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First Dates Ireland S11E07 H 264
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00:02this is the first state's restaurant and we're back finally a place where anything
00:14is possible will you pique my interest there's two of them no nobody's losing their cool
00:22an instant attraction you gorgeous eyes stop it
00:29a match made in heaven i'm a big fan of your parents work or a sudden shock to the senses
00:40none of these daters know what to expect i'm in a village hall what happens next
00:54is up to them cute would you like to see each other again romantically
01:11are you one of those guys who prepare for the date or is that just the last minute future
01:18did that run not much needs to be done to this you can polish do you have any strategy when
01:28it comes to date none whatsoever none i'm going in blind it is just that thing of like just rocking
01:36up and just going for it like i'll have the hair washed and i pour have a bit of tan
01:41because i think
01:42whatever about your hair and makeup if you're tan you'll feel better in yourself trying to do things
01:46that remind me like alice you're great you got this you got this girl you got this brocco we look
01:53gorgeous
01:53thanks
01:57some people just can't get enough attention but mince not one of them she's maxed out
02:04do you get chatted up sometimes i do go out and i'm just like can people just
02:08leave me the fuck alone i'm like just fuck off sometimes i look at them i'd be like
02:17where come from you i'm coming from clerny you know what's wrong with the kerry men there's just
02:22something wrong with them especially the clerny men really something wrong with them what hobbies
02:28have you what hobbies have i i like to go to the gym i like to go for hot girl
02:34walks what's a hot girl
02:36walk so it's when you put on your sunglasses you chew a piece of gum and you look straight
02:40and you walk you walk like you own the town describe yourself in three words for me pretty
02:47a tad bit obnoxious and funny so would you say that you are particular like do you need a person
02:55i guess that has things or is successful and has to be a certain way definitely okay okay so what
03:02would you deem as a successful person someone i guess it was a good job has their life together
03:07knows what they want is able to drive a hundred percent yeah i'm built to be a passenger princess
03:15if you don't have a full license you don't have a car i'm like immediately no i'm not driving you
03:21around the place i'm sorry not at home it can't be a car for a follow they gave me the
03:27a what are you
03:28looking for like a bentley or not step martin if one wants to go my way they're like so can
03:32you find
03:33me one well i'll try find myself one first then i'll get you one after wow okay god love the
03:42person
03:42coming in you should ask them that straight away all my friends i'm a low rider hi i'm jack i'm
03:4921
03:49and i'm from kerry the low rider is a little higher boy racer or trusty pickup who will you be
03:59the judge
04:00i'm the first day's restaurant to find my new woman to find a bit of love it's a bit uh
04:04a bit exciting
04:05a bit exciting
04:09i could chat to a wall it's it's all the charm the charm is my biggest thing uh compliments for
04:16us
04:16and then a bit of laughter and that always works hello how are you nice to meet you jack nice
04:23to
04:23meet you jack mateo nice to meet you yeah beautiful for you yeah and you have success with that i
04:32like
04:32to think so but uh not often uh it wouldn't be i wouldn't be too busy on the old dating
04:36scene so
04:38it's that is what it is are you ready to do this ready to bring it to the bar your
04:42date is at the
04:43bar yeah all right all right get your shit together yeah i've met people before that i've you know i've
04:54brought the confidence out and and i like that that's what i love make people happy and you know
04:59feel confident about themselves but i'd love to meet someone who's confident in themselves
05:03hi how are you
05:06jack nice to meet you
05:07hi mim it's nice to meet you
05:08what's your name sorry
05:09mim
05:10mim
05:10yeah jack
05:11so i got you a little uh
05:12i would say definitely i am a tough cookie i am hard to impress
05:19definitely where you from i'm from clarney
05:22no way
05:23how about you
05:23who you're so
05:24yeah i'm from clarney
05:25clarney's homey
05:26yeah
05:27right here what i'm um just like castle island that's an island just so sweet
05:33yeah i need on the road so how would you come up uh drove up i stayed in mace uh
05:38last night
05:39uh family uh okay journey up is working my car to drive
05:43let's hear it what no you go first now what do you do i drive for fast
05:48oh no i have a few i have a few a few
05:58so i suppose i've gone into cars when i was about 11 or 12 through my father
06:03and uh car collection has just grown
06:05okay let's hear them all
06:06i have a few japanese cars okay um but i daily bmw
06:11oh wow okay
06:21the pain is long
06:26for old school romantic liam love is the gift that keeps on giving
06:32oh life could be a dream
06:35look to me you do happen for somebody you care about them you have interest in them
