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90 Day Fiancé Season 12 Episode 2
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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé...
00:00:03Is this possibly the one?
00:00:04This is the one.
00:00:07Even though I work in bridal,
00:00:08my love life isn't a fairytale.
00:00:11At first, I was like,
00:00:12we're gonna get married as soon as you get to the United States.
00:00:14But now, reality's setting in.
00:00:17An executive from New York meets
00:00:19a hotel entertainment worker.
00:00:23It's vast differences.
00:00:25Sometimes I feel like I have real-life problems.
00:00:27And like, you know, he tells me about his problems
00:00:30and I'm like, that's not a problem.
00:00:32I have a lot more at stake here.
00:00:39We make out.
00:00:41I have intrusive thoughts as part of my OCD.
00:00:44And when I get drunk,
00:00:45I really want to make out with everyone I know.
00:00:48I was a little bit crazy the past two months.
00:00:51I, like, kissed me more while drunk again.
00:00:55Josh says he can't see himself married to me
00:00:58if I keep doing this.
00:01:00Did you tell Josh about this?
00:01:05Yay!
00:01:06That's a great party last week.
00:01:08Oh, yeah.
00:01:09I don't tell my fiancee Annabelle
00:01:11every single thing that goes on at the parties.
00:01:14I was in bed with you when you were with Annabelle.
00:01:17Man, it's not gonna happen when she's here.
00:01:19You do know when she gets here,
00:01:20we are actually gonna have a conversation.
00:01:22There's no way around that.
00:01:25Every prophetic word you spoke of my life
00:01:28is coming to pay!
00:01:31God has given me multiple gifts,
00:01:34and Maxwell is the man I have been waiting for.
00:01:38But there's still that stereotype
00:01:41of Nigerians being scammers.
00:01:43Okay, sweetie.
00:01:44What'd they say?
00:01:45Not for the K1.
00:01:47There's nothing that can be done.
00:01:48I'm not accepting it.
00:01:50I don't know how the devil snuck in,
00:01:54but I know one thing.
00:01:56He gotta leave with that darn visa.
00:01:59And that's for sure.
00:02:04I took the wrong way, but I came back around.
00:02:10All of the hard days are over now.
00:02:15All right.
00:02:16Daddy's going to get Mommy Bell.
00:02:18Are y'all excited?
00:02:19She'll be here.
00:02:20We gotta finish cleaning up.
00:02:22Daddy'll be back tomorrow with Mommy Bell.
00:02:24Love is a fire burning in my heart.
00:02:27I got back my rhythm once I start.
00:02:30There ain't no stopping this change.
00:02:32Y'all are going to be lucky if you get to stay in the house.
00:02:35Yeah, she might throw y'all out.
00:02:37We're going to have to brush you more.
00:02:39We're going to have to not...
00:02:40See?
00:02:40Come on.
00:02:41Get down.
00:02:42That's what I'm talking about.
00:02:44Annabelle does not like dog hair.
00:02:46My fiancée Annabelle literally is a clean freak.
00:02:50Get down.
00:02:50Stay off the couch, bud.
00:02:53When I answer the phone, she's got a broom in her hand.
00:02:56You know?
00:02:56She's washing dishes.
00:02:58When I...
00:02:58You know, she's doing laundry.
00:03:00I mean, she keeps it immaculate.
00:03:01Golly.
00:03:03Look at all this hair y'all got.
00:03:05You're going to get me in trouble.
00:03:09It's just me and the dogs at my bachelor pad.
00:03:12And, you know, I'm more of a robo-vac every now and then.
00:03:17And, you know, dust on really special occasions.
00:03:20And, you know, but Annabelle, it's like a daily thing for her.
00:03:25She even tells me she's allergic to dog hair.
00:03:28And she's not allergic to dog hair.
00:03:30She just doesn't want it everywhere in the house.
00:03:34Okay, I got to get going, guys.
00:03:35About time.
00:03:37Got to be back tomorrow.
00:03:41So, yeah, it's going to be an adjustment for both of us.
00:03:44But her plane arrived soon.
00:03:46So the only cleaning I'm thinking about is her scrubbing me in the bathtub tonight.
00:03:50Ha, ha, ha, ha.
00:03:53Ha, ha, ha.
00:03:55Off to St. Louis.
00:04:01Couple hours.
00:04:03I'll be at the airport.
00:04:04You know, I don't know how it's going to go.
00:04:06It's definitely a long time coming.
00:04:08I'm still not feeling real good about the Nicole thing.
00:04:12I mean, that's my fear is me tell her that I cheated on her.
00:04:16And, you know, that's what Nicole's going to tell her, even though, you know, in my mind, it's not.
00:04:21But, you know, when that word comes out, you know, I don't know how she'll perceive it.
00:04:28Maybe at a party on the lake or something, I kissed a chick or had a few too many.
00:04:33We're just having fun.
00:04:34And to me, that's not cheating.
00:04:36That's having a good time.
00:04:42There's a lot going through my mind and a lot of what ifs.
00:04:45Maybe my ex-wife Nicole is just bluffing and just trying to get my goat.
00:04:50But on the other hand, what if she's not and she's really trying to break up my marriage?
00:04:56This spot's kind of narrow.
00:04:59Let's see if I can get out.
00:05:01I've been married twice.
00:05:03This is going to be my third.
00:05:05And it's really hit my wallet.
00:05:08So either Annabelle's going to be my partner forever or we're just not going to get married.
00:05:16I don't even know where the arrivals come in.
00:05:20Keep reaching for that good life.
00:05:25Because I believe it's coming soon.
00:05:29Oh, 454.
00:05:32Okay, we're good.
00:05:34It's getting kind of hard to breathe.
00:05:36My stomach's hurting.
00:05:41I mean, she's changing her whole life to come be with me.
00:05:44So, you know, I'm excited.
00:05:46We're going to see.
00:05:47I'm sweating.
00:05:49Very hot.
00:05:51I don't think it's that hot in here.
00:05:52I'm just like...
00:05:57I don't think it's that hot in here.
00:06:20Oh, my God.
00:06:21Yes!
00:06:22Yes!
00:06:23Yes!
00:06:24Yes!
00:06:24Oh, my God, baby.
00:06:29Oh, baby.
00:06:32I miss you so much, baby.
00:06:34I miss you too.
00:06:42You okay, baby?
00:06:45Yeah.
00:06:46You okay?
00:06:47You look pretty.
00:06:50You don't look like you've been flying 30 hours.
00:06:53You know, man, I'll look what I get off the point.
00:06:56Huh?
00:07:00I am Annabelle.
00:07:02I am 54 years old from Iloilo, Philippines.
00:07:07Oh, Lord.
00:07:09I'm crying.
00:07:10I got you some flowers.
00:07:13Smells good?
00:07:14Yeah, thank you.
00:07:16I'm feeling emotional because it's been two years we didn't see each other.
00:07:21I feel very happy to see him.
00:07:23But I was surprised when I see him again.
00:07:26Oh, my God.
00:07:30His body is a little bit big again.
00:07:34We need to go for walking and Zumba together.
00:07:39God, I miss you so much, baby.
00:07:42I miss you too.
00:07:44Oh, Lord.
00:07:46To get to this day, it's almost surreal.
00:07:48It's like I got to pinch you and I got to pinch me because it almost feels like it's not
00:07:53real.
00:07:53This is the moment of truth.
00:07:54It just doesn't feel like it's real, baby.
00:07:56It's taking so long, right?
00:07:58Yeah.
00:07:59Crazy, baby.
00:08:00Crazy.
00:08:02I can't wait to kiss this.
00:08:06You're in the airport, baby.
00:08:09Want to go get your bags, man?
00:08:11Yeah.
00:08:12Can't wait tonight, baby, to get you to the room and get in the bed with you and love all
00:08:18over you.
00:08:19And I miss that so much the last two years.
00:08:22I like that.
00:08:23I'm going to use this later.
00:08:28Okay, well, we can definitely arrange that.
00:08:31Mm-hmm.
00:08:33Oh, my gosh.
00:08:34I can't believe it.
00:08:43Do you want to sing the national anthem with me?
00:08:45Um, yes.
00:08:48Oh, okay.
00:08:51You see, I don't know the night.
00:08:56What so proudly we hailed at the twilight's last gleaming?
00:09:04Mana is a twilight's last gleaming.
00:09:09The twilight's last gleaming.
00:09:13The twilight's last gleaming's last gleaming.
00:09:15Keeps proof to the night that the flag was still there.
00:09:19Da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da
00:09:21-da-da-da-da-da-da.
00:09:23Sorry. You got bored.
00:09:24Remix version.
00:09:26Yeah, I was so ready to get a remix.
00:09:28So I arrived in the States, and Katie's got a hotel room,
00:09:33which, frankly, I'm quite happy with,
00:09:35because I was worried that we might be sleeping in the car or worse.
00:09:40So I'm really glad that we can just be us
00:09:44and kind of reconnect and be with each other.
00:09:51Oh, those Cheetos do not smell lovely.
00:09:54OK, well, don't leave. You smell bad.
00:09:59I do. I definitely smell bad.
00:10:00Your mouth smells bad, actually.
00:10:02My mouth smells bad.
00:10:04Yeah, like your breath.
00:10:05Well, I'm going to clean my teeth.
00:10:06Good.
00:10:07My hands are Cheeto dust forever.
