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Love Is Blind Season 10 Episode 11
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00:00:00Let's go from this.
00:00:03Yay!
00:00:04Our marriage wasn't easy.
00:00:07Easy peasy.
00:00:11Five, six, seven, and here comes the thing.
00:00:16Now you can take her.
00:00:17Nice!
00:00:18Up, turn, out.
00:00:19That was beautiful.
00:00:20And then just together.
00:00:22Ooh, yeah.
00:00:22I like it.
00:00:39Oh, did you give me flowers?
00:00:42I did.
00:00:43Oh.
00:00:45Oh, thank you.
00:00:47Of course.
00:00:48So today we are, as you can hear,
00:00:51I love to show off.
00:00:54I love that.
00:00:55Got a nice dinner plan.
00:00:57Final date before the wedding.
00:00:59Kind of crazy.
00:01:01Meeting with a fan.
00:01:03That was, like, one of the best nights of my life.
00:01:04How Tina and Brandon opened up their home,
00:01:06like, he wanted to show you his bourbon collection,
00:01:08and, like, Tina's, like, go upstairs,
00:01:09and we have fresh towels, and we have this,
00:01:10and we have that.
00:01:11It's, like, how they showed up for us in that moment
00:01:15is how I expect, like, us to show up for others,
00:01:18too, as a household.
00:01:20You want someone to feel at home in your home.
00:01:22It's so important to me to, like, create a home like that.
00:01:26Yes, same.
00:01:27So with G-Man.
00:01:28I try to call him...
00:01:29Mr. McNeese.
00:01:30I try to send a certain niece.
00:01:31I knew he was going to be, like,
00:01:34oh, my gosh, I have to come in, like,
00:01:37the iron fist of, like, Bree's dad,
00:01:39and, like, my baby girl is getting married.
00:01:41Like, I need to be so critical.
00:01:44You're choosing.
00:01:45Like, are you laughing at me, or are you happy?
00:01:47No, I just...
00:01:48I'm so...
00:01:48Like, it's just, like, so weird to me.
00:01:50I'm, like, being so honest.
00:01:51I feel like, weirdly, me and him are, like,
00:01:54a lot more alike than either of us, whatever,
00:01:56maybe admit.
00:01:57Even just, like, little mannerisms.
00:01:59It's, like, slightly look over,
00:02:00make sure, like, you're good,
00:02:01and just, like, always holding the door,
00:02:04paying for stuff.
00:02:05I don't know.
00:02:06I feel like he can see me as a normal guy.
00:02:09It was just really nice.
00:02:10We just kept talking about stuff,
00:02:11and he's like, oh, she'll do that.
00:02:13Yep.
00:02:14Oh, you already know that.
00:02:15And I think you just said at one point,
00:02:17like, I trust you kids.
00:02:18Like, even, like, when we were leaving,
00:02:19he's like, well,
00:02:20might need to get a tux or something here soon,
00:02:21don't we?
00:02:22I do know what I want,
00:02:23and I was so wanted it to be us.
00:02:25You are just, like, a boss bitch,
00:02:28and you do what you want when you want.
00:02:30And the fact that you can choose me every day
00:02:32makes me even feel confident more about myself.
00:02:35Because, like, I am, like,
00:02:37I know what I want.
00:02:37You have so much in your life.
00:02:38So, like, you're, like,
00:02:39I want this man,
00:02:40so, like, that makes you feel like,
00:02:42hell yeah, she wants me.
00:02:43Yeah, it does.
00:02:43That's interesting.
00:02:45Because, like,
00:02:45you are not getting the best of me.
00:02:48Like, I'm not myself right now.
00:02:49And it's crazy that you're falling in love
00:02:51with this part of me
00:02:52because, like, this is not my best self.
00:02:53There's going to be some days
00:02:54where you need your reset,
00:02:56but believe me,
00:02:58I won't ever take offense to it.
00:03:02You're grinding your ass off going to work,
00:03:04and I can just see,
00:03:06obviously,
00:03:06you can just feel some distresses
00:03:08that you've been under,
00:03:08but you,
00:03:09even if you come home, like,
00:03:11tired and exhausted,
00:03:11you still at least, like,
00:03:12give me a hug, give me a kiss,
00:03:13at least a little smile.
00:03:15I think even on some of my worst days,
00:03:17you know how to talk to me.
00:03:19The moments that I have,
00:03:22I've needed you,
00:03:22you've been there,
00:03:24and that means, like,
00:03:25the world to me.
00:03:27I feel like I even fall in love with you,
00:03:29like, more and more each day.
00:03:30Stop.
00:03:31Okay.
00:03:34Like, each night we get to go to sleep,
00:03:35and I'm just like,
00:03:36this is awesome.
00:03:37Each time I wake up,
00:03:38even though you're like,
00:03:39I need you to get me up earlier.
00:03:41Those five minutes in the morning
00:03:43when you finally let me cuddle you,
00:03:45because you wanted to be away from me all night.
00:03:47Okay.
00:03:47Not all night.
00:03:48Ayo.
00:03:48But, um,
00:03:50I'm just like,
00:03:51those little moments,
00:03:51I'm like,
00:03:52feels like a forever thing.
00:03:54I know you're going to be a good mom.
00:03:55And especially since we're dreamers,
00:03:57that's all I'm thinking about right now.
00:03:58I'm just like,
00:03:58yeah,
00:03:59our little left-footed midfielder,
00:04:01playing well,
00:04:02and you on the sidelines,
00:04:04cheering them on.
00:04:07Well,
00:04:07it's endless.
00:04:08If it's a six-hour train ride,
00:04:09I can feel the time
00:04:10of why you'd be a good wife.
00:04:12Okay.
00:04:12Stop it.
00:04:15Well,
00:04:15let me just,
00:04:16like,
00:04:16talk about
00:04:17why the reasons I like them.
00:04:19Okay.
00:04:19I have heard my friends
00:04:21talk about dating.
00:04:21I've heard them talk about
00:04:23marriages
00:04:23and, like,
00:04:24all these things.
00:04:25And everybody kept saying,
00:04:26like,
00:04:26when you know,
00:04:27you know.
00:04:27Talking to you.
00:04:28Like,
00:04:29and I literally had
00:04:30butterflies,
00:04:32heart palpitations,
00:04:32everything in between.
00:04:34Like,
00:04:34it was just like,
00:04:35I physically was,
00:04:36unwell.
00:04:37Like,
00:04:37I was like,
00:04:38oh my God,
00:04:39this is the feeling
00:04:40they're talking about.
00:04:40Like,
00:04:40I'm insane.
00:04:41Like,
00:04:41this is crazy.
00:04:42Yeah,
00:04:42I was like,
00:04:43done.
00:04:43She was getting married,
00:04:45put it all on Connor.
00:04:46I fell in love with you.
00:04:47If it wasn't you,
00:04:48it was nobody.
00:04:49And what's crazy is
00:04:50I know
00:04:52what it's like
00:04:53to feel loved now.
00:04:55Like,
00:04:56you
00:04:56fucking love me.
00:04:59I know you do.
00:05:01You love me.
00:05:03Like,
00:05:03you bring me flowers
00:05:04every day.
00:05:06You run down
00:05:07to the
00:05:09garage
00:05:09to greet me
00:05:10on my way
00:05:11on my way
00:05:11home from work.
00:05:12You sometimes
00:05:13are my punching bag
00:05:14and you're like,
00:05:15you're so cute
00:05:15when you do that.
00:05:17I'm being a bitch.
00:05:19Like,
00:05:19you love me.
00:05:22I'm a psycho.
00:05:25I'm crazy.
00:05:26You even call me,
00:05:27you're like,
00:05:28you're a lunatic.
00:05:28I was like,
00:05:29I know,
00:05:29and you love me.
00:05:30You're my lunatic.
00:05:31I don't have to be
00:05:32anybody who I'm not.
00:05:34Never.
00:05:34I can be me.
00:05:35You loving me
00:05:36has opened up my eyes
00:05:38to be like,
00:05:39I'm deserving of this.
00:05:41I should have somebody
00:05:42that loves every bit of me,
00:05:44every piece of me.
00:05:45And to find somebody
00:05:45like that
00:05:46is insane.
00:05:47You really taught me,
00:05:48like,
00:05:49what love is.
00:05:53To our
00:05:54last date
00:05:56in this experiment.
00:05:57finding
00:05:58my favorite person ever.
00:06:13African events,
00:06:15I gotta go play
00:06:15with the monkey.
00:06:16I gotta go play
00:06:16with the monkey.
00:06:18I'm returning you
00:06:19to Sunday.
00:06:21Bringing me home.
00:06:22Bringing you home.
00:06:27Blue Skies.
00:06:28Hi.
00:06:29How are you?
00:06:30Oh my gosh.
00:06:31Good.
00:06:32Hello.
00:06:32Oh my gosh,
00:06:33fine.
00:06:34Anything you don't want
00:06:35slobber on,
00:06:35remove now.
00:06:36Okay.
00:06:38So here at the Columbus Zoo
00:06:39we have 17 giraffes.
00:06:41We have quite a few.
00:06:41This is Bobby.
00:06:43Hi, handsome.
00:06:44He is actually
00:06:45our breeding bull
00:06:46of the herd.
00:06:47All right, Bobby.
00:06:48He's got four
00:06:49lovely ladies in the house.
00:06:50Look at you.
00:06:51And here she comes.
00:06:52One of them right now
00:06:53is Zuri.
00:06:55As you can see,
00:06:56they don't think
00:06:56they get fed at all.
00:06:57You are.
00:06:58You're a lot of peace.
00:07:00You are.
00:07:01You know,
00:07:02you are.
00:07:03Emma,
00:07:03you gotta control
00:07:04your man.
00:07:04You gotta control
00:07:05your man.
00:07:07I just wanna stay.
00:07:09I just wanna play.
