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00:00.
00:12Dude, you used up all of the milk.
00:15Good morning.
00:16My supplies.
00:17You just have to steal, Bray.
00:19Good morning.
00:20Morning, Dad.
00:26Guys, seriously?
00:28Come on, first date back. Let's go.
00:33Mmm, I'm gonna walk.
00:35Yeah, okay. Great walk. I love it.
00:37Hey, Flora, I'm proud of you for going back.
00:40Okay, love you. Bye.
00:41I love you. We'll...
00:43Why does no one listen? We said out the door at 7.30.
00:47No breakfast?
00:48Got it, Mom. Jeez.
00:50All right, let's get the show on the road, kiddos.
00:52Oh, well, honey, when was the last time you showered?
00:55I'll eat after practice.
00:56Okay, hurry. Dad is driving.
00:58Let's go.
01:04Come on, come on.
01:07All right, come on, guys, please.
01:11Dad, I'm about to drop this new place.
01:13They're not gonna fall, honey.
01:22Hey!
01:24Hey!
01:24Hey, Penn!
01:29Come here, Penn!
01:30Wait, hey! What about...
01:32Jill's driving me!
01:42Where's dad?
01:44Should we just go?
01:47Yes, we can.
01:57Penn, wait.
01:58I told Dakota I meet her.
02:01Whoa.
02:03You don't need to walk us in.
02:04Mom never did.
02:06Justin?
02:12Love you, Dad.
02:13Fine.
02:14Okay.
02:15All right, well, you guys have a great day, okay?
02:19Be safe.
02:22Oh, let's go.
02:34Be safe.
02:34Let's go.
02:35I know I can't walk.
02:36Oh, let's go!
02:37No way.
02:39What's up, Ryan?
02:47No way.
02:51You're a little bit too, right?
02:51Let's go.
02:58No, you don't have to go home, man.
03:00Hey!
03:01Hey, what happened?
03:02I thought we were doing the first day together.
03:03Yeah.
03:04We waited.
03:05You didn't wait long.
03:06Okay, where's Merritt?
03:07Jill drove him.
03:08He has wrestling practice.
03:10A little heads up.
03:11Not my job anymore.
03:13Hey, I love you both!
03:15Have a great day, babe!
03:15Hey, have the best day of cheer, okay?
03:21Thanks for coming.
03:21You'll see what happened.
03:24Come on.
03:32Wow.
03:54Are you okay?
03:56Yes, fine. Thank you. Thank you.
04:00Oh, come on.
04:03Oh.
04:15Oh.
04:20Hey.
04:21You okay?
04:28Yes?
04:36Oh.
04:37Just tell me how badly I've scarred them.
04:40You know, like, I mean,
04:42is this the year that goes down as, like,
04:44mom and dad got divorced and ruined our lives?
04:49I'm...
04:49That was so insensitive.
04:50I'm so sorry.
04:51I see.
04:52I suck.
04:52No, it's refreshing.
04:53It is.
04:55I mean, I'm...
04:57I'm overloaded on widower's empathy.
04:59Sure.
05:00And you lost Jenny, too.
05:03Yeah.
05:05Hey.
05:07You're not wearing your ring.
05:09Yeah.
05:10Okay.
05:11Experimenting, following your lead, I guess.
05:13Oh, no, no, no, no, no, you do not go by me.
05:17David told me to take mine off.
05:19He's like, we're not married anymore.
05:21I am not the one to ask.
05:22Oh.
05:23Well, maybe I'll ask my kids or my congregation.
05:27They'll definitely have it a fair day.
05:29Yes, they will.
05:30Yeah.
05:32So what do you think?
05:36I think...
05:42I think I wouldn't have made it through this summer without you.
05:47Me, too.
05:49All right.
05:49Yeah.
06:00No, I get no sympathy from the moms at school.
06:03No, they just want to gossip about me and rescue you.
06:06Yeah, well, death trumps divorce.
06:09They're actually more subtle than the women at church.
06:13Hey, how do you think the kids are?
06:15I think the kids are exactly where they need to be.
06:19And Flora's back at school.
06:25Yeah, there she is.
06:27I trust her.
06:28I just want to make sure that it sticks.
06:30You know, I need her to hang out with other kids again.
06:40And Justin, on the other hand, I don't worry about that kid at all.
06:51Enjoy your breakfast, loser.
06:55No, you're right.
06:56Think that they're getting back into their routines.
06:58And that is for the best.
06:59Especially Merit.
07:02Reverse.
07:05Good.
07:06Good.
07:06Break.
07:07Break.
07:09Break.
07:09Merit.
07:11Line drill.
07:12Now.
07:19And Penn and Casey, they're the glue.
07:21Oh, yeah, they always have each other's back.
07:24Hey.
07:25Penn.