00:10:11Katie has, since I first met her,
00:10:14she was and continues to be as probably the bluntest person I know.
00:10:19I have this mental image of a Tasmanian devil.
00:10:24Like, in the flesh.
00:10:27I'm thinking crates.
00:10:29It's not bad though. It's just wild.
00:10:31Do you want to talk about them?
00:10:33No.
00:10:33I was just like, oh, we should be naked while driving.
00:10:36And then I was like, wait, I think that's illegal.
00:10:39To be naked while driving? Is that a state law?
00:10:42I don't know. I don't.
00:10:43That's public nudity.
00:10:44That might be legal in the UK, but it's not legal here.
00:10:47There's no badness in Katie.
00:10:51She is a menace only in the most comical, ridiculous sense.
00:11:11What are you doing? You meant it.
00:11:14I'm scratching your beard.
00:11:15With your sweaty hands.
00:11:17My hand is really sweaty. Sorry.
00:11:19Oh, to be fair, I put on a lot of hand sanitizer.
00:11:23Look, surprise.
00:11:25We're at a hotel.
00:11:26It doesn't suck.
00:11:28Nice.
00:11:33Are you excited?
00:11:38Look, it's working here.
00:11:40Yes.
00:11:40It's colourful, isn't it?
00:11:41Yeah.
00:11:42I like it.
00:11:43It's very, like, Portland vibes.
00:11:48Okay, here's the room.
00:11:51Look!
00:11:52Ah!
00:11:53Oh, this is lovely.
00:11:56This looks super comfortable.
00:11:59Do you want to see around?
00:12:00Do you want to see?
00:12:01Yeah, show me.
00:12:01I worked so hard on this.
00:12:02This morning.
00:12:05But then I kind of gave up halfway because...
00:12:07Oh, I love it.
00:12:08I was running out of time, but...
00:12:11Oh, you must be tired.
00:12:13Yeah, you must be tired, too.
00:12:22Katie has this wonderful kind of ability to go from being quite blunt and brutal to being the sweetest, softest,
00:12:31sentimental person.
00:12:33And it comes out in things like decorating the hotel room or decorating me at the airport.
00:12:39And it just makes me melt inside.
00:12:41I'm just like, oh, I love you.
00:12:44I was so stressed out about having sex.
00:12:47Now I'm tired.
00:12:48Why are you stressed out?
00:12:50I was just stressed because I feel like we've had problems with me feeling wanted.
00:12:55And I was worried when you came here, you wouldn't want to have sex.
00:12:58And that would just, like, set the mood wrong and then we'd be awkward and then our chemistry would be
00:13:02dead.
00:13:04Yeah, I mean, I feel like the main thing is getting rid of all, like, the stressy kind of work,
00:13:12kind of bullshit, you know.
00:13:13Wait until, like, we're settling down and really focus on us.
00:13:18I just was having a really hard trust and that that would actually happen when we get here.
00:13:24I just want to feel like you want me.
00:13:26I know I need to focus on you more.
00:13:30Should we both make commitments?
00:13:34And maybe one commitment you can make is to not keep kissing other people?
00:13:44I think that she makes out with people partly from insecurity and partly I think she gets a bit of
00:13:54an impulsive rush from playing with fire.
00:13:58I think she also knows that it's hurtful and I think she knows that it's not right.
00:14:03And that's why I'm patient because I think her heart's in the right place.
00:14:07But I could very well say I don't like this and here's an ultimatum, stop it or I'm leaving.
00:14:15I don't know. I, like, I want to feel wanted.
00:14:19You know, we think in very different ways very often and so if we can start out aligned, I think
00:14:27that's the best start we could kind of hope for.
00:14:33I think sex is an important part of what we're talking about. I think that it's intimacy and loving and...
00:14:39I don't feel loving if we're not having sex.
00:14:41I mean, I don't feel loving when you're playing with other guys.
00:14:47At least they want to have sex with me.
00:14:52Honestly, I'm, like, worried things won't change.
00:15:01Let's call Poppy.
00:15:03I'm here.
00:15:05Handsome.
00:15:06I'm Debbie.
00:15:07And my fiance's name is Mido.
00:15:09And he's an Egyptian movie star.
00:15:11I love you.
00:15:14He's already asking if I would be willing to, like, move.
00:15:19Move where?
00:15:20Hollywood, New York.
00:15:23I can't help but worry that Mido's just coming over here to become a star.
00:15:29I really want to see what this attorney gonna say if the appeal is an option.
00:15:33There's Nigerian men here in the United States.
00:15:36There are.
00:15:37But that's not the one for me.
00:15:40It's not a realistic relationship, but she thinks so.
00:15:44I'm worried about your safety.
00:15:45I mean, what if the embassy, they know something that we don't know?
00:16:03Oh, if I was a dog, wouldn't wear no button-up shirt.
00:16:10Morning.
00:16:11Good morning, Mallory.
00:16:12I'm good. How are you doing this morning?
00:16:14And I'd get all the praise I could want.
00:16:18Though I'm just chasing my tail.
00:16:22Good girl, a little bit.
00:16:23In your spot.
00:16:24Honey, that's the life for me.
00:16:28That's a good girl.
00:16:29Okay.
00:16:32Hi, how can I help you?
00:16:34I'm Debbie.
00:16:34I'm 55 years old and I'm from New Orleans, Louisiana.
00:16:38Come on.
00:16:40Good girl.
00:16:42I am an insurance agent.
00:16:45It's a pretty monotonous day in and day out career.
00:16:59I am in charge of writing new business.
00:17:03Good morning. Hi, this is Debbie.
00:17:06We have metrics that we have to hit every day.
00:17:09I was going over that quote that we did for your auto insurance.
00:17:13Walking someone through a claim.
00:17:15Anything that you can think of in the course of an insurance policy.
00:17:19We want to make sure that you are absolutely covered with all of your coverages.
00:17:23Freezing your deductibles from $500 to $1,000.
00:17:26The state of Louisiana allows for a five-year interval for an accident.
00:17:30It would be very important for you to carry higher bodily injury coverages.
00:17:36But outside of work, my life is way more exciting.
00:17:40Six years ago, I decided that I was going to take a trip to Egypt with my daughter.
00:17:44And ended up meeting the love of my life.
00:17:51My fiance's name is Vito.
00:17:53He is 41 years old.
00:17:55And he's an Egyptian movie star.
00:18:00Mito is an actor and a model.
00:18:03I mean, look at him.
00:18:05He has a fantastic smile, an absolutely gorgeous face.
00:18:09And he has a charm and a wit about him that makes all his physical attributes electrifying.
00:18:17Mito is famous.
00:18:21On social media, he's got hundreds of thousands of followers.
00:18:26People know who he is in Egypt.
00:18:31So, what kinds of movies and TV has Mito done in Egypt?
00:18:38Mito's...
00:18:40Honestly, he doesn't show me his work.
00:18:43I don't know why.
00:18:44I've asked him to send me, like, reels of stuff that he's done.
00:18:50But he says I'm not going to understand what they're saying.
00:18:53So, he keeps telling me, I'll show you when I arrive and I'll explain to you what's going on.
00:18:59But he's got hundreds of thousands of followers.
00:19:02So, obviously, he's built up some sort of following.
00:19:13Let's call Poppy. Let's call Poppy. Come on.
00:19:20Hey, Bibi.
00:19:22I'm here.
00:19:24Handsome.
00:19:25Look where I am.
00:19:27Okay. Let me see.
00:19:31Oh, my gosh.
00:19:33No, my pyramid's not finished yet. Maybe next year.
00:19:36Your pyramid is not finished yet.
00:19:38Okay.
00:19:39Yes, I'm the last emperor. You know that?
00:19:43The funnest thing about Mito is that we just have a really good banter.
00:19:49But at first, when I met Mito, he annoyed me.
00:19:54I was on a trip with my daughter, Devin, to Egypt.
00:19:58And he was our tour guide.
00:20:01He said probably one of the cheesiest things possible.
00:20:04He called me Cleopatra or some goddess.
00:20:09I don't remember which one, but it was enough that I was just like, oh, God.
00:20:16And then my daughter leans over and she's like, he's flirting with you.
00:20:22And I went, no.
00:20:25She was like, mom, he's flirting with you.
00:20:29And so we climbed into the Great Pyramid of Khufu.
00:20:34And when we were climbing down, he kissed me.
00:20:39And I was really kind of like shocked being single for so long.
00:20:44I kind of didn't know what to do with it.
00:20:47You know, he's younger than I am.
00:20:50Very handsome.
00:20:51He's very charismatic.
00:20:53It was just something that I didn't know if it was real.
00:21:00Are you nervous for your trip?
00:21:04Little bit.
00:21:05Little bit?
00:21:15What are you going to be packing?
00:21:17Tuna fish, tuna fish.
00:21:20Baby, we have tuna fish.
00:21:22You don't need to pack.
00:21:23Really? Really?
00:21:24Yes.
00:21:25I think your tuna fish speak English.
00:21:27My tuna fish speak Arabic.
00:21:28That's different.
00:21:30I miss you.
00:21:32I miss you too, baby.
00:21:34Can you print any more shots?
00:21:36Yeah, definitely.
00:21:37Send me some more of your modeling shots.
00:21:41So I can print those.
00:21:43Okay, baby. I will do.
00:21:45Okay.
