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Married at First Sight Australia - Season 13 - Episode 09
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00:00:00I now pronounce you husband and wife.
00:00:0418 brave singles married a complete stranger
00:00:07as part of Australia's biggest social experiment.
00:00:13The first dinner party
00:00:15I'm pretty happy. Me too. Exposed early tensions.
00:00:20What's your problem? Seems like we got on better than you and your man.
00:00:23He was looking me up and down.
00:00:27Luke was left feeling rejected.
00:00:30I can see how she talks to other people in the room.
00:00:32But it's completely different how she talks to me.
00:00:34And a brand new phase began.
00:00:37When I was bigger, I just got no attention.
00:00:39Hearing things like I starved myself, pained my heart.
00:00:44Revelations week helped peel back the emotional layers of our participants.
00:00:48They're going out the back for me. I loved it.
00:00:51Dangle your head.
00:00:52But left others confused.
00:00:55Ah.
00:00:56And in shock by some uncomfortable truths.
00:00:59What turned you off?
00:01:01Fake team, needy and fat people.
00:01:03Led Brooke to go on the attack.
00:01:06Surely he gets on your nerves at times.
00:01:08No.
00:01:09I don't believe you.
00:01:10I don't believe you.
00:01:11I definitely saw a different side of Brooke.
00:01:14He felt very cold.
00:01:16Tonight.
00:01:19Who will stay and who will leave?
00:01:23At the very first commitment ceremony of the experiment.
00:01:27How's it going?
00:01:29Very happy.
00:01:30Nothing but progress.
00:01:31Steve's positive spin leaves everyone confused.
00:01:35Nothing wrong.
00:01:36Connection.
00:01:37Everything.
00:01:37But the experts aren't buying it.
00:01:40What's going on for you Rebecca?
00:01:43Mel has delivered some tough love.
00:01:46You need a wake up call.
00:01:48Hi.
00:01:50I really like Steven.
00:01:52You are so special.
00:01:53Romantic connections will be celebrated.
00:01:56Things are fantastic.
00:01:58Yeah we're going great.
00:01:59I'm fully into her like I'm kissing her all the time.
00:02:02You think he could be a soulmate for you?
00:02:04If we had him the way we had him.
00:02:06Yes.
00:02:07But I feel like not everyone likes your happiness.
00:02:13Brooke lashes out.
00:02:14You can't blame me for that.
00:02:16Get me out of here.
00:02:17No one can.
00:02:18We'll just bring it back down.
00:02:19Derailing the entire commitment ceremony.
00:02:24She's a fool.
00:02:26End of.
00:02:27We want to see that girl again.
00:02:36It's the night after an explosive brand new Revelations Week task.
00:02:42Oh it was intense.
00:02:43It was intense.
00:02:45Red flag.
00:02:46Green flag.
00:02:47A lot going on.
00:02:48Oh yeah?
00:02:48Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:02:49It's all popping up.
00:02:50It was pretty rowdy.
00:02:50Oh was it?
00:02:51Yeah.
00:02:52And the actions from a particular bride are looming large for many.
00:02:56Brooke surprised me today.
00:02:59She said something quite pointy or direct was it?
00:03:04Red flags.
00:03:05Are there any?
00:03:06Well that's the thing.
00:03:08There has to be.
00:03:09I'm sorry.
00:03:10I'm pulling bullshit.
00:03:12Brooke kept having her two cents.
00:03:15Wow, Brooke.
00:03:16Wow.
00:03:17Yeah, it was a lot.
00:03:18And our communication is second to none.
00:03:21So we...
00:03:22So it's all rainbows and butterflies and new shit that's rainbows.
00:03:26She was calling everyone out.
00:03:27She was, yeah.
00:03:28It was full on.
00:03:29Really?
00:03:31Alyssa is the expert.
00:03:36She went a bit off, yeah.
00:03:37Not at you though.
00:03:38No, she's...
00:03:39I love her.
00:03:40That's good.
00:03:42But it was Steve's shocking revelations to the boys that's left many of our grooms reeling.
00:03:48You know who stood out?
00:03:49Steve and...
00:03:50Steve and Rebecca.
00:03:52Oh shit, what did you hear?
00:03:52You know when he goes, da da da da da, red flag.
00:03:54Like he didn't even get a green flag at all.
00:03:56It was just red flags.
00:03:59Now red flags, there's multiple.
00:04:02Rebecca consistently needs to be talking all the time.
00:04:06I don't understand some of her humour.
00:04:08Her emotions are very high and very low.
00:04:11On top of that, Rebecca's not my usual type.
00:04:15I think her expectations were getting a little bit high with intimacy.
00:04:19But we had an amazing friendship.
00:04:21It actually caught me off guard.
00:04:23I'm thinking what the hell, like that relationship is definitely on the rocks.
00:04:28And as Steve comes home to his bride tonight...
00:04:31Honey, I'm home.
00:04:32Can I just say, I'm so glad to see you.
00:04:37..an excited Rebecca cannot wait to debrief on the day.
00:04:41So, tell me.
00:04:42Red flags, green flags, yeah?
00:04:44Yeah.
00:04:46Well, green flags, I mean...
00:04:48What were the...
00:04:50Do you want me to tell you what they were?
00:04:52Is that what we're doing?
00:04:53Yeah.
00:04:54Are you going to share mine?
00:04:55Only if you want to.
00:04:56No, I'm saying...
00:04:58The red flags, they're not red flags.
00:05:01It's more just teething.
00:05:02Like, as I said to them, I think we just have to get used to each other.
00:05:07Yeah.
00:05:07And our ways, that's all.
00:05:11So, uh, the green flags were pretty simple.
00:05:14Um, you know, you're warm, you're, um, you're caring, you know, you can list more than three.
00:05:19Yeah.
00:05:19That's easy.
00:05:22Did you tell Rebecca about the red flags that you raised with the boys?
00:05:28Uh, I'm trying to think if I told Rebecca about the red flags.
00:05:33Um, oh, I, um, I don't know if I specifically touched on, on them specifically, now that I'm trying to
00:05:45recall.
00:05:48Um, it's nothing personal, it's nothing that needs to be discussed yet.
00:05:54But yeah, it was an interesting, interesting get together.
00:05:58Yeah.
00:05:59He didn't really say the red flags though, did he?
00:06:02I don't know whether he's being genuine.
00:06:04Maybe I'll find them out on the couch.
00:06:06The commitment ceremony, who knows?
00:06:08Oh, I can't wait to get on the couch with the experts.
00:06:11Yeah.
00:06:11The couch is scaring me, to be honest.
00:06:14Yes.
00:06:30It's the morning of the first commitment ceremony of the experiment.
00:06:35Hello.
00:06:37Already?
00:06:38Already.
00:06:39And with two weeks of marriage behind them,
00:06:42our newlyweds are about to face the experts for the first time.
00:06:50Where tonight they must decide whether they want to stay in their relationship or leave.
00:06:57Your fit is hard as hell today.
00:06:59I'm just saying.
00:07:01I don't know if I'm going to be looking at the experts or you the whole time.