00:07:12There you go, buddy.
00:07:14You're my best friend.
00:07:15Wow.
00:07:16Another head
00:07:17of lettuce, please.
00:07:18He's like,
00:07:19John.
00:07:20Oops,
00:07:20you're going.
00:07:25Oh, John.
00:07:28Hey, this is so cool.
00:07:32That was really cool.
00:07:33I've never done
00:07:34anything like that,
00:07:34so.
00:07:34Oh, shit.
00:07:36Is that my boy?
00:07:37Probably.
00:07:38So cool.
00:07:39This is so cool.
00:07:40This is a great finale
00:07:42date before our wedding.
00:07:43It is.
00:07:44It smells like giraffe.
00:07:46Do you?
00:07:47A little bit.
00:07:48What does that smell like?
00:07:48Do you want to come on over?
00:07:51Feeding giraffe.
00:07:52For our anniversary,
00:07:54every year we, like,
00:07:54pick something on our
00:07:55bucket list and, like,
00:07:57do something super, like,
00:07:58cool and wacky.
00:07:59My mother, the cool shit
00:08:00is, like,
00:08:01literally walking around
00:08:02the zoo together
00:08:03and, like,
00:08:04getting culvers
00:08:05and a sweet treat.
00:08:07I want to be able to, like,
00:08:09have shared experiences
00:08:10before we start a family
00:08:13and then, like,
00:08:13when that family comes,
00:08:14like,
00:08:15then it's, like,
00:08:16you get to do
00:08:19cool experiences,
00:08:19not with the Disney world
00:08:20and just, like,
00:08:20all that stuff,
00:08:21but it's, like,
00:08:22I want to do things
00:08:23with us that
00:08:24we can do
00:08:24while we're young.
00:08:26Right.
00:08:26than do stuff
00:08:28at least.
00:08:29Right.
00:08:29I mean,
00:08:30I, that's,
00:08:30I couldn't agree more.
00:08:32Like,
00:08:33is that,
00:08:34I don't know,
00:08:35you said with family
00:08:36and stuff,
00:08:36like,
00:08:36have you been thinking
00:08:37more on that?
00:08:38I have been thinking
00:08:39about it and,
00:08:39like,
00:08:42I,
00:08:45like,
00:08:46I 100%
00:08:47think you are the right person.
00:08:48Like,
00:08:48I don't,
00:08:52like,
00:08:53I don't think,
00:08:54like,
00:08:54I just,
00:08:55I picture, like,
00:08:56what was that guy?
00:08:56No, you're laughing.
00:08:57No, no,
00:08:58I, um,
00:08:59and, like,
00:09:00the way, like,
00:09:00I feel with you,
00:09:01like,
00:09:02safe and stable
00:09:02and, like,
00:09:03confident,
00:09:04like,
00:09:04it's one in a million.
00:09:05Like,
00:09:06I
00:09:08am continuing
00:09:09to be open-minded.
00:09:10Yeah,
00:09:11that's all.
00:09:11You brought it up this way.
00:09:13No, no.
00:09:14But I am thinking about it.
00:09:15I want to show you
00:09:15about it.
00:09:16Because, like,
00:09:16I am,
00:09:18like,
00:09:18and I see,
00:09:20I see it.
00:09:21Like,
00:09:21I do see a family with you
00:09:22and I see,
00:09:24um,
00:09:25sorry,
00:09:26I'm sorry.
00:09:27Um,
00:09:27the drops are talking.
00:09:32Go on.
00:09:35I can't stop laughing.
00:09:37Um,
00:09:38no,
00:09:38I,
00:09:38like,
00:09:39I see that with you.
00:09:39But I,
00:09:41I think that will,
00:09:43like,
00:09:43also continue
00:09:44just to go with time.
00:09:45Sure.
00:09:47Sure.
00:09:48Again?
00:09:49Yeah.
00:09:52You're very cute.
00:10:06It doesn't feel like
00:10:07it's only been
00:10:08a month and a half.
00:10:09Like,
00:10:09I feel like I've known you
00:10:10for way longer than that.
00:10:11Yeah.
00:10:13That feels like so long ago.
00:10:14To see how far we've come.
00:10:16It's just crazy.
00:10:17Mm-hmm.
00:10:18How much,
00:10:18like,
00:10:19has happened
00:10:19in a matter of six weeks.
00:10:22walk and dream in six weeks?
00:10:24Walk and dream in six weeks.
00:10:24Mm-hmm.
00:10:25You had 16 girlfriends
00:10:26and I had 16 boyfriends.
00:10:28Uh,
00:10:28that was nice.
00:10:29That was nice.
00:10:30Shut up.
00:10:31It's the only time
00:10:32I'll be able to do that.
00:10:33Ever.
00:10:34Take me back,
00:10:35honestly.
00:10:37That was when life was good.
00:10:39I can't stand you.
00:10:42Oh,
00:10:42man.
00:10:43What a ride.
00:10:44What a ride.
00:10:46I'm gonna get married
00:10:47in a week.
00:10:50It's crazy when you say it like that.
00:10:52Yeah.
00:10:54Oh,
00:10:55wow.
00:10:57Let's go sit by the fire.
00:10:59I guess I haven't had
00:10:59this pressure before
00:11:01of, like,
00:11:01the marriage
00:11:02has more been
00:11:02in a relationship
00:11:03where it's like
00:11:04you can just kind of
00:11:04drag things out.
00:11:06What we have,
00:11:06like,
00:11:06foundation-wise
00:11:08can last a lifetime.
00:11:10Yeah.
00:11:11You're the first person
00:11:12I've met
00:11:12that I felt like
00:11:14it's worth giving up
00:11:16my independence.
00:11:17Yeah.
00:11:18Well,
00:11:19that's good.
00:11:19I would say I'm definitely,
00:11:20like,
00:11:20worried about it.
00:11:21You were snoring
00:11:22last night,
00:11:22legitimately.
00:11:23Stop it.
00:11:25Sound like
00:11:26I'm a jack.
00:11:27I'm a cute sleeper.
00:11:29To each their own.
00:11:32So you're still
00:11:33gonna choose me
00:11:33even though I snored
00:11:34like you?
00:11:36I don't know,
00:11:36you kind of sounded
00:11:37like Godzilla
00:11:38last night.
00:11:39Stop it.
00:11:40Did I really?
00:11:41Oh, yeah.
00:11:43Paul Bunyan,
00:11:43that's your nickname.
00:11:45Stop talking.
00:11:49My mind,
00:11:50like,
00:11:50my hand's been
00:11:50racing.
00:11:51I didn't even
00:11:51able to,
00:11:51like,
00:11:52sleep.
00:11:52Of course,
00:11:53we could say yes,
00:11:53but it's just,
00:11:54like,
00:11:55it's a lot.
00:11:57And it's definitely
00:11:58been weighing on me.
00:11:59Yeah.
00:12:00I need to,
00:12:01like,
00:12:01get away.
00:12:02Everything is,
00:12:02like,
00:12:02great and amazing,
00:12:03but I'm just
00:12:04trying to,
00:12:04like,
00:12:05really,
00:12:05like,
00:12:05process it.
00:12:06I need,
00:12:07like,
00:12:07time to just,
00:12:07like,
00:12:08really sit,
00:12:08because it's,
00:12:08like,
00:12:09it is a big decision.
00:12:10I feel like it's
00:12:10starting to,
00:12:11like,
00:12:11weigh on me,
00:12:12like,
00:12:12in a good way,
00:12:13but it's,
00:12:13like,
00:12:13I gotta really sit
00:12:14with my thoughts
00:12:15and kind of,
00:12:15like,
00:12:16literally go ghost.
00:12:18I'll probably do,
00:12:19like,
00:12:19a day where I'm just,
00:12:20like,
00:12:21unreachable,
00:12:22so completely off the
00:12:23grid.
00:12:24Just,
00:12:24like,
00:12:25completely,
00:12:26like,
00:12:26complete dark day.
00:12:27Like,
00:12:27phone probably won't
00:12:28even be on.
00:12:29Do you feel like
00:12:30you're not certain
00:12:30if you're gonna say yes?
00:12:35Like,
00:12:35I'm,
00:12:36like,
00:12:36obviously,
00:12:37I,
00:12:37I would say,
00:12:38like,
00:12:38I'm 98% there.
00:12:39I told you my biggest fear
00:12:41is getting to the aisle
00:12:42and it being,
00:12:43like,
00:12:43a no.
00:12:44Yeah.
00:12:44I can see myself
00:12:46saying yes.
00:12:46Yeah.
00:12:47I wouldn't have my family
00:12:48come here if I didn't,
00:12:49if I wasn't gonna say yes.
00:12:51Even though I already
00:12:52had a wedding dress,
00:12:53like,
00:12:53trying on wedding dresses
00:12:55again,
00:12:55when I tried it on
00:12:57this time,
00:12:58it was,
00:12:58like,
00:12:59exciting because I'm,
00:13:00like,
00:13:01I can see myself
00:13:02marrying you.
00:13:04I can be a wife
00:13:05and,
00:13:06like,
00:13:06have a husband.
00:13:08It does kind of feel
00:13:08like we're just in this
00:13:09fairy tale.
00:13:11Trust me,
00:13:11I get it.
00:13:13They're saying yes
00:13:14at the altar.
00:13:16Well,
00:13:17there's one thing
00:13:17that I want to talk about.
00:13:19Someone told me
00:13:21that,
00:13:23like,
00:13:23the dress fitting day,
00:13:24they heard
00:13:25that I don't,
00:13:26like,
00:13:26kiss you enough
00:13:27or tell you you're pretty enough
00:13:28and to, like,
00:13:29remind me to do that.
00:13:31I was pissed
00:13:31because I was like,
00:13:33oh,
00:13:33I'm being talked about again
00:13:34in a negative way.
