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00:00Previously on The Single Life...
00:03Cheers, mate.
00:04Cheers, mate.
00:05Wayne is everything I hoped for.
00:08Are you dating now?
00:09No.
00:09Really?
00:10No.
00:10But the real test will be tomorrow when I introduce him to Jamal.
00:15I really, really hope that he gives Wayne a chance.
00:18Best date ever.
00:21Let me touch it.
00:24Oh, wow. Okay.
00:26I feel like being in the DR is what I'm supposed to be doing.
00:29Like, there's so many good-looking guys here.
00:31I just want to have fun and experience being single in my 20s.
00:38I love you, Courtney.
00:40Oh, my God. I don't want to party.
00:41I'm gonna go time for, like, a month.
00:44This man has no shame.
00:47I am never going to give him another chance.
00:51New adventures begin.
00:53I'm halfway through my girl's trip through Europe.
00:56Here we go, Ibiza bitches.
00:58And last night, Tony started blowing up my phone.
01:02Why is there a need to party every night?
01:03Every time we're apart, you blow up.
01:06And this is not okay.
01:16I'm not a lawyer, but I could fake it.
01:21Yeah, I can act it out.
01:24Gotta get all the gravy.
01:28That's where the real flavor is.
01:31I'm not a hater.
01:33And let me show you how.
01:35It doesn't matter where you are.
01:43I'm here still in Orlando.
01:46I've been here for about two months now.
01:48I got a surgery on my leg to fix my five fractures around my knee
01:53and my broken femur.
01:56But the good news is...
02:01But the good news is...
02:06I can walk.
02:08I can walk.
02:10I can walk again.
02:16You have no idea how useful these things are until you don't have them anymore.
02:23Yeah.
02:26I need to stay in Orlando for the next few months to do follow-up appointments with my doctor
02:30and to do physical therapy.
02:32Hello, Philip.
02:33Hi, Colt.
02:34How are you feeling?
02:35How's the leg?
02:36A little better every day.
02:39Thankfully, I've met Philip.
02:40A very kind and older gentleman that has decided to let me live with him as I recover from my
02:45surgery.
02:46He's divorced and he has older kids, so he has a spare bedroom.
02:51You look like you're doing much better.
02:53It's nice to regain some of that mobility.
02:55I'll do this one for you.
02:57Appreciate it.
02:59You know, Philip, you're the best.
03:00I really appreciate everything.
03:01You know, you've been very kind to me and with everything, you know.
03:05It's been our pleasure.
03:07You got any plans for later?
03:09Yes.
03:11Courtney and I are going to dinner and then we're going to go play pickleball.
03:16Yep.
03:16Philip is Courtney's new 66-year-old boyfriend and I'm living with him.
03:22Bet you didn't see that one coming.
03:25Well, you know, if you need another guest who wants some company...
03:30We're going to go to pickleball afterwards and it's kind of a romantic night for us tonight.
03:33I understand that.
03:35It's good you want to, you want to woo your woman.
03:38They met at a bar and started dating about two months ago.
03:41She decided to move in pretty quickly and she invited me to move in too.
03:45It's kind of a weird three's company, a menage not.
03:50Where is Courtney anyway?
03:51She's out with her friends right now.
03:53She'll be back soon.
03:56Courtney and I are a good match because she likes to be romanced.
03:59I like romancing her.
04:01I agreed to let Colt move into the house because Courtney felt responsible for him getting injured.
04:08And I didn't like Courtney going to help him in these nasty hotels.
04:13And I was worried that he would be trying to get back with her all the time.
04:18The best solution was for him to be here and then I would know what's going on all the time.
04:24You know, I was thinking maybe I could get a cat.
04:27You know, a little kitten.
04:28I feel kind of lonely.
04:30I believe Courtney's allergic to cats.
04:32Shoot.
04:34We'll get you a cat as a housewarming gift when you move.
04:38I'm going to do my physical therapy.
04:42Okay, enjoy.
04:43I don't mind helping Colt out, but it does put a big strain on our relationship.
04:48We don't have much privacy.
04:50We don't sit in our own living room because it's right outside his bedroom door.
04:54It's been a while and I think it's time for him to move on.
04:57Courtney and Phillip have a little untraditional relationship.
05:02I think it's best classified as a sugar daddy and a sugar baby.
05:09I don't know.
05:11Who am I to say?
05:12I wish them the best.
05:28Hello, governor.
05:29Good morning.
05:30Hi.
05:31How are you?
05:32Good. How are you?
05:32Long time no see.
05:34I know. I haven't seen you since yesterday.
05:35How was yesterday?
05:36It was fabulous.
05:37Yeah?
05:38Yeah. It was everything I thought it would be.
05:40Yeah?