00:07:09The first commitment ceremony is a huge milestone of the experiment, as it gives our newlyweds a platform to share
00:07:16their experiences so far.
00:07:18Do you have any questions to the experts?
00:07:20No, we're just, I was going to give them a big clap.
00:07:23Like, I ran them up and steady.
00:07:24Same.
00:07:24Like, you guys nailed it.
00:07:25Not only are we here as experts to support our couples through any issues they're facing,
00:07:31we'll also offer raw and honest feedback, which they'll have to take on in front of the group.
00:07:37Tonight is about holding a mirror up to their relationships, keeping them accountable and ultimately sending them into the next
00:07:44phase of the experiment with the right tools to strengthen their marriage.
00:07:52Are you writing stay or leave?
00:07:54I don't know yet.
00:07:55Oh, don't be rude.
00:07:56I have to work it out.
00:07:58I have to sit down and have a think about it.
00:08:00Which one do you know how to spell?
00:08:02It stays easier to write.
00:08:05S-T-A-Y.
00:08:09Down the hall, it's wedded bliss for Gia and Scott.
00:08:14You look stunning.
00:08:15As they prepare to enter tonight, feeling as strong as ever.
00:08:19I'm actually excited.
00:08:21I'm excited to see the experts, to be honest.
00:08:22Yeah, it's going to be so fun.
00:08:23I love them. I'm excited to see what they have to say, to be honest.
00:08:26I think with me and Scott, the feelings are growing every day.
00:08:29We are so close.
00:08:31Like, the communication and the things that we talk about, I haven't talked about with people I've been with for
00:08:36years.
00:08:37So it's just really, really refreshing.
00:08:39It's strong.
00:08:41Yeah, I think we're just, we just fit well.
00:08:43I think it's obvious what we're both going to say tonight.
00:08:47It's crazy.
00:08:48I never thought I could know and learn so much about someone in such a short period of time.
00:08:53It's a step-by-step thing to, you know, falling for someone.
00:08:57And let's just say everything's going the right way.
00:09:01It's a really big crush.
00:09:02A massive crush.
00:09:04Yeah.
00:09:05All right.
00:09:06All right, well, I'll, um...
00:09:06I'll look plus on, but kiss you anyway.
00:09:08I'll kiss you anyway.
00:09:10I'll see you on the couch.
00:09:11Oh, you look like a princess.
00:09:12Oh.
00:09:15This year, for the first time, our couples went through Revelations Week, a brand new and intense phase of the
00:09:23experiment.
00:09:24It was tough, don't you think?
00:09:25Yeah, it's always good to get below the surface and dig a bit deeper.
00:09:30And for Rachel and Stephen...
00:09:33Fantastic.
00:09:34The tasks were transformative.
00:09:36It was a good week.
00:09:37Yeah.
00:09:38That's exactly how I'm feeling.
00:09:40Like, it's happiness.
00:09:41An emotional auditions video task helped the couple connect over their shared history with dating and body image.
00:09:49I've been single for at least 10 to 12 years.
00:09:52And I've been dating on and off since then.
00:09:55And I had to work my butt off to turn myself into something that I really didn't believe that mattered.
00:10:02You're great the way that you are.
00:10:04You really are.
00:10:06Oh, my...
00:10:06My God!
00:10:09As hard as it is for me to open up to anyone this early into a relationship,
00:10:14where we are stronger and we have come closer,
00:10:18it's going to be interesting to see what the experts are going to say.
00:10:22Like, I reckon it's going to be like, tick.
00:10:25Tick.
00:10:26Off you go.
00:10:28Yeah, no problems here.
00:10:31But as some couples revel in their progress,
00:10:34Stella is still reeling after yesterday,
00:10:37when her relationship with Philip was called inauthentic by Brooke.
00:10:42How are you feeling about tonight?
00:10:43Um, interesting.
00:10:44Yeah.
00:10:45Like, oh, yeah, interesting.
00:10:47Interesting feelings.
00:10:50I have never had that much connection with a person.
00:10:52I have never had that much intimacy.
00:10:57You know what?
00:10:58I think people think it's bullshit.
00:11:01Yeah.
00:11:04I don't believe you!
00:11:05What?!
00:11:05I don't believe you!
00:11:06I don't believe you!
00:11:08I told you what happened yesterday.
00:11:10Yeah.
00:11:10Like, our authenticity was questioned, you know?
00:11:13Mm.
00:11:13And, like, um, it's going to be interesting to see if it's going to be, you know...
00:11:18Yeah.
00:11:18...raise eyebrows in that sense, but...
00:11:20Yeah.
00:11:21It's so interesting to see what people have to say, because I just see, like, from the perspective that everyone
00:11:26judges through their own lens and how they are as people.
00:11:30If they want to bring in, we'll just say what we think, calmly.
00:11:34But we're not bothered.
00:11:35I know that misery lacks company.
00:11:39And happiness, unfortunately, invites people to try to tear you down.
00:11:47So, I want to protect what we have.
00:11:51Anyway, we're happy we're in a good place.
00:11:52That's it.
00:11:53And all that matters.
00:11:55And, um...
00:11:58I'm here for that, for that only.
00:12:03This morning, Brooke isn't wavering in her thoughts on other couples' relationships, nor the opinions she voiced yesterday.
00:12:11I wouldn't even say it's nasty.
00:12:13I actually just think it's girls calling out fake bitches.
00:12:17Mm.
00:12:17And I'm so glad I did, but then at the same time, I still had this inkling in me that
00:12:21I was like, oh, my God, I'm a horrible person.
00:12:23But then I was like, you know what, Brooke, you're f***ing logical.
00:12:27So, I'd like to see what bullshit Alyssa and Dave f***ing whip up today.
00:12:38Honestly, she's got something coming for her.
00:12:40And obviously, we already know, you know, we know our thoughts on Estella.
00:12:45Oh, I didn't have any thoughts until last night.
00:12:49We don't like it.
00:12:50And then all of a sudden, we're blueing with our neighbour.
00:12:52Well, that's fine.
00:12:54I think Stella, like, honestly, she's as fake as that f***ing plant.
00:13:01She is.
00:13:02And I'm sick of it.
00:13:04She couldn't even really say a red flag.
00:13:06Sorry.
00:13:07No one's relationship is perfect.
00:13:10I certainly, mine isn't, and I'm not sitting there telling porkies.
00:13:14That's the fakeness of it that I don't like.
00:13:19I'll let you throw the daggers today.
00:13:20I'll be the backup.
00:13:22With decisions made,
00:13:25our couples head off for what's set to be a revealing night.
00:13:48Greetings, gents.
00:13:49Greetings.
00:13:51Come on in, grab a seat.
00:13:53Hello, welcome.
00:13:55Hi.
00:13:55Welcome.
00:13:56Hello, guys.
00:13:57Hello.
00:13:58How are we going?
00:13:58Very well.
00:13:59Good.
00:14:00Take a seat.
00:14:01How are we doing?
00:14:02Yeah, good.
00:14:03Very, very well.
00:14:04Good.
00:14:05It's comfy.
00:14:07Ooh.
