First Dates Ireland Season 11 Episode 10

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00:02this is the first date's restaurant and we're back finally a place where anything

00:15is possible but you piqued my interest there's two of us no nobody's losing their cool

00:22an instant attraction your gorgeous eyes stop it a match made in heaven

00:33i'm a big fan of your parents work or a sudden shock to the senses

00:40none of these daters know what to expect i'm in a village hall

00:48what happens next is up to them

00:55would you like to see each other again romantically

01:10hello my love again

01:15yes it's doyle bringing so much sexy back it's a potential fire hazard

01:24this is going to sound like it's very self-absorbed but i'm hot

01:30i believe in miracles

01:34way from you sexy

01:38you drop to hot people in a place the temperature is going to increase so it's basically science

01:46so i'm going to align my energies my chakras

01:50you know to make sure that i like embody the kind of person i want to be and i want

01:57to meet

02:02we call it the humble doors

02:05mister you look familiar

02:07do i yeah well you do yeah thank you do i look familiar to you very familiar here we go

02:12now

02:43hi there's good to see you again

02:43we try we try we try nice to see you the family's back

02:46the family is back

02:48how are you feeling

02:49really scared actually really more than the last time more than the last time which is really weird

02:53lewis beautiful boy beautiful skin love that really funny

02:59looked like a great match last time

03:01you know he got a boyfriend

03:02oh did he he did yeah

03:05harder than you i find that hard to find

03:07i wish we love a happy ending but i am still single

03:13maybe someone slightly older

03:17not too old

03:22behold benizio an absolute stunner if you catch him on a good day

03:27some days i'm five sometimes some days i'm going i'm going to be ten

03:31i'll give myself a ten because if i don't give myself a ten who give me a ten and i

03:35need a ten

03:35up so that i'm feeling ten

03:44nobody thinks that i'm an affection person because i look very tough

03:49i look like a big mountain but inside like i'm just like a dedicated flower so

03:55mister and easier nice to meet you

03:58nice to meet you judging by the name brazilian

04:01yes sao paulo sao paulo just yeah look a fella

04:06it doesn't matter how you look if you look amazing if you don't have the confidence you don't look

04:11attractive and i think that's the most attractive thing

04:13no

04:15hello

04:17nice to meet you

04:19how are you

04:19hi i'm all right

04:21an easy

04:21yeah where are you from brazil

04:23doyle where are you from

04:25nigeria nigeria i'm 25% nigerian

04:28the name is very nigerian

04:30do you think

04:31and how important is that initial sexual attraction

04:34a hundred percent

04:36because if you don't if you don't have the sexual chemistry you just get a friend

04:40and you're very pretty

04:42i think you're you're gorgeous too

04:43thank you

04:44when someone is talking and i love what they're saying

04:47i just kind of move around like this

04:49i'm in a flow state

04:50i'm just enjoying what they're saying

04:52hi how are you

04:53i'm good thinking yourself

04:54you look well

04:55oh god you're matching

04:56dang tops galore here

05:00i love a bit of romance

05:01i'm a bit of a sop like

05:03do you know flowers

05:04oh

05:08my time will come on

05:12whatever happens next won't surprise bria

05:16she's already considered every possible outcome

05:21my physical comedy is going to peak

05:23i can see it already like

05:25oh there she comes

05:27i would have thought about it but i can't don't fall

05:29don't walk past the door

05:31that'll all go out my brain

05:33and i'll walk up

05:34oh it's heavy

05:36i definitely overthunk the situation already

05:39i'm so sorry i made so much noise there a second ago

05:42i didn't hear nothing

05:43what's your name lovely

05:44ria

05:44look lovely

05:45thank you likewise

05:46a bit of leopard

05:47oppa

05:48feisty

05:49the animal in me is coming out

05:52i'm thinking like if i wear heels

05:55am i kind of limiting myself then because i'm tall

05:58and like what if i make it awkward then with the whole

06:00the fears in my eyes

06:01i won't let it get into my spirit

06:03you're good looking girl you had your dates before

06:05no you had your dates before so you know how to do this

06:08i'm good looking to me

06:09i think that's the main thing

06:11like i find myself attractive

06:15to myself

06:16i went and i did the camino last week to try and find myself right

06:19oh you did that whole walk thing is it how was it

06:22i did the whole walk and i didn't find myself anywhere

06:23oh yeah

06:25i mean it's hard to find yourself walking i find

06:28i got the tattoo though

06:29oh did you show me

06:30i got the tattoo look

06:33ah jesus

06:33it's tiny

06:34it's tiny

06:35i know

06:35i went with 50 women right

06:37yeah

06:3850 women

06:3815 of us can't imagine tattoos

06:41oh wow

06:45everyone's type is tall dark and handsome like that's the easy answer to give but like

