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This episode of Virgin Island Season 2 delves into the complex dynamics of relationships and personal growth. Explore the evolving connections between characters as they navigate challenging decisions and confront their pasts.
The narrative centers on themes of forgiveness and the pursuit of authentic happiness. Viewers will witness pivotal moments that test the bonds of friendship and romance, offering profound insights into human nature.
Gain a deeper understanding of the strategies employed by the characters to overcome obstacles. This installment provides compelling examples of resilience and the importance of self-discovery in the face of adversity.
#VirginIsland #Season2 #RelationshipDrama
The narrative centers on themes of forgiveness and the pursuit of authentic happiness. Viewers will witness pivotal moments that test the bonds of friendship and romance, offering profound insights into human nature.
Gain a deeper understanding of the strategies employed by the characters to overcome obstacles. This installment provides compelling examples of resilience and the importance of self-discovery in the face of adversity.
#VirginIsland #Season2 #RelationshipDrama
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00:00All I think about is what I'm gonna get wrong.
00:02Can you point to the outer labia?
00:05Nope.
00:08Now...
00:10Twelve virgins are getting a crash course in intimacy.
00:13Social media, porn, dating apps.
00:16There are so many negative messages and we can help them blossom.
00:19Use it by stimulating the area.
00:22They'll be guided by experts.
00:24You see yourself as...
00:26Proposal.
00:26To explore all aspects of intimacy.
00:30And maybe even have sex with a trained therapist.
00:33Do you want to put a condom on?
00:36Or each other.
00:37Get a room, guys!
00:40I really do need to change my life.
00:43Who will be ready...
00:44Desperate times call for desperate measures.
00:46To go all the way.
00:58Get on your knees.
01:01Over the past few days, the group enjoyed some playtime.
01:04Do you want to bark for me?
01:07With guest expert Shelby.
01:10How did that feel?
01:10Yeah.
01:13Alex worked hard, controlling his anxiety.
01:16I genuinely feel amazing.
01:19Ellen made progress.
01:20Is that okay, like, me doing that?
01:23Building trust with surrogate partner Kat.
01:25I feel on top of the world right now.
01:27Yay!
01:28On top of Virgin Islands.
01:29Yay!
01:30And Teagan got into the swing of things.
01:33Hit my hand with the dick.
01:35Now, as they enter the next phase of the course,
01:38it's time to get technical.
01:41There's a lot of pressure to know everything around sex.
01:45So technique is really, really important
01:47because many of them haven't tried anything at all.
01:50This is what's going to prepare them to connect sexually
01:52with each other or with anyone else
01:54once they go out and start dating.
02:06Day 11 on Virgin Island
02:08and the start of a new two-day phase of the course.
02:11The next phase of the course is all about technique.
02:14That can mean so many things.
02:19I don't think I have any really good technique.
02:21You want to do everything right
02:23and not what I've just seen online
02:25watching porn or anything like that.
02:27So I think the whole phase is going to be good for me.
02:29It's going to be intense, I'll say that.
02:31That I can agree on.
02:32Mm-hmm.
02:34Oh, we've got a sausage.
02:36Maybe we can practise technique with a sausage.
02:38If you want to.
02:40I've got no clue how we're going to practise technique.
02:43As long as they don't say,
02:45right, guys, oral technique on each other right now
02:47in the pavilion.
02:48Red, red, red, red, red.
02:50Yeah.
02:51Yellow.
02:57You feeling good, Percy?
02:59I don't know what they're going to do, but we'll see.
03:02In this morning's workshop,
03:04Celeste and Danielle will show how mastering simple skills...
03:07Morning, guys.
03:09Morning.
03:09...can take sexual intimacy to the next level.
03:12I don't think anything can transform around intimacy
03:15if you're not including some of the basics.
03:17At first, they're going to find this exercise pretty intimidating,
03:19but I know they're going to have fun with it once they dive in.
03:22Okay, welcome to the next phase of the course.
03:26You've already learned a lot of skills, but technique is about putting it all together
03:30into, like, a smooth, flowing escalation.
03:34We are going to start with kissing.
03:42I've never been a fan of it.
03:44I've had, like, one person went, I'm going to make out with you, and he went...
03:48..and then that had just put me off, and then he started biting me,
03:51and I was just like, no, this is too much.
03:54Kissing may be seen as first base, but Celeste and Danielle know
03:57it's the gateway to so much more.
03:59For me, kissing is probably the most important thing.