00:14:08I'll see.
00:14:09Well, these soaps are all right, aren't they?
00:14:20Welcome, ladies.
00:14:22Hello.
00:14:24Good evening.
00:14:28I'm so glad I'm beside you two.
00:14:30How are you doing?
00:14:32How are you doing?
00:14:33How are you doing?
00:14:34Oh, thank you.
00:14:43Welcome, everybody, to your very first commitment ceremony.
00:14:48Now, this is an incredibly pivotal part of the experiment,
00:14:52where each of you get a chance to open your relationship up
00:14:57to allow us insight into what's actually going on.
00:15:02So it is very, very important that you use these
00:15:06and take advantage of them as best you can,
00:15:10because it is here where your relationships can change for the better.
00:15:22All right, let's get our first couple up on the couch.
00:15:30Luke and Mel.
00:15:41Hello.
00:15:42Hi.
00:15:43Hi.
00:15:55Well, I mean, we can see from body language
00:15:58that things are a little tense between you right now.
00:16:04So let's go back in time to the wedding
00:16:09and go from there.
00:16:12Why?
00:16:13So on the wedding day,
00:16:15I was really hoping for me to walk down the aisle,
00:16:19someone to turn around and me to be like,
00:16:23that's my person.
00:16:26But that isn't what I got.
00:16:28Right.
00:16:31And as I was walking down the aisle, all my friends and family turned around and they were sort of
00:16:37like,
00:16:37what are you doing here?
00:16:40And then I realised that Luke wasn't there.
00:16:47Luke ended up coming ten minutes later.
00:16:52I felt like I didn't get my moment.
00:16:54Like, I feel like that moment just turned into something that was really silly.
00:17:00I felt really embarrassed.
00:17:03I felt really embarrassed.
00:17:04I felt like I wanted a fairy tale.
00:17:06Right.
00:17:10And, yeah, it just was a really rocky start.
00:17:22Where were you, Luke?
00:17:26I had left the rings, so we had to turn the limo around and go back and get them and
00:17:32then head back in.
00:17:34But I had the attitude going into the honeymoon, let's just be as positive as we can.
00:17:39Let's try and just, like, make it work on a friends level first.
00:17:44But to be honest, I really struggled.
00:17:47It just felt like Mel was doing whatever she could to just push me away.
00:17:55Yeah, I've just found every day I just, for some reason, it just wasn't working.
00:17:59And every day I got a level of, like, coldness from Mel.
00:18:10One of the observations when we were watching the dinner party was that there was really two Mel's in the
00:18:16room.
00:18:20The one that was with the sisterhood or other people in the group, you came alive.
00:18:27You were full of energy and you were charismatic and social and chatty.
00:18:34But as soon as you were placed next to Luke, a spark had gone out.
00:18:39Like, there was disdain that you had for him, which was hard for us to watch.
00:18:46Yeah, it's, the thing is, I shouldn't have been mean about it.
00:18:52It's just that I thought that Luke had feelings for me and because I wasn't feeling the same, I just
00:18:57wanted to push him away.
00:19:05So, you didn't try to get to know him?
00:19:08We still spoke. Like, I know a lot about Luke.
00:19:10I know that Luke is a cattle farmer. He's lived on the farm for 18 months.
00:19:15But did you feel like you gave it a go, Mel?
00:19:21I explained to Luke that usually when I've been with somebody in the past, it's because I've had that instant
00:19:28connection with that person, that instant spark.
00:19:31But I also explained to Luke that I didn't feel it with Luke on the wedding day.
00:19:38You know, when we first met, Mel, you said you wanted a blonde-haired, blue-eyed guy.
00:19:42That's what you've typically gone out with in the past.
00:19:46Were you disappointed when you, when you didn't get that?
00:19:52A little bit.
00:20:02But also the lateness at the wedding, he was chewing gum when we were doing the vows.
00:20:09He hasn't given it a chance.
00:20:12That's why it hasn't worked.
00:20:16I really did want my fairy tale.
00:20:21I just wanted to feel that spark.
00:20:24But I just couldn't feel it with Luke.
00:20:32Yeah.
00:20:33Alright.
00:20:34Well, this is, this is why we've asked you these questions.
00:20:37Because you need a wake-up call.
00:20:51Mavs isn't about fairy tales.
00:20:52I really did want my fairy tale.
00:20:54And to feel that spark.
00:20:57But I just couldn't feel it with Luke.
00:21:05Yeah.
00:21:06Alright.
00:21:06Well, this is, this is why we've asked you these questions.
00:21:09Because you need a wake-up call.
00:21:15Mavs isn't about fairy tales.
00:21:19It's about real relationships.
00:21:22Real work, real challenges.
00:21:24But most importantly,
00:21:26being open-minded.
00:21:30Your job is to meet a person and go,
00:21:33why have we been matched?
00:21:35I'm going to start to learn.
00:21:38If there's a chemistry now, straight away, great.
00:21:41If there's not, that's fine.
00:21:43I'm going to dig in and I'm going to learn.
00:21:47And what you did, right from the word go,
00:21:51was say,
00:21:53no.
00:21:54You didn't feel the initial spark at the altar
00:21:57and you shut him down.
00:22:01And you've essentially done the very thing
00:22:04that's keeping you single.
00:22:08You've come in with a very preconceived set,
00:22:12ideas about what you want
00:22:14and what you don't want.
00:22:15And what you've got to realise is that
00:22:18you needed someone who was reliable,
00:22:21who had family values.
00:22:23He wants commitment.
00:22:26He's basically able to treat you well.
00:22:29And the real disappointment is that
00:22:31you don't know how good he is
00:22:33because you haven't let him in.
00:22:38Luke, how did that affect you,
00:22:40being on the receiving end of that?
00:22:43Oh, I'd say, like,
00:22:44it definitely knocked my confidence a lot
00:22:47and it definitely, like, made me think,
00:22:52you know, what am I doing wrong?
00:22:53Yeah, it's tough. It hurts.
00:23:02Yeah, I was excited to get to know someone
00:23:05and, you know, have fun with them
00:23:07because I haven't done that for some time.
00:23:11And I really tried to do whatever I could,
00:23:16whether it was give Mel space,
00:23:18be friendly or whatever it was.
00:23:19I genuinely gave it my best shot as a thing.
00:23:36Oh, my God.
00:23:52You okay?
00:23:53Yeah, yeah, I'm fine.
00:23:53There's tissues there if you need it.
00:23:54Oh, thank you.
00:24:12Mel, if you had a chance to do anything differently,
00:24:15what would you do?
00:24:18Yeah, I'm not proud of the way I acted.
00:24:20Genuinely, I'm really embarrassed.
00:24:25If I could take it back, I would.
00:24:27And I would treat Luke with more kindness,
00:24:31just more patience, more of an open heart.
00:24:36Yeah, I would do it very differently.
00:24:44Well, I think it's time for us to go to the decision.
00:24:49Let's go with you first, Luke.
00:24:50Stay or leave.
00:24:53So this was a pretty tough decision for me to make.
