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90 Day The Single Life S05E09
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00:00Previously on The Single Life.
00:03You've never had my back.
00:04Yes, I have.
00:04You've never had my back.
00:05OK, you have enough.
00:07I'm just done with Liz, and I'm just
00:08done with this whole trip.
00:10Liz.
00:10She just it all up.
00:12She's just a horrible person.
00:14I'm sorry everything's kind of going the way it's going
00:17right now.
00:18Via is becoming someone that I feel like I can trust.
00:23Do you want to have a baby with her?
00:28We just established today that you're not
00:30talking to other women, and now we're talking about babies.
00:34I don't think he realizes that ship has sailed.
00:37I don't know about completely sailed,
00:39because there's always options.
00:44Courtney broke up with me a few days ago,
00:47and here you go.
00:48My lovely mother has come all the way from Canada
00:51to save the day.
00:52So you're not going to get back together?
00:54Having a relationship with another woman in Brazil.
00:58Thank you for seeing us.
01:00I wonder if Colt told his mom that he was sending jerk-off
01:03videos to other women.
01:05He thinks maybe if you two were together alone
01:09for a few days, you could work this out.
01:12On a relationship standpoint, I'm done.
01:14Like, .
01:16Your sister and your mom was acting crazy to me.
01:19I didn't know I was there to be grilled.
01:22My family can be a lot, but...
01:24And I'm going to lose you because a birthday party was wrong.
01:28I just need a bit of, like, time.
01:32Is your attention for a long-term relationship with Vanya?
01:35You're worried that I'm a player.
01:36Yeah.
01:37Is that what you're getting at?
01:39Honestly, I feel betrayed by Vanya because I feel like she's told her a lot about my past,
01:45but now it's almost using against me.
01:47I just don't appreciate her line of questioning.
01:50This trip is off to such a bad start, and something happened today that makes me feel like
01:56I don't even know Tony what so ever.
02:07Is it all in my head?
02:10Are we close to the end?
02:11Hi.
02:12How are you?
02:13How are you?
02:15Oh, yes.
02:17You must drive!
02:27Hey t'mine.
02:28So At least not here yet, so I hope she will be calm because if he doesn't spoke with her
02:32a couple days it'd be so awkward.
02:35Yeah.
02:35But did you really just let this go?
02:38Yeah, I know we had a miscommunication and like it wasn't great, but people make mistakes
02:44It's been four days since me and Liz had our big fight
02:47And Julia texted Liz to come and join us for some drinks
02:50You know, it's up to her if she wants to continue our friendship
02:52But I would love if she wants to because I do value her
02:56I think in every girls have a problem
02:58Especially when they go on holiday
03:00Oh my god
03:02It's like a tension
03:03Yes, it's without the fight, it's going to be another girl's trip
03:08Let's go over there, it's more cuter
03:10Oh yeah, I agree
03:11I was upset at Liz for talking to Pedro behind my back
03:14But I did take it a little bit far
03:17Especially after being on the receiving end of Pedro's family's craziness
03:20So if Liz does show up and she can see how we both went wrong
03:24Then hopefully we can just put this whole thing behind us
03:30Hi
03:30Hi ladies
03:31How are you?
03:39I haven't seen the girls in a few days
03:41And I feel like shutting out a friend on a girl's trip
03:45Is definitely mean girl energy
03:46It doesn't feel good
03:51I'm going to grab a drink
03:52Can I grab you another?
03:55Can I get a pina colada?
03:56Yes
03:56Thank you
03:58But when Julia reached out
04:00I decided it was worth hearing what Sophie has to say
04:04Can I get to pina colada's please?