06:49there's always a bit of leeway there

06:50you'd like the height you'd like the handsome

06:52you'd also like the dark hair but like you'd take a ginger if you had to

06:59back home elliot struggles to express himself

07:02up here he's unleashed

07:06i think i was just always doing other things people wanted me to do so

07:10i want to find who i am i know it sounds a bit cringy but yeah

07:13i actually can't go

07:15i can't deal i can't breathe

07:18hello

07:18nice to meet you

07:19what's your name is

07:20elliot

07:21a little bit nervous

07:21a bit nervous

07:22yeah well you should be

07:24i hope not

07:25i hope not

07:26hi jacket you dress nicely

07:28thanks very much

07:28yeah

07:30i wouldn't like to dress like everyone else like john

07:32i mean like

07:32i suppose but then i'm like come up here and like you wouldn't stand out but you go

07:35home

07:36what least you think you're the king

07:39nice to meet you i'm bria

07:42bria nice to meet you

07:43lovely to meet you are you nervous

07:44i'm so scared i'm so scared i'm here and

07:48eddie i think eddie is his name he brought me a porn star martini now i have to say they're

07:52divine if you want to get a drink

07:54i actually was going to get porn star martini

07:55honestly you're unreal

07:57where are you from

07:57ellis

07:58what part of ellis

07:59uh vickerson

08:00no i don't know that

08:01it's near strabley

08:02oh jesus we're very midlands people aren't we

08:05jesus do you know uh durba scully

08:09oh my god she's my cousin

08:10first cousin she's actually my first cousin

08:12i went and i did the camino with her there last week

08:17that's good like

08:18it's a very fucking small world

08:19that's a very small world

08:20and do you live in vickerson then

08:21yeah yeah yeah

08:22the chances of being related to someone from offely is so high

08:26i live in dublin

08:27so i don't live in oh yeah no i don't live in offely anymore jesus

08:31oh too good for offely then

08:33no i don't think i'm too good for offely do you know what i think it's just like

08:35there's nothing to do

08:36yeah i was so bored

08:38release is the exact same

08:39as soon as i lock eyes with someone like my brain and my mouth just disconnect and i'm

08:44just like blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah

08:47what do you think my name is

08:49eddie

08:49eddie oh you're spot on

08:51well it was eddie

08:52no it's not an eddie at all it's neil

08:55do you remember his name

08:56elliot

08:58well you can't forget that

08:59it's close to eddie

09:00i'm sorry

09:04so that's your second time in the show

09:05yeah it is yeah

09:06okay so and you're looking for love

09:08i i i i feel so bad now that you know i've been on the show before

09:13i'm glad that you're black because i love black people

09:16hey

09:16seriously like if i have to choose between

09:1910 white guys and one black guy

09:21i would go for one black guy because

09:23i love black

09:24growing up in brazil

09:26brazil is like so racist

09:28and i always wanted to be white that was my dream

09:31growing up as a black person and a queer person in brazil was very hard

09:37all i knew was as like as a gay man was sex because we never experienced love

09:44like i've never seen like a couple when i was a kid now it's different because we have

09:49like people that represent ourselves like you know but like love was my mom and my dad

09:55when was all of this like process happening mentally was it happening in brazil or when you were here

10:01it took me 34 years to love myself

10:03it was like only like two and a half years ago

10:06i was actually getting prepared to go to the gym and i stopped to look at the mural

10:12and i felt something that i never felt before

10:16i just loved myself for the very first time

10:19after so many years of you know therapy and you know analysis i am very confident and i love myself

10:25that is so beautiful

10:27yeah but it's beautiful and sad at the same time 34 years to love myself is too much

10:32yeah i get that

10:33moving on to the latter topics

10:35yeah what do you want to eat today

10:37okay so you have been here before so you tell me

10:40um no don't put me on the spot like that

10:42i'm in my clothes legs era

10:46so i'm very much more into like get to know me let's go to church together you know

10:52i want to be quoted and i also want to court you know i also want people to feel special

10:56as you make me special

10:57the prime iris beef

10:59strip loin

11:00yeah

11:01yeah because you're very beefy

11:03i'm obsessed with your the most i don't know what they are here

11:07uh shoulder muscles

11:08yeah i'm trying to grow my

11:09yeah no i was in a cruise last two weeks ago and i haven't gone to the gym

11:14in a gay cruise yeah

11:15where

11:16it took us from uh athens

11:19how long

11:20seven days

11:22seven is a lot of days in gay world

11:24and before that i was in madrid for the gay pride

11:27oh

11:28so it's almost a month that i don't go to the gym and i'm eating like a pig

11:31so

11:35where am i going

11:37feeling a little lost james

11:39not to worry

11:40every journey has to start somewhere

11:44i got the door right

11:45yeah that's a good start

11:47nice to meet you

11:48mr james james nice to meet you

11:50how are you keeping james

11:51not too bad

11:52i like barbara man i have the same one at home

11:54yeah yeah it's a cool jacket

11:55yeah

11:56second hand i couldn't afford the full thing

11:57but it was a job

11:58it was a job

11:58i made new year's resolution to put myself out there more

12:01because i've never been on a date apart from last year

12:03and by god i did hate

12:05so uh

12:06that's when i started like realizing what i liked and what i didn't like and

