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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 - Episode 12: Final Boarding Call
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03God will give you people happy home.
00:00:05I bless you in a marriage.
00:00:07I say you shall be well with two people in a care.
00:00:11I have done everything Daniel has asked of me
00:00:14so that we can get married.
00:00:16But technically, I'm still married to a woman.
00:00:20And I have to tell him soon.
00:00:23Josh is kind. He's super sweet.
00:00:26So I'm going to Australia.
00:00:28Yeah, hold on. Where are you staying?
00:00:30He lives with his parents.
00:00:32But when I come, he's going to get a rental
00:00:34and split it with a roommate.
00:00:37No!
00:00:39In a week, I am going to Sydney, Australia
00:00:42to meet Josh for the first time.
00:00:44But he sent me a text last night
00:00:46that was super alarming.
00:00:49I'm embarrassed to even tell anyone about it.
00:00:53So yeah, I actually came with
00:00:55quote-unquote proof of me.
00:00:58not being faithful to you.
00:01:00Apparently, the girl is like,
00:01:01oh, she's messing with me.
00:01:02I don't even know who the f*** that is.
00:01:05I need to see the photos
00:01:06and I need to see the text messages
00:01:08and make a decision.
00:01:12Sheena, will you please marry me?
00:01:15No, girl.
00:01:17I asked you to hold off and wait
00:01:19so she could prove herself.
00:01:21And then you just go walk up
00:01:23and pull this little sneaky f***.
00:01:25What the f*** am I doing
00:01:27sitting over here in this country then, Forrest?
00:01:32You weren't talking to me yet.
00:01:34I started talking to my ex.
00:01:37Did you have sex with her?
00:01:40Yes.
00:01:43Please.
00:01:44I want you to forgive me.
00:01:46I have nothing to say, Rick.
00:01:51I'd rather he told me
00:01:53for coming here.
00:01:55Please.
00:01:57Don't touch me.
00:01:58Don't touch me, please.
00:02:01Please.
00:02:27It's a radio final.
00:02:34I feel like crap.
00:02:36Oh, my God.
00:02:46Last night was awful.
00:02:50I didn't sleep.
00:02:54This has never happened before
00:02:56in my whole entire life.
00:02:57No matter how sick I've gotten,
00:02:59I've never f***ed the bed.
00:03:01I'm thinking maybe
00:03:03the spicy food you've been eating.
00:03:05I like spice, though.
00:03:08You know, I drink spices
00:03:09and yours are not different.
00:03:12I don't know,
00:03:13but you know how embarrassing it is
00:03:15to wake up in the middle of the night
00:03:17and there's s*** all over your sheets
00:03:18and it's just...
00:03:22I feel bad that I did that.
00:03:25Baby.
00:03:28I accepted you with all my hats.
00:03:31I told you that I love you.
00:03:33You don't have to be embarrassed, okay?
00:03:36She woke me up
00:03:39and the stuff stained my clothes.
00:03:44So she pooped on you?
00:03:46She pooped on me, yes.
00:03:48She pooped on me.
00:03:51It was everywhere.
00:03:53I had to change the sheets
00:03:55with his help
00:03:56and I didn't know what to do
00:03:57because I couldn't stop
00:03:58going to the bathroom.
00:03:59It kept coming out of me.
00:04:02I'm so f***ing mortified.
00:04:05Are you going to call
00:04:06the housekeeping
00:04:07to come and clean everything?
00:04:09I will take care of them.
00:04:10Maybe I will call them
00:04:11when we are going
00:04:11to the cooking class.
00:04:13My stomach is still so upset
00:04:14and today, of all days,
00:04:17Daniel has organized
00:04:18to take me out
00:04:19to no other but a cooking class.
00:04:22A cooking class!
00:04:23Do you need my help?
00:04:24No.
00:04:25Are you sure?
00:04:26Yes.
00:04:27Okay.
00:04:30I'm so worried
00:04:30I'm going to have
00:04:31more explosive diarrhea
00:04:34but I'm going to cook for him.
00:04:36I'm going to try.
00:04:37I mean,
00:04:38if a man can love me
00:04:39covered in f***
00:04:40and himself covered in my f***
00:04:43then he must love me for real.
00:04:56Thank you so much.
00:04:58Be careful.
00:05:01Look how pretty this is.
00:05:03The table, Daniel.
00:05:05Look how sweet that is.
00:05:07Oh, this is going to be fun.
00:05:10It's so cute in here.
00:05:13Hello, madam.
00:05:15Hello.
00:05:16I'm Chef Rukaiat.
00:05:17There's lots of ingredients.
00:05:19Oh my goodness.
00:05:21So we're making oha soup.
00:05:23Oha soup?
00:05:24Yes.
00:05:24Oh, you're happy.
00:05:25So oha soup is traditionally
00:05:27an Igbo meal.
00:05:29First of all,
00:05:29I have oha leaf.
00:05:30That's the star ingredient
00:05:31for oha soup.
00:05:34Then I have my proteins.
00:05:37I have stock fish.
00:05:38Then I have fermented locust beans.
00:05:42It's very medicinal as well.
00:05:44Shall we start?
00:05:47The raw meat and the things
00:05:49that we are going to be cooking with,
00:05:51it's making me a little queasy.
00:05:55Especially the fermented beans.
00:05:58My stomach is hurting so bad,
00:06:01but it's okay.
00:06:02I can do this.
00:06:05Do I open it from here,
00:06:07like this?
00:06:08Yes.
00:06:09This is beautiful.
00:06:10I'm very slow.
00:06:12I'm slow, honey,
00:06:12but I'm doing it.
00:06:14I'm happy.
00:06:15I'm just educating you.
00:06:18You're just happy
00:06:18I'm learning how to cook for you.
00:06:22It's very important
00:06:23to learn how to cook
00:06:24as an Igbo woman.
00:06:26I will cook as an Igbo woman.
00:06:28Try it.
00:06:28Try it our best, eh?
00:06:29I am.
00:06:31In my hometown,
00:06:32if your wife doesn't know
00:06:33how to cook,
00:06:34it will make you
00:06:34to be going outside to eat.
00:06:37She can even get attracted
00:06:38by other women.
00:06:40I don't want to hear about that.
00:06:41I'm going to cook.
00:06:42Just leave me alone.
00:06:43I'm going to cook.
00:06:44This is stock fish.
00:06:45Stock fish.
00:06:47I'm also going to be adding
00:06:49the dry fish.
00:06:50The dry fish.
00:06:51Which, what kind of fish
00:06:52is that again?
00:06:53Catfish.
00:06:53Catfish.
00:06:54It is catfish.
00:06:55Oh, my God.
00:06:56You're happy?
00:06:56You're smelling the smells
00:06:58of what your woman is cooking?
00:07:00I can't wait to test the food.
00:07:03I'm very appreciative
00:07:05that Daniel is showing me
00:07:06his traditions and his culture.
00:07:08It means the world to me.
00:07:10It smells delicious.
00:07:14Daniel is doing
00:07:15so many wonderful things
00:07:17and making our relationship
00:07:19concrete towards a marriage.
00:07:22And I'm so happy about that.
00:07:25But, at the same time,
00:07:28I feel extremely guilty
00:07:30for not telling him
00:07:31my secret shit.
00:07:33Can I get love
00:07:35just a little from you?
00:07:38Wow, it looks delicious.
00:07:41You're welcome.
00:07:42Woo!
00:07:43I've already gotten blessings
00:07:45from his uncle,
00:07:46from the king.
00:07:48I hope he lacked the food
00:07:50that I cooked.
00:07:51Oh, my God.
00:07:53I'm only one step away
00:07:54from getting married
00:07:55to Daniel.
00:07:58I have to start being honest
00:08:00with him
00:08:00as soon as possible.
00:08:03I did good?
00:08:05Hmm.
00:08:08Hmm.
00:08:10This is so sweet.
00:08:13You're wonderful.
00:08:17Hmm.
00:08:19This is really tasty.
00:08:24Hmm.
00:08:25Tasty, Simon.
00:08:26I'm not having any right now, honey.
00:08:28I'm not eating.
00:08:29I was very sick last night.
00:08:31I have to be very careful.
00:08:41I want to talk to you
00:08:43about something.
00:08:48Well, you've been talking to me,
00:08:49so...
00:08:50No, about something different.
00:08:55You know how, um...
00:08:57I've told you
00:08:58I've been married
00:08:59a couple of times?
00:09:00Yes, you have made mention
00:09:02of that.
00:09:04You told me about
00:09:06Feds, Dad,
00:09:07but I've never discussed it
00:09:09with you,
00:09:09you know, deeply.
00:09:22I've been married five times.
00:09:29Five times?
00:09:32You would be my sixth husband.
00:09:36God.
00:09:49We talk about this.
00:09:51This is our decision.
00:09:53Don't answer for him.
00:09:54I am an adult,
00:09:55and I would decipher
00:09:56what we want to do.
00:10:12The point is,
00:10:14I worry about you.
00:10:16I worry about Sheena.
00:10:18I felt this was
00:10:20the appropriate thing to do
00:10:21for our relationship
00:10:22to work and continue.
00:10:26We talked privately.