04:07We came on this trip together
04:10We still have a couple days left
04:12We still have a couple days left
04:12So I just need to clear the air
04:14Thank you
04:15You're welcome
04:16I'm glad you came
04:19Because there's been a couple days left
04:20Because there's been a couple days silence and now it's time to back to our girls trip
04:25I've been super overwhelmed since I got here
04:27Not because of you
04:28But because of me and Pedro
04:30And it's been a lot
04:31And I know I probably came a bit too hard on you
04:34And I apologize for that
04:36I think I was projecting like my emotions
04:41I really don't want like drama or pettiness
04:45I really didn't have any intention of being malicious
04:48I didn't have any intention of trying to harm you
04:51Yeah
04:51So I'm sorry
04:53I hope you do know that
04:55I appreciate you saying sorry
04:56And I'm sorry too if I seemed like I was like emotional
05:02No one's perfect
05:03People bake it
05:03So what you're saying is we got our first fight out of the way
05:06Yes, yes, yes
05:09I generally feel like Sophie had time to reflect on what had happened
05:13Her apologies seemed very sincere
05:15I really hope she believes my apology
05:19I still feel like the outcast in some way
05:22But I'm going to move forward and enjoy the rest of this trip
05:27And oh my gosh, please just no more drama
05:30Thank you
05:31I'm happy that this is all squashed
05:33Like even though like I wasn't with you this weekend
05:36I want to know how you and Pedro are doing
05:39Well
05:41It was really bad
05:43It was really bad
05:44It was bad
05:45Oh my god
05:46Okay, so Pedro introduces me to his mom
05:49He did great
05:50He was like, look, this is Sophie
05:52She's not my girlfriend
05:53She's my friend
05:53I'm getting to know her
05:55The first thing she says to me
05:57She goes
05:58You're not dating him yet
05:59Because you haven't had his banana and his eggs yet
06:05He's f***ing his b***h
06:07His mom said that in front of everyone
06:09This is like first
06:10Like first encounter
06:11And then the sister comes to me
06:14She goes to me
06:15I don't trust you
06:17That's a lot, Sophie
06:19It's a lot
06:19After that, I do need to step back and be like
06:22Okay, well let me focus
06:22I am single
06:23I don't need to have all these issues right now
06:26And since I got here
06:28There was a guy that I found on my social media that lives literally in this area
06:34And we have been talking
06:36This guy is fine
06:38I need to show you him
06:39Oh my god, I'm blushing
06:41Like
06:42Okay, it's too cheap
06:44I was scrolling through some of the local guys on social media
06:46And there's this one guy in particular that looks really cute
06:50And I just feel like he could be really fun to meet up with
06:52Okay, this is him, this is him
06:54Okay, let's start with that one
06:55Oh yeah
06:56Hell yeah
06:58Sophie
06:58Look at his back
06:59You need all of this for you
07:02He rides motorcycles
07:04He's tall
07:06He's good looking
07:07And he's in shape
07:09I'm single
07:10I'm on holiday
07:11And I've told Pedro I need some space
07:13This is a little
07:14Fling a little
07:15Ew
07:16And this guy looks like the right amount of space
07:20So when do you plan on hanging out with him?
07:23In a couple days, you know
07:24I still get into no pressure
07:26But everything will happen in DR
07:28Stay in DR
07:30Cheers to this
07:32Welcome to our crazy friendship party
07:34Yes
07:35That's all with you
07:38Cheers
07:39Cheers
07:52Good morning
07:53Good morning
07:54Good morning
07:54How are you?
07:55How are you?
07:55I'm good
07:56Ooh, yes
07:57Morning latte
08:00Everything okay?
08:05Are you in or are you out?
08:16Well, in terms of how the night ended
08:19Tony was really upset
08:21Did you really go so harsh at him?
08:23What happened?
08:24I wasn't hard on him
08:24I was just kind of asking a question
08:26Hey, what's up?
08:26What's your plan?
08:28I know
08:28Vine is looking for a long-term relationship
08:29Are you on the same page or not?
08:32That's nice-ish
08:33Okay
08:35I brought Tony to Maine
08:37To spend my birthday with my family
08:39But instead, ever since we arrived
08:42It's been a complete disaster
08:44Last night, Tony stormed off to bed
08:47After Sonella started grilling him about his past
08:50But before he even arrived to my cousin's home
08:54I saw a side of Tony that I didn't know existed
08:56And this could be a deal-breaker for us
08:59I don't know if you picked up on what was happening
09:02When you were doing my eyebrows and my lips
09:05Tony was blowing up my phone
09:07And obviously I couldn't pick up
09:08Because we were working on my face
09:10And I called him back after we were done
09:13And he was so angry
09:14That he ended up hanging up the phone on me
09:17And you know that in my book
09:19That's one of the most rudest things you can do to me
09:22You do not do that
09:24Then, you know, when he showed up to the house
09:26He was trying to make it look like
09:29He was ignoring what just transpired
09:32The reason why he was upset
09:33Just because you didn't pick up the phone
09:35That's it
09:35Yeah
09:37It's too soon
09:38If this is happening this early in a relationship
09:41It's only going to get worse later
09:44He completely freaked out about not being able to reach me
09:48And he hung up the phone on me
09:50He just blew up
09:53It was disrespectful
09:54It was hurtful
09:56And I just don't know how to process this
09:58Or what to do about it
10:01It sounds very controlling
10:03Yeah
10:03So this is something that I'm going to have to deal with
10:07I'm going to have to address it with him
10:10It has to be done
10:11Better sooner than later
10:12I know
10:14Tony made plans to go paddleboarding today
10:16And I want to use this time
10:19To really get an answer
10:20About what happened yesterday
10:25How did you sleep last night, Tony?