12:09hi how are you

12:10oh yeah no i'm james james james just very quickly there's not no room for two mustaches at the bar

12:15one of us has to go

12:17this bar is making up for two of us

12:18okay i don't know i don't know how are you feeling

12:21not too bad

12:21not too shabby alonso

12:24that's a new one i like that i like that

12:28okay you're set for the fire buddy

12:29all right shabby alonso see you soon

12:31the thing to be all and then all would be is that i'm a bit mad in the sense that

12:35i'm just a bit

12:37he's a bit of crack and all this one

12:38i'm act like i am but i'm also like i can be really serious all the same like if i

12:42need to be

12:43where are you from

12:44uh we play us called fahart just beside dundalk

12:48fart

12:48fahart

12:49not far say that again

12:51fahart

12:52fahart

12:53fahart

12:53fahart okay

12:54fahart okay so you're what you're in norty are you

12:56no i'm on the south side

13:01i'm northern to you south to me

13:02i know you sound norty your accent is amazing

13:04thank you very much

13:05really nice

13:06appreciate that

13:06so what are you hoping for this evening

13:09sabrina carf

13:13my mom's delighted that i'm single

13:16well she did tell me to go on first date

13:19emma's ideal date long before she meets him she'll hear him

13:26i usually go for the loudest person in the room someone who's smiley outgoing

13:31well look at you huh

13:34you look lovely

13:35thanks

13:36damn girl you look lovely

13:37thanks

13:39your name is emma

13:40beautiful emma

13:41so are you mateo

13:42well it's not about me it's about you today

13:44she's got a microphone in her hand covered in diamonds

13:47she has an espresso martini

13:49i mean what are the chances it's happened

13:51he's gonna be nervous when he sees you

13:54yes this is where he's gonna be

13:56is he already over there

13:57yeah

13:57okay

13:58yeah

13:58well like going on a date in general is going outside your comfort zone never mind a blind

14:02date

14:03that's even scarier

14:05hello

14:06nice to meet you

14:07nice to meet you too

14:08i'm james

14:09emma

14:09emma nice to meet you

14:10nice to meet you

14:11emma you look stunning

14:11thank you

14:12wow

14:12you look like a classy lady

14:14well you said dress to impress

14:16yeah

14:17well i didn't of course

14:18i did

14:19you did

14:20yeah yeah

14:21i do love a moustache

14:22but only if you can rock it

14:24i think it shows that you're confident i guess

14:29what do you do anyway

14:30i'm in college

14:31yeah

14:32yeah

14:32i'm doing international commerce in ucd

14:34very good

14:35is that a language as well

14:36yeah french

14:36no that's class

14:37what are you doing

14:38social care

14:39oh okay

14:40social care worker

14:41so i work with children in care at the moment

14:42lovely

14:42where are you from

14:44eh

14:46don't talk

14:46okay

14:47just a wee bit outside

14:47first thing i'd look at is actually what they're wearing

14:50you can look at what someone's wearing and you can get a good depiction of them

14:53so i look at that and then you subconsciously make away this person's about x y or z

14:58you're nervous

15:00no

15:01not really not really no

15:02oh

15:03all right

15:03he was absolutely crapping it here

15:05i was actually crying just

15:06okay

15:07oh it is right so you know how i'm going with us

15:09oh right fine

15:10yeah here we go

15:11okay

15:12all right

15:12you guys do a great day folks

15:14yeah

15:14best of luck

15:19lovely

15:20thank you very much

15:21so what do you do

15:21what's your job

15:22oh i'm a social worker

15:24um

15:24making kids like

15:25really

15:26yeah

15:26that's so cool

15:27i think so

15:28that's so fucking cool

15:29cook them dinner

15:30clean the house like

15:31uh

15:32look after them

15:33it's the funniest job i've ever had like

15:34um

15:34i love working with the kids like so

15:36what do you want to end up doing like

15:37uh

15:38i want to be an educational psychologist like

15:41that's so cool

15:42the looks only get them so far

15:43it does

15:45until they open their mouth

15:46and then you're like oh

15:48how is camino actually

15:49the camino oh my god yeah sorry i just already told you

15:51yeah

15:51i just come up with that myself

15:53i know it's like i actually pre-stalked your instagram

15:55that'd be so weird

15:57that'd be so weird

15:57i was like i actually believed you i was like i don't even have instagram so i'm like what