00:10:29She explained herself to me,
00:10:30and I came...
00:10:31Yeah, I'm sure she didn't.
00:10:32Did she ask for your big
00:10:33and humble forgiveness?
00:10:36No, she actually gave me
00:10:37a real explanation
00:10:38and told me
00:10:39what was really up.
00:10:41Then how about you
00:10:42enlighten me,
00:10:42or is that going to be
00:10:43private too, Forrest?
00:10:48You know, we talked about,
00:10:49you know, her struggles
00:10:51and how when she starts to,
00:10:54you know, lie,
00:10:55it's because she has
00:10:59a traumatic...
00:11:00She's had traumatic experiences,
00:11:04and it causes her to...
00:11:11So, Pulu says
00:11:13she's not going to do it
00:11:14again and again and again.
00:11:16You put that...
00:11:16Rome was not built in a day,
00:11:17but she has to put in the work
00:11:18and prove herself,
00:11:19and she is going to prove it.
00:11:20Then why didn't you
00:11:20make her prove herself
00:11:22before you proposed?
00:11:26Forrest,
00:11:27you're more full of
00:11:28than a Christmas goose.
00:11:29No.
00:11:30Yes, you are.
00:11:32Everybody's got stress
00:11:33in their life,
00:11:33and then to say,
00:11:34I'm under stress,
00:11:35so I'm going to lie,
00:11:37and you're going to accept her
00:11:39just keep lying, lying,
00:11:40lying, lying, lying?
00:11:42That's no stability.
00:11:43You don't have any foundation.
00:11:45I will...
00:11:46I will...
00:11:46Don't...
00:11:47Mom,
00:11:49I admit for everything
00:11:50that I did was wrong.
00:11:52Oh, God, here we go again.
00:11:54I have to open...
00:11:54Oh, you couldn't say,
00:11:55because you don't know
00:11:56how I experienced it
00:11:57in my past life, you know?
00:11:59I'm suffering
00:11:59from trust with people.
00:12:02Well, guess what?
00:12:03We can't trust you.
00:12:04You can't...
00:12:04I know you can easily trust me,
00:12:06but I'm trying to do my best
00:12:08to get things over, you know?
00:12:10Yeah, you're getting them over,
00:12:11all right.
00:12:12I'm trying to...
00:12:18We've heard this
00:12:19for seven years,
00:12:23and even up until
00:12:25three days ago,
00:12:26it was yet another lie.
00:12:28She's...
00:12:28It's a...
00:12:29Pathological liar,
00:12:30I'm thinking.
00:12:33I bet you'd stay with her
00:12:34if she...
00:12:35if she diddled
00:12:36and somebody else do.
00:12:43Wouldn't you?
00:12:48Mom?
00:12:49At the end of the day,
00:12:51She and I...
00:12:52You can't...
00:12:52You can't answer my question,
00:12:54so that's all you're gonna say.
00:12:55Oh, John...
00:12:55That's because
00:12:56your question is ridiculous.
00:13:00I'm so disappointed
00:13:02in my mom's reaction
00:13:03to all this.
00:13:05It's the whole reason
00:13:06why we're here
00:13:06is to figure out
00:13:08how to bring Sheena
00:13:08to the United States.
00:13:10And getting engaged
00:13:12is a next big step.
00:13:15And her being angry and mad
00:13:17and saying nasty things,
00:13:19that's not how
00:13:20a mother should act.
00:13:22Mom?
00:13:24I'm going to...
00:13:25I'm going to take the dive.
00:13:27I'm gonna go in.
00:13:29And if there's rocks,
00:13:31I'm willing to take it.
00:13:34But that is my choice.
00:13:38And you're gonna have
00:13:40to be watching her
00:13:4124 hours a day
00:13:42and be paranoid
00:13:43and concerned
00:13:44and wondering.
00:13:45And you have such a trust thing,
00:13:47which means
00:13:47it's gonna have to be meek.
00:13:49Here you are,
00:13:49a future teller.
00:13:50No, Forrest,
00:13:51it's not a future telling.
00:13:52It's what we have lived
00:13:53through the last
00:13:54seven years.
00:13:57You think this is appropriate,
00:13:58how she's acting?
00:13:59This conversation
00:14:00about Molly,
00:14:01it's about you too.
00:14:02Yeah, but she's making it
00:14:03about her
00:14:04with all her yelling around.
00:14:05How the hell am I supposed
00:14:07to get a conversation done
00:14:08with...
00:14:09all the time?
00:14:12We're gonna make things
00:14:13easy for you, okay?
00:14:15Are you gonna be
00:14:16part of our lives
00:14:17or not?
00:14:20Excuse me?
00:14:21You're gonna give me
00:14:22the ultimate...
00:14:23Forrest?
00:14:23Mom,
00:14:24accept this proposal
00:14:25or you're not
00:14:26a part of our lives.
00:14:32I cannot believe
00:14:33that I'm about
00:14:34to get on my
00:14:35flight to Sydney,
00:14:36Australia
00:14:36for the first time
00:14:37to meet Joshua
00:14:38in person.
00:14:40I'm just a little
00:14:41bit concerned.
00:14:42I know, I know.
00:14:43I want to, like,
00:14:44get questions answered.
00:14:45Yeah.
00:14:47After Girls' Night Out
00:14:48the other night,
00:14:49I ended up calling
00:14:49Yulia about the text
00:14:50I got from Josh
00:14:51because it was
00:14:52really bothering me.
00:14:53It seems like
00:14:54his life is falling apart
00:14:55as I'm coming,
00:14:56and I don't know
00:14:57what to do.
00:14:58This sounds like
00:14:59a disaster.
00:15:17I appreciate you bringing it.
00:15:39What can we do now
00:15:41to make this right?
00:15:46No, I don't know.
00:15:51We just got back
00:15:53from Nusikomba,
00:15:54and after what he told me,
00:15:57I'm so hurt.
00:15:58I don't know what to do.
00:16:04I'm really angry
00:16:06that he lied to me.
00:16:08I thought it was
00:16:09something serious
00:16:10between us,
00:16:11and I still cannot believe.
00:16:13He was in Colombia
00:16:16with that girl.
00:16:19It's really crazy
00:16:21because he bothers me
00:16:23a lot with,
00:16:25oh, you're still
00:16:26talking to your ex,
00:16:27and accusing me
00:16:28of cheating on him
00:16:29with my ex.
00:16:31Yet, he's the one
00:16:33messing up this relationship,
00:16:35not me.
00:16:39I didn't want to hurt you.
00:16:41No, you did.
00:16:43Just ruined our vacation.
00:16:47It doesn't have to be ruined.
00:16:48It doesn't have to be over.
00:16:50We still have time.
00:16:53I don't know, Ray.
00:16:57I trust you a lot,
00:17:01and I didn't expect
00:17:03this coming.
00:17:06I didn't.
00:17:07How can I trust you
00:17:09when you go back
00:17:09to your country?
00:17:10What if?
00:17:11She's not in my country.
00:17:13She can't go.
00:17:14I know she's not
00:17:14in your country,
00:17:15but you could go
00:17:17in Colombia,
00:17:18meet her.
00:17:20But I'm not
00:17:20going to do that.
00:17:21No.
00:17:22I have no intentions
00:17:23on ever being with her.
00:17:27I promise
00:17:28that I'm going
00:17:29to be faithful to you.
00:17:34I just hope
00:17:35that you can
00:17:37forgive me.
00:17:49Oh, baby.
00:18:00I'm sorry.
00:18:05I know, baby.
00:18:07I know you've been
00:18:08hurt in the past, baby.
00:18:09I didn't want
00:18:10to add to that.
00:18:12Yes, you did.
00:18:13Baby, I didn't want
00:18:14to add to that.
00:18:14I'm sorry.
00:18:15Please.
00:18:17I promise.
00:18:21Don't promise me
00:18:22because you did
00:18:23promise me, but...
00:18:26See?
00:18:27See what's happening?
00:18:27Baby, I'm looking
00:18:28at you in your face
00:18:29and I'm telling you
00:18:31that I'm not
00:18:32going to cheat on you.
00:18:34Baby, look at me.
00:18:35I'm not going to cheat
00:18:36on you, baby.
00:18:37Okay?
00:18:41I'm not.
00:18:42I'm going to do my best
00:18:43to make it up to you,
00:18:45okay?
00:18:52Okay.
00:18:55Thank you, baby.
00:19:00I could have lost her
00:19:02for what I did,
00:19:03so I feel grateful
00:19:06that she is giving me
00:19:08the second chance.
00:19:11Do you need to
00:19:12give me a shower?
00:19:15Look and go.
00:19:24I think that we still
00:19:25have time to turn
00:19:27things around,
00:19:28but it's going to
00:19:29take some work
00:19:30for me to prove
00:19:31that I'm sincere
00:19:34and to show her
00:19:37that I really do care
00:19:39and want this to work.
00:19:47I decided to stay
00:19:48because I'm already
00:19:50in love with him,
00:19:54but I didn't know
00:19:55he has different
00:19:59personality
00:20:00that he can cheat,
00:20:02he can lie.
00:20:04I didn't know.
