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00:00Previously on Unexpected.
00:02Chris said I'd help me get you.
00:03Oh, you're going to school.
00:05Hopefully, Hunter graduates eighth grade.
00:07A lot of it is he doesn't get to see his dad anymore.
00:10Kind of all fell apart after Bella got pregnant.
00:12He said I ruined my life.
00:15Hunter just texted me and said, is Bella pregnant?
00:17Why would he text me that?
00:19How long did you wait after I want to start on the next day?
00:23I think we only waited four days.
00:26We're making dinner and meal prepping.
00:28I support Maya on losing weight.
00:29I just feel like I shouldn't go crazy.
00:32Jose, can you wash the baby, please?
00:34He's only working part time.
00:36Eight hours a week is not an excuse to be as unhelpful as he is.
00:40Give him to me.
00:40I need them to be able to carry the weight of being parents.
00:43And hopefully, it happens before Mother's Day,
00:46because this mom is wore out.
00:48Where you been, dude?
00:49They done took her back down there.
00:53I wanted my mom back there with me, but she wasn't there.
00:56I don't know.
00:58Her first outside experience.
01:01I do appreciate my dad for letting Jessie stay for two weeks since Oakley's here,
01:05but I still don't think it's long enough.
01:07All I ask is what kind of frisky business.
01:10Wow.
01:10Ain't no well about it.
01:11I don't really want to move out on my own, but I will if I have to.
01:16We don't want anybody to know she's here.
01:18Yes, sir.
01:19It's induction day, and I do not want any more drama from Bryce or his family.
01:22Baby might have been born already.
01:24We don't even know.
01:25Decent human beings would not inflict pain like this.
01:30She's coming back.
01:31I am so freaking pissed.
01:35Oh, she's here.
01:38I feel it when you're looking deep into my eyes.
01:42I feel it when you say my name.
01:48She's so cute.
01:51How are you feeling, babe?
01:53Weird.
01:54Weird.
01:55Yeah.
01:56Why?
01:56Because it feels weird.
01:58What feels weird?
01:58Waking up in your house.
02:00But I can get used to it.
02:02Me too.
02:04I can get used to waking up to Jessie every day.
02:06But now that I wake up to him every day, he sweats so bad in his sleep,
02:10and he takes up the whole bed.
02:13Like, I mean the whole bed.
02:15This is our bed.
02:17And this is how he sleeps.
02:19It's terrible.
02:20Terrible.
02:26What time is the baby?
02:278.30.
02:28So I'll get up and then pump, and then get the baby ready.
02:32Pack the diaper bag.
02:34It's been a few days since we got home from the hospital,
02:36and it's been pretty good.
02:38Like, when it comes to nighttime, around 7 o'clock,
02:41somebody feeds the baby, whether it's dad or me or Jessie.
02:45Somebody feeds the baby, and then around 7.30, 8 o'clock,
02:48we give her a bath.
02:49And then we put her diaper on, put her brand new clothes on,
02:52and then we swatter her up all nice.
02:54And then me and Jessie take turns during the night.
02:57Jessie's been doing good.
02:58He's doing what he has to do.
02:59Hopefully he keeps it up.
03:01But I guess we'll see sooner than later.
03:05She was awake so much last night.
03:07Like, we were all eyes open and everything.
03:09I'm ready to go to these appointments, come home, and leave her bed.
03:12My dad's calling me.
03:14Hello?
03:15Hey, you called?
03:16Yeah, I was going to say you forgot to leave the car seat,
03:19but AK's going to go get a car seat.
03:22Oh, yeah, I didn't know I was supposed to leave it.
03:25The doctor's appointment.
03:27Yeah.
03:28Oh, , man.
03:30Today's Oakley's one-week doctor's appointment,
03:33and we forgot her car seat in my dad's truck.
03:36My dad went to work at 6 o'clock in the morning.
03:38AK's the only way to get us, and I remember, oh, we don't have a car seat.
03:46Mom brain is a real thing, okay?
03:48But I'm sorry.
03:49Like, I'm tired.
03:51Your girl's tired.
03:53AK's going to go get one and then bring us to the appointment and do his...
03:57What about your mama?
03:58Ain't heard from her?