05:40Yeah.
05:51You're going to open the door for me?
05:52That's the least I can do.
05:54Thank you, governor.
05:54Hello, sir.
06:00You're going to like him, I think, Jamal.
06:03I won't kiss him in front of you or anything.
06:04I don't care.
06:07Yesterday was my first date with Wayne and it went really well.
06:11Like the conversation didn't stop.
06:12I found out he's not dating anybody.
06:14So, whew, on that one.
06:17The vibe was good and very natural.
06:19And I felt very safe, you know?
06:22That's good.
06:23Sounds like he's a good guy.
06:25So far.
06:26Today, Jamal and I are meeting Wayne at a blacksmith workshop.
06:30At first, I was like, are we going to put horseshoes on horses?
06:33Because isn't that what they do?
06:35But when Wayne explained that there were no horses involved,
06:38and this is like a popular date thing in England, I was like,
06:41OK, I can do this.
06:44I think we're here.
06:45Yes, sir.
06:46There he is.
06:50Thank you so much.
06:52Mr. Wayne.
06:52How you doing?
06:53What's up, man?
06:54You all right?
06:55Nice to meet you.
06:55Nice to meet you, too.
06:56Good to see you.
06:57How are you?
06:58Yeah, I'm good, thank you.
06:59Hi, how are you?
07:00Yeah, I'm good.
07:01How are you?
07:02Good to see you.
07:03You look warmer today.
07:05I'm warmer today.
07:06My mom told me you had a good day yesterday.
07:07Yeah, yeah.
07:08It's been really nice, sir.
07:09I appreciate it.
07:09Brilliant day.
07:10And the flowers.
07:11Honestly, I might have to take some lessons from you, dude.
07:14I need to learn a little bit.
07:15I'll give you some blacksmith lessons.
07:16Yeah, let's do it.
07:17Come on, then.
07:18Let's have a look.
07:19I don't know what to expect.
07:22Wow.
07:29Walking into this blacksmith workshop, I'm like,
07:32did I step back in time?
07:34Like, where am I?
07:35Has anyone done any blacksmithing before?
07:37Never.
07:38I've seen it on TV.
07:39Hidden metal.
07:40Little bit, yeah.
07:40Yeah, yeah.
07:41Come gather this way.
07:43They have these big ovens and all these big, like,
07:47medieval tools and everything, and it's really cool.
07:49I didn't even know people still made things like this,
07:52like, from scratch.
07:53Today, we're going to be making coat hooks.
07:56Oh, it's like a couple's hook.
07:58Like a his and hers.
07:58Exactly, yeah.
07:59So you'll each make your own coat hook, hopefully.
08:03I don't know if mine will turn out that nice,
08:04but we'll try.
08:05No, I believe in you it will.
08:06OK.
08:07Yeah.
08:07So first, what we want to do is we want to put our steel
08:14flat in the fire.
08:17Ah, it's yellow.
08:19OK.
08:19Oh, God.
08:25Wayne is surprisingly good at this blacksmithing thing.
08:28I think it's kind of hot.
08:30I like a man who works.
08:31I kind of like that fire.
08:37Oh, doing it.
08:42Ah, it looks good.
08:44What's up with yours?
08:45I'm done.
08:46You're done?
08:47Yeah.
08:47Yours looks more like a toothpick.
08:49Yeah.
08:50It's a wand.
08:51It's great.
08:52You're like Harry Potter now.
08:54Yeah.
08:55I don't think Jamal is into this,
08:57but I'm having a great time.
08:59You got to yell, strike.
09:01Strike.
09:02Oh.
09:06Jamal, what are you doing?
09:08Did you not enjoy that?
09:09It was great.
09:10I just, I don't know.
09:11I got bored.
09:12I was lonely.
09:12It wasn't ready for you, was it?
09:14This is what we made?
09:15Oh, I can definitely tell Wayne made this one.
09:18I made that one.
09:19Oh, what?
09:20He made this one.
09:20I like this one.
09:21Yeah, this one's better.
09:22His scroll is better.
09:23That looks like a weapon.
09:24I don't think you'll be able to take that on the plane.
09:26Do you want it?
09:27Yeah.
09:27I can use it for poking my fire.
09:29Fire picker.
09:30I know I didn't pick the best activity for you.
09:32What?
09:32Tonight, hopefully you'll come to the pub.
09:34Yeah, I love a pub, dude.
09:36Yeah.
09:36I have a pint.
09:37You'll get to meet my two daughters as well.
09:39Oh yeah, your daughters are coming.
09:40Yeah, so we'll make it a little family affair.
09:42That'd be cute.
09:43Yeah.
09:43Yeah.
09:44I think at heart I'm just not a blacksmith, but Wayne seems like a really nice guy.