04:03I just love lips, and I want them everywhere on my body,
04:07on my face, on my neck, all over my body,
04:10so there's, like, a whole escalation even through a single kiss.
04:14It literally travels to the nipples, to the pussy, to the toes,
04:19and that's what creates a lot of warm-up.
04:22So who else to practise with me?
04:29Yeah.
04:30That's it.
04:32So far, accountant Teagan has thrown herself fully into the course.
04:36I really want to not be a virgin anymore,
04:39and to experience the romance,
04:42to be able to make love to somebody.
04:44I want all that.
04:47I was born with cerebral palsy.
04:49I grew up being told from a very young age,
04:52you might not be able to do a lot of things.
04:54They told me I might not be able to walk, so I walked.
04:56I might not be able to talk, so I talked.
04:58You only get out what you put in, you know?
05:09Yeah.
05:10Yeah.
05:11Yeah.
05:14Yeah.
05:17Yeah.
05:20I felt a lot of contact.
05:21Yeah.
05:25Oh, I need not a cold shower.
05:28Oh, it's very erotic.
05:30Mm-hmm.
05:30I felt it all the way down.
05:32Yeah, yeah.
05:33Next, the experts want to up the ante.
05:35I want to invite you to try with each other.
05:39With some peer-on-peer practice.
05:42Who wants to give any one of these kisses a try?
05:46Fuck up.
05:50First up are Katie and Callum, who've been growing clothes throughout the retreat.
05:55Initially, I don't think I would be a very good kisser.
05:57I've never gone further than holding someone's hand.
06:01Ever.
06:02Has it?
06:03I've never done anything.
06:06I think it's funny.
06:08You know, intimacy and sex.
06:09I find it quite humorous.
06:11A lot of people would say I am quite childish.
06:14Working with Kat at the retreat, Callum is learning to step up from boy to man.
06:21Right.
06:38I need to go a bit slower.
06:41Right.
06:41Katie, I love it that you're giving him feedback.
06:43That's fantastic.
06:45And I like the stop on and out.
06:47See?
06:47Yeah.
06:48Yay!
06:50Yeah.
06:53Also quick to pair up...
06:54Yeah, you're right, doing it with me?
06:55Yeah.
06:56..the island's other potential lovebirds, Alex and Joy.
06:59Do you want to do neck?
07:00Yeah, yeah.
07:02Yeah.
07:19You can have teeth in if you want.
07:26Sorry, I feel like I was just kissing.
07:28Yeah.
07:28No, it felt good.
07:29And I like the teeth.
07:31Gorgeous.
07:32And you're okay with me giving you neck kisses?
07:34Yes.
07:35Please.
07:35Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.
08:12How was that?
08:14Very good.
08:15Wonderful.
08:22Who else want to try?
08:27I think that's a bit uncomfortable for me.
08:30Okay.
08:31Ellen?
08:31It's okay.
08:32No, you're having one.
08:33No, don't worry.
08:35Even if it's just a hand kiss.
08:39I'll do arms only, if anyone wants to do an arm.
08:42I'll do it?
08:42Yeah.
08:43Yeah, come on.
08:44Woo!
08:44Good boy.
08:47Identifying as bisexual.
08:50Theatre Usher Millie is filled with horror by the thought of romance.
08:55When it comes to dating, you know the other person will want intimacy and, you know, he'll want a kiss.
09:02I just can't, I can't give them that, really.
09:06I'm scared that I'm not going to enjoy it.
09:09And then, like, kill the vibes instantly.
09:12Um, okay.
09:14You can do it?
09:15Yeah.
09:32Okay.
09:33Good.
09:34Really good.
09:35Thanks.
09:35Woo-hoo!
09:39Any feelings?
09:41Obviously, it's intimate, but, like, it's very, like, I don't know.
09:45I think I need to try and relax.
09:47I think this will be something really good to work on in one-on-ones.
09:53How was that?
09:54Yeah, broke the seal.
09:55Yeah.
09:59Lovely.
10:01It's all all T-shirt, Graham.
10:02Um, yeah, I saw that, and then you did the thing, and I was like, woo!
10:07It was hot.
10:09Also feeling hot after the workshop.
10:11Please, I'm not comfy.
10:14Callum and Katie.
10:17Whose relationship has been noticed by the Islanders.
10:20And the Experts.
10:23There's definitely something developing, it feels.
10:25Totally something between them, right?
10:27It's spicy.