00:20:09And the way he acts,
00:20:11the way he solves problems,
00:20:12it scares me a lot.
00:20:13I don't know if I could
00:20:14trust him again
00:20:15in the future
00:20:16or after this.
00:20:19I don't know.
00:20:25I heard that you,
00:20:27you were talking
00:20:27about me
00:20:28running your mouth
00:20:29so you said
00:20:30a little birdie
00:20:31all over town
00:20:32wish you'd come
00:20:33looking for me.
00:20:35Oh.
00:20:41Oh my God.
00:20:45Do you think
00:20:46he's going to think
00:20:46it's sexy
00:20:47when I go to bed
00:20:48and my red light
00:20:49sleep mask?
00:21:02Six,
00:21:04seven,
00:21:06eight.
00:21:09I need another suitcase.
00:21:13The day is f***ing near.
00:21:15I cannot believe
00:21:16that I'm about to get
00:21:17on my f***ing flight
00:21:18to Sydney, Australia
00:21:19for the first time
00:21:20to meet Joshua
00:21:21in person.
00:21:22I feel like I'm
00:21:22in a dream.
00:21:23Like, is this
00:21:24actually happening?
00:21:26I'm so excited
00:21:27to see him in person.
00:21:28Like,
00:21:29like, is he going
00:21:29to be affectionate
00:21:30and, like, touchy-feely?
00:21:31Is he gonna, like,
00:21:33run up to me
00:21:34at the airport?
00:21:34Like, am I going
00:21:35to meet his family?
00:21:36Like, I'm not just
00:21:37going there
00:21:38for, like, a vacation.
00:21:39Like, I'm going there
00:21:40to see if he can
00:21:41be my future husband.
00:21:43Oh.
00:21:44Oh.
00:21:51My God.
00:21:53These are, like,
00:21:54half of my bikinis.
00:21:55Okay.
00:21:57This is, like,
00:21:58granny style.
00:22:01This is, like,
00:22:02okay, like,
00:22:03I'm not having sex
00:22:04with you,
00:22:04but, like,
00:22:05maybe we'll go to, like,
00:22:07second or third base.
00:22:10This is, like,
00:22:11okay, game on bikini.
00:22:15It's been six months
00:22:16since I've had sex,
00:22:18which is the longest time
00:22:19I've gone without sex
00:22:20since I've been
00:22:21a freshman in high school.
00:22:23I'm literally
00:22:23a born-again virgin.
00:22:27I want to try
00:22:28and take it slow
00:22:29with Joshua.
00:22:30I definitely want
00:22:31to have more
00:22:31of an emotional connection
00:22:32before having
00:22:33a physical connection.
00:22:34But even if we do,
00:22:36his roommate
00:22:37is going to be there
00:22:38the whole time,
00:22:39which is, like,
00:22:40so awkward.
00:22:43I feel very strange
00:22:45that I'm going to be
00:22:45staying with Joshua
00:22:47and also a roommate.
00:22:48We have chatted
00:22:49on the phone a few times.
00:22:51He's like a chatterbox
00:22:52and he tells me
00:22:52all the cool places
00:22:53in Australia,
00:22:54but it's a little weird.
00:22:56Why is he bringing
00:22:56a roommate to the rental
00:22:58at 40 years old?
00:22:59It seems like I'm going
00:23:00in a thruckle here.
00:23:01Like,
00:23:03Josh wants a nice
00:23:04place for us to stay
00:23:05when I'm there,
00:23:06so he's temporarily
00:23:08renting an apartment
00:23:09with his friend Chris
00:23:10because he can't
00:23:11afford it alone,
00:23:11so Chris is
00:23:12splitting it with him.
00:23:14If Joshua was honest
00:23:16with me about his
00:23:16living situation up front,
00:23:18like, I definitely
00:23:18would have split
00:23:19half and half with him,
00:23:20but I guess he was
00:23:22just trying to be nice
00:23:23and I don't want
00:23:23to offend him,
00:23:24so whatever.
00:23:24I'm just going
00:23:25to roll with it.
00:23:29Oh!
00:23:30Yulia's here!
00:23:34Elyse!
00:23:35Hi!
00:23:35Are you ready?
00:23:36Yes!
00:23:37Really?
00:23:38Hi!
00:23:38How are you?
00:23:40Oh!
00:23:41My friend Yulia
00:23:42is taking me
00:23:43to the airport today
00:23:43because I'm freaking out
00:23:45and I need all
00:23:46the emotional support
00:23:47I can get.
00:23:49Should we do
00:23:49one at a time together?
00:23:50Yeah.
00:23:52Okay.
00:23:54You think you got it
00:23:55or should I...
00:23:56How do we do this?
00:23:57Oh my God.
00:23:58It's 50 pounds.
00:23:59I didn't sign up for this.
00:24:01You take this one.
00:24:04Go, go, go!
00:24:06Okay, okay.
00:24:07Before my hand falls off.
00:24:09Okay.
00:24:09Put it down.
00:24:10She says...
00:24:11One down.
00:24:13Wait, wait.
00:24:15Okay.
00:24:21My goodness, Elyse.
00:24:23All right.
00:24:24Let's head the road.
00:24:26Sydney, Australia,
00:24:27I'm coming for you!
00:24:29Oh!
00:24:34So, I...
00:24:35Are you excited?
00:24:36Yeah.
00:24:37I...
00:24:37I...
00:24:38No, like,
00:24:38I really am excited.
00:24:39I've never felt this way
00:24:40about someone before.
00:24:44I'm just a little bit concerned.
00:24:46I know.
00:24:47I know.
00:24:47I want to, like,
00:24:48get questions answered.
00:24:50Yeah.
00:24:51I mean,
00:24:52I don't even think
00:24:52he can drive a boat anymore
00:24:53because of the work incident.
00:24:56That's so stressful
00:24:56to be happening
00:24:57right before your freaking trip.
00:25:00After Girls' Night Out,
00:25:02the other night,
00:25:02I ended up calling Yulia
00:25:03about the text I got from Josh
00:25:05because what he told me
00:25:06was very concerning.
00:25:08I don't know what to do.
00:25:10This sounds like a disaster.
00:25:13He sells boats for a living.
00:25:15He's a yacht broker.
00:25:16And a few weeks ago,
00:25:18Joshua took a boat
00:25:21that his company was selling
00:25:22for a joyride
00:25:24with some of his friends
00:25:25and ended up crashing
00:25:27the boat into rocks.
00:25:28And he has a final warning at work.
00:25:31I think that it's absolutely
00:25:32irresponsible of him.
00:25:34The man's almost 40.
00:25:35I know.
00:25:37Oh, my God.
00:25:38We're close to the airport.
00:25:38Where'd I see it?
00:25:40So he might lose his job.
00:25:42I just found out that
00:25:44he lives with his parents.
00:25:47It's crazy.
00:25:48Like, it seems like his life
00:25:49is falling apart as I'm coming.
00:25:51But I really like him
00:25:52and I'm starting to fall for him.
00:25:54So I just want to give this a chance.
00:25:58Are you ready?
00:25:59No.
00:26:00Kind of, yes.
00:26:01I'm ready as I'll ever be.
00:26:03Listen, if I didn't take this trip,
00:26:05I would always think
00:26:06in the back of my mind,
00:26:07what if?
00:26:07What if?
00:26:08What if?
00:26:08But at the same time,
00:26:10like, just, you know,
00:26:11don't carry your heart
00:26:12on your sleeve
00:26:13like you usually do.
00:26:14I love you.
00:26:15I love you.
00:26:15Oh, my heart is so old.
00:26:18You got this.
00:26:19Thank you so much
00:26:20for taking me.
00:26:21I'll text you, okay?
00:26:21Bye.
00:26:22Bye.
00:26:32Am I getting pranked?
00:26:34What is going on?
00:26:37I applied for the tourist visa
00:26:39once I got my ticket
00:26:41to go see Joshua
00:26:41and it got instantly accepted
00:26:43and I was like,
00:26:44great, perfect.
00:26:45But I get to the airport
00:26:47and they're like,
00:26:48your visa is denied.
00:26:51Oh, my God.
00:26:53I'm literally
00:26:54my pants.
00:26:55This guy keeps
00:26:57refreshing the system
00:26:57and he keeps saying
00:26:58I'm denied.
00:26:59I've literally put my heart
00:27:01and my soul into Joshua.
00:27:02I just want to go into this
00:27:03with, like,
00:27:04ease and calmness
00:27:05and excitement.
00:27:06Why is this
00:27:07happening to me
00:27:08at the airport?
00:27:10Did it work?
00:27:12No.
00:27:14I got tonight again.
00:27:16I got tonight again.
00:27:19I'm having panic attacks.
00:27:24The girl in the photo,
00:27:26she's my friend.
00:27:27And do we know
00:27:28if this is still
00:27:29going on currently?
00:27:33Are we actually calling?
00:27:35Oh, you're gonna...
00:27:36Oh, f***.
00:27:37Get your questions ready.
00:27:39Hello.
00:27:54Babe, what are you doing?
00:27:56Are you going somewhere?
00:27:58Yeah, I'm...
00:27:59I'm gonna go meet up
00:28:00with Anne Spring.
00:28:01Really?