03:58No, I haven't heard from her.
04:00Yeah.
04:01Because of how big of a deal my mom made for my last doctor's appointment,
04:04I did try reaching out to her.
04:06She's a minor, not her mother.
04:08Make her own decisions on who wants to bring her.
04:10You may think that, but you know what?
04:11She is a minor, and I am her mother.
04:13But she didn't respond.
04:15All right, babe.
04:16It's okay, Dad.
04:17I know I told you, like, yesterday morning, but, like, I forgot to remind you.
04:22Well, I would like to be involved with helping, but you have not reached out to me.
04:26Yes, I have.
04:28On days, like, we have appointments, I'd be texting you all day long.
04:31Days that we have appointments, you're lying right now.
04:34You're lying.
04:35Mom, you never answer me.
04:36You're lying, Mia.
04:37You never answer anybody.
04:38Bull crap, Mia.
04:39You don't text me at all.
04:40Look and see.
04:42I texted you this day telling you you had mail at the house, and you didn't answer me.
04:46What was I supposed to say to I have mail?
04:48You don't even answer me.
04:49When do you text me, like, just to say, hey, Mom?
04:52Why would I text you just to say, hey, Mom, if you're not going to answer me?
04:55Yeah.
04:56Since I got out of the hospital, you've texted me twice.
04:59No.
04:59Yes.
05:00Let me see.
05:01This is when I was in the hospital.
05:03You told me you were in the car.
05:05Mm-hmm.
05:06How's the baby?
05:07Wait, wait, wait.
05:08Let me get my phone.
05:09How do I got the hospital?
05:10Where did you contact me?
05:12Mom, you're my mother.
05:14Mia, you're my daughter.
05:15And you're my mom.
05:15Where have you contacted me?
05:16When do you contact me?
05:18Mia, I know you see what's going on there.
05:20She literally just told me that she didn't.
05:21She's texting me more than twice.
05:22Let me see.
05:23She just saw that she only texted me twice.
05:24You're lying.
05:25Pick up your phone.
05:26You just.
05:26Let me see.
05:27Pick up your phone.
05:28Pick up your phone.
05:29I'm done talking.
05:30I'm done talking.
05:30Pick up your phone.
05:30I'm done talking.
05:33My god.
06:14I'm done talking to my mom and I know exactly what I don't want to be as a mom and
06:18I know exactly what
06:19I do want to be as a mom. No matter how old my daughter, no matter if she was 16
06:24like I am or 26,
06:25I would always be there for her if she needed me.
06:38Happy first Mother's Day.
06:42Enjoy every moment of being a mother because it goes fast.
06:48My first Mother's Day is interesting. It's like it was always like oh I get to appreciate my mom
06:54today. Now it's like I get to appreciate my mom today and be appreciated. It's crazy.
07:01It was kind of my holiday now I got to share it but that's cool. That's with her. I'm willing
07:06to do that.
07:13Oh, you know Amaya loves her roses. I know. Thank you so much. That's for me?
07:23Oh, you want me to hold the baby so you can open your stuff? No, he just went to sleep.
07:29On a day that's all about moms, I'm feeling grateful for you.
07:33In so many ways, you've been like a mom to me.
07:38Here, read it out loud for me.
07:41You didn't even get through the first one.
07:43I know. I'm over here on this side.
07:46Thank you for everything you have done for me, Mama G. I am forever grateful for you taking me in.
07:50You've taught me a lot and that's why you deserve the best Mother's Day.
07:53Aw.
07:56Thank you, Jose. And I love you like you're my son.
08:02I love you too.
08:04Mama G is a lot of things to me, including my mom. I feel like she has helped me a
08:10lot. Not even just
08:12being a better dad, just personally, if there's like any problem or anything that I'm going through,
08:17she's always there. So yeah, I do love her. You better. To Amaya from Jose, Happy Mother's Day.
08:26I hope you enjoy this. A gift card for the perfect style? The value is $200.
08:34Is that for you?
08:35Dang, God. What is this? Nail date, treat yourself to beautiful nails, value $50.
08:43Ooh. Dang, great gift.
08:46I know.
