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Love Is Blind - Season 10 - Episode 11: See Where the Chips Fall
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00:00:11You
00:00:16Best defender I've seen in a minute. Don't do tricks. I don't know. That's not a trick. That's normal
00:00:25Look at you
00:00:28Well, it's coming to my face now. I get so scared. I'm just gonna let you score
00:00:38Yay our marriage lesson is easy peasy
00:00:47Five six seven and here comes the spin now you can take her nice up turn out that was beautiful
00:00:56And then just together. Oh, yeah, I like it
00:01:29Let's fall in love
00:01:31They love to show off. I love that got a nice dinner plans final date before the weddings kind of
00:01:37crazy
00:01:39Meeting your fam
00:01:40I was like one of the best nights of my life how Tina and Brandon opened up their home like
00:01:45he wanted to use bourbon collection
00:01:46And like Tina's like go upstairs and we have fresh towels. We have this and we have that. It's like
00:01:50How they showed up for us in that moment is how I expect like us to show up for others
00:01:57to as a household
00:01:58You want someone to feel at home in your home. It's so important to me
00:02:02To like create a home like that same
00:02:06So a g-man I try to call mr.. I try to say mr.. Nice I knew he was gonna
00:02:12be like oh
00:02:14my gosh, I have to come in like
00:02:16The iron fist of like breeze dad and like my baby girl is getting married like I need to be
00:02:21so critical
00:02:24You're cheesing like are you laughing at me? Are you happy?
00:02:28I'm so like it's just like so weird for me. I'm like being so honest
00:02:32I feel like weirdly me and him are like a lot more like than
00:02:36Either must whatever you maybe admit even just like little mannerisms. It's like slightly look over make sure like you're
00:02:42good
00:02:42It's just like always
00:02:44Hold the door paying for stuff. I don't know. I feel like
00:02:48He can see me as a normal guy. It was just really nice. We just kept talking about stuff and
00:02:53he's like, oh, she'll do that. Yep
00:02:56Oh, you already know that and I think you just said one place like I trust you kids like even
00:03:00like when we were leaving
00:03:01He's like well might need to get a tux or something here soon. Don't we I didn't know what I
00:03:04want
00:03:05And I was I wanted it to be us
00:03:07You are just like a boss bitch and you do what you want when you want and the fact that
00:03:13I choose me every day
00:03:15Makes me even feel confident more about myself
00:03:17Because like I am like I know what I was so much and I said like I want this man
00:03:23So like that makes you feel like hell. Yeah, she wants me. Yeah, but that's interesting
00:03:28Because like you are not getting the best of me
00:03:31Like I'm not myself right now
00:03:33And it's crazy that you're falling in love with this part of me because like this is not my best
00:03:37self
00:03:37There's gonna be some days where you need your resets that believe me. I won't
00:03:45Ever take offense to it you're grinding your ass off going to work, and I can just see
00:03:50Obviously and just feel some of the stresses that you've been under but you will
00:03:54Even if you come home like tired and exhausted you still at least like give me a hug. Give me
00:03:58a kiss at least a little smile
00:04:00I think even on some of my worst days
00:04:02You know how to talk to me the moments that I have
00:04:07I've needed you you've been there and that means like the world to me
00:04:12I feel like I even fall in love with you like more and more each day
00:04:19But each night we get to go to sleep and just like this is awesome
00:04:23Each time I wake up even though you're like, I need you to get me up earlier
00:04:27Those five minutes in the morning when we finally let me cuddle you because you wanted to be away from
00:04:32me all night
00:04:33Not that. Not all night. Ew. But, um
00:04:36It's just like those little moments. I'm like, feels like a forever thing
00:04:41I know you're gonna be a good mom and especially since we're dreamers. That's all I'm thinking about right now.
00:04:44I'm just like, yeah
00:04:46our little left-footed midfielder playing well and
00:04:50You on the sidelines cheering him on and
00:04:54Well lists are endless. This is if it's a six-hour train ride. I could feel the time of why
00:04:58you'd be a good wife
00:04:59Okay, stop it
00:05:03Well, let me just like talk about why the reasons I love Connor. Okay, I have heard my friends talk
00:05:09about dating
00:05:09I've heard them talk about
00:05:11Marriages and like all these things and everybody kept saying like when you know, you know
00:05:15Talking to you like and I literally had butterflies heart palpitations everything in between
00:05:22Like it was just like I
00:05:24Physically it was like unwell like I was like oh my god. This is the feeling they're talking about like
00:05:29I'm insane
00:05:30Like this is crazy. Yeah, I was like done. She's getting married put it all on Connor
00:05:35I fell in love with you
00:05:36If it wasn't you it was nobody and what's crazy is I know
00:05:42What it's like to feel loved now?
00:05:45Like you fucking love me
00:05:49I know you do you love me
00:05:52Like you bring me flowers every day you run down to the
00:05:59garage to greet me on my way home from work
00:06:03You sometimes are my punching bag and you're like you're so cute when you do that
00:06:08being a bitch
00:06:10Like you love me
00:06:13I'm a psycho
00:06:16I'm crazy
00:06:18You even call me you're like you're a lunatic. I was like I know and you love me
00:06:21You're my lunatic. I don't have to be anybody who I'm not
00:06:25Never I can be me you loving me has opened up my eyes to be like I am deserving of
00:06:32this
00:06:33I should have somebody that loves every bit of me every piece of me and to find somebody like that
00:06:38is insane
00:06:39you really taught me like
00:06:42What love is
00:06:45To our last date
00:06:48In this experiment money crazy finding my favorite person ever
00:06:55So come on
00:07:06Well africa events
00:07:08I gotta go play with the monkey
00:07:09I gotta go play with the monkey
00:07:12I'm returning you to sender
00:07:15Bringing me home
00:07:16I'm bringing you home
00:07:23Hi, how are you?
00:07:25Oh my gosh
00:07:25Good
00:07:26Hello
00:07:26Oh my gosh
00:07:27Fun
00:07:28Anything you don't want slobber on remove now
00:07:31Okay
00:07:32Um so here at the columbus sioux we have 17 giraffe we have quite a few this is bobby
00:07:37Hi handsome
00:07:39He is actually our breeding bull of the herd
00:07:42Oh all right bobby
00:07:43He's got four lovely ladies in the house
00:07:45Look at you
00:07:47And here she comes one of them right now is zuri
00:07:50As you can see they don't think they get fed at all
00:07:53You are a lot of people
00:07:56You are a you know you are
00:07:59Emma you gotta control your man
00:08:01You gotta control your man
00:08:08There you go buddy
00:08:10You're my best friend
00:08:12Wow
00:08:12Another head of lettuce please
00:08:14He's like give me that
00:08:16Just give it all
00:08:22All gone
00:08:25Hey this is so cool
00:08:27That was really cool
00:08:30I've never done anything like that so
00:08:32Oh shit oh
00:08:33Oh
00:08:33Is that my boy?
00:08:35Wait
00:08:35Probably
00:08:36So cool
00:08:37This is so cool this is a great finale date before our wedding
00:08:41It is
00:08:42You smell like giraffe
00:08:44Do you?
00:08:46A little bit
00:08:46What does that smell like?