10:28Yeah.
10:29It really looks like something that he's been deeply craving.
10:31Mm-hmm.
10:32I'm going to work with him a little bit on practicing kissing,
10:35because that's a huge insecurity that he has.
10:39In terms of being intimate,
10:41getting it to the next stage after flirting
10:43is where it just kind of walled off.
10:47Hello.
10:49Kissing is quite a big step when it comes to it.
10:53I might be weird about it,
10:54and then they start thinking I'm weird,
10:55because I've never done it.
10:57Can I squeak in here?
10:58You can.
11:03I did enjoy today's workshop,
11:05but I feel like I could get off.
11:07As a thought.
11:08Yeah, yeah.
11:13I mean, we can do it here, if you'd like.
11:16Yeah.
11:17Does that seem fun?
11:18Yeah.
11:19If Kat can boost Callum by teaching him kissing technique,
11:23with this one,
11:25maybe it could help him to act on his feelings for Katie.
11:28What?
11:29Yes, but I want you to go very slowly.
11:41I'm a little more up with your head.
11:43I like, no, not that way.
11:45The other way, this way.
11:48If I have a little bit of space,
11:49then I can kind of meet you.
11:50Okay.
12:02Good job.
12:03How does that feel?
12:04Cool.
12:09He sounded like such a dude in that moment.
12:17I'm flustered.
12:19I can't even think right now.
12:21I've had my first kiss, basically.
12:23I feel like a lot more confident in actually doing that now.
12:27If you told me before coming here,
12:29I'd be doing that in there,
12:31like, honestly,
12:33I wouldn't believe you.
12:53It's the first afternoon of the technique phase.
13:05Sex toys can be seen as taboo,
13:08but it's really important that they have time
13:09to just practice and play with each other
13:11and maybe just not take sex so seriously.
13:14Oh, my God!
13:17You just tried it.
13:19I'm so sorry.
13:22Still make babies, are you?
13:24Maybe, I don't know.
13:26Since pairing up in the kissing workshop,
13:28some of the islanders are getting even closer.
13:31This is nice.
13:32This is for internal.
13:33Oh, crumbs.
13:34I should have put that in my eyes.
13:36Alex and I, I feel like we really connect.
13:38It's very easy to feel comfortable around him.
13:41I came here to, like, overcome my issues
13:43with sex and intimacy, and this has happened.
13:45I would definitely say this is, like, unexpected.
13:48Do you want a blank?
13:49I don't want one.
13:50Oh.
13:50But just in case, just see if you want one.
13:52Oh, that's nice.
13:53Thank you so much.
13:55She makes me feel, like, really at ease.
13:58It's like enjoying getting to know someone,
14:00exploring that romantic connection.
14:03To smooth the road to romance,
14:05they first have individual issues to address.
14:08You have a long tongue.
14:09That's what I get told.
14:11That tongue is going to go places.
14:12Oh, my God.
14:14Elil will continue to help Joy with her vaginismus,
14:17while surrogate partner Rizden
14:19will keep working on Alex's anxiety with erections.
14:23I'm looking forward to seeing what has shifted
14:25now that there's this romance blossoming.
14:28We want to make sure that they're equipped to deal with that.
14:31What's your plan?
14:32You know, this is a big thing for Alex,
14:34is the, like, performing.
14:36My goal is teaching him how to sustain an erection
14:38as well as complete with an orgasm.
14:40OK, so, Elil, you'll be seeing Joy today?
14:42Yeah, so I want to give her a plan
14:45of how she can start integrating a lot of engorgement,
14:49potentially even orgasm,
14:51into her practice of penetration.
14:54If the treatments work,
14:56it could bring Alex and Joy closer together.
14:59If I started dating someone,
15:01that is the assumption that we get to a point
15:02where we have intercourse.
15:04And yet, if somebody tried to touch me there,
15:06like, it would be pain,
15:06and that's not a sexy thing.
15:09So we're just going to check in?
15:11Yeah, perfect.
15:12In previous sessions,
15:13Joy has been learning to relax around penetration.
15:16We have dilators here.
15:18Do you have your own one?
15:19Yes, I have mine.
15:20I can show you.
15:21Cool.
15:21But now Elil wants to go further with a new approach.
15:25It's way easier to practice penetration,
15:28either when you are very, very engorged,
15:31and ideally, after you orgasm,
15:33you're more relaxed.
15:34Mm-hmm.