09:49That was so much fun.
09:50Hey, thank you, man.
09:51Pleasure.
09:52I'll see you later.
09:52Yeah, see you later.
09:53I definitely like seeing my mom with someone closer to her age than someone closer to my
09:57age.
09:58See ya.
09:58Okay, I'll see you later.
10:00He's not someone I'm going to call bro, you know.
10:02It's great.
10:05See you later.
10:06Bye.
10:07See you, Jamal.
10:08That was so cool.
10:10So, what did you think of Mr. Wayne?
10:13Wayne's great, man.
10:14You like him?
10:15Yeah, he gives really good vibes so far.
10:17I just feel really happy when I'm around him, like very peaceful, you know?
10:20Yeah.
10:22I still have to tell him a few things if we decide we're going to be in a relationship,
10:26you know?
10:27Mm-hmm.
10:28About the kids and stuff.
10:32Yeah.
10:33I mean, not tonight with his daughters around.
10:35I think it has to be a me and him conversation, you know?
10:38Well, I'm not going to lie about anything.
10:40I'm just letting you know that now.
10:42I didn't ask.
10:42What?
10:43Well, if they ask, like, how was it growing up and only child?
10:46Oh, do you wish you had siblings?
10:47Yeah.
10:48What do you want me to say?
10:49I really didn't think they would ask you something like that.
10:51But, I mean, if they ask it, I'm not going to just, like, blurt it out.
10:56I think it's a conversation I need to have with Wayne first.
10:59Well, I'm not going to lie.
11:00I'm just going to look at you, and if you lie to him, that's on you.
11:03I don't want to say it with his daughters there.
11:05Well, if I was in your shoes, I would have already told him.
11:10Honestly, I'm getting really frustrated that my mom is getting so defensive about this truth of my siblings.
11:15She just needs to tell everyone it's time.
11:19I just met him yesterday for the first time.
11:20You met him. You've known him. You've been talking to him for months.
11:22But you can't. It's not something you say over the phone, Jamal.
11:26If people cannot accept the fact that my mom has other children, then they should not be in her life
11:33at all.
11:34You're upset, and it's like...
11:36It does upset me because I didn't...
11:37Well, bro, you have the kids.
11:39But you don't have to be a dick about it, though.
11:41I'm not. You're the one that's having an attitude.
11:42Oh, Jamal, stop it.
11:44Well, bro, stop it.
11:45It's so difficult. Stop it.
11:46You're getting all worked up when this is all on you.
11:51I came here with every intention of telling Wayne once we're in a relationship.
11:56But I have to handle things my own way.
11:58And now I'm really scared because when we meet Wayne and his daughters tonight,
12:03how do I know Jamal's not going to try to slide this into the conversation?
12:07Always the bad guy. No matter what I do, I'm always the bad guy.
12:11No calling you a bad guy. Stop projecting.
12:13Jesus Christ.
12:32I haven't seen Vanya in almost three weeks since she left for the vacation.
12:38Can't miss that.
12:40With that little issue during our travels, I want to make sure that we're just over some of the issues
12:44that we had before.
12:46So definitely excited, but a little bit still on edge.
13:03Oh my God, it's crazy.
13:07Finally, finally, finally.
13:10Oh my God, it's crazy.
13:15Oh my God, it's crazy.
13:19I'm going to have to do this.
13:19When I was in a blow up argument on a video call, I was devastated.
13:24But Tony reached out and he apologized.
13:28He just got very emotional because he missed me.
13:31He said that he was out of line.
13:33And I saw a total shift in Tony's behavior.
13:37Going forward after that, things between us have been great.
13:40My baby.
13:42I'm so glad I'm back.
13:43And I get to touch you and feel you and kiss you.
13:49I think I thought that a trip would just kind of just go by quickly and didn't.
13:54And I just realized that, you know, I'm lucky to have you.
13:57I'm blessed to have you around me all the time.
13:59And like, yeah, there's going to be times where we're not going to be together all the time.
14:02Like, you know.
14:03Yeah, I think it's important for us to trust each other.
14:06And we should be able to live our life and just communicate and be open and not hold things back.
14:12I think that's the key here.
14:13I just really think we're in a better place, you know.
14:16And I missed you, too.
14:18As much as I hated the fact that Tony and I argued on this trip,
14:22he really cares about our relationship.
14:24And I think Tony realizes that he's just scared of being abandoned.
14:28He gets affected easily by anything that he might perceive as threatening our relationship.
14:33And he reacts because he feels uncomfortable.
14:36And that's not what's happening here.
14:38Home sweet home.
14:40Absolutely.
14:41I feel like everywhere I went, every museum I walked into, every meal I had,
14:46it just, everything reminded me of him.
