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90 Day- The Single Life S05E13
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00:01Previously on The Single Life.
00:04Cheers, mate.
00:05Cheers, mate.
00:06Wayne is everything I hoped for.
00:08Are you dating now?
00:09No.
00:10Really?
00:10No.
00:11But the real test will be tomorrow when I introduce him to Jamal.
00:15I really, really hope that he gives Wayne a chance.
00:18Best date ever.
00:22Let me touch it.
00:24Oh, wow.
00:25Okay.
00:26I feel like being in the DR is what I'm supposed to be doing.
00:30Like, there's so many good-looking guys here.
00:32I just want to have fun and experience being single in my 20s.
00:39I love you, Courtney.
00:40Oh, my God.
00:41I don't want to party again.
00:42I'm going to go time for, like, a month.
00:44This man has no shame.
00:47I am never going to give him another chance.
00:52New adventures begin.
00:54I'm halfway through my girl's trip to Europe.
00:57Here we go, Ibiza, bitches.
00:59And last night, Tony started blowing up my phone.
01:02Why is there a need to party every night?
01:04Every time we're apart, you blow up.
01:06And this is not okay.
01:17I'm not a lawyer, but I could fake it.
01:21Yeah, I can act it out.
01:24Got to get all the gravy.
01:29That's where the real flavor is.
01:31I'm not a hater, but let me show you how.
01:35It doesn't matter the way you are.
01:44I'm here still in Orlando.
01:46I've been here for about two months now.
01:48I got a surgery on my leg to fix my five fractures around my knee and my broken femur.
01:56But the good news is I can walk.
02:08I can walk.
02:10I can walk again.
02:16You have no idea how useful these things are until you don't have them anymore.
02:22Yeah.
02:25I need to stay in Orlando for the next few months to do follow-up appointments with my doctor
02:29and to do physical therapy.
02:31Hello, Philip.
02:32Hi, Colt.
02:33How are you feeling?
02:34How's the leg?
02:35A little better every day.
02:38Thankfully, I've met Philip, a very kind and older gentleman that has decided to let me
02:43live with him as I recover from my surgery.
02:45He's divorced and he has older kids, so he has a spare bedroom.
02:49You look like you're doing much better.
02:51It's nice to regain some of that mobility.
02:54I'll do this one for you.
02:55Appreciate it.
02:57You know, Philip, you're the best.
02:58I really appreciate everything.
02:59You know, you've been very kind to me and with everything, you know.
03:03It's been our pleasure.
03:05You got any plans for later?
03:08Yes.
03:09Courtney and I are going to dinner and then we're going to go play pickleball.
03:13Yep.
03:14Philip is Courtney's new 66-year-old boyfriend and I'm living with him.
03:20Bet you didn't see that one coming.
03:22Well, you know, if you need another guest, want some company.
03:27We're going to go to pickleball afterwards and it's kind of a romantic night for us tonight.
03:31I understand that.
03:32It's good.
03:33You want to woo your woman.
03:35They met at a bar and started dating about two months ago.
03:39She decided to move in pretty quickly and she invited me to move in too.
03:43It's kind of a weird three's company, a menage a not.
03:47Where is Courtney anyway?
03:49She's out with her friends right now.
03:50She'll be back soon.
03:53Courtney and I are a good match because she likes to be romanced.
03:56I like romancing her.
03:58I agreed to let Colt move into the house because Courtney felt responsible for him getting injured and I didn't
04:06like Courtney going to help him in these nasty hotels.
04:10And I was worried that he would be trying to get back with her all the time.
04:14The best solution was for him to be here and then I would know what's going on all the time.
04:20You know, I was thinking maybe I could get a cat, you know, a little kitten.
04:25I feel kind of lonely.
04:26I believe Courtney's allergic to cats.
04:28Shoot.
04:30We'll get you a cat as a housewarming gift when you move.
04:34I'm going to do my physiotherapy.
04:37Okay.
04:38Enjoy.
04:39I don't mind helping Colt out, but it does put a big strain on our relationship.
04:44We don't have much privacy.
04:45We don't sit in our own living room because it's right outside his bedroom door.
04:49It's been a while and I think it's time for him to move on.
04:54Courtney and Phillip have a little untraditional relationship.
04:57I think it's best classified as a sugar daddy and a sugar baby.
05:04I don't know.
05:06Who am I to say?
05:07I wish them the best.
05:23Hello, Governor.
05:24Good morning.
05:25Hi.
05:26How are you?
05:26Good.
