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16:52Not, not realizing.
16:54Not knowing what you're saying.
16:55Not, but it just struck me the way that it did.
16:59It wasn't like, oh my God, I'm going to marry him.
17:02That, that, it was just, I felt him.
17:05And so I need to make that a constant for me.
17:13How are you doing?
17:15She is very in tune with me.
17:18Mm-hmm.
17:18But the funny thing is, I, I don't understand why we constantly get into the disagreements or these...
17:27I, I have some thoughts about it, but I'm actually more curious to know, what do you guys think?
17:31I mean, based on what we've done here.
17:33It comes from the lack of trust.
17:38Not really...
17:39From your lack of trust.
17:40Correct.
17:41Not really toward you, but just in general.
17:45Rolling, so like she said, my, my, my pictures are painted with these colors.
17:51Mm-hmm.
17:51Right?
17:52And so, but I've developed new colors, so I'm excited about that.
17:56But the part that is yours, yes, it has to do with your mistrust.
18:00Mm-hmm.
18:00And that you project that on.
18:02Mm-hmm.
18:03But there's a part that is yours, Deshawn, that we're, we didn't do enough work with.
18:08You are extremely, full-heartedly committed to Elaine, right?
18:14Yes.
18:15You're there, you're solid, you're, you're there.
18:17Yeah.
18:18But you have parts of you that are more tucked away.
18:22Yeah.
18:23The way you kind of manage your anger, and it comes out, it leaks out in all sorts of ways
18:30that trigger Elaine.
18:33Yeah.
18:34So it's not just Elaine's projections, it's parts of you that you don't completely own, that have the effect on
18:43the two of you, too.
18:46Coming into this, I, I wanted, I wanted us to have this, this therapy, but I wanted it more for
18:54you, right?
18:54I felt coming into this, I, I don't have, you know, major issues, and it's all her, and she'll see.
19:03Once we get in there and we start talking about this stuff, but there was a, a major churning point
19:09for me that, uh, allowed me to get rid of all of the, uh, the resentment and, and ill will
19:22that I came in, um, for her.
19:26Uh, uh, it was, it, yeah, it, it was at one point where just one day before I was ready
19:35to call it quits and I'm done.
19:38And then the next day through, you know, the sessions, um, I had this sort of realization that I said
19:48to her, I said to her, I said, you need to listen to me right now.
19:51You know, the, the words that are about to come out of my mouth, you, you need to really listen.
19:56And, and it had to do with her trusting me and letting her know that I got you.
20:04And I'm, yeah, I'm, so, you know, I'm going to leave, you know, uh, going forward with the feeling that
20:12we're unbreakable.
20:14You know, you know, nothing can come to us, it's, you know, and that's a good place to be.
20:20Mm-hmm. Yeah.
20:37I mean, sometimes you get to witness people just really transcend.
20:44Like, they, they just kind of, you know, phoenix rising, that they just find this, like, incredible spirit and they
20:52do better than the cards they were dealt.
21:04Bye.
21:06Bye.
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21:13Bye.
21:14Take care.
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22:19We know each other, we care about each other.
22:22Yeah.
22:24But we know that this relationship is not going to be there later, once it's over.
22:32You have to say goodbye and you have no claim.
22:38But they go on with their lives and I'm like, I'm left with a non, with a void that they
22:46leave.
22:47Yeah.
22:48You will turn out to be another thing that happened in their lives.
22:53Yeah.
22:53And they are the whole and only thing.
22:57That was it.
22:58Yeah.
22:59Yeah.
23:04It's such a bizarre profession.
23:08So bizarre.
23:09Mm-hmm.
23:16Hi.
23:17How do I am?
23:22Yes.
23:33Hi.
23:35Hi.
23:36Hi.
23:36Hi.
23:36Hi.
23:36Hi.
23:36I'm Steve and Erin.
23:37Yes.
23:37Come in.
23:38Hi.
23:38Hi.
23:39Hi.
23:41How are you?
23:42Hi.
23:42I'm Orna.
23:46So talk to me.
23:49I'm just a noise.
23:52Do you finally pierced ears?
23:56Oh, I'm just the other thing that once brought you to tears.
24:03You wanted me to love you.
24:06Now you got that.
24:09Oh, it's a bore.
24:11Want me to adore you.
24:13Now you got that.
24:16But you'll never want to move.
24:20No, I won't be there when it comes time.
24:25That you want me to stay.
24:27I'll move.
24:28Yeah, I'll move.
24:30Cause I'm not moved anymore.
24:34Yeah, you push.
24:35And I pull.
24:37To what all pieces come through.
24:41Yeah, I'll move.
24:42Yeah, I'll move on.
24:44Well, I'm not moved anymore.
24:48Cause you won't know what love is.
24:55Until you've touched me.
24:58Until you've got me.
25:01To see youdin' just a good California coast.
25:06Wait.
25:06Oh, yeah.
25:07You're looking dooож moms.
25:07You're looking messy.
25:07Yeah.
25:08I'm looking for pairs,
25:08Like,úkel O Как Hassened.
25:08I've got air.
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