00:08:47Come on over
00:08:50Feeding girass
00:08:51For our anniversary
00:08:52Every year we like pick something on our bucket list and like
00:08:56Do something super like cool and wacky
00:08:58And whether the cool shit is like
00:09:00Literally walking around the zoo together and like getting
00:09:03Getting culvers and a sweet treat
00:09:06I want to be able to like have shared experiences before
00:09:10Or we start a family and then like when that family comes like then it's like
00:09:16You get to do cool experiences with them it's like Disney World and just like all of that stuff
00:09:21But it's like I want to do things with us that we can do while we're young
00:09:25Right
00:09:26Then do stuff
00:09:28Post
00:09:29Right I mean I that's I couldn't agree more like
00:09:33Is that
00:09:35I don't know you said with family and stuff like you've been thinking more on that
00:09:38I have been thinking about it and like
00:09:43I
00:09:46Like I a hundred percent think you are the right partner like I
00:09:52Don't
00:09:54Like I don't think like I just I picture like
00:09:57What I was thinking
00:09:58No you're laughing so I'm sorry
00:10:00No no I um
00:10:01And but like the way like I feel with you like safe and stable and like
00:10:05Confident like it's one in a million like I
00:10:11I
00:10:11Am continuing to be open-minded yeah
00:10:13That's all
00:10:14You just brought it up this way
00:10:15No no
00:10:16I think like you're thinking
00:10:16But I but I am thinking about it I want to show you I'm thinking about it because like I
00:10:19I am like and I see
00:10:23I see it like I do see a family with you and I see
00:10:27um
00:10:28Sorry I was like what is that um the drops are talking
00:10:36Go on
00:10:38It's like in Cabo and I can't stop laughing
00:10:40um
00:10:41No I like I see that with you but I
00:10:45I think that will like also continue just to grow with time sure
00:10:52Sure I get it
00:10:57You're very cute
00:11:11It doesn't feel like it's only been a month and a half like I feel like I've known you for
00:11:16way longer than that
00:11:17Yeah
00:11:18That feels like so long ago
00:11:20To see how far we've come
00:11:21It's just crazy
00:11:23How much like has happened in a matter of six weeks
00:11:28A lot can change in six weeks
00:11:30Mm-hmm
00:11:31You had 16 girlfriends and I had 16 boyfriends
00:11:34Uh that was nice
00:11:36Shut up
00:11:37It's the only time I'll be able to do that
00:11:40Ever
00:11:41Take me back honestly
00:11:43That was when life was good
00:11:46I can't stand you
00:11:49Oh man
00:11:50What a ride
00:11:51What a ride
00:11:53You're gonna get married in a week
00:11:57It's crazy when you say it like that
00:11:59Yeah
00:12:02Oh wow
00:12:04Let's go sit by the fire
00:12:06I guess I haven't had this pressure before of like the marriage
00:12:10It's more been in a relationship where it's like you can just kind of drag things out
00:12:13What we have like foundation-wise can last a lifetime
00:12:18Yeah
00:12:19You're the first person I've met that I felt like
00:12:23It's worth giving up my independence
00:12:25Yeah
00:12:27Well that's good
00:12:28I would say I'm definitely like worried about it
00:12:30You were snoring last night legitimately
00:12:34Sound like a lumberjack
00:12:36I'm a cute sleeper
00:12:38To each their own
00:12:42So you're still gonna choose me even though I snored like you
00:12:45I don't know you kind of sounded like Godzilla last night
00:12:48Did I really?
00:12:52Oh yeah Paul Bunyan that's your nickname
00:12:55Stop talking
00:12:59My mind like at night has been racing
00:13:01I haven't been able to like sleep
00:13:03Of course we could say yes and but it's just like it's a lot
00:13:08And it's definitely been waiting on me
00:13:10Yeah
00:13:10I need to like get away everything is like great and amazing but I'm just trying to like
00:13:16Really like process it I need like time to just like really sit because it's like
00:13:20It is a big decision I feel like it's starting to like weigh on me like in a good way
00:13:24But it's like I got to really sit with my thoughts and kind of like literally go ghost
00:13:29Mm-hmm
00:13:30I'll probably do like a day where I'm just like
00:13:33I'm unreachable so completely off the grid it's like
00:13:37Completely like complete dark day like phone probably won't even be on
00:13:41Do you feel like you're not certain if you're gonna say yes?
00:13:47Like I'm like obviously I I would say like I'm 98% there
00:13:52I told you my biggest fear
00:13:53Mm-hmm
00:13:54Is getting to the aisle and it being like a no
00:13:57Yeah
00:13:57I can see myself saying yes
00:14:00Yeah
00:14:00I wouldn't have my family come here if I didn't if I wasn't gonna say yes
00:14:04Even though I already had a wedding dress
00:14:06Mm-hmm
00:14:07Like trying on wedding dresses again when I tried it on this time it was like exciting because I'm like
00:14:15I can see myself marrying you
00:14:18I can be a wife and like have a husband it does kind of feel like we're just in this
00:14:24fairy tale
00:14:25Trust me I get it
00:14:28We're saying yes at the altar
00:14:31Well there is one thing that I want to talk about
00:14:34Someone told me
00:14:36That
00:14:38Like the dress fitting day they heard that I don't like kiss you enough or tell you you're pretty enough
00:14:43and to like remind me to do that
00:14:46I was pissed because I was like oh i'm being talked about again in a negative way
00:14:51They asked what davante is gonna say
00:14:54When he sees you in this dress and he said well, he's a man a few words. I don't know
00:14:58what he's going to say
00:14:59Yeah, I think everybody
00:15:02Knows like how I feel about you and it's very obvious
00:15:05Yeah, but I know you're not somebody that's ever going to be like gushing over me
00:15:10Yeah, it's like not your personality and that's something that like i've had to come to terms with
00:15:14Like accepting that like that's not yeah, like how you show me that you think that i'm pretty that makes
00:15:22sense
00:15:23Obviously, I would like for you to tell me that you think that i'm pretty right
00:15:27But I also know that that's not
00:15:30How you are
00:15:32There's one more thing
00:15:34I know the sacrifices that i've made to get to where i'm at
00:15:38I don't ever want to lose that lose
00:15:40Half of that or a lot of that and like I don't know so
00:15:46Prenups and I don't think that was like something we even talked about in the pods
00:15:49So i'm not saying that's directed towards you that is more for like where I feel
00:15:56Good in my my own space
00:16:00You're entitled to feel how you feel like obviously you have worked very hard to get where you are
00:16:04Yeah, to build the life that you have but I don't know
00:16:12I don't want to be married to somebody that feels like they have to protect themselves from me
00:16:17I don't think people intend to be spiteful until they have the opportunity to do it
00:16:21I'm not spiteful like that's not who I am. That's never going to be who I am. I don't know.
00:16:26I guess it's just how I feel
00:16:29Sometimes you don't know why you feel the way you feel
00:16:37Yeah
00:16:37So is this you saying you want one?
00:16:42I think it would make me
00:16:45Feel comfortable
00:16:48I wish you would have brought this up sooner
00:16:50Well, the reason I didn't is because I was like I'm not going to jump right into this one
00:16:55It's like we don't even know what everything else looks like
00:17:00So if I didn't feel comfortable with the prenup is that
00:17:04Hmm
00:17:08I don't know
00:17:11I guess it's just something I'll have to decide if I sign
00:17:15That paper will I be able to
00:17:18Not think about the fact that there's
00:17:20That in the background. Yeah
00:17:23It just feels like
00:17:27You have a plan
00:17:29It's a plan to not always fight for it
00:17:33Well, I can tell you one thing that I'm still here for a reason
00:17:37You know that I'm not a quitter
00:17:39I'm not asking you to make a decision right this second
00:17:42Sleep on it
00:17:43But we're going to be life partners. We got to have everything out on the table
00:17:47I've stayed because you actually like want to be here
00:17:52Mm-hmm
00:17:53You know you said actions speak louder than words and your actions
00:17:57The actions have definitely shown me
00:18:00Okay
00:18:01That it's worth staying
00:18:03I didn't come this far to come this far
00:18:05Were you planning on having this conversation night?