15:35We're rewriting the experiences around penetration
15:37to let your nervous system and body know,
15:40oh, it's not this painful, scary thing.
15:46Have you made progress with his erection anxiety?
15:49One hand.
15:51One hand.
15:53I can't even do that.
15:55Have you been practising that?
15:56No.
15:57Alex has tested himself further.
15:59Lay back when you're ready.
16:01In the safe hands of surrogate partner Rizden
16:04to see if he can stay focused until orgasm.
16:07No pressure.
16:09How does that feel?
16:10That's really good.
16:13Let's just put that on the floor,
16:15just so it's a tiny bit softer.
16:19I know that working through vaginismus entails pain.
16:22It will be uncomfortable at points.
16:24Would you like me to cover one of the pillows,
16:26just in case you want to hump the pillow?
16:28Yeah?
16:29Yeah.
16:29I know that some approaches are unconventional.
16:32Doing this, you know, it's clearly whatever it takes.
16:38Ah, good breathing.
16:44Having really bad performance anxiety.
16:46In my head, I am thinking that I'm not good enough,
16:50I'm not masculine enough.
16:51This person doesn't really want to be with me.
16:53I start to lose my erection.
16:55It's then the panic attacks, massive heart rate,
16:57deep breathing, feeling nervous.
17:11Everything your body's doing right now is perfect.
17:39It's like all the tension's just lifted.
17:42I feel tingly, I feel shaky in a good way.
17:46That felt pretty good.
17:48Before, I put so much pressure on me and my genitals.
17:52Having come to this island,
17:53learn techniques that can calm you down in the moment
17:56and just, like, lose yourself in your body
17:57has been, yeah, amazing.
18:00Just give yourself a moment to kind of feel it.
18:05Spread all over your body.
18:10How crazy is that?
18:15After orgasm, using a dilator should feel easier,
18:19bringing Joy a step closer to pain-free sex.
18:22Just remembering the breathing.
18:28So remembering that the tension is around the entrance.
18:39Yeah, you're all the way in now.
18:41There's no pain.
18:43Amazing.
18:47Happy with that today?
18:49Yeah, I'm happy with that.
18:50I've learned something about myself.
18:52I just masturbated in front of someone.
18:59Like, to climax.
19:02Fuck yes!
19:05And then, I used the first size of my dilator
19:08and it, like, just slipped right in there.
19:12Fuck yes!
19:15This has been so big for me
19:17in terms of rewiring my brain.
19:21I think the idea of penetrative sex
19:23is becoming less and less scary.
19:27The therapy that they've been through
19:29has created such a noticeable change.
19:31It's unbelievable.
19:33The more that they practice,
19:35the more prepared they are
19:37to go out and do these things in life.
19:41How did your one-to-one go, Alex?
19:43It was pretty good.
19:45Cool.
19:45I had a great time.
19:46Do you have to, like, fully shower
19:47after that sort of thing
19:49or do you just baby wipe?
19:50Does it not just go everywhere?
19:52I usually shower, personally.
19:55After wanking?
19:55Yeah.
19:56Jeez.
19:57I can't be bothered.
19:58I'd be having six showers a day.
20:02Hello.
20:03Hello, honey.
20:04How was your one-to-one?
20:05It was very good.
20:06Oh, you smell really nice.
20:07Yeah, it's because I was really sweaty
20:09so I had to...
20:09I bet you were.
20:12Was that good?
20:13It was really good.
20:14Did you finish?
20:15Yeah.
20:15Yeah.
20:16I now know how the people of Pompeii felt
20:18but instead of pyroclastic flow of lava
20:21it was hot, frothy ejaculants.
20:23Everyone.
20:29Right, I love kissing.
20:31It's just something I really enjoy doing
20:32so as soon as they were like,
20:33oh, we're going to practice kissing
20:35I'm like, yeah, boy.
20:36No, do-do-do-do.
20:38Yeah.
20:41At the hangout,
20:42talkers turned to this morning's kissing workshop.
20:45I think, Katie, you look like you're enjoying yourself.
20:48I don't think I could have done it with anyone else.
20:51I could.
20:52Oh, fuck you.
20:53It was nice to see the progress
20:54from being too shy to do some things
20:56to being confident enough now.
20:57Yeah, well done, guys.
21:00But for Ellen,
21:01it just magnifies how far behind she's feeling.
21:04I didn't do the kissing on the neck
21:05because I didn't really feel comfortable.
21:08It was a bit awkward.
