would hate you.
03:30Like, stay in there.
03:33That's maybe luxurious to normal people.
03:35Room service in the road to where Mr. Who's going.
03:38Baby, stop.
03:41Stop.
03:43We'd have a good time.
03:44Yeah.
03:45Guaranteed.
03:46I felt like we would have been, like, fuck buddies.
03:51I started Instagram, and I was like, yes.
03:54Yeah.
03:55I'm just saying.
03:56I sent you that message, but you're like, you never responded back, so I'm just like.
04:00Well, I'm in a relationship.
04:02I know.
04:04Connor would have dropped me.
04:05I would have been out.
04:06Honestly, I would not go through this with anybody but him.
04:12Mr. Brightside, do you like that?
04:14Yeah.
04:19Apparently, I'm Andrew Tate, apparently.
04:21You're a who?
04:22The crazy Andrew Tate guy.
04:24Oh, I don't know that person.
04:24Okay.
04:25All right.
04:25Whatever.
04:38Kev, this is Emma.
04:39Hi, I'm Emma.
04:40Nice to meet you.
04:42Nice to meet you.
04:42Nice to meet you.
04:43Hi.
04:44Hey.
04:45How are you doing?
04:46Good.
04:46It's good to see you.
04:47It's good to see you.
04:48I'm here.
04:49Yeah.
04:50In the flesh.
04:51Live and in the flesh.
04:52Yes, yes, yes.
04:53Heaven and in the flesh.
04:54Yeah, you look amazing.
04:57Do you mind if I move to a seat?
04:58Yeah.
04:59You lead the way.
05:00I'm there.
05:01What's your story?
05:02What happens with you?
05:04So I had a connection with two women.
05:11In his defense, though, they were badass women.
05:13They were.
05:14But Kia.
05:15You're one of the most amazing people.
05:17She was, like, one of the first women in my life to ever have me, like, open up my heart.
05:23Just, like, learning, like, okay, this is what you need to do as a man.
05:27What do you do?
05:28You step up.
05:29You step up for that woman.
05:31You're right.
05:31You're right.
05:32Have you guys been talking?
05:34Nah, so we haven't been talking.
05:35How do you feel about Kia choosing herself?
05:38As she should.
05:39And I apologize.
05:40I appreciate that.
05:42I'll never forget you.
05:44Oh, I mean, duh.
05:51I recognize this game.
05:53Oh, it was so close.
05:54You took the police car for a while.
05:56You're doing good.
05:56But you're okay.
05:57You know where your kids at.
06:00Oh, my God.
06:02You ended up with my wife?
06:03My wife, actually.
06:04You were friends in my life.
06:05Wait, so how do you guys know each other?
06:07Well, Chicago is where we first met.
06:10Yeah, yeah.
06:12But I thought you said you moved there.
06:14For a little bit, yeah.
06:15I was back and forth between Cleveland and Austin.
06:16So you were looking for a place in Austin.
06:18I was looking for a place in Austin.
06:19I was back and forth between it.
06:20It was like one of those,
06:21because I was trying to figure out
06:22where my niece was going to be.
06:22And I did want a place down there, realistically.
06:24Yeah, yeah, yeah.
06:25So, yeah.
06:25In Austin?
06:26I was one of them, yeah.
06:28We talked about this.
06:29You were in the service to your ex?
06:30At that time, yeah.
06:32You were staying at your ex's place, travel nurse.
06:34Yes.
06:35Yeah, yeah, yeah.
06:35He was either on an assignment or something.
06:38And he was staying at the place.
06:40Yeah.
06:40Anyways.
06:41You look off.
06:42Just the story was a little different when you told it.
06:46Which part?
06:47You made it seem like you went to the F1 race to see her.
06:50You guys hooked up.
06:51Oh, so she wasn't on an assignment.
06:52She was on assignment in Austin.
06:54I stayed at her place.
06:55Oh, so she was there when you were there.
06:57Correct.
06:58Which I said.
06:58Which I said.
06:59No, you didn't say that.
07:00I said that I was staying at her place.
07:03We hooked up.
07:03Well, she was on assignment.
07:05When you say she was on assignment,
07:06I'm assuming she is, like, out of Austin.
07:08She was not there.
07:09She was a travel nurse that was living there,
07:10working there for a few months at a time.
07:12I stayed at her place and then went to the F1 with her.
07:15It made sense for me at that point
07:16because I wasn't in a relationship
07:17or had met either.
07:19Well, I've met you before, but I had met you.
07:22So then you went back?
07:23Yeah.
07:24I feel like I'm being, like, just double-themed right now.
07:26What's going on?
07:27You told me you were in Cleveland for a year and a half.
07:30I was.
07:30My license is Cleveland.
07:31I lived in Cleveland for a year and a half, really.
07:34It's the key.
07:34When you tell someone that you just moved to Austin...
07:38Did I say I just moved to Austin?
07:39You definitely told me that you had moved there,
07:42and then I thought, actually, the girlfriend was, like,
07:44or the ex-girlfriend was on a random assignment.
07:46That's why you were staying at her place.
07:48But I didn't realize that you guys were simultaneously
07:49living in the same home.
07:51At the one week that I met you, yes, we were.
07:54Is this a problem?
07:55I've just, like, asked you the timeline so many times,
07:57and you make me feel like an idiot when I ask about it.
07:59And now the story is changing.
08:01Do you know where you were three years ago on a Tuesday in May?
08:05No, but the way you tell your stories, it seems like you do.
08:08I don't.
08:09Like, I can pull up my Airbnbs if you would like,
08:11and we can go through it together.
08:12I don't care.