00:18:07Yeah
00:18:07Oh
00:18:07Yeah, tonight
00:18:09Save the best for past
00:18:13Because you knew that I wouldn't take it well
00:18:14That's why
00:18:16See, I know you
00:18:20I think we should pray
00:18:21When in doubt
00:18:22What we need
00:18:25Okay
00:18:26Dear Heavenly Father, I thank you for this day
00:18:28I thank you
00:18:30For Devante
00:18:31We trust you
00:18:32And, you know, if we do choose to get married
00:18:36God, I pray blessings over our marriage
00:18:38Over our future
00:18:39Over our kids
00:18:40Over our finances
00:18:42I just thank you
00:18:43For Devante
00:18:45I thank you
00:18:46For everything that you've brought us through
00:18:49And that you'll continue to bring us through
00:18:50Thank you that we're going to be able to celebrate with our family
00:18:53Next week
00:18:54And I just
00:18:56Thank you for the journey
00:18:57Amen
00:18:57Amen
00:19:01Are you going for a high-five there?
00:19:03I don't know how I was going there
00:19:04Oh
00:19:07Ah
00:19:10It's going to be okay
00:19:12The sun will rise again tomorrow
00:19:14Oh, not here
00:19:18Not in a while
00:19:19The clouds will rise again tomorrow
00:19:23Oh
00:19:38Yay
00:19:40All right
00:19:41I'm excited
00:19:42Me too
00:19:43Otherworld is Emma and I's favorite place to go
00:19:46When I told Emma I was coming here with Jordan
00:19:48When she has not met him yet
00:19:50She's going to meet him Saturday
00:19:51She was like
00:19:52I want to go
00:19:53I want to go
00:19:53And I was like
00:19:54We will definitely come back here with him
00:19:56Emma was playing with my ring
00:19:58And she has this little stuffed animal
00:20:00And she had put it like literally
00:20:03Right
00:20:03I found it in her toy box
00:20:05And I was like
00:20:06Yeah, let's just not do that again
00:20:08Maybe never do that again
00:20:10Ever
00:20:11Look at this vampire go
00:20:13I got the teeth
00:20:14And I got the clothes
00:20:15Nothing gonna stop me now
00:20:17I'm on my way
00:20:18Ready?
00:20:19Yeah, what do you got?
00:20:20What do you got?
00:20:24Oh yeah, this one's tripping
00:20:26Oh man, I'm gonna ram into a mirror in here
00:20:28I know
00:20:29Isn't this crazy?
00:20:30It's so fun
00:20:31Yeah
00:20:32This is so pretty
00:20:34Yeah, thanks for bringing me
00:20:35I'll give you what you need
00:20:38What you need
00:20:40Now hear about us on defiance
00:20:44So don't make me tell you to why
00:20:49Oh, let me on
00:20:51Oh, let me on
00:20:54Oh, let me on
00:20:56Cheers
00:20:57Good games
00:20:58Yes
00:21:00Oh
00:21:00Oh
00:21:01Yes
00:21:02So we have a little bunny bag
00:21:04But the grand prize
00:21:06Is for you
00:21:07Oh my god
00:21:09We will ever see this
00:21:13Yeah, getting to meet Emma finally
00:21:15Yeah
00:21:15That'll be awesome
00:21:16Saturday, yeah
00:21:17I finally have a plan to meet Emma
00:21:19which is gonna be cool
00:21:20So I wouldn't say that I have any reservations
00:21:23about the wedding
00:21:24because I know Amber and I are on the same page
00:21:25We're just looking forward to planning a life together
00:21:28Can't wait to see what Emma has to say about that
00:21:32Actually, you know what?
00:21:34Maybe I'll have you bring it to her Saturday
00:21:36Mmm
00:21:39I have another little thing for her
00:21:40So maybe you can bring both
00:21:42Okay
00:21:43That'd be really cute
00:21:44Okay
00:21:44That's a good plan
00:21:45We could
00:21:48I'm excited
00:21:49Me too
00:22:02Ready?
00:22:03Is this where I get murdered?
00:22:05No
00:22:05Are you proposing?
00:22:07Again?
00:22:08You know I get surprises
00:22:09Trust me
00:22:10Okay, okay
00:22:11All right
00:22:12So that's kind of what we got going on tonight
00:22:14Oh my gosh
00:22:15Pretty cool, yeah
00:22:16This is so cute
00:22:17I'm obsessed
00:22:18Yeah
00:22:18Oh my god, yeah
00:22:19Can I go sit?
00:22:20Absolutely
00:22:21This is so beautiful
00:22:22Did you plan this?
00:22:24All of it
00:22:24Yes
00:22:25It's like the most romantic thing
00:22:27I love it
00:22:29Want some champagne?
00:22:30Sure
00:22:33Thank you
00:22:36We need cheers
00:22:37Do you like an ice?
00:22:38Cheers, Dad
00:22:39Dad's expert
00:22:40Seven years
00:22:42I don't want that
00:22:43It's that
00:22:44We don't need that
00:22:45What are you most excited for on the wedding day?
00:22:47Are you running?
00:22:49No
00:22:50No
00:22:51Spending time with you
00:22:52Like obviously
00:22:52A wedding day?
00:22:54Yeah
00:22:54I need to sit back
00:22:55You're gonna fall asleep
00:22:56No, I'm not
00:22:57What are we doing for our first Christmas?
00:22:59Do you see that globe right there?
00:23:01Yeah
00:23:01You know that like bottom tip
00:23:03It's called Antarctica
00:23:04No
00:23:05We're gonna go there for our first Christmas
00:23:06No
00:23:07If anything
00:23:08First of all
00:23:09Go to the North Pole
00:23:09For Christmas
00:23:10It makes no sense
00:23:11That's where Santa lives
00:23:12You do make good arguments
00:23:13Obviously
00:23:14Okay
00:23:15So for real
00:23:16What are we doing for Christmas?
00:23:17Switzerland
00:23:19St. Moritz
00:23:20I don't know
00:23:21We gotta go somewhere warm
00:23:22A beach would be nice
00:23:23Make that work
00:23:25What's one thing you want to do
00:23:26In our first year of marriage?
00:23:27What's a goal?
00:23:30We have to travel out of the country
00:23:32At least once
00:23:32I guess I would just love for us
00:23:36To like obviously know where like our home is
00:23:39At least where we want to be for a while
00:23:40Whether it's Florida, Arizona, wherever
00:23:44Starting to have those roots
00:23:45And I'd like
00:23:46I don't want to like scare you when I say these things
00:23:48Like you know planting roots
00:23:49And like staying grounded
00:23:50That doesn't throw me
00:23:51Like as much as I feel like you think it might
00:23:53But I do want it to be
00:23:55In a place where I'm not thinking about other places
00:24:02How do you want to celebrate your first birthday as a married man?
00:24:05Oh
00:24:06I don't know
00:24:07What about you?
00:24:08I normally like to go like on a trip somewhere to be honest
00:24:11It's gotta be warm though
00:24:15No promises
00:24:16You don't want me to be happy
00:24:19Another question did you get for me?
00:24:29I just asked one
00:24:31What'd you ask?
00:24:34I thought I just asked one
00:24:36I thought I was going to be happy
00:24:36Did I not?
00:24:37No
00:24:37No
00:24:37Is that you?