10:27Did not get a good night's sleep
10:28Kind of thinking about the conversation last night
10:30And what transpired
10:31And Sonella just unleashed on me
10:34And I just feel like I'm getting teamed up on
10:36I feel like I'm alone in this
10:38And I just feel a little bit awkward right now
10:55Off we go to the adventure
10:57Off we go
10:58Right
10:59To the coast
11:07I think it's good to get out of the house
11:09And, you know, there's just a little bit
11:12I mean, not even a little bit
11:13There was quite a bit of tension yesterday
11:17Sonella came at me pretty hard
11:18What do you mean?
11:19She came at you pretty hard
11:21She kind of threw out a lot of history
11:23That was from a while ago
11:24I think Sonella just has something against me
11:27And I don't think it's fair
11:28That she just comes out and attacks me
11:29On the first night
11:30I just feel like I was kind of blindsided by it all
11:32Well, she's worried for me
11:34She wants to make sure that you have the best interest
11:36For me in your heart
11:37If you saw what happened
11:39I was being attacked
11:41She's just looking out for me
11:43And I think that she went about it the wrong way
11:46But I think she had good intentions
11:51I know Sonella is Vanya's best friend
11:54But instead of really trying to communicate with me
11:57It becomes my cousin first
11:59And let's see what her opinions are
12:01And out of respect for me
12:03I would just prefer that we work out our issues together
12:07They don't have to be spread to the whole world
12:12Hi folks, how you doing?
12:13Good, good
12:14We have a reservation for Tony
12:16Unfortunately, we've got some thunderstorms rolling in
12:20So unfortunately, we just can't have folks on the water
12:22When we're doing thunder and lightning
12:24Alright, okay then
12:25You want to just walk around?
12:27Yeah, might as well
12:27You can walk by the water
12:28Thank you
12:29Thank you
12:34I feel like you can cut the tension with a knife
12:38Tony's being really quiet
12:40But you need to man up and own your mistakes
12:43There's nothing that I have done ever to this point
12:48That would warrant somebody hanging up the phone on me
12:51It's disrespectful, it's rude, it's childish
12:53And I will not tolerate it
12:57So why are you so quiet?
13:01Something on your mind?
13:02Yeah
13:05You hung up the phone on me
13:06And you got upset at me
13:09Not my cousin
13:10You got upset at me
13:12And I didn't do anything wrong
13:14You knew what I was doing the whole time
13:15She was doing permanent makeup on me
13:17I couldn't talk
13:18And you got upset because I couldn't talk
13:21I mean
13:22I'm in a new place
13:23A new setting
13:25You know
13:26You have your family here
13:27I have no one here
13:27So
13:28I thought I could just kind of rely on you more
13:30And you know
13:33I didn't know what was bothering you so much though
13:35So much
13:36Like this is so important for me
13:38For you to meet my family
13:40And it's all starting off on the wrong foot
13:45This is a special weekend for me
13:47And these are the most special people in my life
13:50And did you hang up the phone on me
13:52And you're just ignoring me
13:57This is horrible
14:02We have a great connection
14:04But our connection hasn't really been physical
14:08Don't get nervous
14:10So far we've fooled around
14:12Kissed a bit
14:13But we haven't had sex
14:15Okay
14:17Tonight is the night baby
14:19Look at that big booty
14:21Oh my god
14:22That's how I like it
14:23So I guess I have not told you ladies
14:26Wait what?
14:27Yeah
14:29I've been keeping a secret since arriving in the DR
14:32The worst thing you could do is lead him on
14:34And not tell him
14:35Yeah
14:35That's the worst thing you could do
14:37Feelings between Via and I
14:38Are evolving very quickly
14:40And he might be hurt
14:42By what I have to share with him
14:44And he might not want anything to do with me
14:58I think I need a few shots
15:00I need a nightcap for sure
15:01You know what happens when I get a few shots
15:05Oh my god
15:05No I just care
15:06I do
15:07I do
15:18Uncle Marco is interesting
15:20He's an interesting character
15:22He had a lot of questions
15:25You know
15:25I mean
15:26Yeah
15:26That was a lot
15:28There was a lot to absorb
15:29But you know
15:30I just think that
15:31We need to
15:33Walk
15:34Before we run
15:37I invited Natalie to Michigan
15:40And things are going good between us
15:43Getting my Uncle Marco's blessing
15:45Was a huge deal to me
15:47But I'm a little concerned
15:49That he kind of came in a little hot
15:52About Natalie and I having kids
15:54You haven't even met my children yet
15:57They don't even know you
15:58That's step one right
15:59That's step one yeah
16:00So if I ask you to marry me tonight
16:03Is that too fast?