08:13Well, you do care, because you ask my timeline every time I speak.
08:16And when you say that you've lived in Cleveland for a year and a half...
08:19Do you want my license?
08:20I'm expecting, like, no, I don't give a fuck about your license.
08:22Okay.
08:23When you say that you've lived in Ohio for a year and a half,
08:25I'm expecting you to live in Ohio for a year and a half.
08:26That's my home base.
08:27Now she's saying that you lived in Austin.
08:29Like, now you've lived there.
08:30Now you're like, I lived in Florida.
08:31Have I not said I've lived in Florida, in Austin, in San Diego?
08:33You never told me you lived in Austin.
08:35You said you went to visit your ex.
08:37On that occasion, I also lived in Austin previously before all of that without my ex.
08:41When I ask you a question, you seem to get annoyed with me.
08:44But when something changes...
08:44Right now, I feel attacked at the moment.
08:46Like, I feel it's a two-on-one.
08:47I'm not attacking.
08:48So where did you fly?
08:49I didn't know anything was going to be good.
08:50You told me you flew in from Cleveland.
08:52You asked where I lived.
08:52I lived in Cleveland.
08:53Yeah, why did you fly in Austin?
08:55Because I'm flying back and forth trying to figure out if I want to live and work there.
08:58She doesn't live there.
08:59She doesn't come up in our conversation, though.
09:00Because I've already come up with the answer, I don't want to live in Austin, Texas.
09:04And is that because your ex was there?
09:05No.
09:06I mean, did you have anything before as well?
09:09Yeah, I told you.
09:10Have you never hooked up with anyone in between that?
09:12No.
09:13Okay.
09:13I mean, I question that.
09:15But this wasn't an exclusive relationship where I don't view it as something that you need
09:19to know about.
09:19But if you want, every time I jerk off, I'll let you know.
09:22That was cute.
09:25That was a nice.
09:26It's not.
09:26But I'm just like, your story changes so much.
09:29I have been very open with the fact that I don't have a home base, and I haven't had
09:32a home base for four years.
09:33I'm pretty sure you told me you flew in from Cleveland.
09:35I did tell you that I flew in from Cleveland.
09:37It was easier for me to explain it that way without having to go through the entire process
09:40of, yes, I flew back and forth between Austin and Cleveland.
09:43I flew in from Austin.
09:44That's what you told me about that.
09:45Because you have a billion questions that I wouldn't feel like answering because they're
09:49not relevant to this entire process.
09:52Hmm.
09:53You just mean it's marriage.
09:54Now I feel like it's a two-on-one.
09:55No, no, no.
09:56No, no, no.
09:56It's okay.
09:57It's a two-on-one now.
09:57You just said that.
09:58So I'm just saying like...
09:59So it's a two-on-one.
10:00It's not a two-on-one.
10:01You just said something, and I'm trying to be your friend also and tell you like...
10:03My brother.
10:04Okay.
10:05It's not a process.
10:06It's a marriage.
10:06So everything should be on the table.
10:08Between us, too.
10:09Correct.
10:10So why are you here?
10:12Okay, you don't need to get snappy with me.
10:14I don't take ships like that.
10:15I think you guys continue this conversation.
10:19I was in Austin, Texas for a race for the weekend.
10:23Do you understand how Demo left right now?
10:25No.
10:27The story didn't line up to the hour.
10:30It's not to the hour.
10:32To the day?
10:33No, to the fucking year.
10:35You say a lot of words sometimes, and sometimes it just has nothing to it.
10:40Okay.
10:41I mean, do you want me to explain it again?
10:43No, I get it.
10:44You were with your ex on F1, and then you went back and forth, but no, you did not see
10:48her,
10:48and that makes total sense to me, and she's back in Florida, and now she has a boyfriend,
10:51and you guys talk about how great it is that she has a boyfriend.
10:53That's totally normal.
10:54And I've given the timeline like ten times.
10:57Just be honest with me.
10:58Like, I'm very understanding this person.
11:00If you were to come to me and be like, I fucked up, or like, hey, I told you this,
11:04but I actually meant this, or I need to tell you this, I'd be like much more calm right now.
11:09Just come to me.
11:09Okay.
11:10Where does that leave us?
11:12I don't think that's in your hands.
11:23What's up, Matt?
11:23How are you?
11:24You okay?
11:24Yeah, I'm good.
11:26How are you?
11:26Not bad.
11:28Good to see you.
11:34How are you?
11:34Good to see you.
11:37Good to see you, too.
11:38You look good.
11:40I feel like we should, um, I'm so sorry.
11:45It's just like, can you be like, kind of talking private?
11:49Okay.
11:50Can we just, like, couch?
11:51Maybe, like, over there where no one's at?
11:52Okay.
11:53I think it'll be fun.
11:54Do you have a good drink?
11:55Mm-hmm.
11:56What are you drinking?
11:57Coke.
11:59You're not drinking alcohol?
12:02That dude is hammered.
12:04Who?
12:04Chris.
12:05He couldn't even open his left eye.
12:09Oh, God.
12:14It's, like, crazy to see you.
12:17You look good, though.
12:18I appreciate it.
12:20Is it, like, okay, like, going back to work?
12:22Like, you feel, like, okay and, like, normal again?
12:24No, it's bad.
12:26Last week I was in love and thought I was getting married.
12:29Okay.
12:29Since then I've worked every single day.
12:32You never text me once, though.
12:34Are you fucking kidding me?
12:36All of Monday and all of Tuesday?
12:38That's the only text I got was, are you alive?
12:41That's okay.
12:42Who cares, though?
12:43I do.
12:44Okay.
12:44Well, that's the only text I got.