16:01do you don't have instagram

16:01no no no no

16:03that's a green flag

16:04oh is it yeah

16:04yeah that's a green flag

16:05oh yeah

16:06it'll be so obvious that i can't see them

16:08like i'll be awkward

16:09like i won't make sense my sentences will not make sense

16:12on the camino

16:15we're gonna go

16:16we're walking

16:16i love the vitamins

16:17right 5k

16:19into the cafe

16:21coffee

16:22takeaway sangria

16:23dervla

16:24yeah she's my joke

16:25she is yeah

16:26that's so i can't believe she's your cousin

16:28i know first cousin

16:29honestly like it's like you proper know each other

16:32she lives literally across the road

16:34oh really yeah

16:35so if you get pissed

16:36i'll text her and be like

16:37by the way dervla

16:38i'm leaving your cousin

16:39at the door

16:40oh that's very much so

16:41okay

16:50i was so afraid so like i was on tiktok this morning and like someone a gentleman in his

16:5840s came up and he was like prepping for a flying date and i literally was like what if that's

17:05it

17:06and that you know like not in a bad way but i was kind of like right i need to

17:09prepare you're an ageist

17:11no i'm not an ageist

17:12if i do when you said when they were asking you like who are you looking for you like open

17:16anyone

17:17kind of yeah not really

17:19i did say that as well

17:20i did say i wanted uh someone who could talk

17:22i'm glad

17:23sorry

17:24no i'm happy

17:25yeah i i actually like i i do stop

17:27only when there's food in my mouth but in fairness

17:29a couple like they're best friends i always think like if you can spend all time together like

17:35um it's pretty nice like

17:37one guy literally tried to enlist me into the army

17:39oh

17:41what

17:42he basically was like jesus you have a good bit of fitness on you now you'll be great in the

17:45army

17:45i was like huh and he started asking how much money i made and compared it to how much money

17:49he made and he had no accommodation to pay for no food to pay for no gym to pay for

17:53i was saying like he was going to go to lebanon or something he was like and you have great

17:56travel opportunities i was like yeah in the lebanon yeah i was like pass hard pass

18:02will i get you another drink uh yeah i want to be fancy now because of that cocktail in front

18:08of me

18:08uh mojito no can i get an old-fashioned old-fashioned you can't do it great choice

18:13thank you perfect no bother on the way for you i've actually never had one i just want to act

18:17fancy

18:18i've never had one in my life i just know whiskey's in it yeah

18:22can i have a sip of that is it nice yeah is it spinach in it

18:26mint all right i'll just get my spinach in my drink

18:31it's nice hey it's elderflower and mint not spinach once again just to clarify

18:35no not no spinach in there no popeyes in there no spinach in there unfortunately

18:40everyone in my family is like jesus you know what it's james let him out of the day my parents

18:45are going to see me flirt and i don't flirt whatever way i do flirt they're going to see

18:50it my sister was like don't put on too big of an accent when you're going to sleep oh what

18:54don't say hey and don't say bye and don't say aye and hey bye yeah you can't say it

18:58water your accent's your accent i know you can't hide that i know i probably don't it probably

19:03does amplify a wee bit when i'm a wee bit nervous oh nervous i'm not nervous nervous i'd say my

19:10accent is amplified if i'm like passionate about something it's very like you're passionate about

19:14so i don't know if i was like in an argument or like if i was getting like really into

19:18something

19:19i'm like that is spinach that is spinach that's not spinach it's not it's not you see if we're

19:26having a laugh that would be how you know that i'm having a good time showing a lot of interest

19:31in the things that they say or things that they're interested in but yeah i get a lot

19:34in the coffee shop people being like where are you from i've uh i've actually never drank coffee

19:42what i'm a hot chocolate and tea man okay tea yeah coffee never why what's the reasoning

19:51uh any reasoning just hasn't happened i just don't like the thought of it i have enough energy

19:54as it is i don't need coffee right you could have decaf no i just don't want it there's just

19:59something about it i okay i've said to multiple people i'll do everything i will do everything

20:04in life apart from two things let's take meth and drink coffee what you're that passionate

20:11about it i'm not passionate about it i will not drink coffee really no not a chance oh okay

20:16good for you yeah thank you stand by that thank you don't let people tell you what to do

20:21coffee's great though if you can have a laugh and like take the piss out of someone and they

20:26can they can give it back and they can take it i think that's great yeah okay hot chocolate

20:31this friend with all the shavings marshmallows and cream for myself yeah i deserve it yeah i

20:41like the people they're very nice like the brazilians you know they love party they like drinks

20:47they're very loud being here in ireland it was life-changing event because when i came here i

20:56couldn't speak english i didn't know anyone here so i had to start a new life and being in an

21:03environment that you cannot speak the language you don't feel the culture it's so hard and that makes

21:08me the person that i'm today did my irish citizenship in december i remember thinking i

21:15wasn't gonna cry but then i was at the ceremony she said something about how like oh we thank you

21:22for choosing ireland and then i said to myself oh my god i actually chose this country like i chose

21:27here to move actually ireland chose me it happened because i went to a fortune teller