14:48And it just really made me realize how much I care for him
14:51and how excited I am to come back home to him.
14:55Two and a half weeks has been too much, too long.
14:58So did it make you realize even more how much you love me?
15:01This just makes the heart grow fonder.
15:03Going away on this trip, it made me realize how sad I am without you,
15:08how you occupy all of my thoughts.
15:09And I think we are at a stage where we feel comfortable with each other.
15:13We feel safe and we feel such crazy strong love for one another.
15:18So I think it's only natural that things progress to the next level.
15:25Absolutely.
15:26If you're comfortable, we can start to advance to other things and, you know, not just enjoy movies together.
15:34Yeah.
15:38So should we take this to the bedroom?
15:52I'm just going to go freshen up real quick, OK?
15:55OK.
15:55All right.
15:56Do you need any help?
15:58I don't need any help.
16:00I'll be right back.
16:02I haven't been physical with a man in a very long time.
16:06What if we're not compatible?
16:07What if it sucks?
16:08What if it's a deal breaker for him?
16:10I mean, that's why I'm essentially celibate all the time.
16:14Because it could change so much in a relationship and it's a little scary.
16:43But I'm willing to take that risk with Tony because these cupcakes have been in the oven long enough.
16:49They're ready to be frosted.
17:00What is this?
17:01Welcome to my abode.
17:03We had a long trip.
17:04I think you should lay down.
17:06Oh, my goodness.
17:08This is the best homecoming ever.
17:10Me as well.
17:18You look so beautiful, babe.
17:20Thank you, honey.
17:21You are.
17:29You are excited to see me come home.
17:48I think we want to do the pretzel bites with beer cheese.
17:50Of course, no problem.
17:51I got you guys.
17:54Which courts are we going to?
17:56Court five.
17:57Save that for later.
17:59Everything I want.
18:01That is you, babe.
18:03Tell me when to come.
18:05And I'll do it.
18:06I can't let it go.
18:08And I'll prove it.
18:10I won't ever lie.
18:12Even though it's in a nutshell.
18:14I'm ready.
18:25So Phil is my new boyfriend.
18:27We met about a month ago at a bar.
18:30He's 66 years old.
18:32He's been married a few times.
18:34He has four kids in their 30s.
18:36And then he has two granddaughters.
18:39You have to do your pickleball dance.
18:42So after Colt, I started listening to relationship advice.
18:46And this lady said, girl, you need a man that's older.
18:50Like, that has cataracts.
18:52That needs to pull out his little reading glasses.
18:55So he's not able to see a girl from across the bar.
18:58He's, like, so in love and worships you.
19:00And that's how I feel with Phil.
19:02Like, he opens the door for me.
19:04He pays for a date.
19:05Like, that is sexy.
19:08I think we got to hit it harder.
19:10Excuse me?
19:11I got your stuff right over here.
19:12Oh, thank you so much.
19:13No problem.
19:14And sex is great with Philip.
19:16He doesn't need any medication.
19:18If I'm like, hey, do you want to do it?
19:20He's like, yep, I'm ready to go.
19:22I love date night.
19:23I love date night, too.
19:24Aw.
19:26I got it all over your lips.
19:34Guess who tried to crash tonight?
19:36I'll give you three guesses.
19:38Colt?
19:39Yeah.
19:41Yeah, the living arrangement.
19:44It's not the best situation.
19:47But I was tired of transporting him every week to a new motel.
19:52I think Colt has a thing for you still.
19:55Babe, you do not have to be jealous of him.
19:58I don't trust him.
20:00Do you trust me?
20:01Of course I trust you.
20:03Then don't worry about him.
20:05He's asking me these questions.
20:07I have to answer.
20:07Okay.
20:08Then tell him, like, no, be a business.
20:10I'm never going back to him.
20:11Me and Colt had discussions.
20:14I would assume he knows there's boundaries, like living in my boyfriend's house.
20:18But I think Philip has valid reasons to be leery of Colt because he is a snake.
20:25I just want him to be able to walk around so he could be out of our lives.
20:29And I don't want this guilt hanging over me.
20:32I've seen him walk.
20:33He's doing pretty good.
20:34You think he's just pretending?
20:37I think he wants to be with you.
20:40He's a snake.
20:41No, I think that too.
20:43We need to get him out of our home.
20:46I just don't want him to feel like we're kicking him to the curb.
20:50It's time to make him a little uncomfortable.
20:53I already kicked Colt out of my house once.
20:56And I'd hate to do it again.
20:58But I don't want to jeopardize my new relationship with Philip by prioritizing Colt.
21:03But then at the same time, it's like, you need help.
21:06How are you going to do this without me?
21:08Like, I don't know.
21:11Did you think it was going to be this long?