07:27Can we...
07:29Sure.
07:30Sorry.
07:31Just...
07:33Look, I thought we were doing Cheer Together this year.
07:36Yeah.
07:38Yeah.
07:38I just signed up with Dakota.
07:40But you still can.
07:41Okay.
07:41Well, you've been ghosting me all summer, so...
07:44Penelope!
07:45I have to go.
07:46Sorry.
07:48Hey.
07:51What was that about?
07:52Nothing.
07:53I just feel bad.
07:55Don't.
07:57You have a dead mother.
07:58You can do whatever you want.
08:00Well, I'm also a PK.
08:02No, I can't.
08:12So...
08:12We're good, then?
08:14We're good.
08:15They're good.
08:16Yeah.
08:16Look.
08:16On our way to great.
08:18Okay.
08:20I really should get to work.
08:22Mm.
08:23And I need to get to the church.
08:26You said I'd know when it's time.
08:27It's been almost a year.
08:28I think it's time.
08:31Okay.
08:32Well, that's wonderful.
08:33I mean, everyone has really missed you.
08:35Your...
08:35Your sermons.
08:36Your voice.
08:38Sorry.
08:38No pressure.
08:40No.
08:59No.
09:01No.
09:02No.
09:14No.
09:16No.
09:22You're not.
09:22No.
09:22No.
09:22No.
09:22No.
09:22No.
09:22No.
09:24No.
09:24God. We do not save ourselves. Grace is not something we earn or boast about. We named
09:33our church Grace because we, this community, live an energized life of grace. We are saved
09:41by grace because we believe. Amen.
09:56No, that's in your writer. No gluten at photo shoots, so I don't know why there are pretzels
10:01on set, Mandy. Yeah, I would feel bloated, too. No, I wouldn't want my photo taken. No.
10:12What? No, I will fix this. I'm on it.
10:24Gail! I know that was you. Do you sign me up for online dating?
10:29They're called dating apps now. IRL Match. It stands for In Real Life.
10:33Okay, well, I know what it stands for. You're ready. It's been six months.
10:37Okay, exactly. It has only been six months, and we've been married for 17 years.
10:42We're married. If I left this up to you, it would never happen.
10:52Permission for what?
10:56What happened to cheer?
10:58Nothing. I just changed my mind.
11:00To wrestling?
11:01With the boys.
11:03Title IX, Mom. Look it up.
11:06If Merrick wrestles, why can't I?
11:08Plus, I probably know more about wrestling from him than half the guys. Okay?
11:13Okay, Tigers, bring it in.
11:14That was looking pretty good, but you should watch your reservation.
11:17All right? Let's try it again. Okay. Here we go.
11:20Well, you heard her.
11:23All right.
11:28Trevor, you're up.
11:29Sparring with Kasey.
11:31Let's go, Soto.
11:33Get up on your feet.
11:34You wanted this?
11:35Go, Tigers! Go, Tigers!
11:37Go, Tigers!
11:39Go, Tigers!
11:43Go, Tigers!
11:45Go, Tigers!
11:45Go, Tigers!
11:46Go, Tigers!
11:47Go, Tigers!
11:51Go, Tigers!
11:52Go, Tigers!
11:56Go, Tigers!
11:58Go, Tigers!
11:59Go, Tigers!
12:01Go, Tigers!
12:01Go, Tigers!
12:03Go, Tigers!
12:03Go, Tigers!
12:03Go, Tigers!
12:04Go, Tigers!
12:05Go, Tigers!
12:06Go, Tigers!
12:06Go, Tigers!
12:07Go, Tigers!
12:07Go, Tigers!
12:08No, no, no, no...
12:11No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no!
12:16Soto, back on your feet!
12:18Hey, girls! Good job!
12:19Let's take a break!
12:20All right, man. Nothing good out there.
12:23All right, all right, all right!
12:24Someone else will come to...
12:33Harris.
12:36Please come join me.
12:42How we doing, man?
12:43Huh?
12:44You ready for Sunday?
12:46Mm, that is the question.
12:48And it doesn't need an answer, okay, if you need more time.
12:52Listen, man, I know you said you want to come back this week,
12:54but I am more than happy.
12:55No, no, no, no, no, I want to.
12:57I need to.
12:58Thank you, though.
12:59You've been a good friend.
13:01I got you.
13:01Yeah.
13:06It's just, I've never felt closer to God
13:12and so alone at the same time.
13:16That's your sermon.
13:18That a preach.
13:20No, no, no, no, I don't want to make Sunday about me.
13:23I want the congregation to know that I'm there for them.
13:30Hey, Dad, I'm home.
13:32I'm fine.
13:33Okay, okay, I wasn't worried.
13:35Yes, you were.
13:36You've probably been tracking me on your phone all day.