21:10For me, it's quite a personal thing to share
21:13in a group setting.
21:16Are you OK, baby?
21:17Yeah, I'm good.
21:18I just wanted alone time.
21:20Yeah, but I don't mind if you...
21:22I just wanted to come check with you, OK?
21:23Yeah, no, I'm all right.
21:24I don't want you to feel like you're being left out.
21:26So, Ellen,
21:27she didn't want to do any kissing.
21:30She felt aversion.
21:31I noticed at one point
21:32she got very internal
21:34and really couldn't watch.
21:36But she would feel comfortable
21:38doing it with someone
21:40she feels connected with,
21:41someone she feels drawn to.
21:44How are you doing?
21:47To help Ellen get closer
21:48to losing her virginity,
21:50Kat's getting her confident
21:51with the basics.
21:52I'm not very good at kissing, though.
21:55Well, we can start with practicing that.
21:57Yeah, ready?
22:02And you can relax your lips more.
22:04Like, really let them
22:06explore.
22:07OK.
22:11You're still a little bit like this.
22:14Sorry.
22:16Can I go again?
22:17Yeah.
22:22Is that right?
22:23How does it feel?
22:25Like, down below is, like,
22:28excited.
22:30Feeling more relaxed,
22:32Kat wants to escalate the session
22:34to more intimate touching.
22:36Uncharted territory for Ellen.
22:38I've never been touched intimately.
22:41I feel like maybe
22:43there's something wrong with me.
22:47I feel a bit of an outcast
22:50and like I've done something wrong.
22:54Yeah.
22:56Are you feeling OK,
22:58about directing?
22:58Yeah.
22:59Yeah.
22:59Where would you like
23:00to be touched first?
23:03Softly, like, slow.
23:05And then down, like,
23:07to my gentle.
23:08Down a little bit.
23:10Check it.
23:13Just keep letting me know.
23:19Just a second.
23:24Oh, it's passed.
23:25No, it's OK.
23:28Even the anticipation
23:29of intimate touch
23:30is enough to overwhelm Ellen.
23:39What are you feeling right now?
23:42I don't want to, like, fail.
23:44You can't fail.
23:46The only goal is pleasure.
23:48Oh, so don't be in the balls.
23:52No, you're absolutely not broken.
23:54And there's nothing wrong
23:56with your reaction
23:56to being touched.
24:03It felt quite intense.
24:06Just cross at myself, really,
24:08because it's my fault
24:09that I'm how I am
24:11and I knew I was going
24:12to struggle with it.
24:18As the sun sets
24:20on the first day
24:20of the technique phase,
24:22progress is mixed.
24:24Some move slow.
24:26Others more quickly.
24:30You smell really nice still,
24:31wasn't it?
24:35That was actually reasonable.
24:37Yeah, I like that.
24:41Do you want me to kiss your neck?
24:52Too much?
24:53Too cute?
24:54No.
24:56It's not good for me too.
24:57Get out of the room, guys.
25:21It's day two of the technique phase of the cast.
25:24All right lads, boys only table.
25:26Can I come on the boys table?
25:27No, it's boys only.
25:29Well, fuck you then.
25:30Yeah, it's mine.
25:35What are you giggling at?
25:36I just spat on you.
25:38I didn't actually, but I pretended to.
25:39Oh, okay.
25:40Yeah, as a member of the male species.
25:42That's kind of hot.
25:51It's obvious to see how effective somatic work is
25:55as you start to see people connecting with each other on an intimate level,
25:59because people actually have the opportunity to practice.
26:01Then you start to gain this sense of confidence and relaxation.
26:04It's beautiful to see.
26:07Alex and Joy have shared their first kiss.
26:10Come here, baby, come here.
26:12And now she's looking to share the love.
26:16Oh, my first kiss on the island.
26:19Did you first kiss?
26:20Yeah.
26:22Stopped steering her, Joy.
26:23Oh.
26:24Are you getting possessive now?
26:25Yeah.
26:26About time.
26:27So, if I want Katie more...
26:30You can't.
26:31Why?
26:31Because she's mine.
26:32Have you said that to Katie?
26:34No.
26:34Exactly.
26:35Not even kissed her, have you, Joy?
26:36No.
26:39I'm not doing that in front of everyone.
26:41That's so awkward.
26:42Uh-uh.
26:52Fucking air in my mouth.
26:55As Callum and Katie turn up the heat, Millie is still lukewarm.