12:46That's convenient.
12:47Listen, I wasn't trying to be mean.
12:49Mm-hmm.
12:50I'm sorry if it came off that way.
12:52I appreciate that.
12:52I'm appreciating that.
12:54Like, I think you're very attractive, Jess.
12:59You have dark features.
13:01I don't, you don't have to tell me why I'm attractive.
13:04Okay.
13:04I know you hate me.
13:05It's okay.
13:06That's a lot of people hate me.
13:07I didn't say that.
13:08In my life.
13:08I am really, really, really hurt, and I was 110% in.
13:13When's your next day, like, to chill?
13:15It doesn't matter.
13:16It doesn't matter to me.
13:18You had your time to make sure of things, and that time is over.
13:22You don't want me to worry about that?
13:23That's fine.
13:23I'll do my own thing and worry about my own life, then, for the small life.
13:26I thought you already were.
13:29I honestly feel like you don't feel like you know me.
13:36I thought I did.
13:37No one's gonna save me.
13:40No one's gonna save me.
13:44Bite me.
13:45I can't stop you so far.
13:48I love you too, buddy.
13:49I'm ready to be home.
13:51Yeah.
13:51Snuggled with me.
13:53I love you.
14:00Have you met Emily yet?
14:01Oh, no.
14:02Not yet.
14:02So I just met Matt, which is dad, this weekend.
14:06That's supposed to be me and Emily.
14:07Which is like, I bought her a little present.
14:09I got a little gift bag.
14:11Man.
14:11Coloring books.
14:12Some of the good ones.
14:14Colored pencils.
14:14Okay.
14:15Yeah.
14:16It'd be good, but it's like, it's a little issue, but I also have to pull.
14:20I don't want to ever feel like I'm just like, in vain in their space.
14:22Yep.
14:23So, see how it goes, but like, it's scary.
14:28Hey, babe.
14:29Yeah?
14:31I just wanted to know, like, if you do want to bail at any point, just let me know.
14:36Wait.
14:36Stop.
14:36Stop.
14:37You're hearing the wrong thing right now.
14:39Amber, you're hearing the wrong thing right now.
15:01Um, I wasn't trying to attack you or anything tonight.
15:07I've been lied to in the past, but I've never felt that from you, so I guess tonight it was
15:11kind of a shock.
15:13I guess the only question I have is, like, what is your relationship like with this girl
15:18now?
15:19I've had my phone back for, what is it, two weeks now?
15:22We haven't talked.
15:24Like, there's no tie.
15:26You said if I were to break things off tonight, would you go in two days and text her though?
15:30Like, that's...
15:30No.
15:31Okay.
15:32She has somebody that she's happy with.
15:34I'm very happy for her.
15:35She's happy for me.
15:37Are you happy?
15:37Yes.
15:47Okay.
15:49You okay?
15:52Nuggets?
15:53I'm sorry.
15:55McDonald's?
15:56Yeah, I need something.
15:58I need nuggets.
15:59Coke?
15:59Fries?
16:01Yeah?
16:02Empties?
16:04Buffalo?
16:05Honey?
16:06What do you got?
16:06Buffalo.
16:08Buffalo?
16:08Buffalo.
16:09Yeah.
16:12A large Coke?
16:13You want fries?
16:14I do.
16:15Yeah, there we go.
16:16There we go.
16:19Darn starts Monday.
16:21I'm supposed to fit into a wedding dress at some point here, so.
16:25You'll be fine, sure.
16:27I'm sure.
16:28Grace me up.
16:29I will go down with this shit.
16:34I won't put my hands up in the sun.
16:39I will go down with this shit.
16:43I'm in love.
16:45Don't wait.
16:47I don't want to be a cruise.
16:48It's not ready for a lot of this.
16:50I don't think I can talk to the mother tonight.
17:00I don't know.
17:00I don't know.
17:01Can we talk?
17:05Amber?
17:10Tonight, I'm just trying to talk to Amber.
17:13I'm trying to be honest.
17:14She got pissed.
17:16I was like, well, if you're not certain, then that's that, and we're not doing this.