16:05It's really important to me
16:07To have a child of my own
16:09So if I move forward with Natalie
16:12I'm hoping she can remain open-minded
16:14To make that a reality
16:18We are home
16:19Oh look at those flowers
16:20I know I got some nice flowers
16:22Aren't they beautiful?
16:23Thanks to you and Uncle Marco
16:24I know
16:27Here we go
16:29Okay
16:32Go ahead
16:33Oh this is nice
16:35You like it?
16:36Yeah
16:37Enter my home
16:38Yeah
16:40My bedroom is up there
16:42Okay
16:44And if you want
16:45You can have a seat
16:46And wait for me
16:46While I get us a drink
16:48This could be a big night
16:50For Natalie and I
16:51So far
16:52We've fooled around
16:53Kissed a bit
16:54But we haven't had sex
16:56And that's not because
16:57I haven't wanted it
16:59Cheers to
17:00The future
17:01The future
17:02Cheers to the future
17:03There we go
17:04So let's hope
17:05Tonight is the night baby
17:09What was your favorite part of the day?
17:11What was my favorite part?
17:13Mmhmm
17:14What I think was just
17:16Hanging out with you today
17:17My favorite parts of the day
17:19Was when you came to me
17:20And told me that
17:21You have decided
17:22Not to talk to other women
17:26Can you do that though?
17:28Can you do that?
17:29Are you going to be able to do that though?
17:31I don't know!
17:32See that's the thing
17:32No I'm just kidding
17:33Listen
17:34There's
17:36Beautiful women on this planet
17:38I mean gorgeous women
17:39I know
17:39I get it
17:40I get it
17:40The thing is
17:42Is like
17:45It's hard to find
17:46A good quality woman
17:47That has like
17:48Good qualities
17:48Like you have
17:49Yeah
17:49Having a good quality woman
17:53Trumps everything
17:53You're growing up
17:54Trumps everything
17:55Right?
17:56You're growing up
17:57Yeah
17:58Yeah
17:59That's nice to hear
18:00Because you know what
18:01It's true
18:01You're absolutely right
18:02So after everything
18:04That happened in D.C.
18:05I took a big chance
18:06Coming here
18:06But
18:07Wanting to be exclusive
18:09And introducing me to Uncle Marco
18:11Is finally showing me that
18:13Gino may be serious
18:15About being in a committed relationship
18:17I'm hopeful
18:19For the next step
18:20And it's probably the most hopeful
18:22I've been in a long time with him
18:25We have a great connection
18:27But our connection has been very mental
18:29And it hasn't really been physical
18:32So
18:32I mean
18:36Don't get nervous
18:39That totally makes sense, baby
18:41Okay
18:55You are a good kisser
18:56I will say that
18:58I will give you that
19:02I'm getting kind of tired
19:04Really?
19:07I kind of think we should go to bed
19:09So soon?
19:10So soon?
19:12Yeah
19:12You know
19:15Gino
19:16I'm ready to go to bed
19:18Yeah?
19:22I don't know how many more hints
19:24I can give you
19:26I'm ready to go to bed
19:28Okay
19:29So let's go then
19:31Let's go
19:32Let's take the drinks
19:34It's probably been
19:36A year and a half
19:38Since I've been intimate
19:40With a woman
19:40When I was with Jasmine
19:42I was miserable
19:44And
19:45I can't be intimate
19:46With someone
19:47That's yelling and screaming at me
19:48Fighting with me
19:49And
19:51Disrespecting me
19:52After you
19:53Okay
19:54But with Natalie
19:55I feel like I can be myself
19:57She's a very good person
19:59And
20:00I'm going to prove to her
20:02That I can be the man
20:04That she deserves
20:04Look at that
20:06Big booty
20:06Oh, big
20:07That's how I like it
20:08Maybe we'll do it
20:10Two
20:11Three
20:12Four
20:12Five times
20:13Who knows how many times
20:14We might even have sex
20:16Till the sun comes up
20:18Mmm
20:20Yeah
20:21Baby
20:22Oh, yeah
20:34I got this feeling in my body
20:37I need to dance this dress away
20:40I like to get a little night
20:43When I hear that music play
20:47Okay, ladies
20:48If you haven't found your man yet
20:50May try to hug yourself
20:52Oh
20:55Julia, stop hugging
20:56Yeah
21:12Thank you for participating in our Zumba
21:15We'll see you on the next hangover Zumba
21:18Yes
21:18Tomorrow
21:19Bye
21:20Let's take a shot
21:23I am very relieved
21:24Sophie and I put the drama behind us
21:26And I really just want to enjoy the rest of our girls' trip
21:32Okay
21:33What do you want to say?