08:47I gave her gifts as an offering of my shortcomings. I do feel bad that Maya isn't really feeling
08:55supported by me with Sammy. And typically, I'd just be taking her out to eat and stuff. But now
09:01that she's on a diet, I want to help support her. So I just got her a hair appointment instead.
09:06I'm impressed that he did all this on his own because boys are kind of stupid. I'm not gonna lie.
09:13Like... And he's doing pretty good at supporting me on my weight loss journey,
09:17even though I know he's cheating when he thinks I'm not looking.
09:22Lies.
09:22Right. Go ahead and read it. I want to hear this.
09:27Okay. I am forever grateful for the sacrifices you took in giving me my son.
09:33I'm already about to cry.
09:35Okay. You're the greatest mom to Sammy and take care of him all the time for me while I'm at
09:40work.
09:40I think you deserve this and so much more.
09:43Oh, my God. That's beautiful. Thank you. Are you gonna get up and give him a hug?
09:49Yes. Can I, like, collect myself? Get yourself together.
09:51I think the man deserves it after that. It does mean a lot that he...
09:57He appreciates what I do and he recognizes that. But it doesn't change the fact that he's still
10:03not being as helpful as me and the baby need him to be. Get up. No. Oh, thank you so
10:16much.
10:17You're welcome. I think you should sell that with a kiss at least. Jeez.
10:21You guys act like you hate each other. She does hate me. I don't.
10:27Wow. No, that's why he doesn't get that. So, like, only time will tell on how, like,
10:35if we're gonna stop fighting so much and, like, if he's gonna help more with the baby. Like,
10:39the gifts don't really mean nothing regarding to that. So, I am grateful, though.
10:45Well, we gotta give Sammy a bath and you gotta go to work.
10:48Wow, you're kicking me out already. Thank you for everything. I appreciate
10:52No, seriously, thank you. My card and my flowers. You're welcome.
10:55Jose has to put in the work. It takes more than financials
11:01to be a parent. A lot more. But I'm glad he's trying.
11:10I would like for dad to come to the game. Did he ever answer your text? No. The relationship
11:16with my dad has been not good since Wes's been born. He won't come see him. I still have hope.
11:21He can see that I have not ruined my life because my life is not ruined. Go, Hannah, go!
11:27So, Bryce's name is not on the birth certificate? No.
11:32No. Haisley is the one who's gonna suffer in the end because she's gonna miss out on a lifetime
11:37of a father that adores her. I don't want to talk about it no more, because it's gonna piss me
11:41off.
11:47I can't believe that it's really over. I can sleep and it feels like torture. Used to feel so rare.
11:56Used to feel so rare.
11:58Can I have her? I'm trying to sing to her. Yeah. Oh, hold on. Can I, can I bond with
12:03my
12:04namesake? Uh, hi to ya. She even has all my initials. Hey, princess.
12:11She's named after me. Um, I just love her. There's no better feeling in the world
12:19than to hold your daughter's daughter. Can I see them? Cause I just love looking at her name.
12:24Yeah, I like her name. So this is Haisley Natasha Skye Stone. Haisley's middle name is Natasha Skye.
12:34I just felt like my mom earned that. She was six pounds, 19. Six pounds, six ounces, 19 and three
12:44quarters
12:44inches long. Period. Okay. And my mom gots it down. Yep.
12:57So Bryce's name is not on the birth certificate? No. He's not here. Can't put someone on the birth
13:06certificate that's not here. I did not put Bryce on the birth certificate because I just,
13:14no thanks. Bryce still doesn't know he has a daughter. Like he still hasn't reached out.
13:20And he knows that I wanted to get induced on the fifth. I mean, that says what it needs to
13:28say about him. Obviously, he doesn't deserve to be on the birth certificate.
13:36I'm here to put me on the birth certificate.
13:40Just like, I just want you to laugh. I'm just trying to make you feel better.
13:46Haisley is the one who's going to suffer in the end because she's going to miss out on a lifetime
13:51of a father that adores her. And he did everything right. And now he's just like out, you know,
13:58well, like, throw him away. Well, hey.
14:10I don't want to talk about it no more because it's going to piss me off.
14:14There ain't nothing I can do about it. It is what it is.