06:44you want to take care of them and you want them to take care of you
06:48welcome how's it going very good mr yourself great your name please
06:53name mateo nice to meet you liam nice hello how is everything heaven is great yeah
06:57heaven is there hopefully you'll get better yeah yeah yeah if the attraction is there initially
07:01brilliant i'm not going to try and impress them purely to impress them as i used to do
07:08i like that there they'll give you a bit of a gift there
07:11be nice to cuddle up to somebody at times just like the intimacy
07:17that'd be nice it's not for you
07:21no i've actually stopped focusing on you i'm focusing on the chocolate that's not good
07:24i know that's what i'm saying it's not for you
07:26choco choco yeah oh that's a decent box of chocolates as well
07:30is it oh god yeah absolutely fair play to you smart as i said you can't eat flowers
07:35i got married in 86 and split up in 96 i was in another relationship after a few years for
07:44a few
07:44years and i have not been in any relationship since then listen at least you put yourself out there
07:51that's very number one yeah absolutely we see what happens we see what happens nothing stops esther
07:58putting herself out there certainly not the neighbors
08:04i'm 64 i'm not doing too bad like i wouldn't care to opens i go out into the back garden
08:10in my
08:10bikini if somebody's didn't want to look at me i couldn't care less
08:21i suppose i'm not the normal nanny yeah that's what they tell me i would like somebody to get
08:29their knickers in a knot over nothing no time for that life's too short
08:43but it doesn't define your night ahead oh i so didn't want to get that wrong i used to be
08:50very confident i think i need to get my competence back no don't be like you're a gorgeous lady why
08:55would you be nervous why would you be nervous but he's gonna be nervous when you come there can i
09:01look
09:01around no he can't no be cool okay be cool she's beautiful is she she's very beautiful yeah yeah yeah
09:08they've done well here they're doing well they're doing well they're doing well i can't stop looking
09:12at your eyes i'm blue same like yours oh my god no oh yours is so blue anyway i need
09:20to behave myself
09:21okay i think you're ready you do okay good yeah let's do it i suppose it'd be exciting i
09:29kind of like to get don't know you know and go out there and feel terrible esther you don't look
09:35half that all right now hello hello how are you i'm good how are you great i'm liam how are
09:43you
09:45nice to see you look fantastic beautiful dress do you like chocolates i do
09:56oh my god i do indeed somebody kind of looks okay hair no hair whatever you know we're all getting
10:07a
10:08older here will you have a drink i surely will yeah um a little bit of everything that you have
10:13put it one glass with about 12 straws i'll go after me own hearts i'll have a glass of wine
10:20that's what white or red uh white please what are you having i just spark the water oh yeah yeah
10:28yeah
10:28that's a baby show so how many siblings have you two sisters okay yourself i just have one older
10:38brother one older brother how old is he he's 22 we're just like a year and like nine months apart
10:44we would be close but we still do absolutely kill each other till this day and is he living with
10:49you
10:49yeah four of you no no my parents divorced so my parents got divorced when i was like maybe like
10:55eight
10:55or nine so it's just myself my mom my brother oh okay do you mind me since you talk to
11:01that no i
11:02haven't spoken to him i'd say like five or six years that's mad yeah no like we live in the
11:06same town
11:07and everything like there's no hate no nothing we just don't talk yeah that's just awesome you're the
11:12same it's great fact yeah living with that okay so uh yeah i haven't talked to my mom in nine
11:18years
11:19okay and how old were you when they kind of got separated and stuff uh 12 well they separated
11:24when i was very young like uh i can't even remember it's probably a toddler like and then i live
11:29in
11:29a month until i was about 12 okay and with them we followed them when i started my father just
11:36he
11:36took me in he taught me everything you know i i was a proper little scumbag when i was younger
11:42like
11:43and uh oh it's just i'm happier way more respect for everything you know i feel like i'm a nice
11:49person
11:50now because of him and yeah he changed me 100 percent but my brother is still army so it's uh
11:57it's his fault i am into cars you know yeah all that crap but i love it so is it
12:02just the two of
12:03you living at home just two of us yeah yeah that's not bad
12:09are you divorced or you passed no i'm divorced i'm married i was um i met my husband when i
12:18was 15
12:20yeah and we married when i was 18 and then we separated after 15 years yeah and it was a
12:32hard
12:32breakup yeah yeah yeah but we have the best relationship that's great at the end it didn't
12:39work out and it was a difficult breakup but all we had been doing was just trying to keep stuff
12:45together it wasn't working and we were doing it for the kids and i'll tell you i am so glad
