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Married at First Sight (AU) Season 13 Episode 32
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00:00:00It's with great sadness and heavy heart that today the Maffs family lost a colleague and a dear friend, Mel
00:00:09Schilling.
00:00:10She was someone that could light up a room.
00:00:13She was full of joy, had a huge smile.
00:00:16And whenever she was on set, everyone lifted.
00:00:21She brought fun and joy, humour, but she also brought an authenticity, which we all loved to be around.
00:00:32It was such a delight to watch her shine.
00:00:37She was a fighter.
00:00:39She was a leader.
00:00:40She was an inspiration.
00:00:42Never complained, just rolled her sleeves up and got on with things.
00:00:47Someone that has meant so much to all of us.
00:00:51And it's not fair.
00:00:53Married at first sight won't be the same without her.
00:00:58I would like to send all thoughts and prayers to Gareth, her husband and Maddie, her wonderful daughter.
00:01:07And also, take a moment now and remember, Mel, we love you.
00:01:45I'm open to moving now.
00:01:47I've got everything that I want in an apartment.
00:01:49But I've got my reassurances.
00:01:51We are coming out stronger.
00:01:53Stephen stepped up, giving Rachel reassurance for their future.
00:01:57What I see is a wife outside the experiment.
00:02:03After a tense few days on the farm, Sam and Chris made a shock decision.
00:02:09I can't see this working.
00:02:11It's all good.
00:02:11It is what it is.
00:02:13It's not how I envisioned it would end.
00:02:15I really thought Chris would fight for me a bit.
00:02:18You want to have a family.
00:02:20You don't want to keep putting it off.
00:02:23Following advice from her mother, Alyssa began to spiral.
00:02:26I'm just getting very overwhelmed with what I have at stake here and what I could potentially
00:02:32be walking away from.
00:02:33Leaving David disheartened.
00:02:35The way Alyssa is handling the situation, it is making me uneasy.
00:02:40Tonight.
00:02:41Throughout this experiment, I have been patient.
00:02:43But when you're dealing with the mom, the family, friends, they all said that I'm a great
00:02:49guy for her.
00:02:49And she still sees negatives.
00:02:51There's nothing else I can do.
00:02:53Has David reached his limit?
00:02:55That's the first time I've ever heard you say that you need space.
00:02:58You never say space.
00:03:01It's the second last dinner party of the experiment.
00:03:05I can see we can do life together.
00:03:07But I feel a lot more confident now that we can take this out onto the outside.
00:03:11Have Rachel and Stephen become this year's new power couple?
00:03:15Who would have thought?
00:03:17Who would have thought?
00:03:18The person that he has these feelings for was quite aggressive to him.
00:03:23But babe, you've been aggressive too at the dinner parties.
00:03:25Tensions rise when Sam and Chris air their concerns.
00:03:28You're in no position to be giving someone feedback about their behaviour, honey.
00:03:32And I've never been aggressive to you.
00:03:35And then...
00:03:36I think like for me, as a man, I feel like...
00:03:40Oh God.
00:03:41Oh my God.
00:03:43What are you on about?
00:03:45It's the shock debate that will divide the table.
00:03:49That was not what I was getting at.
00:03:51Are we serious for this?
00:04:07Our couples have returned from their homestay.
00:04:10And our brides and grooms are enjoying a new sense of closeness.
00:04:15After stepping into the life that could be waiting for them outside the experiment.
00:04:21Hi.
00:04:22Hey.
00:04:22Bonjour.
00:04:23Bonjour.
00:04:24Recharged and hopeful, the couples now turn their attention to the second last dinner party
00:04:30of the experiment, eager to reconnect after time apart.
00:04:35Are you excited?
00:04:36I am excited because it's been a very long time since we caught up with everyone.
00:04:42We don't know what the hell is going on.
00:04:46It's going to be exciting.
00:04:47A lot of gossip.
00:04:48This is...
00:04:49I'll be straight up with you.
00:04:50This is the most anticipated dinner party I'm looking forward to.
00:04:54Yeah.
00:04:55Really?
00:04:55How come?
00:04:55We went through...
00:04:57The ups and downs.
00:04:58We went through the ups and downs.
00:04:58The trenches.
00:05:00But coming out at the end of it, good.
00:05:02Yeah.
00:05:02You know?
00:05:03Everything's...
00:05:03Everything is exactly where it needs to be.
00:05:06For Rachel and Stephen, homestays sparked a breakthrough in their marriage, unlocking a new
00:05:11confidence in their relationship.
00:05:14Hello, hello.
00:05:15Hello, sexy.
00:05:16Thank you.
00:05:17Looking good.
00:05:17I appreciate that.
00:05:18I like the red.
00:05:19Right now, we've just come off the back of homestays and it was amazing.
00:05:23Something definitely clicked for Stephen and I.
00:05:25It was that this could work.
00:05:28I think that's really what it is.
00:05:30I'm ready to, like, load up the boat again and get straight back up to the central coast
00:05:34and just, you know, start hanging out and, yeah, so it was really good.
00:05:40We had such...
00:05:41It was such a great homestay and I'm actually just really excited to share that with everyone.
00:05:46And that's it.
00:05:47And I'm glad you had a good time and you could see, you know, a little bit of my lifestyle.
00:05:54After homestays, it's given me confidence.
00:05:55I feel a little bit better outside the experiment now.
00:05:59Like I said to Rachel, can I see myself falling in love with you?
