Make Dating Fun Again 💕🔥 PART 2

Call Her Daddy

Make Dating Fun Again 💕🔥 PART 2 Tired of boring dates and awkward conversations? It’s time to bring the spark back! 💕 In this video, we explore fun, creative, and exciting ways to make dating enjoyable again. Whether you're single, talking to someone new, or in a relationship, these tips will help you connect better, laugh more, and create unforgettable moments.  Say goodbye to dull meetups and hello to meaningful, exciting experiences. From unique date ideas to simple mindset shifts, this is your guide to making dating feel fresh, natural, and fun again! ✨  #DatingTips #LoveLife #ModernDating #RelationshipAdvice #DatingFun #FindLove #DatingLife #CoupleGoals #Romance #LoveAdvice #DatingStruggles #SingleLife #Flirting #HealthyRelationships #LoveJourney

Transcript

00:02then you're able to strike up conversation with them. And it feels like things are going well

00:05from there, right? Classic flirting, boom, like we're ready. But remember, if someone cannot

00:12hold a fun conversation, that is not a reflection of you as a person. And when it clicks and the

00:17vibes are there, try not to worry so much if you're being funny enough, or if you're being

00:21cute enough, if you're being hot enough, like the fun of it is just being just be present in the

00:25moment, be your fucking self, okay? So now we're leaving our cages, we're leaving our dungeons,

00:31we're seeing the sunlight, we're meeting men, we're out there, okay? The next stage that I want us to

00:37discuss is the one that is inevitable. It is important to something that I know a lot of you

00:41may absolutely dread, but I promise it has the potential to be a night you will never forget.

00:47Let's get into a first date. Call Her Daddy is brought to you by Tinder. Ladies, we all have

00:54the group chat that goes into high alert when someone has a date. You're sending outfit options,

01:00maybe the restaurant menu to strategically plan your order, and you're dropping his profile one

01:05last time for final group chat approval. Then the second that date is over, you're basically

01:10hosting your very own podcast in the car home, sending a 12-minute voice memo recap of literally

01:16everything that went down. So it's like your best friends were right there with you. That's the exact

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01:32first date alone, you and your best friend match with another pair to meet up together. So now you're

01:39there, you're observing, taking mental notes, you know, making eye contact across the table,

01:45maybe kicking each other underneath the table, just like feeling things out. You know what I mean?

01:49The pressure is way lower and the whole thing feels way less like an interview and more like

01:54another fun night out. Double date is about getting to experience dating side by side from

01:58your first impressions to the immediate recap. Maybe it turns into a second date, or maybe it's

02:03just a chaotic night that you'll be laughing about for years. Either way, you are in it together.

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02:15I get why first dates might be so hard to look forward to. It's a whole thing. You're like,

02:20I got to get ready. I have to leave my house again to all of us trolls. No, no, no.

02:26This is

02:27a good thing that we're being forced to leave our house, but you don't know if you're going to click

02:30with this person, right? It could be awkward. Like you're just like, Oh my God, I'm kind of like

02:33meeting a stranger. And like, I don't want this to be a total waste of time. Great. Okay. But if

02:37you're

02:38going into a first date with the energy of, uh, here we go again. Just like, I just got to

02:43get through

02:44then that headspace is going to completely affect the entire date experience. So fake it. Okay.

02:50It's probably going to be a lot harder to vibe with someone when you're approaching meeting them,

02:53where you're like, this is a task that I have to get through. And I'm already thinking that you're

02:57going to be worse than the last. So let's just get this over with. So I can tell my friends

03:01I

03:01went on a fucking date. No, instead, ladies and gentlemen, I want to reintroduce like

03:07romanticizing your fucking life. Okay. You need to be romanticizing and enjoying every element

03:12of a first date experience starting before you even leave the house. When you are getting ready,

03:19let's turn on one of our favorite songs. Let's catch up on some shows. We haven't watched

03:23FaceTime a friend. Okay. Take that long, everything shower that makes you feel. Oh,

03:29so amazing that you had to do regardless of the date. Okay. Blow out your hair, put in an outfit.