13:38No, of course not.
13:40Well, not all day.
13:43That was a joke, Flora.
13:45Okay, stalker.
13:47How was, uh, how was therapy?
13:51Therapy was therapy.
13:53School was school.
13:56Right, um, listen, Justin and Penn are with Lori.
13:59She is, uh, she's making dinner for everybody.
14:01I got a home visit to do, but why don't you head on over there?
14:03Yeah, I'm just going to make something for myself here.
14:07Right.
14:09Okay, look, just so you know,
14:11um, even though I'm back at work,
14:12I'm still going to be around for you and your brother.
14:14I gotta go.
14:15I've got homework.
14:17I love you.
14:18Mmm.
14:32Hello, Stephen.
14:33Good evening.
14:36Hello there, Pastor Lucas.
14:38No, Dad, this is Pastor Malcolm.
14:41It's okay.
14:42Hmm.
14:44Oh, you, you remember this.
14:47Yes, this did belong to Pastor Lucas,
14:51but he passed it on to me.
14:53He passed it on to me so that I could come and administer communion
14:56when you weren't feeling well enough
14:58to join us at church for Communion Sunday.
15:02Hmm.
15:08Hey.
15:08Hey, thank you for holding down the port.
15:10Yeah, of course.
15:12Hey, guys, what's happening?
15:14We didn't have time to make Mom's meatloaf tonight.
15:17I know.
15:17I'm sorry.
15:18I got busy.
15:19We'll do it soon, though, okay?
15:20Okay.
15:21Okay.
15:24Um, Penn and Casey are upstairs doing homework.
15:26Oh, okay.
15:27Hey, uh, Casey's wrestling?
15:29I thought they were going to do cheer.
15:30No, yeah, I know.
15:32I don't know.
15:33I just, but something's going on between the two of them.
15:35I don't know if something's up.
15:37Well, it can't be that bad.
15:38I mean, they're constantly Snapchatting.
16:07What's this?
16:08I don't know what desperate cry for help.
16:11Oh, you joined IRL.
16:12You know what IRL is.
16:14Well, I have counseled the occasional newly single congregant.
16:16Yes.
16:17This was Gail's idea.
16:18So I'm just, I'm trying to just...
16:23Who do I pick?
16:24You're asking me.
16:25Yes.
16:26I mean, all these guys are, like, swiping on me.
16:28And that surprises you.
16:29Yes.
16:30No, no, no.
16:31But I don't, I don't know.
16:33Look, I trust your opinion about people more than anybody, you know?
16:38And you're a guy.
16:39Yes, I am.
16:40What?
16:43Okay.
16:44All right.
16:45Let's know.
16:47Okay.
16:48I'm trying to see the best in all these men here.
16:50I know.
16:50It's making me think about things that I don't want to think about.
16:53Yeah, what?
16:53Then you realize that I have only had to deal with one since college.
17:01Okay, now I'm thinking about things I don't want to think about.
17:03Thank you very much.
17:04You're welcome.
17:08All right.
17:09All right.
17:10Okay.
17:11Hmm.
17:20What the hell?
17:21Hmm.
17:23Wait, wait, wait, wait.
17:24What about that guy?
17:26Cup of Joe?
17:27Yeah.
17:28I mean, he's kind of funny, right?
17:30Yeah.
17:30Like, I want someone with a sense of humor.
17:32And, like, a good taste of music.
17:35And, I don't know, he's got a nice face.
17:38Are you really going to do this?
17:41I mean, at some point, right?
17:46Yeah, I guess so.
17:49Yeah.
17:53Oh.
17:56Well, you knew he was dating.
17:58Um.
17:59No, I...
18:02I didn't, actually.
18:04I mean, I assumed.
18:05Just at this point, I...
18:07I didn't want to ask.
18:09Not that he needs to tell me.
18:12Oh, wow.
18:14March 15th.
18:15He joined the day after he moved out.
18:19Why would he not talk to me?
18:22We had a family.
18:23I mean, we have kids.
18:26Has he talked to you?
18:28No.
18:28No.
18:29No, he hasn't talked to me.
18:30It's awkward.
18:30I mean, you and Jenny were the ones.
18:32You guys talk three times a day.
18:33He and I...
18:35But I'm supposed to see him at some point this week.
18:38He's been asking.
18:39Really?
18:41No, I mean, it's fine.
18:43It's...
18:43Whatever.
18:44I...
18:45Honestly, I don't...
18:46I don't even want to know.
18:49Cool spa, right?
18:51Yeah.
18:52Hey, that DJ?
18:53That's my new client.
18:54Oh, you're repping DJs now.
18:56It's a new world, dude.
18:57I'm glad we're finally doing this.
18:59You too.
19:00Oh, and this may be your bar, but still just a Coke, okay?
19:03All right.