00:06:03Yes, I can.
00:06:04And I mean that.
00:06:06And homestays really gave me confidence in that.
00:06:09I think we're really lucky.
00:06:12You know, other couples may not have had a good homestay, so we're really lucky to have had the good
00:06:17experience that we did.
00:06:18While homestays brought some closer, for Scott, welcoming Gia into his home presented new challenges.
00:06:28What's that?
00:06:30It's a neck brace.
00:06:31Why is it pink?
00:06:32Why is it pink?
00:06:33Why not?
00:06:34You're trying to find a problem.
00:06:36Is it your ex or something?
00:06:38Do you trust me?
00:06:39Like, do you trust my words?
00:06:40Do you trust me as a person?
00:06:41Yeah, I trust you.
00:06:43Yeah, why?
00:06:45I feel like sometimes I'm walking on eggshells because I feel like if I want to bring up something, I
00:06:49feel like you might misinterpret it the wrong way.
00:06:52I know I trust you, but can I commit to moving and everything if you never feel like, you know,
00:06:58that you love me?
00:06:59But back at the apartments, eternal optimist Scott is determined to hit reset and look on the bright side.
00:07:06I feel great.
00:07:08I just feel good walking into this dinner party, being able to share, like, good moments that we've had.
00:07:13I feel like it'll be good.
00:07:14Like, I feel like tonight's going to be a really good, positive night to share what we've done for Homestays.
00:07:20Yeah.
00:07:21At the end of Homestays, we had a bit of a discussion, but we hashed it out.
00:07:27Today, we're going to the dinner party with positive attitude.
00:07:30We're great.
00:07:30We're in a really good place.
00:07:31I want to keep it like that.
00:07:34Yeah, I mean, I'm pretty happy with where we're at.
00:07:38Coming to the end now.
00:07:39This is the last or second last one.
00:07:41Mm.
00:07:42So, yeah.
00:07:44Do you think it would cause problems if you, you know, raised some concerns?
00:07:50Well, pretty much.
00:07:55Let's just do it.
00:07:56Get it done.
00:07:58I'm excited.
00:07:59You look good.
00:07:59We feel good.
00:08:00And I'm ready to walk into a nice dinner party.
00:08:04Yep, me too.
00:08:07For Bec and Danny, what began as a promising homestay took a dramatic turn.
00:08:14If my family felt the need to have hard conversations with you, they would.
00:08:20I think, obviously, because Danielle fancied me, she didn't want to, like...
00:08:26I'm joking.
00:08:28I'm joking.
00:08:29I'm joking.
00:08:29I'm joking.
00:08:29It's like a serious moment.
00:08:33These moments make me feel like shit.
00:08:36It's serious for me.
00:08:37You should be able to say something nice and be genuine about it and then not say, oh, your
00:08:41cousin wants to fuck me.
00:08:43Like...
00:08:44I never said that.
00:08:45Yeah, I'm done.
00:08:46F***ing point.
00:08:47F*** me.
00:08:49F***.
00:08:51And now back at the apartment, an even bigger shock awaits.
00:09:00So, since we got back to Sydney from homestays, things look great.
00:09:05Cheers, baby.
00:09:07Cheers, girl.
00:09:08The last night, like, since we've been back, like, there's not really any need to talk about
00:09:12it.
00:09:12Like, he made a joke.
00:09:14It frustrated me.
00:09:16He got frustrated with me.
00:09:18And then we wake up the next morning, we give each other a cuddle, we have a shower,
00:09:22can we move on?
00:09:23Cheers.
00:09:24It's all blown over.
00:09:26Like...
00:09:27Shocking.
00:09:28Oh, stop it!
00:09:29Ha, ha, ha, ha!
00:09:31For most couples, homestays brought them together.
00:09:34But for one couple, it marked the end of the road.
00:09:39Going to the dinner party tonight, yeah, I'm going alone.
00:09:43And obviously, Chris and I left each other at homestays.
00:09:46I wrote some questions down, and maybe we could just be, like, really raw and honest with
00:09:52each other about all the answers.
00:09:55First question is...
00:09:56Do you accept full responsibility for your defensiveness and the aggression I felt from
00:10:00you last week?
00:10:04Yeah.
00:10:06You don't have to agree.
00:10:07Yeah, no, I agree.
00:10:08Yeah.
00:10:08I just feel like we've just...
00:10:10I've already suffered enough from this.
00:10:12I honestly felt like I was, um, 15, getting in trouble by a teacher or something.
00:10:16Do you have feelings for me?
00:10:20Um...
00:10:21Okay, um...
00:10:24In the beginning, uh, yes.
00:10:26But I just think, um, yeah, we also have some, um, differences as well.
00:10:32And I just want to put my dad hat on and, like, live my best life.
00:10:38Homestays was my last plea to see if he was going to fight for me at all.
00:10:43But Chris just kind of gave up.
00:10:47So, I did break up with Chris on the farm, but I'm going to the dinner party because I
00:10:53want that last chance to sort of just, like, find out why Chris actually didn't want this
00:10:58relationship.
00:11:01I just want clarity on what the hell happened.
00:11:04But Sam isn't the only one struggling with the fallout of their homestay.
00:11:10During their trip to Adelaide, Alyssa received a wake-up call.
00:11:14Obviously, I want to settle down in Adelaide, but what are your thoughts about me moving
00:11:19to Sydney just for a couple of years?