00:13:35They asked what Devante
00:13:36is going to say
00:13:37when he sees you
00:13:39in this dress
00:13:39and they said,
00:13:40well,
00:13:40he's a man
00:13:40a few words.
00:13:41I don't know
00:13:42what he's going to say.
00:13:44I think everybody
00:13:45knows,
00:13:46like,
00:13:46how I feel about you
00:13:48and it's very obvious
00:13:49but I know
00:13:50you're not somebody
00:13:51that's ever going to be,
00:13:52like,
00:13:52gushing over me.
00:13:53Yeah.
00:13:53It's, like,
00:13:54not your personality
00:13:54and that's something,
00:13:55like,
00:13:56I've had to come to terms with
00:13:57of, like,
00:13:58accepting
00:13:59that, like,
00:14:00that's not,
00:14:01like,
00:14:02how you show me
00:14:03that you think
00:14:04that I'm pretty.
00:14:04That makes sense.
00:14:06Obviously,
00:14:06I would like for you
00:14:07to tell me
00:14:08that you think
00:14:08that I'm pretty.
00:14:10Right.
00:14:10But I also know
00:14:11that that's not
00:14:13how you are.
00:14:14There's one more thing.
00:14:16I know the sacrifices
00:14:18that I've made
00:14:18to get to where I'm at.
00:14:20I don't ever want
00:14:21to lose that,
00:14:22lose half of that
00:14:23or a lot of that
00:14:24and, like,
00:14:24I don't know.
00:14:25So,
00:14:27prenups,
00:14:28and I don't think
00:14:29that was, like,
00:14:29something we even
00:14:30talked about in the pods.
00:14:31So,
00:14:31I'm not saying
00:14:33that's directed
00:14:33toward you.
00:14:34That is more
00:14:34for, like,
00:14:35where I feel
00:14:37good
00:14:37in my own space.
00:14:41You're entitled
00:14:41to feel how you feel.
00:14:42Yeah.
00:14:42Like, obviously,
00:14:43you have worked
00:14:44very hard
00:14:44to get where you are.
00:14:45Yeah.
00:14:46To build the life
00:14:47that you have.
00:14:48But,
00:14:49I don't know.
00:14:52I don't want
00:14:53to be married
00:14:54to somebody
00:14:54that feels like
00:14:55they have to
00:14:55protect themselves
00:14:56from me.
00:14:57I don't think
00:14:57people intend
00:14:58to be spiteful
00:14:59until they have
00:15:00the opportunity
00:15:00to do it.
00:15:01I'm not spiteful.
00:15:02Like,
00:15:03that's not who I am.
00:15:04That's never
00:15:04going to be who I am.
00:15:05I don't know.
00:15:06I guess it's just
00:15:06how I feel.
00:15:09Sometimes you don't
00:15:09know why you feel
00:15:10the way you feel.
00:15:16Yeah.
00:15:16So,
00:15:17is this you saying
00:15:17you want one?
00:15:20I think it would
00:15:21make me
00:15:24feel comfortable.
00:15:26I wish you
00:15:27would have
00:15:27brought this up
00:15:27sooner.
00:15:29Well,
00:15:29the reason I didn't
00:15:30is because I was
00:15:31like,
00:15:32I'm not going to
00:15:32jump right into
00:15:33this when it's
00:15:33like we don't
00:15:34even know what
00:15:34everything else
00:15:35looks like.
00:15:38So,
00:15:39if I didn't feel
00:15:39comfortable with
00:15:40the prenup,
00:15:41is that...
00:15:42I don't know.
00:15:48I guess it's
00:15:49just something
00:15:49I'll have to decide.
00:15:50If I sign
00:15:52that paper,
00:15:53will I be able
00:15:54to not think
00:15:56about the fact
00:15:56that there's
00:15:57that in the
00:15:58background?
00:15:59Yeah.
00:16:00It just feels
00:16:00like you
00:16:04have a plan
00:16:06to not
00:16:07always fight
00:16:08for it.
00:16:09Well,
00:16:10I can tell you
00:16:10one thing,
00:16:11that I'm still
00:16:12here for a
00:16:12reason.
00:16:13You know
00:16:14that I'm not
00:16:14a quitter.
00:16:15I'm not asking
00:16:16you to make a
00:16:17decision right
00:16:17the second
00:16:18to sleep on
00:16:19it,
00:16:19but we're
00:16:20going to be
00:16:21life partners.
00:16:22We've got to
00:16:22have everything
00:16:23out on the
00:16:23table.
00:16:24I've stayed
00:16:24because you
00:16:25actually want
00:16:26to be here.
00:16:28You said
00:16:29actions speak
00:16:30louder than
00:16:30words,
00:16:31and your
00:16:31actions have
00:16:33definitely shown
00:16:34me that it's
00:16:36worth saying.
00:16:38I didn't come
00:16:39this far to
00:16:39come this far.
00:16:40Were you
00:16:40planning on
00:16:40having this
00:16:41conversation,
00:16:41mate?
00:16:42Yeah.
00:16:42Oh.
00:16:42Yeah,
00:16:43tonight.
00:16:44Save the
00:16:45best for
00:16:45half.
00:16:47Because you
00:16:48knew that I
00:16:48wouldn't take
00:16:49it wrong,
00:16:49but that's
00:16:50why.
00:16:51See,
00:16:51I know
00:16:51you.
00:16:54I think
00:16:55we should
00:16:55pray.
00:16:55When in
00:16:56doubt.
00:16:56What we
00:16:57need.
00:16:59Okay.
00:17:00Dear
00:17:00Father,
00:17:01thank you for
00:17:01this day.
00:17:02I thank you
00:17:04for Devante.
00:17:05We trust you,
00:17:06and if we do
00:17:08choose to get
00:17:09married, God,
00:17:09I pray blessings
00:17:10over our
00:17:11marriage, over
00:17:12our future,
00:17:13over our
00:17:13kids, over
00:17:14our finances.
00:17:15I just
00:17:16thank you for
00:17:17Devante.
00:17:18I thank you
00:17:19for everything
00:17:20that you've
00:17:20brought us
00:17:21through, and
00:17:22that you'll
00:17:22continue to
00:17:22bring us
00:17:23through.
00:17:23Thank you
00:17:24that we're
00:17:24going to be
00:17:24able to
00:17:24celebrate with
00:17:25our family
00:17:26next week,
00:17:27and I just
00:17:28thank you for
00:17:29the journey.
00:17:30Amen.
00:17:30Amen.
00:17:33Are you going
00:17:34for a high-five
00:17:35there?
00:17:35I don't know
00:17:36how I was
00:17:36going for it.
00:17:39Oh.
00:17:42It's going to
00:17:42be okay.
00:17:44The sun will
00:17:45rise again
00:17:45tomorrow.
00:17:47Oh, not
00:17:47here.
00:17:49Not in a while.
00:17:51The clouds
00:17:52will rise.
00:17:53Here we go.
00:18:09We're here.
00:18:10Yay.
00:18:11All right.
00:18:12Excited.
00:18:12Me too.
00:18:14Otherworld is
00:18:14Emma and I's
00:18:15favorite place
00:18:16to go.
00:18:16When I told
00:18:17Emma I was
00:18:18coming here with
00:18:18Jordan, which
00:18:19she has not
00:18:19met him yet,
00:18:20she's going to
00:18:21meet him
00:18:21Saturday, she's
00:18:21like, I want
00:18:22to go, I
00:18:23want to go,
00:18:23and I was
00:18:23like, we
00:18:24will definitely
00:18:25come back
00:18:25here with
00:18:25him.
00:18:26Emma was
00:18:26playing with
00:18:27my ring,
00:18:28and she has
00:18:29this little
00:18:29stuffed animal,
00:18:30and she had
00:18:30put it, like,
00:18:32literally, right,
00:18:33I found it in
00:18:34her toy box,
00:18:35and I was like,
00:18:36yeah, let's just
00:18:36not do that
00:18:37again.
00:18:38Maybe you'd
00:18:38never do that
00:18:38again.
00:18:39Ever.
00:18:46Ready?
00:18:48Yeah, what
00:18:48you got?
00:18:49What you got?
00:18:52Oh, yeah,
00:18:53this is
00:18:54terrific.
00:18:54Oh, man,
00:18:55I'm going to
00:18:55ram into a
00:18:56mirror here.
00:18:56I know.
00:18:57It's amazing.
00:18:58It's so fun.
00:18:59Yeah.
00:19:01It's so
00:19:01pretty.
00:19:02Yeah.
00:19:02Thanks for
00:19:03bringing me.
00:19:04I'll give you
00:19:04what you need.
00:19:06What you need.
00:19:22Cheers.
00:19:23Cheers.
00:19:24Good games.
00:19:25Yes.
00:19:27Oh, yes.
00:19:28Do we have a little
00:19:29bunny bag?
00:19:30But the grand prize
00:19:33is for you.
00:19:34Oh, my God.
00:19:35Wait for Emma
00:19:36to see this.
00:19:39Yeah.
00:19:39Getting to meet
00:19:40Emma finally.
00:19:41Yeah.
00:19:41That'd be awesome.
00:19:42Saturday, yeah.
00:19:43I finally have a plan
00:19:44to meet Emma,
00:19:45which is going to be cool.
00:19:46So, I wouldn't say
00:19:47that I have any
00:19:47reservations about the
00:19:49wedding, because I know
00:19:50Amber and I are on
00:19:50the same page.
00:19:51We're just looking
00:19:52forward to planning
00:19:53a life together.
00:19:54I can't wait
00:19:54to see what Emma
00:19:55has to say about that.
00:19:57Actually, you know what?
00:19:59Maybe I'll have you
00:20:00bring it to her
00:20:01Saturday.
00:20:02Mmm.
00:20:04I have another
00:20:04little thing for her.
00:20:05So, maybe you can
00:20:06move that.
00:20:07Okay.
00:20:07That'd be really cool.