12:52i'm married yeah yeah yeah because i have two daughters yeah yeah yeah yeah and i have grand
12:58children yeah yeah yeah it's brilliant that you get on so well now oh yeah yeah yeah yeah he drives
13:04me
13:04bad he would not be with me for all the tea in china yeah yeah and i wouldn't be with
13:11him but
13:12just in the relationship you have is good yeah grateful yeah yeah yeah how about you
13:19myself and my ex though we could hardly be in a separate room oh yeah sure that happens
13:27introducing cavern from leash well that's one way to describe him and here's another okay just a basic
13:36old game man that's all yeah i'm always the one doing the chasing usually i like i want to do
13:47like a full research i thought maybe if i take it out with my own hands it might make the
13:54situation a bit
13:55easier welcome hello how's everything i'm good thanks how are you when you get a little bit older you
14:03realize that love is not all rainbows and lollipops and fizzes in your tummy all right mister no it's
14:10about who's your lobster what's your name calvin nice to meet you nice to meet you calvin yeah like
14:17the county like the county you probably get that all the time do you where's that look it's a
14:20conversation starter isn't it yeah um my grandmother is from calvin okay and then there's everyone that
14:25calls me kevin and kelvin and calvin and gavin and i'm just like yeah no problem yeah call me tom
14:30if you
14:30if it makes you happy i don't know it doesn't bother me where are you from uh leash strabelly oh
14:36i'm
14:36from duro very good fellow leash man yes it's tough isn't it dating's not that good though it's not
14:43no no no hence why i'm standing here a few small kids as well so they keep me occupied how
14:50many kids
14:50uh three how old are they so 13 11 and eight so you've only recently come out kind of really
14:58you're
14:58well like recent as uh like january 21 that's pretty recent
15:17how do you feel about the food or how do i feel inside
15:26i'd love to say there would be tea to come loose
15:32i'm fussy fussy i'm a fussy either yeah don't eat onions tomatoes peppers okay when i get pizza
15:39a red onion is a must yeah but we can get a half and half
15:46in the grand scheme of things martin believes that size really matters i'm looking for love a big love
16:00i'm i'm very soft inside when i have a bad day i have a bad day if i want to
16:04cry i do cry so i like
16:06someone who's gonna come and hug me and say everything's gonna be okay instead of coming to
16:10me and say grow up you're a big man i like man kind of bigger maybe bald maybe beard not
16:20skinny
16:22come and compose hello how are you nice to meet you nice to meet you too your name please martin
16:27martin spolsky suppose how is everything good yeah stress a little bit just follow your instincts man
16:35they got you so far your date is at the bar oh really so i'm the oh i'm the second
16:41either
16:42jma in and jma out breathe in breathe out i'm gonna be very shy at the start i'm actually even
16:50thinking
16:50don't bring me a very hot car hi hi how are you how are you nice to meet you nice
16:58to meet you how are you
16:59people to name calvin calvin yes marching my night nice to meet you love you you nervous i am a
17:05little
17:05bit well i was thinking like if i'm gonna sit down have a drink then it's gonna be okay you
17:09know yeah
17:09yeah it'll be fine where are you coming from uh i live in dublin okay i live in in sugar
17:15but i'm
17:15from poland okay originally i live here 20 years very good where are you from uh leash leash never been
17:21leash
17:21yeah i don't even know actually where it is well it's like right in the middle
17:25i feed off vibes and look even if it's not somebody that i match with i mean
17:33let's have dinner and have a drink and have a laugh
17:36tell me your name sorry calvin calvin one more time i'm sorry i'm so that's okay don't be stressed
17:50um so
17:57enjoy your job i do i kind of fell into it when i was like 17 as like christmas style
18:02so i started working in pharmacy when i slowly made my way up sometimes it can be stressful but at
18:07the
18:07most times i do like interacting with people from all types of backgrounds did you go to college or
18:11no no no straight forward yeah same as myself okay yeah yeah yeah so i built wind turbines because we
18:18go
18:18into the back ass of nowhere what i do is i take them down and put them back up right
18:25so those
18:26big windmills the big windmills right this week now i got thrown in tipperary the week okay
18:31live the traces like staying overnight and coming back every day okay and where do you usually stayed i'm
18:36on my own so i just stay away there's no pain going home if i had a reason to go
18:40home i go home
18:42i love the lads you know it's like a second family the views as well when you're working
18:47like go up there two o'clock in the morning and then you hit the sunset at five or six
18:52in the morning
18:52it's beautiful like how long have you been doing that then i think two years now okay what age are
18:59you
18:5921 21 yeah when's your birthday september i'm 20 i'll be 21 like a week and a half i'm 13.