00:28:02You're just gonna leave me
00:28:03here by myself?
00:28:04There's a nice weather
00:28:05right now,
00:28:06the beach, the pool.
00:28:08You're just gonna leave me
00:28:09all day?
00:28:10I'm not sure
00:28:11how long it's gonna take.
00:28:12Aye, aye.
00:28:14Don't forget, right?
00:28:15My dad is coming later.
00:28:16Okay.
00:28:28I'm feeling a little nervous
00:28:29because I don't know
00:28:31what the viewers
00:28:31are gonna hear
00:28:32from Anne Spring.
00:28:33Probably more lies,
00:28:34but I don't want
00:28:35that to affect us.
00:28:36I don't want her
00:28:36to hear something
00:28:37really bad
00:28:38and want to end things.
00:28:41I don't want to lose
00:28:42Aviva, especially
00:28:43over this.
00:28:44Like, she would be stupid
00:28:47to have us break up
00:28:48for this,
00:28:49but I have a bad
00:28:50feeling about it.
00:29:00Hello.
00:29:01Hi.
00:29:02Would you like
00:29:02something to drink?
00:29:04Do you have a mojito?
00:29:05Yes, we do.
00:29:05Okay, make it extra strong.
00:29:08And then I'm waiting
00:29:09for two more people.
00:29:10Okay.
00:29:10Okay, thank you.
00:29:11You're welcome.
00:29:13Hello.
00:29:14Hi.
00:29:16Hi.
00:29:19Good to see you.
00:29:20Good to see you.
00:29:21I already ordered
00:29:23a strong drink.
00:29:24Oh, is that
00:29:25the timing we're on?
00:29:26Sure are.
00:29:27Okay.
00:29:31Oh, looks so good.
00:29:33You're welcome.
00:29:34Um, can we order
00:29:35something?
00:29:35Can I get a strawberry
00:29:36daiquiri?
00:29:37Strawberry mojito.
00:29:39Strawberry mojito?
00:29:40Yes.
00:29:41Yeah.
00:29:41Okay, thank you.
00:29:46So, mojito o'clock
00:29:47here.
00:29:48Yep.
00:29:50Last night
00:29:51was pretty intense.
00:29:53I saw you
00:29:54and Stig talking
00:29:54and it seemed
00:29:56a little heated.
00:29:58You want to give me
00:29:59your side of the story?
00:30:01Did he give you
00:30:03his side of the story?
00:30:04He did.
00:30:05He told me
00:30:06that he took
00:30:09a picture with a fan
00:30:10and that it was
00:30:12all just a fan interaction.
00:30:18It's a friend
00:30:19of Corinne's
00:30:20and the girl
00:30:20has no reason
00:30:21to lie.
00:30:23So, I got your
00:30:24frozen coconut
00:30:25strawberry mojito
00:30:26and strawberry
00:30:27you ladies enjoy.
00:30:30Thank you so much.
00:30:31Mm.
00:30:33So, maybe I should
00:30:33let Corinne explain.
00:30:38So, here is
00:30:39this picture
00:30:40and if you
00:30:42can see
00:30:42like his
00:30:43Yeah.
00:30:46That's a little
00:30:47bit more
00:30:47than a fan.
00:30:50The girl
00:30:50in the photo
00:30:50we have known
00:30:52each other
00:30:52since we were
00:30:53really young.
00:30:54She has been
00:30:55telling me
00:30:56about her
00:30:57and him
00:30:57for a while
00:30:58that they
00:30:59have been
00:31:00having relations
00:31:01off and on.
00:31:04So, when
00:31:05Springhead told me
00:31:07that you guys
00:31:07were starting
00:31:08to date
00:31:08it was kind
00:31:09of weird
00:31:10to me
00:31:11because I
00:31:11know that
00:31:12they have
00:31:13a low-key
00:31:13relationship
00:31:14but they do
00:31:15have a relationship
00:31:16with sexual
00:31:18everything.
00:31:22Wow.
00:31:24And do we know
00:31:25if this is still
00:31:26going on
00:31:27currently?
00:31:29What do we know
00:31:30before I lose
00:31:31my mind on him?
00:31:32I can like
00:31:33see if I can
00:31:33call her
00:31:34and see if she
00:31:35would.
00:31:36I would love
00:31:37to.
00:31:43Are we
00:31:44actually calling?
00:31:45Oh.
00:31:46You're gonna
00:31:46get your
00:31:48questions ready.
00:31:53Can you hear me?
00:31:58So, Aviva,
00:31:59like, what would
00:32:00you want me
00:32:00to ask
00:32:01my friend?
00:32:02When was
00:32:03the last time
00:32:04they slept
00:32:05together?
00:32:06Like, when
00:32:06was the last
00:32:07time you
00:32:08and Sting
00:32:08ever, like,
00:32:10whatever?
00:32:11or whatever?
00:32:16She said last
00:32:17month when
00:32:18they were
00:32:18here in
00:32:19Placentia.
00:32:22Have they
00:32:23talked after
00:32:24that?
00:32:24Like, are you
00:32:25and Sting, like,
00:32:26still communicating?
00:32:28Do you guys
00:32:28still talk?
00:32:31They still
00:32:32communicate?
00:32:33Like, he
00:32:34ever tell
00:32:34you he
00:32:35in a
00:32:35relationship?
00:32:37So, he
00:32:38tell you
00:32:38he's single?
00:32:41He says
00:32:41he's single.
00:32:43So, he
00:32:44never
00:32:44mentioned
00:32:44Aviva?
00:32:46Hmm.
00:32:47Okay.
00:32:49I'm sorry,
00:32:50friend.
00:32:51I owe you
00:32:51a night
00:32:51out.
00:32:52Bye.
00:32:57Do you
00:32:57still believe
00:32:58him when
00:32:58he's saying
00:32:59he doesn't
00:32:59know her
00:33:00and that
00:33:00she's
00:33:00just a
00:33:00fan?
00:33:02This
00:33:03girl has
00:33:03no reason
00:33:04to lie
00:33:04to Corinne.
00:33:05no reason
00:33:06to lie.
00:33:06She didn't
00:33:06even know
00:33:07about you.
00:33:13So, I
00:33:13have a
00:33:14real shocking
00:33:15text here.
00:33:20We do
00:33:21have an
00:33:22upcoming
00:33:22trip.
00:33:24Them
00:33:24together?
00:33:26So, this
00:33:27trip is
00:33:28in San
00:33:28Pedro,
00:33:29end of
00:33:30the month,
00:33:30Friday
00:33:31to
00:33:31Sunday.
00:33:35Exactly
00:33:36when you
00:33:37leave.
00:33:41Sounds
00:33:42like this
00:33:42girl has
00:33:43kind of a
00:33:44casual
00:33:44relationship
00:33:45with Stig.
00:33:46Not like
00:33:46a serious
00:33:47girlfriend.
00:33:48But still,
00:33:49if she's
00:33:50telling the
00:33:50truth,
00:33:51they were
00:33:52hooking up
00:33:52a month ago
00:33:53when we
00:33:53were supposed
00:33:54to be
00:33:54exclusive.
00:33:55That's just
00:33:56crazy to me.
00:33:58I feel
00:33:59like I
00:33:59don't even
00:33:59know Stig
00:34:00at this
00:34:00point,
00:34:01and that's
00:34:02devastating.
00:34:08I wanted
00:34:08to tell you
00:34:09before you
00:34:09asked me
00:34:10to marry
00:34:10you.
00:34:11But I
00:34:11was scared.
00:34:12In my
00:34:13culture,
00:34:13it's a sin.
00:34:14They will
00:34:15banish you.
00:34:16I'm sorry
00:34:17that it took
00:34:17me so long
00:34:18to tell me
00:34:19to give
00:34:19shots.
00:34:20Get
00:34:20credits.
00:34:31Um,
00:34:35I've been
00:34:36married five
00:34:37times.
00:34:40Five
00:34:41times?
00:34:44You would
00:34:44be my
00:34:45sixth husband.
00:34:48got you.
00:35:07So why
00:35:08didn't you
00:35:09mention them
00:35:09to me?
00:35:10Why didn't you
00:35:10discuss with
00:35:11me?
00:35:11You only
00:35:12told me
00:35:12of two.
00:35:13Well,
00:35:14you never
00:35:14really
00:35:14asked.
00:35:15And so
00:35:16I just
00:35:17never
00:35:17mentioned
00:35:18it.
00:35:18But
00:35:18there's
00:35:20yeah.
00:35:26I don't
00:35:27feel bad.
00:35:29You can
00:35:29get married
00:35:30to a hundred
00:35:30men and
00:35:32divorce.
00:35:33But when
00:35:34you meet
00:35:35your God
00:35:36giving
00:35:36husband,
00:35:40it lasts
00:35:41forever.
00:35:41forever.
00:35:44So what
00:35:45transpired?
00:35:46Well,
00:35:46they haven't
00:35:47all been
00:35:47faithful.
00:35:48Really?
00:35:49Yeah.
00:35:49Did they teach?
00:35:50The men?
00:35:52One did.
00:35:52Okay,
00:35:53one did.
00:35:53The fifth
00:35:54one.