05:26How are you?
05:27Long time no see.
05:28I know.
05:28I haven't seen you since yesterday.
05:30How was yesterday?
05:31It was fabulous.
05:32Yeah?
05:32Yeah.
05:32It's everything I thought it would be.
05:34Yeah?
05:34Yeah.
05:40You're going to open the door for me?
05:46I guess the least I can do.
05:47Thank you, Governor.
05:48Hello, sir.
05:53You're going to like them, I think, tomorrow.
05:57I won't kiss him in front of you or anything.
05:58I don't care.
06:00Yesterday was my first date with Wayne, and it went really well.
06:04Like, the conversation didn't stop.
06:06I found out he's not dating anybody, so, whew, on that one.
06:09The vibe was good and very natural, and I felt very safe, you know?
06:16That's good.
06:17Sounds like he's a good guy.
06:18So far.
06:19Today, Jamal and I are meeting Wayne at a blacksmith workshop.
06:23At first, I was like, are we going to put horseshoes on horses?
06:27Because isn't that what they do?
06:28But when Wayne explained that there were no horses involved, this is like a popular date
06:33thing in England.
06:33I was like, okay, I can do this.
06:36I think we're here.
06:38Yes, sir.
06:39There he is.
06:42Thank you so much.
06:44Mr. Wayne.
06:45How are you doing?
06:46What's up, man?
06:47You all right?
06:47Nice to meet you.
06:48Yeah, nice to meet you, too.
06:49Good to see you.
06:49How are you?
06:50Yeah, I'm good, thank you.
06:51Hi, how are you?
06:52Hi, you all right?
06:52Yeah, I'm good.
06:53How are you?
06:53Yeah, I'm good, thank you.
06:54Good to see you.
06:55You look warmer, you look warmer today.
06:57I'm warmer today.
06:58My mom told me you had a good day yesterday.
07:00Yeah, yeah.
07:00It's been really nice here.
07:01I appreciate it.
07:01Really good, brilliant day.
07:02Doing the flowers.
07:03I honestly might have to take some lessons from you, dude.
07:06I need to learn a little bit.
07:07I'll give you some blacksmith lessons.
07:08Yeah, let's do it.
07:09Come on, then.
07:10Let's have a look.
07:11I don't know what to expect.
07:13Wow.
07:21Walking into this blacksmith workshop, I'm like, did I step back in time?
07:25Like, where am I?
07:27Has anyone done any blacksmithing before?
07:29I've seen it on TV.
07:30A little bit, yeah.
07:32Come gather this way.
07:35They have these big ovens and all these big, like, medieval tools and everything, and it's
07:40really cool.
07:40I didn't even know people still made things like this, like, from scratch.
07:44Today, we're going to be making coat hooks.
07:47Oh, it's like a couple's hook.
07:48Like a his and hers.
07:50Yeah, exactly, yeah.
07:50So you'll each make your own coat hook, hopefully.
07:54I don't know if mine will turn out that nice, but we'll try.
07:56No, I believe in you it will.
07:57Okay.
07:58Yeah.
07:58So first, what we want to do is we want to put our steel flat in the fire.
08:08Ah, it's yellow.
08:09Okay.
08:09Oh, God.
08:15Wayne is surprisingly good at this blacksmithing thing.
08:18I think it's kind of hot.
08:20I like a man who works.
08:22I kind of like that fire.
08:27Oh, it looks good.
08:34What's up with yours?
08:35I'm done.
08:36You're done?
08:37Yeah.
08:37Yours looks more like a toothpick.
08:39Yeah, it's a wand.
08:40It's great.
08:41You're like Harry Potter now.
08:43Yeah.
08:44I don't think Jamal is into this, but I'm having a great time.
08:49You got to yell, strike.
08:50Strike.
08:51Oh.
08:55Jamal, what are you doing?
08:57Did you not enjoy that?
08:58It was great.
08:59I just, I don't know.
09:00I got bored.
09:01It wasn't ready for you, was it?
09:03This is what we've made.
09:04Oh, I can definitely tell Wayne made this one.
09:07I made that one.
09:08I made that one.
09:08Oh, what?
09:08He made this one.
09:09I like this one.
09:10Yeah, this one's better.
09:10But his early cue, his scroll is better.
09:12That looks like a weapon.
09:13I don't think you'll be able to take that on the plane.
09:15Do you want it?
09:16Yeah.
09:16I can use it for picking my fire.
09:17Fire picker.