14:18That's the whole thing is he can't do anything about it, you know, and it's frustrating to him
14:22because he loves the baby. He's trying to do the right thing. And what he's just cut out from
14:28seeing his baby. Well, unless the paternity is established, you can't see her.
14:32You're just going to have to be strong, be tough. And hey, it's not you doing it,
14:36it's them doing it to you. So you're just going to have to suck it up as part of one
14:41of those hard
14:41things of life, you know? He feels very uncomfortable talking about it anymore.
14:46All right, I'm going. Okay, well, I'm going to come meet you. All right.
14:57Oh, . Boy, I tell you .
15:02I ain't never seen no people like this in the world. Hills have eyes, people.
15:11You all right to drive or you want me to drive you home? You sure? Me or Nan can ride
15:17with you.
15:19Huh? Okay, well, wait a minute. We'll follow you home, huh? All right. I love you, son.
15:28I love you, son. I love you, son. Hi, Isabelle is ready to go.
15:37Okay, thank you. Okay, come on, baby. Come on. I don't know. You have to be in a person.
15:45I try to make sure it plays the best you want for my little shitty princess.
15:49Yes. There's been a lot of victories with bringing Hazely home, Isabella home, like,
15:58alive, healthy. Bryce is, like, out of the picture. Thanks, y'all. Bye. Bye.
16:05Bye. Yeah, whatever. Deuces, buddy. Like, go live your life. I don't know what to tell you.
16:15Oh. Sit up, pumpkin. Now that Hazely's here, my only priority is Hazely and my happiness.
16:29But Hazely first, of course.
16:45Are you ready to go see your goofy daddy play baseball? Get away from me.
16:55Oh! My God, that sounded wet, Hunter. I think that was wet. Hang on, let me go check my pants.
17:02Oh, my God. He's going to have a time, Mark.
17:04He's going to have a quick shower.
17:10So, who's all going to the game? Mom and y'all. But I would like for Dad to come to
17:17the game
17:19and let him see Wes. Did he ever answer your text?
17:25No. That's sad. The relationship with my dad has been going
17:30not good since Wes has been born. He won't come see him, but I'd like him to.
17:37Why hasn't he met him yet?
17:40Because he's not making an effort.
17:42It is literally as simple as just showing up and being there, physically being there.
17:47Physically, mentally.
17:53We're here at Hunter's place, and his dad's not here.
17:57So, I imagine that maybe Hunter will realize eventually, yeah, we're all Hunter needs.
18:05Because, obviously, his dad's never been there anyway.
18:11I still have hope that I'll have a good relationship with him, like, in a couple years, not now.
18:17When he can see that I have not ruined my life, because my life is not ruined.
18:21I get to play sports. I get to do the stuff I wanted to do.
18:25Now he gets to teach his son how to do it all.
18:27Yeah.
18:29Mom, a junkie baby.
18:32His onesie ain't gonna fit much longer.
18:35Sweet man, Dad. He's about to bat.
18:37I'm surprised. Despite Hunter's dad not showing up for him, Hunter has accomplished so much.
18:44He finished eighth grade.
18:46Aren't you so glad you're done?
18:48No.
18:49Why?
18:50Yeah.
18:50Yes.
18:52We didn't want to add a year to school.
18:54No.
18:55Good grief.
18:56It feels good passing eighth grade, because my grades were pretty low.
19:01And then at the end of the year, I got them up.
19:05Pretty low is an understatement.
19:08They were all zeros.
19:09And then I got them up to, like, A's and B's when I actually tried.
19:13He's done really, really good.
19:15And he's really started helping me with Wes.
19:18Um, he actually is changing poopy diapers now, so.
19:23Change the diapers.
19:26Which I don't give him an option, but he just does it.
19:29Was it just pee?
19:30No.
19:31Yes, it was.
19:32Nope, it was poop.
19:34That was some very pee-looking poop.
19:36See, I change the pee diapers, sometimes poopy ones.
19:40I don't do no runny poop.
19:42That's Bella's.
19:43Like the runny poop dripping out the diaper.
19:45He just on me.
19:48Did he?
19:50All over his blanket?
19:52Yeah.
19:53Yeah.
19:54Hunter is doing a lot better than I thought he would for being 13 years old as a dad.