03:35You haven't had a chance to wear yet. Try on your new lip combo. Do everything you need to do

03:40to

03:40feel your absolute best. A first date is an important opportunity to like take a boring,

03:46normal weeknight, turn it into something to actually look forward to. Okay. A random Tuesday

03:50in your cubicle is a lot less terrible when you know that the night is going to end with you

03:55potentially just looking so, well, you're going to look, there's no potential. You're going to look

03:59gorgeous and you're going to potentially meet someone new. Okay. It's good to have a different

04:03experience than you usually would just like sitting at home. We're watching Hulu or Netflix again.

04:08And here we go. Episode 457 of Grey's Anatomy. Trust me, girl, I love a good Grey's, but we can

04:15pause. We can pause for one night of the week. I also know it can often feel like, okay, fuck,

04:20I'm getting ready for nothing. Okay. I don't want to spend, I don't want to put my expensive

04:27foundation on this gorgeous skin for a man that isn't shit. I don't want to waste it. Okay. I don't

04:33want to end up crying in the bathroom and crying all my gorgeous makeup off because what the fuck?

04:37I don't want to waste a night. I don't want to waste a night. Is it worth it? Because Nicholas

04:41last week talked to me about his obsession with toenails and I was like, I'm never going

04:47another date again. And then the guy before Frank Quad, he literally was talking about, he

04:52likes like mommy daughter porn. Like I'm not, I'm not feeling it. And I so get that Nicholas and

04:58Farquaad like Farquaad, Farquaad, whatever. Frogger and Nicholas, they don't exist. They

05:05were losers, but there could be a good one tonight. And so you have to just go with that

05:10mentality. Even if you're lying, lie to yourself, you can lie to yourself and just get yourself

05:16through it. Because here's what I will say. When you put makeup on and you put your outfit

05:22on, you feel good. You're not going to just waste it on a date. Okay. Because we're going to,

05:25we're going to build a shield around that. When I used to go on first dates, I'd be like,

05:31I've never been more gorgeous. Okay. This outfit slay. I am worthy of someone noticing me tonight,

05:38even if it's not the fucking date I'm going with. And so what I would do is I would always

05:42plan a

05:42drinks before my drinks with the person I was going to meet up with. I would go meet a friend.

05:47So I'm like, even if I just went out with a girlfriend and then have a shit date later,

05:51doesn't matter. I got to see my friend. So plan something. Or if like, you know,

05:55your friends are going out later, you're not wasting your outfit. Try to have things around.

05:59Also get a fucking selfie. Okay. Do a little pregame. Okay. Get a ketchup drink with a friend

06:05over your FaceTime. Like, I don't care. Don't just be like, I'm just going on a date. And if it

06:08doesn't work out, I'm going to rip my extensions out in the fucking cab on my way home. I'm going

06:12to

06:12cry. I'm going to rip my eyelashes off. I'm going to put them on the cab door and I'm going

06:16to go

06:16upstairs and watch the notebook and cry my eyes out being like, why don't I have a Noah? No,

06:21we have a full calendar when we have nights of a date. Do you understand what I'm saying?

06:27You're setting yourself up for success. So when it comes to a first date, I've obviously been out of

06:32the first date game for a little bit. So I, when I was preparing for this episode, I did a

06:36deep dive

06:36on TikTok to see what advice people were sharing for first dates. And you guys, I was horrified.

06:44I was absolutely horrified. I was shocked. I was disgusted. I was like, no wonder people hate

06:52fucking dating right now. Like I came across video after video of rules of what you should do and you

06:57should not be doing on a first date. And I fear we have completely lost the plot on what it

07:02actually

07:02means to be seeking a connection with someone. Because look, I know these rules are coming from

07:07a good place. Like people don't want to be wasting their time and everyone is looking for ways to

07:11optimize the experience of meeting someone. But in my opinion, the rules are where the fun parts of

07:17the first date go to absolutely die. We have to find some nuance and balance here. I am going to

07:22tell

07:23you the top four rules that I kept seeing over and over and over. And then I need to discuss

07:28and tell

07:29you why I disagree with almost every single one of them. Okay. Number one, they said was to go to

07:34the

07:35same place for every first date so you can eliminate any external variables. Okay. We'll get to that.