19:05So, this is where you're at, then?
19:09I'm sorry.
19:10Look, I miss the four of us.
19:13I think of you and me being dragged to Chuck E. Cheese by our wives, not hanging out here.
19:18Hey, don't take this the wrong way, but I don't really recognize you right now.
19:23Man, you sound like Lori.
19:26Kind of feels like she won you in the divorce.
19:29Hey, a pastor and an alcoholic walk into a bar.
19:34Yeah, I should really be home writing my sermon.
19:37I get it.
19:38This is not your scene.
19:39You're a man of God, right?
19:41Yeah.
19:41But remember, first word in that phrase is still a man.
19:45Yeah.
19:47Okay.
19:50Okay.
19:51I'm not going to push.
19:52You're not me.
19:54I left my wife.
19:55At the worst possible time, too.
19:57I'm garbage.
19:58I know that.
20:00Your awful nightmare that happened to you.
20:04It happened to Jenny.
20:05Right.
20:06No, but it happened, and here you are.
20:08You know, that's all I'm saying.
20:11I'm going to shut up now.
20:14So, what happened with you, David?
20:16Why'd you leave?
20:17It feels like it came out of nowhere.
20:20Look, I don't know, man.
20:22I...
20:24You know, we got married so young, so fast.
20:27Well, we got pregnant with merit right away.
20:28Maybe I was always questioning it.
20:30And then I go and finally decide to get sober, and I was still so unhappy.
20:33And then...
20:36And then...
20:39And then Jenny died.
20:43I just...
20:44I knew I needed to make a change.
20:46Malcolm, life is just too short.
20:48Oh, wow.
20:50I'm really sorry.
20:52No, that's...
20:53It's okay.
20:54Hi.
20:55Could we join you?
20:57Hey.
20:57Of course.
20:58How you doing?
20:58I'm David.
20:59This is my friend Malcolm.
21:00Yeah.
21:02Turn on to the legal preacher, please.
21:07My wife's dead.
21:16Mom?
21:17What's up?
21:18Um...
21:19Hi.
21:19Do you think I made a mistake with wrestling?
21:22No.
21:23Not if you don't.
21:24Hmm.
21:24I mean...
21:25We have this intra-squad match on Friday to pick the starters, and I just...
21:30I...
21:30I'm gonna wind up last on the roster, you know?
21:33So?
21:34You'll still be on the roster.
21:36Hmm?
21:37Well, yes, but with a bunch of boys that hate me now.
21:39Oh, who cares?
21:41You're doing this because you want to, right?
21:43That's all that matters.
21:45Plus, I bet Merrick can give you a couple tips.
21:48Uh, sure.
21:49Don't get pinned.
21:51No, thank you.
21:52Look, it's okay to be scared.
21:56Especially if something big and new doesn't mean you don't do it.
22:03Don't, don't...
22:05Mom?
22:07Are you on IRL?
22:09Uh, no, I...
22:10I...
22:11But it's...
22:12It's just...
22:13No, no, no.
22:13It's fine.
22:14You're allowed to have a life.
22:16Of course.
22:18Why would you write that?
22:20What?
22:20Because I'm trying to be honest?
22:23With Cup of Joe?
22:24No, he's an architect.
22:25His firm does pro bono work in public housing.
22:28Oh, wow.
22:28Yeah, but he named himself Cup of Joe.
22:30Okay.
22:31All right.
22:32That's, like, so weird.
22:33Hey, Merrick, where are you going?
22:35I'm sleeping at Dad's.
22:36No, hang on.
22:37You're with me and...
22:38I got an Uber.
22:39I'm good.
22:40Just tell your dad that you're coming!
22:42I like this pattern more, but also that's not saying much because I just, like, love the color blue.
22:47Like, of course, I like this one a little bit.
22:48When's Dad getting home?
22:49Why are you still up?
22:51Soon, buddy.
22:55You hear he's giving the sermon on Sunday?
22:56Yeah, she heard.
22:58And I'm still not going.
23:00What?
23:01For real?
23:02You have to go.
23:03That'll meet Dad look really bad.
23:05Dude, he'll be fine.
23:07That's just...
23:08I'm so sick of all the pressure.
23:10It's not my responsibility.
23:12I'm like my own person.
23:14Yeah, you are.
23:24You're from out of town?
23:26Uh, no.
23:27No, I'm actually, you know, in between places.
23:30Oh.
23:31Yeah.
23:41Dad?
23:43Merrick, what are you doing?
23:45I texted you.
23:48Oh, yeah, no.
23:49Yeah, so you did.
23:51Uh...
23:52Uh, Marie, this is my, uh...
23:56I'm sorry.
23:58It was nice meeting you.
24:06It was kind of like being in another country and not speaking the language.