21:13I mean, he has nobody else to take care of him.
21:20It's time for us to have this conversation with him.
21:22Let's just talk to him, see where he's at, see how things are going.
21:27You've met your obligations.
21:28Time for him to move on.
21:33When I was 20, I got a woman pregnant.
21:36I did get married because I thought every child needs a father figure and a mother figure as well.
21:41Wayne might think, oh, she has two children that she placed for adoption.
21:45She's the most selfish person on earth.
21:46in the end.
22:02She's the most selfish person on earth.
22:03Bro, what the f***?
22:06What's up, pap?
22:07You look miserable.
22:20What's going on?
22:22It's a lot, bro. I've just been kind of stinking all day.
22:36We are random guy.
22:39My whole situation with Liz, everything felt right.
22:42I feel like we connected so well, and then we talked yesterday.
22:47She has somebody back home.
22:53What?
22:54Yup.
22:58She has somebody back home?
23:00Yup.
23:01You look sad.
23:03I know.
23:04Bro, you feel your fault for her?
23:07Yeah.
23:10That situation back at her home, you know, it doesn't...
23:14That has nothing to do with me.
23:25What about you? What's going on, man?
23:33I had some fun tonight.
23:36She told me she had another plan, bro.
23:38What was she doing?
23:40She told me she had a freaking date with someone else, man.
23:44She wanted a date with somebody else?
23:47And that got me so pissed, bro.
23:50So pissed.
23:53I've been patient, giving to her whatever she asked for.
23:58I feel that she really like me.
24:01I don't know what she wants, man.
24:04But I know what I want.
24:06Yeah, I know what you want.
24:07I want somebody that can be with me.
24:10They can talk to me, you know, can be there for me.
24:12Yeah.
24:14I spent the last 24 hours to try to calm down,
24:18but I can't let it go.
24:20I feel completely, completely betrayed.
24:24But I don't want to let her go
24:27because I know inside of her she has something very special.
24:31I need time to reflect.
24:33If I want to spend the rest of the street trying to get things better
24:37or I go my own way.
24:40I really like her, but I don't have time to play around, bro.
24:50Here we are.
25:01Before we go in, I'm sorry that I yelled at you in the car.
25:04I'm really sorry about that.
25:06It's just I do get really defensive.
25:07I can't help that.
25:09It's all good.
25:10I'm sorry, though, but I love you.
25:12And I'm really anxious about me and his daughters.
25:13I just want to have a good time.
25:14Let's have a good, let's go take a shot, get a drink.
25:17Shut up.
25:17Well, you can take a shot.
25:18Just shut up.
25:18All right.
25:19All right.
25:19I've got so much left to say.
25:23I've got so much left to say.
25:23I'll take my words and walk away.
25:26There's only so many stories that I first think I'd say
25:30before you took my words and walked away.
25:33Oh, lady of the hour.
25:34How are you?
25:35You all right?
25:36Yeah, I'm fine.
25:36How are you?
25:37Good.
25:37How are you, Jamal?
25:38You all right?
25:39Good to see you again.
25:40Yeah, good to see you.
25:41I already like this place better than the blacksmith.
25:43Do you?
25:43Yeah.
25:43Can I get a pint?
25:45It's a lot warmer for you, isn't it?
25:46Yeah.
25:47Can I get anyone a drink?
25:48Yeah, can I have a lager, please?
25:49Lager, yeah.
25:50What do you want?
25:50I'm going to do the cider.
25:53Wayne's daughters are meeting us at a pub tonight,
25:54and I was really excited until Jamal decided
25:58to lose his damn mind.
26:00Where's the lager?
26:03The nurse's not meeting your daughters, yeah.
26:04Oh, you'll be fine.
26:05Where's the nurse?
26:06They're coming in the back.
26:07He wanted to know what he should say
26:09if Wayne's daughters were to ask him
26:11if he had any siblings.
26:12Now I'm stressed out because these questions
26:15could really come up,
26:16and that makes me anxious as hell.
26:19Your mom told me that you got concerns
26:21about her meeting somebody.
26:23That's why you probably come out here,
26:24just to make sure she's safe and she's all right.
26:26So how do you feel about it now?
26:31Um...
26:34I just want to make sure she doesn't make
26:36the same mistakes that she did before.
26:39Yeah.
26:39But with you, I mean, it is like,
26:42you seem like a genuine guy, you know.
26:45And this is his first long-distance relationship, too.
26:47Oh!
26:48How do you feel about that?
26:49Wait, are you on a relationship?
26:50We're getting there.
26:51Yay!
26:52We're not there.
26:52We're not there yet.
26:54I don't really like to rush into things,
26:56because when I was younger, I was 20,
26:58I got a woman pregnant,
27:02and the thing to do, I thought, was to get married.