19:08she's not going to get caught for birthday presents all right okay
19:19oh wow i have your steak oh thank you and the chicken supreme lovely thank you another good choice
19:28enjoy thank you i'd like to be somebody with similar values as myself i believe happiness is
19:35being grateful for what we have instead of being miserable about what we haven't got
19:41so what do you do then um for the pleasure enjoyment are you like me you do all
19:51i do it i get annoyed myself and i didn't do something didn't you yeah i'm doing a good
19:57bit of walking lately because i've booked the camino and you have not oh yeah my life only started
20:05when i gave up drinking it'll be 20 years ago this year since i gave it up and it's the
20:10best thing i
20:10ever did in my life my greatest achievement no i don't do the whole lot of it why why it's
20:20too
20:20fucking long i wasn't happy i wasn't happy it was fair from happy and i used to go to the
20:28pub for three
20:28or four points and that was the story of my life but i never left after three or four points
20:34have you
20:35ever done i have nothing i never will i'll be second taken off you must be joking me relationships
20:44when i was younger people i grew up with people women and it wouldn't last long and they'd all tell
20:51me i'm a lovely person but they never told me the bush but i am convinced now that both was
20:57i was an
20:57alcoholic that's something i want to do i'm totally on my own i think i never really went anywhere
21:03without people before there was somebody with me or whatever and it's meant to be a spiritual kind
21:10of journey yeah it's how to become for his own totally you know but it's something a challenge
21:17well done you i haven't done it yet it doesn't matter when i got married i found a girl that
21:24loved me
21:26and i was afraid to let her go because i believed nobody else is going to love me
21:33and that's part of the reason i married that kid
21:37you know i'm so insecure in myself and that i put all that down to alcoholism
21:45i've learned to be comfortable on my own be happy yeah yeah i'm content i've learned to like myself
21:52i think because i never liked myself too much but since i've been on my own i've learned to like
21:58myself that i'm not that part of a person really believe it or not i'll give you a reward
22:11my sister with me she lives with me now oh i brought her here uh two years ago good good
22:18you
22:19have a nice siblings i have um two brothers and a sister yeah who is the oldest i'm the oldest
22:24you're
22:25the oldest oh you're taking care of everything yeah yeah um i'm not nervous about being rejected but
22:31sometimes people are not willing to date um men that have uh kids and that's fine that's on them
22:38but i feel like it's not something that i need to declare but then sometimes they're a bit shocked
22:43like oh you didn't say you had kids and like well did i need to um so i also have
22:50um three kids
22:51you have three kids yeah so they keep me busy too nice to hear yeah yeah um do you like
22:56kids or i do
22:58like kids and i have son as well do you yes wow that's the another reason i came to ireland
23:03yeah is he
23:04here yes and how old is he uh he's 21 years old right now he lives in leeson varna okay
23:11so after one
23:13year when i got the job and everything and i was feeling safe yeah i brought his mother and him
23:20and
23:20she still live in this environment she's still there with him we've been friends forever and we
23:25still not love each other i can't say love each other but like you know what i mean like we've
23:28been
23:29in this together let's say you know what i mean yeah so uh i have one song you know but
23:34you have three
23:35like so you have fun yeah they're they're they're great kids i want to know more um they're they're they're
23:41the love of my life yeah we have a lot of fun uh so when i do when i see
23:46them i really make the most and
23:47we do stuff but then like i won't lie i get really lonely then when they leave and i don't
23:55want it to be
23:56just me
24:06thought we do say you're looking for then what am i looking for yeah it's a cool question that yeah
24:13um
24:18uh i'm just looking for someone someone i can like uh be around you know like put the foot
24:26life before i don't know i get a bit serious like okay i'll put it on too go
24:32no i'm looking for someone i can come home to do you know what i mean yeah when i'm working
24:36or
24:36something so i want someone to give money free time to them look after them like i know what i
24:42want and when i do find someone who has everything i want i'll go for it until then i won't
24:47like what
24:48are your interests like clothes so you like dressing up when you look lovely so i'll give you that one
24:55i say people think right off the bat that i'm like so like self-obsessed and just like a bitch
25:00really
25:00but like like once you get to know me people do think i'm lovely well you look after yourself that's