21:33then she said to me an issue you're gonna live abroad you're gonna live in a in a country that

21:38you've never been before and because i was very poor there was something that was like impossible for

21:43me and then at some point someone in the same company that i was working said they were coming to

21:51dublin and i said i want to go as well and before i never heard about ireland before ireland wasn't

21:58like

21:58nowhere in the map and everything happened so to be here i i always felt harm here always always and

22:06if you write my name back words and take e is all sing it's all or sing i'm meant to

22:14be here i meant

22:15literally destiny destiny yeah definitely child i'm the old state

22:23is it taking you ages to eat this or is it just me also taking ages no i'm just taking

22:27ages because

22:28like i feel like conversation is flowing like we have way too much to talk about you see it's

22:32probably not the worst thing to complain about life it's like cue the 15 minutes of silence and it's

22:37just me going the worst thing ever like i didn't have a girlfriend until i was like 21 and i

22:47was in

22:47that relationship until the start of this year i've never been quite young i don't remember a girl

22:53older than me like so no i i just can't do it no i feel like there's something there stopping

22:57me as

22:57well like yeah like i'd be like a mommy do you know what i mean

23:05oh my god you would be like oh my god do you want me to butter your bread for your

23:08ham sandwiches

23:09even if like a month older like it's all in my little brain like yeah yeah oh no i'd be

23:14the same

23:14i wouldn't go with a girl older me though because of that like because she'd be like mommy i wouldn't

23:19be like that all right pick me up like mommy milkers it's all so my apologies interrupting uh chicken it's

23:35for

23:44me i'm gonna be really weird and put them to the opposite sides yeah i just did that oh did

23:49you

23:50yeah did you didn't cop it no i'm not left-handed though you're left-handed no this is classic you're

23:55the only person i've ever met that does that you're the only man yeah oh my god what the hell

24:01so why

24:01do you do that screw up like that i suppose same but i'm like mad at my parents that they

24:06never

24:06corrected me because like it's seen as like not correct like it's not the right way to eat yeah

24:13can i pick up an extra where did i get this extra knife from oh that's probably for the steak

24:18i'd like to cut the steak oh wow it is yeah just thought i was a magician yeah you're like

24:24great magic trick

24:28when was your last relationship uh relationship relationship relationship you say situationship

24:34because uh situationship was a year ago it just broke my heart what do you do it's very complicated

24:41it's gonna take three days to explain to you it was a year ago a year ago he's not in

24:46ireland anymore

24:46now okay okay that's fair so no competition no competition i don't have many requests like you

24:53know it's just like free confident lovable funny beautiful inside and outside i think for me i like

25:04older guys i don't discriminate we love a good you know chiquita and the younger guy but i'm more into

25:12older guys i want to make sure at least we have chemistry and we have a good laugh and get

25:18chat

25:19and everything else would be a plus my family is everything for me i love my family have you met

25:25any of your exes yes my ex-husband oh yeah i've been married i was married uh since 2016 until

25:352021

25:37i was i'm separate for him like four years interesting concept how vulnerable does dating

25:44make you feel it's very vulnerable actually because you're opening yourself to someone that you don't

25:49know even though you're not going to tell your whole life you're just exposing some parts of your life

25:55that you wouldn't but it's exchange thing you know if you give you receive you know how the situation

26:02should for six years situation for six years is too long it should be a relationship it's called love baby

26:09is it i know right it's not it's not it's not so yeah six years i've five years are not

26:15defining what

26:15you have is too much it's not love growing up game can be an extremely lonely experience he was black

26:27was in the closet i i i really found myself respect last year and i was like this has to

26:33end yeah i

26:34remember like when i met him i was what like 24 or 23 and now i was 30 and we

26:41couldn't even say like

26:42i love you i could say i was saying it but whatever i would say he just look away i

26:49know i know

26:52yeah i do feel lonely quite a lot actually romantically yeah but like having some relationship

27:01or situation sick with someone in the closet it's never gonna work i thought i would be the one

27:08you know you cannot change people yeah that's why i love when people are like themselves because

27:14that's so much power being new it's power

27:29anyone looking to get guard and nicky's motor running will need to obey the rules of the road

27:36my motor break yeah that's very much my space my nobody can get through to me on the phone

27:46i'm very very independent i do find it hard probably to let people do stuff for me

27:52you know just because i don't need somebody to do it doesn't mean i don't want somebody to look after

27:56me a little bit hey hi there how are you welcome welcome your name please nicky nicky where you come

28:01from cork oh cork lady just a bit nervous a little bit you don't you don't you don't show them

28:07you don't

28:08no no no you're okay till you make it yeah yeah i probably come across as more confident than i

28:14actually am

28:19yeah what would you like to know everything let's start from childhood let's go the whole

28:24oh jesus how long have you got yeah start with your hobbies what you like to do in your free