27:04And one of the reasons why I did get married
27:06is because I thought it was the best thing for my unborn child
27:10to grow up with a mum and dad.
27:13I thought that was the right thing to do.
27:16And we had a good marriage.
27:18I was married for 14 years.
27:20Wow.
27:21But it got to the point...
27:22I mean, that's a good amount of time.
27:23Yeah.
27:24The point where I wasn't happy,
27:26and I could see she wasn't happy.
27:28So we both drifted apart.
27:31And the main thing what we've done,
27:32we've kept the family unit.
27:34That's great.
27:36Because every child needs a father figure,
27:38and every child needs a mother figure as well.
27:40You could have learned a thing or two from this, man.
27:42Could have.
27:43Well, it wasn't her fault.
27:44My dad's still.
27:44I should have met you years ago.
27:46I knew Wayne became a father at a young age,
27:48and he sacrificed so much to be in their lives.
27:51And it sounds like that's how he views family.
27:54Like, you do anything and everything
27:55to keep your family together.
27:57I love that.
27:58But he might think,
27:59oh, she has two children that she placed for adoption.
28:02She's the most selfish person on earth.
28:03She might not even think of them.
28:06But, you know, since we are on this path to,
28:10you know, a relationship,
28:11I do want to talk to you, like, tomorrow privately
28:14about a couple things.
28:29Today, I'm actually going to be meeting
28:30Tony's parents for the first time.
28:32And I have to say, I'm a little nervous.
28:34It's really important for me, for them to like me.
28:37So I hope I get to make a good impression today.
28:40So I'm looking forward to meeting them.
29:03So I brought these for your mom.
29:06She'll love these.
29:07Yes.
29:08And some cupcakes, of course.
29:10Perfect.
29:10OK, I'm pretty.
29:10Yes.
29:12Last night, being intimate with Tony for the first time
29:15was incredible.
29:16I freaking loved it.
29:17It was very sensual and passionate.
29:20And it was not boom, boom, done.
29:23OK, let me just put it to you that way.
29:26You got to take a look at the cupcakes.
29:28Oh, this is...
29:29I know.
29:30They all got moved.
29:31Oh, my gosh, babe.
29:33Yeah.
29:33All the frosting is messed up.
29:36This one kind of took a beating.
29:39They're all going to taste amazing.
29:40Trust me, they will look at the effort.
29:43Perfect cupcake.
29:43This one's for your mom, because I know she loves flowers.
29:45The best one?
29:46This one is perfect.
29:47It hasn't been ruined.
29:48Tony and I have crossed this new level of intimacy.
29:52And tonight, we're going even further.
29:56I am about to meet Tony's parents.
29:58Are you excited to meet the parentals?
30:01Yes.
30:02I'm very excited and very nervous.
30:04So what do you think will be important to them?
30:07There's a lot of, not protocol, but there's a lot of things
30:11that have to be really brought up before things kind of evolve.
30:14Meaning initial conversations about religion and kind of, you know,
30:20what happens in the future.
30:21Uh-oh.
30:22You didn't prepare me for any of that.
30:27What I know about Tony's parents is they are very sweet, very kind,
30:31very loving, very family-oriented.
30:34They love Tony to death, and they're very religious.
30:37And I am not.
30:40Especially for my mom, who's very devout Catholic.
30:43Like, she might bring up, are you going to church?
30:46Are you religious?
30:47Do you pray?
30:48Because I don't see her just kind of overlooking that.
30:51Right.
30:53But I wouldn't worry too much.
30:58I have a totally different perspective on religion than a lot of people
31:02because I am a war survivor, and it was a religious war.
31:09I lived in Yugoslavia, which was a country that had three different religions.
31:15Catholic, Orthodox, Christian, and Muslim.
31:18A war broke up, and now the country is broken into six different countries.
31:24And people who used to be families, neighbors, are now considering each other enemies.
31:31Being a war refugee, I have experienced death and near death over religious differences.
31:38And I just couldn't understand it as a child, and I don't understand it as a grown-up as well.
31:48Oh.
31:49They're here.
31:50Oh, my God.
31:50You ready?
31:51Okay, okay.
31:51Wait, wait, wait.
31:52Kiss, kiss, kiss.
31:53Yes, yes.
31:54A smart strategy.
31:55Okay.
31:56All right.
31:58God, that's scary.
32:02Hi, Tony.
32:03How are you?
32:04Good, good.
32:05Yeah.
32:05All right.
32:06So, Vanya's here.
32:07So, Vanya, this is...
32:10Hello.
32:10Hi.
32:11How are you?
32:12It's so nice to meet you.
32:13I'm Vanya.
32:13Nice seeing you.