17:21she got upset and left
17:22and she's still pretty pissed
17:24and this is the first time we've ever had a disagreement
17:27I haven't even met our daughter yet
17:29and I've never been
17:31in like a father
17:33two year old
17:33I don't know I was just trying to talk about the way that I felt
17:36well I'm scared
17:38would you like to talk
17:39I'm gonna fuck off
17:50the good news is at least I found somebody else
17:53I can't talk to my feelings about
17:56one way street
17:58one way street brother
18:05tell me about your conversation
18:07with my little buddy
18:08we talked about how he DM'd me
18:11and it was really crazy
18:13because he was like I told you to call me
18:14why didn't you ask for my number
18:16and I literally was like
18:18because I'm like I'm in a relationship
18:23he literally said to me
18:24do you find me attractive
18:26and I said listen
18:26there is nobody else
18:28that I would choose over Connor
18:30it was Connor nobody
18:32that shows me who he is too
18:34I'm like why are
18:35like you're saying like inappropriate things
18:37just weird stuff you know
18:38yeah and then try to dap me up after
18:40that dude's not in any way he's fine anymore
18:42so
18:42can I ask you a question though
18:45that he brought up to me
18:45okay
18:46basically when he came in from night dating
18:48with just one night
18:49he was like hey man
18:50like I think I'm gonna put like
18:52just number one
18:53and you're like
18:54okay okay cool
18:55then I'll put green number one
18:56no
18:58I mean you were my number one that night
19:00and I'm saying that
19:01100% honestly
19:02you're trying to plan it down
19:04and get us to go against each other
19:06we fell in love sight unseen
19:07it wasn't about money
19:08it wasn't about how we look
19:10like me and you fell genuinely in love
19:12I don't know if it's like a jealous thing
19:14or what the deal is but like
19:16he also fell in love
19:17and then now that they've seen each other
19:18now he wants to pivot
19:19I think it's disrespectful
19:21it's just hard because I did really respect him
19:24and like I thought he was really cool
19:25so do we
19:26and then it's like
19:27I just see it
19:27this just totally gives me the egg
19:29I mean yeah
19:31I guess it's just almost like a shock
19:33that he just flipped out of nowhere
19:39not Fusco putting me on
19:42what do you say
19:43disappear mode
19:44vanish mode
19:45you want to do the honors
19:46we'll see it together
19:49Chris Fusco let's see it
19:50are you staying in GV tonight
19:54do you want me to answer
19:56no
19:57the more I disengage them
19:59the more it's going to keep going
20:00like if I'm like yes I am
20:01and then I'd be like well why
20:03like I don't need to poke the bear
20:04exactly
20:06it's one of those people
20:06that you just cut talking to
20:07a lot of your life
20:08exactly
20:08that's why it gives me more energy
20:10yeah
20:10so
20:11maybe a little bit jealous
20:12you know that
20:13but
20:14I'm trusting you 100%
20:19oh your hands are cold
20:22stop
20:23oh man
20:24why are you like good at this
20:25this is like weirding me
20:27how that you're good at me
20:28don't worry
20:29why are you doing this
20:31you're like a strong thumb
20:32oh
20:32no
20:32haha
20:34haha
20:35toast
20:36alright fine you win
20:37haha not that some work
20:38how you win it at some point
20:40i crushed you
20:41i do have a strong thumb
20:42you're actually really good at that
20:57what do you think
21:04what do you think should we do more of a round or more of like a spread out
21:09So you're coming down the aisle. Do you want the flowers to be all-inclusive?
21:15I think I want more, like, nice and neat.
21:17I think if I'm going to toss a bouquet...
21:19You want it to be tight? So let's go for tall.
21:22Okay. And then I'll add in S just wherever?
21:25Yeah.
21:26Okay.
21:28Okay.
21:29And the outside?
21:30Yeah. Looks good. I can't wait to see you come down the aisle.
21:34Yeah.
21:38Nice.
21:41I just feel very, very, very lucky. Very grateful.
21:45No fears?
21:46No fears?
21:47Yeah. Would you tell me if you did?
21:48If I have fears, I'll let you know.
21:50Okay.
21:50Yeah.
21:50At any point? Five years from now? Ten years from now?
21:53Bare none. None.
21:56None either?
21:57Yeah.
21:58Think that's normal?
21:59I don't know. This whole thing isn't normal, right?
22:03True.
22:03I can't wait to do forever with you.
22:05I do.
22:11Okay. What colors do you not want in our weather?
22:15I don't know. This is the thing. Like, I've never, I've never even thought about that.
22:20Time to noodle.
22:21So I like greener. Like, I like a lot of florals. Are you opposed to green?
22:26No.
22:27So, tell me honestly, you don't want green?
22:30I think it's whatever you want.
22:33No, babe. I want you to like it too.
22:35Obviously, you're in white.
22:37I was actually going to go with a pink dress.
22:40Like a tutu?
22:41Yeah. I do want an espresso martini tower.
22:44I like that.
22:45But I realized that one's going to be gold goblet, so you can't really do a martini tower.
22:48To hell we can't. First ever gold goblet martini tower.
22:52Italian castle.
22:54Yeah.
22:54But in Columbus, Ohio.
22:56Those two things should never be in the same sense.
22:58The undertone we rise. Light up the sky. Light it up, light it up. Come on, by our time to
23:07fly.
23:08Step into my outfit.
23:09Mm-hmm.
23:14Light it up, light it up.
23:25but I wanted it to be somewhere when my clients come.
23:28They don't feel like they're in a home.
23:30They feel like they're in a little oasis.
23:33You actually have really pretty lashes.
23:35You could just do a lash lift.
23:36Although you might look a little crazy.
23:38You might make super curl lashes.
23:39I don't know.
23:41But my home is going to become ours.
23:43I've never had that before.
23:45Like, I've never been able to come home and be like,
23:47hello, I'm here.
23:49Like, honey, I'm home.
23:50So I'm super excited for that moment.
23:55My dad helped me build this whole fireplace.
23:57Like, this was all black and gold.
23:59You guys took it out.
24:00And put all of this stone in.
24:01I like that.
24:02It is a fireplace that works.
24:04I have never used it because I'm scared to burn my house down.
24:08Where's your spot on the couch?
24:10My couch spot is here.
24:12Okay, that's good.
24:13I always sit here because it's, like, right in front of the TV.
24:16See, I need a long spot.
24:19Is that that far away?
24:20Oh, that's your foot.
24:22You talk during movies.
24:23I already know.
24:24Well, only sometimes.
24:26Do you watch the movies with the captions on?
24:28No.
24:29Like, you got a little lash soldier from downstairs.
24:33I'll get used to that.
24:35Yeah.
24:35We'll have lashes all over your socks.
24:38Right now, like, what's your monthly output?
24:41Mortgage is, like, $1,215.
24:44Okay.
24:45Like, $1,800.
24:46Got it.
24:47For bills.
24:47I don't even think it's that much.
24:48Like, all in?
24:49Yeah.
24:50Yeah.
24:50That's not bad at all.
24:51My previous house in Charlotte, just my house bills a long before you started getting utilities
24:56and stuff, is, like, $5,200.