28:29time

28:30walk dogs uh ride my motorbike oh wow is that how you say it motorcycling or motor riding

28:37right right yeah yeah because we all think that we like a bad boy don't we um i think i

28:46just somebody

28:47who groans me how old are you do you want me asking you are not just in february well jesus

28:53you look

28:53amazing i would never have said that in a million years oh my god wow jesus fair pleasure must be

28:59the

28:59motorbike you can take years off emmet's hoping the girl of his dreams will take him to a magical

29:08place wonderland he's smiling like a cheshire cat too hi that's face your name please emmet emmet

29:19pleasure to have you emmet thank you you're a little bit nervous are you yeah little pleasure come on

29:23you're a good-looking fella there is no problem with you come on man confidence that's all what you

29:28mean just bring me there you know i know and within a couple of minutes like whether you're

29:35attracted to the person or there's some sort of connection kind of would you want someone that's

29:40from cork well i'd want someone that's not in donegal because i'm definitely not

29:47do you believe in love at first sight

29:51tell you later hi how are you how are things good thanks nickley it's nice to meet you emmet how

29:57are you

29:57oh yeah how are you good would you like a drink bottle heineken bottle heineken absolutely

30:03where's raxley from mullingar mullingar okay we're on the right side of the track no where are

30:10you from all right just discussing like if i was set up with somebody up north like it's a bit

30:15of a

30:15trek yeah a bit of a check well the guys not far no and you're probably dying to leave it

30:20as well so

30:21most people are you know i think as i get older i get that i'm not everybody's cup of tea

30:30you know

30:32so i do um hsc care assistance oh very good intellectual disability yeah lord yeah what do you do

30:41look at it oh lovely not the usual reaction lovely i do think some men are probably a little bit

30:50intimidated it's not funny anymore that the first question they ask is did you bring your handcuffs

30:54do you bring them everywhere so here we are i was planning to come in with a different outfit totally

31:11different from how did you choose this last minute i schedule outfits three months in advance

31:18i did a little you know check back when he was walking in because i just wanted to know

31:25and when i saw his arms i was like why is that me like i i felt like i was

31:29i was in back in time

31:30like watching myself walk walk into the restaurant everyone is so scared about turning 30 but i kid

31:37you not best thing to ever happen to me yes because now i think much happier on my 30th than

31:43when i was

31:44interested yeah because i know who i am he's quite chaotic like he's like chaos but it's a nice way

31:52i

31:52love that he's very confident the other dates that you had was better than this i think there's a clear

31:58difference i think obviously you're older and he's younger so our date was more comical more humorous

32:04yeah i think with you our date is so much more revealing i think it's more deep good

32:12would you like to see each other again yes yes of course yeah we can definitely see each other again

32:19definitely that's a nice quick answer guys i like that i like that you're black first of all i like

32:27that you dress well have good sense of fashion i love that you're loyal to friends i also love that

32:34he

32:34loves being gay yes a lot of gay guys actually don't really no i love being me he just loves

32:43me

32:43all right so if you're happy to follow me yeah and you can take your blanks off

32:48what do you think you would do for a second date i'd say something active actually

32:55i know not like that i meant like you have no rush i feel like us being like older we

33:06know that you

33:07don't rush things like that you let it kind of build naturally yeah oh i'm so excited let me open

33:14the

33:14no friends thank you see you guys see y'all see y'all see this

33:27did you go up in monagar yeah just outside it worked with my dad at windows and doors

33:33nine or ten years okay i had a bike accident that kind of put me out of service for a

33:38while

33:40this is perfect here's the juicy stuff people are there what bikes are we talking about i move you

33:47to a table and then we'll get into the really juicy stuff okay does that sound good yeah before

33:51neil starts spilling these secrets i know yeah yeah watch out for this one ideally if he was into bikes

33:59that would be involved there would be a motorbike right right so back to the bike accident yeah

34:05going out through one day and just carpooled out and that was it lights out oh so i came two

34:12on

34:12the road but don't remember anything bar waking up next day so broke my femur pelvis right wrist

34:20left shoulder so it was wheelchair so i had to move home then so landed myself in a wheelchair for

34:26about

34:26four months had a lot of time to think about life and what i wanted to do a while before

34:33i kind

34:34got up on one but yeah i have two now huh i have two now so i'm back into them

34:41like oh yeah yeah

34:44well i suppose it's like there's no kind of in between with them yeah yeah they're like to be a

34:50one yeah what's your opinion on motorbikes yeah so i bought my first bike um last october yeah yeah

35:02yeah and i was telling you i went to him the tt last june yeah with a group of friends

35:08with my ex

35:08friends and when we came back from there i was like not for buying a bike i am buying a

35:13bike you

35:13know yeah it's different all right when you're over there like you understand the bravery of them

35:20yeah i'm going to the island man two weeks time yeah for the manx yeah yeah class yeah i think