27:01The whole socialising with a stranger and knowing the next bit could be intimacy,
27:09I internally, like, panic.
27:11But I'm hoping I can change and start doing things that I've never done before,
27:17even though it's going to be very scary.
27:21Millie's tasks are to embrace her sexuality.
27:25I want to help her see how her experiences don't have to hold her back.
27:30I'm sure there's more secret desires that Millie has tucked away that we can get into.
27:36Yeah.
27:36And I think being teased is a way to kind of tease it out of her.
27:40I can handle that.
27:41Yeah.
27:44So, a session with playtime expert Shelby.
27:47You ready to begin?
27:48Yeah.
27:49Come on up here.
27:50Could help Millie unlock her true desires.
27:54Nothing in this whole wide world matters except your body and my voice.
28:02Experimentation is how we learn about what we like and what we don't like.
28:06And playing with different sensations with different people is a great way for us to figure out what people's true
28:12desires are.
28:13Have you ever had your nipples pinched?
28:15No, ma'am.
28:17Ooh.
28:21Shelby's experiment to discover what turns Millie on...
28:24Oh, did you like that?
28:26I did.
28:26You did.
28:27...is proving to be enlightening.
28:30Your face is getting a little pink.
28:33Something exciting must be happening.
28:36Yes, ma'am.
28:41You're so beautiful.
28:42Thank you, ma'am.
28:43Shelby is quite hot.
28:45She's touched me in places I've never been touched before and I'm like...
28:50I really love, like, the whole, like, girl-on-girl aspect.
28:54So I think...
28:55I'm still figuring that out for myself.
28:58As the day goes on...
29:00Grab that pillow.
29:02Yes, mistress.
29:03Put it there.
29:04Shelby scrutinizes Will's technique in self-control.
29:08Is that for me?
29:10Yes, mistress.
29:11Good boy.
29:14And dominates Ed.
29:15This is how I want your hair.
29:17A handle to lead you around.
29:20She'll let you do whatever you want.
29:22I usually do.
29:24To build his confidence.
29:25People will go decades thinking about stuff like this and never trying it out.
29:29You're ahead of the game.
29:31Probably the best part about myself in a long time being here.
29:34I'm really happy to hear that.
29:46How was it one-to-one?
29:47It was so much fun.
29:49Yeah.
29:49It was a choice between getting laid or another session with Shelby.
29:53I'll pick a Shelby one.
29:54Real.
29:55Yeah, like, 100%.
29:57For Tegan, though, the possibility of sex is becoming real.
30:01I think I've still got a lot to learn, but I'm also, like,
30:04I definitely feel ready to go and do it.
30:06I think I've got my spherical blue balls.
30:10Having conquered the shame around her sexuality...
30:13You ready to lick my ass?
30:14Mm-hmm.
30:16I'm definitely a lesbian.
30:19Tegan has learnt many techniques with surrogate partner Rizden.
30:25So the experts think it's time to see if she's ready to go all the way.
30:30Tegan and I are getting to the culmination of her goals,
30:33which are to experience pleasure from the touch of another woman on her genitals.
30:37That's exciting.
30:38Yeah.
30:40Tegan is doing phenomenal.
30:41The excitement that she's embodied here at the retreat is really transformative for her.
30:47She is an ideal client to have a sexual experience.
30:52For this rite of passage, Rizden has escalated the session to the bedroom.
30:59Up until now, it's been very much like Rizden's been teaching me a lot of things.
31:03Whereas now, to lose my virginity, I'm feeling a tad of warmth.
31:07A bit nervous. It's hard to describe.
31:11Tegan defines losing her virginity as receiving an orgasm through the hand of somebody else.
31:19It's a very pivotal moment.
31:22It's a very pivotal moment.
31:24Hi.
31:24Hi.
31:25Hi.
31:28That's really comfy, actually.
31:29It's not so bad.
31:30You are okay.
31:32It's not so bad.
31:50It's a very pivotal moment.
31:53Okay.
31:57I'm nervous.
32:09What did you think?
32:11I like that.
32:12I got fanny flutters.
32:13You did?
32:13Yeah.
32:16The session starts with slow, sensual touch.
32:20I want to struggle with you.
32:22Yeah, great.
32:23Go for it.
32:23Yeah, of course.
32:25So bizarre.
32:26What's bizarre?
32:27It's just a little bit of a situation.
32:29Totally.
32:29Super new.
32:30Yeah.
32:31Really good.