09:18I know I didn't pick the best activity for you, but tonight, hopefully you'll come to the pub.
09:23Yeah, I love a pub, dude.
09:24I have a pint.
09:25You'll get to meet my two daughters as well.
09:27Oh, yeah, your daughters will come.
09:28Yeah, so we'll make it a little family affair.
09:30That'll be cute.
09:31Yeah.
09:31Oh, yeah.
09:32I think at heart, I'm just not a blacksmith, but Wayne seems like a really nice guy.
09:37That was so much fun.
09:38Hey, thank you, man.
09:39Pleasure.
09:40I'll see you later.
09:40Yeah, see you later.
09:41I definitely like seeing my mom with someone closer to her age than someone closer to my age.
09:45See ya.
09:46Okay, I'll see you later.
09:48He's not someone I'm going to call bro, you know?
09:50It's great.
09:53See you later.
09:54I love it.
09:54See you, Jamal.
09:56That was so cool.
09:58So, what did you think of Mr. Wayne?
10:00Wayne's great, man.
10:01You like him?
10:02Yeah, he gives really good vibes so far, yeah.
10:04I just feel really happy when I'm around him, like very peaceful, you know?
10:08Yeah.
10:09I still have to tell him a few things if we decide we're going to be in a relationship, you
10:14know?
10:14Mm-hmm.
10:15About the kids and stuff.
10:19Yeah.
10:20I mean, not tonight with his daughters around.
10:22I think it has to be a me and him conversation, you know?
10:25Well, I'm not going to lie about anything.
10:27I'm just letting you know that now.
10:28I didn't ask what?
10:29Well, if they ask, like, how was it growing up and only child?
10:33Oh, do you wish you had siblings?
10:34What do you want me to say?
10:35I really didn't think they would ask you something like that, but, I mean, if they ask it, I'm
10:40not going to just, like, blurt it out.
10:42I think it's a conversation I need to have with Wayne first.
10:45Well, I'm not going to lie.
10:46I'm just going to look at you, and if you lie to him, that's on you.
10:49I don't want to say it with his daughters there.
10:51Well, if I was in your shoes, I would have already told him.
10:56Honestly, I'm getting really frustrated that my mom's getting so defensive about this truth
11:00of my siblings.
11:01She just needs to tell everyone.
11:02It's time.
11:04I just met him yesterday.
11:06You met him, you've been talking to him for months.
11:08But you can't, it's not something you say over the phone, Jamal.
11:12If people cannot accept the fact that my mom has other children, then they should not be
11:18in her life at all.
11:20You're upset, and it's like...
11:21It does upset me because I didn't...
11:23Well, bro, you have the kids.
11:24You don't have to be a dick about it, though.
11:26You're the one that's having an attitude.
11:28Oh, Jamal, stop it.
11:29Well, bro, stop...
11:30You're getting all worked up when this is all on you.
11:36I came here with every intention of telling Wayne once we're in a relationship.
11:40But I have to handle things my own way.
11:43And now I'm really scared because when we meet Wayne and his daughters tonight, how do I
11:48know Jamal's not going to try to slide this into the conversation?
11:52Always the bad guy.
11:53No matter what I do, I'm always the bad guy.
11:55No, I'm calling you a bad guy.
11:57Stop projecting.
11:58Jesus Christ.
12:15I haven't seen Vanya in almost three weeks since she left for the vacation.
12:20Can't miss that.
12:22We've had little issues during our travels, and I want to make sure that we're just over
12:26some of the issues that we had before.
12:28So, definitely excited, but a little bit still on edge.
12:44Oh, my God.
12:46It's crazy.
12:58After our big blow-up argument on a video call, I was devastated.
13:05But Tony reached out, and he apologized.
13:08He just got very emotional because he missed me.
13:11He said that he was out of line, and I saw a total shift in Tony's behavior.
13:17Going forward after that, things between us have been great.
13:21My baby.
13:22I'm so glad I'm back, and I get to touch you and feel you and kiss you.
13:29I think I thought that the trip would just kind of just go by quickly, and did it.
13:34I just realized that, you know, I'm lucky to have you.
13:37I'm blessed to have you around me all the time, and like, yeah, there's going to be times
13:41where we're not going to be together all the time.
13:42Like, you know.
13:43Yeah, I think it's important for us to trust each other, and we should be able to live
13:47our life and just communicate and be open and not hold things back.
13:51I think that's the key here.
13:53I just really think we're in a better place, you know, and I miss you, too.