00:25:00And I suppose an almost an ignorant part of me
00:25:04didn't want to believe that it wasn't ever going to work.
00:25:08And I kind of saw that the last light being chatting to you guys
00:25:14and maybe that might potentially do something.
00:25:17Right.
00:25:18So...
00:25:20Even though, like, it has been so...
00:25:24tough and everything with us...
00:25:31I don't want to leave it on that note.
00:25:35I think that's great.
00:25:37Yep.
00:25:38Oh, my God, wow.
00:25:41Oh, my God.
00:25:43I love you.
00:25:46Yes.
00:25:47Oh, my God.
00:25:51And what about you, Mel?
00:26:02Obviously, like, this experiment has been a lot harder
00:26:05than I thought it was going to be.
00:26:09And I can see that...
00:26:12Luke and I are different people, unfortunately.
00:26:18So I've decided to right leave.
00:26:28Oh, man, I feel bad.
00:26:36So as we know with the rules of this experiment,
00:26:39that if one person says stay, the other says leave,
00:26:42then they stay for another week
00:26:44to see if they can turn it around.
00:26:47Now, Mel, how do you feel about this
00:26:50and about his decision to stay?
00:26:53He's not quitting.
00:26:53I'm really, really shocked, to be honest.
00:27:02But, yeah, I definitely will take your advice on board.
00:27:04And I really want to prove to Luke that I'm not a mean person...
00:27:09..and I'm not a bad person.
00:27:10We know you're not a mean person.
00:27:12You're not a bad person, either.
00:27:14Mm.
00:27:14But what's important is that you get curious.
00:27:19You open your mind up.
00:27:21Because from what we're hearing,
00:27:23he really didn't get a chance from the word go.
00:27:27You've got a week now where you can actually find out
00:27:32why he's so compatible and break patterns.
00:27:36Okay?
00:27:37Okay.
00:27:37There's no pressure.
00:27:38Just have fun, enjoy each other's company,
00:27:40and get to know one another.
00:27:42As though this is day one of your relationship.
00:27:46All right?
00:27:47Tough session.
00:27:48You did well.
00:27:49Back to the group.
00:27:50Well done, guys.
00:27:54Yay!
00:27:55Give me your hope, mate.
00:27:58You're a good man.
00:28:00I see this as my genuine last crack
00:28:03at giving this a shot.
00:28:04So I'm keen to take what they've said on board
00:28:08and get to know Mel again with a good energy.
00:28:11How are you feeling?
00:28:13Feeling fucked.
00:28:14All right, though.
00:28:16Okay, good.
00:28:17I'm really, really hoping Mel can do the same
00:28:20and put everything in the past behind us.
00:28:24We're going to be positive, yeah.
00:28:28It's time to get our next couple up on the couch.
00:28:37Gia and Scott.
00:28:39I knew it.
00:28:45First of all.
00:28:46Hello.
00:28:47Thank you so much for doing a good job
00:28:49for my beautiful wife and I.
00:28:51Aww.
00:28:53That's very cute.
00:28:53So let's go to the decision, shall we?
00:28:55I'm a happy guy.
00:28:58Tell us about this happiness and this
00:29:01leg-over-leg kind of situation.
00:29:03It's been like this since the moment we met.
00:29:06It's crazy.
00:29:07Like, the moment we saw each other at the wedding,
00:29:09like, both of us straight away were, like,
00:29:11just stoked with who we got.
00:29:13Yeah.
00:29:14It was a feeling I haven't had before.
00:29:15It was pretty crazy.
00:29:16Yeah.
00:29:16Like, I felt this instant connection.
00:29:18Like, our chemistry just went off the bat.
00:29:20And it just...
00:29:21Yeah, it was unreal.
00:29:24Um, and then she pulled me aside and told me about her daughter.
00:29:29Yeah.
00:29:29And I just grabbed her hands and I'm like,
00:29:30I'm fully open to bring her into my life.
00:29:33And for me, I just felt something even stronger,
00:29:35like, just from that.
00:29:39Yeah, like, we get along good.
00:29:42Like, I'm happy.
00:29:43Yeah, it's good.
00:29:44I think we can tell you're happy.
00:29:46Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:29:47For picking up on that.
00:29:48But you want...
00:29:49You want to talk?
00:29:50Because I...
00:29:51Well, I think...
00:29:51Oh, no, because we're both...
00:29:52No, because you're like...
00:29:54You want to talk?
00:29:55I know.
00:29:55I want to talk because we've got so much.
00:29:57Well, I'll get into the honeymoon.
00:29:58So, obviously, the wedding was amazing.
00:29:59Okay.
00:30:00And then we went to Townsville.
00:30:02We both were, like, not wanting to have sex straight away.
00:30:06But we tried to hold off as much as we could.
00:30:08We tried to hold on, but it was getting intense.
00:30:09It was just like...
00:30:11But it was like...
00:30:13We just gave in.
00:30:14We gave in on the honeymoon.
00:30:16And it was so great.
00:30:17And, like, since then, we've obviously, like, we've slept together literally every day since then.
00:30:19Multiple times.
00:30:23Sorry.
00:30:23I'll get too honest.
00:30:24You know, when you start, you can't stop.
00:30:25We're just...
00:30:26Yeah, we're just...
00:30:28And every day, we get closer.
00:30:29Like, it gets better every day, too.
00:30:34Clearly, there's a...
00:30:35Clearly, there's a physical situation.
00:30:38That is very undeniable.
00:30:40The chemistry...
00:30:40We can feel it from here.
00:30:42Yes, all of that.
00:30:43It's palpable.
00:30:44Like, he just ticks all my boxes.
00:30:46And I just feel so comfortable with him.
00:30:48And I feel, like, seen.
00:30:49And, like, that I can be me.
00:30:53I've never had that, to be honest.
00:30:54With him, I think.
00:30:55Aw.
00:30:55Yeah.
00:30:56You're cute.
00:30:57You're cute.
00:31:00I feel like we shouldn't be here right now.
00:31:03I'm telling her right now, I could get out with her right now and we're sweet.
00:31:05Like...
00:31:06I can see that.
00:31:06Yeah.
00:31:10I don't know that, at this point, we have much more to say.
00:31:14Why don't you show us your decision at the same time?
00:31:17At the same time.
00:31:17One, two, and three.
00:31:19Go!
00:31:20Stay a thousand percent.
00:31:21All right.
00:31:22I'm not leaving.
00:31:23I'm not leaving.
00:31:27Beautiful.
00:31:28Honestly, this is not something we see very often.
00:31:31This kind of synergy.
00:31:32No.
00:31:32This kind of just really intense, high-energy enthusiasm.
00:31:36This early on, this experiment.
00:31:37So, for now, keep doing what you're doing.
00:31:39Keep being curious.
00:31:40Keep having fun.
00:31:41Yeah.
00:31:41And I hope you have a great week.
00:31:45Well done, guys.
00:31:45Well done, you guys.
00:31:47Honesty is key.
00:31:48Absolutely.
00:31:50Beautiful.
00:31:54Well done.
00:31:55I thought you guys were about to get a bit frisky on the couch.
00:32:00I love it.