32:32Do you want to try the strap on?
32:35Yeah.
32:35You want to try?
32:36Yeah.
32:44You're quite good at this.
32:45I like it.
32:47I like it.
32:51Now, Wisden takes the lead in pleasure in tea.
32:53I'll be even.
32:55Touching your gut?
32:57Uh huh.
32:58Please stop.
32:59Uh huh.
33:08Uh huh.
33:10Do you want to do it?
33:13I like it.
33:14Uh huh.
33:17Uh huh.
33:20Uh huh.
33:31That didn't take long.
33:43My pleasure.
33:54My head's a bit fried right now, I feel great.
33:57Let's just say, I'm not a virgin anymore.
34:00Shut up!
34:02Here you go, sit down!
34:03This is where I just lost my virginity.
34:05I feel like jumping for joy.
34:08Oh!
34:10Confidence!
34:11Your cheeks are so rosy.
34:12All these phases have just, like, kind of helped me grow.
34:16I can't wait to take all these different skills and tricks into the real world and hopefully
34:21find myself a girlfriend after this.
34:23I have little to no concerns about Teagan out in the world.
34:27I am mostly concerned for the lesbians of Glasgow, because here she comes.
34:34Oh, it's fantastic.
34:36Aww!
34:37So happy.
34:37What on Teague?
34:38There were 11 virgins left.
34:40Yeah.
34:41So happy.
34:42Big up, big up.
34:43Shall we have a group hug with you?
34:44Let's go.
34:45Everyone can get in.
34:47On three, two, one, say Teagan's not a virgin!
34:49Three, two, one.
34:51Teagan's not a virgin!
34:54Thanks, guys.
35:05It's the afternoon.
35:08Whoa, that can kill someone.
35:12And an advanced sex toy lesson proves pleasure doesn't always require human touch.
35:18You can use it by stimulating and warming up the area.
35:22Close your eyes and try it out.
35:25Vibrators are really good because the clit often needs an intense amount of stimulation.
35:29That's heavy.
35:31And especially for women who have a difficult time coming,
35:34sometimes they won't be able to come ever if they don't use a vibrator.
35:39Yeah, I've done it like a couple of times, but I find I can't quite reach orgasm.
35:46I don't think I've ever had an orgasm.
35:49If I do have a sexual thought, I'll just try and ignore it
35:53because I've never really explored that area.
36:03After feeling overwhelmed in the previous session...
36:06Hello, how are you?
36:07Kat has tried a different tactic to get Ellen comfortable with intimate touch.
36:12The reason that I have the table is to make it safe to have a more non-erotic exploration.
36:18Does that feel okay?
36:19Yeah.
36:24Ready?
36:25Yeah.
36:26And if anything makes you uncomfortable, just let me know.
36:31As Ellen and I move into deeper intimacy, it's more apparent how she can sometimes shut down.
36:36And so that's something we're really working on, is helping her to sit with herself in those moments,
36:41to remind her that she is in control, so that she feels safe,
36:45and then she can choose to take the final steps.
36:50Still okay?
36:51Yeah.
36:52Can we just stop for a second?
36:53Of course, of course.
37:01Is there anything that you need?
37:04Just a second.
37:05Yeah, of course.
37:08Okay.
37:09You sure?
37:10Yeah.
37:12Just like, kind of, just needed a minute, but it's okay.
37:15Okay.
37:16And tell me if anything's, like, too fast to you.
37:24That's really nice.
37:29Hmm.
37:30How you feeling?
37:31Good.
37:31Yeah?
37:32Yeah, like, very good.
37:34I haven't had that, like, before.
37:40So really happy that you were able to be, like, wait, hold on, and kind of go into yourself,
37:45and then know when you were ready to engage again.
37:47That's really good.
37:48Okay, thank you.
37:51When I first walked on the island, I didn't even think I would take my bra off in front of
37:55someone else.
37:56So I feel like I've come a long way.
37:59And now I'm looking forward to, hopefully, losing my virginity on the island.
38:14Do you want to try a bit, Tom?
38:16Oh, I see, I don't know about the texture.
38:18That's fair.
38:19Do a little teeth, but not too hard.
38:22No, no, no worries.
38:24I just need to, I need to get over that blockage.
38:28Yeah.
38:29Since her one-on-one with Shelby, Millie has begun exploring intimacy.
38:35During our one-on-one, she really got in touch with a lot of new sensations.
38:40I really want to explore with her her feelings around boundaries.