00:35:55So tell me,
00:35:57tell me about
00:35:57these 50 men.
00:35:58What happened?
00:36:00Um,
00:36:03yeah,
00:36:03um,
00:36:07the fifth
00:36:08one was
00:36:08really bad.
00:36:10Um,
00:36:10we were
00:36:11married
00:36:11a few
00:36:12months,
00:36:13and then
00:36:14they ran
00:36:14off to be
00:36:15with somebody
00:36:16else,
00:36:16and I
00:36:17couldn't
00:36:17locate them
00:36:18for quite
00:36:18a while,
00:36:19and I
00:36:20recently
00:36:20located
00:36:21them.
00:36:22Okay.
00:36:23And I
00:36:24filled out
00:36:25the divorce
00:36:25papers,
00:36:26but I'm,
00:36:27I'm still
00:36:28married.
00:36:30You are
00:36:31still
00:36:31married
00:36:32to the
00:36:32fifth
00:36:32one.
00:36:34I am
00:36:34still
00:36:35married.
00:36:40I wanted
00:36:40to tell you
00:36:41before you
00:36:41asked me
00:36:42to marry
00:36:42you,
00:36:43but you
00:36:44asked me
00:36:44to marry
00:36:44you in
00:36:45the middle
00:36:45of the
00:36:46airport
00:36:46with everybody
00:36:47there,
00:36:47and I
00:36:47couldn't
00:36:48say no,
00:36:48and I
00:36:49couldn't
00:36:49tell you
00:36:49that.
00:36:52So I
00:36:52have been
00:36:53sleeping
00:36:53with another
00:36:54man's
00:36:54wife.
00:36:57We are
00:36:58legally
00:36:58separated.
00:37:10You
00:37:11don't know
00:37:11what you
00:37:12have cost
00:37:12me.
00:37:13Sleeping
00:37:14with another
00:37:14man's
00:37:14wife in
00:37:15my
00:37:15culture
00:37:15is a
00:37:16sin.
00:37:16They
00:37:16will
00:37:16banish
00:37:17you.
00:37:17I'm
00:37:17sorry.
00:37:25Daniel,
00:37:26listen,
00:37:26I have
00:37:27not been
00:37:27with this
00:37:27person
00:37:27for nine
00:37:28years.
00:37:29Nine
00:37:30years.
00:37:30We've
00:37:30been
00:37:30married,
00:37:31but we
00:37:31have not
00:37:31lived in
00:37:32the same
00:37:32state.
00:37:33We have
00:37:33not lived
00:37:33shared the
00:37:34same bed
00:37:35for nine
00:37:35years.
00:37:36We have
00:37:36been
00:37:36separated
00:37:37for nine
00:37:38years.
00:37:38I call
00:37:39you on
00:37:39phone
00:37:40every day.
00:37:42After
00:37:42a conversation,
00:37:43I will
00:37:43tell you I
00:37:43love you,
00:37:44and you
00:37:44will respond.
00:37:45Because I
00:37:45love you.
00:37:46You love
00:37:47me, and
00:37:47you have
00:37:48not told
00:37:48me about
00:37:48it.
00:37:49Can
00:37:49you keep
00:37:50quiet?
00:37:50Keep
00:37:50quiet.
00:37:54This is
00:37:55a month
00:37:55you have
00:37:56been
00:37:56dating.
00:37:57You never
00:37:58told me.
00:37:59No.
00:38:01I was
00:38:01scared to
00:38:02tell you.
00:38:04It took me
00:38:05a long time
00:38:06to get the
00:38:06divorce,
00:38:07but the
00:38:07divorce is
00:38:08almost here.
00:38:18I've
00:38:19told you
00:38:19all the
00:38:19things you
00:38:20want to
00:38:20know about
00:38:21me.
00:38:23I never
00:38:23hide
00:38:24anything.
00:38:26You
00:38:27told me
00:38:27you love
00:38:28me.
00:38:29I do
00:38:29love you.
00:38:32Sleeping
00:38:32with another
00:38:33man's wife
00:38:33I don't
00:38:34think is
00:38:34love.
00:38:37I'm
00:38:37sorry.
00:38:40You're
00:38:41sorry?
00:38:42I'm
00:38:43sorry.
00:38:44My
00:38:45uncle
00:38:45came all
00:38:46the way
00:38:46from
00:38:46the
00:38:46world
00:38:46to
00:38:47Lagos
00:38:47because
00:38:48of
00:38:48you
00:38:48and
00:38:49I.
00:38:51My
00:38:51friends
00:38:52came.
00:38:53But I
00:38:54never
00:38:54know you
00:38:55have
00:38:55hidden
00:38:56stores.
00:38:57So I
00:38:58lied to
00:38:58them.
00:38:59You
00:38:59didn't
00:38:59lie to
00:39:00them.
00:39:00I
00:39:01did
00:39:01this.
00:39:04I'm
00:39:04sorry
00:39:04that it
00:39:05took
00:39:05me so
00:39:05long
00:39:05to
00:39:06tell
00:39:06you.
00:39:09This
00:39:10is
00:39:10unbelievable.
00:39:12I
00:39:13don't
00:39:13know
00:39:13how
00:39:13to
00:39:13fix
00:39:13this.
00:39:14I
00:39:16I'm
00:39:16sorry.
00:39:17Do you
00:39:17want your
00:39:17ring back?
00:39:19I'll
00:39:20give you
00:39:20your ring
00:39:20back and
00:39:21I'll
00:39:21leave.
00:39:40Oh my
00:39:41goodness.
00:39:51I've
00:39:51been
00:39:52sleeping
00:39:52with
00:39:52her
00:39:53sleeping
00:39:53with
00:39:54another
00:39:54man's
00:39:54wife.
00:39:58No,
00:39:59no,
00:39:59no,
00:39:59no,
00:39:59no,
00:39:59no,
00:39:59no,
00:39:59no,
00:39:59no,
00:40:00no,
00:40:01I
00:40:02don't
00:40:02know
00:40:02what
00:40:02to
00:40:03do.
00:40:03Oh my
00:40:04God.
00:40:18How are
00:40:19you?
00:40:19How are
00:40:20you feeling?
00:40:20Are you
00:40:20nervous?
00:40:21I'm
00:40:21nervous,
00:40:22but like
00:40:22it's an
00:40:22excited
00:40:23nervousness.
00:40:24I'm
00:40:24so
00:40:25excited to
00:40:25meet my
00:40:25girlfriend,
00:40:26Elise.
00:40:27I'm
00:40:27obsessed
00:40:27with
00:40:28her,
00:40:28so I'm
00:40:29hoping she
00:40:30will
00:40:30like me
00:40:31as much
00:40:31as I
00:40:31like her.
00:40:32It is
00:40:33definitely
00:40:33a couple
00:40:34of hours.
00:40:34Yep,
00:40:35yep.
00:40:35You're
00:40:35yourself,
00:40:36right?
00:40:36I'm
00:40:37just
00:40:39the guy
00:40:40keeps
00:40:40calling
00:40:40the
00:40:41board
00:40:41of
00:40:41control
00:40:41in
00:40:41Australia.
00:40:42My
00:40:42visa's
00:40:43been
00:40:43denied
00:40:43eight
00:40:44times.
00:40:45What
00:40:46are you
00:40:46doing?
00:41:17going to
00:41:17I
00:41:18can't
00:41:20I
00:41:21can't
00:41:21hear.
00:41:21I
00:41:21can't hear.
00:41:22I
00:41:22can't hear.
00:41:22can't hear.
00:41:22I
00:41:22You
00:41:22having fun,
00:41:23baby?