25:06the main thing that's lovely yeah like i like to look done up every day like i wake up at
25:105 45 most
25:11mornings i start work at like half seven so i like to have like my hair and makeup done for
25:16like half
25:16seven in the morning so you wake up just under two hours before work to get ready yeah i gotta
25:24look
25:24perfect every day i think i drive you mad do you wash your face in the morning
25:29don't even answer it i don't i don't know i don't want to hear it anymore ew i'm hardy like
25:37i'll tell you auntie now i will come back here tomorrow for that study it's lovely sweet cheese
25:42lovely it's gorgeous and the pepper sauce sorry my teeth i want to lose here
25:49don't worry about it i have that problem as well don't worry about it you're grand
25:57what's the most embarrassing date you've ever been on we met and we had dinner which was quite nice
26:02and it was lovely and he said can i give you a kiss and i said yeah okay i said
26:08we'll have to buy him
26:08dinner or whatever i'll have to give him a kiss if i'm at home now they come out i don't
26:12have to be
26:13what okay you obviously wear it but but when i'm at home they come out today oh i would not
26:19would you
26:19not i would not he kissed me and he says to me i have a present for you in the
26:27car
26:29and he went did he come out with a bag of fish
26:36do you not use fixing it i do when you start eating it seems to come loose
26:41top or bottom top really yeah yeah yeah maybe i'm doing something wrong no you're not used enough
26:49i said god are the days of the military and roses i'm thinking back at fish
26:57if you'll excuse me i'm going to live and take them back
27:13how does a penguin build a house
27:16he glues it together
27:19why do the norwegians put barcodes on their ships so when they dock they can scandinavian
27:27did you hear about the cheese factory that exploded in france the brie was everywhere
27:35will is hoping to be just as good a dater as he is a comedian it's all in the delivery
27:41hey how's
27:42it gone man with a gift absolutely a hundred percent test there are you nice to meet you
27:48will will will i've never dated in secondary school i just didn't feel like anybody liked me that sounded
27:54really bad i felt like i had no flirting game whatsoever how do you feel buddy i'm a little nervous
28:00but like i think they're good nerves as i've grown up a bit i've kind of become more confident in
28:06myself
28:06and uh just trying to put myself out there a little bit now you know and what's your regular type
28:11or do
28:11you have a type that's a great question i don't necessarily have like a particular type um just
28:16somebody who i can just get on with it's a bit of a offer like someone who loves to talk
28:20maybe someone
28:21who shares the same obsession for football as i do you know ah yes the beautiful game until that is
28:28cuiva starts handing out red cards since 2022 i have been compiling like an ik list
28:36someone who doesn't like garlic dip now that's a strong one malibu and milk being your choice to
28:42drink on a night out apparently it's like called a malib moo or something
28:49i bet you're proud of yourself now you didn't do it properly that's like the scariest part
28:54how are you i'm cuiva cuiva what they want to ask me to well look at yourself yeah girl
28:59you look lovely thank you so much he's gonna be very nervous when he sees you
29:04so what kind of person then are you looking to meet tall handsome family orientated
29:12a kind considerate person but also is willing to listen to me yeah
29:18he's looking over there in the mirror so he's getting nervous so let's go there enjoy it okay
29:27all right hey how's it going all good i'm will i'm watching will
29:31i got you some uh chocolates oh that's so sweet you're very welcome no worries at all
29:38is there anything that you definitely want to find out about them oh that's a great question
29:42uh their football alliance i go back and forth to the uk quite a bit for football matches just like
29:48different areas okay who do you support because this is going to be like a deal breaker now is it
29:51oh my
29:52goodness so i'm a chelsea fan okay it's not too bad who do you support liverpool that's actually okay
30:00yeah like how old are you how old are you how do you think i'm 40 you're 40 i'm 39
30:1439 yeah
30:15you're behind the corner yeah just about exactly and the sir lights thank you so thank you so much
30:25but do you feel bad that you're getting old older like it's funny like i feel um i feel a
30:31lot better
30:32now i feel like i look better and i feel a lot more confident because i think i'm a bit
30:38more me now
30:39i'm so happy to be 40 and sometimes i even think like if i'm going to be 45 i'm going
30:44to be even
30:44better than that i'll be 50 i'm going to be like on the top of the world like people used
30:49to say oh i
30:50wish i'll be younger i would like to go back to the being 30 never i think i was so
30:55stupid i was
30:5530 years old well not the same like i think my priorities are different like for my 20s and for