00:21:47When Mido gets to America, his expectation is he definitely wants to be an actor.
00:21:52And he wants to be a major actor.
00:21:54I love you.
00:21:58Goodbye.
00:21:59And that's also a great fear.
00:22:01Because what if he arrives here and after two months realizes this is not going to be the place of
00:22:08opportunity?
00:22:09Is he going to be happy here?
00:22:27He's really photogenic.
00:22:29So he still wants to do the acting thing when he gets here?
00:22:31That's the plan.
00:22:33I don't know that the acting thing is really going to go anywhere, personally.
00:22:38I love this one.
00:22:41He's so photogenic.
00:22:42This looks like an amateur photo shoot thing for like Abercrombie and Fitch or something.
00:22:51What do you think of Mido's headshots?
00:22:55He knows how to find the light in pictures.
00:22:59To me, they don't really scream for like professional actor headshots.
00:23:03They look like Instagram model.
00:23:07I wish this one wouldn't have chopped his head off.
00:23:11I'm trying to be supportive.
00:23:13But he's already asking if I would be willing to like move.
00:23:20Move where?
00:23:23Hollywood, New York.
00:23:26He wants you to move to Hollywood with him.
00:23:29His first priority should be focus on the relationship with you.
00:23:35He's very talented.
00:23:37He loves the camera.
00:23:39The camera obviously loves him too.
00:23:45He just needs a reality check because I know that there has been a lot of weird sketchiness going on.
00:23:55Let's be real here.
00:23:57I know.
00:23:59Mido is semi-famous on social media, but he does not post me on social media at all.
00:24:08He says that social media is for work.
00:24:12And I don't get as upset that he doesn't post about me as when he posts with other women.
00:24:21That gets on my nerves.
00:24:24I need to hear him more and see him.
00:24:28Yeah.
00:24:29Not acting acting, but see how he acts.
00:24:32Right, like how he behaves.
00:24:34The relationship is going to have to be more important than the dream.
00:24:38Like if he walked it.
00:24:40Exactly.
00:24:41So to me, I don't really care what you do, so long as what you do makes you happy.
00:24:48I know that, but I still, I'm still mom.
00:24:53I still want you and your brother to be able to look at me and say, I'm proud of my
00:24:59mom.
00:25:01We are.
00:25:03And I know y'all are grown and I know that y'all are on your own, but at the
00:25:11end of it all, if I don't make y'all proud.
00:25:18My mom is a very strong woman, but that strength only goes so far.
00:25:25So I really do genuinely hope that Nito's intentions are pure.
00:25:29I mean, this is already crazy enough.
00:25:34Okay, it's good.
00:25:35Well, it's okay.
00:25:37But it's true.
00:25:40She really truly does deserve happiness and a good healthy relationship.
00:25:45I can't help but worry that Nito's just coming over here to become a star.
00:25:56My divorce with my ex-husband, Michael, was challenging for the kids.
00:26:01I don't want him to replace his dad.
00:26:04Yeah.
00:26:04If the kids tell me this is not what they want, then I'm going to have to call it quits.
00:26:11I know I've crossed some boundaries in the past while, like, drunk.
00:26:15And I just want to be really transparent with you.
00:26:18It's the respect thing.
00:26:20And, like, when it's people like Wasp who have been together, that's not cool.
00:26:53I got it.
00:26:54I am a ninja.
00:26:56So I have 50-50 custody with my ex-husband, Michael, for the boys.
00:27:01And that's what allows me to live in Pennsylvania and then work in New York City.
00:27:07I live as a high-powered career woman.
00:27:11And then I go home and, like, you know, I'm your basic baseball and football mom
00:27:15and picking up the kids, cooking dinner, getting them to all their events.
00:27:19And I don't have time for Edward.
00:27:20And that's when he typically feels not paid attention to and he gets angry.
00:27:24That's one of the fights that we really have on a frequent basis.
00:27:28And when he sees me in action, I hope that he understands why I have, you know,
00:27:33neglected to call him sometimes or I'm just too tired at the end of the night to get on a
00:27:37phone call.
00:27:41I'm very grateful for the opportunity to still get to spend some time in New York, but I personally don't
00:27:47like the hustle and bustle of every single day.
00:27:50Like, I'd rather, like, come back to Pennsylvania and relax.
00:27:58So this is my neighborhood.
00:27:59You could take a look around.
00:28:00I love the streets are tree lined and the neighbors are really nice, but mostly that it's super quiet and
00:28:06it's quite a shift for me.
00:28:09But it's just like a, it's a happier place to be than New York City.
00:28:19Derek, Cole!
00:28:21I kind of separate my mom life versus my career life.
00:28:25Cole, it's my pig.
00:28:27I...
00:28:27Derek is the oldest and he is currently 11 years old.
00:28:32And Cole is the younger one and he's 10.
00:28:35All right, so...
00:28:36All right, I'll go first.
00:28:37Okay, go.
00:28:38They don't even look like brothers.
00:28:40They look completely opposite.
00:28:43Got it.
00:28:45Derek is my little athlete and Cole...
00:28:49No!
00:28:51...is more of my artistic child.
00:28:54Loves art, loves music, loves creating things.
00:28:58Wait, do I have a PI already?
00:29:00Yeah.
00:29:02I'm out.
00:29:03But for me, I love having the contrast in their personalities in my life.
00:29:09And Derek wins.
00:29:11I missed on purpose actually.
00:29:13Good game, good game, good game.
00:29:14Good game, good game.
00:29:14Good game.
00:29:15Nice job.
00:29:17Prior to Edward, I've never let the kids meet a boyfriend in person.
00:29:24So this is one of the biggest changes that we're ever going to experience, you know?
00:29:30It's, it's been like a rollercoaster of emotions every single day.
00:29:35All right, so we know Edward's going to be here in a couple days.
00:29:38So like, I just want to like, lay out what's happening exactly.
00:29:41Because our lives are changing.
00:29:43Yeah.
00:29:43You know?
00:29:44Mm-hmm.
00:29:45So how's everybody feeling about that?
00:29:47Uh, when you first told me, um, that Edward was moving here, I was like, super excited.
00:29:55Yeah?
00:29:55What excites you about having someone live here with us?
00:29:57Dog.
00:29:58Dog.
00:29:58Oh, because I promise you a dog when Edward gets here?
00:30:01Yes.
00:30:01Mm.
00:30:03Well, we'll see.
00:30:04We'll see.
00:30:05We've been talking about this for like six months.
00:30:07I keep promising we can keep pushing the date back.
00:30:11I didn't even know they were dating for like, until like last year.
00:30:15So it's only been like a year since I've known him.
00:30:18And he's just coming to live with us.
00:30:20So it's just like, oh, like a weird reaction in my body.
00:30:26Well, I have a question.
00:30:27Yeah.
00:30:27Like when Edward comes like here, will he have like money?
00:30:32That's a good question.
00:30:34He had a job when he was there, right?
00:30:35Yeah.
00:30:36So where did he work?
00:30:37He worked at a hotel.
00:30:39Fancy hotels?
00:30:40Like resorts?
00:30:41Yeah.
00:30:41Like a resort.
00:30:42But here, we don't have like all-inclusive resorts like they do over there.
00:30:46And, you know, that skill set isn't really useful here.
00:30:50Is he gonna get an allowance?
00:30:53Probably.
00:30:53I mean, I'm gonna have to like help pay for things for him while he gets settled here.
00:30:59But, you know, the paychecks there, like, let me put this into perspective.
00:31:03The amount of money that we would, like a normal person maybe here would get for like one week is
00:31:11like what Edward would get in his country for like a whole month.
00:31:15Do you know what I mean?
00:31:16Mm-hmm.
00:31:18I'm like, a bit like nervous.
00:31:20Yeah.
00:31:21Because like, it's just gonna be like another guy coming to live with us.
00:31:24Mm-hmm.
00:31:25Like I'm not really ready because like, I met him but I don't know him.
00:31:29Yeah.
00:31:29That's like.
00:31:30It's a little scary.
00:31:31Mm-hmm.
00:31:31Yeah.
00:31:32I mean like, I don't want him to replace his dad.
00:31:36Yeah.
00:31:39I mean, I think that you have to remember like your dad's always gonna be your dad, right?
00:31:43Mm-hmm.
00:31:43And nobody's ever gonna replace him in life.
00:31:46And Edward is kind of just gonna be here as like another adult to love you guys and play with
00:31:51you.
00:31:51I'm definitely gonna say, could we take it slow?
00:31:55Not like coming in and like being like, oh, hello.
00:32:00Hello, my son.
00:32:01Mm-hmm.
00:32:02You know, I wanna make sure that like you feel comfortable.
00:32:05So I'm gonna have a conversation with Edward.
00:32:07Because if you're not happy in any way, then this isn't gonna work out for all of us, you know?
00:32:12My divorce with Michael was challenging for the kids.
00:32:17Mostly for Derek, he was a little older than Cole.
00:32:20And because of that, the boys are the number one priority in my life.
00:32:25Making sure that they feel comfortable is critical to me.
00:32:31Nothing comes above them.
00:32:33And in the 90 days, if the kids tell me this is not what they want, then I'm gonna have
00:32:37to call it quits.
00:32:38And that's just a lot of pressure on me to try to make a lot of things work in such
00:32:42a short amount of time.