00:20:08Okay.
00:20:09That's a good plan.
00:20:13I'm excited.
00:20:14Me too.
00:20:26Ready?
00:20:27Is this where I get
00:20:27murdered?
00:20:28No.
00:20:29Are you proposing?
00:20:31Again?
00:20:32You know why you're
00:20:32surprised.
00:20:33Trust me.
00:20:34Okay, okay.
00:20:34Alright.
00:20:35So, that's kind of
00:20:36what we've got going
00:20:37on tonight.
00:20:37Oh, my gosh.
00:20:38Pretty cool, yeah?
00:20:39This is so cute.
00:20:40I'm obsessed.
00:20:41Yeah?
00:20:41Oh, my God, yeah.
00:20:42Can I go sit?
00:20:43Absolutely.
00:20:44This is so beautiful.
00:20:45Did you plan this?
00:20:46All of it.
00:20:48Yeah.
00:20:48It's like the most
00:20:48romantic thing.
00:20:50I love it.
00:20:52Want some champagne?
00:20:52Sure.
00:20:58Mmm.
00:20:59I'm going to cheers.
00:21:00Do you like it in the eyes?
00:21:00Cheers, though.
00:21:01You had sex for
00:21:02seven years?
00:21:04I don't want that.
00:21:05Just that.
00:21:05I don't need that.
00:21:06Mm-mm.
00:21:07What are you most
00:21:07excited for on
00:21:08the wedding day?
00:21:09Me running?
00:21:10No.
00:21:11No.
00:21:12Just spending time
00:21:13with you, like,
00:21:13obviously.
00:21:14When?
00:21:15Yeah.
00:21:15What are the next?
00:21:16You're going to fall asleep.
00:21:17No, I'm not.
00:21:18What are we doing
00:21:18for our first Christmas?
00:21:20Do you see that globe
00:21:21right there?
00:21:22Yeah.
00:21:22You know that, like,
00:21:23bottom tip?
00:21:24It's called Antarctica.
00:21:25No.
00:21:26We're going to go there
00:21:26for our first Christmas.
00:21:27No.
00:21:28If anything,
00:21:28first of all,
00:21:29go to the North Pole
00:21:30for Christmas.
00:21:30It makes no sense.
00:21:32That's where Santa lives.
00:21:33You do my good arguments.
00:21:34Obviously.
00:21:35Okay, so,
00:21:35for real,
00:21:36what are we doing
00:21:36for Christmas?
00:21:37Switzerland.
00:21:39St. Moritz?
00:21:40I don't know.
00:21:41We've got to go
00:21:41somewhere warm.
00:21:42A beach would be nice.
00:21:44I think that would work.
00:21:45What's one thing
00:21:45you want to do
00:21:46in our first year
00:21:46of marriage?
00:21:47What's a goal?
00:21:48Mm.
00:21:50We have to travel
00:21:51out of the country
00:21:51at least once.
00:21:52Yeah.
00:21:54I guess I would just
00:21:54love for us to, like,
00:21:55obviously know
00:21:56where, like,
00:21:57our home is.
00:21:58Oh, right.
00:21:58At least where we want
00:21:59to be for a while.
00:22:00Whether it's Florida,
00:22:01Arizona,
00:22:02wherever,
00:22:03starting to have
00:22:04those roots.
00:22:04And I, like,
00:22:05I don't want to, like,
00:22:06scare you when I say
00:22:06these things,
00:22:07you know,
00:22:07planting roots
00:22:08and, like,
00:22:08just being grounded.
00:22:09It doesn't throw me,
00:22:10like, as much as I feel
00:22:11like you think it might,
00:22:12but I do want it to be
00:22:14in a place where I'm not
00:22:15thinking about
00:22:15other places.
00:22:20How do you want to
00:22:21celebrate your first
00:22:21birthday as a marriage man?
00:22:23Oof.
00:22:24I don't know.
00:22:25What about you?
00:22:26I normally like to go,
00:22:27like, on a trip
00:22:27somewhere, to be honest.
00:22:28It's got to be warm, though.
00:22:30Mm.
00:22:32No problem.
00:22:33You don't want me
00:22:33to be happy.
00:22:36What other questions
00:22:37you got for me?
00:22:39Mm.
00:22:40Mm?
00:22:42Um.
00:22:45I just asked one.
00:22:47What'd you ask?
00:22:50Uh, I thought
00:22:51I just asked one.
00:22:52No.
00:22:53No, I'm not.
00:22:53No.
00:22:54No, not you?
00:22:54We were talking about
00:22:54birthdays.
00:22:55Oh, that's right.
00:22:56That is right.
00:22:57Um.
00:23:02Okay.
00:23:03What about your new dress?
00:23:05You got to be excited
00:23:05about it.
00:23:06I got emotional
00:23:07putting on the dress.
00:23:07Did you?
00:23:08Mm-hmm.
00:23:08I know.
00:23:09It was shocking.
00:23:10Um.
00:23:10No, it was, like,
00:23:11a very real moment.
00:23:13Yeah?
00:23:15Yeah.
00:23:16Thinking about
00:23:16what you were
00:23:17going to think
00:23:17or say
00:23:18when you saw me
00:23:18about all the girls
00:23:20were there
00:23:20and my friends
00:23:21were there
00:23:21and just think
00:23:23how pretty I was.
00:23:24Stop it.
00:23:25Go on.
00:23:26My job.
00:23:27Stop it.
00:23:27Go on.
00:23:28That's funny.
00:23:29No, but it was sweet.
00:23:31They asked, like,
00:23:31what's your dad
00:23:32going to think
00:23:32when he sees you?
00:23:33And I just started crying.
00:23:34I was like,
00:23:34he's not invited.
00:23:35He's no longer
00:23:36invited anymore.
00:23:37No, I'm sure
00:23:37I'll support you.
00:23:40We'll see.
00:23:45What's your mom
00:23:45going to think?
00:23:46I think she'll be excited.
00:23:47Like,
00:23:48she's probably pushing
00:23:49more of her grandkids
00:23:50at this point.
00:23:50Oh, my God, really?
00:23:51I think so.
00:23:52God.
00:23:53Now she's excited, though.
00:23:55What do you say,
00:23:55like, when someone asks you,
00:23:56like, tell me about Ashley.
00:23:57What do you say?
00:23:58Oh, I love her authenticity.
00:23:59The confidence
00:24:00and the competitive spirit
00:24:01that she shows is huge.
00:24:02I do love the fact
00:24:03that you're willing
00:24:04to put yourself out there.
00:24:06Try new things.
00:24:07What do you tell your friends?
00:24:10My friends hate you.
00:24:11I know.
00:24:13Ridiculous.
00:24:13I'm just kidding.
00:24:14I tell them that
00:24:15your golf swing
00:24:16needs a lot of work.
00:24:17It's true.
00:24:19No.
00:24:19That's just what
00:24:20you tell your dad.
00:24:20I did tell him
00:24:21that he needs one.
00:24:24No, I tell them
00:24:25that you're very well-traveled.
00:24:26You're very passionate
00:24:27about soccer
00:24:28and day trading.
00:24:30It seems like
00:24:30your friends and family
00:24:31have nothing but good things
00:24:33to say about you.
00:24:34I think you'll be, like,
00:24:35a good husband,
00:24:36a good father,
00:24:38just based off of, like,
00:24:39your experiences.
00:24:41Love that.
00:24:42Love that.
00:24:43And I think when
00:24:45you, like,
00:24:45have something in your mind,
00:24:46you put everything
00:24:47you have into it.
00:24:48So that's why I think
00:24:48you've been successful
00:24:49in this experiment.
00:24:51Not tooting my own horn
00:24:52or anything,
00:24:53but, like,
00:24:53you got really lucky.
00:24:54I did.
00:24:55I did.
00:24:56So you know
00:24:56how to make
00:24:56a really good decision.
00:24:58I do.
00:25:01How are you feeling
00:25:02about having to make
00:25:03a decision?
00:25:04How confident,
00:25:04I guess,
00:25:05are you?
00:25:05I feel good about it.
00:25:07I feel kind of like
00:25:09we're where we should be.
00:25:11Obviously,
00:25:12I think we're crushing it.
00:25:13Like, we've done
00:25:14very well.
00:25:15We've been on the same page
00:25:16for a long time,
00:25:16it seems like.
00:25:17So there's excitement
00:25:18there for sure.
00:25:19I know it's a big,
00:25:19big day.
00:25:21It's obviously a good
00:25:21life-changing decision,
00:25:25but everything for me
00:25:26goes back to soccer.
00:25:27Like, you can't plan out
00:25:27how the game's gonna go.
00:25:28You just play it.
00:25:29Like, you're in that game
00:25:30and you're a part of it
00:25:32and obviously doing your best,
00:25:34but you don't necessarily
00:25:36control the outcome
00:25:37and this is one of those
00:25:38things that I control
00:25:39part of it,
00:25:39but it's an outcome
00:25:41that is going to happen
00:25:44how it was meant to happen
00:25:45is the way I look at it.
00:25:46Stoicism helps out as well
00:25:47in the sense of, like,
00:25:48keep the emotions in check.
00:25:49I feel confident in
00:25:52the end product as well.
00:25:54Yeah.
00:25:55The fear of the unknown
00:25:56always gets me.
00:25:57You know that.
00:25:58I'm sure you got the vibe.
00:25:59I was, like, attracted to you
00:26:00because you were so confident
00:26:02in, like, your decision
00:26:02to choose me.
00:26:03Like, I've been second best
00:26:06so many times
00:26:07and when you were, like,
00:26:08I want it to be you,
00:26:09that is when I was, like,
00:26:11this guy's got it.
00:26:12That was it for me.
00:26:13I love that.
00:26:14I love that.
00:26:16Choose me and finish this.
00:26:17Finish?
00:26:18My God.
00:26:19You did it.