13:58As much as I hated the fact that Tony and I argued on this trip, he really cares about
14:02our relationship, and I think Tony realizes that he's just scared of being abandoned.
14:08He gets affected easily by anything that he might perceive as threatening our relationship,
14:12and he reacts because he feels uncomfortable, and that's not what's happening here.
14:18Home sweet home.
14:19Absolutely.
14:20I feel like everywhere I went, every museum I walked into, every meal I had, it just,
14:25everything reminded me of him, and it just really made me realize how much I care for
14:30him and how excited I am to come back home to him.
14:34Two and a half weeks has been too much, too long.
14:37So did it make you realize even more how much you love me?
14:39This just makes the heart grow fonder.
14:42Going away on this trip, it made me realize how sad I am without you, how you occupy all
14:47of my thoughts, and I think we are at a stage where we feel comfortable with each other,
14:51we feel safe, and we feel such crazy strong love for one another, so I think it's only
14:58natural that things progress to the next level.
15:03Absolutely.
15:04If you're comfortable, we can start to advance to other things and, you know,
15:09not just enjoy movies together.
15:12Yeah.
15:16So, should we take this to the bedroom?
15:29I'm just going to go freshen up real quick, okay?
15:32Okay.
15:33Do you need any help?
15:35I don't need any help.
15:37I'll be right back.
15:40I haven't been physical with a man in a very long time.
15:43What if we're not compatible?
15:44What if it sucks?
15:45What if it's a deal breaker for him?
15:47I mean, that's why I'm essentially celibate all the time, because it could change so much
15:53in a relationship, and it's a little scary.
16:19But I'm willing to take that risk for Tony, because these cupcakes have been in the oven
16:24long enough.
16:25They're ready to be frosted.
16:28I'm waiting for the day to make me yours, just waiting to the time that you'll be mine.
16:35What is this?
16:37Welcome to my abode.
16:38We had a long trip.
16:39I think you should lay down.
16:42Oh, my goodness.
16:44This is the best homecoming ever.
16:46Me as well.
16:48Obsessed I'll never rest until I feel you're mine.
16:53You look so beautiful, babe.
16:55Thank you, honey.
16:56We are.
16:57I'm so lucky.
17:04You are excited to see me come home.
17:22I think we want to do the pretzel bites with beer cheese.
17:25Of course.
17:25No problem.
17:25I got you guys.
17:28Which courts are we going to?
17:30Court five.
17:32Save that for later.
17:48I'm ready.
17:58So, Phil is my new boyfriend.
18:00We met about a month ago at a bar.
18:04He's 66 years old.
18:05He's been married a few times.
18:07He has four kids in their 30s, and then he has two granddaughters.
18:12You have to do your pickleball dance.
18:15So, after Colt, I started listening to relationship advice, and this lady said,
18:21Girl, you need a man that's older, like, that has cataracts, that needs to pull out his little reading glasses.
18:28So, he's not able to see a girl from across the bar.
18:31He's, like, so in love and worships you, and that's how I feel with Phil.
18:35Like, he opens the door for me.
18:36He pays for a date.
18:38Like, that is sexy.
18:40I think we got to hit it harder.
18:42Excuse me?
18:43I got your stuff right over here.
18:44Oh, thank you so much.
18:45No problem.
18:46And sex is great with Philip.
18:48He doesn't need any medication.
18:50If I'm like, hey, do you want to do it?
18:52He's like, yep, I'm ready to go.
18:54I love date night.
18:55I love date night, too.
18:57Aw.
18:58I got it all over your lips.
19:06Guess who tried to crash tonight?
19:08I'll give you three guesses.
19:10Colt?
19:11Yeah.
19:13Yeah, the living arrangement, it's not the best situation.
19:18But I was tired of transporting him every week to a new motel.
19:24I think Colt has a thing for you still.
19:26Babe, you do not have to be jealous of me.
19:30I don't trust him.
19:32Do you trust me?
19:33Of course I trust you.
19:34Then don't worry about him.
19:36He's asking me these questions I have to answer.
19:38Okay, then tell him, like, no of your business.
19:40I'm never going back then.
19:42Me and Colt had discussions.
19:44I would assume he knows there's boundaries, like living in my boyfriend's house.
19:48But I think Philip has valid reasons to be leery of Colt because he is a snake.
19:55I just want him to be able to walk around so he could be out of our lives.
19:59And I don't want this guilt hanging over me.
20:02I've seen him walk.
20:03He's doing pretty good.
20:05You think he's just pretending?
20:07I think he wants to be with you.