31:04a lot of for half of my 30s i feel like i just i had my head down i was
31:10married i was trying to raise
31:12babies you know i just didn't have time to think about anything but i i definitely know more now
31:20than i did when i was in my 30s i had said my situation is a little bit easier i
31:27would say
31:28because when my son's mother got pregnant she knew that i'm gay right oh i told her that i don't
31:36want
31:36to be gay please take it away from me right i have to be honest i was so in love
31:41with her i was we were
31:43together for like four years and i was i got very protective about her yeah i loved her to bits
31:50okay
31:50as a human you know what i mean you you need to kind of learn from your mistakes and and
31:57grow
31:57and don't change the mistakes you learn those mistakes for the reason you know they brought you here you know
32:09how are you would you like sour sweets now summer sweets yeah no one gets sweetened on chocolate
32:18sweets right we'll say movie night bang right what are we getting like a pack of fingers i can
32:27inhale a pack of fingers i feel like that's luxury then i've never had the fingers fingers like a
32:32pack of cadbury fingers right then we're gonna have a pack of cadbury fingers yeah lovely she's
32:40gorgeous you were nervous well yeah nervous and i don't get nervous um no she uh but she she brought
32:47it
32:47out of me she brought it out of me like i'd say i'd kind of more go for like crisps
32:53than popcorn
32:54geez what do we have an opposite opposite to attract it's uh i'd say the biggest problem is not deciding
33:01if
33:02i want to go on a second day but deciding what to do on the second days are you happy
33:06with him oh yeah
33:07yeah yeah deadly yourself oh no no no you can't really write no i didn't roll my eyes no i
33:13didn't
33:14would you like to see each other again romantically
33:18we go three two one yeah go on okay three two one yeah yeah
33:25yeah yeah
33:30thank you so much for that you're good
33:33i think you're very down to earth you're very like humbled and like down to you're like the
33:41opposite of me whereas i'm like very jumpy and like intimidating whereas you're more like
33:44no one's here until then i feel like you're an honest person i feel like you'd be good at
33:48communicating now yeah that's really nice like it what does it say beautiful for you don't love the
33:56label don't look like yeah wait till you get home stay with me forever you guys fancy each other yeah
34:03yeah
34:09he's lovely he did win my heart over like he's so much time for people and stuff like and like
34:13the main thing is really finding someone who has time for someone hello how are you how are we getting
34:20on
34:37the main thing is
34:38could i have a glass of wine please of course white wine
34:43all good absolutely gorgeous it's brilliant and how's the company yeah well he's a lovely man
34:51yeah yeah like it was so sweet he brought me chocolates it can be something that will lead to
34:59something else yeah which you can yeah i'm doing teaching in college oh wow yeah that's real cool
35:07yeah yeah yeah i love that do you i've always wanted to be a teacher like yeah i was like
35:12when
35:12i was like five and something and because my mom works in a school yeah yeah she'd like bring home
35:16like little like stamps and stuff i love and i used to like always pretend to play school i qualified
35:21as an sna there oh my god did you my mom's an sna stop it no way yes yes yes
35:27what got you do sna
35:29i do um like voluntary work uh with barrettstown oh my god so um yeah then kind of that led
35:36me to
35:36doing like the special needs kind of yeah yeah but like i don't do it per se i just have
35:41the
35:41qualification still trying to find my feet do you know that way like i think that's the same way
35:45everybody around my age it's like you're still trying to find out what you really are passionate
35:49about you know i applied actually for a firefighter paramedic a couple of days ago so see how that goes
35:56that could be another route as well you know what do you do in your spare time that's a great
36:00question
36:01what do i do in my spare time um hanging out with mates obviously the boys um the boys the
36:06boys yeah
36:06the lads definitely feel like i'm better in person i'm shocking at texting for the life of me like i
36:14can't text at all like i love just going for like ice cream or something like with the girls i
36:18love a
36:18sweet treat yeah at easter i love mini eggs mini eggs are like my you're like do not say you
36:25don't like
36:25them i love mini eggs okay i thought you're gonna say you don't like so at easter i stockpile stop
36:31no
36:31we're the same person i do the exact same exact same i'd rather it be like you swiped and then
36:38all of
36:39a sudden they're right in front of you and you're on the day right there and then because then you
36:42actually get to know the person you know what is your favorite food that's a great question i love