00:32:44Well, let's stay positive.
00:32:47All right.
00:32:48Mm-hmm.
00:32:49All right.
00:32:54Is it your desire to fool me twice too many times?
00:33:03Uh, did you want cream?
00:33:05Yeah.
00:33:05There's like heavy cream in the fridge.
00:33:07Can you just pour some in it?
00:33:09Thanks, babe.
00:33:10Rain on fire.
00:33:13You got me flying and in circles.
00:33:20How'd you sleep?
00:33:22I slept so well.
00:33:25You woke up early.
00:33:27Yeah.
00:33:28Because we totally just passed out.
00:33:29I woke up at like 6 a.m.
00:33:31Was that about it?
00:33:32I did too.
00:33:32I woke up when you woke up.
00:33:34Yeah.
00:33:34And then we were just kind of like...
00:33:37Well, that's .
00:33:40Sorry.
00:33:43Me and Josh had sex.
00:33:45Uh, we didn't have sex that night.
00:33:47We had sex in the morning because I was dead and he was dead also.
00:33:51But yeah, I just want to feel like this again.
00:33:55Last night you were just like, I'm ready.
00:33:58Which made me happy that you...
00:33:59Yeah, you like that.
00:34:00I really like that you were...
00:34:01That's just what I like.
00:34:02That you're able to like, tell me that you want me.
00:34:05Yeah.
00:34:06I think it's that kind of like, open conversation that we just need to keep doing.
00:34:11And like, it's on me and a big way to like, say that to you.
00:34:16Because I know that you hearing that helps.
00:34:22I know that like, with Katie and I, when we don't have sex, she closes up a bit.
00:34:27And I don't have that same reaction.
00:34:30But I know that sex is so important to her.
00:34:32So I feel that she's, I think, a bit more relaxed today.
00:34:38And that's good.
00:34:39I want my other half to feel relaxed.
00:34:42I felt like, just totally different to how I felt over the past.
00:34:47Like, however long.
00:34:50Why do you think that is?
00:34:52Just...
00:34:52Like, a big thing is not having like, immigration looming over.
00:34:57Because like, pretty much every thought I've had over the past year has been, you know,
00:35:04whatever I'm thinking about, and then immigration.
00:35:07Like, it's just with you all the time.
00:35:09And now that it's happened, and I'm here, it's just a massive weight that has gone.
00:35:15And I think that when I'm stressed, sex is like another thing on the to-do list.
00:35:20Now, it feels like something I want to run into, because the stress is going away.
00:35:25Does that make sense?
00:35:26Yeah.
00:35:27I think that's good.
00:35:29Yeah.
00:35:31Love you.
00:35:35I definitely feel more connected to Josh after having sex.
00:35:39It feels like we're in a good place.
00:35:41And so, I'm hoping that in the next 90 days, we'll be more sexually compatible and ready for marriage.
00:35:49I've been feeding lies and my hands are tied
00:35:52About the secret that controls me
00:35:55So, where are we going?
00:35:57Uh, this way.
00:36:00I'm excited to show you around the neighbourhood.
00:36:03Nice.
00:36:04I think Portland is just so beautiful from what I've seen.
00:36:07Ah!
00:36:12That's cute.
00:36:13There's a goat.
00:36:16Hello!
00:36:17Hi!
00:36:18This is very cute.
00:36:20Hi!
00:36:21I'm not feeding you.
00:36:22Aww!
00:36:24No donuts.
00:36:26No donuts!
00:36:28I love...
00:36:29We should watch a goat someday.
00:36:31Yeah.
00:36:31He has a collar, like a dog.
00:36:33I feel like that's very Portland.
00:36:35It's like urban goat farm.
00:36:36Yeah.
00:36:37That's so cute.
00:36:39Okay.
00:36:40Anyways.
00:36:41So, what do you want to do tonight?
00:36:43Um, I have a surprise welcome party planned for you.
00:36:48Oh wow!
00:36:49That'd be fun.
00:36:49Yeah.
00:36:49I wanted to tell you ahead of time.
00:36:51Yeah.
00:36:51Because surprise parties are weird, but...
00:36:52Yeah.
00:36:53Who's going to be there?
00:36:54Um, I think it's just like running club people.
00:36:57Christine, Claire, Danica, Eddie.
00:37:01Yeah.
00:37:01Like, um, let me think.
00:37:03Yeah.
00:37:03It's like Mark, you know, like how we're dated.
00:37:06Like, casually dated for like two weeks.
00:37:07Well, I know the story of in Pac.
00:37:10Okay.
00:37:11So you remember.
00:37:14I think I made out with 90% of the single men at the run club.
00:37:21Have any of these make-outs happened after you already in a relationship with Josh?
00:37:25Yeah.
00:37:26Some of the make-outs have happened after I met and was already in a relationship with Josh.
00:37:35I know I've done things that haven't been fair to you like in the past while like drunk
00:37:39and crossed some boundaries.
00:37:41So I just like wanted to like start off Portland.
00:37:44Just, I don't know.
00:37:46I just want to be really transparent with you.
00:37:49I'm not really a jealous person.
00:37:51It's the respect thing.
00:37:52And like when it's people whilst we've been together, that's not cool.
00:37:58It's really hard for me to resist kissing other people.
00:38:01Like the compulsion part of OCD is like you do a thing to like neutralize the obsession.
00:38:07But then when you do the compulsion, it actually makes it all worse.
00:38:11And then it turns into a time-consuming, stressful, useless cycle.
00:38:17I know that Josh forgives me when I make out with people.
00:38:21But sometimes I'm worried, oh, is this the last time?
00:38:24Like I don't think I could do it every week or I don't even want, I don't want to do
00:38:28it every week.
00:38:29But I don't think I could do it like for the next like few years and have him forgive me
00:38:33every time.
00:38:34I feel like I'm in a good headspace with us.
00:38:37Nice.
00:38:38Especially after last night, because I know I've been particularly unhinged in London.
00:38:45Yeah.
00:38:46And I'll try to let you know before we start drinking what kind of headspace I am in in the
00:38:50future.
00:38:52I feel like I've come to the US willing to like have a new chapter with Katie and move forwards.
00:38:58And we've got these 90 days to prove to each other that we're here and we're here with like meaning
00:39:05and intent.
00:39:06Katie needs to settle down a bit and have some level of stability or this relationship.
00:39:12It won't work.
00:39:13And I think she just needs to curb the bull .
00:39:32The love that you're laying down, it is a part of the other side's plan.
00:39:43We won't run.
00:39:45We won't hide.
00:39:48We won't live like a broken angel.
00:39:56All right, Mom.
00:39:58I'm about to go see that attorney about Maxwell.
00:40:02So you think the attorney going to be able to work things out?
00:40:05I don't know.
00:40:06I hope so.
00:40:07How is Maxwell handling this situation?
00:40:09I mean, he devastated.
00:40:11You know, he already started the moving process.
00:40:14You know, he got his stuff ready to go.
00:40:16You know, he done made his plans.
00:40:17He done told his family.
00:40:18So right now, I'm just going to talk to his attorney and see what options they give us.
00:40:25It never crossed my mind for a second that that application would be denied,
00:40:30because I have God on my side.
00:40:32I feel very upset, enraged, and angry.
00:40:37Well, if this attorney don't work, who would you do next?
00:40:39I don't know.
00:40:40We're going to have to get some advice from them.
00:40:42The appeal would be the best option, and we can get another person to interview them.
00:40:47And then hopefully, we don't have to restart this process over again.
00:40:51So I guess I'm going to head on out.
00:40:53I don't want to be late.
00:40:54And then I got to pick up Rod.
00:40:55Where Rod at?
00:40:56At the coffee shop, honey.
00:40:58But I feel like he'll have good expertise on, you know, trying to help me navigate everything.
00:41:02Yeah.
00:41:02Yeah.
00:41:03He will.
00:41:06Rod is my god brother.
00:41:09So we have a really close relationship, like almost as if he was my real brother.
00:41:15And he treats me as so.
00:41:17Is Rod overly protective of you?
00:41:19Rod is crazy.
00:41:21So I kid you not.
00:41:23Hey, Rod.
00:41:24I'm outside.
00:41:25I'm over here to the left.
00:41:26And I hope you got me some coffee.
00:41:27OK.
00:41:28All right.
00:41:28Bye-bye.
00:41:30When I first told Rod about Maxwell, he was a little confused, I think.
00:41:38As far as like, how did you meet this man?
00:41:40And then Rod is stuck on Nigerians or scammers rather than looking at the one person who is Maxwell.
00:41:49What up, Rod?
00:41:50Hey.
00:41:51Hey.
00:41:52You OK?
00:41:54Yeah.
00:41:59I'm glad you able to go with me today.
00:42:01I really want to see what this attorney going to say if the appeal is an option.
00:42:05Mm-hmm.
00:42:08Tell me.
00:42:10American men, you just gave up.
00:42:16No, I'm not saying I gave up on American men.
00:42:19There's Nigerian men here in the United States.
00:42:22There are.
00:42:23But that's not the one for me.
00:42:27But to go back to all the guys I tried to hook you up with, all these type of guys
00:42:33that wasn't...
00:42:33You had a big, tall list.
00:42:35And this guy is none of that, so...
00:42:38Oh, don't do that.
00:42:39Now, he's most of that.