00:26:19My God, not that.
00:26:20No, no, no.
00:26:22I did in my head.
00:26:23So you're having bad sex
00:26:24for seven years.
00:26:25You're having it with me, then.
00:26:26I will be having good sex.
00:26:27I looked in your eyes.
00:26:29Anyways,
00:26:29we have a wedding, people.
00:26:31I'm excited for it.
00:26:40For you, I'd start the world
00:26:43from spinning just so we could
00:26:45have some time.
00:26:57I can't wait for wedding day
00:26:58like I'm on countdown in my head,
00:27:00but I'm just trying to remind myself
00:27:02to slow down
00:27:02and to take in
00:27:03every last moment
00:27:04that I get with Vic.
00:27:06Toast to, uh,
00:27:07what memories?
00:27:09Our future?
00:27:10And love.
00:27:12Into one chapter
00:27:13and all the books
00:27:15to write to come.
00:27:16I like that one.
00:27:17So love.
00:27:19Hmm.
00:27:21Every phase of this
00:27:23has felt like
00:27:24an eternity
00:27:25in the best way.
00:27:26Yeah.
00:27:27You know it all.
00:27:28And you accept me
00:27:29for who I am.
00:27:30You love me for who I am.
00:27:32I don't think I've ever felt
00:27:33as confident
00:27:34about anything in my life,
00:27:35especially something
00:27:36so serious as this.
00:27:37And I know it's not even
00:27:38just like my decision,
00:27:40right?
00:27:40I mean, you're great,
00:27:41Mom, but...
00:27:44I've been praying for you
00:27:45for a lot longer
00:27:46than I've known you.
00:27:47Same.
00:27:48I can see and I can feel
00:27:49how much you love
00:27:50your family,
00:27:51how much you love
00:27:52your friends,
00:27:54how much you love
00:27:54your job,
00:27:56how much you love
00:27:56what you get to do
00:27:57and the change
00:27:58you get to be a part of,
00:28:00how much you love God,
00:28:02how much you love me.
00:28:04You just pour yourself out
00:28:06in like the best way.
00:28:07And it's the way
00:28:08it like fills you
00:28:09and it's like
00:28:09that's the part that I love.
00:28:11How like filling it is
00:28:13for you to love so much.
00:28:15You're an amazing woman
00:28:16and you know that.
00:28:17I don't even have to tell you.
00:28:19Everything about you.
00:28:21Your selflessness,
00:28:22love you have,
00:28:23you're smart.
00:28:25I think you're brilliant.
00:28:26I love hearing your stories.
00:28:28And I mean,
00:28:30I know you'll make
00:28:31an excellent partner.
00:28:33Sometimes I get speechless
00:28:34around you
00:28:35because it was just like
00:28:37I get this
00:28:38this like
00:28:39this wow feeling
00:28:41that happened to me.
00:28:43You're making me cry already.
00:28:45I love you.
00:28:56You're somebody that
00:28:58I'd be,
00:28:59and I am
00:29:01very, very, very proud
00:29:04to know and to love
00:29:06and to call you my husband
00:29:11and for you to get
00:29:11the father of my kids
00:29:12some day.
00:29:15I love you very, very much.
00:29:17I love you deeply, baby.
00:29:19Deeply.
00:29:21Deeply, deeply, deeply.
00:29:22I mean, there's everything
00:29:23that I could want
00:29:25in so many ways.
00:29:26I mean, even just down
00:29:27to your hobbies
00:29:27and snacking on your cashews
00:29:29and just like the little habits
00:29:31that you have
00:29:31and I think we're going
00:29:33to compliment each other
00:29:35and push each other
00:29:36and push me to be better
00:29:37and vice versa.
00:29:38You know, you wouldn't
00:29:39push me to, I know that.
00:29:40Yeah.
00:29:41I've never felt like this
00:29:42in my life.
00:29:43Mm-hmm.
00:29:44Yeah.
00:29:44I do.
00:29:46And it just makes
00:29:47so much sense.
00:29:48You know, you look back
00:29:48at every single little
00:29:49stepping stone of your life.
00:29:51Even the hard times,
00:29:52you know, I'm just like
00:29:53I would do those things
00:29:55a million times over
00:29:56if they got me here.
00:29:57Mm-hmm.
00:29:57Yeah.
00:29:59Same.
00:30:00Your name's a prayer.
00:30:01So are you.
00:30:02Mm-hmm.
00:30:03So are you, baby.
00:30:05And I love it.
00:30:05I love you.
00:30:06Everything.
00:30:09I'm so excited.
00:30:10So happy.
00:30:10So grateful.
00:30:13So, so grateful.
00:30:14I do.
00:30:17You had a great day
00:30:18with you, huh?
00:30:21Great.
00:30:22Last first date.
00:30:24Last first date.
00:30:25Mm-hmm.
00:30:38This is the most bizarre,
00:30:42exciting, expansive,
00:30:43coolest thing I've ever done.
00:30:45And I couldn't have done it
00:30:47without you
00:30:47and I wouldn't have
00:30:48done it without you.
00:30:49Like, there's no chance.
00:30:51I mean, we fell in love
00:30:52and not even looking at each other.
00:30:53I know.
00:30:54It's crazy.
00:30:55It really is.
00:30:56But you're not getting
00:30:57the best of me right now
00:30:58because I have just been grinding.
00:31:03What's really sad is, like,
00:31:05I know I can give so much more.
00:31:08When I see my friends and family
00:31:10tell you that you're not getting
00:31:11the best version of me
00:31:12and this isn't me right now,
00:31:13it really hurts.
00:31:16That's really tough to say out loud.
00:31:19It's always powerful.
00:31:20Um, it's a testament to you.
00:31:22So even in maybe your worst version,
00:31:24still obsessive, yeah.
00:31:28You really do love me
00:31:30for the good, bad, the ugly.
00:31:31Yeah.
00:31:35Even as we're seeing each other
00:31:36every single day,
00:31:37when you text me at, like, 505
00:31:39and I kind of call you,
00:31:40I get so happy.
00:31:44I'm going to start getting emotional.
00:31:46Like,
00:31:48I just can't wait to, like,
00:31:49we've had so many nights
00:31:50where after the longest day,
00:31:52we still just sit in bed
00:31:53and talk for, like, two hours.
00:31:54Yeah.
00:31:54Those are, like,
00:31:54my favorite moments with you.
00:31:57If this is who you are right now,
00:32:00then it's how much
00:32:00I'm obsessed with you.
00:32:03So...
00:32:03I think once you get back
00:32:04into what you call
00:32:05your normal state,
00:32:06it's like,
00:32:07I think you're going to be able
00:32:08to give more love, too.
00:32:09So,
00:32:10I'm excited for
00:32:11not only me,
00:32:12how much more I even might have you,
00:32:14which is,
00:32:14I don't know if it's possible.
00:32:15Yeah.
00:32:15But, like,
00:32:16you also have to give off that love
00:32:17and accept it more, too.
00:32:18Like, I'm so excited
00:32:18to see that kind of transition.
00:32:20I know, me too.
00:32:22Do you think you are ready
00:32:23for marriage?
00:32:24I am ready for it.
00:32:25I think I'll be a good husband,
00:32:27a good father.
00:32:29Transparently,
00:32:29when I came into your house
00:32:30and I see your car
00:32:31and I'm like,
00:32:31this guy doesn't give a sh...
00:32:33Like,
00:32:33he doesn't give a shit
00:32:34about anything.
00:32:34What does this mean
00:32:35about, like,
00:32:36how he's going to show up
00:32:37for, like,
00:32:38a presentation of, like,
00:32:39our house and our family
00:32:40and, like, his job?
00:32:41Is he proud of it?
00:32:42Like,
00:32:43I know, like,
00:32:44it's such a silly thing
00:32:44about a house and a car,
00:32:45but, like,
00:32:46what clothes you wear
00:32:47and, like,
00:32:47how you present yourself.
00:32:49It doesn't have to be,
00:32:50like,
00:32:50high-end,
00:32:51crazy things,
00:32:52but just, like,
00:32:52have pride
00:32:53and, like,
00:32:54that's a reflection of you.
00:32:55It just makes me feel
00:32:56like it's lazy.
00:32:57Like,
00:32:57there's no pride,
00:32:58there's no, like,
00:32:59hustle,
00:32:59there's no grit,
00:32:59there's no, like,
00:33:01pride to this.
00:33:01It's, like,
00:33:02it just made me feel like,
00:33:03who is this guy?
00:33:05Is he just gonna be
00:33:06a liability?
00:33:08Like,
00:33:08I don't know.
00:33:09I'm just so used
00:33:11to someone
00:33:11that's out-elf with me.
00:33:13Like,
00:33:13he's been the leader.
00:33:14It's not like
00:33:15you're coming in
00:33:15and being like,
00:33:17I'm gonna make, like,
00:33:18five times more money
00:33:19than you.
00:33:19I live in a nicer house
00:33:21than you.
00:33:21I do this.
00:33:22Like,
00:33:22it wasn't, like,
00:33:23this extravagant,
00:33:24like,
00:33:25in-your-face,
00:33:26like,
00:33:26out-elf with me.
00:33:27You don't have
00:33:28the big energy
00:33:29where you're talking
00:33:30over me
00:33:30or ordering at the restaurant
00:33:31or, like,
00:33:32the confidence to be,
00:33:33like,
00:33:33she'll take this.
00:33:34Like,
00:33:34you're kind of looking
00:33:35at me,
00:33:35like,
00:33:35what should we order?
00:33:36Like,
00:33:37what?
00:33:37And it was just,
00:33:37like,
00:33:37this weird energy
00:33:38that I'm not used to
00:33:40and it's actually
00:33:41interesting because
00:33:41we talk about challenge
00:33:43and challenge shows up
00:33:44so differently.