07:42Number two is to never get any food on a first date. Only get drinks. Okay. We'll get to that.

07:49Number three is to set a two hour time limit for a first date. And number four is to never

07:56kiss them

07:56at the end of a first date. Okay. Well, um, here's, here's, here's what I have to say to that.

08:07No

08:08wonder dating feels like a fucking chore. We're stripping out all the excitement and the joy when

08:12we start overanalyzing and strategizing to that extent. Let's start with the first rule, which is

08:18go to the same place every time you go on a date. Okay. I understand the idea of being like,

08:24I know the place and like, I know the lighting and I know where the bathroom is and I know

08:29the

08:29parking situation. And like, I know exactly what to order. Like you're just trying to be fully

08:34comfortable. I get that. But doing this, I think that completely eliminates the opportunity to use

08:40a first date as one trying something new. Think about it. You have a whole night blocked off with

08:44someone who is potentially willing to do whatever you suggest. Right. Or also potentially a horrible

08:51fucking first date. So you might as well get something out of it and like, at least go try the

08:54new fucking tie place down the street. Okay. You're like, this guy is so, oh my God, he's so

08:59fucking boring. But like, God damn, this tie shit is good. Or like mini golfing. And then you can whack

09:05him in the fucking face with the ball. Like there's options for mobility here. If the date is going

09:11horribly, at least you're trying the cool new bar down the place that you can find scout out for your

09:16next date and then go there one more time. But like use the first date as a way to try

09:20something you

09:21normally wouldn't do on your own. And then how about it? Oh my God. So cool. If he ends up

09:26actually

09:26being fucking normal and not a miserable fuck that way. Yes. The day can go horrible and you never can

09:32see that person again, but you're like, got it. I actually just had a good time. In my opinion,

09:36the unknown elements of a first day are part of the fun guys. Like you need to stimulate all of

09:41your

09:41senses to get that sense of excitement. You're seeing new things. You're smelling new foods. You're

09:46trying new drinks. Do not go to the same fucking place every time you're going on a date. It is

09:49going

09:50to feel like you're back in your cubicle and you're like, bring the next one in Marty. And it's like,

09:55oh my God. Oh my God. No. Then you're like, not even, you're not even having to get anxious for

10:00it.

10:01You're like, Barb, bring me to the back table, bring them in. It's like, what do you mean? What do

10:08you

10:08mean? No, you can, you can go to the same place twice. Maybe if you're, if you got a roster,

10:15like fine,

10:15go twice. But other than that, switch it up for your own sanity, babe. Okay. Also, I think that

10:20like new spots can just like help you get out of your head a bit. Like get, get the fuck

10:24out. Like

10:25we're not going to fucking Frank's diner every single fucking time. Like I get it. You like to

10:28go to Denny's, go to Denny's with your fucking family every Sunday. Don't do it every fucking time

10:33you're going on a date. Number two, which is just get drinks, never dinner. Um, let me just say

10:40something and I have to reiterate again. The whole point is to have fun on a date. Okay. Eating is

10:46fun. Don't let the internet tell you otherwise. Trying new foods, going to new restaurants is fun.

10:52Why are we denying ourselves one of the best parts of the experience? If some of you can say,

10:55cause I don't want to get stuck there. Like I, like, I don't want to like, you know, I don't

10:58want

10:58to eat in front of this person. What if I got stuff in my teeth? Well, if he doesn't like

11:02you with a

11:02little bit of fucking spinach in your upper right tooth, babe, he's not going to fucking like you

11:07when he splooges all over your face. Ignore me. You know what I mean? They need to see you in

11:14your

11:14best and your worst. Okay. So eat in front of this man. If you're fucking hungry. Now, if it just

11:18happens to be drinks, it happens to be drinks, but don't be like gunning for the drinks. He's like,

11:22do you want to order some appetizers? You're like, no. TikTok told me that I can only drink on a

11:27date.