00:32:01It's a bit of a bogan.
00:32:01It's great.
00:32:02And our next couple on the couch, Bec and Danny.
00:32:16Hi, guys.
00:32:17Hello.
00:32:19How's it all going?
00:32:20Look, we, um, it hasn't been easy.
00:32:25We had a beautiful wedding.
00:32:27It was amazing.
00:32:28But in Fiji, we did have a hard time.
00:32:33On the honeymoon, we had one intimate evening.
00:32:36And then, um, Danny stripped it right back.
00:32:42Did that feel like rejection to you?
00:32:45Yeah.
00:32:45Yeah.
00:32:51Um...
00:32:55Like, I thought our sexual chemistry was pretty low.
00:33:03And I was struggling with that.
00:33:05Because in the normal world, if I met a girl like that and there wasn't that chemistry, I'd probably just
00:33:10do a runner.
00:33:12Do you know what you mean?
00:33:13But, um...
00:33:15I sort of, like, for the, uh, rapid resolution...
00:33:19What's the word?
00:33:22Rapid revelation.
00:33:23Yeah.
00:33:24For the card challenge, I sort of brought it out and we had a chat about it.
00:33:28That was intense.
00:33:30And Bec had a cry.
00:33:32And it made me feel like shit because I'd sort of made her cry.
00:33:35Do you know what you mean?
00:33:35But I'd done some reflection and I was like, it lit a fire in my belly, to be honest with
00:33:40you.
00:33:40But it's getting so much better.
00:33:42So much better.
00:33:44It's been, this has been transformative for us this week.
00:33:47Like, I just have to remember that patience is key with intimacy.
00:33:52And also, everyone works at a different pace.
00:33:57Well, I've got to say, you've been faced with a couple of challenges.
00:34:01You've approached them with some maturity, an open mind, willingness to change and to challenge yourself,
00:34:08and to talk about it, which is so promising.
00:34:14And I love that, Bec, you've shown Danny some real vulnerability.
00:34:18You've opened up and you've shown him that you trust him to do that.
00:34:23Maybe, Danny, it's your turn to open up a little bit more this week
00:34:27and to show her some of your soft underbelly.
00:34:30Because there's so much there.
00:34:31And I love that you're starting to sort of create some cracks there in the veneers
00:34:36and open up to each other a little bit more.
00:34:38That's it.
00:34:40I think we're going to go to a decision.
00:34:42Let's do it.
00:34:43Let's go first.
00:34:44We'll start with you, Danny.
00:34:48Right, so nice easy one, but yeah, I'll put stay.
00:34:53Brilliant.
00:34:58And to you, Bec.
00:35:01This was an easy one for me, so I said stay.
00:35:04Of course.
00:35:05Of course.
00:35:07Love it.
00:35:09Well done, guys.
00:35:11Very impressed.
00:35:11Good work.
00:35:18Well done, guys.
00:35:19Thanks.
00:35:20Well done.
00:35:20Not fake.
00:35:21There it is.
00:35:22What?
00:35:23Us.
00:35:24No.
00:35:25No.
00:35:25No one would say that.
00:35:27Who said you guys were fake?
00:35:28Ugh.
00:35:30No.
00:35:32I can't.
00:35:33I cannot stand it.
00:35:40coming up.
00:35:42I feel like not everyone likes your happiness.
00:35:45Brides go head to head.
00:35:48No one has said that.
00:35:49Don't sit up here and make yourself be the victim.
00:35:52I'm feeling great.
00:36:02Let's get our next couple up on the couch.
00:36:06Rachel and Steven.
00:36:15Hello.
00:36:17Hello.
00:36:17That was quite the chuckle.
00:36:20There it is.
00:36:21There it is.
00:36:24Oh, comfy lounge.
00:36:26It is comfy.
00:36:26Might take this one back to the apartment.
00:36:32How have you two been?
00:36:34Yeah, good.
00:36:35It's been a hell of a ride.
00:36:37The wedding was absolutely fantastic.
00:36:41I mean, I was about to make love to the ground by fainting almost.
00:36:46I was just so nervous.
00:36:49You know.
00:36:50But as soon as I saw Rachel, my nerves just immediately dropped.
00:36:57And one thing I can definitely say about the ceremony and everything, it was messy.
00:37:03It was unpolished.
00:37:05It was funny.
00:37:06And I wouldn't want it any other way.
00:37:12Yeah, it was just, I don't know.
00:37:14It was like the goofiness just ensued.
00:37:16It was a lot of fun.
00:37:19It was a lot of laughter.
00:37:20A lot of laughter.
00:37:21It was like a lot.
00:37:23Yeah.
00:37:24We started off at a really big high.
00:37:26And even though we had a couple of kick-ups on the honeymoon with Revelations Week.
00:37:31Can I hold your hand again?
00:37:33No.
00:37:35We're getting closer and closer and shown and we're connected emotionally.
00:37:40We've got this relatability as well.
00:37:43And it's a bit heartbreaking too because we do share a common thing with body image.
00:37:50Yeah, watching Stephen's audition video brought up a lot of emotion for me.
00:37:56It hurt my heart to hear what he had experienced.
00:37:59And that relatability of like what we've experienced in the dating world and what we're looking for.
00:38:08It all connects.
00:38:10We can see it there.
00:38:11We feel it there.
00:38:17And that is a big part of why you're such a good match.
00:38:21So your shared history and, you know, your playfulness is definitely something that we loved about the two of you.
00:38:28Rachel, now it's a good time to ask, how do you feel about this man?
00:38:31How do I feel about my husband?
00:38:39I really like Stephen and, you know, I think you're really handsome and you are amazing the way that you
00:38:47are.
00:38:47And I will tell you every freaking day if I have to.
00:38:53I'm going to hand it to her.
00:38:54Rachel, I can definitely say is the most selfless person I've ever met.
00:39:00She's my number one fan.
00:39:02Like, you are amazing.
00:39:04You are so special.
00:39:06And I really hope that we're going to move in the right direction and we're going to get there.
00:39:10Oh my God.
00:39:13Come on.
00:39:15Awesome.
00:39:16Beautiful.
00:39:17Yes.
00:39:21All right, well, we're going to go to a decision.
00:39:23Yes.
00:39:25Rachel, we'll go to you first.
00:39:26Okay.
00:39:26And I'm following my heart in this moment.
00:39:31Stay in, baby.
00:39:33Wonderful.
00:39:36Excellent.
00:39:37And to you, Stephen.
00:39:39I'm really happy how this week went.
00:39:42So I've decided to stay.
00:39:45Big old capital.
00:39:47Yay.
00:39:51Thank you both.
00:39:52Thank you so much.
00:39:54Well done.
00:39:55Well done.
00:39:56Well done.
00:40:00So sorry.
00:40:04Oh my gosh.
00:40:05I almost died up there.
00:40:08Well done.
00:40:10Well done.
00:40:11Well done.
00:40:18Let's get our next couple up.
00:40:25Steve and Rebecca.
00:40:31Okay.
00:40:32Do you want this high or that's good?
00:40:33I don't know.