36:47a bit of coleslaw do you yeah would you have on everything now or if i'm making like a toasty
36:51or
36:51something like you get a spoon and eat it i was like no no no no i wouldn't just get
36:55a top of
36:55coleslaw slamming in front of me instead of the spoon and earn it from out like
37:01i'm just imagining you
37:09you know what you want i don't know i haven't been looking at it to be i just goes lost
37:13in the
37:13conversation in the moment to be honest take as long as you need can we have one more minute is
37:19that
37:19okay yeah of course you can have as long as you need thank you thank you thank you so much
37:22great conversation you're interrupting sorry sorry and so what made you come to dublin then
37:29uh i was looking for life right and i want to have some kind of gay scene as well yeah
37:35which i'd never
37:35seen before did you go out on the scene much very no very shy so i was trying and trying
37:41and trying but
37:42still very sure are you going like like the gay scene yeah like i i'm i'm still relatively new to
37:48this um i used to go to the bar beside the george yeah i could hear the phone inside but
37:56i was too
37:57nervous to go in there by myself i always had to be a little bit drunk to walk in and
38:01stuff you know
38:02especially punty back because you know how you walk in yeah it's a bit don't all eyes on you yeah
38:07you
38:07know what i mean it's like a walk yeah you know i couldn't live my life in poland as a
38:14gay person
38:14so that was the first main reason why i left the place i i left you know it was like
38:20a gangs everywhere
38:22drugs everywhere everybody expects for me to prove what a man i you know everybody would fight with
38:28you and everything and i was none of that and i was pretending to be someone else for a long
38:34time and
38:35it was painful to hide how soft i was inside i had to become you know so i was like
38:42i'm doing all
38:43of these bad things and everything but inside me i was terrifying okay you know every day was a
38:48challenge for me just because i was scared that if they would see that softness inside me i'm gonna be
38:54in trouble so then after work after school when i was going back home and there was nobody at home
38:59closing the door and britney spears straight away yeah hit me baby one more time
39:10oh my god what was i saying there i don't care what you said i'm just eating a bloody raspberries
39:17you don't like them i'm not useful you'll have people out there over there and i'll say i want whatever
39:26she's having yeah she looks all right she's a lovey lovey woman good crack good crack are you driving
39:37i am not where do you have to what um i have to get the lewis from here yeah to
39:44bus iris and then i get a bus
39:48i'll escort you back to the jars if you want that'd be great because i'm getting loose about it
39:54that'd be great yeah yeah yeah i'd appreciate that there was a little something there you know
39:59but it like did today i wouldn't give up on the romantic bit thank you so much thank you
40:08and everything was lovely thank you oh this is just perfect i'm so happy to hear that
40:13would you guys like to see each other romantically again i'm not answering
40:20i'd like to see yesterday again i'm 50 50 on the romantic bit but i don't mean any offense
40:26that in any way same yeah that's good no i would like to see you again good cool i think
40:36he's a
40:36lovely guy you know i am yeah oh are you
40:44so thank you again so much thank you thank you thanks all right bye now thank you
40:53you think if you were to have a friendship meetup what would you do
40:56we discussed that on the lewis by super saris
41:11jesus
41:16last year i went three times haven't been this year yet need to go i try and get there at
41:21least
41:21once every season i try and get over the stanford bridge at least once did your family like kind of
41:25bring you up into like in football or is it something that you that was my grandad gone kind of
41:31five
41:31years now but like that memory but having those memories of being able to go there with them i do
41:37find it emotional my mom like she'd be one of my best friends like i could tell her anything really
41:41that's why i love and she'd never judge me like like she definitely she would be like my role model
41:46she's someone i look up to really yeah oh yeah that's so nice i love my family my mom is
41:53like my best
41:53friend my mom got sick when i was young that was definitely a bit of a oof then she got
41:58sick again
41:59they're like okay i remember as well the second time me and my brother moved in with my nanny
42:05and it was my birthday and she just got chemo so i couldn't spend it with her i couldn't even
42:11give
42:11her a hug and i suppose like i think that's maybe why i love birthdays so much now because i
42:16miss that
42:16one little birthday do you have many siblings just the one brother oh he's older than me oh yeah yeah