11:27Like, no, no. Is this man going to never see you eat in the entire course of your relationship?

11:33No. Why are we not letting ourselves do it when the stakes are the absolute fucking lowest? Now,

11:39I think people could assume like, you just don't want to be trapped on the date. You know,

11:43food makes it linger a little bit longer. Then again, why are we going on a first date with the

11:47mentality of just getting in and out? That's not the mindset of someone looking to having an amazing

11:51night. And also I have up and left at appetizers, babe. Okay. I have, I have up and left. If

11:58you are

11:59having that calamari and he is saying ruthless shit, you get up, you slurp your Shirley Temple

12:05down and you get the fuck out of there. You don't need to stay. Food doesn't mean, babe,

12:09you're locked in, handcuffs on, seated, three hours, full course. Let's make it to the Sunday.

12:15You don't have to do that. You can leave. Free will, free fucking will. Which leads me to number

12:21three. Okay. Setting a two hour time limit for the date. Literally why? Especially if you're having a good

12:28time with someone, you're like, clocked it. Got to go. He's like, wait, why? I thought we were

12:32having fun. You're like, it hit that two hour limit. Got a boogie. Like, no. One of my best

12:37friends just became official with her boyfriend and their first date was supposed to be just like

12:41grabbing drinks. And then it turned into a full night bar crawl. They literally hit a ton of

12:46different spots all around the town. They were like, boom, boom, boom. Now they're dating. Oh my God.

12:50Guess how long that date was? Basically fucking five hours. Oh my God. Look, it worked out. TikTok.

12:56Good things come when you let yourself enjoy them. Allow yourself to just be a little bit

13:00more open and not be these strict guidelines. Boom, boom, boom. I get it. If you're like

13:05wanting to keep a little bit of like the mystery and you're just sitting at dinner and you're like,

13:09all right, we need to like wrap this up just because it's like, we shouldn't go on hour four.

13:13We shouldn't go on hour three. Like having the two hour window of like feeling comfortable to leave

13:17after a normal amount of time. Yes. But don't, don't be like setting your alarm and the alarm goes off

13:24and

13:24you're like, that's time, Jim. I'll be in touch. Like I swear to God, I swear to God, daddy gang,

13:31do not set a fucking alarm on your date. Um, this takes me to rule number four. I think it

13:37was number

13:37four. And this makes me the most annoyed, the most annoyed. And maybe I was just a little whore,

13:43you know, but I do believe I had it right on this one. When people on TikTok are saying no

13:49kissing,

13:49no kissing on a first date. No, I completely disagree with you. I complete. How about this?

13:56Also, no, no kissing on a first date. Well, sometimes I fucked them on the first date. How

14:00about that one? Um, how about I let him eat me out on the first date and I married him?

14:06No,

14:06just kidding. He didn't email. That was like the second time, but okay. Listen, if you are going to

14:12say to yourself in the mirror before you go on that first date, baby, you will not accept a kiss.

14:16You will not even accept a hug. What are we doing? What are we doing? Like you're skipping the most

14:21fun and romantic and magical part of having a great date with someone. Like, like get in there.

14:27Like if a first kiss feels right, it feels right. The first kiss at the end of the day is

14:31seriously

14:31what they write movies about and songs and books. Okay. And what I dream about, because it's one of

14:36the most exciting romantic human experiences that you can possibly have. You do not need to be denying

14:40yourself pleasure to prove some arbitrary point to be like, did you kiss him? You're like,

14:46they're like, good girl. Good girl. Get your fucking lips in there. Both. If you want, let me

14:52tell you a story. Um, I've told the story many times. I'll make it quick. Matt and I, I went

14:57in

14:57there not knowing who this man is. I'm like, Oh, this Hollywood man, movie producer. What's he going

15:02to be about? So we fell in love first night. I was like, Oh my God, I want to fuck

15:06this man.