00:41:28last night trish was very cold and i felt like she needed her space and i've been trying to make
00:41:36the most of our last day here at nosy bay trying to remind trish of how fun things could be
00:41:42between
00:41:43us i feel like she's starting to warm up a little bit i don't know for sure
00:41:53why was the round so short like they was only into it for like 20 seconds i don't know
00:42:02i thought you knew something about this
00:42:07how are we going i don't know their rules
00:42:11moringa fight started in madagascar and you don't use something on your hand you just fight directly
00:42:21it's scary but that's the culture because before we didn't have anything to protect this is why
00:42:29and we keep the culture till now we should solve our problem and i will win oh you will give
00:42:40you one free
00:42:43shot we could watch them you know fighting here and then we could do some wrestling at home
00:42:52i cannot forget all the things he have done but it makes me feel a little bit happy and smile
00:43:01i want this relationship to work that's why i'm trying to give him a chance
00:43:10okay this is the deal you have to pick one and if the one you pick win we do have
00:43:18sex tonight
00:43:19i might put my sex life on the lawn in some other man's head no that's that's my rule so
00:43:33pick the
00:43:34good one i mean dude over there is much taller so i'm gonna have to go with him okay i'm
00:43:45gonna
00:43:45get him for me man my sex life depends on it i don't know the rules to this thing i
00:44:03don't know
00:44:03how points are scored come on my man get him but after everything we've been through i'm just happy
00:44:10that she's even considering having sex with me yeah keep that distance i hate seeing people fighting
00:44:17oh yeah yeah oh yeah you know yeah oh you open it up more you open it up more it's
00:44:23over it's over it's over
00:44:31come on come on ref do the right thing ref
00:44:41yeah we had a really a good day but there is no way we are going to have sex tonight
00:44:53i don't want him to touch me at all it's too soon for that
00:45:00oh look at the car that's what they used to use in the jesus days right there yeah we use
00:45:06it to carry
00:45:07everything you'll see a lot of it in my own town yeah so um what do you think baby do
00:45:17you still want me
00:45:19to meet your dad i already told my dad that you were here and we are coming to visit them
00:45:28so
00:45:30i cannot go back
00:45:38you're not going to tell us about what happened
00:45:53that's what i want for you too baby i want you i want your happiness
00:46:00and hopefully he'll be able to see you know how much that i love his daughter
00:46:09i'm feeling more nervous and anxious than i was before about this meeting with her family
00:46:17i'm worried about going there and dealing with their expectations when we're not even in a good
00:46:24place they want a younger guy that's you know never been married and that is excited about having
00:46:33children and then that's something that i'm not i love trish so much and i really want to be with
00:46:41her
00:46:41and make this work but right now it feels like i'm hanging on by a thread
00:47:12i'm supposed to be boarding my flight to australia
00:47:15right now but i'm stuck here because my visa has been denied eight times
00:47:20the guy keeps calling the board of control in australia i am panicking and i'm freaking out
00:47:27it worked what it's worked we got it give me a high five let's get this guys going come on
00:47:37thank god
00:47:39they got it thank you so much if i wasn't about to go meet the love of my life i
00:47:43would ask you for your
00:47:44number my guy told me that i put my first name as my last name when applying for the visa
00:47:52so it didn't
00:47:53match my passport what a sire relief because like i'm so excited to go see josh
00:48:01always do this ritual before flying
00:48:07i have to do it i cannot believe that i am traveling the world for someone i've never met in
00:48:15person
00:48:18but i'm doing this because i truly believe that joshua is my partner and i've never felt more ready in
00:48:25my life
00:48:30i'm going to australia
00:48:47i have to do it
00:48:50i have to do it
00:49:00i have to do it
00:49:05i have to do it
00:49:32my name is joshua i'm 39 years old and i live in sydney australia
00:49:37i'm sort of in between places at the moment
00:49:40how are you
00:49:41at least it is it is
00:49:46yogurts veggies
00:49:48but my girlfriend elise is coming and i want a nice place for her so my friend and i chris
00:49:53have a rental
00:49:53that we have organized for when she gets here did she request all of literally every bit of this
00:49:58and she requested a lot more and how are you feeling you're nervous i'm nervous but like
00:50:04it's an excited nervousness so it is definitely a couple hours yep yep until i have to pick her up
00:50:09from the airport you're yourself
00:50:12come check this out
00:50:18what is it i thought i'd establish a hierarchy really quickly are you kidding
00:50:27it's in my bedroom wow
00:50:30at least he's gonna hate it
00:50:32i like it
00:50:36tell me about this photo that chris puts above your bed
00:50:40it's typical chris you know jesus you don't have to hang me right now you can you can build up
00:50:46to it
00:50:46she gets here tonight so we'll uh we'll see if it stays up or not
00:50:51i'm so excited to meet my girlfriend you know after talking for six months
00:50:57elise makes me feel excitement because she could be the one elise is beautiful but what i love
00:51:05about elise is that she's an unbelievable listener and you can tell she cares
00:51:11elise is very fiery but i think that's an attractive quality
00:51:15i know when she gets here that i will be obsessed with her so i'm hoping that she will
00:51:21like me as much as i know i like her
00:51:32what are you gonna wear oh blue pants cream jacket wait so we're wearing the same thing
00:51:37how's she gonna know who's who no i'm just joking today's the melbourne cup race so it's it's a
00:51:44horse race all of australia watches it this is something that chris and i would typically celebrate
00:51:49together ready princess princess is almost ready it's an excuse to dress up and have a few drinks
00:51:57we're gonna whisk her straight off the plane and straight to watch the race she says she's spontaneous
00:52:02so i think she'll be okay with it so we can go straight from the airport and open cup off
00:52:08a 25
00:52:08hour flight
00:52:15i'm now starting to be like oh it's actually happening yeah big day i'm jumping into a
00:52:23relationship with someone that i've never met like in person it's so different so um being a miami
00:52:29chick how do you think she's gonna fit into to the circle over here i don't know you know she
00:52:35has a problem it'll be with that not me i reckon yeah if she has a problem it'll definitely be
00:52:39with
00:52:39that not you yes do you think american girls are more more jealous do you think it's weird for
00:52:45them do you think it's different like male and female friends what do they think you make a good
00:52:48point um i didn't think about that
00:52:53my friend that's a girl nat she's just a special person that looks after everyone
00:52:58like she's let me stay with her while i've been looking for a place
00:53:03so i've been living with her for three months okay wait let me step back for one second because
00:53:09elise said that you you told her you were with your parents oh
00:53:15no
00:53:19we're here wow i am i'm nervous very nervous
00:53:28hold my hand
00:53:32i got you boy
00:53:35it is really important for me that this works out you know i dragged halfway across the world
00:53:40i wouldn't do that on a whim or just for fun
00:53:47but you know i feel a bit embarrassed because i don't have a lot of stability in my life at
00:53:51the
00:53:51moment and i know that's important to a girlfriend but i hope she can see that i'm ready to get
00:53:58really
00:53:59serious and you know settle down she's already is she already here oh yeah she just touched down so
00:54:06yeah
00:54:10i literally just landed in australia i am tired i'm overwhelmed but i am about to meet josh for the
00:54:18first time oh my god i cannot believe i'm here my adrenaline is pumping oh my god i'm gonna go
00:54:25do
00:54:25it beautiful lady thank you hopefully my husband thinks i'm beautiful too i'm about to meet him for
00:54:31the first time
00:54:33you want me to maybe stand a little back or should i be right here that was always the case
00:54:37you weren't
00:54:37coming right up with me right okay right well okay does she know i'm here though um i don't know
00:54:44no
00:54:44i didn't say anything no okay
00:54:48i have so many emotions right now like i literally just saw on chris's social media
00:54:54that chris and josh are like in like straight suits and ties first of all weird that chris is
00:55:01coming to pick me up i have so much anxiety already how it is like so much anxiety
00:55:10do you want a light massage take the nerves away
00:55:15i've been envisioning this moment for so long and i've already had a travel day from hell
00:55:21so the fact that he has to bring his friend to the airport is he not comfortable enough to meet
00:55:26me on his own like what i just traveled 30 hours so i have all this time to think and
00:55:34i'm starting
00:55:35to spiral out of control this guy is 39 and has a roommate and on top of that he has
00:55:42his job incident
00:55:44and i'm thinking about all the things my parents said to me and the overwhelming pressure of like
00:55:49not trying to let them down good luck don't what i've been wrong so many times and i've done not
00:56:00only damage to me but damage to my family i don't have another wrong in me
00:56:14my dad when it comes to dating my son is always drama talking to a bunch of girls when he
00:56:22said that
00:56:22he's serious as a viva i have to question it that girl said you guys actually hooked up before about
00:56:29a
00:56:29month ago so is any of this true
00:56:50oh look there they are that must be his dad
00:57:00hi hi how are you hello spring nice nice to meet you hi nice to meet you nice to see
00:57:10you
00:57:11can i offer you guys a drink or what are you drinking i would love a drink i don't know
00:57:16did
00:57:16you try a panty ripper yet no you might do one of those two panty ripper please yes please
00:57:22i had plans to meet up with stig's dad tonight and i'm really really nervous i don't want to come
00:57:31off
00:57:31as just this crazy girl meeting his dad for the first time but after talking to corinne's friend
00:57:40i learned so much today and i definitely want to bring this up to stick i wanted aunt spring to
00:57:47be
00:57:47here because she can ask all the hard questions and basically play a bad cop and she doesn't have to
00:57:54worry about the repercussions you took her away from me all day and spring it's definitely been an