00:42:42As far back as I can remember, I've had this list of characteristics I want my husband to have.
00:42:49I had an AOL account when I first made that list, so you know how old that was.
00:42:54Every time that I would come in contact with a guy that, like, had a flaw or something I didn't
00:42:59like,
00:42:59I'll just keep adding and adding to this list.
00:43:02Honey, that list was everywhere.
00:43:07Like, the list was everywhere.
00:43:09Do you have that list?
00:43:11It's on my phone.
00:43:12Oh, go get it.
00:43:13Yeah, girl, go get that list.
00:43:14Oh, okay, well, hold on, girl.
00:43:16It's stuff every man just about should possess.
00:43:21So here we go.
00:43:23First, no smoking, no drinking, no kids, great job, has ambition.
00:43:29I don't want him, like, just so diehard God that you can't have fun, you know?
00:43:33Now, understanding, organized, because I'm not organized, athletic built, great lover.
00:43:39I don't like men with big feet, wealthy, knows his purpose, good hygiene, good hair, pretty teeth.
00:43:50I put love God again, so I guess I just really want that to be on the list.
00:43:54But that's just part of it.
00:43:55It was long.
00:43:58It was long.
00:43:59Like, one of my friend's mom was like, girl, you need to burn that list.
00:44:04Like, get rid of that list.
00:44:05You'll never get a husband like this.
00:44:06You more worried about the list than me.
00:44:08Well, I'm worried about your safety.
00:44:11This is a scary situation for everybody.
00:44:14A scary situation for everybody, a scary situation for you.
00:44:20Let's just keep it real, you know?
00:44:22It should be a scary situation for everybody, because there's so much unknown.
00:44:27It is a lot of unknown.
00:44:29I mean, what if the embassy, they know something that we don't know?
00:44:36Aisha's biological clock is ticking, and she thinks she should be married by now.
00:44:41And I think she's rushing into this.
00:44:43I don't really know the guy, so I don't want to say that he's a bad guy.
00:44:48But it's not a realistic relationship.
00:44:50But she thinks so.
00:44:53I'm just trying to protect you, but I don't know.
00:44:56I don't know.
00:44:57I feel like this ain't the time for protection.
00:45:00I feel like this is the time where it need to be support.
00:45:04Looking out for your well-being and support.
00:45:09I feel like Rod has lost his mind about questioning my choices.
00:45:14It's hurtful that he does not think that I'm wise enough to make good decisions.
00:45:21And we already have enough problems with this denial.
00:45:24So the last thing I need is Rod saying nay, nay, nay.
00:45:28Are you determined to get your man to the U.S.?
00:45:31Oh, 100%, 110%.
00:45:36Maybe the way that I thought it was going to be done is different than what God had planned.
00:45:42But at the end of the day, I'm getting Maxwell to the USA.
00:45:46I don't know.
00:45:47Everything is just a question mark for me.
00:45:49I mean, what is the rush?
00:45:50What is the rush?
00:45:53What is the rush?
00:45:55Oh, the sugar slipped in my coffee cup.
00:46:00You're the sweet, warm dough.
00:46:03I can't get enough.
00:46:05Hey, pretty precious.
00:46:07Hey, pretty girl.
00:46:08What's that little girl doing?
00:46:10Is she being snuggly?
00:46:12There you are.
00:46:13Papi doesn't want you sleeping in the bed.
00:46:15Mito wants you sleeping out in your own spot.
00:46:18What?
00:46:20Okay.
00:46:20We're going to find a spot just for you.
00:46:22I'm your chicory mama.
00:46:25I don't take long to brew.
00:46:30Cause your chicory mama always had a girl.
00:46:34Where's that big girl?
00:46:36Where's my pretty girl?
00:46:38All right, sweetheart.
00:46:38I'll be home in a little bit.
00:46:40Little bit.
00:46:42Mito has set rules for Little Bit that she cannot sleep in the bed with him.
00:46:47He was in loving.
00:46:49I mean, in the Muslim faith, dogs are not to be inside your home.
00:46:56It's haram, is what they say.
00:46:59They're looked at as dirty.
00:47:02Little Bit has spent every night of her life with me in my bed.
00:47:07So I don't know how them two are going to fight that out.
00:47:17But I mean, I have not shared a bed or lived with a man in almost 20 years.
00:47:22So the dog is the least of our worries.
00:47:26Hey.
00:47:27How are you?
00:47:28How are you?
00:47:29Good to see you.
00:47:31Good girl.
00:47:32Oh my gosh.
00:47:32Girl.
00:47:33Yeah.
00:47:35Girl, how's it going?
00:47:37It's so good to see you.
00:47:39I know.
00:47:40Oh my God.
00:47:40How's it going?
00:47:42It's going pretty good.
00:47:43And how about you?
00:47:46What's going on, Debbie?
00:47:48When I tell you everything feels like it's coming 150 miles per hour.
00:47:52Well, because it is.
00:47:54What's going to be like the sleeping arrangements in the apartment?
00:47:57Like is...
00:47:57Devin's on the couch for now.
00:47:59Does he know y'all are going to be sharing a bedroom?
00:48:01Yeah.
00:48:02He...
00:48:02I think he does.
00:48:05I mean, unless he wants to sleep on the air mattress.
00:48:07So y'all have never slept in the same bed together?
00:48:10Him being Muslim, there's like some pretty tight parameters of pre-marriage and post-marriage.
00:48:17So what do Muslims believe that you're allowed to do before marriage?
00:48:21Nothing.
00:48:21So you guys have straight up never had sex?
00:48:25Never.
00:48:26Is he a virgin?
00:48:31Whoa.
00:48:34Wow.
00:48:37Mito is a 41-year-old virgin.
00:48:41He's going to kill me for saying that.
00:48:44I mean, have you ever like kissed?
00:48:47Yes.
00:48:48Okay.
00:48:50At first, because he abstained, I didn't think that he was interested in me until he explained
00:48:57to me he had never been with a woman before.
00:49:01I just found the whole situation so bizarre.
00:49:04Because how do you believe a 30-something-year-old that's telling you this?
00:49:10From the U.S.?
00:49:11Where are you going to find that?
00:49:14Or at least you're not going to find somebody that's going to admit it.
00:49:19How old is he?
00:49:2041.
00:49:22Wow.
00:49:24And I know, I've actually had people tell me, I don't believe you.
00:49:29Why were you surprised?
00:49:31Because I'm a slut.
00:49:34Sorry.
00:49:37When I hear that somebody is 40 years old and a virgin, I'm kind of skeptical.
00:49:45I mean, 40 years?
00:49:47Really?
00:49:49It's so unlikely that they even made a movie with that title.
00:49:54I just want to make sure I have this straight.
00:49:56You're going to be marrying somebody in like...
00:49:58Two and a half months.
00:49:59Two and a half months that you haven't physically seen or touched in three years.
00:50:06And you're going to sleep in the same bed with him for 90 days and not have any sex?
00:50:12That's the goal.
00:50:14Wow.
00:50:15Is it attainable?
00:50:16I have no idea.
00:50:18I give it up on the third date, girl.
00:50:20I don't know how you're going to do it.
00:50:22How do you feel about how stable your relationship has been over the last six years?
00:50:29Like, have you felt like...
00:50:31Yep.
00:50:32I mean, we're in it.
00:50:33So, I mean, at this rate...
00:50:35Yeah.
00:50:36You guys had a rough patch.
00:50:38You had a couple.
00:50:39There were some times when y'all were not all lollipops and rainbows.
00:50:43Yeah.
00:50:44No?
00:50:44That damn social media.
00:50:45With that girl.
00:50:46That social media.
00:50:47Yep.
00:50:48That girl.
00:50:51I can't believe I got to talk about this bitch.
00:50:54Um, I'm like grinding teeth to even have to bring her up.
00:51:02And she's not anywhere near him anymore?
00:51:05Not that I know of.
00:51:07And it's been over a year.
00:51:10So, we actually broke up for a while.
00:51:12He was posting, um, with this one Egyptian actress that's very famous.
00:51:19He thinks that I'm being ridiculous.
00:51:21And that this is just work.
00:51:24And that's his friend.
00:51:26I'm not dumb.
00:51:28I can definitely read a situation pretty well.
00:51:32And if something doesn't feel right, something's not right.
00:51:38I mean, I'm not deluding myself to think any of this is gonna be an easy walk.
00:51:43Right.
00:51:45The biggest thing that I'm worried about is you getting hurt.
00:51:48We know that you're in this for love, but we don't know him.
00:51:53Yeah.
00:51:53At all.
00:51:54So, we have no idea what his, like, agenda is.
00:51:59I think from the beginning, it's been a lot of blind faith with the acting, with the, the abstaining, with
00:52:08the social media battle.
00:52:10So, I really, really, really am concerned.
00:52:15But then people write books about stuff like this.
00:52:18I may get lucky enough and have the dream.
00:52:23May not.
00:52:26But I also might.
00:52:28And why not take that chance?
00:52:31This is gonna be a real trip.
00:52:34It's gonna be a real trip.
00:52:36It's gonna be a hard one.
00:52:38It's gonna be a real trip.
00:52:43Fuck?
00:52:44Yeah.
00:52:46Oh.
00:52:47A clean man is a sexy man for me.
00:52:50Alright, let's clean your ass.
00:52:52Even if I take a poop, Annabelle is trying to get me in the shower.