35:27relationships probably flourish on trust i suppose obviously spending time together what sort of a

35:35bike did you buy i bought um 100 transel oh lovely yeah yeah good yeah there's no comparison to like

35:44driving if i can just have the wind yeah that kind of sense of freedom yeah yeah it's lovely yeah

35:51it

35:52really is but yeah no i like the coffee shop but yeah after college i don't know what i'm gonna

35:56do

35:57i find it really really cool that you can speak irish yeah do you really cool no i did my

36:02leaving

36:02certain irish that is yeah i went to an irish secondary school that's so cool well i won a kneecaf

36:07in

36:07ensemble oh really yeah but i don't understand the word of irish they speak uh different their accents like

36:15i actually that's like whoa you should be asking questions and not just talking about yourself

36:23don't start showing me your camera roll

36:32oh that doesn't look like you at all

36:37oh this is an ssc arena in belfast wow and then ep last year

36:46there's a very well is that you yeah

36:50i love a crowd surfing what the hell how do you get up there two big fellas and you'd be

36:54like lads get me

36:55off and they're like on our shoulders like no no so you go to the lads beside you catch me

37:00and

37:00you just have the trust in the people and they just go get me back i love it there's a

37:05few jacks

37:05to me try it you know i keep it close to my chest when i need it come out they'll

37:07come out like

37:09they're fake flower they're fake but smell it

37:12actually do you know what i do a big garden at home as well do you actually do like vegetables

37:15and

37:16flowers and stuff like it what have you got i've got like a little it's basically growing like cabbage

37:20and carrots and uh i actually don't know how you didn't say that yeah

37:24loads of stuff like obviously it's down my farm there's a little greenhouse like

37:27down there like and do you like cook them and all like yeah i love it i make like stews

37:31and stuff

37:31i'd love to be able to do that but like like i said we're not going to do it over

37:35here i suppose

37:36that smells like shy i live with three guys which definitely doesn't help with looking for

37:44a partner because well they do everything but make me attracted to men to be honest

37:49or like our garden at home was a shithole right so i was like right lads we're having a house

37:54party

37:55middle of july i'm inviting my friends you can invite your friends leave it with them to do the

38:01garden put in four days they didn't stop drinking every evening i saw on a tiktok there the other day

38:07and it's kind of like um

38:09these men in my generation have been handed everything their whole life

38:13that they don't know what it's like to actually settle

38:18these starters or

38:20mains and desserts yeah just because my daughter told me i have to get the heart

38:25oh yeah

38:26how many kids have you two okay two yeah

38:34yeah uh so my daughter's 14 and my son is 12. oh lovely yeah yeah my son he is 11

38:41going on 12 so

38:43they're teenagers and pre-teenagers so they don't really want to spend that much time with me anymore

38:48it's important if possible like to have not a relationship but like to communicate or to be

38:56able to communicate let's say you know it's heartbreaking because the only people we talk for

38:59absolutely kids yeah 100 and like that like we didn't you know it was amicable special it wasn't

39:05as if anybody did anything i think i was probably very young getting into that um and i sort of

39:11matured

39:11out of it so how do you find being gapped um i love it oh yeah i actually do like

39:22it's never boring

39:22no no there's no two days the same you know yeah and it's what i always wanted to do oh

39:29yeah yeah

39:30yeah yeah yeah how did you get into what you're doing now in the mix of you know different types

39:36relationships i guess i did have one pretty crappy one going back a few years ago yeah um

39:43yeah think of some of the worst things yeah yeah um but i don't regret any of it um i

39:49learned so much

39:50about myself from it i'm really i suppose geared towards growth at the moment and i'd like to meet

39:55somebody who also has that kind of mindset one of the lads at work that we mind didn't have a

40:01passport and was never on a holiday never out of the country we flew to the iron islands from connemara

40:06airport so kind of took pictures and sent them like an eight person playing a movie

40:11um so that worked well then we're like right next up is swain and they had a ball they loved

40:22it

40:22oh it's a bit of culture yeah exactly it's a bit of culture like isn't it yeah

40:32i literally i'll go 50 50. not a chance like oh yeah not a fucking chance

40:37joined by the whole thing no no oh my god another bogger but like not another bogger but like another

40:44bogger like it was a looker wasn't he thank you very much gentlemen gentlemen of course i bet i think

40:51i'm basing my stuff on like oh if she likes me if she likes me i'm like yeah probably would

40:55like

40:55see her again but i'm like if she didn't like me i'm like oh you have jackets or coats or

40:59anything

40:59oh he had a jacket yes thanks very much thank you very much bye see you now would you like

41:13to see

41:13each other again romantically i would i would i would say a breakover yeah i'd love to see her again

41:21yeah

41:23there's no point in doing the whole oh my god do you want to do it no i'd literally get

41:28sick i'd be

41:28like oh no because then it leaves it leaves too much anticipation yeah no i would yeah