00:11:22I would hate that.
00:11:26Um, you know, you want to have a family and you don't want to keep putting it off.
00:11:33People sometimes take ten years to fall pregnant.
00:11:36That's the truth.
00:11:37Yeah, I know, but Mum, I don't know that yet.
00:11:38Yeah, I've never tried.
00:11:39That's right.
00:11:40But you don't know that.
00:11:42A couple of years?
00:11:44A couple of years.
00:11:45I don't think you've got a couple of years to wait.
00:11:49It's really stressful now on the line.
00:11:52And after a confronting conversation with her mum, Alyssa unravelled and David was left
00:11:58wondering where he fits.
00:12:00I will be honest with you, I started to spiral.
00:12:06Like, I want to have a family in the next few years.
00:12:10Don't want to miss out on being a mum.
00:12:11And if we're going to make this thing work, David might have to move to Adelaide.
00:12:16Alyssa, I'm really sorry, babe.
00:12:18I have to ask this to you.
00:12:20You've sat here and you've talked a lot about what your wants and needs are.
00:12:26What about...
00:12:27Yeah, David.
00:12:29Now back at the apartments, David has had a wake-up call of his own.
00:12:38Oh, man, I'm feeling at my limit post-homestays.
00:12:46Can I see myself living in Adelaide?
00:12:49Absolutely.
00:12:49But, you know, after having, you know, come back to Sydney and having time to just come
00:12:55down from the high of homestays, I am feeling a bit low.
00:12:59And that is because there were a couple of things that have still, like, trinkled in
00:13:05the back of my mind.
00:13:06Could you see yourself living here?
00:13:10To be honest, yeah.
00:13:13I know that you're willing to move here, which is great.
00:13:16But, I don't know, I feel like I'm getting overwhelmed with it because you're, like, literally...
00:13:22Is your overwhelm?
00:13:23I am, I am, I am.
00:13:24Because it's, like, a lot.
00:13:27David actually is everything that you've asked for.
00:13:30I know.
00:13:30Right now, this is too good to be true.
00:13:32Like, and that is also another reason why I'm scared, too.
00:13:36Throughout this experiment, I have been patient because I know there is something in this
00:13:41relationship to fight for.
00:13:43But when you get to that point where, like, you're dealing with, like, the mum, the family,
00:13:49friends, they all said that I'm a great guy for her.
00:13:52And she still sees negatives.
00:13:54There's nothing else I can do.
00:13:57I've hit my limit, and I'm not going to push any further.
00:14:01It's getting very real that I could potentially be putting everything on the line for someone
00:14:07who doesn't want to meet me halfway.
00:14:10So, today I know I need to be honest.
00:14:13For me, I think it's important to just express how I feel.
00:14:17Looking handsome.
00:14:18Thanks, babe.
00:14:19You're looking gorgeous.
00:14:20I love the dress.
00:14:21Thank you.
00:14:21Well, we're kind of almost matching.
00:14:25How are you feeling going to the dinner party after homestays?
00:14:31Homestays was a massive, massive week.
00:14:35So, I'm at the point where, like I said, you know, I'm happy to give all the space you need.
00:14:42I'll take the space I need, because I definitely need space.
00:14:45Yeah, like, I feel like I've just gone and put it all on the line.
00:14:49And, you know, at the end of the day, I'm not going to force anything.
00:14:55That's the first time I've ever heard you say that you need space.
00:14:59I know, but I do.
00:15:00You never say space.
00:15:01You're always like, you're more like, let's, like, whatever.
00:15:04This is the first time you've ever said space.
00:15:06Yeah, I know.
00:15:08That kind of, like, rattled me a little bit.
00:15:11Normally, I'm the one that needs space.
00:15:12So, you know what, if he needs space, gladly, because I need space right now, just from my head.
00:15:19And I don't need any of this pressure right now.
00:15:21I feel like I'm at my tether.
00:15:23I feel like he's at his tether.
00:15:24We're both tired.
00:15:26And he's been snoring louder than usual, like it's just been a bit of an emotional rollercoaster.
00:15:32The reason I need space is because, yeah, I am a calm person, but I'm getting to my limit where
00:15:37I just need to take some space for my own brain.
00:15:40Because I feel like I put my cards on the table.
00:15:44But it almost felt like you were just looking for the negatives.
00:15:46And when someone's looking for the negatives too much of why things can't work, like, I'm not going to force
00:15:51that.
00:15:52I'm not going to force a connection if it's just me looking for the positives and someone else is looking
00:15:56for anything to be like, why this can't work.
00:16:01I would be lying to you if I said I wasn't questioning things right now and questioning our relationship.
00:16:08I am in that headspace.
00:16:11So I'm not going into the dinner party with Alyssa feeling my best self.
00:16:16I'm sure you're in a similar boat.
00:16:18Babe, I'm just as tired as you.
00:16:20Yeah, exactly.
00:16:21I'm just as tired as you.
00:16:22Exactly, yeah.
00:16:23I'm just as tired as you.
00:16:26I get it.
00:16:35It'll be the honour of getting up.
00:16:37Let's get out of here.
00:16:37Yep, let's go.
00:16:42After you.
00:16:43After me, thanks.
00:16:45Off to the gallows we go.
00:16:51Don't want to do this.
00:17:05Well, dinner party number seven, the second last one before we wind this all up.