24:11And then I had this realization that this woman who I'm just casually chatting with...
24:15Yeah.
24:16...is interested in me.
24:18Really?
24:19Oh, well, what was she like?
24:21This, you know, woman you casually met at a bar with my ex.
24:26Oh, I don't know.
24:27She was, uh, very pretty.
24:29Uh, tall, brunette.
24:30Oh.
24:31Mm-hmm.
24:32Yeah, no, very attractive.
24:34But she wanted to talk all about Jenny and what happened and how I was doing.
24:38And then...
24:39Hmm.
24:40She basically made it clear that she wanted to have sex with me.
24:45Okay, how did she do that?
24:47She asked me if I wanted to have sex with her.
24:51Oh, yes.
24:52No, yeah, of course.
24:55Yeah, no, that makes sense.
24:56I mean, I said no, obviously.
24:58Obviously!
24:59Yeah.
25:00So, sorry.
25:01I mean, obviously you said no.
25:02I don't...
25:03I don't know why I said it like that.
25:05It's okay.
25:06I don't have conversations like this with anyone else in my life.
25:09Wait, did you tell her you're a pastor?
25:11Oh, yeah.
25:12Okay.
25:13Let's just say if you're ever in an awkward situation with a member of the opposite sex,
25:18it's a surefire way to shut it down.
25:23Yeah.
25:24Okay.
25:25I don't know what to do.
25:27If Russ is having a party that kind of messes with Liv's party,
25:30I mean, we can go to both, but I feel bad that he lives.
25:33Oh, maybe you can talk to Russell about comboing them?
25:37Hello?
25:40Merit.
25:41What?
25:42You're doing it again.
25:43You're, like, ghosting me in real time.
25:45No, I'm not.
25:57Hey.
25:58Yeah.
26:00You good?
26:01Oh, me?
26:02Yeah.
26:03But what did Farrell want?
26:05You know, she's excited for my dad's sermon on Sunday.
26:09Excited that I'm back in school.
26:11She's proud of me.
26:13How my mom would be proud of me.
26:15Uh, triggering.
26:16Yeah.
26:16She means well.
26:18You know, it's just,
26:19how would she know how my mom would feel?
26:23Everybody's talking about me.
26:25I'm some sort of freak or something.
26:28You're not a freak.
26:30And,
26:31Miss Farrell is-
26:32Like, his ass?
26:33Like, buttering me up about my dad is gonna get her closer to God or something.
26:38I-I know how you feel, though.
26:40Only the opposite.
26:42Uh, like, no one's talking about me because they have no idea what I'm dealing with.
26:47What are you dealing with?
26:48Oh, so much.
26:52My parents are-
26:54They're both already trying to hook up.
26:56Like, like, everything's totally cool.
26:58And maybe they just need to get this out of their systems and then they'll realize.
27:05Or they won't.
27:06I-I love how they get to start over and we're supposed to just pick up where we left off.
27:12Like, nothing's happened.
27:15You're allowed to start over, too.
27:23Uh, at practice.
27:25Yeah.
27:26Don't worry about what anyone says.
27:31You got this.
27:34Thanks.
27:36Okay, hello, Merit.
27:39I'm obsessed.
27:40No, don't be.
27:41He's got a girlfriend.
27:42Our family still have dinner, like, every week.
27:45And that is the longest conversation we've had since middle school.
27:50Here.
27:52Oh, she's got a guy.
27:52Oh, she's been that hard.
27:52I don't know.
27:52Oh.
28:07No.
28:28Hey, Merit.
28:30So, I've got my intra-squad tryouts at the end of the week,
28:33and this Trevor guy is just absolutely destroying me.
28:36Yeah.
28:37I was thinking...
28:37I'm not wrestling anymore.
28:39What?
28:40What do you mean?
28:41I quit.
28:43Wait.
28:44What?
28:44You quit wrestling?
28:46Don't turn into a thing, Mom.
28:47I'm not.
28:49Look, I just...
28:50You've been wrestling since forever.
28:53Yeah, and I don't want to do it anymore.
28:56Okay.
28:57Well, honey, what's going on with you?
29:02Look, if you don't want to talk to me about it,
29:04you could always talk to your dad.
29:05I don't care what he thinks.
29:07Hey, well, what does Jill think?
29:09Nothing.
29:09We broke up.
29:11What?
29:11When?
29:12Today.
29:13Look, I...
29:13I have homework.
29:19What am I supposed to do now, Mom?
29:28What am I supposed to do now, Mom?
29:43That's awesome.
29:45But you can't post it.
29:47Right?
29:47Listen to the preachers, kid.
29:49Okay, that's not why.
29:51There's only like five people on my spam account.
29:53We're literally the only ones who are going to see it.
29:57Okay.
30:00What's going on?
30:01Who are you talking to?