20:10He's a snake.
20:11No, I think that too.
20:13We need to get him out of our home.
20:16I just don't want him to feel like we're kicking him to the curb.
20:20It's time to make him a little uncomfortable.
20:23I already kicked Colt out of my house once, and I'd hate to do it again, but I don't want
20:29to jeopardize my new relationship with Philip by prioritizing Colt.
20:33But then at the same time, it's like, you need help. How are you going to do this without me?
20:38Like, I don't know.
20:40Did you think it was going to be this long?
20:43I mean, he has nobody else to take care of him.
20:49It's time for us to have this conversation with him.
20:51Let's just talk to him, see where he's at, see how things are going.
20:56You've met your obligations. Time for him to move on.
21:02When I was 20, I got a woman pregnant.
21:05I did get married because I thought every child is a father figure and a mother figure as well.
21:10Wayne might think, oh, she has two children that she placed for adoption.
21:13She's the most selfish person on earth.
21:29Bro, what the .
21:32What's up, Papa?
21:34You look miserable.
21:41Fire, fire, fire.
21:46What's going on?
21:47It's a lot, bro.
21:48I've just been kind of stinking all day.
21:51Big Jack taking me this morning because things with him and Liz, they're not bueno.
21:56I know how she feels because I deal with my own problem.
22:00Since Sophie, Wednesday, we're a random guy.
22:04My whole situation with Liz, everything felt right.
22:08I feel like we connected so well.
22:09And then we talked yesterday.
22:13She had somebody back home.
22:18What?
22:19Yep.
22:23She has somebody back home?
22:25Yup.
22:26You look sad.
22:28I know.
22:29Bro, you feel a failure.
22:31Yeah.
22:33What you want to do?
22:35That situation back at her home, you know, it doesn't, that has nothing to do with me.
22:49What about you?
22:50What's going on, man?
22:52Yesterday, Miss Sophie, we had a conversation.
22:54I asked him what she wanted to do.
22:57Said we had some fun tonight.
23:00She told me she had another plan, bro.
23:02What was she doing?
23:04She told me she had a freaking date with someone else, man.
23:07She wanted a date with somebody else?
23:10And they got me so pissed, bro.
23:13So pissed.
23:17I've been patient, giving to her whatever she asked for.
23:22I feel that she really liked me.
23:25I don't know what she wants, man.
23:27But I know what I want.
23:29Yeah, I know what you want.
23:31I want somebody that can be with me.
23:33They can talk to me, you know, can be there for me.
23:36Yeah.
23:38I spent the last 24 hours to try to calm down, but I can't let it go.
23:43I feel completely, completely betrayed.
23:47But I don't want to let her go because I know inside of her, she has something very special.
23:53I need time to reflect if I want to spend the rest of the street trying to get things better,
23:59or I go my own way.
24:02I really like her, but I don't have time to play around, bro.
24:09You can save me now, cause I'm gone.
24:12Here we are.
24:13You finally realized you're wrong.
24:16And it's too late now, you won't see.
24:20Everything you want me to.
24:23Before we go in, I'm sorry that I yelled at you in the car.
24:26I'm really sorry about that.
24:28It's just I do get really defensive.
24:29I can't help that.
24:30It's all good.
24:31I'm sorry, though, but I love you.
24:33And I'm really anxious about me and his daughters.
24:35I just want to have a good time.
24:36Let's go take a shot, get a drink, show up.
24:38Well, you can take a shot.
24:39Let's show up.
24:40All right.
24:40All right.
24:41I've got so much left to say.
24:44I'll take my words and walk away.
24:48I don't need so many sorries.
24:50I've been saying before you took my words and walked away.
24:54I'm 80 of the hour.
24:55How are you?
24:56You all right?
24:57I'm fine.
24:57How are you?
24:58Good.
24:58Good to see you again.
25:01I already like this place better than the blacksmith.
25:03Do you?
25:04Yeah.
25:05It's a lot warmer for you, isn't it?
25:07Yeah.
25:08Can I get anyone a drink?
25:08Yeah, can I have a lager, please?
25:10Lager, yes.
25:10What do you want?
25:11I'm going to do the cider.
25:13Wayne's daughters are meeting us at a pub tonight, and I was really excited until Jamal
25:18decided to lose his damn mind.
25:21Where's the lager?
25:23The nurse is not meeting your daughters.
25:24Oh, you'll be fine.
25:26Come in in the bed.
25:27He wanted to know what he should say if Wayne's daughters were to ask him if he had any siblings.