21:34Show us
21:35I'll listen over here
21:35Okay
21:37I really need some, like, guidance
21:40I've been keeping a secret pretty much the whole time since arriving in the DR
21:48Okay
21:49You have a couple days left before home
21:52Yeah
21:53You're going to have fun
21:54Because you have this all, like
21:56Not fun
21:57I mean, you have some fun
21:58I've just been spending so much time with Via
22:00But I have not told you, ladies
22:04So
22:05So
22:05There is someone that I'm talking to back at home
22:08As well
22:09Wait, what?
22:11Yeah
22:12Like talking, talking
22:13Or like, like
22:14Like we're dating
22:16Wait
22:17Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait,
22:21wait, wait
22:21About three months ago
22:23Right after I broke up with Jason
22:24I met someone new
22:27His name is Alec
22:28And
22:29We just clipped
22:32Really?
22:33Yes.
22:34Oh, my.
22:36I'm overstimulated.
22:39Alec wants a relationship with me, but I've never been single.
22:43So I told Alec I was coming on this trip and I wanted to date.
22:48I wanted to get it out of my system and then kind of come home
22:52and figure out if I wanted a serious relationship.
22:55I never expected to fall for someone.
22:59I made it very clear coming to here I wanted to express being single.
23:03And then now I feel very conflicted because I see myself developing feelings for Via.
23:09So I'm scared to, like, tell Via, hey, I am talking to someone back at home.
23:14As long as you communicate and tell him, hey, like, we're just hanging out,
23:17if that's all you can do, you're being honest.
23:20If anyone understands how Liz feels, it's me,
23:22because I just got out of a toxic relationship
23:25and I don't want to rush into anything either.
23:27My only thing is it does feel a little shady that she's hiding it from Via.
23:31Like, I'm in the same boat, like, I'm also trying to get to know Pedro,
23:34but the thing is I'm being extremely honest with him
23:36because I don't want to lead someone on.
23:38So I hope she tells him soon or this whole thing could blow up in her face.
23:43I think tell him, he seems like a nice guy, he's probably going to take it fine,
23:46and he'll probably still want to get to know you.
23:48The worst thing you could do is lead him on and not tell him.
23:50But I feel like it's so complicated now, and it scares me either way.
24:02When Courtney took my phone, she told Diana that her and I were in a relationship together.
24:07I haven't talked with Diana since the night Courtney and I broke up.
24:10So, how you been?
24:13You heard me.
24:22Should've known how good you had it
24:25Thought I would love you out of habit
24:28But you never earn it
24:30So you don't deserve it
24:33I miss her.
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24:59Courtney, are you okay?
25:04Let me know.
25:06It's been about five days now since Courtney broke up with me
25:10and apparently my mother couldn't convince Courtney to give me a second chance
25:15and I can't say I'm exactly surprised.
25:18I threw away a good relationship with a good woman
25:22and I hate myself for that.
25:25I hate for all the pain that I caused to everybody.
25:32Living with her parents, I couldn't do anything without Courtney.
25:35I couldn't leave the house.
25:36It was just like I was completely relying on her for everything.
25:39And I felt trapped.
25:42And talking with Diana allowed me to escape that reality.
25:47I'm blocking out memories
25:51With a hidden black heartbeat
25:55Hello?
25:57I'm here.
25:58Hey!
25:59Hey!
26:00How are you?
26:01You look great today.
26:05I haven't talked with Diana since the night Courtney and I broke up.
26:08When Courtney took my phone, she saw all the messages between Diana and I
26:12and she decided to message her directly.
26:14She told Diana that her and I were in a relationship together.
26:18And this is a problem because I never told Diana the truth.
26:23That Courtney and I have been in a romantic relationship.
26:28So, how you been?