30:02No one.
30:03Dakota.
30:04It's private.
30:05Uh-huh.
30:06Let's go to sleep, please.
30:08Both of you.
30:08School tomorrow.
30:35You can't be crying.
30:40I don't want to tell them yet.
30:42So they can not see you like this.
30:46Okay?
30:48Okay.
30:51Okay.
30:55Pray with me.
31:13What are you doing, buddy?
31:15It's 2 a.m.
31:16What is happening tonight?
31:17Why are you still up?
31:19I never have time to make Mom's meatloaf,
31:21so I'm cooking ahead for tomorrow.
31:24Just like she used to.
31:25Okay.
31:40Thanks, Dad.
31:41You got a pile here.
31:43Use this.
31:44Yeah, start scooping.
31:45Start scooping.
31:49This is your theme.
32:00it's not my account i swear i wouldn't do this to you we believe you honey we just want to
32:07know
32:08if you know who did do it yeah so we can get the account taken now well i don't know
32:15i really don't i mean casey's my friend i want to find out who did it too whatever it's okay
32:23it's not like i'm gonna stop no matter who did it good i mean you shouldn't uh she's lying no
32:31pen
32:31of course she is mom just don't get why she hates me all of a sudden you know okay honey
32:36she doesn't
32:37hate you all right no i know that the two of you aren't getting along like you used to but
32:43pen loves you it's penelope now it's more adult this is what i'm talking about okay she's just
32:48going through a really tough phase phase mom why are you apologizing for her i promised jenny i'd look
32:56after her kids mom merit stop no no she lives in this in this happy little fantasy world happy
33:01yeah you had no clue dad was gonna leave
33:07uh no yeah you're right yeah maybe if you had he wouldn't have merit
33:18okay you are allowed to be angry okay with me with your dad did you know he's like bringing
33:24girls home what
33:31see this this is exactly what i'm talking about
33:40come on pen open up you can't stay locked in there i can't believe you attacked me like that
33:46nobody attacked you it was just a conversation
33:51pen can i have some privacy please hello
33:55uh good luck pen unlock the door
34:13what
34:14what
34:16nothing i didn't ask how school was today same as yesterday okay hey uh what do you what do you
34:24think maybe it's time to cut your hair i don't know if this is trendy right now trendy
34:32what come on you know what i mean gosh no i don't know what you mean i i'm not trying
34:37to be trendy
34:37dad look i didn't mean to just no i don't i don't care what i look like or what i
34:43wear i do not care
34:45what people think of me i just wanted to see how long i could grow it
34:56are you okay dad yeah yeah i'm fine
35:03all these people talk to you about stuff they're problems well that's part of my job
35:11so who do you talk to
35:26hello
35:28so uh merit told me you brought a girl over while he was there
35:31uh first off it was a woman did you meet her on irl
35:36maybe and i didn't know he was coming by okay what happened to keeping things civil lori
35:40i don't know i'm not feeling particularly civil uh-huh how did you know i was on irl
35:44are you on irl lori not really not by my own doing well i'm doing okay look i don't know
35:51about
35:51you but i need to start living just because we're not together anymore doesn't mean i need to do
35:55penance over our failed marriage i don't want to be alone i need intimacy like i'd like to have
36:00a girlfriend okay you know what this was a mistake i shouldn't have called i need companionship
36:04lori there's there's nothing wrong with me saying that to you you need companionship david
36:10you my best friend died and then you walked out on me but you need companionship
36:16and meanwhile your son has quit wrestling whoa what what why do you do that
36:22i don't know wrestling was your thing maybe you should try talking to him
36:32meryl i'm going out you're in charge
36:54i was coming to you same well i need you i'm here where where are we going
37:03out like grown-ups
37:24i don't want to eat okay okay but i don't i don't um i don't want to go home
37:34um can we just uh sorry can we just stay here just um just stay right here yeah sorry is
37:43that
37:43weird is that okay is that too weird i just don't i don't
37:51i don't want to be around anybody else but you right now okay and i don't want to talk about
37:59kids new york kids or my kids all right i just i want i want to be bitchy and i
38:07want to be angry and i
38:22just you're his friend and you don't have to you don't have to spy on him and it's just okay
38:28i don't
38:28i don't even care right but he was just he's going he was talking about being alone he was going
38:35on and on
38:36about being alone and like i wanted to like strangle him right and say like well yeah like i don't
38:45want to
38:45be alone either and and you are the reason that i am alone right and also the reason that i
38:52am all over
38:53the place right like i'm coming i'm going i'm i'm early i'm late right hey that part is not new
38:59okay
39:09i miss jenny so much
39:17you know she was the one person
39:21that we could talk to her about like you and about him and know that we would talk about talk
39:26about
39:29anything
39:34and i know i shouldn't complain to you about missing jenny because i really can't imagine like i really
39:41yes you can
39:55i don't want to be alone yeah you're not alone
40:04i don't want to be alone yeah i don't want to be alone yeah really really i was talking about
40:09he was i
40:37I'm sorry.