24:58Huh?
24:58I said that.
24:59Oh, my God.
25:00I'm going to throw up.
25:03As it's sales, it's weird.
25:05Like, one month I can make $12,000.
25:09One month I can make $40,000.
25:10Like, it just really...
25:13Whoa.
25:14I don't think I've ever made that much money in a month.
25:16I try to have at least, like, six to eight months, like, in reserves, like, quickly.
25:20Maybe you should be in charge of our finances.
25:23I try to be financially, sir.
25:26I mean, I am a shopper, for sure, and sometimes I do go overboard.
25:29But if you run out of your own fun money, don't come looking in my pot.
25:34I'm like, oh, you're going to have to leave.
25:35What do you mean?
25:35Are we going to have a joint account?
25:37I'm excited to share bills.
25:39This is great.
25:42So, this is going to be our little home.
25:44It's going to be our little home.
25:57Okay, so we are zooming up to Grand Rapids to meet my family, my dad, a.k.a. G-Man.
26:05But you will be calling him Mr. McNeese.
26:07I already know.
26:08I just don't bring guys around a lot, so I don't know how this is going to go with my
26:12dad.
26:15We did a little clinic stop.
26:16This is out of me in our work.
26:18And I'm taking Connor around to all the spots that I know and love is knowledge.
26:23The truth is that if you kids under this arch, you get married, so...
26:27This is good.
26:30Better for you, Mary.
26:32We have the honor of cutting the cake.
26:35So, we figured this would be a really good practice.
26:38All right, Connor, wait.
26:39I feel like we have to do it together.
26:40Yeah, we do.
26:41All right, you ready?
26:42Oh, my God.
26:42Unless we get it.
26:43You ready?
26:47Okay, this is actually pretty good.
26:48And then you put it in your mouth and she turns it in yours.
26:56You got to show the rest of the thing.
27:02From the Grand Rapids crew.
27:18This is definitely the first argument that we've gotten in.
27:22And I wouldn't say it was good.
27:23I definitely get needing to take a beat and, like, go take a breather.
27:28And that's how I am a lot of times.
27:29Like, I have to cool my head.
27:30So, that I understand, but, like, the total silence is...
27:34I mean, you can't work with that.
27:46Hey.
27:46Hey.
27:47How's it going?
27:49What's going?
27:50How you doing?
27:56How was your day?
27:58I just need a drink.
27:59Okay.
28:10I, like, completely understand your disposition with wanting to meet Emma.
28:15What I don't understand is, why the fuck didn't you tell me before you told Vic?
28:21I'm just hit.
28:22That's really what, like, shot the pain for me.
28:25It was because, like, I thought we really had this, like, open level of communication.
28:28I trust you, like, with all my heart that you were, like, communicating everything to me.
28:32Now I'm just, like, having some skepticisms and, like, doubts.
28:36And I need to know the honest-to-God truth at this point.
28:40Like, right now, like, if it is Emma, we can work on it.
28:44If it's not, and it's like, hey, I wasn't really feeling this, or, like, I was feeling another type...
28:48Why do you just need to be straight up with me?
28:50Like, you know, I feel bad that you think that any, like, feelings that I have for you are not,
28:55you know, not genuine, like, what I've said.
28:57Because I think you're incredible.
29:00Like, I don't think I've ever felt this way about anybody before.
29:03The only reason I've gone as far is because of you.
29:07But before, you know, making a lifelong commitment, like, I have to meet Emma first, never meeting her before, and,
29:13like, trying to build a relationship.
29:15It's a scary thought.
29:16That I totally understand.
29:17But, like, when did these thoughts come into your head, and, like, why didn't you tell me things?
29:23I don't know.
29:23I think it's just gotten more real in the last week.
29:26I think the nerves of...
29:27Like, she's the person I've been most nervous to meet.
29:29She's the most important person in your life.
29:32So, have you thought about, like, if she doesn't like me?
29:34Because that's something that plays in my head a little bit that's, like, a scary thought.
29:39And, like, I totally brushed her teeth this morning.
29:41It would be one thing if, like, you were, like, a bad person.
29:44Or, like, we had a toxic relationship, or we were fighting all the time.
29:47It's a different story.
29:48I just don't understand, like, the knowing and coming into it.
29:52Like, you kind of knew that was a thing.
29:54Like, I still love you.
29:55I was never trying to fail.
29:57I just...
29:57It's a step-by-step process.
29:59Like, all of the steps you need to happen before it can be successful.
30:02So, I'd like to work on it.
30:04I don't know where you stand on things.
30:06I understand if you need some time.
30:09It's so, so hard for me to, like, trust a man.
30:15They will tell you they're going to marry you and, like, all this other bullshit.
30:18I wouldn't have said all the things I said to you if I didn't do that.
30:21People say fucking bullshit.
30:23I'm not the dude that you're with.
30:26You haven't proven that to me yet.
30:28That makes me feel shitty.
30:29It's like, I feel like I've put myself out here and you're just comparing me to a bunch of dirtbags
30:33that you did in the past.
30:34Like, that's not fair.
30:36I've had to build this barrier to protect myself.
30:39I can empathize with having to put walls up and, like, protect your daughter.
30:43I get that.
30:44I know that you've had shitty people in your past.
30:47But I don't know what to do for you to trust me.
30:55I still do trust you, but usually I go into, like, fight or flight.
30:58Like, usually I would just be, like, completely gone and just, like, and I'm not doing that.
31:03I showed up today.
31:08I've been so anxious.
31:10I haven't eaten all day.
31:11Why?
31:11Because I'm just having a ball of nerves.