00:17:12And it is a very important one because they've come back from the homestays as they start to get a
00:17:19glimpse of what their life will be like with this person in the real world.
00:17:24This is a really crucial part of the experiment for them because some of them will bond closer together through
00:17:30the homestays.
00:17:31I think it's going to be really good.
00:17:33What about you?
00:17:34Are you excited?
00:17:35I'm excited.
00:17:36Whereas others will start to really fall apart and question their overall compatibility with their matches.
00:17:45It's noisy.
00:17:47They'll hear that in the mics.
00:17:48They'll hear that.
00:17:49And you do that all the time.
00:17:50You don't even realise.
00:17:56Well, the homestays throws up the ultimate question.
00:17:59Could this relationship last in the outside world?
00:18:02We're going to see you tonight.
00:18:10Aw, first in.
00:18:12First one's in.
00:18:13Ha ha.
00:18:15Rachel and Steve-o.
00:18:16No one to talk to you, but ourselves.
00:18:19Are you sick of talking to me yet?
00:18:22Straight to the bar.
00:18:23Straight to the bar, babes.
00:18:24I don't think I've seen Stephen look so relaxed and so really walking in with Rachel.
00:18:31Yes.
00:18:31As he is tonight.
00:18:32Very unified.
00:18:33Tell me when.
00:18:35Thank you.
00:18:35That's good.
00:18:36Oh, my gosh.
00:18:37Thank you so much.
00:18:39Got to look after you.
00:18:40Aw, I appreciate it.
00:18:43Me and Rachel, we're good.
00:18:44We've walked into the cocktail party.
00:18:45We're first in there.
00:18:46We're pouring drinks.
00:18:47We're cracking jokes.
00:18:48I'll just take this with me.
00:18:49Oh, you're going to take that?
00:18:50Okay.
00:18:52Probably the most relaxed I've ever been in a cocktail party.
00:18:54We're in a good place.
00:18:56Mm.
00:18:57Do you want me to...
00:19:00Do you want me to open it?
00:19:01Is there a real opener?
00:19:04Got it?
00:19:05There you go.
00:19:05We're both so keen to get out of this experiment, see where life takes us, especially after
00:19:12the homestays.
00:19:13All righty.
00:19:14Oh, my gosh, babes.
00:19:15Here we are.
00:19:16Cheers.
00:19:18Hopefully, you know, it's just us.
00:19:20We can have all the food and the drink.
00:19:21I mean, we wouldn't be mad about it, babes.
00:19:26I mean, I'm just...
00:19:28I think I'm just really, really excited to share how much fun we had and, like, and how
00:19:32good ours was.
00:19:35Isn't that nice that a couple is sitting here talking about themselves, not everybody else?
00:19:40Yes.
00:19:41This is great.
00:19:42Check it out, babe.
00:19:44You're going to make me blush.
00:19:46And the enthusiasm in Rachel's voice and face as she is just excited to tell people the
00:19:52good news they had a good week.
00:20:04Stop rubbing your knee.
00:20:05Oh, me.
00:20:09I'm trying to understand you, because I don't understand you.
00:20:11You're confusing the out of me.
00:20:15Well...
00:20:28This whole, I'm at my limit, I need space.
00:20:33It sounds really bad.
00:20:36Does it?
00:20:37Yes.
00:20:38So maybe we've got to word it differently.
00:20:40It's not taking space from each other.
00:20:43It's just taking space to process everything.
00:20:47Okay.
00:20:52Oh, look who it is.
00:20:59This whole, I'm at my limit, I need space, it sounds really bad.
00:21:04Does it?
00:21:04Yes.
00:21:08So maybe we've got to word it differently.
00:21:10It's not taking space from each other.
00:21:12It's just taking space to process everything.
00:21:15Okay.
00:21:44Oh, look who it is.
00:21:46Evaluate?
00:21:47Evaluate?
00:21:48Okay.
00:21:49Okay.
00:21:55So are you prepared for everyone to find out that I'm a better fisherman than you, or...?
00:21:59Oh, hang on.
00:22:00Whoa.
00:22:05Walking into the cocktail party tonight, you know, I was, obviously I've been on a low post
00:22:11the homestays.
00:22:13I've sort of just been feeling deflated.
00:22:45Oh, crying in my face.
00:22:45Oh, gorgeous.
00:22:46Oh, my God.
00:22:47Oh, my God.
00:22:48Oh, my God.
00:22:49Oh, my God.
00:22:49Walking into the cocktail party tonight with GR, like, you know, we're not perfect, we still
00:22:53have a couple things to work on.
00:22:54Get a drink and get in here, brother.
00:22:57I always look at the bright side.
00:22:58If there's something that's really bad, I just see the more good in someone.
00:23:01Do we carry that?
00:23:02Thanks.
00:23:06All right, Chris, why don't you tell me what's running through your head and going into this?
00:23:10One saving grace for me is that last time I was in this car with, um, Sam, it was just
00:23:15so yucky and awkward, so I'm grateful not to have that, you know, at the moment.
00:23:21Well, it was so awkward you could cut the tension with a knife.
00:23:24And I could not wait to get out of the car.
00:23:27I just hope this, um, you know, situation with Sam and I can get squashed pretty quickly
00:23:33so I can have a couple of shams and try and enjoy my night.
00:23:38Yeah, no, this is definitely not how I expected to be going to a dinner party in the experiment.
00:23:42I think Chris and I started off really strong and everything was going good.