38:47I feel that there's some sort of shame that holds her back from exploring who she is and how she
38:54can develop deeper romantic relationships.
38:59I definitely want to get over the obstacle, the kissing, because I feel like there's quite a bit of, like,
39:04relationship blooming.
39:05Your hands are freezing.
39:07I didn't even realise I was cold.
39:09Alex and Joy, they've been getting really close to each other.
39:13Can I lean on?
39:15Yeah, of course, Joy's one, right?
39:18And then you've got Callum and Casey.
39:21I can't, man.
39:23They're getting more comfortable in each other's, like, space.
39:26Callum!
39:29And I'm sort of just, like, watching them, and I'm just like, oh, why can't that be me?
39:37So I'm actually wanting to follow up a little bit on the kissing.
39:40Think a little bit, like, yucked by kissing.
39:42I don't know, my friends seem to be able to do it easily, and I'm like, OK, why can't I
39:48feel nice when it comes to, like, dating and things like that?
39:53To help Millie focus on what's holding her back...
39:55Can I hold your hands?
39:57Yeah.
39:58Danielle plans to use a focused breathing technique.
40:07I can feel the thing in my throat.
40:09Don't try to push it away.
40:12That's what I do, though.
40:13No, no, it's OK.
40:14Let's not fight it.
40:15You already know the truth inside you, right?
40:18Mm-hm.
40:18Yeah.
40:20Do you want to tell me?
40:24Tell me.
40:29Um, I feel like I've got more preference to female.
40:33Never been attractive to, like, guys.
40:40So what's happening when you say about them into women?
40:44Oh, I just feel like I want to cry.
40:46Yeah.
40:46It's not easy to come out.
40:49Oh.
40:50It's a lot, huh?
40:52Just saying them words out loud, and it's like...
40:55I think because I've covered them for such a long time.
40:58It's, like, really hard.
41:00Yeah.
41:04I feel like people won't accept me.
41:06Yeah.
41:07Yeah.
41:08My oldest is disabled, and there's a pressure on me of, like, I'm the one that's meant
41:13to, like, get married and have kids.
41:15And you're scared that if you're going to come out, you're going to lose love.
41:19That's normal, to feel like that.
41:21We all want to belong.
41:23Yeah.
41:25Can you peek with one eye, like you're doing now, and see that I don't love you at all?
41:31Yeah.
41:32Yeah?
41:32Mm-hmm.
41:33And I appreciate you and respect you just the same.
41:40Thanks.
41:43Okay, darling.
41:44Love you for a hug.
41:45Yeah, I quite love a hug.
41:48Yeah.
41:49It's good.
41:56As the sun sets, the islanders have gathered to say a fond farewell.
42:04Shelby has brought in this beautiful way of looking at playtime, and she's going to be
42:09leaving tomorrow, so we all want to thank her.
42:12Thank you, Shelby.
42:17Shelby helped many unlock hidden desires, including Millie, who wants to share with the group.
42:24Um...
42:29For years, I've always used, like, um, bisexuality, because I'm like, oh, but I like boys, you
42:36know?
42:37That's kind of normal.
42:39Um...
42:39Sorry.
42:42You got the smell.
42:45Yeah, I...
42:46Okay, I'm just going to say it.
42:49Um...
42:49I think deep down, I've liked girls.
42:54Yeah, I just thought...
42:56It needs to, like, say it, otherwise I'll be living this life of, like, not being me.
43:02No, well done.
43:03The ladies like you, Millie.
43:05Cheers to Molly, Millie!
43:08Cheers to Molly, Millie!
43:09We're proud of you.
43:10As hard as it was, I'm really glad I said it.
43:14Um, yeah, it's lifted, like, a ton of bricks off my shoulders.
43:18I don't need to be shamed.
43:19It's okay to be a lesbian.
43:27Next time...
43:28Steven, will you have sex with me?
43:29Of course.
43:30The group explores the art of seduction.
43:32I'm such a great guy.
43:34Will you clutch my crotch?
43:37More major milestones are reached.
43:40I feel really worried.
43:42Phew!
43:42And in an island first, one connection is set to intensify.
43:47There's something in there!
43:48Or in the island!
43:49Does that feel like something that you want?
43:52I'd be keen.
43:53If you've identified with the issues raised in Virgin Ireland
43:56and would like to be part of a possible new series,
43:59visit channel4.com forward slash take part.
44:19We'll see you next time.
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