00:40:33Let's just sit.
00:40:34Let's just go.
00:40:34Okay.
00:40:35Okay.
00:40:35All right.
00:40:36How's it going?
00:40:37Very happy.
00:40:39Nothing wrong with the wedding day, the connection, everything.
00:40:46It's like I had known Rebecca for a very long time.
00:40:49Yeah.
00:40:52We're very solid and comfortable.
00:41:03And I think we built a friendship very quickly during and after the honeymoon.
00:41:10So I think we've got nothing but progress.
00:41:15Because I mean it's, yeah, we're all good I think.
00:41:22Yeah.
00:41:23Yeah.
00:41:25Yeah.
00:41:25Yeah.
00:41:26Yeah.
00:41:27Yeah.
00:41:39I want to look into this, Rebecca, because I know how big I am.
00:41:43How big of a deal it is for you.
00:41:45Yeah.
00:41:46With your history and the time that you have spent by yourself not being in a relationship.
00:41:51The foundation of you've got to build friendship very quickly in this experience.
00:41:55Yeah.
00:41:55And I think we built that very quickly.
00:41:57I would love to hear from Rebecca.
00:42:04Well, I think at the moment we have a rock solid foundation and I respect that.
00:42:09I get it.
00:42:12But I haven't had a relationship or been in a relationship for eight years.
00:42:16The whole reason I'm here is because I want to find my person.
00:42:20I'm craving affection and I want to feel like I'm desired by my partner.
00:42:28But like, I'm very attracted to Steve.
00:42:31And we're in such a good place on the wedding and the honeymoon that I was expecting a little
00:42:36bit more from him with the romance.
00:42:41I'm more conservative, so it is a slow pace with me.
00:42:47But do you feel that sense of attraction to her, of wanting to lean into that romantic
00:42:53feeling with Rebecca?
00:42:55Do I now?
00:42:57Have you since you've met her and in this experience?
00:42:59As I said, the progress, it was 100%.
00:43:01We were heading that way.
00:43:03And do you not now?
00:43:08Yes, I do.
00:43:09Yes, I still do.
00:43:13Yes.
00:43:13That's the answer.
00:43:22Why is he saying it?
00:43:25I don't know.
00:43:26Just pretend that it's all good.
00:43:30Can I ask, Rebecca, has Steve made you feel desired?
00:43:39Don't hold back.
00:43:48No.
00:44:03So, there is that doubt that Steve does look at me.
00:44:25other than just like I don't want a friend I don't need another friend I
00:44:28didn't come here to make friends do you think he looks at you as a friend at the
00:44:34moment yeah absolutely I'm scared now to be honest
00:45:00because now I'm freaking yeah I know but now I'm scared of the rejection
00:45:03oh yeah I know that's that's my biggest fear is being rejected
00:45:11look I know that we're both in this position because obviously we're just getting to know
00:45:16each other but I look at him more than a friend now like I'm just like I'm terrified
00:45:25like I was I'm terrified of rejection from Steve
00:45:31say the truth I'm just I would like to think I'm being respectful I know this is an experiment but
00:45:40I think we're going as fast well I'm going as fast as I possibly can I don't I don't oh
00:45:57she has just told you though that she looks at you as more than a friend she's very attracted to
00:46:02you
00:46:05yes and the challenge here Steve is that what you're saying is you're not
00:46:10looking at her romantically it's platonic so what this is all about is now getting on to
00:46:20the same page did you know that you were at a crossroads over this particular issue damn
00:46:31wouldn't call it a crossroads I knew that there was a different speed in which we were both wanting
00:46:35to possibly go but I'm I'm understanding how that's an issue for Rebecca for sure I'm definitely
00:46:42open to a progressing that side of things
00:46:53let's go to the decision stay or leave what you're going to do let's go with you first Steve yeah
00:46:59yeah
00:47:00um there's so many amazing qualities to Rebecca so um yeah I'm definitely not going anywhere so yeah
00:47:08stay and what about you Rebecca what you got for a stay or leave
00:47:18um I'm going to stay you can go back to the group all right well done
00:47:39it was confronting yeah not not easy up there guys like I said I don't need another friend I'm not
00:47:46here for that but I'm also really glad that now he knows that I need more so I'm really excited
00:47:52for
00:47:52the task to come like I hope he'll step up yeah yeah thank you let's get our next couple up
00:48:07Chris and Brooke
00:48:14hello hello hello how are you how are you thank you how we going hey how we doing good nervous
00:48:24a little
00:48:25bit a little bit how are you going oh hey nice try we're actually wondering about uh what you're nervous
00:48:36about ah I think it's been a pretty bit a bit of a roller coaster after the ceremony I was
00:48:46not sure
00:48:46about Chris your vows were a little bit naggy at the time he said that there is a 0.0000001
00:48:58% chance
00:48:59that this is going to work wow so I was a bit like what are you doing here so Chris
00:49:10did you not
00:49:10have faith in the mesh that we had done so I was very pessimistic yes but I've been proven wrong
00:49:20I'm
00:49:21sorry I have been proven wrong oh interesting you will take that apology um carry on what happened
00:49:34after those vows because it sounds like you were a little unnerved yeah I was and it probably wasn't
00:49:40until day two that like we started to get a deeper connection and I could actually see something
00:49:47that could start to evolve so we went into revelations week thinking that it was going to be so easy
00:49:55but then I watched the audition tapes and there was a lot of things that he said in the video
00:50:02that I
00:50:02don't agree with like what um that he hasn't found a connection with girls and the only girls that
00:50:09he gets with are hot and dumb I was being really blunt with my labeling of terms well let me
00:50:16explain
00:50:16what you actually said you said you three X or three red flags were fake tan clingy girls and fat
00:50:27people
00:50:37that's done some big damage
00:50:42how did you explain your way out of this one what did you say to her
00:50:49how did you handle it I took full responsibility for that video um me I've I've come from a footy
00:51:00I've
00:51:01been playing football my whole life yeah I think that's a cop-out I've been in this environment where
00:51:07that sort of promotes this sort of behavior okay I want to go there with you why is it inappropriate
00:51:22to talk about women in that way it's degrading correct that sends a message to women you're not
00:51:32respecting them you're looking them as objects that you can use throw away
00:51:45disappointed in myself
00:51:48being with Brooke now the person that I've been the last two weeks it's it's a dramatic change
00:51:55yeah and that's the thing like I've seen a different side to him and that's why I'm still
00:51:59sitting here and I know that he's trying to be a better person and change I think you know as
00:52:06much
00:52:06as it did set us back I you know I hope that we can progress because we do have a
00:52:11great connection
00:52:12together so let's go to the decision let's go with you first stay or leave Chris I think mine's pretty
00:52:22obvious I'm staying yeah okay what about you no I think that there's still definitely more to
00:52:31explore so I've done stay with the poo emoji all right and with that you can go back to the
00:52:42group
00:52:43thanks guys thanks thank you coming up fool she's a fool a tense end to the first commitment ceremony
00:53:07I don't understand why you're coming at me I'm not coming at you I'm so pissed off she just talked
00:53:15out of her arms
00:53:26let's get our next couple up
00:53:32Julia and Grayson
00:53:34hey guys
00:53:50well to look at the two of you you're looking very comfortable together
00:53:54yeah yeah we are pretty comfortable tell us how are things going really positive at the wedding like
00:54:02Jules for me owned the aisle she just had this beaming smile and in that moment everything sort