00:52:58You eat this one? I'm excited.
00:53:00Tonight!
00:53:01I just like his penis, a bad smell.
00:53:14I think I'm right up here, bud.
00:53:17I think that's one.
00:53:18That's not it, no.
00:53:19Okay.
00:53:20But it's over here somewhere.
00:53:21In the Philippines, it's very different.
00:53:23They're all little trucks or anything, baby.
00:53:25Everybody here's got big trucks, Philippines, little.
00:53:27This one, babe, your truck?
00:53:29Yeah, right here, baby.
00:53:31Oh, thank you.
00:53:33You're welcome.
00:53:44It's my first time to ride in the big truck.
00:53:47Very nice to ride in the big truck.
00:53:51Smooth, very smooth.
00:53:54In the Philippines, we're...
00:53:56Bang, bang, bang, bang, bang.
00:54:00Oh, so you see at the left, that's the St. Louis Arch.
00:54:05They call that the gateway to the west, because coming from our way, all the settlers would
00:54:11cross Mississippi River and they'd go west.
00:54:14It looks amazing.
00:54:16It is.
00:54:17It's like your gateway to your new life in America.
00:54:22All right, I think this is it, baby.
00:54:25It looks kind of like a church or a castle, doesn't it?
00:54:28Mm-hmm.
00:54:28Very nice.
00:54:30I don't know if I got in the parking spot right or not.
00:54:33Whew.
00:54:39Wow, this looks amazing.
00:54:43Wow.
00:54:44Hi.
00:54:45Welcome to Gothic Heights Inn.
00:54:46How's it going?
00:54:46What's your name?
00:54:47I'm Shay.
00:54:48Hi, I'm Ken.
00:54:48Welcome.
00:54:49Nice to meet you.
00:54:49This is Annabelle.
00:54:50Hi.
00:54:51Nice to meet you.
00:54:51Hello.
00:54:52Welcome.
00:54:53This is a former Methodist church that's been converted to a four-bedroom inn.
00:54:57Wow.
00:54:59I wanted Annabelle to feel special the first night.
00:55:02So, you know, I got this room and I just wanted to show her how excited I was for her
00:55:08to get here.
00:55:09I like it.
00:55:10It looks like old charts.
00:55:12I knew you'd like the stained glass.
00:55:15It's my first time to see a hotel with charts.
00:55:19So, you guys are staying in our botanical suite?
00:55:22Yeah, let's go.
00:55:22Can I show you?
00:55:23Yeah, sure.
00:55:24We'll just follow you, sir.
00:55:25But I think the things we might do tonight aren't really appropriate for a church.
00:55:30So, we might have to turn the Jesus pictures around so he's not looking at you.
00:55:35You do it.
00:55:43Wow.
00:55:45Mmm.
00:55:47Oh.
00:55:48Dang.
00:55:49Look at the bath.
00:55:50Look how big the tub is.
00:55:53Wow.
00:55:53Big bath.
00:55:54I need to make it in this.
00:55:56You can get the water going.
00:55:58A clean man is a sexy man for me.
00:56:01I'm not going to touch him if he's dirty.
00:56:04I can't wait to scrub.
00:56:06Are you ready?
00:56:07Oh.
00:56:08Yeah.
00:56:09I clean it good.
00:56:11His ass, his ball, his egg.
00:56:15What can I call it?
00:56:16Egg, no ball.
00:56:16Okay, let's go.
00:56:19All right.
00:56:19I cleaned his penis and I rub it good inside.
00:56:24I don't like his penis a bad smell.
00:56:27Hold on, we might cause a tsunami here.
00:56:31Tsunami.
00:56:32No, it's good.
00:56:34It's hot?
00:56:35Yeah.
00:56:36Oh.
00:56:38Oh.
00:56:38We started from here at the back.
00:56:41Oh.
00:56:42Good?
00:56:43Yeah.
00:56:44And the armpit.
00:56:46And it's in the chest, especially here.
00:56:51This reminds me of the Philippines.
00:56:54Yeah.
00:56:55Yeah.
00:56:55You're going to be right when I met you the first time.
00:56:57That's why you fall in love with me.
00:57:00You get this one?
00:57:01Mmm.
00:57:02I will look good.
00:57:04Get scrubbed.
00:57:05You know what I said?
00:57:05Mmm.
00:57:06Getting a ****.
00:57:07Keep scrubbing down there, but you're going to have to get in with me.
00:57:11Right?
00:57:12Yeah, I'm excited tonight.
00:57:15I'll have to admit, it was kind of a turn on.
00:57:18First time I met her, but since then, she's got a little more comfortable with it.
00:57:22And, you know, I have to tell her, just calm down.
00:57:25And you get real fast.
00:57:28She scratched me several times, like, where it hurt and left a mark.
00:57:35Okay, let's clean your ass.
00:57:38Then you're going to get me your ass.
00:57:39Even if I take a poop, Annabelle is trying to get me in the shower or a wet rag.
00:57:46And I'm like, that's not what we do here.
00:57:49The Philippines, after you poop, you wash with water.
00:57:53Toilet paper works good, too, but we can't take a bath every time we use a restroom, baby.
00:58:00Can I check your toenail, babe?
00:58:02Oh, yeah.
00:58:04Okay.
00:58:05How do they look, babe?
00:58:06Long, but still can't manage my baby.
00:58:10Toenails is very important to cut it.
00:58:13If his toenails get too long, he scratch on my legs.
00:58:18They look good?
00:58:18Yeah.
00:58:19I don't mind you clipping my toenails, because it's definitely something I don't enjoy doing.
00:58:27I want to try some champagne, baby.
00:58:29Oh!
00:58:30Oh, baby.
00:58:35It's my first time in America, but you want to get my face off.
00:58:39Enough, baby.
00:58:43Okay.
00:58:48Yeah, very good taste, baby.
00:58:50Yeah.
00:58:52Mmm!
00:58:56Tastes good.
00:58:57Let me taste the champagne, babe.
00:58:58Mmm.
00:59:00Mmm.
00:59:01When it comes to sex, usually Annabelle tells me what to do, what she wants.
00:59:07Yeah, yum-yum.
00:59:09Yum-yum, this one, yum-yum.
00:59:14I am 54 years old, but my sex drive is like a 25 years old woman.
00:59:22Of course.
00:59:24It's been two years.
00:59:25I did not make love to Shea.
00:59:27It's time to get dirty.
00:59:30Mmm.
00:59:30Sounds interesting, man.
00:59:39I miss you too much, baby.
00:59:47Mmm.
00:59:50Oh, baby.
00:59:52Grab me.
00:59:54Yum-yum.
00:59:55Oh, my God.
00:59:57Oh, my God.
00:59:57Every able-bodied suit.
01:00:00Amen.
01:00:02And amen.
01:00:04Thank you, Lord.
01:00:09Hello, hello.
01:00:11How are you?
01:00:12Doing well, Asha.
01:00:12Good.
01:00:13Share around.
01:00:13I do not take no for an answer at all.
01:00:16If there is a solution, oh, I'm gonna find it.
01:00:20Another option would be you could get married.
01:00:23She do not need to, like, go get married to try to rush this thing or anything, does she?
01:00:27If you're gonna be on the board and be support, be support.
01:00:30I'm being supportive.
01:00:31No, not really.
01:00:34Love.
01:00:36Love.
01:00:37Oh, love.
01:00:37Don't give up.
01:00:39Oh, love.
01:00:41Keep on looking up.
01:00:45Cause you're wide for we go.
01:00:47Oh, the devil we know.
01:00:49Oh, the devil we know.
01:00:53Oh, wow.
01:00:54Love.
01:00:55Immigration.
01:00:55So you're looking at how love's sticking out right there.
01:00:58Yeah, I'm already, I'm not impressed.
01:01:00I feel some type of way already.
01:01:02You better get some love in your heart.
01:01:03I feel like this is a marketing scheme here with the word love.
01:01:07I love it.
01:01:08I think it's cute.
01:01:10All right.
01:01:13I'll pray for you, pray for me.
01:01:22Ready?
01:01:23Hello, good morning.
01:01:24How can I help you today?
01:01:26Yes, I had an appointment.
01:01:27If you follow after me, I can show you where that's at.
01:01:30Okay, thank you.
01:01:31Yeah.
01:01:32I'm the type of person, I do not take no for an answer at all.
01:01:37Because if there is a solution, oh, I'm going to find it.
01:01:41Right this way.
01:01:43Hello, hello.
01:01:45How are you?
01:01:46Doing well, Asha.
01:01:47Jeremy.
01:01:47Ideally, I would love for this attorney to say it's a possibility that this case can go back to the
01:01:55embassy.
01:01:55That I do not have to restart this process because I just feel like this case went before the right
01:02:00person.
01:02:01Then it could convince anybody that the relationship is real because the relationship is real.
01:02:06How are y'all doing today?
01:02:06We're doing good.
01:02:07Good, good.
01:02:08Well, I know a little bit about the situation from when the appointment was made.
01:02:12But I'll let you start off.
01:02:13How can I help you?
01:02:14I really do hope you can help us because I feel like my story is more special than any story
01:02:19because it was God our day.
01:02:20Wow, okay.
01:02:22So my fiance's name is Maxwell, and I introduced my best friend to his best friend.
01:02:28Right.
01:02:28And so we did the entire K-1 visa process together.