15:07Unfortunately, my sister was staying with me in the same hotel room. So like I probably would have

15:11let him upstairs into my legs, but like I didn't because my sister was up there, but I can't,

15:14I came across like I wasn't willing to give it up on the first date, whatever. The point is,

15:19is I went to the bathroom. We're leaving. We're going to the car after our full long two plus hour

15:24date. May I add. And he texts me to come to the back of the restaurant to go the back

15:30way. And I

15:31walked down the long alley and I see him under the little light in the back and he grabs my

15:37face and

15:37he pushes me up against the wall in the back of the parking lot. And he starts making out with

15:42my face

15:42and I came in my pants. I was like, this is, this is what dreams, this is what dreams are

15:48made of.

15:48I come to LA. I meet this man. He grabs me by the back of my neck, puts his hands

15:53on my hips,

15:54puts his tongue down my throat, puts me in his car. And it's like, where to next? Yeah. Fuck me.

16:00Like that. Even if I never saw Matt again, I've had so many dates where like I had great first

16:06date kisses and I was like, oh my God, I'm never calling you, but oh, who doesn't love a make

16:12out?

16:12Like make outs are so fun. Okay. And so kiss them the first date, fucking sleep with them the first

16:17night. Like, I don't care. You have to go based on what feels good to your body and what feels

16:22right

16:22to you. And so if you have some fucking friends that are prudes that are like, you should never kiss

16:27not on the first date. You're going to give them the wrong impression. And they're just going to

16:31think you're a whore. Okay. Maybe for you, Cassandra, but I'm about to let them in my back

16:37door on night. You don't have to do anal on night too, but you could. Whatever feels right. You have

16:46to be at your core centered with what feels right to you and your body and what you want to

16:52do. And if

16:53you want to fuck or you want to make out, or how about this? If you don't want to kiss

16:57on the

16:57first date and that is your MO, great. But don't just be like Googling, like what to do on first

17:03date? No kissing. Got it. Check. No. If a man is going to treat you like a piece of shit

17:10and isn't

17:10going to call you, he's not going to treat you like a piece of shit just because you fucked him

17:15or

17:15made out with him on the first night. A man knows. Okay. And guess what? Stop giving all the man

17:20the

17:20power. And so should you maybe make out with him. So you stop wasting your time. What if little Robbie

17:26has got a fucking tongue or that hits the back of your esophagus and you hate the way he makes

17:31out?

17:32Or what if like small lip Sammy is like barely gets a little tongue in there and you're like,

17:39I can't even fucking find. We're just hitting teeth. You're probably not going to want to fuck

17:44Sammy, but good to know that you've got it done on the first date. We're maximizing our time. People

17:50you want to not have a two hour date. I'd rather have a four hour date, quick make out. No,

17:55he's not the one. Never see him again. So I can then optimize my time to not have a second

17:59date

17:59with small lip Sammy. So we have to be thinking. Okay. We have to be thinking this way. Your friends

18:07and long-term relationships. I would be begging. I would be begging to relive that night with Matt.

18:12Oh, push me up against the wall. Sometimes I do. Let's pretend it's our first date. Okay.

18:16You have the power. You as a single woman have the power to be completely having these romantic

18:23nights. And guess what? Even if he's not that romantic, make it fucking romantic for yourself.

18:27Literally believe that it was romantic and then don't call him. Who cares? Get a make out. Get a

18:31make out. Okay. I'm sure you have like six guys on hinge right now and that would be willing to

18:37take

18:37you out next week. And so I think that you should embrace it. And I think you should just start

18:42taking

18:43them all down. Not like that, but you know what I mean? Just start trying, start trying. So first dates,

18:49it's, I think it's a win. I think it's a try new places, enjoy the food. And let me say

18:54this,

18:55something that I think is so underrated when it comes to getting yourself out there and enjoying

18:59yourself and dating is like, I love being married. I love being in a committed relationship. I love

19:06Matt. Put that aside. That's not fun to talk about. When I think back to some of the biggest,

19:14funnest nights of my life, it was living in New York city. It was going on crazy dates with men.