00:23:45And then at some point he just flipped and it all just sort of fell apart and I didn't
00:23:49really know what that flip was into him.
00:23:54Do you know if Sam's coming tonight?
00:23:56Oh, I definitely know he'll be going.
00:23:58Yeah.
00:23:58He wants to go to get the whole group's opinion and two cents on our dirty laundry.
00:24:05But you know what?
00:24:07There's two sides to this story.
00:24:08And coming to the dinner party to back myself and say my side of the story.
00:24:25Oh, Chris is alone.
00:24:27Ew, how you going?
00:24:28OK, that's a surprise.
00:24:30Hi.
00:24:31Hey bud.
00:24:32So Chris walks in solo.
00:24:35Bueno, shit.
00:24:37No es mi prediction.
00:24:39Drink, drink, drink.
00:24:41They were very bad at the commitment ceremony.
00:24:44Chris had written leave.
00:24:45Sam was absolutely in tears about it all.
00:24:48There was a hope at the homestay,
00:24:49they might be able to turn it around.
00:24:51But this looks like it's actually not been salvaged.
00:24:56Yeah, I'm alright.
00:24:57You look very tan.
00:24:58Thanks, babe.
00:24:59The fit's good.
00:25:00My life's not.
00:25:01I would love my mate.
00:25:02Your life is okay.
00:25:04You've got this shit, babe.
00:25:05You've got this shit.
00:25:06Yes, obviously it didn't work out.
00:25:08Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:25:10I feel like maybe Sam and I can unpack it together.
00:25:13Alright, so you don't want to talk about that?
00:25:15No, I'll give you a little run.
00:25:17I'll give you a little rundown.
00:25:18It's really hard seeing them not walking together
00:25:20because I genuinely had hoped
00:25:23that they would get past this.
00:25:25Seeing Chris walking in by himself,
00:25:27it was genuinely like,
00:25:29pretty heartbreaks.
00:25:31Basically,
00:25:33Sam ended it with me
00:25:34two days into homestays.
00:25:36He ended it with you?
00:25:38The second day.
00:25:38He ended it?
00:25:39Yeah.
00:25:40He ended it with you?
00:25:41Yeah.
00:25:42Oh, Sam ended it.
00:25:44I wonder why.
00:25:45Yes.
00:25:45I wonder why.
00:25:47Obviously, we had like a, you know,
00:25:48a pretty bad couch session.
00:25:51I took accountability.
00:25:52I decided that I wanted to learn and grow
00:25:54from the feedback that I got.
00:25:56Yeah, that's what you said that.
00:25:56So I went into homestays,
00:25:57trying to turn it around.
00:25:59Gia knows.
00:25:59I spoke with you about it.
00:26:01Morning flowers,
00:26:01made him dinner.
00:26:02I tried everything that I could
00:26:03to turn it around,
00:26:04but unfortunately,
00:26:05yeah, it didn't work for us.
00:26:07And it was really,
00:26:08it was a real shock
00:26:09because I thought we were actually
00:26:10doing quite well.
00:26:11Like, you know,
00:26:11I started to get those feelings
00:26:12back for him again.
00:26:14So Chris was saying
00:26:15he started getting feelings
00:26:16for Sam again.
00:26:17Okay.
00:26:18So he was shocked by it.
00:26:20Blindsided.
00:26:22So it's pretty,
00:26:23it's pretty sad,
00:26:24but I respect Sam's decision
00:26:26to exit.
00:26:28And we actually weren't
00:26:29even going to come tonight.
00:26:29Like they,
00:26:30we, he left the farm
00:26:31and we were just going to
00:26:32leave it at that
00:26:32because we unpacked a lot of it.
00:26:34But I've decided to give Sam
00:26:36the respect of coming tonight
00:26:37so we can both
00:26:37talk to you guys about it
00:26:39and let you know
00:26:40what's happened
00:26:41and then sit in front of the experts
00:26:42and get their advice.
00:26:44But like no ill feelings
00:26:45towards Sam.
00:26:46I respect his decision.
00:26:47But yeah,
00:26:48she's single again.
00:26:50Oh, yeah.
00:26:52I love you.
00:26:53Yeah.
00:26:55Alyssa,
00:26:56how was yours?
00:26:57Ah.
00:27:01I feel like I'm still
00:27:02processing everything.
00:27:04It's crunch time, right?
00:27:05It's crunch time.
00:27:06For you guys, yeah.
00:27:09But we'll talk about it later
00:27:11at the dinner party.
00:27:13OK.
00:27:21Philip and Stella.
00:27:23Hi, babe.
00:27:24Hi.
00:27:25You look amazing.
00:27:26How you going?
00:27:26How you doing?
00:27:28How are you?
00:27:28How are you?
00:27:28Nice to meet you, man.
00:27:29I was pink and I'm black.
00:27:30How are you?
00:27:31For the best part,
00:27:32we had a really good home state.
00:27:34You know,
00:27:34I got clarity
00:27:35so it's been decided.
00:27:37I will be making that move
00:27:39happen sooner rather than later.
00:27:40He looks tan.
00:27:41Do you not spray tan?
00:27:43Huh?
00:27:43Do you not spray tan?
00:27:44We went to the beach.
00:27:45What the hell?
00:27:46And I just thought,
00:27:46you know what,
00:27:47it's time to go for an adventure.
00:27:53I love a distraction.
00:27:57Ah, he's Beck and Danny.