26:33Tell me.
26:34I'm angry.
26:37Because you told me about your plans, your promise to her.
26:46So, I'm feeling very stupid because you say, I love you, Diana.
26:53I do love you.
26:54I have a lot of feelings for you.
26:56That's why I wanted to see you.
26:58But then I broke my leg.
27:02Came.
27:03You know, I wasn't expecting to see Courtney.
27:05I wasn't expecting to have her in my life.
27:12I love Courtney.
27:18But I love you.
27:19And if I haven't met you, I was supposed to meet you.
27:30You're hurting me.
27:32I'm hurting everybody.
27:35I feel terrible for causing Diana so much hurt and seeing her upset.
27:41But I want to be honest.
27:43Yes, I still love Courtney.
27:45I love Courtney.
27:46And I also love you.
27:47And Diana needs to know that.
27:52Do you still want me to come to Brazil?
28:00I'm feeling like your last option.
28:07I could see that.
28:12I don't know what I'm doing with anything in life right now.
28:21I'm sad.
28:23I'm sorry that I've hurt you.
28:38Well, that sucked.
28:41I know I messed up with both of them.
28:44I was treating both women equally wrong.
28:49I wanted the benefits of having Diana as an outlet.
28:54But I also wanted the benefits of having Courtney as a girlfriend.
28:57And now they don't want anything to do with me.
29:00And I take full responsibility for this.
29:04But I'm not ready to give up on love.
29:06I'm going to fight like hell to get her back.
29:09Which one?
29:13Good question.
29:20I like to be in control.
29:22I like whatever I plan to happen.
29:24But you can't alienate the person that's supposed to be so important to you.
29:28I have never seen this controlling side of Tony in the past.
29:33This is just all coming out of the blue.
29:35This has happened to me so many times in the past.
29:38A guy starts out one way, then it turns out they were just hiding their real personalities.
29:42So is this who you are?
29:57This is a special weekend for me, and these are the most special people in my life.
30:01And did you hang up the phone on me, and you're just ignoring me?
30:12This is horrible.
30:15Yeah, I made the mistake.
30:16Like I said, I didn't communicate with you about what happened, but it was kind of awkward with me kind
30:21of to bring it up at their place and meet them for the first time.
30:23But I don't want this to be kind of blown out of proportion where it was, yeah, about an issue
30:28we had yesterday regarding time management, spending time together.
30:32Don't make it like I'm blowing things out of proportion. You haven't really talked to me nicely since yesterday.
30:40I didn't intend for this to happen. I didn't. I overreacted. And one of my issues, one of my flaws
30:45is I like to be in control. I like the situation or whatever I plan to happen, you know, and
30:52done right, correctly.
30:53But you can't go with life thinking that things are going to go exactly how you planned it. You have
30:57to roll with the punches. And in the process, you can't alienate the person that's supposed to be so important
31:03to you.
31:07Tony hanging up on me yesterday, it took me by surprise. I have never seen this kind of controlling side
31:14of Tony in the past. This is just all coming out of the blue.
31:19What did I tell you when we were first discussing trying to take this into a relationship? I said, are
31:24you going to change? Please don't change.
31:26It's not much changing, though. This has happened to me so many times in the past. A guy starts out
31:30one way and then it turns out that it was the opposite the whole time and they were just hiding
31:34their real personality. So is this who you are?
31:39No, it's not like a new me. It's not. The old me is the real me. That's the person you've
31:45known for the longest time.
31:47But the old you has never hurt me like this.
31:50I don't think someone should ever be judged on one reaction or one issue or one fault.
31:59I don't know.
32:02You think this is a real me?
32:04I don't know. That's why I'm trying to have this conversation.
32:07That's not fair, Vanya. That's not fair at all.
32:14This has been kind of like a running theme in some of my past relationships.
32:18A guy starts off being this amazing Prince Charming and then once they feel like they got you in their
32:25claws, then they do a 180 and they become a totally different person.
32:29And who knows, is Tony becoming this totally different person this early in a relationship?
32:34And that's definitely a concern for me.
32:38Tony.
32:39I mean, if you really think I'm a person that's going to truly just hurt you, then you should walk
32:43away from me. I agree.
32:45I want to make sure that going forward, you're not going to just have a freak out and then have
32:52an explosion like hanging up the phone and then ignoring me.
32:57I can first of all apologize for what I did because hanging up the phone is not right.
33:01I'm taking full accountability for it.
33:07I like to be updated. I like to have things kind of go according to plan.