42:23we're chill that's class but we're very different really he's so introverted i'm so extrovert really
42:29yeah yeah my dad brother they used to watch matches when i was younger i was like turn that
42:35off like i want to watch telly but now then since i've got like an interest in that we've become
42:40closer as well what's your dream date dream date that's a great question it really depends i suppose
42:47like for me ideally like i'd love to do like an activity date so it's like you go bowling or
42:51you
42:51go play a couple games of pool or something and then like maybe golf or something to eat after
42:55what about you what's like your dream date my top top date yeah i'm going to a match going to
43:00a match
43:01all right yeah that is that like that would be like top of my list i mean that's second date
43:06sort of now but all right like are you coming to armfield or am i going to have to like
43:09i mean
43:10because they're off a daily room in park and watch the balls first and then
43:13and then go over there yeah they're going to introduce me to the league of ireland yeah
43:25thank you so much it looks sexy and the chocolate heart enjoy thank you so much thank you
43:33no where do you like to holiday uh usually every year i'm going to gran canaria i went most recently
43:43in may or april and the the second one is um citrus i was just about to say like you
43:53go there and you
43:54have old dublin standing in front of you yeah i'm going to stitches in september are you yeah me too
43:59really i am yeah for bear week yes we're so basic aren't we what is your like more far away
44:11place
44:11we've ever been i've been to canada to uh play rugby you play rugby yeah i didn't really show me
44:19your
44:19tights i like the way i look i think i've done the best with what i have you look good
44:26you look you
44:26have a good shape thank you i like your tattoos thank you bus somebody could be hitting on me
44:32and i am completely oblivious on her thank you i'm just like wasn't that a really nice person
44:41to go up and chat to me okay bye
44:45would you like no sorry thank you i should have asked you
44:55it's absolutely pleasure i have to tell her to meet you oh thank you so much it's been a total
45:01pleasure to meet the two of you too thank you
45:07so moment of truth yeah would you like to see each other again romantically
45:14you you want to go first or would i go first i can go first okay uh yes yes i
45:21would like to see
45:22you again okay um for me not romantically okay no that's okay yeah yeah how has everything been
45:30overall it was lovely yeah good food yeah right good company yeah you're a great guy yeah i really
45:36enjoyed speaking with you you're a handsome guy so it was it was really enjoyable yeah i suppose i
45:42just didn't feel a spark yeah yeah thanks again so thank you i was kind of pretty sure you would
45:49say
45:49no ah but i was still wanted to say uh yes
45:55i do like him and i would definitely want to meet you megan but it's like i don't feel devastated
46:02or
46:03heard by that you know what i mean it's fine
46:13it's going really well yeah i think it's gone from my perspective anyway i think it's going
46:17really well excellent she's lovely she's honestly she's gorgeous girl the moment she walked in i was
46:23like yeah definitely it's definitely been the easiest day day i've ever had like it's just been so
46:29smooth like so you're a happy man i'm very happy man yeah but game face on absolutely yeah yeah play
46:35it
46:35cool now thank you thank you thank you i've never been with a girl that's kind of been as much
46:40as my
46:40type as she has conversation was just so natural she was just such a yapper which i love humor as
46:47well
46:47which is always good just so nice just such a wonderful person like you know that way
46:55but uh where where were we where were we that's a great question hello hi
47:06i'm going to get no no no no please no no no we can split it's okay no let me
47:11get this honestly
47:12no you don't have to but i want to please let me get this
47:19would you two like to see each other again romantically ladies first
47:28yes i would yes i would
47:33thank you so much
47:34i had a ball it's good vibes from the onset i felt very comfortable he's very cute
47:48mini eggs as well that's a huge huge plus for me i'd share a bag of mini eggs with you
47:53i would as well
47:58where will the second day be a balls match
48:01okay oh yes
48:03you're going to bring me to anfield now then of course i am we'll do the stadium tour i've already
48:16woke up from a dream because you guys had great crack yeah absolutely enjoy one yeah yeah yeah it was
48:23yeah i think so and i don't know what it all means but since i survived i realized
48:33i'm going to bring them on a hot girl walk to chew gum two airpods these ones will be free
48:38and walk
48:40straight a bit of music going yeah what's she say
48:42it's just
48:57do you want to maybe go and like go for a drink maybe afterwards
49:01yes
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