25:33Now I'm stressed out because these questions could really come up, and that makes me anxious
25:38as hell.
25:39Your mom told me that you've got concerns about her meeting somebody.
25:42That's why you probably come out here, just to make sure she's safe and she's all right.
25:46So how do you feel about it now?
25:51Um...
25:54I just want to make sure she doesn't make the same mistakes that she did before.
25:58Yeah.
25:58But with you, I mean, it was like, you seem like a genuine guy, you know?
26:04And this is his first long-distance relationship, too.
26:07Oh, how do you feel about that?
26:08Wait, are you on a relationship?
26:09We're getting there.
26:10Yay!
26:10We're getting there.
26:11We're not there.
26:12We're not there yet.
26:13I don't really like to rush into things because when I was younger, I was 20, I got a woman
26:19pregnant, and the thing to do, I thought, was to get married.
26:23And one of the reasons why I did get married is because I thought it was the best thing for
26:26my unborn child to grow up with a mum and dad.
26:32I thought that was the right thing to do.
26:35And we had a good marriage.
26:37I was married for 14 years.
26:39Wow.
26:39But it got to the point where...
26:40I mean, that's a good amount of time.
26:42The point where I wasn't happy, and I could see she wasn't happy.
26:47So we both drifted apart.
26:49And the main thing, what we've done, we've kept a family unit.
26:52That's great.
26:54Because every child is a father figure, and every child is a mother figure as well.
26:58You could have learned a thing or two from this, man.
27:00Could have.
27:00Well, it wasn't her fault.
27:02My dad still.
27:03I should have met you years ago.
27:04I knew Wayne became a father at a young age, and he sacrificed so much to be in their
27:08lives.
27:08And it sounds like that's how he views family.
27:11Like, you do anything and everything to keep your family together.
27:15I love that.
27:15But he might think, oh, she has two children that she placed for adoption.
27:19She's the most selfish person on earth.
27:21She might not even think of them.
27:24But, you know, since we are on this path to, you know, a relationship, I do want to talk
27:29to you, like, tomorrow privately about a couple things.
27:33Yeah.
27:44Today, I'm actually going to be meeting Tony's parents for the first time, and I have to
27:48say I'm a little nervous.
27:49It's really important for me, for them to like me.
27:52So, I hope I get to make a good impression today.
27:55So, I'm looking forward to meeting them.
28:13Hey, baby.
28:14What's up, baby?
28:18So, I brought these for your mom.
28:20Oh, she'll love these.
28:22Yes.
28:22And some cupcakes, of course.
28:24I'll grab them for you.
28:24Yes, last night being intimate with Tony for the first time was incredible I freaking loved it
28:31It was very sensual and passionate and it was not boom boom done, okay?
28:37Let me just put it to you that way
28:39You gotta take a look at the cupcakes. Oh, this is no they all got moved
28:44Oh my gosh, babe. Yeah, all the frosting is messed up. This one kind of took a beating
28:51They're all gonna taste amazing. Trust me. They will look at the perfect cupcake
28:56This one's for your mom because I know she loves flowers the best one this one is perfect
29:00It hasn't been ruined Tony and I have crossed this new level of intimacy and tonight
29:07We're going even further. I am about to meet Tony's parents. So excited to meet the Apparentals
29:14Yes, I'm very excited and very nervous
29:17So what do you think will be important to them?
29:19There's a lot of not protocol
29:22There's a lot of things that have to be really brought up before things kind of evolve meaning initial conversations
29:28about
29:29Religion and kind of you know what happens in the future. Oh
29:34You didn't prepare me for any of that
29:39What I know about Tony's parents is there are very sweet very kind very loving very family oriented
29:45They have loved Tony to death and they're very religious
29:49And I am NOT
29:52Especially for my mom who's very devout Catholic she might bring up are you going to church? Are you religious?
29:58Do you pray?
29:59Because I don't see her just kind of overlooking that right
30:04But I wouldn't worry too much
30:09I have a totally different perspective on religion than a lot of people because I am a war survivor and
30:17it was a religious war
30:20I lived in Yugoslavia, which was a country that had three different religions
30:25Catholic Orthodox Christian and Muslim
30:28A war broke up and now the country is broken into six different countries and
30:35People who used to be families neighbors are now considering each other enemies
30:42Being a war refugee I have experienced death and near death over religious differences
30:48And I just couldn't understand that as a child and I don't understand it as a grown-up as well
30:58Oh
30:58They're here. You ready?