00:33:44Like,
00:33:45is it challenging me
00:33:46to get up at 6 o'clock
00:33:47and go to the gym
00:33:48and, like,
00:33:48be disciplined about that?
00:33:49Maybe.
00:33:50That's something
00:33:51that I would love
00:33:51for someone to encourage
00:33:52me to do.
00:33:53But, like,
00:33:54also is the challenge
00:33:55of, like,
00:33:56being able to accept
00:33:57just being loved
00:33:58for who I am.
00:33:59Some people think
00:34:00I don't care
00:34:00about all the things
00:34:01because there's not,
00:34:02like,
00:34:02a lot of,
00:34:02I guess,
00:34:03material things
00:34:04that, like,
00:34:05yeah,
00:34:06I would love a nice car.
00:34:07Yeah,
00:34:07I'd love a nice house
00:34:07and I can't wait
00:34:08for those things someday.
00:34:09And that's why
00:34:10I do work
00:34:11and support you
00:34:12and a family someday.
00:34:13But a lot of people
00:34:14sometimes just see,
00:34:15like,
00:34:15the keg on the outside
00:34:17or something
00:34:18or that I haven't
00:34:19cleaned up.
00:34:20And I just don't love
00:34:22talking about myself.
00:34:23I just like listening more
00:34:25and just kind of
00:34:25who I've been.
00:34:26You've actually seen
00:34:27more of me
00:34:28and I'm just very glad
00:34:30that you took the time
00:34:31because not everybody does.
00:34:32My dad and I
00:34:33have had conversations.
00:34:34He's like,
00:34:35maybe that's,
00:34:36you've been chasing
00:34:36the wrong thing
00:34:37and you need to shift
00:34:38into something like that
00:34:39where, like,
00:34:39you can still lead
00:34:40but you find somebody
00:34:42that's complimentary
00:34:43and leads you
00:34:44in other ways.
00:34:45I just feel like
00:34:45I've been so critical
00:34:47and so analytical
00:34:49and, like,
00:34:49trying to figure out
00:34:50if this is my husband
00:34:51that I've, like,
00:34:52lost sight of, like,
00:34:53literally the whole concept
00:34:54of it is love blind
00:34:56because had I
00:34:57seen all those things,
00:35:00I may be a past judgment
00:35:01on things that weren't true
00:35:03and I did.
00:35:04Yeah.
00:35:05And, like,
00:35:06that's, like,
00:35:06the whole point
00:35:07of this experiment, right?
00:35:08I know you hustle
00:35:09and I know that you're proud
00:35:11of what you've built
00:35:12for yourself
00:35:12and I know you take pride
00:35:13in that
00:35:14and I hated that
00:35:15I watered that down
00:35:15because I do, like,
00:35:17it is incredible.
00:35:18You own a house,
00:35:19you have an established career,
00:35:20I know you've worked
00:35:20your ass off
00:35:21to get where you're at
00:35:22and, like,
00:35:23you are thinking
00:35:23about the future
00:35:24and, like,
00:35:24what you can do
00:35:25with your career
00:35:26to support a family
00:35:27and do all those things.
00:35:28Like,
00:35:28you have absolutely
00:35:30shown up for me
00:35:31in ways I have never been,
00:35:32I've never experienced before.
00:35:34I know that you love
00:35:35every piece of me.
00:35:37The way that you make me
00:35:38feel loved
00:35:39is insane.
00:35:40Even on my darkest days
00:35:41or even when I'm, like,
00:35:42literally feeling
00:35:43the most disgusting,
00:35:44like,
00:35:44you think I'm the most
00:35:45beautiful person
00:35:45in the world.
00:35:46However I show up to you
00:35:48is enough.
00:35:49I'm trying to decide,
00:35:51are you the total package
00:35:53or are you in my life
00:35:54to teach me
00:35:55how to be loved?
00:35:56Is this my person
00:35:57for the rest of my life?
00:35:58Is that true love?
00:36:02I can't go up
00:36:03to the altar
00:36:04and be like,
00:36:05yeah,
00:36:06question mark?
00:36:08Am I ready
00:36:09to walk down the aisle?
00:36:12No.
00:36:18If I were to go down
00:36:19the aisle today,
00:36:20it would be no for me.
00:36:22But that makes me question,
00:36:23like,
00:36:24why,
00:36:25why is it no?
00:36:26Because if it is
00:36:27the right person
00:36:28I'm, like,
00:36:29so deeply in love
00:36:30and it's, like,
00:36:31my person for life,
00:36:32like,
00:36:32would it matter?
00:36:37I think I would have
00:36:37said yes to you.
00:36:38You would have gone
00:36:39to the altar
00:36:39and said yes.
00:36:40Yeah.
00:36:40So,
00:36:41had I been in a different
00:36:42space,
00:36:43we would be at
00:36:44our wedding day.
00:36:45Yeah,
00:36:45I would have,
00:36:45on Monday,
00:36:46said yes.
00:36:47And I've been open
00:36:48about that
00:36:49and I know
00:36:50she's saying that
00:36:52and I'm not
00:36:53going to be ashamed
00:36:53of that.
00:36:54And I know
00:36:54you don't think
00:36:55anything less of me
00:36:55because I wanted
00:36:56to marry you.
00:36:57So.
00:37:01What the f***
00:37:02am I doing?
00:37:07If we can get
00:37:08through this,
00:37:08like,
00:37:08I hope that
00:37:09it's not a no forever.
00:37:11So,
00:37:11do you see yourself
00:37:12marrying me someday?
00:37:14I hope.
00:37:20Yeah.
00:37:27What a rhyme.
00:37:30What an absolute
00:37:30craziest month
00:37:31of my life.
00:37:33Month?
00:37:33It's been, like,
00:37:34years.
00:37:34That's true.
00:37:35I still have a
00:37:36couch or something.
00:37:37Is that okay?
00:37:38I can't say with
00:37:39certainty that he's
00:37:40not my person.
00:37:41Like,
00:37:41that's the hard part.
00:37:42I hate that I have
00:37:42to say,
00:37:43no,
00:37:44I'm not ready.
00:37:44I hate to be
00:37:45saying things like,
00:37:46are you a lesson
00:37:48to learn
00:37:49or are you the love
00:37:49of my life?
00:37:50It's really hard
00:37:51to understand
00:37:51why I'm going
00:37:52backwards.
00:37:52I don't know why.
00:37:53It sucks that we
00:37:54aren't getting married
00:37:54Monday because of
00:37:55just the way I feel.
00:37:57And, uh,
00:37:58did I want to come
00:37:59here and just
00:38:00teach you
00:38:01how to be loved
00:38:02more?
00:38:03No.
00:38:04But I think
00:38:05any time before this,
00:38:07if somebody had said
00:38:08that they aren't
00:38:08ready to marry me
00:38:09and I'm ready to
00:38:09marry them,
00:38:10I would have
00:38:10freaked out.
00:38:11Why do you think
00:38:12that's different?
00:38:13Because of how much
00:38:15we do love each
00:38:16other.
00:38:18I am optimistic
00:38:19and I know
00:38:21you're not going
00:38:21to run.
00:38:22You've consistently
00:38:23proven that you're
00:38:24going to be there
00:38:24for me.
00:38:30I would have said
00:38:31yes,
00:38:33but
00:38:36as life
00:38:37told me you're
00:38:37wise this whole
00:38:38time,
00:38:38you've directly
00:38:39communicated
00:38:40where you were
00:38:41at.
00:38:42I've never had
00:38:42that in my
00:38:43entire life.
00:38:44And that's why
00:38:45I'm more excited
00:38:46to continue to
00:38:48grow,
00:38:48continue to prove
00:38:49that I'm going to
00:38:50be there for you.
00:38:51I mean,
00:38:51there's a reason
00:38:52that we fell in love
00:38:53sight unseen.
00:38:55That's something
00:38:56I'll remember forever
00:38:57in my entire life
00:38:57and hopefully
00:38:59it's a connection
00:39:00that brings us
00:39:02even to the altar
00:39:03someday.
00:39:04I love it with all
00:39:05my heart
00:39:05and I knew that
00:39:07before I even
00:39:07seen it.
00:39:09yeah.
00:39:11I love it with
00:39:12blind.
00:39:18It's been
00:39:18the ride of
00:39:20a lifetime.
00:39:21So thank you.
00:39:29Yeah.
00:39:45Monster Jam.
00:39:47Oh, yeah.
00:39:47This is going to be
00:39:48so fun.
00:40:00It's Monster Jam.
00:40:03It's
00:40:04Bachelor Night.
00:40:05Monster Trucks.
00:40:06Good vibes.
00:40:07Good friends.
00:40:08Damn near family
00:40:09at this point, man.
00:40:10Feeling good.
00:40:12Very Ohio.
00:40:13Kudos to whoever
00:40:14set that up.
00:40:20Come on, come on,
00:40:22come on.
00:40:22Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:40:26So today's the
00:40:27Bachelet party
00:40:28and I'm feeling
00:40:29really excited.
00:40:30Fire me now
00:40:31and look at my
00:40:32shot.
00:40:34Turn down for what?
00:40:35Oh, my God.
00:40:37This is all
00:40:37good.
00:40:41Oh, my God.
00:40:43Oh, my God.
00:40:44This is so funny.
00:40:46We are at the casino
00:40:46celebrating our last
00:40:48night of single life.
00:40:49Hopefully win some money.
00:40:50Hopefully for the
00:40:51weddings.
00:40:51Just kidding.
00:40:52Turn down for what?
00:40:54I'm going to be
00:40:55Alex Henderson's wife
00:40:56in a couple days
00:40:57and that is a
00:40:58crazy thing to say.
00:40:59I'm going to be a wife.
00:41:00Turn down for what?
00:41:01You're betting on love.
00:41:02I'm all in
00:41:03for a Bachelorette party.
00:41:05Woo!
00:41:07Woo!
00:41:08Woo!