33:11But then I feel like sometimes I'm not even on her radar.
33:14So I felt like that yesterday.
33:16I didn't respond the right way. I hung up on the phone on her.
33:19So, you know, it was not a good reaction on my end.
33:22You know, going forward, I think communication and transparency is key.
33:26And, you know, I think Vanya in the end will see that this is still the real Tony and it's
33:29a pretty good version too.
33:33So I'm not trying to hurt you. I really am not.
33:35And I don't like to see you cry like it hurts me too.
33:37There you go.
33:46Are you going to get a smart chance?
33:48What?
33:50That's all right, man.
33:52You're never going to lose you.
33:55Right?
33:57After a year and a half of friendship, I thought that I knew Tony.
34:01But this whole experience now makes me feel like I'm walking on eggshells.
34:06And it's putting seeds of doubt in my mind because is this what I want to sign myself up for?
34:14Maybe the relationship Tony and the friend Tony are two totally different people.
34:24So it's good. Get things off your chest.
34:26I just felt like it was important to talk about. It's been really bothering me.
34:33We've been having a great time.
34:36We have a great connection. I feel, I think, I thought.
34:40I guess I'm just going to be straightforward.
34:43There is somebody back at home that I've been seeing.
34:46Didn't expect that.
34:48Oh, this is hard.
34:50There's actually a lot of emotions involved.
34:54So, I don't really feel good right now. I feel bad.
35:19Hey, beautiful.
35:20Hi.
35:21How are you?
35:22Good.
35:23Good? You ready?
35:25You smell good as always.
35:27You ready for our dance lessons?
35:28I am ready.
35:29Yeah?
35:29Yeah.
35:30Let's go.
35:41Julia!
35:43Oh, my goodness!
35:45I think we're going to dance and you look like you're going to the wedding.
35:48Are you ready?
35:49Let's go.
35:50Ever since landing here in the DR, all I've wanted to do is go to a dance class.
35:54Okay, Julia!
35:56Woo!
35:57Woo!
35:57You're ready for dancing.
36:00Julia is joining us, but Sophie decided to take some alone time for herself, and I think
36:05that's a great idea.
36:06The girl deserves it.
36:07It's been a roller coaster.
36:08It's so pretty!
36:11Hello!
36:12Coming!
36:12Coming!
36:13A little dance?
36:14This is exciting.
36:15This is exciting.
36:16Today we will give some merengue and bachata, like Dominican style.
36:21So follow me and enjoy.
36:23We are here for giving love.
36:24Can I pick this man?
36:25He can have a crazy energy.
36:26Yeah!
36:27Venga!
36:28In my photo!
36:29Eso!
36:30You can have a big partner, for example, with him.
36:33So we will start with some both steps first.
36:37I feel like we've done this before.
36:38Yeah.
36:39I don't feel all that new.
36:41It's kind of natural now.
36:42And let's go to something fun!
36:44Yeah!
36:45Yahoo!
36:46Oh, we can do a spin.
36:48Oh.
36:49Open position!
36:51Again!
36:51Let's go, let's go, let's go!
36:53And we go!
36:55I'm sorry.
36:56I feel like I have to count my steps.
36:57I'm, like, thinking.
36:58I'm talking and, like, counting my steps.
36:59Two, three.
37:01One, two, three.
37:03You're making me really nervous.
37:05Why me?
37:06Why?
37:07I always get nervous.
37:10You're getting me all hot.
37:12Oh, yeah.
37:16Well, that's and Ken lead to that.
37:18I've really done nothing but hang out with Via on my whole singles girl trip.
37:24And as much as I'm enjoying being in the moment with him, it's making me feel guilty for the feelings
37:30that I have back at home with Alec.
37:36I think I'm really falling for Via, and now I'm so beyond confused.
37:41I've waited such a long time for just one good person to walk into my life that never did I
37:47imagine that there'd be two.
37:49Okay, guys.
37:50I'm gonna see you.
37:51I'm gonna see you tomorrow.
37:52Yeah, I'm gonna see you tomorrow.
37:53So, rest now.
37:54After this dancing, can you walk me?
37:59Ooh.
38:00You seem so nervous.
38:02I know.
38:02I just wasn't supposed to come here and start falling for so good.
38:05It's true.
38:06But you're gonna be honest.
38:07That's all what you need to do.
38:08Okay.
38:09Yes.
38:10Thanks, girl.
38:11See you.
38:12Everything will be fine.
38:13Just breathe.
38:14Take a shot.
38:20Hey.