00:27:59Beck and Danny.
00:28:01Hello.
00:28:03I'm feeling phenomenal
00:28:04walking into this cocktail party tonight.
00:28:06Danny and I are in a great spot.
00:28:09We are planning our future together.
00:28:12Cheers.
00:28:13We had great homestays
00:28:14and I've got no beef with anyone.
00:28:16Oh my God,
00:28:16pigs fly.
00:28:17What the hell?
00:28:18I'm not arguing with anyone.
00:28:21Hello.
00:28:22How was homestays?
00:28:23Cheers.
00:28:24How'd you go?
00:28:25How was Adelaide?
00:28:27Oh my God.
00:28:28Yeah.
00:28:28We had a great time.
00:28:30It was good.
00:28:32Like I got back
00:28:33and I was a bit drained
00:28:34to tell you the truth.
00:28:36It was,
00:28:36it's a lot.
00:28:37Like I felt a bit uncomfortable
00:28:38in her house
00:28:39and I felt a bit out of place
00:28:40and it made me just think about like
00:28:43the logistics of the move more,
00:28:44like how it's going to work.
00:28:46Or,
00:28:47because I'm not just going to move in with her.
00:28:48Of course.
00:28:49And live like,
00:28:50put my feet up,
00:28:51this is rent free.
00:28:52Like that doesn't sit well with me.
00:28:53So it just solidified
00:28:55there's more things
00:28:56we need to talk about.
00:28:57Of course.
00:29:01So we're going to do it, I think.
00:29:03Yeah, awesome.
00:29:04Crazy.
00:29:05How about?
00:29:06I think Dani and I
00:29:07are probably the strongest
00:29:08in the experiment,
00:29:10if I'm honest with you.
00:29:11And like,
00:29:11it feels like it can only go up from here.
00:29:18Coming up.
00:29:19I would never just move in.
00:29:22Dani's jaw-dropping confession.
00:29:24From my point of view anyway,
00:29:25I suppose everyone looks at it different,
00:29:26but it makes you feel like a f***er.
00:29:28Has the whole table talking.
00:29:30What are you on about?
00:29:32Let me be honest.
00:29:33Let me be honest with you.
00:29:34Oh.
00:29:35God.
00:29:35Oh my God.
00:29:46Oh my God.
00:29:48Here we go.
00:29:54When did you talk to him last?
00:29:56The last time he spoke to me
00:29:57was the Friday after he left
00:30:01and all he said was that he wanted
00:30:03to come to the dinner party
00:30:03at Sam Raimi.
00:30:06I don't know what the energy
00:30:07is going to be like with Sam.
00:30:08I hope he comes in like nice.
00:30:12I just, yeah,
00:30:13I just can't deal with any more,
00:30:14you know.
00:30:22Yo!
00:30:25Hello everyone.
00:30:26Oh, here's Sam.
00:30:27Oh, here he is.
00:30:28How you going?
00:30:29Good, how are you?
00:30:30Good.
00:30:30You good?
00:30:31You look nice.
00:30:31Yeah, how are you?
00:30:32Not too bad.
00:30:33Hello.
00:30:36Sam.
00:30:37How are you, Matt?
00:30:38I'm hugging like chest height,
00:30:40but I've got a vertical problem.
00:30:43Hey, look at Schmeck, brother.
00:30:45Thanks, thanks, thanks.
00:30:45You want to get a drink?
00:30:46Come on, let's get your drink.
00:30:46Let's get a drink.
00:30:48I hope he doesn't come at me.
00:30:49Like.
00:30:50Why are you worried?
00:30:50Oh, I just, just.
00:30:51Don't worry.
00:30:52No, I just can't deal with it.
00:30:53Like.
00:30:55Alright.
00:30:57No, you're okay.
00:30:59How are you?
00:31:00Are you okay?
00:31:01Uh.
00:31:02I just feel a bit like
00:31:03there was no real effort
00:31:04while we were away.
00:31:06But we'll get into it
00:31:07at the table, yeah.
00:31:08No, no, no.
00:31:08He's given us a bit of a brief.
00:31:12What was he said?
00:31:14Just, um,
00:31:14you guys, you know,
00:31:15went to homestays
00:31:16and, like, he cooked dinner one night
00:31:17or you guys have dinner together one night
00:31:18and he thought the first night
00:31:20was going okay.
00:31:22Um, and then obviously
00:31:23you guys both had a chat
00:31:24and decided that it was a night.
00:31:26Yeah.
00:31:28Dude, he didn't drive.
00:31:31You're eating up his bullshit.
00:31:34Don't eat up his bullshit.
00:31:39Dinner is served.
00:31:41Okay, let's go.
00:31:42Let's go, babes.
00:31:43You got it.
00:31:44Let's go, mate.
00:31:47Alrighty.
00:31:49Well, let's hope
00:31:50that now that dinner's about to begin,
00:31:52we will get to the bottom
00:31:53of what actually happened
00:31:54at the homestay
00:31:55between Sam and Chris.
00:31:57Yes.
00:31:57We need to understand
00:31:58what actually went on there.
00:32:00Cheers, guys.
00:32:02Cheers.
00:32:09You got the, um,
00:32:10you got the tits out again?
00:32:12Oh, yeah.
00:32:14Tits out for the boys.
00:32:15I love you.
00:32:16I love this for you.
00:32:18Dull.
00:32:19Yes.
00:32:21Bust it, bud.