00:41:10Woo!
00:41:12Woo!
00:41:12Woo!
00:41:12This time I'm practicing
00:41:13walking down the aisle.
00:41:14Woo!
00:41:15Woo!
00:41:15I'm just sitting there
00:41:16with Alex.
00:41:16I do.
00:41:18Woo!
00:41:18Woo!
00:41:19He's the best man
00:41:19I've ever met.
00:41:21What I'm hopeful for
00:41:22is tomorrow when he
00:41:23meets Emma that he'll
00:41:24realize it's not that
00:41:25scary.
00:41:25I think that will
00:41:26fulfill his life so
00:41:27much in ways that
00:41:29he can't even
00:41:30understand yet.
00:41:31I feel very goofy
00:41:32trying to walk sexy.
00:41:34Woo!
00:41:37Amber's got the legs.
00:41:41All right, let's
00:41:41do the baby's.
00:41:42Yeah!
00:41:43Damn!
00:41:45Damn!
00:41:46Damn!
00:41:46Damn!
00:41:48There's no way
00:41:48the girls have
00:41:49as much fun.
00:41:50They just can't be.
00:41:52Amber texted me
00:41:53a little bit ago
00:41:53and asked if I wanted
00:41:54pizza and said
00:41:54we're not dumb.
00:41:56Wish she didn't
00:41:56get pizza though.
00:41:57I'll eat the rest
00:41:58later.
00:41:58Why?
00:41:58She's probably
00:41:59asleep.
00:42:00I hope she
00:42:00takes my dog out.
00:42:04Woo!
00:42:0440!
00:42:06Jesus Christ,
00:42:07man.
00:42:08Now you're
00:42:08getting me killed
00:42:09as a quarterback.
00:42:10I am excited
00:42:11to get to the altar
00:42:12and to see her
00:42:13in her dress.
00:42:14We do have
00:42:14question marks
00:42:15in terms of
00:42:16children.
00:42:16It does sound
00:42:17like she's
00:42:17coming around
00:42:17but I don't know
00:42:18what she's
00:42:18going to say.
00:42:19Excited?
00:42:20Yeah.
00:42:20Excited?
00:42:21Nervous?
00:42:21It's a good
00:42:22day to the end.
00:42:24I love
00:42:2440.
00:42:28Oh!
00:42:29Give me that.
00:42:30Oh my
00:42:31daisy.
00:42:31It's a hell of a
00:42:32serve.
00:42:32Bye, Bo.
00:42:34Oh my
00:42:35God.
00:42:35I think
00:42:36Ashley's a phenomenal
00:42:36person.
00:42:37So when I close
00:42:38my eyes and picture
00:42:38my wife,
00:42:39in five years
00:42:40I've seen myself
00:42:40living in Florida
00:42:41with a phenomenal
00:42:42house,
00:42:42potential trust in
00:42:43Dubai and a safe
00:42:44house in
00:42:44Queenstown, New Zealand.
00:42:46I see myself
00:42:46very happy with a
00:42:47wife and kids
00:42:48or kids on the
00:42:48way at that
00:42:49point.
00:42:49Game point.
00:42:51Oh my
00:42:51days.
00:42:52Here's a toast
00:42:53to everybody
00:42:54fighting a
00:42:54husband.
00:42:58Toast to love.
00:42:59Come here.
00:43:00Come here.
00:43:00Happiness.
00:43:01Toast to marriage,
00:43:02god damn it.
00:43:02Marriage, god damn it.
00:43:03Hold them all, man.
00:43:04Hold them all.
00:43:07It's so good,
00:43:08good.
00:43:10I've been waiting
00:43:22Today's my wedding
00:43:23day and I'm so excited.
00:43:27Big day.
00:43:28I'm like really in my
00:43:30head right now.
00:43:31Really?
00:43:34Children and like all
00:43:36the thoughts and like
00:43:37It's a big decision.
00:43:38Yeah, I just don't
00:43:39want to make them
00:43:40wrong.
00:43:41Did you talk to
00:43:42Mike at all today?
00:43:43No.
00:43:44I texted him,
00:43:45it's her motherfucking
00:43:45wedding.
00:43:46And he goes,
00:43:47like he thumbs it
00:43:48and he's like,
00:43:48I'm very late.
00:43:48I was like,
00:43:49I am too.
00:43:51We just had like
00:43:51fun last night too.
00:43:52You know,
00:43:53we never talked
00:43:53about anything.
00:43:55Did you guys
00:43:55end up staying
00:43:55together last night
00:43:56or did you?
00:43:57No, no.
00:43:57I like we went
00:43:58to our hotels.
00:43:59I love him for you.
00:44:01Yeah, mom loves him.
00:44:03I've never felt this
00:44:04way about someone
00:44:06before.
00:44:06Yeah, he's very
00:44:08comfortable.
00:44:09He fits in really
00:44:10well.
00:44:11He makes me feel
00:44:14so happy,
00:44:15so comfortable.
00:44:17I just really
00:44:18haven't felt this
00:44:21light and free
00:44:25with someone before.
00:44:42today's a big day.
00:44:43I'm married.
00:44:44It's wild.
00:44:45We're in this forever.
00:44:46You know,
00:44:47until death do us part.
00:44:49How you feeling, man?
00:44:50Feeling good.
00:44:51Feeling nervous.
00:44:52Feeling a little nervous?
00:44:53Yeah.
00:44:54I mean,
00:44:55I don't know
00:44:55if she's going to
00:44:56say yes or no.
00:44:57It's scary.
00:44:58What's the rest
00:44:58of the family thinking?
00:45:00They're supportive.
00:45:01Nobody understands
00:45:01fully just kind of
00:45:02what we've talked
00:45:03about and what
00:45:03we've gone through.
00:45:04That's the thing.
00:45:05We're getting married.
00:45:06It's a lot.
00:45:07It feels like forever.
00:45:08Exactly.
00:45:09The hearts of
00:45:10thousands of women
00:45:11are going to break today.
00:45:12I'm in jail.
00:45:24You guys look so beautiful.
00:45:28This is my sister,
00:45:29Hannah.
00:45:30I'm Hannah.
00:45:30Hi, Hannah.
00:45:31Nice to meet you.
00:45:32And this is my best friend,
00:45:33Kayla.
00:45:34Hi, nice to meet you,
00:45:35honey.
00:45:36I'm Patty.
00:45:37Hello, beauty.
00:45:38Are you nervous?
00:45:38I'm excited.
00:45:40Good.
00:45:42I feel so happy
00:45:43and calm.
00:45:45Oh, Emma.
00:45:46Stop.
00:45:47No.
00:45:49Don't.
00:45:49She just did your makeup.
00:45:50I know.
00:45:51I was like,
00:45:51I'm delivering this,
00:45:52but yeah.
00:45:55I feel just excited.
00:45:59Good.
00:45:59Good.
00:46:00Everybody is.
00:46:01How are you feeling?
00:46:02I'm good.
00:46:03Happy birthday.
00:46:04The first day of 28.
00:46:05How's mom and dad?
00:46:07Good.
00:46:07They're also kind of
00:46:08emotional, too.
00:46:09They're really good.
00:46:09But they love him so much, too.
00:46:13They, like,
00:46:14think he's his perfect family.
00:46:16Hannah's like,
00:46:17Hannah, what's your verdict?
00:46:18100% yes.
00:46:20That man makes me feel
00:46:22so safe here.
00:46:24And it makes me feel
00:46:25comfortable, like,
00:46:26in my own skin.
00:46:28But it's a big decision.
00:46:30Right.
00:46:30I don't take lightly.
00:46:34Ooh.
00:46:35Look at this guy.
00:46:37I put the button and everything.
00:46:38Yep.
00:46:38Have you been working out?
00:46:40I hate you.
00:46:41Yeah.
00:46:43All right.
00:46:43Let's take on me.
00:46:44Uh-huh.
00:46:44Oh, yeah.
00:46:54Bracelet?
00:46:55The bracelet might be too much, but...
00:46:57Bracelet's too much?
00:46:57I like the bracelet.
00:46:59My sister has the same bracelet.
00:47:00I like the bracelet a lot, but...
00:47:02Bill.
00:47:03No, Bill, all right?
00:47:04This guy.
00:47:05Exciting day.
00:47:06You guys come in by your side.
00:47:08Looking forward to the future.
00:47:09Cheers.
00:47:10Cheers, fellas.
00:47:10Cheers.
00:47:11Thank you, guys.
00:47:12From the start.
00:47:13We got marching skies.
00:47:16Oh!
00:47:17Oh!
00:47:18Oh!
00:47:19Where's my boy?
00:47:20You look so beautiful, Mom.
00:47:23Thank you, my son.
00:47:25Oh, my God.
00:47:25You look fantastic.
00:47:27I love you.
00:47:28You look beautiful.
00:47:30Well, you look good, hon.
00:47:32So, look at that.
00:47:34Look at that, baby.
00:47:34Right?
00:47:36How are you feeling?
00:47:38Good?
00:47:39Good?
00:47:39You excited?
00:47:40Excited and nervous, yeah.
00:47:41I feel that Mommy and Kelly go over Emma.
00:47:44Oh, you were over there?
00:47:45Nice.
00:47:46How was it?
00:47:47She was emotional.
00:47:48Yeah, she's crying already?
00:47:49She said she was going to cry.
00:47:51Let's sit down.
00:47:51Sit down.
00:47:52I'm just concerned about you.
00:47:54Okay.
00:47:55I want to make sure you're okay.
00:47:56I know you're stressed out.
00:47:57Yeah.
00:47:58I mean, I talked to you maybe, what, three times?
00:48:01Every single time you had that, too.
00:48:02Yeah.
00:48:03Which is understandable.
00:48:04Yeah, I'm sorry.
00:48:05I shouldn't take it out on you.
00:48:06It's just, you always call it the worst time, huh?