31:14I didn't know how this was going to go, if you were going to leave, or how, I just, yeah,
31:18I've been so anxious.
31:24I've been so anxious.
31:54Can you just make sure your legs tell me everything straight up?
31:57Yes, yes.
31:59As soon as I think in.
32:00As soon.
32:02As soon as I think in.
32:04I mean, no, I don't miss a beat.
32:06I know.
32:23I got kind of updated on, like, some of the things with Chris.
32:26What, you heard about him?
32:27Yeah, bro.
32:27And I was like, what the F?
32:29I'll never talk to that dude again.
32:30Yeah.
32:30You shouldn't.
32:32We had a very close relationship.
32:33I talked to him about a lot of shit.
32:35Yeah.
32:35And then he started using that against me to try and talk to my fiance.
32:38Did you send her a text or something after, too?
32:40You DM'd her that night.
32:41Yeah, I'm the guy.
32:42And she goes, can you not respond to him?
32:45She was in a picture of your nutsack.
32:46From her account.
32:48What are you doing, dude?
32:50We're going through this.
32:51We have a solid group.
32:53I think to just give disrespect to you like that.
32:56He thought that he was going to steal her from me?
32:58Yeah.
32:59Buddy, you're 5'6".
33:10Somebody stop me.
33:11What's up, fellas?
33:13Oh!
33:14You're a little over a week away from standing at the altar in front of the love of your life.
33:20The tux, the suit you pick out today, represent your personality and represent your love.
33:25I'm so happy for all of you, talking through a wall, finding someone, and now picking out
33:31your wedding dress.
33:32It's absolutely incredible.
33:33I do already have my own wedding dress.
33:37Before you went on the show, you bought the dress.
33:39Yep.
33:40Just by the man.
33:43I bought her dress because I said, this here is faith.
33:47We truly believe that you're going to find your person.
33:51So we did.
33:52We bought the dress.
33:53I loved it.
33:56I truly hope that you guys proved love is blind because I want for all of you a marriage
34:02that lasts a test of time.
34:03This is a beautiful day.
34:04Have a blast.
34:06Try on some suits.
34:07Wish you guys nothing but the best.
34:10Good luck, guys.
34:11All right.
34:12All right.
34:13Let's go.
34:14Let's go.
34:15Let's go.
34:15Let's go.
34:20So it's not a perfect fit, but we're going to see what works.
34:23All right.
34:23I'll see you, some little criminal.
34:25All right.
34:25You think you're going to have some tears coming down?
34:27It's going to be good.
34:28I'm excited about that.
34:29I'll tell you that much.
34:30No, I'm excited for you.
34:31Yeah.
34:31Any reservations?
34:33All right.
34:33No.
34:40You guys got your tissues ready?
34:42Oh, yeah.
34:43So good.
34:45Yay.
34:46Gorgeous.
34:47Oh.
34:48That's so beautiful.
34:49I kind of hate it.
34:51And I was literally going to say, I'm not a fan.
34:54I hate it.
34:54It's not at all me.
34:55It's not.
34:56We tried something different, and we know that it's not it.
35:01Stop it.
35:02Oh, my goodness.
35:03Oh, wow.
35:05What do you think?
35:07I don't like it either.
35:08She's like, I got to get out of this thing.
35:12Oh, my God.
35:16Oh, it's lit.
35:19Look at your peeping.
35:21Woo!
35:21Woo!
35:22Woo!
35:22Woo!
35:28This is amazing on you.
35:29There's some elements that are working.
35:31I really like it.
35:32Yeah.
35:33Yeah.
35:33I do like the slits.
35:34I feel like you have the legs.
35:36You look amazing in that.
35:38Oh, it's pretty.
35:39Oh, I like the back.
35:40Wow.
35:41Oh.
35:42I still just don't know about.
35:44I don't think I'm being picky.
35:47Wedding dress.
35:48Christine.
35:48Yeah, yeah.
35:49It's not perfect.
35:50It's not perfect.
35:51Yeah.
35:51Do you want to try bail with it?
35:53Sure.
35:55Aww.
35:56Aww.
35:58You're so beautiful.
35:59I feel bridal.
36:01I'm already getting emotional, but it's not the dress that makes you emotional.
36:05It's everything behind the dress.
36:07Yeah.
36:08I've really wanted this for a long time, and I just have the perfect person to do it with.
36:19How's this woman?
36:21Okay.
36:21That's really nice.
36:22This is a fresh...
36:23This is a fresh package.
36:25I think you could rock a Midnight Blue also.
36:27My colors for the wedding are green.
36:29Green?
36:30Emma likes the deep green, like the green floor.
36:34Oh, all right.
36:34So it's black.
36:35Black and green.
36:36Proudy, man.
36:37Brilliant.
36:44Yay!
36:46Wait, are you wearing your shoes already?
36:49Look at this.
36:49Yeah.
36:50Oh my God, look at that tree.
36:51It's pretty gorgeous.
36:53Beautiful.
36:54It's like a little garden.
36:55It's so pretty.
36:57I feel like it's exactly what I would picture for you.
36:59Just the perfect amount of glitz, but still simple for you, and it's just gorgeous.
37:04I like the sheer at the top.
37:06Oh, it is very sheer.
37:10Mom wants some softiness.
37:12Yeah, I like...
37:13Do you feel comfortable?
37:14I feel really comfortable.
37:15Like, I can...
37:16Give us some dancing.
37:17I can dance.
37:18Okay.
37:18You're like, I can do my Irish jigs.
37:20Oh, good.
37:21Are you?
37:23I don't know.
37:23I think someone's gonna kill me.
37:25Oh my God.
37:26Oh my God.