00:24:38We were talking about birthdays
00:24:39Oh that's right
00:24:39That is right
00:24:46I'm trying to think
00:24:47What about your new dress?
00:24:49You have to be excited about it
00:24:50I got emotional putting on the dress
00:24:52Did you?
00:24:52I know
00:24:53It's shocking
00:24:55No it was like a very real moment
00:24:57Yeah
00:24:59Yeah
00:25:01Thinking about what you were going to think or say when you saw me
00:25:03All the girls were there and my friends were there
00:25:06And just think how pretty I was
00:25:09Stop it
00:25:10But go on
00:25:11It's my job
00:25:12Stop it
00:25:12But go on
00:25:14That's funny
00:25:14No but it was sweet
00:25:16They asked like what's your dad going to think when he sees you
00:25:19And I just started crying
00:25:19I was like he's not invited
00:25:20Like he's no longer invited anymore
00:25:22No I'm sure he'll support you
00:25:26We'll see
00:25:31What's your mom going to think?
00:25:32I think she'll be excited
00:25:33Like she's probably pushing more of her grandkids at this point
00:25:37Oh my god really?
00:25:38I think so
00:25:38Oh my god
00:25:39Now she's excited though
00:25:41What do you say like when someone asks you like
00:25:43Tell me about Ashley
00:25:44What do you say?
00:25:45Oh I love her authenticity
00:25:46The confidence and the competitive spirit that she shows is huge
00:25:49I do love the fact that you're willing to put yourself out there
00:25:53Try new things
00:25:55What do you tell your friends?
00:25:57My friends hate you
00:25:58I know
00:26:00Ridiculous
00:26:01I'm just kidding
00:26:02I tell them that your golf swing needs a lot of work
00:26:05It's true
00:26:06No
00:26:07That's just what you tell your dad
00:26:09I did tell him that he needs some work
00:26:12Um no I tell them that you're very well traveled
00:26:14You're very passionate about soccer and day trading
00:26:18Seems like your friends and family have nothing but good things to say about you
00:26:22I think you'll be like a good husband, a good father
00:26:27Just based off of like your experiences
00:26:30I love that
00:26:31I love that
00:26:32And I think when
00:26:34You like have something in your mind you put everything you have into it
00:26:37So that's why I think you've been successful in this experiment
00:26:40No, not tooting my own horn or anything
00:26:42But like you got really lucky
00:26:43I did
00:26:44With who you chose
00:26:45So you know how to make a really good decision
00:26:48I do
00:26:51How are you feeling about having to make a decision?
00:26:54How confident I guess are you?
00:26:56I feel good about it
00:26:57I feel
00:26:59Kind of like we're where we should be
00:27:02Obviously like we're crushing it
00:27:03Like we've done
00:27:04Crushing it
00:27:05We've done very well
00:27:06We've been on the same page for a long time it seems like
00:27:08So there's excitement there for sure
00:27:10I know it's a big big day
00:27:12It's obviously like a life you know changing decision
00:27:15But everything for me goes back to soccer
00:27:18Like you can't plan out how the game's gonna go
00:27:20You just play it like you're in that game
00:27:22And you're a part of it
00:27:24And obviously doing your best
00:27:26But you don't necessarily control the outcome
00:27:29And this is one of those things that I control part of it
00:27:31But it's an outcome that is going to happen
00:27:36How it was meant to happen is the way I look at it
00:27:38Stoicism helps out as well in the sense of like
00:27:41Keep the emotions in check
00:27:42I feel confident in the end product as well
00:27:47Yeah
00:27:48The fear of the unknown always gets me
00:27:50You know that
00:27:51I'm sure you got the vibe
00:27:52I was like attracted to you
00:27:53Because you were so confident
00:27:54In like your decision to choose me
00:27:56Like I've been second best so many times
00:28:00And when you work like I want it to be you
00:28:03Yeah
00:28:03That is when I was like
00:28:05This guy's got it
00:28:06That was it for me
00:28:07I love that
00:28:08Love that
00:28:10Choose me and finish this
00:28:11Finish my god
00:28:13You didn't make eye contact
00:28:16I did in my head
00:28:17So you're having bad sex for seven years
00:28:19You're having it with me then
00:28:20I will be having good sex
00:28:21I've looked in your eyes
00:28:22Did you?
00:28:23Anyways
00:28:23We have a wedding people
00:28:26I'm excited for it
00:28:30I'd steal the sun so I could light your sun
00:28:35For you
00:28:37I'd stop the world from spinning just so we could have some time
00:28:47How cute
00:28:50Pretty
00:28:52I can't wait for wedding day
00:28:54Like I'm on countdown in my head
00:28:56But I'm just trying to remind myself to slow down
00:28:59And to take in every last moment that I get with Vic
00:29:02Toast to many more memories
00:29:05Of future
00:29:07And love
00:29:09Into one chapter and
00:29:11All the books to write to come
00:29:13I like that one
00:29:13Salud
00:29:19Every phase of this has felt like
00:29:22An eternity in the best way
00:29:24Yeah
00:29:25You know it all
00:29:26And you accept me for who I am
00:29:28You love me for who I am
00:29:29I don't think I've ever felt as
00:29:32Confident about anything in my life
00:29:33Especially something so serious as this
00:29:35And I know it's not even just like my decision
00:29:38Right
00:29:38I mean you're great in love but
00:29:42I've been praying for you for a lot longer than I've known you
00:29:45Same
00:29:46I can see and I can feel how much you love your family
00:29:50How much you love your friends
00:29:53How much you love your job
00:29:55How much you love what you get to do and the change you get to be a part of
00:29:59How much you love God
00:30:01How much you love me
00:30:03You just pour yourself out in like the best way
00:30:06And it's a way that like fills you and it's like that's the part that I love
00:30:11How like filling it is for you to love so much
00:30:15You're an amazing woman and you know that
00:30:17I don't even have to tell you
00:30:19Everything about you
00:30:20Your selflessness
00:30:22The love you have in you
00:30:23You're smart
00:30:25Like I think you're brilliant I love hearing your stories
00:30:29And I mean
00:30:31I know you'll make an excellent partner
00:30:33Sometimes I get speechless around you
00:30:36Because of it was just like I get this
00:30:39This like this wow feeling that happens
00:30:44You're gonna make me cry already
00:30:46I love you
00:30:47I love you too
00:30:58You're somebody that I'd be
00:31:01And I am
00:31:04Very, very, very, very proud
00:31:07To know and to love and to call you my husband
00:31:13And for you to be the father of my kids someday
00:31:18I love you very, very much
00:31:20I love you deeply, baby
00:31:22Deeply
00:31:24Deeply, deeply, deeply, deeply
00:31:26And you're just everything that I could want
00:31:28In so many ways
00:31:29I mean even just down to your hobbies and snacking on your cashews and just like the little habits that
00:31:35you have and
00:31:35I think we're going to compliment each other
00:31:37Mm-hmm
00:31:38And push each other
00:31:40Push me to be better
00:31:41And vice versa
00:31:42Yeah
00:31:43You're going to push me too, I know that
00:31:44Yeah
00:31:45I've never felt like this in my life
00:31:47Mm-hmm
00:31:48Yeah
00:31:49Me too
00:31:50And it just makes so much sense
00:31:52You know, you look back at every single little stepping stone of your life
00:31:55Even the hard times, you know
00:31:57I'm just like, I would do those things a million times over if it got me here
00:32:02Yeah
00:32:03Yeah
00:32:04I'm saying
00:32:04You're an answer prayer
00:32:06So are you
00:32:08So are you, baby
00:32:10I love it, I love you
00:32:12Everything
00:32:14I'm so excited, so happy, so grateful
00:32:18So, so grateful
00:32:20You too
00:32:21I had a great day with you, huh
00:32:27Great
00:32:28Last first date
00:32:30Last first date
00:32:34I love you too
00:32:36Go get me
00:32:37And let's go get me
00:32:39These are the moments we live for
00:32:43I want more
00:32:45This is the most bizarre, exciting, expansive, coolest thing I've ever done and I couldn't have done it without you
00:32:55and I wouldn't have done it without you
00:32:57Like, there's no chance
00:32:59I mean, we fell in love not even looking at each other
00:33:01I know
00:33:02It's crazy
00:33:03It really is
00:33:04But you're not getting the best of me right now because I have just been grinding
00:33:12What's really sad is like, I know I can give so much more
00:33:17When I see my friends and family tell you that you're not getting the best version of me and this
00:33:21isn't me right now, it really hurts
00:33:25That's really tough to say out loud
00:33:28That's what I mean, it's powerful
00:33:30It's a testament to you
00:33:31So even in maybe your worst version, I'm still obsessed with you
00:33:38Yeah
00:33:38You really do love me for the good, bad, the ugly
00:33:41Yeah
00:33:45Even as we're seeing each other every single day
00:33:47When you text me at like 5.05, you're like, can I call you?