19:59And a big dog.
20:01I don't know if I would say he's like a big dog or anything, but I'd say he's doing all
20:06right.
20:07All right, really?
20:09I'm proud of him, a little bit.
20:11A little bit.
20:13That's all I need.
20:14That's a lot coming from him.
20:17Home run, Hunter.
20:21You better run!
20:23Go, Hunter, go!
20:25Hunter, I want to have another baby.
20:28I just want to relive what I had with Wes, because he's growing so fast.
20:37You're crazy.
20:41Am I though?
20:43Um, a little bit, yeah.
20:46Each to their own.
20:48No.
20:49We'll just have to see.
20:52Never.
20:53That's what you say.
20:54I don't know.
20:57We'll see.
21:10Hey, are y'all so excited? It's your first day of high school.
21:14I am.
21:14Hey, get in here.
21:16Y'all got to go to school.
21:17I love you.
21:18It's okay.
21:20Take out a lipstick on them.
21:23I do think I'm lucky that I have parents who are so supportive and help me and my sister
21:28with our babies.
21:30Hi, beauty girl.
21:32Oh, look.
21:33They're holding hands, kind of.
21:36Mom has sacrificed a lot.
21:38She literally quit her job so she could be an in-home babysitter.
21:42And dad takes extra hours just to make sure we have enough.
21:45Looks like I'm going to have to work for a long time to take care of these grandkids.
21:50Say bye-bye-bye.
21:52Bye-bye-bye.
21:56And they're gone.
22:00Have you changed your mind at all about getting on any type of birth control yourself?
22:06I'm not getting on birth control.
22:08I don't need a birth control.
22:09You do realize you've taken a plan B if you figure it up every month since you've had him.
22:15I'm not pregnant anymore.
22:17No.
22:18I would be surprised if she made it to her junior year and not be pregnant again.
22:23We'll see if I can make it to my 16th birthday.
22:26Let's go, mama!
22:28My heart is sinking because I want her to do nothing more than buckle that buckle.
22:33I can't reach you.
22:46Ready?
22:48It's been like three months since that terrible ass go-kart date with Jose.
23:01Not fitting into the go-kart was the motivation I needed to change my diet and start working out.
23:07But let me tell you, it has not been an easy journey.
23:10One and up.
23:12You got that.
23:13Perfect.
23:14Two.
23:14Being that big after gaining a whole bunch of weight rapidly like that,
23:18and I'm not going to say out of nowhere because I know what I was eating while I was pregnant.
23:23That's all them donuts at 3 a.m., but just starting working out out of nowhere is really hard.
23:28That hurts.
23:30What hurts?
23:30Your knees?
23:31Like right here.
23:32Your quads.
23:33Yes.
23:35So I feel like I've pushed through a lot of BS.
23:38And one more.
23:41And relax.
23:42Awesome!
23:44I gained 60 pounds during my pregnancy,
23:47and my first goal of my weight loss was to hit 285,
23:53because that's how much I weighed before I got pregnant.
23:56And I'm hoping that my hard work is finally paying off.
24:00So it's been three months since I've been working out with Carolina.
24:04I'm about to check right now to see if I made any progress.
24:08I'm nervous.
24:09Okay.
24:11The progress is showing off.
24:15285.
24:16She hit it.
24:18Hey.
24:20Hey.
24:21But I don't know if it's going to be enough to fit into the go-kart.
24:29There she is!
24:31Oh, my God!
24:32Y'all are so embarrassing!
24:34Come on, Carol!
24:35Come on.
24:36Okay.
24:37Let's go, Mama!
24:39Oh, man!
24:40Let's go, Ma!
24:42Come on, Mama!
24:49I can't slow reach in.
24:52My heart is sinking, because I want her to do nothing more than buckle that buckle.
25:02Getting that phone call from Amaya when she was on the date,
25:06and just hearing her, like, break down in the bathroom by herself, it was hard.
25:13Why are you crying?
25:15Because I didn't film the go-karts. I want to go home.
25:18Why couldn't you fit?
25:19I guess I was too fat.
25:25Come on, Mama!
25:28Come on, Ma-Ma!