19:20And it was like me just being in this like reckless time in my life. And so I do think

19:24that

19:25something you need to think about when you are in the dating world is like, do it for the plot

19:30is not

19:31actually that dumb of a statement. Okay. I know it's overused, but like when I look back so much of

19:37my

19:37fun nights, even if they did end in tears or heartbreak or whatever, that's the shit I remember

19:42now sitting here in my thirties as a married woman, like what I would give to like quickly live one

19:48of

19:48those nights. Well, I don't know because like my back hurts and like, I don't want to go to the

19:51club

19:51and sit, but like, I like to like relive them in my head. You know what I mean? Like you're

19:54in that

19:55stage right now where you're like going to the club and you're going to the bar and you're meeting

19:59the guy or you're done with the clubs and you're like going to the dinners and you're getting wined and

20:02dined. Even if it's a disaster of a fucking story, the way that you are going to look back on

20:09these

20:09life experiences that were so wild, these men that you met, these women that you met that are,

20:14you're just like, how was this my life? I'm telling you guys, don't hold yourself back from those

20:20opportunities because one day when you do find your partner and if you want kids one day and

20:24the stories you're going to have and the life that you're going to live, it's so much better than

20:29being like, I was too afraid to take that guy out of the dating app or to go up to

20:34that guy at the

20:35bar and to actually like make something of it. And so I just ended up sitting and I watched nine

20:39fucking seasons of Vampire Diaries over and over until I could recite all the lines. That will always

20:43be there. All of your shows will always be there. Your books will always be there. Your comforter will

20:48always be there, but like these opportunities won't. And so like sacrifice one night if you're tired and

20:54go out and have the fucking date, go for it. Because I genuinely believe when I look back,

21:00what made me so confident as a woman was a lot of these really weird experiences I went through and

21:07some were not enjoyable. And in the moment I was sleeping in the bathtub, crying my eyes out.

21:13I don't know why I was in the bathtub for dramatic effect, obviously, but think about that. That's how

21:18drama I was back then. I was like, oh my God, I'm single and I'm dating and these men,

21:22they're breaking my heart. Like how fun is that? I wouldn't, I'm not going to cry in the bathroom

21:27anymore. Okay. Um, so it's like allowing yourself to also be present in what part of your life you're

21:35in, allowing yourself to recognize that being single is such a blessing. It's such an opportunity to

21:41learn things about yourself, to experience things with people, even if they are negative, like you're

21:47going to become a stronger, better person. And I do genuinely believe that there is no fucking way

21:52that I would have been ready for a Matt Kaplan. Had I not gone through the amount of nights in

21:58the

21:58fucking Acme basement and Bijou bar and One Oak and like all of these different places and all the

22:08different bars and clubs that I went to and with men and, or met men there, what came from meeting

22:13those people and the dates and the trips and all of it. I had to go through all of that

22:19to then

22:23mature, learn what I wanted, learn what I hated, learn what I, what I wouldn't put up with, learn

22:28certain things on a first date that I'm like, oh, that's another flag that that other guy taught me

22:32that I know I don't like. I'm up, I'm leaving by, or, oh my God, I've never felt this way

22:36on a first

22:36date. This is a good sign. I'm going to do a second date. Like you learn so much about yourself.

22:40And then when I met Matt, I felt like I knew that first night because I had never met anyone

22:45like

22:45him. And I had never felt anything like that before. And I had dated so many fucking losers.

22:51I had gone on so many bad dates. I've told you guys, I think the story of like the guy

22:55that like

22:55literally used me and he was engaged and he just wanted to see like what it was like to go

22:59on a

23:00date with the caller daddy girl. And I was like fully there for an experiment. And I thought I really

23:03liked this guy. And then it turned into like, I was getting fully conned and I was like, oh my

23:07God,

23:07like this is so embarrassing. Like I've just gone through so many weird things as you all have,

23:13where you can close your eyes and picture all the fucking losers. But I promise you to find the

23:20positive. Sometimes those losers are literally the best thing to continue to build your backbone

23:24and to continue to build your arsenal of exactly what you want. So when you find your Matt Kaplan,

23:29or when you find your whatever, whoever that man is, it's so glaringly obvious. But had I met