00:33:50I get so happy
00:33:54I'm gonna start getting emotional
00:33:57Like
00:33:59I just can't wait to like, we've had so many nights where after the longest day, we still just sit
00:34:03in bed and talk for like two hours
00:34:04Yeah
00:34:05Those are my favorite moments with you
00:34:08If this is who you are right now and this is how much I'm obsessed with you
00:34:14Stop
00:34:14I think once you get back into what you call your normal stay, it's like
00:34:18I think you're gonna be able to give more love too
00:34:20So I'm excited for not only me, how much more I even might love you, which is, I don't know
00:34:26if it's possible
00:34:26Yeah
00:34:27But like you also to give off that love and accept it more too
00:34:30Like I'm so excited to see that kind of transition
00:34:32I know, me too
00:34:34Do you think you are ready for marriage?
00:34:36I am ready for it. I think I'll be a good husband, um, good father
00:34:42Transparently when I came into your house and I see your car and I'm like this guy doesn't give a
00:34:45sh-
00:34:45Like he doesn't give a sh- about anything
00:34:47What does this mean about like how he's gonna show up for like
00:34:51A presentation of like our house and our family and like his job and is he proud of it like
00:34:56I know like it's such a silly thing about a house and a car but like what clothes you wear
00:35:00and like how you present yourself
00:35:02It doesn't have to be like high-end
00:35:05Crazy things but just like have pride and like that's a reflection of you
00:35:09It just makes me feel like it's lazy like there's no pride. There's no like hustle. There's no grit
00:35:14There's no like pride to this and like it just made me feel like who is this guy?
00:35:20Is he just gonna be a liability?
00:35:22Like I don't know
00:35:24I'm just so used to someone that's out alpha'd me like he's been the leader. It's not like you're coming
00:35:30in and being like
00:35:31I'm gonna make like five times more money than you. I live in a nicer house than you
00:35:36I do this like it wasn't like this extravagant like in your face like out alpha me
00:35:42You don't have the big energy where you're talking over me or ordering at the restaurant or like the confidence
00:35:48to be like
00:35:48She'll take this like you're kind of looking at me like what should we order like what and I was
00:35:53just like this weird energy that
00:35:55I'm not used to and it's actually interesting because we talk about challenge and challenge shows up so differently like
00:36:01Is it challenging me to get up at six o'clock and go to the gym and like be disciplined
00:36:05about that? Maybe
00:36:07That's something that I would love for someone to encourage me to do
00:36:10But like also is the challenge of like being able to accept just being loved for who I am
00:36:16Some people think I don't care about a lot of things because there's not like a lot of I guess
00:36:20material things that like
00:36:23Yeah, I would love a nice car. Yeah, I'd love a nice house
00:36:25And I can't wait for those things someday
00:36:26But I think that's why I do work and support you and a family someday, but a lot of people
00:36:31sometimes just see like the
00:36:34the keg on the outside or something or
00:36:37That I haven't cleaned up and uh
00:36:39I just don't love talking about myself. I just like listening more. It's kind of who I've been you've actually
00:36:45seen
00:36:46More of me and I'm just very glad that you
00:36:49Took the time because not everybody does my dad and I have had conversations
00:36:53He's like maybe that's you've been chasing the wrong thing and you need to shift into something like that where
00:36:58like you can still lead
00:37:00But you find somebody that's complimentary and leads you in other ways. I just feel like I've been so
00:37:07Critical and so analytical and like trying to figure out if this is my husband that I've like lost sight
00:37:12of like
00:37:13Literally the whole concept of it is love blind because had I
00:37:17seen all those things
00:37:20I may be a past judgment on things that weren't true
00:37:23And I did yeah
00:37:26And like that's like the whole point of this experiment, right?
00:37:29I know you hustle and I know that you're proud of what you've built for yourself
00:37:33And I know you take pride in that and I hated that I watered that down because I do like
00:37:38It is incredible you own a house you have an established career
00:37:41I know you've worked your ass off to get where you're at and like you are thinking about the future
00:37:45And like what you could do with your career to support a family and do all those things like
00:37:50You have absolutely shown up for me in ways. I have never been that I've never experienced before
00:37:56I know that you love every piece of me the way that you make me feel loved is insane
00:38:01Even on my darkest days or even when i'm like literally feeling the most disgusting
00:38:06Like you think i'm the most beautiful person in the world however, I show up to you
00:38:11Is enough i'm trying to decide
00:38:14Are you the total package or are you in my life to teach me how to be loved is this
00:38:19my person for the rest of my life is that true love
00:38:25I can't go up to the to the altar and be like yeah question mark
00:38:32Am I ready to walk down the aisle?
00:38:35No
00:38:41If I were to go down the aisle today it would be no for me
00:38:46But that makes me question like why
00:38:49Why is it no because if it is the right person i'm like
00:38:54So deeply in love and it's like my person for life like would it matter
00:39:01I think I would have said yes to you you would have gone to the altar and said yes
00:39:05So had I been in a different space we would be at our wedding day
00:39:10Yeah, I would have on monday said yes, and i've been open about that i've
00:39:15No issue saying that um and i'm not gonna be ashamed of that
00:39:19And I know you don't think anything less of me because I wanted to marry you so
00:39:27What the am i doing?
00:39:33If we can get through this like I hope that it's not a no forever
00:39:37So do you see yourself marrying me someday?
00:39:40I hope
00:39:42Hold me up until the morning
00:39:47Yeah
00:39:49Break me down into the dust
00:39:54What a ride
00:39:57What an absolute craziest month of my life
00:40:00Month it's been like years
00:40:02That's true
00:40:03I set the couch or something
00:40:05Is that okay?
00:40:06I can't say with certainty that he's not my person like that's the hard part
00:40:10I hate that I have to say no i'm not ready
00:40:12I hate to be saying things like are you a lesson to learn or are you the love of my
00:40:18life?
00:40:19It's really hard to understand why i'm going backwards
00:40:21I don't know why
00:40:22It sucks that we aren't getting married monday so it's just the way I feel
00:40:26And uh did I want to come here and just teach you how to be loved more
00:40:32No, but I think any time before this if somebody had said that they aren't ready to marry me and
00:40:39i'm ready to marry them
00:40:39Is I would have freaked out?