32:14Nice to meet you.
32:15Hi, Vanya.
32:16Nice to meet you.
32:17Nice to meet you.
32:17Oh, you're so sweet.
32:18Thank you so much.
32:19Look, you guys match.
32:21This is lovely.
32:23That's so beautiful.
32:25I love the jewelry.
32:26That's gorgeous.
32:27Oh, look at that one.
32:28I love it.
32:29You guys go ahead, sit down.
32:30Yeah, sure.
32:31Have a seat.
32:33We'll bring the dessert here.
32:34Yeah, I made some cupcakes.
32:36Let's do that.
32:36So, I hope you'll like it.
32:38Oh, really?
32:39In our time in India, we had arranged marriage.
32:43We met only three or four times before the marriage.
32:47Now it is 45th year.
32:49Yeah, 45 years.
32:5145 years.
32:5145 years.
32:52So, this is for you, because Tony told me you love flowers.
32:57Sure.
32:57Yeah.
32:57Oh, nice.
32:58Nice.
32:59Beautiful.
33:00Thank you so much.
33:02I want Tony to get the same thing.
33:05Peaceful and happy.
33:07I'm praying every day.
33:08I want to get the right religious, hardworking, loving girl who can love him.
33:16Mmm.
33:16Let me try.
33:19Mmm.
33:21It's good.
33:22It is so good.
33:24It is delicious.
33:26Thank you so much.
33:27So, on top of being a vegan baker, Vanya actually does medical sales.
33:31Oh.
33:31And then she also does professional dancing, too, as well.
33:35Really?
33:35She's a Jill of all trades.
33:37She does quite a bit.
33:38Oh, she's really smart girl.
33:39What type of dancing?
33:41I do belly dance, Bollywood, Bhangra, and all kinds of stuff.
33:46Yeah.
33:48Yeah.
33:52I also dance, yeah.
33:54Really?
33:54We can dance together.
33:56What kind of dance do you do?
33:58Wow.
33:59In our church, we have more different functions.
34:03That's amazing.
34:03So, my parents are very active in the church, so they do many of the activities and a lot
34:08of the South Indian traditions, too, as well.
34:10That's great.
34:11And what about you, Vanya?
34:13Did you practice anything in the church?
34:22No.
34:23No, I was not raised in a religious household.
34:26Oh.
34:27I see.
34:29Yeah.
34:31Do you want to come to church and see how we are doing?
34:43I would probably prefer to stay away.
34:46Oh.
34:47Yeah.
34:48My response is always going to be no.
34:50It's never going to change.
34:52And I'm scared to death that this is going to be a huge problem.
35:13The day yesterday went well.
35:15I mean, it's honestly kind of what I've been wanting to do this whole time.
35:19It was just nice to, like, fly a bit, you know, and feel like, oh, I'm actually single and actually
35:24I'm able to live my life a bit, you know?
35:27Shake it.
35:28Move it.
35:29How you work it?
35:31Shake it.
35:32Move it.
35:33How you work it?
35:37No.
35:37This morning, the guy text me.
35:38He was like, nice to meet you.
35:39Bye.
35:40I was like, nice to meet you too, bye.
35:44Like, that's how not serious that was.
35:46The guy I went out with last night, Brian,
35:48you know, he was hot and he was a good kisser.
35:51It's just we didn't really have much in common.
35:53I need more than just, like, a good body.
35:56Should I wear that or should I not wear that?
35:59And by the end of the night, I actually was missing Pedro.
36:05Even though I don't think I'm ready for a relationship yet,
36:09me and Pedro do have a connection.
36:11I'm not ready to let that go.
36:13So I asked him to meet me at the beach
36:15and, thankfully, he said yes.
36:17Don't you stop that feeling, so bring it all to me, yeah.
36:21If you feel that, then bring it all to me, yeah.
36:26I want to search Sophie my ballot.
36:29Everything that you're looking for is here.
36:31You don't have to look somewhere else.
36:34When Sophie asked me to meet up today,
36:37I knew her date was probably awful.
36:40If she get the dating harder system
36:42and she say, oh, no, I don't want to date nobody else
36:44that was dying and didn't like,
36:46it's very possible that we can still save
36:49the relationship before the district end.
36:53Hi.
36:54Good morning.
36:55Morning. How are you?
36:56Good. How are you?
36:57I'm good.
36:58Good?
36:59Yeah, it's windy today.
37:00It's a little Wendy.
37:01My hat's trying to fly away.
37:04What is that?
37:05Ah, this, uh, machete.
37:07Now that you're here in the yard,
37:09you need to know how to open a coconut.
37:12Okay.
37:18Let's play the coconut here.
37:19Um, how you have the machete, you know?
37:24Machete.