37:27Oh my God.
37:38Yes, you have to wear a veil.
37:44Okay.
37:45Oh, I'm starting.
37:47Like, it just feels so...
37:49Right.
37:50It's surreal.
37:50Like, I didn't hear you here.
37:58The dress seals the deal.
37:59The dress seals the deal.
38:01It's perfect.
38:03It'll work.
38:04It'll do.
38:05It'll do.
38:10It'll do.
38:12Feeling excited?
38:13Finally getting the suit fitted.
38:14I'm gonna do the tie clip that matches her dress.
38:16Oh, yeah.
38:24As a little girl, I definitely dreamed about my wedding dress, getting all dolled up, putting
38:30the veil on, the flowers, all of it.
38:31So, I'm super excited that my dream was coming into fruition.
38:36I feel like a bride.
38:37Super excited.
38:38I do already have my own wedding dress.
38:40There's so much hype around this dress now.
38:42I feel like buying the dress before definitely jumped full force into this journey of believing
38:50that this is what I'm supposed to do.
38:52Now, everything that I've always dreamed of is gonna happen.
38:54My gosh, I'm getting married.
38:56I will be a full-on bride.
38:59Oh!
39:01Yeah, okay.
39:02Yeah, that makes sense.
39:03Oh, my God.
39:05You look beautiful.
39:07Wow.
39:08Oh, my God.
39:09I love it.
39:10I think this is stunning.
39:12This is my dress.
39:18I'm glad you bought one before.
39:20I know.
39:20Yeah.
39:21I know.
39:21Oh, my gosh.
39:23It's so pretty.
39:24This is, like, my wedding day.
39:26What I want to look like.
39:27I feel like a bride.
39:29Mm-hmm.
39:30That's gorgeous.
39:30Where's the veil?
39:31Bring the veil.
39:33Oh.
39:33Coming.
39:34Oh, yeah.
39:35Very good.
39:37Gorgeous.
39:38Beautiful.
39:39Beautiful.
39:43She's waited a long time.
39:46And you're getting everything.
39:49He checks every box, he said.
39:52And it's been worth the wait.
39:54Yeah.
39:55He was more than worth the wait.
39:56Yeah.
39:57And, like, he's the person that I've literally been looking 32 years for.
40:00I'm happy.
40:03Next week, I'm going to get to call on my husband.
40:05He better lose it than he saves you.
40:07He is literally a man of few words.
40:10And I have just come to accept that.
40:12He may not have words, but he's going to be choking.
40:15Oh, my God.
40:16We're getting married.
40:18Yes, we are.
40:24You're going to get married.
40:25How do you feel?
40:26How do you feel, guys?
40:26Oh, did you see it?
40:27I might be at both sides.
40:28Gail, one of the ten.
40:29Good God.
40:30Is that James Bond?
40:31Yeah, there it is.
40:32He has to take the finger guns.
40:33I don't look like I can't believe in it.
40:35No.
40:36It says I'm formal.
40:37I'm ready to get married.
40:38I feel confident in this.
40:39I feel good.
40:40Yeah.
40:41This is going to be the only time I get married.
40:44Yeah.
40:44This is an I do type.
40:51My mom and Connor's mom are here today.
40:54It's so fun to have mom's meet.
40:56And, like, it's beyond just picking out my wedding dress.
40:58It's also just another step that's in the process of, like, joining our families together.
41:02I would not care what she has on.
41:04I absolutely not.
41:07She's going to have on a sweat.
41:08I mean, it's going to be perfectly happy.
41:10Well, that would be option two.
41:12Connor and I both come from big families.
41:14We're super communal.
41:15So I'm not surprised that our moms are getting along because they're Midwest moms that love
41:19their kids.
41:20Are you nervous to see?
41:21Mm-hmm.
41:22Mm-hmm.
41:23This whole weekend was a lot for us of, like, picking up the marriage license.
41:27We went back to Grand Rapids.
41:28We met my dad.
41:29And the big dad, she was like, we were just a wow card.
41:32I didn't know how he was going to show up.
41:33I mean, he only has one daughter.
41:36I'm his baby girl.
41:37And, you know, there were some tough questions asked of Connor by my aunts and my dad and
41:41everybody because I know they love me and want what's best.
41:44It was great seeing them interact.
41:46They all love him.
41:47Gave me the confidence that I needed to go into today.
41:50Here she comes.
41:50Sorry.
41:52I was, like, also not my hair.
41:54Oh, my God.
41:55Oh, my God.
41:57That is beautiful.
41:58Very beautiful.
41:59I'm going to give you a little more.
42:01I know.
42:02I'm just, like, but does it feel too simple?
42:04Like, is there...
42:05I don't know.
42:06Oh, honey.
42:08How long I've been waiting for this?
42:10I don't know.
42:12I don't think you need all the sparkles and everything.
42:14No.
42:14This is, like, you.
42:16I feel like it fits you so perfectly.
42:18Stunning.
42:19It's absolutely gorgeous.
42:26I guess you're right.
42:27I'm not trying to be someone I'm not and try on glitter and...
42:31Well, Connor will be blown away.
42:34He hit it out of the park.
42:36Did he not?
42:37Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.
42:45Ooh.
42:48Whoa.
42:51Queen cut.
42:52Did I get that right?
42:53Yeah.
42:53Feeling good?
42:54I think you guys know I make decisions intuitively, so maybe this is...
42:58This is telling of itself, but, like, I look at it and, like, I'm not nervous.
43:01Like, I'm not necessarily feeling nervous when it comes to it.
43:04Were you guys nervous in your guys' weddings?
43:05Like, coming into it or putting on tuxes or anything like that?