31:01Okay, okay. Wait, wait, wait. Kiss, kiss, kiss
31:02Yes, yes
31:03That's a smart strategy
31:05Okay
31:05All right
31:07God, that's scary
31:11Hi Tony, how are you?
31:13Good, good
31:14Yeah
31:14All right, so Vanya's here, so
31:17Vanya
31:18This is
31:19Hi
31:20How are you?
31:21It's so nice to meet you
31:22I'm Vanya
31:23Nice to meet you
31:25Hi, Vanya, nice to meet you
31:26How are you? Thank you so much
31:28Look, you guys match
31:30This is lovely
31:31Yeah, not planned
31:32That's so beautiful
31:33Thank you, as are you
31:34I love the jewelry
31:35Oh, look at that one
31:37I love it
31:37You guys go ahead, sit down
31:39Yeah, sure
31:40Have a seat
31:40Thank you
31:42We'll bring the dessert here
31:43Yeah, I made some cupcakes
31:44So hope you'll like it
31:47In our time in India, we had arranged marries
31:52We met only three or four times before the marriage
31:55Now it is a 40, 50 year
31:57Yeah, 45 years
31:5945 years
32:01So this is for you because Tony told me you got you love flowers
32:04Sure
32:05Yeah
32:06Yeah
32:06That's what I see
32:07You're beautiful
32:08Thank you so much
32:09Thank you
32:10I want Tony to get the same thing
32:13Peaceful and happy night
32:15I'm praying every day
32:17I want to get the right religious
32:19Hardworking loving girl
32:21Who can love him
32:23Who can love him
32:24Mmm, help me try
32:27Mmm
32:29It's good
32:30It's so good
32:31It is delicious
32:33Thank you so much
32:34So on top of being a vegan baker
32:36Ivanya actually does medical sales
32:38Oh
32:38And then she also does professional dancing too as well
32:41Really?
32:43She's a Jill of all trades
32:44She does quite a bit
32:45Oh, she's really smart girl
32:47What type of dancing are?
32:49I do belly dance
32:50Bollywood, bhangra
32:52All kinds of stuff
32:55Yeah
32:56Yeah
32:59I also dance Wanya
33:01Really?
33:01We can dance together
33:02What kind of dance do you do?
33:04Badonati a little bit
33:05Wow
33:05Yeah
33:05In our church we have
33:07That's amazing
33:08More different functions
33:10So my parents are very active in the church
33:12So they do many of the activities
33:14And a lot of the South Indian traditions too as well
33:16That's great
33:17And what about you, Wanya?
33:20Did you practice anything in the church?
33:28No
33:29No, I was not raised in a religious household
33:32Oh
33:33I see
33:34Yeah
33:37Do you want to come to church and see how we are doing?
33:48I would probably prefer to stay away
33:52Yeah
33:54My response is always going to be no
33:56It's never going to change
33:58And I'm scared to death that this is going to be a huge problem
34:17The day yesterday went well
34:18I mean it's honestly kind of what I've been wanting to do this whole time
34:22It was just nice to like fly a bit you know and feel like oh I'm actually single and actually
34:27I'm able to live my life a bit you know
34:30Shake it, move it
34:32How you work it?
34:33Shake it, move it
34:36How you work it?
34:39This morning the guy texted me he was like nice to meet you bye
34:43I was like nice to meet you too bye
34:46Like that's how not serious that was
34:48The guy I went out with last night, Brian
34:50You know he was hot and he was a good kisser
34:53It's just we didn't really have much in common
34:55I need more than just like a good body
34:57Should I wear that or should I not wear that?
35:01And by the end of the night I actually was missing Pedro
35:07Even though I don't think I'm ready for a relationship yet
35:11Me and Pedro do have a connection
35:12I'm not ready to let that go
35:14So I asked him to meet me at the beach
35:17And thankfully he said yes
35:18Don't just stop that feeling so bring it all to me
35:22If you feel that then bring it all to me
35:27I want to show Sophie my ballad
35:30Everything that you're looking for is here
35:32You know how to look somewhere else
35:35When Sophie asked me to meet up today
35:38I knew her there was probably awful
35:41If she get the dating harder system and she say oh no
35:44I don't want to date nobody else that was dying and didn't like
35:47It's very possible that we can still save
35:50The relationship before the district end
35:53Hi
35:54Good morning
35:55Morning how are you?
35:56Good
35:57How are you?
35:57I'm good
35:59Good?
35:59Yeah it's windy today
36:00It's a little windy
36:02That's trying to fly away
36:04What is that?