37:25Okay, watch out.
37:26Okay.
37:27I'm scared.
37:31Right there.
37:33It's hot.
37:34Yeah, the coconut's hot.
37:35Right there.
37:37Is it right there?
37:38Yeah, it's right there.
37:40Yeah.
37:42Go, Sophie, go.
37:43Right there.
37:43You got it.
37:44You got it.
37:44You got it.
37:45Yeah.
37:47Bam.
37:47Yes.
37:48Bam.
37:49Yay.
37:51Nice.
37:51I did it.
37:53First training.
37:54Coco.
37:54You got Coco.
37:56You got Coco.
37:56Emerging Coco.
37:57This wind here is crazy.
37:59Super windy.
38:01Yeah.
38:02Coming down here, I didn't think you'd be in such, like, a happy mood.
38:04I kind of expected you to be, like, not happy after our last conversation.
38:10Yeah, it was a little hard for me, um, because I want to spend more time with you.
38:19How was your day?
38:20Tell me.
38:21It was a fine day.
38:24Have you kissed the guy?
38:29Why are you asking me questions like that?
38:31I want to know.
38:32Why?
38:33Because I want to know.
38:34Why?
38:35Have you kissed him?
38:36And then what?
38:37And then what?
38:37I want to know.
38:40I thought that your mood is already, like, completely switched.
38:44You kiss him.
38:46Yeah.
38:47Okay.
38:50That's nice that you want to go to work, kiss a random guy.
38:54That's the first time that you meet him.
38:56I don't know how you've been talking to him.
38:58I've saved him five months, and you've only been kissing me, like, I'll go kiss one time.
39:05I want to love you, protect you, helping you, be there for you.
39:11Don't see the value that I bring into you.
39:13I do see your value.
39:14You've not seen it, because you've been in a date with a guy, see him one time, and kiss him.
39:19Because I told you I want to have time being single.
39:21You have time to be single, too.
39:23Yeah, yeah, but that's what you want?
39:25You want your time to heal?
39:27I've been saying that, yes.
39:28You want your time to do what you want to do?
39:30Yes, yes, literally, yes.
39:32And I'm not going to wait for that, for real.
39:34Like, if that's one of the things you want to do, bye.
39:44Now I feel how rock fell every time I run away, and it is actually really childish.
39:51I invited to my country to share my country, and she made me looking another guy for my country.
39:56What the hell?
40:01this.
40:04You know, this is what I was afraid of.
40:06Like, he's just acting like, like he just got cheated on.
40:10I've been open about it from the beginning.
40:13I told him I didn't lie, and he's still acting like I just did the worst thing in the world.
40:22You know, and I care about him, and he thinks I don't, because I went on one date.
40:26One date.
40:26I went on one date.
40:30He's making me feel like I'm the most person in the world.
40:34And I'm not.
40:34I'm not.
40:35Like, I just, I'm not ready for a relationship.
40:37Like, that's all it is.
40:38I'm not ready for a relationship.
40:41this.
40:42She's crazy.
40:43She's crazy.
40:45She's nuts.
40:49Next, I'm on the single life.
40:52This is pheromone spray to attract the ladies.
40:56I've met someone that I'm really interested in.
40:59Can we start with your ID, please?
41:01Aren't you going to ask me for my ID?
41:03I am 56 years old, and Alexi is 30.
41:08You are older than my dad.
41:12Oh, my goodness.
41:14Look at this light.
41:16Looking at homes with Tony as just a boyfriend feels very weird to me.
41:23If you're not sure about if you want to marry me, then how are you sure that you want to
41:27share a home together?
41:28I never said that.
41:29I never said I wasn't sure.
41:31I don't want a roommate.
41:32I want a husband.
41:34Obviously, you're not ready.
41:37Now that you can walk, what plans have you made?
41:41Well, it's time for that talk, huh?
41:43Cole overstaying his welcome has been hurting my relationship with Phil.
41:47It's time to kick him out.
41:49So, once you've moved out, I think I need to cut off communication with you.
41:54That's Daines.
41:54You were my ride or die.
41:58So, how do you think this week went?
42:00So far, so good.
42:01I'm getting really, really nervous to tell Wayne about the children I placed for adoption.
42:05Like, is he going to accept me for everything that I am?
42:08There is one thing before we continue that I want to tell you about.
42:11I have other children I put up for adoption.
42:13Oh, well.
42:14Please don't judge me.
42:17Julia told me that you and Pedro aren't talking right now.
42:20And he's just not texting me.
42:21I think he's just being very spiteful and, honestly, very emotionally immature.
42:26Sophie's been texting to me.
42:28Naya stopped saying yesterday, just suddenly leave me alone.
42:34She's charmed and pieces.
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