01:02:32Right.
01:02:32So when they went in for their interview, the guy was like, there's no way two friends are engaged to
01:02:41two friends.
01:02:41So he felt like we were helping them get to America.
01:02:44So they denied it.
01:02:46So I just want to know about the appeal process.
01:02:49Have you ever done an appeal?
01:02:51There's not really an appeal process that we could go through.
01:02:56Without a shadow of a doubt, there's no possibility of an appeal.
01:03:00Not in this situation.
01:03:03Applying for this visa is taking almost two years of our lives away.
01:03:08And literally, me, him, his family has spent thousands of dollars on this visa.
01:03:13And then for what?
01:03:15I was hoping for an appeal.
01:03:17The attorney is saying that's not an option.
01:03:20And I just feel, you know, defeated, disgusted, irritated.
01:03:24Like, this is unreal.
01:03:27The options that I see going forward is that you could file another K-1 petition.
01:03:33Another option would be you could get married.
01:03:37And you could file the CR-1 spousal petition.
01:03:40So you'd have to go there and get married.
01:03:42And you could file a petition as a spouse.
01:03:44She do not need to, like, go get married to try to rush this thing or anything, does she?
01:03:49No, she definitely does not have to go get married in order to get this case approved and get him
01:03:53here.
01:03:54So you would recommend to her that she don't need to...
01:03:57No, don't coach him.
01:03:58No, you're good.
01:03:59My job is to let you know what your options are.
01:04:01And then y'all make the decision.
01:04:04If you're going to be on the board and be support, be support.
01:04:07I'm being supportive.
01:04:07No, not really.
01:04:09Yeah, I'm supportive.
01:04:10But supportive is you first.
01:04:15I'm sorry, attorney, love.
01:04:16I'm sorry.
01:04:17I'm just making sure.
01:04:19I'm just making sure.
01:04:22I don't want Asha to go over and marry this guy in Nigeria at all.
01:04:28It doesn't give me an opportunity to really see who this guy really is.
01:04:33I'm her protector.
01:04:34I don't want her to be scammed or I don't want her to be hurt either.
01:04:39What would you say the K-1, like, how long do you think versus the CR-1?
01:04:44So the K-1 right now, and it really varies, but you're looking at probably around a year
01:04:49and a half.
01:04:50Okay.
01:04:51Now, if we do the other process, the CR-1, you're looking at probably around two years
01:04:55or so.
01:04:56I would doubt what I would think.
01:04:57If I go through this process and then you're saying a year to two, is there a possibility
01:05:02that it might be denied for any reason?
01:05:06It's possible.
01:05:07Ooh, that ain't what I want to hear.
01:05:11Because there were some immigration issues in the past where there was actually findings
01:05:17of fraud or misrepresentation, they could still find that again.
01:05:22I mean, so what options are they leaving us?
01:05:24Literally, for me to marry Maxwell, live thousands of miles away and continue life like that, that's
01:05:31that doesn't even make sense.
01:05:32I'm 38.
01:05:33My biological clock is ticking.
01:05:35I do not have time for this.
01:05:36I literally came to this meeting looking for answers, and at the end of the day, I'm left
01:05:41with more questions.
01:05:43Well, I have a lot of things to think about.
01:05:45Of course, we'll discuss, and hopefully, we can get them here.
01:05:49I truly believe, you know, and I stand on it, and I have faith in God that this relationship
01:05:55is going to work, but I just don't know how.
01:05:58Yeah.
01:06:04Yay!
01:06:09I don't know if they'll look at me just like, like I'm an idiot, or?
01:06:15We've known Katie for a while.
01:06:16She does come with that level of craziness where you're like, okay, hold on, like, let's
01:06:20slow down.
01:06:21Like, what are you doing here?
01:06:22I'm not sure whether it's one of those situations where everyone else in the room knows something
01:06:28and they don't want to tell me.
01:06:34First in late, end of play, and everyone was like, oh my God.
01:06:39That's the way.
01:06:41Came in strong, out the gate, and you got me like.
01:06:46Okay.
01:06:47Is this the place?
01:06:48Yes, it is.
01:06:50Are you excited?
01:06:51Yes.
01:06:54Pretty good!
01:07:02You got me like, oh my God.
01:07:05Hey!
01:07:08Hey!
01:07:16Look out, look out.
01:07:18Nice, nice.
01:07:20I actually wore it through the immigration.
01:07:23Okay, I'm joking.
01:07:24Do you feel like an American now?
01:07:27Um, I'm getting there!
01:07:28Like, I feel less British every day.
01:07:33Tonight, Katie's throwing me a welcome party,
01:07:35which is such a lovely gesture.
01:07:38Um, but there are a couple of people
01:07:41that she has made out with before,
01:07:44and that might be really awkward.
01:07:47I don't know.
01:07:48I don't know if they'll look at me just like...
01:07:50like I'm an idiot, or...
01:07:56OK.
01:07:57I'm about to get drinks.
01:07:59Yes.
01:07:59Ooh, if you put me to the Aquila shuttle,
01:08:01I'll do it with you.
01:08:03So, Katie's obviously gonna have a few drinks.
01:08:06Um, she thinks she can drink anyone under the table,
01:08:10and she can't.
01:08:13Um, so...
01:08:14I need Katie to just show me
01:08:16that she's getting her act together,
01:08:18and that being here and going into marriage
01:08:21is not gonna be the same story that we've had.
01:08:25I don't think Katie should think that
01:08:27my forgiveness is unlimited.
01:08:32What's going on, girl?
01:08:34How are you doing?
01:08:35I'm doing great.
01:08:36What about you?
01:08:37Josh is here.
01:08:39Yeah, did you like his new look?
01:08:40I like the new look.
01:08:44I knew Katie all of a week before we hooked up,
01:08:47and...
01:08:49She's a...
01:08:50She's a lioness on the prowl.
01:08:53If you're just close enough,
01:08:54she'll just like go in that extra step for the kiss.
01:08:57Made out with me.
01:08:58Uh, Katie is made out with my roommate
01:09:01at this party that I'm aware of, uh, myself.
01:09:06She's kissed me.
01:09:07She's kissed Bella, Fred, and our Josh.
01:09:11British Josh.
01:09:12Like, I had to ban her from sticking her tongue in my mouth
01:09:14because I...
01:09:15That's...
01:09:15That's too much.
01:09:17That's...
01:09:17Yeah.
01:09:19Dude, it's your turn for darts.
01:09:22Oh, boy.
01:09:22Okay.
01:09:23We will chat later.
01:09:25Yeah, yeah.
01:09:26Can I steal you for a sec?
01:09:27Can I steal you for a sec?
01:09:29Can I steal you for a sec?
01:09:31Nice.
01:09:33Well, that's good.
01:09:35Like that.
01:09:36Wait, really?
01:09:36Like...
01:09:37I'm not gonna hurt anyone.
01:09:39Like...
01:09:40Like...
01:09:40I mean, no, no, no.
01:09:42Like, you like pull, like...
01:09:45Oh, yeah.
01:09:47This is actually fun.
01:09:48How was picking him up?
01:09:50I surprised him with the America decorations.
01:09:52Yes.
01:09:52I love that he's into that.
01:09:54What's the biggest culture shock
01:09:55when you first visited Portland?
01:09:57Oh...
01:09:58That's...
01:09:58I mean, just generally,
01:09:59how people communicate.
01:10:01Like, I've been trying very hard
01:10:03to be less, like...
01:10:04like, closed and reserved
01:10:06because I think Americans are quite, um...
01:10:09You know, you say what you think.
01:10:12Yeah.
01:10:12When we went home,
01:10:14we, like, got ready for bed
01:10:15and we were gonna...
01:10:17We did not have sex in the night,
01:10:20but in the morning we had sex.
01:10:25For you guys,
01:10:25how does it feel to see Katie
01:10:26after, I don't know,
01:10:27when you asked for the cena?
01:10:28Oh, it's different.
01:10:29Oh, she's had, like,
01:10:30these quick in and outs,
01:10:32you know, over the time.
01:10:33Yeah.
01:10:33And, like,
01:10:34we've known Katie for a while.
01:10:35She's...
01:10:36She's built...
01:10:37Bit of a loose cannon, right?
01:10:39Like...
01:10:39What does that mean?
01:10:42Well, she was just so,
01:10:44like, loose before.
01:10:46Just, like, very much just, like,
01:10:48everything was a party, yes.
01:10:51100%, like,
01:10:52she was just going off the rails.
01:10:55Yeah.
01:10:57So, I'm not sure whether
01:10:58it's one of those situations
01:11:00where everyone else in the room
01:11:01knows something
01:11:03and they don't want to tell me.
01:11:05On the other hand,
01:11:07we excluded everyone
01:11:08that Katie's kissed
01:11:09from being friends.
01:11:11Then we would have a friendship of two,
01:11:13which would be Katie and I.
01:11:16We had some good conversations
01:11:17about, like,
01:11:19how...
01:11:19what I need
01:11:20versus what he needs,
01:11:21um, in that, like,
01:11:23he said he'll be, like,
01:11:24more sexually available
01:11:25and, like, more open to that.
01:11:27Yeah.
01:11:27And I promise, like,
01:11:28I'm going to stop,
01:11:30like, get too drunk
01:11:30and seek out attention.