00:54:08of slowed down for me and put me at ease and I felt safe I love that yeah it was
00:54:15just mind-blowing as
00:54:17you know as you know I'm a bisexual woman so I didn't know if there was going to be a
00:54:22woman there
00:54:22a man there what you know who it was going to be but the moment I sort of locked eyes
00:54:27with Grayson I
00:54:28felt at ease we have so many values that are aligned you know he is very open-minded and this
00:54:37is
00:54:37something that I really value about Grayson you know he doesn't shy away from new things and that
00:54:45is something that I find really attractive but you know taking it slow is important to me
00:54:52so for us I think it's been about building a foundation of friendship first and foremost
00:55:01and is that what it's about for you too
00:55:04yeah absolutely I think it absolutely is um but I I you know I'm I don't want to get caught
00:55:11in that
00:55:11space I would I want to I want to be able to shift into a romantic place and that takes
00:55:16both of us
00:55:18now Jules made it very clear on our wedding night and said look I'd like to take this slow very
00:55:22slow
00:55:23and I said well if that's what it's going to take I've got all the time in the world to
00:55:27fall in love
00:55:28but I just want to build some form of relationship and create a space of safety and trust for her
00:55:34to
00:55:34to flourish and for me that brings up a few questions I love the idea of building a strong
00:55:45foundation of friendship I think that's super important but it's not friendship at first sight
00:55:52it is marriage at first sight and the time here is limited and it is meant to fast-track the
00:56:01way a
00:56:01relationship can build that safety and trust and it sounds to me like Julia you set the pace and
00:56:08grace and then you said oh well okay it has to be both people coming together not one adjusting to
00:56:18the
00:56:23other so I'm wondering how that feels for you look it's it's um I mean I am here to fall
00:56:38in love and
00:56:38find someone to fall in love with um so would I have liked it to be a little further down
00:56:45the line
00:56:46yeah but I mean if I see small steps taken daily or you know if I see us sort of
00:56:56you know progressing
00:56:58and and so is there progression I wonder is there romance between you um I wouldn't say at this point
00:57:05there's there's been much romance no is that a conscious decision something you decided was not
00:57:22gonna happen you're waiting I'd love to say that like yeah it it's really coming across here like
00:57:29I'm the one leading this but I'm just honoring my process I wanted to take it slow moving into a
00:57:38space
00:57:39of romance I really need to feel emotionally safe and connected so yeah I just don't want it to be
00:57:49coming across like I'm the one who's like no it's not like that it's a dance and I think we're
00:57:56both
00:57:56trying to kind of like work each other out he's reading me I'm reading him Grayson is that a fair
00:58:05call
00:58:08no it's just because I because all the issues and all the conversations we've been having are purely
00:58:13about you Jules
00:58:32I just don't want it to be coming across like I'm the one who's like no it's not like that
00:58:37I think we're both
00:58:38trying to kind of like work each other out he's reading me I'm reading him
00:58:47Grayson is that a fair call
00:58:51no it's just because I because all the issues and all the conversations we've been having are purely
00:58:56about you Jules I I on a daily basis since the honeymoon it was just all like everything was
00:59:10just compounding on how you were feeling and I just showed up and I was there for you I've been
00:59:16patient
00:59:16open I was doing everything I could to to support Jules so look to be honest I think it's been
00:59:27far
00:59:27outweighed in regards to effort I really don't feel that that is fair to be honest Grayson but
00:59:38that's that's a reality for me Jules well I'm just okay so I think that there may have been some
00:59:46sweeping under the rug because I didn't actually know that Grayson was feeling some of these things
00:59:51and I think that's something that we should chat about more um at the end of the day it's about
01:00:00really how you each hear what the other is saying and also do your part to lean in not only
01:00:08put walls up
01:00:09and keep the other away because the defensive part you have loads of experience with you've been
01:00:14doing that for years you wouldn't be here if that hadn't been the case in the past
01:00:21I feel that yeah yeah yeah I I believe we're both having a giving this a good nudge um oh
01:00:28and we can
01:00:29see that and I guess that's why we're we're you know gently yeah challenging you here there's so
01:00:34much potential here so with that said we're going to go to the decision and we're going to go to
01:00:42you
01:00:42Julia um well there's so much here that I want to continue to explore so it's a stay yeah
01:00:53wonderful and to you Grayson yeah um look I have had so much fun and I want to give this
01:00:58everything I've got and so yeah I chose to stay
01:01:07wonderful thank you thanks so much guys have a wonderful week
01:01:25all right let's get our next couple up
01:01:30Alyssa and David
01:01:55all right where are we gonna start how are things right now
01:01:59things are fantastic I don't know how you guys did it you guys are wizards but like
01:02:06you guys nailed everything ah when I um saw her walking down the aisle straight away I was like
01:02:12you nailed the look what is her personality like um then the first thing she did when we did our
01:02:19vows
01:02:19is she she said she wasn't going to marry me until I got down on one knee and proposed
01:02:28um straight away it was a big move from you it was a ballsy move it was a ballsy move
01:02:34it was but I love
01:02:36that because just showed me that she's direct she's sharp she's honest
01:02:45and that's something I've asked for
01:02:48she I didn't know that no it's early days but I care for Alyssa a lot you know I definitely
01:02:56have
01:02:56feelings for her the amount of things that we we're literally the same in is crazy so you guys
01:03:02literally went a line ticking my boxes values religion even like in our childhood and our
01:03:09upbringings and it's just not just listening to that it sounds like you've been asking each other a
01:03:13lot of questions we've literally been staying up yeah later I was just talking getting curious
01:03:18so curious but also like you know just skipping bullshit she sounds like an infomercial
01:03:27selling hair products desperately at 3am when you're tea with you this is fantastic we're going to go to
01:03:37the decision let's let's go with you first Alyssa stay or leave capital stay with a smiley face because
01:03:44I'm really happy oh I love that and David oh this was very tough oh yeah I went with stay
01:03:57fabulous great work you two you can go back to the group okay well done guys
01:04:12and last up on the couch Stella and Philip
01:04:21hello hello you two hi welcome thank you how are you both going yeah we're going
01:04:32great the wedding was unreal I saw her and I was just like wow so instant attraction oh and uh
01:04:42told her she's cool I got her and then uh you fast forward to the honeymoon and then we just
01:04:47started to realize that we see the world in the same way family friends are super important we like
01:04:52similar music we eat the same food we go train and do all this kind of stuff and I'm fully
01:04:57into her
01:04:58like I always tell her looking at her I'm kissing her all the time and it's kind of helped with
01:05:03you
01:05:03know like there's different levels of intimacy as well like we've given each other full body massages
01:05:07that have lasted an hour longer oh god blows can I just make an observation we're sitting here and
01:05:19looking at you two your eye contact is unbelievable yeah we do have a lot of that like you directly