00:58:01interesting day yeah is that a good thing or a bad thing there's a lot to talk about oh really
00:58:11a good day of eva has been gone since morning with her aunt right now the vibes are off aviva
00:58:18has
00:58:18basically been like ignoring my texts all of today i'm pretty sure and spring is there putting stuff in
00:58:26her head so i'm like um i don't know i'm anxious my dad came to the hotel earlier i gave
00:58:35him a quick
00:58:35summary of what went down with and spring last night and spring pull up swinging yeah yes pull out the
00:58:42phone and ask me so what is this so i got a picture of me and a girl and hold
00:58:48her by her waist and i did
00:59:03this is very uncomfortable sorry that you have to be here for this aviva maybe you should be the
00:59:14one to explain to him what's going on today i mean i talked to that girl and what girl current
00:59:24no not
00:59:26not to my niece yeah to the girl in the photo the random girl i took a picture with thank
00:59:33you
00:59:33thank you uh what happened um she said that you guys actually had you know hooked up before
00:59:47it was about a month ago and that apparently you're going to san pedro end of the month with her
01:00:00so is any of this true no no that i swear i swear i can see where on spring is
01:00:11coming from when he
01:00:12said that he's seriously though i have to question him because when it comes to dating my son is always
01:00:19uh drama he's always been talking to a bunch of girls and i just never saw him just settling down
01:00:28now especially with the work that he's doing i'm sure my dad the photo so he could tell
01:00:35i don't know why a best friend would lie to the text between them what what happened there
01:00:41she said my man happened my man happened so i mean i can see why and so we called her
01:00:47to clear up that
01:00:48and she spoke with him probably not a good look but it's not a good look but to me it's
01:00:52not a
01:00:53definite i i would figure that if uh this girl really wants to prove that she's this is going on
01:01:00she said here's a text that was the last one she provided with him telling her that he loved it
01:01:06but
01:01:07that you see like just like conversations like not long conversations yeah not long conversations but
01:01:12the only text that i saw like saying like well i'm can i meet you can i see you everything
01:01:16like that
01:01:17then we'll prove that yeah i know it's got it young lady probably didn't even have my number when we
01:01:24died that's crazy i have no reason to lie she just completely made that up then what what do you
01:01:33need
01:01:34from me call me everything you want my location i don't have nothing to hide hey i'm here having
01:01:42with my dad do you think i'm not serious about you i'm not sure if he's just lying and making
01:01:51this stuff
01:01:52up but he did bring up a point that the girl in the photo couldn't provide solid evidence
01:02:01i don't even know if she actually has sig's phone number so all i have right now is his word
01:02:08against
01:02:08hers well i'm gonna take your word for it that maybe she's just trying to cause drama
01:02:17uh hmm what's the hum about i don't know man spring you don't believe me i mean i don't know
01:02:27i do feel that aviva is quick to trust stig stig may be able to fool aviva but he's definitely
01:02:35not
01:02:35fooling me but i have given her all the information and it is her choice to make her future decisions
01:02:45and if i do later you know find out that you know you weren't telling the truth i obviously wouldn't
01:02:50want to continue but i do still want to work things out like i want it i want just to
01:02:56work it out with
01:02:56you babe for the millionth time i don't mind it could be a billionth time i'm gonna be as transparent
01:03:04as i can in this relationship i live in a glass house nothing to hide right i got to
01:03:12glad all the drama is done i have a clean slate right now but i'm definitely worried about what
01:03:19else could come out in the future a few months ago when aviva was hinting about being exclusive
01:03:27i did take some steps and made some changes but i wasn't a hundred percent i was still entertaining
01:03:34people i wasn't sleeping around but i was texting people hanging around people not really proud of
01:03:40it now but i was still unsure about aviva because we haven't met in real life but aviva doesn't notice
01:03:50yeah she doesn't notice i didn't want to scare her away and now that we've met in person and it's
01:03:57what
01:03:57i thought it was no other woman in the picture i'm done with all that now i'm just hoping and
01:04:03she
01:04:03doesn't find out we good let's move forward from it okay yeah
01:04:16she called me a liar she called me a scammer but she's the real scammer i'm sorry i came here
01:04:24to tell
01:04:24you the truth in person i came here to tell you everything i want you to go home please
01:04:33and he doesn't even know she's a she oh my god
01:04:37and he doesn't even know she's the real scammer but she's the real scammer but she's the real scammer
01:05:07i've done the the i've done the the worst i've committed the worst thing sleeping with another
01:05:12man's wife i feel like someone poisoned me someone
01:05:18shouldn't have never told him i should have kept it a secret
01:05:24in america they have been legally separated no no no no no don't tell me in america you don't have
01:05:29to tell me that i respect my culture i'm engaged with another man's wife in my culture we don't do
01:05:40that it's a very big offense if you should do it in our tribe it's something that will bring
01:05:46shame not only to me but to my family as well i could be banished because of lisa because of
01:05:53our
01:05:53lies i want to go back to him but i'm scared this is forbidden and i know i don't know
01:06:02how to talk to
01:06:03god my god i don't know how to talk to the ancestors because i have to ask for apology
01:06:17can you stop stop please listen to me i'm sorry i'm sorry i didn't tell you the truth
01:06:27i'm sorry i didn't speak to you about this before now i'm sorry i came here to tell you the
01:06:33truth in
01:06:34person i came here to tell you everything i love you and i want us to be together forever
01:06:42i'm so sorry really please forgive me you're messed up that's all i have to say
01:07:04can you stop stop
01:07:10i feel empty
01:07:14i don't think he's ever going to forgive me and i haven't even told him everything
01:07:21i should have told him in the beginning
01:07:26i waited and i waited and i held off and the worst case scenario happened
01:07:32he doesn't want me near him he doesn't want to hear me
01:07:37i'm worried that i have lost daniel there's no coming back from this
01:07:45i'm a person
01:07:57she called me a liar she caught in this camera
01:08:05but she's the real scammer
01:08:15and i thought the you know white people tell us the truth
01:08:29i've given her my heart i trusted i believed in her
01:08:36what did i do to deserve all this
01:08:39i mean for god's sakes i've been separated for nine years separated
01:08:46for nine years didn't know where she lived and he doesn't even know she's a she
01:08:52oh my god when he finds out she's a she i don't know what he's gonna think
01:08:59i haven't even been with a man for 21 years i don't have any hope anymore
01:09:10i want you to go home please
01:09:33he's not gonna forgive me
01:09:38he's not gonna forgive me
01:09:42you're
01:09:49you're
01:09:49you're
01:09:49you
01:10:09oh my god so why are you so dressed up it's melbourne cup day do you want to come and
01:10:16have
01:10:16a few drinks the last thing i thought possible was one to bring chris and two to take me to
01:10:23a bar
01:10:24the second i landed at the airport after a few tequilas you won't even forget that you haven't
01:10:29had showered or put makeup on or done your hair
01:10:35you
01:10:46oh man
01:11:05Oh, my God, oh, my God, oh, my God, oh, my God.
01:11:17Come here, give me a hug.
01:11:18Oh, my God.
01:11:21Oh, God.
01:11:23Oh, God.
01:11:24Oh, God.
01:11:27I'm literally shaking.
01:11:29It's a lot.
01:11:30I'm so happy I'm finally touching you.
01:11:32Yes, I am.
01:11:33I am far out.
01:11:36You're sexy.
01:11:37So are you.
01:11:38Don't leave my side.
01:11:44Oh, my God, I'm so happy I see you.
01:11:46You're so sexy.
01:11:47I think.
01:11:48All you think is you're tired.
01:11:50No, I know.
01:11:50I know.
01:11:51I know.
01:11:52I know.
01:11:53I know.
01:11:56It feels really, really good.
01:11:57Finally.
01:11:58Finally.
01:11:59How good does it feel?
01:12:01Amazing.
01:12:02How does she look?
01:12:03She looks amazing.
01:12:04Do you feel like you look amazing?
01:12:06No, I feel like I look like absolute .
01:12:08What are you talking about?
01:12:09I did not want him to see me for the first time looking like this,
01:12:12especially when he's dressed up like this.
01:12:14Like, it's like an oxymoron.
01:12:16No, right?
01:12:17Wait, oxymoron means wait.
01:12:22I don't know.
01:12:23But I just feel like he looks really good.
01:12:25And, like, I just look like slummy.
01:12:27You look amazing.
01:12:28I need reassurance every five minutes.
01:12:30Okay.
01:12:30I'm happy to do that.
01:12:31Every three.
01:12:34You actually look exactly what I thought.
01:12:36Perfect.
01:12:36Yeah.
01:12:37So do you.
01:12:38So do you.
01:12:39I was so scared.
01:12:41And I had so much anxiety.
01:12:43But then seeing him standing there and seeing the look in his eyes,
01:12:46I felt like I just have to follow my heart.
01:12:49And, like, I have to give this a chance.
01:12:51And then I hugged him, and I felt like I've known him for years.
01:12:54I really didn't expect to feel this comfortable this soon.
01:12:58So why are you so dressed up?
01:13:00Um, because it's Melbourne Cup Day.
01:13:03This is the biggest day of the year.
01:13:05Okay.
01:13:06So we were hoping that you might want to come and have a few drinks and let your hair down.
01:13:10I know that you're probably jet-lagged.
01:13:13I'm tired.
01:13:14I feel like ****.
01:13:15I look like ****.
01:13:16I need a shower.
01:13:17We don't have time.
01:13:19So where are we going to undo it?
01:13:22Chris!
01:13:25Can I tell her that we don't have time?
01:13:27Yeah, we're going out.
01:13:28We're going out, yeah.
01:13:30I know it's bad timing, but after a few tequilas,
01:13:33you won't even forget that you haven't had showered or put makeup on or done your hair.
01:13:38Yep.
01:13:39And time is a factor, so.
01:13:41Yeah.
01:13:41It is.
01:13:42So, yeah.
01:13:43First race is in 13 minutes.
01:13:46If it makes you happy, I'll do it, but I feel really uncomfortable.
01:13:50You guys look very good, and I **** look like a trainer.
01:13:53Surely there's something in your 50 bags.
01:13:55So should we do it right here?
01:13:58No, I didn't think that far ahead.
01:13:59Surely Josh did.
01:14:00I think we can open up all my suitcases,
01:14:02so we can have, like, a party of what Elise could wear.