38:21Hey.
38:22You wanna go get a drink?
38:24You wanna drink?
38:25Yeah.
38:25Yeah.
38:25You wanna drink finally?
38:26Let's go.
38:27Yeah, let's go get a drink.
38:28Everything okay?
38:29Yeah.
38:30I am worried about hurting Via's feelings.
38:34I don't know how he feels about me.
38:36Is this just a vacation fling?
38:39Did he expect to, like, have feelings?
38:42We just, we have to have this conversation.
38:45Cheers.
38:46Cheers.
38:48To dancing?
38:49To dancing.
38:50To chemistry?
38:51To chemistry.
38:52That was a lot of fun.
38:54Mm-hmm.
38:55I feel like dancing with you is always a lot of fun.
38:58Yeah.
38:58I think every time I'm with you, I have a lot of fun.
39:01So, I guess, I don't know where, like, your feelings are at with me.
39:07But I know that I am developing feelings.
39:13And same with me.
39:15Um, we've been having a great time.
39:19We have a great connection, I feel.
39:20I think, I thought.
39:22What?
39:23I have the best time with you.
39:27But, I came on this ship to work on me.
39:32And now having feelings for you is making it super complicated.
39:36I guess I'm just gonna be straightforward.
39:39There is somebody back at home that I have been seeing.
39:47Okay.
39:49Didn't expect that.
39:52How serious, like, is this with this person?
39:56I don't know.
39:58The whole point of this trip was to see if I wanted to embrace being single or if I, where
40:05things can go potentially when I get back home.
40:10Oh, this is hard.
40:13It just doesn't make a lot of sense to me.
40:16Single's trip.
40:17You're not single.
40:19Well, I am single.
40:20Right now, until you go back.
40:24Like...
40:25Like...
40:26I can see how it looks to you.
40:29Yeah.
40:30I just kinda feel like I'm, like, I've been wasting my time, you know?
40:39I'm gonna use this.
40:43I got so scared of letting the truth be told.
40:48It's half in your head to hold.
40:50It's half in your head to hold.
40:52And I got freaked out by letting the truth be known.
40:57Safer to be on your own.
40:59There's actually a lot of emotions involved.
41:02So...
41:03I don't really feel good right now.
41:05I feel bad.
41:07Like...
41:08Like, I feel really bad right now.
41:13I thought we were doing well, you know?
41:16I thought we were...
41:19on the right path, on the right track, I guess.
41:21I just didn't expect that, so...
41:24I feel a little...
41:25betrayed.
41:28Deceived, I guess.
41:29Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.
41:32By my size, the one kind.
41:34How could I be so blind when I can't take it back?
41:38No, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.
41:42Yeah, I feel really sick to my stomach right now.
41:47Well, ****.
41:50I can't take it back.
41:54Next time on The Single Life.
41:56Hello.
41:57Hi.
41:59How are you?
42:00I'm good.
42:00It's so good to see you.
42:02Wayne is 52 years old.
42:03He lives in the UK.
42:05And we've been talking for a couple months.
42:07I've even put some aftershave on for this coffee date.
42:10You're so handsome.
42:11I have to tell you, you are a handsome little guy.
42:13You are as well.
42:14Oh, thanks.
42:15Wayne might legit be my person.
42:18But putting all the effort into another international relationship, it's just taking such a chance.
42:26This is my daughter.
42:27I'm surprised I'm meeting you today.
42:29I didn't expect that.
42:30I'm surprised you're even here.
42:32I was expecting more of a nice initial greeting, you know.
42:36That was a little weird for me.
42:38Can you close that?
42:39I could.
42:40Well, you better.
42:42So far, I'm not impressed.
42:47I want to know if you'd like to, you know, to try again.
42:51So I'm being honest.
42:52There is someone today that I'm going to just, like, meet.
42:57That's a day.
42:59You're going out there with someone.
43:00We have a few days left.
43:02And you'd rather spend that time with somebody that you know than spend the time with me?
43:06This is bulls**t.
43:08Are you free to dance?
43:09I am.
43:10All right, let's do it.
43:11I just don't see how dancing with other guys is respectful of the guy that you're with.
43:16It's my girl.
43:16Do you mind if I grab a dance with my girl?
43:18No.
43:18I mean, like, are you serious?
43:20The fact that he's projecting this insecurity on me is not fair.
43:23It's not right.
43:24I'm not going to stand for it.
43:26I'm just, like, really done with this s**t.
43:28We might have even bigger problems than I originally thought.
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