00:40:41Why do you think that's different?
00:40:43Because of how much
00:40:45We do love each other
00:40:48I am optimistic and I know you're not going to run
00:40:52You've consistently proven that you're going to be there for me
00:40:54You are never a never alone
00:40:58You're never a never alone
00:41:01I would have said yes
00:41:03But
00:41:07As life you've told me you're wise this whole time you've directly communicated where you were at
00:41:12I've never had that in my entire life
00:41:15And that's why I'm more excited to
00:41:18Continue to grow continue to prove that i'm going to be there for you
00:41:22I mean there's a reason that we fell in love sight unseen
00:41:27That's something i'll remember forever in my entire life and hopefully it's a connection that brings us
00:41:34Even to the altar someday
00:41:36I love her with all my heart and I knew that before even seeing her so
00:41:41Yeah
00:41:43I think love is blind
00:41:50It's been the ride of a lifetime
00:41:54So thank you
00:42:03Yeah
00:42:20Monster jam
00:42:21Oh yeah this is going to be so fun
00:42:35It's monster jam
00:42:37Oh yeah
00:42:39It's bachelor night monster trucks good vibes good friends damn near family at this point man feeling good
00:42:48Mary, Ohio. Kudos to whoever set that up.
00:42:55Let's go!
00:42:57Come on, come on, come on!
00:42:58Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:43:03Today's the bachelorette party, and I'm feeling really excited.
00:43:07Fire me down and hit the bachelorette shot!
00:43:11Turn down for what?
00:43:12Hey! Hey! Oh, my God!
00:43:15Turn down for what?
00:43:18Oh, my God, that is the cutest!
00:43:21This is so funny.
00:43:23We are at the casino celebrating our last night of single life.
00:43:27Hopefully win some money, help me for the weddings.
00:43:29No, just kidding.
00:43:30Turn down for what?
00:43:32I'm gonna be Alex Anderson's wife in a couple days,
00:43:35and that is a crazy thing to say.
00:43:37I'm gonna be a wife.
00:43:38Turn down for what?
00:43:39You're betting on love.
00:43:40I'm all in.
00:43:41First bachelorette party.
00:43:45Yay!
00:43:46Yay!
00:43:48Yay!
00:43:48Yay!
00:43:48Yay!
00:43:49Yay!
00:43:50This is how I'm practicing walking down the aisle.
00:43:53I do!
00:43:54I'm just standing there with Alex.
00:43:55I do.
00:43:57Jordan, he's the best man I've ever met.
00:44:00What I'm hopeful for is, like, tomorrow when he meets Emma,
00:44:02that he'll realize it's not that scary.
00:44:05And I think that will fulfill his life so much
00:44:07in ways that, like, he can't even understand yet.
00:44:11I feel very goofy trying to walk sexy.
00:44:13I'm so sorry.
00:44:15I'm so sorry.
00:44:17Amber's got the legs.
00:44:19Oh!
00:44:21All right, let's hit it, baby.
00:44:23Yeah, Jordan!
00:44:23Damn!
00:44:25Damn!
00:44:26Damn!
00:44:28Damn!
00:44:29There's no way the girls are having this much fun.
00:44:31They just can't be.
00:44:32Amber texted me a little bit ago and asked if I wanted pizza.
00:44:35I said, we're not done.
00:44:36I wish she didn't get pizza, though.
00:44:38I'll eat the rest later while she's probably asleep.
00:44:41I hope she takes my dog out.
00:44:45Ooh, 40.
00:44:47Jesus Christ, man.
00:44:50Now you're getting me killed as a quarterback.
00:44:52I am excited to get to the altar and to see her in her dress.
00:44:56We do have question marks in terms of children.
00:44:58It does sound like she's coming around,
00:44:59but I don't know what she's going to say.
00:45:01Excited?
00:45:02Yeah.
00:45:03Excited? Nervous?
00:45:04It's a good, good time.
00:45:06I love sports.
00:45:10Oh!
00:45:11Give me that.
00:45:13Oh, my daisy can.
00:45:14Let's serve.
00:45:155-0.
00:45:16Oh, my God.
00:45:18I think Ashley's a phenomenal person.
00:45:20So when I close my eyes and picture my wife,
00:45:22in five years, I see myself living in Florida
00:45:24with a phenomenal house,
00:45:25potential trust in Dubai,
00:45:27and a safe house in Queenstown, New Zealand.
00:45:29I see myself very happy with a wife and kids,
00:45:31or kids on the way at that point.
00:45:33Game point.
00:45:35Oh, my daisy.
00:45:36Here's a toast to everybody finding a husband.
00:45:42Toast to love.
00:45:43Come here. Come here.
00:45:44Happiness.
00:45:45Toast to marriage, God damn it.
00:45:47Marriage, God damn it.
00:45:48Come on, man.
00:45:48It's so good.
00:45:49I love you.
00:45:51It's so good again.
00:45:53It's so good again.
00:45:54I've been waiting all my life, just to get it right.
00:46:00And we made it to the good life.
00:46:05I've been waiting all my life.
00:46:07Today's my wedding day, and I'm so excited.
00:46:11Big days.
00:46:13I'm, like, really in my head right now.
00:46:17Really?
00:46:18Yeah.
00:46:20Children and, like, all the thoughts and, like...
00:46:23It's a big decision.
00:46:24Yeah.
00:46:25I just don't want to make the wrong one.
00:46:27Yeah.
00:46:28Have you talked to Mike at all today?
00:46:29No.
00:46:30I texted him, it's our motherfucking wedding.
00:46:32And he goes, like...
00:46:34He thumbs it, and he's like, I'm very late.
00:46:35I was like, I am, too.
00:46:37We just had, like, fun last night, too.
00:46:39You know, it's like, we never talked about anything.
00:46:41Yeah.
00:46:42Did you guys end up staying together last night, or did you?
00:46:44No, I, like, we went to our hotels.
00:46:46Mm-hmm.
00:46:46I love him for you.
00:46:48Yeah.
00:46:48Mom loves him.
00:46:51I've never felt this way about someone before.
00:46:54Yeah, he's very comfortable.
00:46:56He fits in really well.
00:46:59He...
00:47:01makes me feel so happy and so comfortable.
00:47:05I just really haven't felt this...
00:47:09light and free...
00:47:13with someone before.
00:47:15When all I want
00:47:16Were golden
00:47:19Like the sun
00:47:24You and I
00:47:27Follow this vibrant
00:47:32Today's the big day.
00:47:33Getting married.
00:47:34It's, it's wild.
00:47:35We're in this forever.
00:47:36You know, until death do us part.
00:47:38How you feeling, man?
00:47:40Feeling good.
00:47:41Feeling nervous.
00:47:42Feeling a little nervous.
00:47:43Yeah.
00:47:44I mean...
00:47:45I don't know if she's gonna say yes or no.
00:47:47Oh.
00:47:47It's scary.
00:47:48What's the rest of the family thinking?
00:47:50They're supportive.
00:47:51Nobody understands fully just kind of
00:47:52what we've talked about
00:47:53and what we've gone through.
00:47:54Yeah, you've got...
00:47:55That's the thing.
00:47:56You're gonna get married.
00:47:56It's a lot.
00:47:57It feels like forever.
00:47:59Exactly.
00:48:00The hearts of thousands of women
00:48:01are gonna break today.
00:48:03I'm in, Jeff.
00:48:13Hi.
00:48:14Hi.
00:48:14I'm like, hello.
00:48:16You guys look so beautiful.