43:08It felt right.
43:09Yeah?
43:09It felt right.
43:10Yeah, yeah, yeah.
43:11I think I bring a level of confidence and, you know, I don't want to say emotionless,
43:15but a rock-type thing in the sense of I'm very comfortable in situations like this.
43:18So I'm not necessarily nervous.
43:20It's more excited at this point.
43:21But I'm ready for the big day.
43:23It does feel, you know, relatively normal for me.
43:30Oh, my gosh.
43:32Oh, my gosh.
43:33Your top is really pretty.
43:35I feel like it's really pretty.
43:37You look like a cake topper.
43:39I know. It's an offer for me.
43:41This is not the dress.
43:46It's nice to finally see her get her moment.
43:48She's obviously stunning.
43:50She looks literally like Barbie.
43:52I want her to be happy and whatever that looks like.
43:55I'm so proud of the journey she's had like a year ago.
43:57I can't even imagine seeing her in this position.
44:00She wants the best for her.
44:03Oh my God.
44:05Oh, okay.
44:08Oh my God.
44:09This is stunning.
44:11You're getting wedding Barbie.
44:12Yeah, I know this is totally your vibe.
44:14Just got up here.
44:16That is very, very pretty.
44:18I was like totally fine in there, I swear.
44:20This is good.
44:22Perfect.
44:24Don't cry.
44:25I'm like shaking.
44:28You're a bride.
44:29I'm a bride. Oh my goodness.
44:30Like we've been fiancées, but now we're bride.
44:33We're bride.
44:33It's really incredible.
44:35Stunning.
44:36This is elegant.
44:37It's exactly what I would picture you with.
44:40It's you.
44:41It is simple.
44:42No like frills or lace or anything, but I feel absolutely gorgeous in this dress.
44:48You are gorgeous.
44:49You deserve the world.
44:50You are the most special person I know.
44:53For so much of your life, you felt like you weren't, but it's everything you deserve
44:58and more.
44:58And you look so beautiful.
45:00You've always put everyone else in.
45:02I'm so happy for you.
45:03This is for a time.
45:04I'm fine.
45:07Here comes a veil.
45:11I'm literally going to lose it.
45:13Oh.
45:14No, no.
45:15It's just wild.
45:16We're getting married in a week.
45:17I remember having conversations and being like, I'm not going to get engaged.
45:20No one's going to like me.
45:22And now I'm up here standing, like ready to marry Alex.
45:25Okay, bring Alex in because I can't.
45:27This is the one.
45:30This is the wedding.
45:44All right.
45:45Here we are, boys.
45:47Okay.
45:48That looks good.
45:49Yeah, this looks pretty sharp.
45:51Does it feel like something you want to wear to get married to the love of your life?
45:53I mean, I think this looks pretty damn good.
45:55What do you think Amber's going to think?
45:56I think she likes me regardless.
45:58You like that?
45:59Oh, yeah.
45:59Oh, yeah.
46:00Ah, you're pulling my hair.
46:02I'd give you my 401k.
46:04All right, I'll be back.
46:05All right.
46:07I want the suit to fit right, you know.
46:09I'm a big boy, but I want that thing to maybe slim you down a little bit.
46:14Dude, I like a champagne or a brown tie, but she doesn't care about what I'm going to wear.
46:18It's pretty nice.
46:19It's a more complete love than I've ever had.
46:23I'd come out wearing gym shorts.
46:25She probably wouldn't like that, but I could, and I'd still be cool with it.
46:28But, you know, we've been working on this relationship and just the bond.
46:34And that's the whole reason we're here.
46:36That's the most important part.
46:48She was like, Jamie, this is, like, different.
46:51It is.
46:51Yeah.
46:52Finally for you.
46:53You know what I mean?
46:54And, like, that's why I'm so happy for her.
46:57Oh, my God.
47:01Oh, my God.
47:03Wow.
47:03So pretty.
47:05Woo!
47:06Oh, my God.
47:07That is so beautiful.
47:10You're just, like, sparkling.
47:12It is so beautiful.
47:14Beautiful.
47:18Oh, my God.
47:19So pretty.
47:20Oh, wow.
47:21So pretty.
47:23That's so pretty.
47:25What would Emma say if she saw you?
47:27She wanted all the sparkles and all the flowers.
47:30So that's why I picked a sparkly dress because she wanted that.
47:32Aw.
47:33Aw.
47:34It's amazing.
47:35And Emma does deserve to, like, see her mom be a princess.
47:38And she deserves everything.
47:40And I love you.
47:43I'm done.
47:46I am more excited to show Emma what she loves looks like more than anyone would know.
47:53Oh, my God.
47:54She deserves that.
47:55And she deserves to know, like, what it's like to have a good guy loving her.
47:59So do you.
48:00So do you.
48:01I think you're the best role model Emma could ever have.
48:05Oh.
48:05And you do it very well.
48:08This dress just matches your personality.
48:10Like, you sparkle.
48:11And she sees that.
48:12And so do you.
48:13So.
48:15The greatest mom in the world.
48:19No.
48:20This is the one.
48:21I don't think this is the one.
48:24It's a special moment, you know, to see yourself in a dress.
48:28I've never been in a wedding dress or anything like that.
48:30I feel very excited.
48:35Oh, my gosh.
48:36It deserves the world, but it never gives it to me.
48:39I need Jordan to meet Emma, but I think our love is strong enough to overcome most obstacles.
48:45I am ready to be by Jordan's side forever.
48:48I am ready to be by Jordan's side forever.
49:18I am ready to be by Jordan's side forever.
49:48I am ready to be by Jordan's side forever.
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