00:32:22Yeah.
00:32:31Wow.
00:32:32It's very tits, isn't it?
00:32:34Chris, Sam.
00:32:44I really want to talk about,
00:32:46from our perspective,
00:32:47what led me to the decision
00:32:48to end things.
00:32:49Yeah.
00:32:49And how I felt
00:32:50the whole homestay, so...
00:32:52Yeah.
00:32:55Tonight is going to be shit.
00:33:00I...
00:33:02Sam and I have already
00:33:02hashed this out at the farm.
00:33:04We're revisiting it
00:33:05in front of the group.
00:33:06So, for me,
00:33:07this is not comfortable.
00:33:09I'm hoping that we can
00:33:10get it out of the way quickly.
00:33:11And I just want to get
00:33:12this over and done with.
00:33:16Hope Sam gets the closure
00:33:17that he needs
00:33:18and we can, yeah, move on.
00:33:21I feel like we both
00:33:22just need to say
00:33:23everything that got us
00:33:24to this point.
00:33:26Especially with meeting
00:33:27the experts tomorrow,
00:33:28I want to get as much as I can
00:33:29out of this experience.
00:33:31Yeah.
00:33:32We've mentioned it
00:33:32at the cocktail party
00:33:33that we, you know,
00:33:35well, you decided to end it.
00:33:38So, yeah, like, I didn't...
00:33:40You didn't really fight that at all.
00:33:42You were, like,
00:33:43also just like, OK.
00:33:44Because I had given so much
00:33:47to try and make it work.
00:33:48I don't want to come.
00:33:52Oh, my God.
00:33:53Here we go again.
00:33:58If Chris thinks
00:33:59that's loads of effort,
00:34:00I feel sorry for anybody
00:34:01he ends up with
00:34:02in the future.
00:34:03Like, yeah.
00:34:08Can I ask a question?
00:34:11How did Sam end
00:34:12the relationship
00:34:13and where and how did it happen?
00:34:14Could I tell the whole story?
00:34:15I want you guys both to say it.
00:34:18Yeah.
00:34:19Yeah, so, homestays,
00:34:20obviously, you all saw
00:34:21the last commitment ceremony.
00:34:23I wrote,
00:34:24stay and Chris for at leave.
00:34:25And that was really hard
00:34:26for me to battle with personally
00:34:28because I did have
00:34:29feelings for Chris.
00:34:30So, like, obviously,
00:34:31now I'm very nervous
00:34:32going into homestays.
00:34:33and we get to the car
00:34:35to drive down
00:34:35and I'm, like,
00:34:37just sitting in the car
00:34:39and it's so uncomfortable
00:34:40and I, like,
00:34:41literally just, like,
00:34:42shut my eyes
00:34:42and kind of pretend
00:34:43that I'm sleeping.
00:34:44And then I get to the farm
00:34:45and then I do try
00:34:47to have fun
00:34:48and have a good time.
00:34:49I wake up the next morning
00:34:52and Chris is nowhere
00:34:53to be seen.
00:34:55No message,
00:34:56no note.
00:34:58I'm just there
00:34:59sitting for an hour
00:35:00in his house
00:35:01at his place
00:35:02with no car,
00:35:03just by myself
00:35:04and then he rocks up.
00:35:05He's like,
00:35:05oh, I just went to the gym
00:35:06this morning,
00:35:06it was really windy
00:35:07last night
00:35:07and I'm like,
00:35:08okay, cool.
00:35:09And, like,
00:35:09this is when I'm starting
00:35:10to feel like,
00:35:11do you really want me here?
00:35:12Do you, like,
00:35:13really want to show me
00:35:14how much you want
00:35:15this relationship to work?
00:35:19Look,
00:35:20for me,
00:35:21it was letting him
00:35:21sleep a little bit longer.
00:35:22Yes.
00:35:25We're not interrupting
00:35:26each other tonight, right?
00:35:29Oh, God.
00:35:30Okay.
00:35:31Can I keep going
00:35:32with my story then?
00:35:34Yeah.
00:35:35So then,
00:35:36um,
00:35:37we come to the fire
00:35:38the next night
00:35:38and this is when I'm like,
00:35:39this is my last plea here.
00:35:41Like,
00:35:42I'm going to try
00:35:42and see
00:35:43if he really wants
00:35:44to fight for this,
00:35:45if he really wants
00:35:45this relationship to work
00:35:46and I had written down
00:35:48questions that were
00:35:49all just about
00:35:50what the expert said.
00:35:52Going through
00:35:52all these questions
00:35:53and then he starts
00:35:54to get a bit shorter
00:35:54with him
00:35:54because he's sick
00:35:55of talking about it
00:35:56and then I'm like,
00:35:58Chris,
00:35:58do you even have
00:35:58feelings for me?
00:36:00And he goes,
00:36:01oh, you know,
00:36:02with what's happened
00:36:02over the last couple of weeks,
00:36:04I feel like my feelings
00:36:04are pretty damaged
00:36:05and, like,
00:36:06I don't really know
00:36:06if I do anymore.
00:36:12And I'm like,
00:36:13well, then what am I doing here?
00:36:17Then I was just like,
00:36:18well, then do we just end it here?
00:36:19And you were just like,
00:36:20yeah, I think
00:36:20that's probably, like,
00:36:21right to do.
00:36:23And what I don't understand
00:36:24is where I hurt
00:36:27your feelings
00:36:28and where you lost
00:36:28your feelings for me.