00:48:20Hi.
00:48:20This is my sister, Hannah.
00:48:21I'm Hannah.
00:48:22Hi, Hannah.
00:48:23Nice to meet you.
00:48:24And this is my best friend, Kayla.
00:48:26Hi, Kayla.
00:48:26Hi, nice to meet you, honey.
00:48:28I'm Patty.
00:48:29Hello, beauty.
00:48:30Are you nervous?
00:48:30I'm excited.
00:48:32Good.
00:48:34Good.
00:48:35I feel so happy and calm.
00:48:37Oh, Emma.
00:48:39Stop.
00:48:39Emma, no.
00:48:41Don't.
00:48:42She just did your makeup.
00:48:43I know.
00:48:43I was like, I'm a blivering mess, but yeah.
00:48:48I feel just excited.
00:48:52Good.
00:48:52Good.
00:48:53Everybody is.
00:48:54How are you feeling?
00:48:55I'm good, thank you.
00:48:56Happy birthday.
00:48:58First day of 28.
00:48:59How's Mom and Dad?
00:49:00Good.
00:49:00They're also kind of emotional, too, but they're really good.
00:49:03They love him so much, too.
00:49:07They, like, think he fits perfect in their family.
00:49:09Hannah's like, Hannah, what's your verdict?
00:49:12100% yes.
00:49:14That man makes me feel so safe and so secure.
00:49:18Aw.
00:49:19And it makes me feel comfortable, like, in my own skin.
00:49:23But it's a big decision.
00:49:25Right.
00:49:25Something I don't take lightly.
00:49:26I'll be searching for a close night.
00:49:29Ooh.
00:49:30What do you think?
00:49:31Look at this guy.
00:49:32I gotta put the buttons and everything in.
00:49:33Yep.
00:49:34Have you been working out?
00:49:35I hate you.
00:49:36Yeah.
00:49:38Put lipstick on me?
00:49:39Big.
00:49:39Uh-huh.
00:49:40Oh, yeah.
00:49:50Bracelet?
00:49:51The bracelet.
00:49:52The bracelet might be too much, but...
00:49:53The bracelet's too much?
00:49:54I like the bracelet.
00:49:55My sister has the same bracelet.
00:49:56I like the bracelet a lot, but...
00:49:58Phil.
00:49:59No, Phil, all right?
00:50:01This guy.
00:50:02Exciting day.
00:50:03You got good men by your side.
00:50:05Looking forward to the future.
00:50:06Cheers.
00:50:07Cheers, fellas.
00:50:07Cheers.
00:50:08Thank you, guys.
00:50:13Oh!
00:50:14Oh!
00:50:15Oh!
00:50:16Oh!
00:50:16Where's my boy?
00:50:17Look how spiffy you look.
00:50:19You look so beautiful, Ma.
00:50:20Thank you, my son.
00:50:22Oh, my God.
00:50:22You look fantastic.
00:50:24I love you.
00:50:25You look beautiful.
00:50:28Boy, you look good, hon.
00:50:30Sorry.
00:50:31Look at that.
00:50:31Looking sharp, baby.
00:50:32What?
00:50:34How are you feeling?
00:50:36Good.
00:50:37Good.
00:50:37You excited?
00:50:38Excited.
00:50:38Nervous, yeah.
00:50:39They let Mommy and Callie go by Emma.
00:50:42Oh, you were over there?
00:50:43Nice.
00:50:44How was it?
00:50:45She was emotional.
00:50:46She's crying already?
00:50:47Mm-hmm.
00:50:48She said she was gonna cry.
00:50:49Let's sit down.
00:50:50Sit down.
00:50:51I'm just concerned about you.
00:50:53Okay.
00:50:54I'm gonna make sure you're okay.
00:50:55I know you're stressed out.
00:50:56Yeah.
00:50:57I mean, I talked to you maybe, what, three times?
00:51:00Every single time you had an attitude.
00:51:02Yeah.
00:51:02Which is understandable.
00:51:04Yeah, I'm sorry.
00:51:04I shouldn't take it out on you.
00:51:05It's just, you always call it the worst time, Ma.
00:51:09So, it's actually unreal.
00:51:10It really, it really is.
00:51:12She's uncanny for that.
00:51:13It really is.
00:51:14Are you happy?
00:51:14Yeah.
00:51:15I'm happy.
00:51:15I just want you to be happy.
00:51:17That's all.
00:51:17Of course.
00:51:17You're happy, I'm happy.
00:51:19Yeah.
00:51:19You're miserable, I'm miserable.
00:51:21Okay.
00:51:21Which I was.
00:51:23Yeah.
00:51:23So.
00:51:24There's only so much crying we can do in the house.
00:51:26Oh, yeah.
00:51:29I relaxed.
00:51:29I relaxed on the crying.
00:51:31Her.
00:51:31I relaxed.
00:51:32Mainly.
00:51:32I learned a lot more about this whole thing, so.
00:51:35You know, Mike, this is a, it's like a whirlwind.
00:51:39You don't know detail.
00:51:41You know what I mean?
00:51:42Right.
00:51:42And I, you know, I mean, as, as parents, and you'll, you'll, you'll notice hopefully one
00:51:47day, we love you.
00:51:52And, and we just want the best for you.
00:51:55And, you know.
00:51:57Understanding now, I'm understanding now that you make the decisions, so.
00:52:01Right.
00:52:01You're your own man.
00:52:02As long as you're happy.
00:52:03You instilled that in me, so.
00:52:05At the end of the day, we just want you to be happy.
00:52:08And, uh.
00:52:09Yeah.
00:52:10I want different experiences.
00:52:11You know that.
00:52:12We, me and mommy dated for five years.
00:52:15Before we got, before I asked her to marry me.
00:52:17Mm-hmm.
00:52:18You know.
00:52:19So that's, you know, that's why we were taken off guard a little bit in the beginning,
00:52:23right?
00:52:24Mm-hmm.
00:52:24Yeah.
00:52:26Yeah.
00:52:26But if, if she's the one for you.
00:52:28Making sure you're doing the right thing.
00:52:29And you feel that way deep in your heart.
00:52:31Then, you know, we're behind you.
00:52:33Like, you know.
00:52:35I love her.
00:52:36I think she's great.
00:52:37I appreciate it.
00:52:38She's a good kid.
00:52:40Yeah.
00:52:40I mean.
00:52:40She definitely fits in.
00:52:43Yeah.
00:52:46It's a lot to take in.
00:52:47I'm gonna be honest with you.
00:52:48Like, just to think about starting off in the pod, then it turns into the rest of my
00:52:52life.
00:52:52The rest of our lives.
00:52:54We raised you right.
00:52:55I know that.
00:52:56I'm happy for you.
00:52:57If you're happy, I'm happy for you.
00:52:59It looks so good.
00:53:00Okay.
00:53:00All right.
00:53:01Bye.
00:53:03All right.
00:53:04I love you.
00:53:04Okay.
00:53:05All right.
00:53:06All right, baby.
00:53:07All right.
00:53:08See you guys there.
00:53:08Yeah.
00:53:09Yeah.
00:53:11Okay.
00:53:11She has the question marks in terms of children.
00:53:14And that's our biggest thing.
00:53:16So I, I would love for her to go first to see what that answer is.
00:53:20If she can overcome that and say yes, that means she's really thought about it.
00:53:23And she's like, I can see a future with Mike with children.
00:53:27So I would love to hear her say yes.
00:53:30I'm like, okay, that's the biggest thing in my mind is children.
00:53:33You just check that off.