25:29Let's go, Ma-Ma!
25:31I'm just hoping that she gets it to click, because I know how upset Maia was about the go-karts.
25:37You've never been too fat for anything.
25:39Yes, I have.
25:40No, you haven't. Not like that.
25:42And I don't want her to feel that way ever again.
25:50Oh, my God!
25:54It's like, click. I'm like so happy.
25:58Woo!
26:01Yeah!
26:03I could jump onto a building right now, not off. I could jump from the ground up, okay?
26:08Oh, that's how happy I am!
26:15I'm really proud of Maya being able to meet her goal weight
26:20since she has been crying to me,
26:21and she's been working really hard for it.
26:23Don't say I've been crying to you.
26:25Yeah, you have.
26:26Girl, you have been crying.
26:28Y'all are so like...
26:29Maya, literally like fit and crying.
26:31Y'all are telling the business, for real.
26:34But it's true.
26:34Because it's real.
26:35Oh, God.
26:36That's how much it means to you.
26:37You're right.
26:39Oh, my God.
26:45So it's not just Amaya that I'm proud of.
26:48I'm definitely proud of Jose
26:49and the changes that he's made as far as stepping up
26:52and helping Amaya more with Sammy.
26:56Taking him and...
26:58Yes, while you sleep.
27:00Okay.
27:01She gets more sleep now than she has ever.
27:07Woo!
27:11Nothing is perfect,
27:12and we definitely have our arguments.
27:15Since being teen parents is stressful,
27:18but I just feel like I found my person.
27:21I did let you pass.
27:23Nah.
27:24Yes, I did.
27:25It always starts as an argument that ends up in us, like, flirting.
27:28And she's like, Jose, I love you.
27:31Oh, my God.
27:32I still love you.
27:33I hate you.
27:34I've never said I hate him.
27:38Hi!
27:38Say, Mommy!
27:40Mommy did it!
27:41My hopes for Amaya and Jose's relationship
27:45is that they can continue to give each other
27:48the balance that they need, you know?
27:51It takes a little bit of giving
27:53and a little bit of taking in any relationship,
27:55but I just hope that they do what's best for Sammy.
28:23Me and Amaya broke up,
28:25and then I moved out
28:26and started living with my grandma.
28:30I'm not going to cry about it.
28:32Well, I always don't cry about it,
28:34but I'm not going to just stick on that
28:37for the rest of my life,
28:38but I feel like there's some moments
28:40where I could have viewed myself
28:43living a life with them and all that
28:45and building a home with all of them,
28:47but now it's just, like, memories.
28:51What did you bring up?
28:54Well, she didn't want to be in a relationship with me.
28:56Oh, that's not what happened, actually.
28:58We broke up because we had been arguing a lot,
29:00and one morning he was yelling at me,
29:03talking about some, I never shut the up and da-da-da and all this.
29:07So I broke up with him
29:09because you're not about to talk to me like that.
29:12Right?
29:18I hope that for the sake of Sammy,
29:23they're not going to be together,
29:24at least co-parent,
29:25but I would love to see them together, though.
29:29I would love to see Sammy raised in a house
29:31with both his father and mother.
29:34Why is that important?
29:39When I was pregnant with her,
29:40I knew I was going to be a single mom.
29:50And I just don't want her to go through that
29:55because it's not easy
29:57at all.
30:18This is not an easy decision for me at all.
30:21He won't let Jesse move in.
30:22If he don't want us living our life at his house,
30:25then we'll live our life at a different house.
30:49We've been home for about two weeks
30:51and Jesse has been a very big help.
30:53But my dad, he won't let Jesse come move in
30:56and he don't want me to move out,
30:58but, you know,
31:00he can't have his cake and eat it, too.
31:02If he don't want us living our life at his house,
31:05then we'll live our life at a different house.
31:14Dad's home.
31:16Come see her.
31:19She looks so cute.
31:20Come look at her.
31:25My sweet baby.
31:27I want to talk to the kids about Jesse staying at the house
31:30because Mia's been nagging me ridiculously about it
31:33and, uh, it's time we had the conversation.
31:37Now, look.
31:40I've been going through a moral dilemma about this situation.
31:45This is not part of the plan.