41:36well like when i saw you first i was like oh my god he's cool and he's really good style

41:40you started talking i was like oh he's a bogger as well i was like okay right i'm comfortable

41:45like i was like i don't need to like start doubling to find myself not that i do but i

41:49do

41:53well obviously she's pretty pretty good looking like um actually i never even thought about that

41:58did you know uh uh i don't

42:08and is there bikes in family no no no no no no no no no her father would be discussed

42:15a big family yeah i have a big family um okay i lost my mom when i was very young

42:21and um when i was

42:2312 so yeah um so my sister looked after us um and my dad he just wasn't around from when

42:32i was very

42:32young yeah geez my 19 year old sister had to step up and take us on my dad had been

42:39gone since since i

42:40was a baby and um he just yeah he didn't step up i guess and i suppose look if she

42:50wasn't there

42:51you know we'd have just been separated and put into care homes and and who knows but look i suppose

42:58that's probably why i chose the job i chose you know there wasn't too many people that we could have

43:06looked up to in that time you know maybe who you are today 100 yeah and that's the way i

43:11look at it

43:11so you know what there's nothing we can't do anything about no where we come from like 100 definitely

43:19no so there was two girls three boys and then me so i suppose that's where my masculine energy comes

43:25from jenny it's funny because like last week i went off on the bike and i went down to um

43:30one of my

43:32favorite beaches in west cork and i said my sister picture and she was like oh it's fabulous i'd have

43:36gone and i sent it back a picture of the big bike and i was like no you wouldn't she

43:38was like no i

43:40wouldn't i brought the first one home okay and it was war father went out with a shotgun

43:50i was gonna do a shoot the bike oh yeah oh yeah oh yeah i wouldn't hold it back now

43:54now shoot the

43:54fellow who's sold it to you like no it's just the right time to say i don't like strawberries are

44:04you

44:05having a laugh are you messing are you messing no you don't like strawberries i don't really like you

44:11you should have said that why'd you let me do it i'll eat it i'll eat it i think we're

44:15both chatterboxes

44:18i think the time just flew like we were chatting away is a mustache a bad thing or a good

44:22thing

44:22good thing good thing yeah okay okay i said i liked mustache okay okay yeah yeah she's gorgeous

44:29gorgeous girl i'm not really a picky eater but like i have notions what are the notions cabbage turnip

44:36get them away from my face no okay don't even love fish and beans get them away from my face

44:40now i was

44:41going to order fish wasn't stick no fish and beans no like baked beans or any beans kidney beans all

44:48the beans kidney beans and a chili is nice though no would you ever spill them oh yeah i'd be

44:55but i wouldn't be eating the beans

45:02neither of us knew each other i don't think that's fair it's different if someone's like

45:05i'm gonna take you out but this was i would really like i would really like to pay for this

45:09meal and i'd appreciate it if you'd like to do so would you like to see each other again romantically

45:15ladies first i think we got on really well but i don't think it's there romantically i agree

45:21yeah really okay okay great i was gonna say i got more drink later but i didn't

45:26think okay it was like i need to get you okay i'm glad you feel the same yeah great grand

45:33man came prepared he's insisting he was super chatty and i think he's a great guy and i think

45:40really funny and i loved all things he was saying but i don't think it was quite there for me

45:45don't look at our secret our secret messages

45:49prick

45:52you're gonna go crowd surfing with him i don't know i'll see you at the agro voice

45:56okay yeah an electric picnic see ya see ya

46:02see ya now

46:13hi hi how are you how's it going it's all chat anyway my thoughts was he's not my usual type

46:23yeah just gonna drop this on the table there for you i'll let you guys work it out

46:27not really my usual type no but um yeah they've done good work he has a son who is um

46:3711.

46:39um he's two motorbikes oh did you have much in common no

46:48i'll get this oh for god's sake

46:53now that i've sat and chatted with him and relaxed a little bit yeah yeah

46:59so have you any plans for the rest of the evening no no all this time to myself pity i

47:04didn't bring the

47:05bike i give the whole evening free would you guys like to see each other again romantically

47:13i'm gonna let the lady answer first here we go

47:18i'm gonna say yeah yeah

47:21did you guys fancy each other yeah

47:25yeah perfect man has spoken absolutely

47:29don't argue calm seems genuine it's just easy to talk to guys thank you so much

47:37thanks so much

47:39there was some sort of a spark there yeah do you think nikki is girlfriend material

47:46she would be yeah

47:52i definitely think he could be boyfriend material

47:57what would day two look like

48:00the good of that's what it looks

48:04do you have me continue possibly yeah

48:14christy did a good job good job

48:23so i'd say maybe a run on phoenix park we can like run back and forth okay yeah we talk

48:40yeah that's nice

48:42yeah yeah yeah yeah can i put on my runner so please

48:48love above now it's gonna trick me in love

49:02tell me more about day two so what are you thinking oh what are you thinking

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