01:05:27stare into his eyes so when you say you've got a high level of intimacy you can see it yeah
01:05:34and it like to be
01:05:35honest I kind of also want to protect it in a way um yeah what do you mean just protect
01:05:44it for the time
01:05:45being yeah I feel like um not everyone likes your happiness mmm oh are you suggesting that some people
01:06:01here find your happiness difficult to swallow it felt in the moment yeah are the red and green flags there
01:06:10was questions raised you know as in like it wasn't authentic you know what we had
01:06:21what exactly are they saying you know that me sitting on his lap and giving kisses at the dinner
01:06:26party was like wasn't authentic it was more of a performance yeah yeah and it really is not like I'm
01:06:34here to show up for myself and for my partner what so no one cares and we're not jealous okay
01:06:42who in the
01:06:43group feels like this is a performance and it's not genuine I mean look I'll be honest
01:07:11at the start I did feel like it was a little bit of a performance and it's not genuine I
01:07:19mean look I'll be
01:07:21honest at the start I did feel like it was a little bit of a performance because I was like
01:07:26well this is very hot and heavy very early on so I was like wow like sounds too good to
01:07:33be true it
01:07:34wasn't like I was being like this is fake it was some of the comments of we're looking at baby
01:07:41names
01:07:41and already falling in love with each other that was seemed full-on do you know what I I think
01:07:49you
01:07:49guys are gonna have babies and you and you falling in love so let's move with positivity what anyone
01:07:55else thinks because what you guys have you know is real and that's all that matters we're just doing
01:08:03our thing like it's it's good and it should it should be good should be fun and that's particularly the
01:08:08reason why I feel like I want to protect it I'm freaking fuming
01:08:21she's playing the victim I guess you know it's kind of sad to learn that at the age of 32
01:08:27I have
01:08:28to relearn that not everyone is wishing you happiness
01:08:36but no one's saying that we're not happy for you like no one has said that no one yesterday said
01:08:42that
01:08:42we're not happy for you
01:08:46so you don't sit up here and make yourself be the victim because that's how it is
01:08:53oh I don't know if she's being the victim I think that she's just trying to express that
01:08:57there can be a bit of mean girl energy sometimes and maybe she's just literally same though
01:09:06don't worry I was called fake yesterday
01:09:12Alissa shut up because all you do is speak with an infomercial voice pipe down okay no I'm just saying
01:09:18there were like names called yesterday we're done with it you told everyone fake you roll your eyes at
01:09:26everyone Alissa far out okay guys we'll just bring it back down
01:09:40you know the good thing though Stella by bringing this up immediately I watch for Philip's reaction
01:09:46and his reaction is he's got your back
01:09:51and that's the thing I like I'm here to match his energy we do align on so many different levels
01:09:57and
01:09:58I said at the end of the day I'm going to give my heart fully if I get hurt I
01:10:03get hurt that's going
01:10:03to be a lesson for me but I will not try to self-sabotage myself by playing it safe because
01:10:10I think
01:10:12for myself I'm not looking anything less than a soulmate level connection so you think he could
01:10:20be a soulmate for you I think we if we heading the way we heading yes
01:10:34definitely I feel the same as well like yeah I feel really blessed to have been like matched
01:10:38with Stella and it's amazing to see you both thriving and growing and doing really what you're meant to
01:10:45do in this experiment which is be curious learn about the other and find a way to come together
01:10:51so having said that let's go to the decision and we're going to start with Philip yes I've got
01:11:02no reason to go anywhere right now we just start we just got here so it's all right starting up
01:11:08thanks
01:11:08that's a strong stay and Stella oh we have a little love heart yeah
01:11:19keep doing what you're doing you guys
01:11:34I'm not going to sit there and be happy for someone when they call out a story that didn't even
01:11:39happen
01:11:45not one person yesterday at the lunch said they were unhappy for your happiness
01:11:50so don't put words in other people's mouths and make it out like we're not happy for you
01:11:55you also went around to everyone in the room having your opinion
01:11:58everyone had their opinion so don't that's what I'm saying playing the victim
01:12:04because you had your opinion as well as everyone um look I think what you brought up yesterday at the
01:12:14very end of the whole thing brought up what that I didn't support Mel enough in Mel's and Luke's
01:12:22situation Mel brought that up babe Mel brought that up not me it was all wrapped up no it wasn't
01:12:29babe
01:12:30you can't blame me you can't blame me for that hold it there guys hold it there guys
01:12:35I'm f***ing feeling bitch
01:12:41fool
01:12:47what you brought up yesterday that I didn't support Mel enough in Mel's and Luke's situation
01:12:54Mel brought that up babe Mel brought that up not me
01:13:01you can't blame me you can't blame me for that hold it there guys hold it there guys
01:13:07this is a conversation for another day it's not the place now but we will revisit this
01:13:21I'm f***ing feeling bitch
01:13:27fool
01:13:29she's a fool
01:13:32no don't tell me it's alright she's just making shit out of her ass
01:13:37all right tonight we've heard a lot of revelations you may find that this was very confronting
01:13:46buckle up because there is plenty more of this to come and this week there are further challenges
01:13:53coming your way
01:13:56so on that note please give it everything you've got thanks for tonight
01:14:02and good luck thanks everyone thank you good night get me out of here that girl sucks
01:14:14she's just honestly can we please have a chat love babe to be honest
01:14:18I don't understand why you're coming at me I'm not coming at you no one cares about your relationship
01:14:23we're not jealous at all doll
01:14:32you good not really I'm just taking a moment but she was just coming at me again
01:14:41yeah it is emotional I don't know it just feels unwarranted
01:14:47hey come here good job you did very well
01:14:51it wasn't about anyone but me and philip and me wanting to protect what we have
01:14:57and not wanting to be questioned and it's not my intention like to fight with people here like
01:15:03i'm not i'm not that person and i will never be like i don't care like they can throw s***
01:15:10at me
01:15:11for all i care i'm not here for that i'm here for my person that's it
01:15:18sorry i don't know i don't know how to support you but you don't need to support me okay okay
01:15:23um okay tell me what to do i'm sorry i'll just sit there okay don't speak i'll sit there
01:15:30i'm so pissed off she just pulled out of her arse no one gives a about your relationship babe
01:15:39everyone's here for themselves so focus on that but also when you're bursting out saying that you're in
01:15:47kids names after five days of course everyone's gonna have you know ideas that it's a little bit
01:15:53fake like prove me wrong prove everyone wrong because i guarantee everyone is saying it not just me
01:16:01you know she's a snitch as well sorry that's all i have to say
01:16:10i don't need to say anymore i don't give a about her she sucks and dog
01:16:17i never want to see that go again don't put me in a room with her
01:16:31i want you all to create your ultimate fantasy night kiss me really kiss me
01:16:43i need to learn a few things i can't say intimacy week turns up the heat
01:16:48that's all
01:16:50then wednesday the most explosive dinner party
01:16:54you're not coming for my husband ever i don't want to be sitting at a table with that going on
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