31:51But I'm giving you a chance to stay here past the two weeks
31:56because I love my daughter and I don't want to lose her.
32:01Okay?
32:02Yes, sir.
32:04I was raised Catholic.
32:06I mean, you don't shack up.
32:07You don't sleep around.
32:09You know, you wait till you're married.
32:10I mean, I know those are ridiculous things to ask of kids,
32:15especially these days.
32:17But, you know, if that's how you're raised,
32:19at least you sort of try to abide by that, you know?
32:24But after Mia gave me the ultimatum,
32:26I prayed about it almost every night.
32:29When he leaves, then I'm going to be going back and forth with the baby.
32:32We're not having this conversation right now.
32:34I'm just telling you.
32:35It's still not cool to me, you know,
32:37but I just don't want to lose my daughter and my grandbaby,
32:42so we're going to give it a shot.
32:47This is not an easy decision for me at all.
32:49I know.
32:50No, I don't think you know.
32:52No, I don't think you will know until you get older.
32:56So don't take it lightly.
32:57Do your best.
32:58You hear me?
32:59I'm serious, bruh.
33:00It's on you.
33:01It means a lot to me that my dad didn't just squash the idea.
33:08Nag, nag, nag, nag, nag.
33:09It would have been a constant just...
33:12Every freaking day.
33:13I need help, Dad.
33:15He's dramatic.
33:16That's what I'm getting at.
33:17Somebody would have been dramatic.
33:19No, he's dramatic.
33:20I can't do it alone, Dad.
33:22He's dramatic.
33:24But I'm thankful that he let him stay.
33:27And I'm thankful that he loves the baby girl just as much as I do.
33:36I ain't them toes for sure.
33:40I love you, baby.
33:44That's all I got to say.
33:47I really, really appreciated it all, and so did Mia, but we were just so in shock because
33:53of how strong he is about his morals and all that.
33:56So we didn't really know what to say, but I was very appreciated.
34:00Appreciative.
34:01Is that the word?
34:02Yeah, it's close to me.
34:03I was very appreciative about it, and now I'm willing to do anything it'll take to prove
34:08him that he didn't make a mistake.
34:10Good.
34:11You got to do it.
34:12I mean, you know?
34:14It's just...
34:15It's no choice.
34:17Well, I mean, you do have a choice, but you don't.
34:22Yeah, you don't.
34:24Yeah.
34:25It was a big moment, huh, babe?
34:27Big moment.
34:28I didn't expect that.
34:30We got to stay on top of our game.
34:34Yes.
34:35Yes.
34:36We're not exactly starting our life as a new family because I don't have, like, the...
34:40What is it?
34:41Like, I don't have the things older people can do since I'm still a minor and young.
34:45But eventually, hopefully we can get our own space and our own thing.
34:49And I really do plan on marrying her one day.
34:52But that's a huge step, so it's definitely what's your time.
34:55Yeah, yeah.
34:56Do you think of Jesse as more of a son-in-law now?
35:00More of a son-in-law, yes.
35:01It's not really seeing him step up.
35:04It's more of me stepping back.
35:06I guess in a certain way to me, it sounds stupid, but, like, it's giving your daughter
35:10away at the wedding.
35:13It's like, I got to kind of just let him do what I want to do.
35:16Like, instinctively, I want to be by her side to do whatever has got to be done.
35:20And now I've got to not do that.
35:23So that's going to get some getting used to, but it's good, yeah.
35:29Just don't mess it up.
35:35I love you.
35:36I love you.
35:37Are you excited?
35:39Are you happy?
35:41Like, in a few years, like, once the baby's old enough and we're stable and we have what
35:47we need, I do want to marry Jesse.
35:51Well, first he has to propose.
35:53And then we'll start the other process.
36:11How would you say it's been gone?
36:13We'll run now.
36:15You take it.
36:16Living with Jesse's gone good.
36:18For the most part.
36:20He just gets my nerves a lot easier now.
36:24But that's it.
36:27I've had a few talks with him.
36:29That's amazing.
36:29Everything's been going pretty good, though.
36:31I would say.
36:33I would say.
36:35Yeah.
36:43You asked.
36:46You wanted it.
36:53Get something out of there.