23:35Matt when I was 22, I would have never been ready for Matt. Because I wouldn't have appreciated all

23:40the amazing things that he brought to me. Because I had to go through the fucking dog shit. I had

23:44to

23:44be like, this man fucked me over and this man did it. Like I swear, I swear, it makes me

23:49appreciate

23:50Matt 10 times more that I had all these like really horrible dates to be like, thank God I fucking

23:56found you. I say that to that man like at least once a week. Like, thank God I found you,

24:02Matt. And the only reason I'm able to say thank God I found you is because I found a hell

24:07of a lot

24:07of fucking trolls underneath the bridge and thought they were princes. And then they turned out to be

24:13Gollum. Okay. And I was like, Oh my God. And I had to experience that. And you guys do too.

24:20So

24:21although dating sometimes listen, it's not going to be 80% positive dates and 20% negatives. I get it.

24:28Sometimes it's 70% negative. But that's also why finding your partner one day is that much sweeter.

24:35The effort that you put into dating, the effort you put into being single, the effort you put into

24:40working on yourself, not self-centering around the men in your life. You're like, who am I? What do I

24:45like? What do I deserve? I have high standards now. I know what I want. That builds and builds and

24:51builds so that when you do find that right person, you're ready for them. They're ready for you.

24:57And you're, you know, what you're ready to accept and what you're not willing to put up with.

25:00And so get out there to all my single ladies who maybe you have been taking a hiatus. That is

25:06so

25:06fair. And that's so fine, but do not let yourself continue to get upset over. Oh, but I see like

25:13turn off also social media. That's been the best fucking thing ever. I like posts. I turn it off.

25:17Everyone is so fucking negative. I'm sorry, but everyone's so negative on social media,

25:21giving their thing pieces of why dating fucking sex in 2026. Well, guess what?

25:25We're alive in 2026. What are we going to do about it? What are we going to do about it?

25:30Be fucking victims and have victim mentality like this sucks so much. All right, well get off your

25:35fucking phone and just go and try and try and try and try. Cause I, I promise you something good

25:41is

25:41going to come with it. So change your attitude. I'm always here. I'm, I'm literally at the fucking

25:47front lines with you. You are not alone. You've got this. Sometimes we just need to remind ourselves

25:52that we're letting the internet soak into us too much. And we're letting ourselves create this

25:57negative narrative around something that guess what? If it was supposed to be so fucking easy,

26:02everyone would have perfect relationships and everyone would be fucking happy and perfect and

26:06would be a boring fucking life. You need to do the fucking hard work to actually get something that

26:10is worth the fucking hard work. Nothing fucking great is easy. Okay. You got to work for that shit.

26:20Thank you for coming to my Ted talk and to all my single girlies get that fucking selfie bitch.

26:27Cause I know you're hitting that cut crease. You're over lining that lip a little bit. You got that

26:31highlighter. Boom. Get the selfie. If all goes to shit, get the fucking selfie before the first date

26:38and tag me going on my first date. Boom. Hot bitch. Love you. All right, daddy gang. That is it

26:45for

26:45this week's episode. Um, I hope to God that this inspired some of you. Cause I, a lot of times,

26:53and I always tell you guys this, like a lot of times I just think from my own perspective of

26:58like,

26:59what would I have needed? And although I loved dating and going out, I do genuinely think that

27:05I really remember sometimes where I just really struggled to be like, I think I need a break. And

27:10again, like that's fair, but it's almost like right when you're done with it is when you need to just

27:17get back at it, get back on the fucking horse. And so I love you guys. I know it's not

27:21easy out

27:22there. I also know like men fucking suck right now. And it's just like, but I promise you there are

27:27some

27:27good ones out there and you just have to really fucking look. And I know it sucks that we have

27:31to

27:32be like digging in the weeds to like find not even a diamond, just like, you know, like a little

27:38like copper metal or like, just like a little something, but you, you are smart and brave enough

27:46to weather the fucking storm ladies. So daddy gang, I love you so much. And I will see you fuckers

27:52on

27:52Wednesday. Goodbye.

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