00:53:34Like, let's do it.
00:53:35Let's dive in.
00:53:36I hope I'm the one who gets to stand beside you.
00:53:44I'd never let you go.
00:53:49Wow.
00:53:50I hope I'm the one who gets to stand beside you.
00:53:56I love you.
00:53:58Sweet girl.
00:54:00Oh, you look amazing.
00:54:01Oh my God.
00:54:03You're so beautiful.
00:54:04I'm going to cry.
00:54:05You're so beautiful.
00:54:06Just wait for the veil, Mom.
00:54:08Stop.
00:54:09Don't cry.
00:54:10Ugh.
00:54:11So, my pearl earrings, my dad gave them to me for my wedding.
00:54:21Oh, this night is full of wonder.
00:54:29Oh, I want to circle.
00:54:30I'm other than and I want to ride my wedding.
00:54:31I want to ride my wedding.
00:54:31There's my something old.
00:54:33There's my something old.
00:54:36Here am I something old.
00:54:41Oh, my God.
00:54:44It's magical, and it's beautiful.
00:54:48She's meant to wear a veil.
00:54:50Yeah.
00:54:51Look at her.
00:54:52You look so pretty.
00:54:56I'll have you.
00:54:58If you can picture yourself in any situation with him,
00:55:01and having him still makes you happy, that's the one.
00:55:04We are here, no matter what you decide.
00:55:07Just make yourself happy.
00:55:08Trick.
00:55:09Okay.
00:55:10Final cheers.
00:55:12Final cheers.
00:55:12We love you so much.
00:55:14Cheers.
00:55:15Good decisions.
00:55:30Oh, don't cry.
00:55:31Oh, don't cry.
00:55:33Oh, don't cry.
00:55:34Oh, don't cry.
00:55:36Oh, don't cry.
00:55:36Well, if you decide whatever you do, I'm behind you 100%.
00:55:41Okay?
00:55:41I love you.
00:55:43More than you know.
00:55:46Okay?
00:55:47Yeah, nervous.
00:55:50It's a lot to take in, you know?
00:55:53It's good.
00:55:53We're all behind you.
00:55:54Yeah.
00:56:10Seasons come and seasons go.
00:56:36Oh, God, here she comes.
00:56:42You look beautiful.
00:56:45I'm trying not to wrinkle you.
00:56:49Are you ready?
00:56:52Okay.
00:56:54Love you, sweetie.
00:57:00The dress is beautiful.
00:57:02Wow.
00:57:02Oh, my God.
00:57:03I'm going to have a freaking faint.
00:57:05I guess it's okay.
00:57:06It's okay.
00:57:08Look at this.
00:57:21Oh, my God.
00:57:23How cute.
00:57:24Uh-uh.
00:57:26Please rise.
00:57:33When you're ready.
00:57:35Holy shit.
00:57:37Holy shit.
00:57:48When you're ready.
00:57:51Holy fuck.
00:57:58I'm so good.
00:58:04I love you.
00:58:05I love you.
00:58:05I love you.
00:58:07I love you.
00:58:07You look so gorgeous.
00:58:08You're okay.
00:58:09Okay.
00:58:10How do you look gorgeous?
00:58:11Great.
00:58:13All right.
00:58:14I get your face.
00:58:16I know.
00:58:17Is it straight?
00:58:19Please be seated.
00:58:25I know.
00:58:27Good evening and welcome.
00:58:29I'd like to thank everyone in this room for being here today as we celebrate Emma and Mike
00:58:34and the journey they've been on together so far.
00:58:37Today, the two of you are taking the first step of your new chapter, and in many ways, a whole
00:58:42new life.
00:58:44Loving someone in marriage is a reason to stretch beyond our limits, to become more for the sake
00:58:50of the other.
00:58:51It is to look into the soul of your beloved and accept what you see, yet hold space for all
00:58:58that they're going to become.
00:58:59As you join today, you're announcing to the world that you're welcoming that challenge
00:59:03and all the joys that come with it.
00:59:10Emma, our journey has been amazing, and it wasn't easy.
00:59:15We have so many questions with the kids, and throughout our whole experience, you have
00:59:22been open and understanding to hearing my journey and my story.
00:59:26But I really just, I want to know that you want to start a family with me.
00:59:33I know you've been thinking about it, and it's not fair for you to have to choose now.
00:59:38But one of the biggest things that I love about you, and I love about us, is that we're
00:59:42able to communicate.
00:59:43And we'll always be genuine with one another, and get to the bottom of anything.
00:59:50So, thank you for that, and thank you for making it easy on me to love such an amazing
00:59:55person inside and out, because I can't wait to see what the future holds for us.
01:00:05Mike?
01:00:07Yeah?
01:00:08I knew that I was doing this for a reason.
01:00:12And being here, my reason is you.
01:00:17You've made me feel safe, and seen, and comfortable.
01:00:22We have gone through a lot.
01:00:25I know.
01:00:26Yeah.
01:00:26You have made me feel so special, and empowered me to march to the beat of my own drum, and
01:00:37not sacrifice who I am in the process.
01:00:39And I can't ask for a better partner, like, throughout my life.
01:00:45I love that.
01:00:50Emma and Mike, you chose to get engaged and spend the rest of your lives together based
01:00:54on a deep emotional connection.
01:00:57Looks, age, finances, and all the superficial things of the world were not a factor for you
01:01:02two.
01:01:03Now is the time to decide love is blind.
01:01:13Will you get married and commit to facing life together as husband and wife?
01:01:17Or will you walk away forever?
01:01:30Emma, do you take Mike to be your lawfully wedded husband, to have and to hold from this
01:01:36day forward for better or for worse?
01:01:39For richer or for poorer?
01:01:41In sickness and in health?
01:01:44To love and cherish?
01:01:46Forsaking all others for all the days of your life?
01:01:50If so, say, I do.
01:02:01I've been thinking a lot about this decision.
01:02:13There's a lot of things that we still need to go through.
01:02:22Whether that's today or whether that's two years from now.
01:02:33I've been thinking about how you make me feel.
01:02:38And I can't.
01:02:45I can't see a future without you.
01:02:51Yeah.
01:02:53Yeah.
01:02:57And I love you.
01:02:59I do.
01:02:59I do.
01:03:00I really, really do.
01:03:01And if that was a yes.
01:03:18Mike, do you take Emma to be your lawfully wedded wife, to have and to hold from this day
01:03:25forward?
01:03:26For better?
01:03:27For worse?
01:03:27For richer?
01:03:28Or for poorer?
01:03:30In sickness and in health?
01:03:32To love and cherish?
01:03:34Forsaking all others for all the days of your life?
01:03:42If so, say, I do.
01:03:44I will find you.
01:04:12Wedding day.
01:04:14Everything is, like, great.
01:04:15I can see my life being with you.
01:04:18I know Christine.
01:04:19I know all the parts of her, and she knows all the parts of me.
01:04:22It's a lot of pressure.
01:04:25How do you think your sister's gonna take care of everything?
01:04:27This is a strange, like, meeting on the day of.
01:04:29Really?
01:04:30What are you all doing?
01:04:31This is like the calm before the storm.
01:04:33I'm ready.
01:04:34Now is the time to decide if love is blind.
01:04:40She flat out calls him a liar.
01:04:41Oh, you're so strong.
01:04:45Every storm will make a fire.
01:04:52Every heart will feel desire.
01:04:58entire,
01:05:00Every love will leave me higher.
01:05:06Every love will leave me higher,
01:05:06There's space I'll be with you.
01:05:16Next is up, find my heart.
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