01:14:04I like when people pick out my outfits.
01:14:06Yeah.
01:14:06Let's start now.
01:14:09Each boy...
01:14:11Each boy grab a suitcase and open it up.
01:14:20I see dresses.
01:14:22Joshua liked that on me.
01:14:24I sent him a picture.
01:14:26I kind of want to dress sluttier.
01:14:28Dress what?
01:14:30Sluttier.
01:14:30No, you dress how you want.
01:14:32I don't mind.
01:14:33I don't need a bra or underwear with this dress.
01:14:35That saves time.
01:14:37Saves time?
01:14:38Saves time.
01:14:38Let's get ready.
01:14:41All right.
01:14:42I will go get ready in the bathroom.
01:14:43Yep.
01:14:44We'll be outside.
01:14:44Just here.
01:14:45Right here.
01:14:46Okay.
01:14:48I like that she's a trooper.
01:14:49That is attractive.
01:14:50Someone that's sort of like,
01:14:51yep, you know what?
01:14:51You want to do it?
01:14:52Let's do it.
01:14:58So what do you think about it?
01:14:59Good.
01:15:00That went well, I think.
01:15:02Yeah.
01:15:02Yeah.
01:15:02She's a fire crooper.
01:15:04Yeah.
01:15:06I just can't believe that I'm actually getting ready in a bathroom at the airport to go to
01:15:11a bar to watch an event.
01:15:14I really just hope Josh sees how much effort I'm putting into this relationship.
01:15:20Obviously, this isn't the ideal first day with Josh.
01:15:24The last thing I thought possible was, one, to bring Chris, and two, to take me to a bar
01:15:31the second I landed at the airport.
01:15:35But I flew across the world to, like, get a glimpse of his life and figure out if he's
01:15:39the person I want to be with.
01:15:41Everything seems good right now.
01:15:43Our connection and our chemistry was, like, it's there.
01:15:46So I'm really going to just try and make the best of it.
01:15:52I'm here.
01:15:54Oi.
01:15:55There she is.
01:15:56You look stunning.
01:15:58I'm not even wearing underwear.
01:16:00Oh, well.
01:16:01Just hope it doesn't get too windy.
01:16:06All right.
01:16:07Well, now I'm dressed like you boys.
01:16:08Better, I'd say.
01:16:10It's the three musketeers.
01:16:19Are you going to be part of our lives or not?
01:16:23You're going to give me the ultimate...
01:16:24Forrest?
01:16:24Hmm.
01:16:27I'm just a little bit...
01:16:28Excuse me?
01:16:29You know...
01:16:30Excuse me?
01:16:31I don't like you going on your little task.
01:16:32You have...
01:16:32I don't like the attitude you're having.
01:16:44You made it perfectly clear that you mentally cannot handle my decisions.
01:16:51You seem like you're way too stressed out.
01:16:54We don't want to cause you any more stress.
01:16:59Well, you're the big man now, aren't you?
01:17:00You're the big grown-up that can handle all...
01:17:03And make all the decisions on his own, right?
01:17:07Yes.
01:17:08Yes, I am.
01:17:13I have always had to protect Forrest because of his autism.
01:17:20And it's happened before where he's been taken advantage of and used and hurt deeply.
01:17:28I'm absolutely positive that Sheena manipulated Forrest again just so that he would propose to her.
01:17:36But in the grand scheme of things, Forrest is going to do what Forrest wants to do.
01:17:43And now I feel like I lost my son.
01:17:46I really feel like I lost my son.
01:17:51And it makes me really sad.
01:17:58You know, Forrest, you have done this crap to me over and over again.
01:18:02And I am tired.
01:18:06I am so tired.
01:18:08I am tired of the mess that you keep throwing me into.
01:18:14And then when I crawl up to grab you out again and crawl up to save you out of a
01:18:20situation
01:18:21or to help you, you turn around and you give me the big bird.
01:18:24Well, it's none of your effing business, Mom.
01:18:29And do you think that the next time it crumbles and falls that when you go to pick up the
01:18:36phone
01:18:36to call me to save you that I'm going to be there?
01:18:38I won't come to you. I promise.
01:18:39I won't come to you.
01:18:44Sheena and I are going to move forward.
01:18:47Okay?
01:18:48You're going to be in our lives, but...
01:18:51You think?
01:18:51I think.
01:18:53You might be surprised, Forrest.
01:18:54Oh, well...
01:18:55You just might be surprised.
01:19:00All right.
01:19:02Well...
01:19:04Have a good night to you both.
01:19:11I'm sorry, my love.
01:19:13Thank you for standing over me.
01:19:16It's okay, baby.
01:19:19It's hard to think that my mom would actually step away from my life
01:19:24rather than accept Sheena as my wife.
01:19:29I never thought it would come to this
01:19:32and that my own mother would put me in this situation.
01:19:38Losing my mom is something I never expected to lose on this trip.
01:19:43I lost my best friend, the person who's been with me my entire life,
01:19:48the person who gave birth to me.
01:19:51And it's tearing me apart.
01:19:54My God.
01:19:56It is time that Mommy just cut it.
01:20:01Mommy has to let him be the man
01:20:03and take the knocks and not bail him out.
01:20:07Forrest is on his own now.
01:20:09Yep.
01:20:16Oh, God.
01:20:17I'm starting to be like Sheena.
01:20:19Oh, my God.
01:20:22I told him the truth and he won't even talk to me.
01:20:26Did you even tell him about the women?
01:20:28No, I haven't mentioned the women.
01:20:31He's going to be destroyed by the women.
01:20:34Yes, he is.
01:20:36I can't tell him that.
01:20:37I can't tell him.
01:20:39You have to.
01:20:40I can't.
01:20:41I can't tell him.
01:20:49Daniel.
01:21:20Daniel.
01:21:24I don't think it's a good idea for us to stay together.
01:21:28So I'm going to get myself a different room.
01:21:44Hi, do you want to have a separate room, please?
01:22:03Hi.
01:22:05I just told Daniel how many times I was married,
01:22:08and then I'm still married.
01:22:11OK.
01:22:13He didn't take it very well.
01:22:15And I'm in a whole different room.
01:22:18I told him the truth, and he won't even talk to me.
01:22:22Did you even tell him about the women?
01:22:25No, I haven't mentioned the women.
01:22:27I've only told him about the marriages.
01:22:31But you didn't just lie about the marriages.
01:22:34You lied about a whole part of your life.
01:22:38He's going to be destroyed by the women.
01:22:42Yes, he is.
01:22:43I can't tell him that.
01:22:45I can't tell him.
01:22:46You have to.
01:22:47I can't.
01:22:49He's never going to forgive this.
01:22:51I wasn't going to forgive that.
01:22:52I know you don't want to tell him so you can stay together.
01:22:56But you, he will find out eventually.
01:23:05I'm sorry.
01:23:08Daniel's the one forever, Faith.
01:23:11He's really the one.
01:23:13I want him, Faith.
01:23:15I want Daniel.
01:23:17I want Daniel.
01:23:20I don't want this to be over.
01:23:30We're here.
01:23:31Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:23:34Before I got here, I told Joshua I wanted to take things slow, not leading with sex.
01:23:40But at the same time, he's hot.
01:23:43And I wanted to make him, you know, see a little glimpse of what he might be getting.
01:23:48Josh!
01:23:52We're packing up to go to Trish's hometown to meet her family.
01:23:56This is like make or break.
01:23:59I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want to be introduced to your family.
01:24:03I told you, yes.
01:24:05So what else do you want?
01:24:07Just tell me now.
01:24:08Just tell me.
01:24:12Emma!
01:24:13Maddie!
01:24:14You don't know how happy I am to see your face right now.
01:24:17What's wrong?
01:24:17It literally went to with him leaving me alone in the desert.
01:24:22Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
01:24:25Don't be mad.
01:24:27What?
01:24:29Who's it?
01:24:30Muhammad.
01:24:31Muhammad.
01:24:32Hello?
01:24:34The other night, I called my friend Michael because I have concerns.
01:24:39And now Michael has the same concerns.
01:24:42He has no place in our relationship.
01:24:44Well, he wants to come here.
01:24:46He already bought a flight.
01:24:48What?
01:24:50Oh, my God.
01:24:51I cannot believe you're in Turkey.
01:24:54This is wild.
01:24:55Oh, my God.
01:24:58I'm not giving up at walking away like I have every other relationship.
01:25:01I'm going to wipe the tears and I'm going to fight for Daniel.
01:25:05I'm asking you to give me a chance.
01:25:08I planned a small romantic getaway.
01:25:11Is this a kind of a trap?
01:25:18Is this being romantic?
01:25:20Yeah.
01:25:20Did I pass the test today?
01:25:21Kind of.
01:25:22Okay.
01:25:23You still have to be nicer to yourself.
01:25:25I think that you got comfortable.
01:25:27Don't ever get too comfortable.
01:25:29Ever.
01:25:30You don't want to bitch your wife.
01:25:33Don't be an asshole.
01:25:35I'm like, I don't have to talk.
01:25:37I don't want to see you ever again.
01:25:38Don't come home.
01:25:41Ever.
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