40:38I'm sorry.
40:39I don't know.
40:39I didn't think I would.
40:57I have to get it.
41:01Yeah.
41:09Dad?
41:10Hey, bud.
41:10What's up?
41:12I need help with homework.
41:13Penelope swore of me and Flora won't come out of her room.
41:18Okay.
41:19Can you just come home, Dad?
41:21Yeah.
41:23Yeah, I'm coming home.
41:38I ordered a pizza.
41:41Okay.
41:43Where did you go?
41:45Oh, I was just talking to Malcolm.
41:49You're missing an earring.
41:52How?
41:53No.
41:55Yeah.
42:12I don't know.
42:13Okay.
42:19Yeah.
42:21I don't know.
42:22Okay.
42:23That's why I don't live there now.
42:27Hey, can we talk about you and Casey?
42:30Not about the TikTok, just, you know, about the two of you.
42:34There's nothing to talk about.
42:36I just don't have anything to say to her anymore.
42:41You know, you can tell me anything, right?
42:43I know you used to confide in your mom.
42:45I'm not saying I'm her, but...
42:50Hey, can I?
42:52Oh, you know what I love most about your mom?
42:58She was never embarrassed about who she was.
43:01Ever.
43:03She didn't care what anyone thought.
43:08She was beautiful right up until the end.
43:11Don't you think?
43:15I know who posted the TikTok of Casey.
43:18And I lied to you before.
43:20And I'm sorry.
43:24Ben.
43:24In our home, we tell the truth.
43:26I know.
43:28But I can't tell you who it is.
43:32But I'll deal with it.
43:35Okay?
43:38Okay.
43:41How can everything just keep on going home without her?
43:43Oh, I know. I know.
43:45Dad says she's in God's hands now.
43:47Right, Dad?
43:48Hey, that's right.
43:50Yeah.
43:52The best place for Mom was here.
43:55What kind of a God would take her away from us?
43:58Well, God didn't take her away.
44:00Cancer did.
44:02That's a convenient way to think about it.
44:04I just don't get how you can go back up there to that pulpit and say all this stuff and
44:11justify it like nothing happened.
44:14And how can you believe in any of it anymore?
44:18I believe.
44:19We know.
44:21I know Sunday is a big day for you.
44:24But I'm not going back.
44:27And I'm not going to go just to make you look good.
44:30Well, I don't care about that.
44:33It's not about me.
44:35It's not even about your relationship with God because of me.
44:38It's about your own relationship with God.
44:44What if I don't have one anymore?
44:47I am not you, Dad.
44:51I'm sorry.
44:52I'm sorry.
44:53Okay.
44:54Okay.
44:55I love you.
44:56I love you.
44:56It's all right.
45:09It was, yeah.
45:11It was, I just.
45:13Okay, girls.
45:14Come on.
45:14Let's get warmed up.
45:18Look, you got to take it down, Dakota.
45:20For real?
45:22Yeah.
45:23The whole account.
45:24Or I'm telling the truth.
45:27I mean, you want to be friends with me.
45:28Don't make me lie to my dad.
45:32I have a dead mother.
45:33Remember?
45:45You ready, Flora?
45:47Your dad's going to meet us at Casey's match.
45:49She's okay.
45:58Wow.
46:00Look at you.
46:01Dad doesn't like how long it is.
46:03Oh, yeah?
46:05When was the last time you cut it?
46:09Mom cuts it.
46:16Well, if you like.
46:17I could do a little something there.
46:23You know, that's okay.
46:26Okay.
46:27Yeah.
46:28Yeah.
46:29Okay.
46:37All right, Casey, Trevor, you're up.
46:43All right, here you go.
46:48Hey.
46:48Do not say anything.
46:59Hey, bud.
46:59Hey, bud.
47:01Case, come on.
47:02Let's go.
47:03Get Casey.
47:04Let's go, Case.
47:04Come on.
47:05Come on, Case.
47:05You got this.
47:06You got this.
47:07Gritting grease.
47:09That's it.
47:12Come on.
47:13Come on.
47:15Let's get Casey.
47:15Get down, Rev.
47:16Come on, Rev.
47:17Get up, Case.
47:19Don't quit, Casey.
47:20Come on.
47:20Get back, Rev.
47:21Get up, Casey.
47:22Get up, bottom three.
47:24Yes.
47:24Come on, Casey.
47:25Yes.
47:25There it is.
47:26Come on, Casey.
47:26Don't quit.
47:27Yes.
47:28Come on, Casey.
47:29Come on, Casey.