36:05Ah this machete
36:07Now that you're here in the yard
36:09You need to know how to open a coconut
36:12Okay
36:18Let's play the coconut here
36:20How you have the machete you know
36:24Machete
36:24Okay watch out
36:26Okay
36:26I'm scared
36:30Right there
36:32It's hard
36:34Yeah the coconut is hard
36:35Right there
36:36Is it right there?
36:37Yeah it's right there
36:39Yeah
36:41Close off we go
36:42Right there
36:43You got it
36:43You got it
36:43You got it
36:44Yeah
36:46Bam
36:46Yes
36:47Bam
36:50Nice
36:50I did it
36:52You got coco
36:56This wing here is crazy
36:58Super windy
37:00Now coming down here
37:01I didn't think you'd be in such a happy mood
37:03I kind of expected you to be like
37:05Not happy after
37:07Our last conversation
37:09Yeah
37:09I guess it was a little hard for me
37:12Because
37:13I want to spend more time with you
37:17How was your day?
37:19Tell me
37:20It was a fine day
37:22Did you kiss the guy?
37:28Why are you asking me questions like that?
37:30I want to know
37:30Why?
37:31You guys want to know
37:32Why?
37:33And you kiss him
37:34And then what?
37:35And then what?
37:36I want to know
37:38I thought that your mood is already like completely switched
37:42You kiss him
37:44Yeah
38:04I do see your value
38:11Because you've not seen it
38:12Because you've been in a day with a guy
38:14See him one time
38:15And kiss him
38:16Because I told you
38:17I want to have time being single
38:18You have time to be single too
38:20Yeah
38:20Yeah
38:20But that's what you want
38:22You want your time to heal
38:24I've been saying that
38:25You want to time
38:26Yes
38:26To do what you want to do
38:27Yes
38:28Yes
38:28Literally yes
38:29And I'm not going to wait for that
38:30For real
38:30Like if that's one of the things you want to do
38:33Bye
38:40Now I feel how luck felt every time I run away
38:43And it is actually really childish
38:47I invited to my country
38:48To share my country
38:49It should be looking another guy for my country
38:52What the hell?
38:57this
39:00You know this is what I was afraid of
39:02Like he's just acting like
39:04Like he just got cheated on
39:06I've been open about it from the beginning
39:08I told him I didn't lie
39:10And he's still acting like I just
39:14Did the worst thing in the world
39:17You know and I care about him and he thinks I don't
39:19Because I went on one date
39:21One day
39:21I went on one date
39:25He's making me feel like I'm the most person in the world
39:29And I'm not
39:29I'm not
39:30Like I just I'm not ready for a relationship
39:32Like that's all this
39:33I'm not ready for a relationship
39:36this
39:36She's crazy
39:38She's crazy
39:39She's nuts
39:44Next time on the single life
39:46This is pheromone spray
39:48To attract the ladies
39:50I've met someone that I'm really interested in
39:54Can we start with your id please?
39:55Aren't you going to ask me for my id?
39:58I am 56 years old and Alexi is 30
40:02You are older than my dad
40:07Oh my goodness look at this light
40:10Looking at homes with Tony as just a boyfriend
40:15Feels very weird to me
40:17If you're not sure about if you want to marry me
40:20Then how are you sure that you want to share a home together?
40:22I never said that I never said I wasn't sure
40:25I don't want a roommate
40:26I want a husband
40:28Obviously you're not ready
40:31Now that you can walk
40:32What plans have you made?
40:34Well it's time for that talk huh?
40:37Cole over saying his welcome has been hurting my relationship with Phil
40:40It's time to kick him out
40:42So once you've moved out I think I need to cut off communication with you
40:47That's dain
40:47See where my ride or die
40:51So how do you think this week went?
40:52So far so good
40:54I'm getting really really nervous
40:55To tell Wayne about the children I placed for adoption
40:58Like is he going to accept me for everything that I am?
41:01There is one thing before we continue that I want to tell you about
41:04I have other children I put up for adoption
41:06Oh wow
41:07Please don't judge me
41:10Julia told me that you and Pedro aren't talking right now
41:13And he's just not texting me
41:14I think he's just being very spiteful and honestly very emotionally immature
41:19Sophie went testing to me
41:21Night stop
41:22Since yesterday
41:23Just only leave me alone
41:27She shadowed my hand in pieces
41:30You will see you
41:30She is such a cat
41:31She cannot작
41:31She is such a cat
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