01:11:32When she's going about
01:11:34all these wild, crazy stunts,
01:11:35like, how have you dealt with that?
01:11:37As in, like, why am I...
01:11:39Like, what? Like,
01:11:41you're moving halfway
01:11:42around the world.
01:11:43Like, that's a huge change.
01:11:44For me to make this commitment
01:11:45of kind of leaving my home country,
01:11:47I need to know
01:11:48it's going somewhere.
01:11:50Yeah.
01:11:51And I feel that with Katie.
01:11:53But she does come with that level
01:11:56of craziness where you're like,
01:11:57okay, hold on.
01:11:58Like, let's, uh,
01:11:59let's slow down.
01:12:00Like, what are you doing here?
01:12:00Type thing.
01:12:01I don't know.
01:12:02I think you just...
01:12:02You roll through those punches
01:12:04way better than I ever could.
01:12:09What stuck out about, uh,
01:12:11Josh tonight was, uh,
01:12:13his, uh,
01:12:14that he's...
01:12:14he's all in.
01:12:15Yeah, let's go get another drink.
01:12:17Yes, I'd love that.
01:12:18He's got his...
01:12:19his heart and his mind,
01:12:21you know, just in the correct place.
01:12:22But I am worried that
01:12:24she will make big mistakes.
01:12:27Okay.
01:12:27Hey, babe.
01:12:29Katie can be wild.
01:12:30You know, she'll drive the crowd,
01:12:32um, you know,
01:12:33just push everybody to like,
01:12:34you know, let's all go karaoke.
01:12:36You know, let's all make out.
01:12:37And once she's been drinking
01:12:38a certain amount,
01:12:39I mean, that definitely, uh,
01:12:41gets cranked up.
01:12:44We saw you and Mark and Josh talking.
01:12:47I just played the label
01:12:48at the ex-lovers chat.
01:12:49Okay.
01:12:50I guess you're not my ex-lover.
01:12:52What were you guys talking about?
01:12:54They were, like, essentially,
01:12:55like, checking,
01:12:56checking in with me,
01:12:57um, like,
01:12:58seeing how I'm doing,
01:13:00like, um...
01:13:01Why?
01:13:02Or, like, how'd it go?
01:13:04It went great.
01:13:06Like, I...
01:13:07It doesn't bug you.
01:13:10That we banged before.
01:13:13I banged both Josh and Mark one time.
01:13:16Not one time.
01:13:17Like, three times.
01:13:19No.
01:13:21You're not insecure?
01:13:23I mean, like,
01:13:24do you want to be with me?
01:13:25Yeah.
01:13:26Okay, well, there we go.
01:13:27I feel like sometimes I feel like,
01:13:29oh, maybe I'll think about, like,
01:13:33the chemistry I used to have,
01:13:35or, like, a brief thought will cross my mind.
01:13:39Sorry?
01:13:39But it's more of, like,
01:13:41oh, I know that didn't work out, like...
01:13:45Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:13:48Well, I hope you guys can, like, hang out.
01:13:50Yeah, no, we're planning to.
01:13:52Uh, yeah, that's good.
01:13:56Sometimes Katie can say something
01:14:00in the hope that it will become true.
01:14:03And I hope that this isn't one of those situations
01:14:06and I don't want to be living in a relationship
01:14:10where I'm second-guessing things.
01:14:12You know, this would have been a massive waste of my time
01:14:15and money and emotions to come here
01:14:18for, um, me to be made a fool of.
01:14:21Katie needs to prove her commitment to me and to us
01:14:25or this relationship.
01:14:26It won't work.
01:14:28Um, should we go that way?
01:14:30How do you feel?
01:14:31I feel like it's time to go that way.
01:14:33Can you have a good night tonight?
01:14:47Really?
01:14:48There's a strong possibility that this is all going to fall apart.
01:14:54Baby, you know, you understand what's wrong.
01:14:57I need 10 days.
01:15:01I'm really worried.
01:15:02It's just maybe too much.
01:15:28I've been trying to get in touch with Mido and haven't been able to get through.
01:15:35Mido's flight is tomorrow.
01:15:38There's a strong possibility that he's not going to be on that flight
01:15:43and this is all going to fall apart.
01:15:52What's that night?
01:15:54Because you made me lose my mind.
01:16:00Now I stand to lose my mind.
01:16:05Can you wait for me too?
01:16:11It's been a couple days since I heard from Mido.
01:16:16It's been tough.
01:16:19Um, his father's not well, we don't know what the diagnosis may be.
01:16:28His father is going through a series of tests,
01:16:30but there's still ways to go before we have any idea
01:16:35what this is actually going to be.
01:16:37I know he's stressed.
01:16:39I know he's got a million and one things going on.
01:16:42At the same point, I'm not getting much communication.
01:16:47I definitely go times without hearing from Mito
01:16:50because he is just the type of person
01:16:52that he needs that break from people.
01:16:57When Mito goes silent, it can last a couple of days,
01:17:00two, three days.
01:17:01That part of his personality was hard to become accustomed to.
01:17:06And when he is in his mode of no contact,
01:17:11it becomes frustrating.
01:17:15We're about 20-something hours away from the flight,
01:17:19so him changing the ticket at this point in the game,
01:17:22I don't think it's logical.
01:17:28There's a lot of unknowns going on at the moment.
01:17:30We're about 20 minutes on.
01:18:06How are you doing, baby?
01:18:09Not good.
01:18:14What's wrong?
01:18:16Baby, you know, you understand what's wrong.
01:18:19I just, I'm trying to be there, baby.
01:18:22I don't know what to say.
01:18:25Did you talk with the doctor?
01:18:32I'm not trying to, like, aggravate you.
01:18:35I'm just trying to be there.
01:18:45Why do you, what will, baby, what will be done in 10 days that it's not done now?
01:18:52When there's a doctor, they will come.
01:18:55Mito, what do you want me to do?
01:18:57I told you, I told you.
01:19:00I told you need just two weeks.
01:19:03If something happens, not you to return back.
01:19:08I told you that.
01:19:10Do you want me to check the airlines to find out how much the ticket would be for you to
01:19:15go later?
01:19:16You can't do that?
01:19:17I don't know what I can do.
01:19:19I don't know what you want me to do.
01:19:23Okay, please, and I hope to find something after two weeks.
01:19:28Okay.
01:19:30Mito's extremely agitated at the moment, and I definitely am concerned that he's getting cold feet about coming to America.
01:19:38It just feels to me like it's just always something, and I'm tired.
01:19:46Bye-bye.
01:19:47Bye-bye.
01:19:54At what point do you decide on a journey or on a decision what's a test of a commitment, and
01:20:03what's a sign of something that's just not meant to be?
01:20:09And I'm not sure where to put that anymore.
01:20:14I'm really worried that Mito's not going to get on that flight.
01:20:20I'm really worried when it's going to be time.
01:20:47I'm really worried it's just made me too much.
01:20:56Next time on 90 Day Fiancé.
01:20:59This is my miniatures.
01:21:01This is my miniatures.
01:21:01I like to collect tiny things.
01:21:04They are a tool for manifestation.
01:21:06It's a toilet.
01:21:08Oops.
01:21:08There's a poop here.
01:21:09I always wanted to get married with a gringo.
01:21:14The universe introduced me, Thomas.
01:21:17Welcome to my city!
01:21:25Polly gives the universe way too much credit.
01:21:28I'm so happy.
01:21:30I love you so much.
01:21:31Especially when it's me.
01:21:35When I be there, I can't work.
01:21:37For a little bit.
01:21:38Yeah.
01:21:39We are now on our way to America.
01:21:43If my mom called me like, Rashid, can you send me like 10,000 Turkish Lira?
01:21:50People think Americans are so rich.
01:21:53But my parents need to help.
01:21:56I don't make that much money.
01:22:00Oh, hey guys!
01:22:03When I walk in, I can't believe that it's a mess.
01:22:07We're probably going to head on home.
01:22:09Can we get a couple of dollars?
01:22:12Here you go.
01:22:14Okay, bye guys!
01:22:15It should be the children taking of the parents, not the parents who are taking care of the
01:22:23children.
01:22:24It's just a few dollars.
01:22:27You need to fix.
01:22:28But that's my daughter.
01:22:30I don't care.
01:22:34I'm worried about how the dynamic of our family is going to change.
01:22:38I'm going to keep it real.
01:22:40She's 32 years old, and she's about to be 46 years old.
01:22:44I just want to make sure that, you know, she's not being taken advantage of, and the boys
01:22:48don't get hurt.
01:22:49Especially when it comes to my kids, I'll bite someone's face off of my kids.
01:22:56My thoughts are racing.
01:22:57I can't even put words to exactly how I'm feeling.
01:23:02Today is the day that Mito is supposed to arrive.
01:23:06Either he is coming over, and we are going to build a life, or there's no place left to
01:23:13go.
01:23:14I think I'm going to be sad for you.
01:23:20I think I'm going to be sad for you.
01:23:21I don't like it.
01:23:23Just look.
01:23:25I think you've got how I am.
01:23:26I think I'm probably mad for something.
01:23:28So playing around the world today or just on the nextей stage.
01:23:30Then you might be very Abddd unit with bad friends.
01:23:31And the rest!
01:23:31You can still hear the right person family, so you look after them, before nay I know
01:23:32But you get the right person on the weekend in the world, because on the visit
01:23:32You
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