47:29Come on.
47:29That's right.
47:30That's right, Casey.
47:31Go back up.
47:32No quit.
47:32No quit.
47:32No quit.
47:33Oh.
47:33Yes.
47:33Stand up, Casey.
47:34Come on.
47:35Come on.
47:35Come on.
47:36Whoa, Casey.
47:37Oh, yes.
47:38Casey.
47:38Come on.
47:39Okay.
47:39Let's go.
47:40Lock in.
47:40Lock in.
47:41Go low.
47:42Go low.
47:43Go for the legs.
47:43Yes.
47:44Yes.
47:45Come on, Casey.
47:46Nice, Casey.
47:47Nice.
47:49Yes.
47:49Yes.
47:49Oh, yes.
47:50Go, Casey.
47:52Go, Casey.
47:53Go.
47:53Hit him.
47:54Here we go, Casey.
47:54Jordan.
47:55Hit him.
47:55There you go.
47:56Yeah.
47:58Yes.
47:58One, two, three.
47:59Come on, Rev.
48:00Three.
48:00It's awesome.
48:02Yeah.
48:03Yes.
48:03Yes.
48:04Yes.
48:05Yes.
48:05Yes.
48:05Yes.
48:06Yes.
48:06Yes.
48:08Yes.
48:08Yes.
48:11Yes.
48:11That's my girl.
48:29Welcome back.
48:30It's so good to see you.
48:31Thanks for being here.
48:32Hey, good to see you guys.
48:34All right.
48:35Hi.
48:35Hi.
48:36No Flora?
48:37No, not this week.
48:39I didn't want to push too hard.
48:40I don't want to lose her.
48:41Yeah.
48:41I'll see you then.
48:43Okay.
48:43Hey, hey.
48:43Look who made it.
48:44The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
48:50Amen.
48:51We know the Lord has been holding Pastor Malcolm and his family in his hands.
48:56And we've been holding them, too.
48:58That's why I know your hearts are as glad as mine to welcome back my brother, my mentor,
49:05back to the pulpit.
49:07That's right.
49:07That's right.
49:08Yes.
49:09That's right.
49:11Thank you, Pastor Harris, for stepping in these last few months.
49:15Yes.
49:18I just want to say how wonderful it is to see all your faces, especially from here.
49:24Father, you have been so patient and generous letting me and my family have this time.
49:36That's right.
49:36The Lord is close to the brokenhearted.
49:39That's right.
49:41That's right.
49:43I'll be honest.
49:44I don't have a lengthy sermon for you today.
49:48In fact, I don't have one at all.
49:53I know.
49:54I know.
49:54I'm sorry.
49:55It isn't for lack of trying.
49:57There is nothing I want more for today.
49:59So to have words fail me now.
50:08The other day, my son asked me if I was okay.
50:14That's not something pastors get asked very often.
50:20And the truth is I'm not.
50:26But I faith that I will be, that God's grace is enough.
50:34The truth is I know that you need me.
50:39And I need you, too.
50:46We are the grace community.
50:49And today, oh, I need to lean on all of you.
50:53I hope that's okay.
50:55Hey.
50:57It's okay.
51:01Oh, Virginia, thank you.
51:10I can help with your sermon, Dad.
51:12Thank you, Justin.
51:14I'll take it.
51:22Bye-bye.
51:27Bye-bye.
51:29Bye-bye.
51:30Bye-bye.
51:31Bye-bye.
52:40What are we going to do, Mom?
52:44I don't know.
52:45Mom, come here.
52:47What do you do?
53:06I don't know.
53:09Maybe we could talk about what happened.
53:10My cupcakes!
53:13Then I'll have five more minutes.
53:19Not particularly good at the change.
53:22How long have you been a pastor?
53:24I'm feeling pretty stuck myself these days.
53:27The new Lori is on IRL match.
53:29She goes on dates.
53:30If two people are into each other, they shouldn't let anything stand in their way.
53:35You have to put yourself out there, even if it means you might get hurt.
53:40I'm seeing something.
53:41Okay, we're not just going to erase Mom.
53:43No one's erasing Mom.
53:47Surprise!
53:48You can't just come here and play house like you're not the reason.
53:51All of this happened.
53:52You did this.
53:55Hey!
53:57Stay away from my family.
53:58Of course you don't do this.
53:58Focus on your own.
54:01They were all just laughing at me.
54:03Why is she like this?
54:07What's going on?
54:10The kids aren't the problem.
54:12It's us.
54:15It's not fair, Dad.
54:16It's not fair.
54:17He hovers like I'm going to crack at any second.
54:21I haven't handled this well.
54:25I know how complicated things are.
54:28But sometimes you get this feeling.
54:31You can't let that moment pass you by.
54:41You can go.
54:42To get home.
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