36:56You got some quick hands, dog.
36:58I know.
37:09Once you've been with the man who acts like Bryce acts, then you know how this ends.
37:15I don't like men who are mama's boys and crybabies.
37:18Mom.
37:19Okay, next question.
37:21Before we all start beefing on this couch.
37:23Before I beat up Bryce, I can't remember.
37:26For what?
37:35So, tonight we're having a family dinner.
37:40And, um, I don't know.
37:45It's unbelievable.
37:46But, you know, here we are.
37:53Hey, guys.
38:05Bryce, how did you and, uh, men think?
38:10I always find a way.
38:11You know, Bryce did what was important and did things that, you know, every man should
38:19do when they have a baby.
38:20Go get a job, paying child support, then being a responsible parent.
38:25And then she said, let's live together.
38:28And he went and got him a place within, what, 48 hours?
38:31Yeah, later, Payne.
38:54Go, Dada.
38:55Go, you call me Dada?
38:56Take your socks off, too, please.
38:58Oh.
38:59Ow.
39:01You really eating on the remote?
39:06How is he as a dad?
39:08Bryce is a good dad.
39:09Just sometimes he doesn't know what to do.
39:11I want to do.
39:12Which is understandable because he's a guy.
39:15I'm trying to get her foot in here and it's not.
39:18Do you need help?
39:23I like men that provide and do what they're supposed to do.
39:26I don't like men who are mama's boys and crybabies.
39:29Do you think even a few months ago that these type of words would be coming out of your mouth?
39:34Oh.
39:35No.
39:36Wait, wait, what?
39:37Will you shut your mouth?
39:39No.
39:40But the issue with his grandparents and his mom, not many men at his age are going to pick
39:47the baby and the girlfriend over their family.
39:52Nobody's asking, like, you to choose.
39:55Yeah.
39:55But I'd much rather be at home and spend time with y'all than go over there.
39:59I didn't get a headache going in there.
40:02No, I'm kidding.
40:03You're not kidding, but it's okay, Bryce.
40:06Mom!
40:07Okay, next question.
40:08Before we all start beefing on this couch.
40:15They've seen him real happy.
40:17I haven't heard from him much, you know, because he doesn't really want our help.
40:21He wants to be on his own, and it's been hard for us.
40:25In a dream world, I would wish that, you know, they would come to our house and have dinner.
40:33You know, just like a normal family.
40:35What is your relationship like with Asha?
40:40God bless her, whatever.
40:42You know, I hope she lives a happy life, but there's not going to be a relationship between
40:46us.
40:50Hon, is it that hard to put a friggin'...
40:52Come on, Hazy.
40:53Come on, let's show that how we do this.
40:55You just yank it down her foot.
40:56I am scared to hurt her.
40:58Babies, even the hospital told us this.
41:00Babies are not as fragile as everybody thinks they are.
41:04Well, I wasn't there to hear that.
41:07Whose fault is that?
41:09Mom, I guess.
41:11After all the drama and the fighting, are you guys surprised that things have worked out
41:16the way that they're working out now?
41:18I'm very surprised.
41:19I'm not surprised.
41:20It was just a matter of time until she fell back in love with me.
41:24No.
41:25Your dad, I kiss her?
41:29I'm stealing them all from mommy.
41:32You want a baby?
41:34You want a boobie?
41:36Okay, we can get a boobie.
41:37We can get a boobie.
41:39We can get a boobie.
41:40We can get a boobie.
41:45Can I let her know?
41:53Do you guys think that your relationship will work this time?
41:56And if so, it's so different this time?
42:00I don't hear what she has to say.
42:02I think so because I think we're both, like, mentally there.
42:06We're not as stressed out as, like, we was.
42:09I mean, Rice does piss me off, but, like, I just have to thank, like...
42:13it used to be.
42:14Now it's like piss her off, give her five minutes, go give her a hug and a kiss,
42:17and then hold Hazely and she'll be all right.
42:23We'll see you next time.
42:24We'll see you next time.
42:25We'll see you next time.
42:26We'll see you next time.
42:27We'll see you next time.
42:27We'll see you next time.
42:27We'll see you next time.
42:28We'll see you next time.
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