00:48:09So, it's actually unreal.
00:48:11It really is.
00:48:12She's uncanny for that.
00:48:13I really is.
00:48:14Are you happy a little more?
00:48:15Yeah, I'm happy.
00:48:16I just want you to be happy, so.
00:48:17You're happy, I'm happy.
00:48:18Yeah.
00:48:19You're miserable, I'm miserable.
00:48:21Okay.
00:48:21Which I was.
00:48:23So.
00:48:24There's only so much crying we can do in the house.
00:48:26I...
00:48:28I relax.
00:48:29I relax on the crying.
00:48:30All right.
00:48:31I relax.
00:48:31Mainly.
00:48:31I learned a lot more about this whole thing, so.
00:48:35You know, like, this is a...
00:48:37It's like a whirlwind.
00:48:38You don't know detail.
00:48:39You know what I mean?
00:48:41And, you know, as parents, you'll notice hopefully one day, we love you.
00:48:50And, we just want the best for you.
00:48:53And, you know...
00:48:54Understanding now, I'm understanding now that you make the decisions, so.
00:48:59You're your own man, as long as you're happy.
00:49:01You instill that in yourself.
00:49:03At the end of the day, we just want you to be happy.
00:49:06And, uh...
00:49:06Yeah.
00:49:07I want to be traditional, if you know that.
00:49:09We've been having an army dated for five years.
00:49:12Before we got...
00:49:13Before I asked them out of you.
00:49:14Right?
00:49:15Mm-hmm.
00:49:16So, that's...
00:49:17That's why we were taken off guard a little bit in the beginning, right?
00:49:20Mm-hmm.
00:49:21Yeah.
00:49:23But, if she's the one for you...
00:49:25Making sure you're doing the right thing.
00:49:26...and you feel that way, deep in your heart...
00:49:28Then, you know, we're behind you.
00:49:30Like, you know.
00:49:32I love her.
00:49:32I think she's great.
00:49:33I appreciate it.
00:49:34She's a good kid.
00:49:36Yeah.
00:49:36I mean...
00:49:37She definitely fits in.
00:49:39Yeah.
00:49:41It's a lot to take in.
00:49:43I'm going to be honest with you.
00:49:44Like, just to think about starting off on the pod...
00:49:46Then it turns into the rest of my life.
00:49:48The rest of our lives.
00:49:49We raised you right.
00:49:50I know that.
00:49:51I'm happy for you.
00:49:52If you're happy, I'm happy for you.
00:49:54It looks so good.
00:49:55Okay?
00:49:56I'm so...
00:49:57I...
00:49:58I love you.
00:49:59I love you.
00:50:00All right?
00:50:01All right, baby.
00:50:02Yeah.
00:50:02See you guys there.
00:50:03You see you.
00:50:04You're fine?
00:50:04Yeah.
00:50:05I love you.
00:50:06She has the question marks?
00:50:08In terms of children.
00:50:09And that's our biggest thing.
00:50:11So I would love for her to go first.
00:50:13To see what that answer is.
00:50:14If she can overcome that and say yes.
00:50:16That means she's really thought about it.
00:50:17And she's like, I can see a future with Mike.
00:50:20With children.
00:50:21So I would love to hear her say yes.
00:50:24Like, okay.
00:50:24That's the biggest thing in my mind is children.
00:50:26You just check that off.
00:50:28Like, let's do it.
00:50:28Let's dive in.
00:50:29I hope I'm the one who gets to stand beside you.
00:50:37I'd never let you go.
00:50:42Wow.
00:50:43I hope I'm the one who gets to stand beside you.
00:50:51Sweet girl.
00:50:52Oh, Hank, amazing.
00:50:54Oh, my God.
00:50:55So beautiful.
00:50:56Now I'm going to cry.
00:50:57So beautiful.
00:50:58Just wait for the veil, Mom.
00:51:00Don't cry.
00:51:04So, my pearl earrings.
00:51:08My dad gave them to me.
00:51:10At my wedding.
00:51:19I know.
00:51:21There's something.
00:51:23There's something.
00:51:26Here am I something old.
00:51:31Oh, my God.
00:51:34It's magical and beautiful.
00:51:37She's meant to wear a veil.
00:51:40Yeah.
00:51:40Look at her.
00:51:42You look so pretty.
00:51:45I'll have you.
00:51:47If you can picture yourself in any situation with him
00:51:50and having him still makes you happy,
00:51:51that's the one.
00:51:53We are here.
00:51:54No matter what you decide,
00:51:56just make yourself happy.
00:51:57True.
00:51:57Yeah.
00:51:58Okay.
00:51:59Final cheers.
00:52:00Final cheers.
00:52:01We love you.
00:52:02We love you so much.
00:52:03Cheers.
00:52:03Good decisions.
00:52:18Don't cry.
00:52:20Oh, don't cry.
00:52:25I'm behind you 100%.
00:52:28Okay?
00:52:29I love you.
00:52:31What do you know?
00:52:33Okay.
00:52:34Yeah, you're nervous.
00:52:36It's a lot to take in, you know?
00:52:40We're all behind you.
00:52:41Yeah.
00:52:56Seasons come and seasons go.
00:53:02Seasons come and seasons go.
00:53:21Oh, God.
00:53:22Oh, God.
00:53:22Here she comes.
00:53:27You look beautiful.
00:53:29I'll try not to wink at you.
00:53:33Are you ready?
00:53:36Okay.
00:53:36Okay.
00:53:38Love you, sweetie.
00:53:43This dress is beautiful.
00:53:45Wow.
00:53:46Oh, my God.
00:53:47I'm going to have a fucking face.
00:53:49I guess it's okay.
00:53:50It's okay.
00:53:51Oh, my God.
00:53:52You look beautiful.
00:53:52I'm going to have a nice face.
00:53:58I'm going to have a nice face.
00:54:05I'm going to have a nice face.
00:54:06Oh, my God.
00:54:09Please rise.
00:54:15Are you ready?
00:54:17Holy fuck!
00:54:20I love them.
00:54:44I love you.
00:54:45Are you?
00:54:47It's so good.
00:54:49It's being good.
00:54:50How do you look like?
00:54:53All right.
00:54:54I know. Is it straight?
00:54:59Please be seated.
00:55:03Yeah.
00:55:05Are you?
00:55:07Good evening and welcome.
00:55:08I'd like to thank everyone in this room for being here today as we celebrate Emma and Mike and the
00:55:14journey they've been on together so far.
00:55:16Today the two of you are taking the first step of your new chapter and in many ways a whole
00:55:21new life.
00:55:23Loving someone in marriage is a reason to stretch beyond our limits, to become more for the sake of the
00:55:28other.
00:55:29It is to look into the soul of your beloved and accept what you see, yet hold space for all
00:55:36that they're going to become.
00:55:37As you join today, you're announcing to the world that you're welcoming that challenge and all the joys that come
00:55:43with it.
00:56:03You're welcome.
00:56:10You're welcome.
00:56:11You're welcome.
00:56:12You're welcome.
00:56:13And I know that you're welcome, and you're welcome.
00:56:13You have to choose now.
00:56:14One of the biggest things that I love about you, and I love about us, is that we're able to
00:56:18communicate and always be genuine with one another and get to the bottom of anything.
00:56:25So thank you for that, and thank you for making it easy on me
00:56:29to love such an amazing person inside and out,
00:56:32because I can't wait to see what the future holds for us.
00:56:40Mike?
00:56:42Yeah?
00:56:42I knew that I was doing this for a reason,
00:56:46and being here, my reason is you.
00:56:51You've made me feel safe and sane and comfortable.
00:56:56We have gone through a lot.
00:56:59You have made me feel so special
00:57:05and empowered me to march to the beat of my own drum
00:57:09and not sacrifice who I am in the process.
00:57:13I can't ask for a better partner throughout my life.
00:57:18Welcome.
00:57:23Emma and Mike, you chose to get engaged
00:57:25and spend the rest of your lives together
00:57:26based on a deep emotional connection.
00:57:29Looks, age, finances, and all the superficial things of the world
00:57:33factor for you, too.
00:57:35Now is the time to decide if love is blind.
00:57:44Will you get married and commit to facing life together as husband and wife,
00:57:47or will you walk away forever?
00:57:59Emma, do you take Mike to be your lawfully wedded husband,
00:58:04to have and to hold from this day forward,
00:58:07for better or for worse,
00:58:09for richer or for poorer,
00:58:11in sickness and in health,
00:58:13to love and cherish,
00:58:16forsaking all others for all the days of your life,
00:58:19if so, say, I do.
00:58:29I've been thinking a lot about this decision.
00:58:41There's a lot of things that we still need to go through,
00:58:49whether that's today or whether that's two years from now.
00:58:59I've been thinking about
00:59:03how you make me feel,
00:59:05and I can't...
00:59:12I can't...
00:59:14see a future without you.
00:59:24And I love you.
00:59:25I really, really do.
00:59:27And if that was a yes.
00:59:42Mike, do you take Emma to be your lawfully wedded wife,
00:59:47to have and to hold from this day forward,
00:59:50for better, for worse,
00:59:52for richer or for poorer,
00:59:54in sickness and in health,
00:59:56to love and cherish,
00:59:58forsaking all others for all the days of your life?
01:00:05If so, say, I do.
01:00:33It's a wedding day.
01:00:36Everything is, like, great.
01:00:37I can see my life being with you.
01:00:40I know Christine.
01:00:41I know all the parts of her,
01:00:43and she knows all the parts of me.
01:00:44A lot of pressure.
01:00:46How do you think your sister's gonna take everything?
01:00:48This is strange, like, meeting on the day of.
01:00:51Really?
01:00:51What are you all doing?
01:00:52This is, like, the combo for the storm.
01:00:54I'm ready.
01:00:55Now is the time to decide
01:00:57if love...
01:00:58You're going to try.
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