00:36:33What I honestly feel like
00:36:35happened is that
00:36:36you just, like,
00:36:37did the bare minimum,
00:36:38got me flowers
00:36:39so that you could
00:36:40come here tonight
00:36:40and say,
00:36:42I did this for Sam,
00:36:43I tried,
00:36:43but, like,
00:36:44I know that you were
00:36:45checked out of this
00:36:45relationship already.
00:36:46I know you didn't
00:36:47want to give it a go.
00:36:53If I'm honest,
00:36:54and I'll have to be honest,
00:36:57it seems like
00:36:58you're putting a lot
00:36:59on Chris.
00:37:00Yep.
00:37:01And just because
00:37:02we have expectations
00:37:03to fill our cup fully
00:37:05doesn't mean
00:37:05this other person
00:37:06is not trying.
00:37:07Hold on a second.
00:37:10Let's not forget
00:37:11that, like,
00:37:13the week before,
00:37:14Sam was in a world
00:37:16of pain alone
00:37:18being correct.
00:37:19Yep, of course.
00:37:20But hang on a second.
00:37:21Hang on a minute.
00:37:21Hang on a minute.
00:37:22Hold on.
00:37:23Sorry,
00:37:23I've got to say
00:37:24something here.
00:37:26Beck needs to
00:37:27mind her business.
00:37:28I don't know
00:37:29how her homestays
00:37:29went,
00:37:30but that should
00:37:30be her focus.
00:37:31We're a couple
00:37:31weeks out of
00:37:32final bowels.
00:37:33Don't worry
00:37:34about your man,
00:37:35doll.
00:37:36I'm not going
00:37:37to let anyone
00:37:37sit here and say
00:37:38your expectations
00:37:39are too high
00:37:40when Sam sat
00:37:41there in tears
00:37:42by himself,
00:37:44not knowing
00:37:44which way was up
00:37:45and which way
00:37:45was down
00:37:46for a whole week
00:37:47because the person
00:37:48that he has
00:37:49these feelings for
00:37:49was quite aggressive
00:37:50to him.
00:37:52Like, let's all
00:37:52just take a step
00:37:53back here.
00:37:53You've been aggressive
00:37:54too at the dinner
00:37:55parties.
00:37:58You're in no
00:37:58position to be
00:37:59giving someone
00:38:00feedback about
00:38:00their behaviour,
00:38:01honey,
00:38:01so just pipe
00:38:03it down a little
00:38:03bit.
00:38:12Sam sat there
00:38:13in tears
00:38:13by himself,
00:38:15not knowing
00:38:15which way
00:38:16was up
00:38:16and which way
00:38:16was down
00:38:17for a whole
00:38:17week because
00:38:18the person
00:38:19that he has
00:38:20these feelings
00:38:20for was quite
00:38:21aggressive to him.
00:38:22like, let's
00:38:23all just take
00:38:24a step back.
00:38:24You've been
00:38:25aggressive too
00:38:25at the dinner
00:38:27parties.
00:38:29You're in no
00:38:30position to be
00:38:30giving someone
00:38:31feedback about
00:38:31their behaviour,
00:38:32honey, so just
00:38:33pipe it down a
00:38:34little bit.
00:38:36But I've never
00:38:37been aggressive
00:38:37to you.
00:38:39Can I speak
00:38:40now?
00:38:40First of all,
00:38:42like, hand on
00:38:43heart, I tried
00:38:44my hardest to
00:38:45turn it around.
00:38:47I got the
00:38:48feedback from
00:38:48the experts,
00:38:49I took it
00:38:49on board,
00:38:50I took
00:38:50accountability,
00:38:51I realised
00:38:52that I wanted
00:38:52to grow and
00:38:53learn as a
00:38:53person and
00:38:54I wanted to
00:38:55come out the
00:38:55other end and
00:38:56I'm sorry but
00:38:57I was doing
00:38:57that and I
00:38:58thought we
00:38:59had a good
00:38:59day and
00:39:00like you
00:39:00pulled the
00:39:01notepad out
00:39:01and then asked
00:39:02me the
00:39:02questions and
00:39:03I just, for
00:39:04me, I felt
00:39:05like, you
00:39:05know, like,
00:39:06can we just
00:39:06live in the
00:39:07moment, can
00:39:07we just have
00:39:08a bit of
00:39:08fun and
00:39:09But do you
00:39:09understand with
00:39:10the questions
00:39:10there are things
00:39:11that were burning
00:39:12inside sound
00:39:13that he needs
00:39:14answers to.
00:39:14Yeah, cool,
00:39:15I'll keep
00:39:15talking, babes.
00:39:18So I felt
00:39:19uncomfortable but
00:39:20I stayed calm
00:39:21and I answered
00:39:21the questions
00:39:23as best as I
00:39:24could but
00:39:25you ended
00:39:25it with me,
00:39:26you said like...
00:39:27Yeah, I know.
00:39:27Yeah.
00:39:28Can I just say
00:39:29something, the
00:39:29reason I ended
00:39:31it is because
00:39:32I asked Chris,
00:39:33do you still
00:39:34have feelings
00:39:35for me?
00:39:36If you were
00:39:37trying so hard
00:39:38and you thought
00:39:39that everything
00:39:39was what you're
00:39:41saying, then
00:39:41at that point
00:39:42you should have
00:39:42said, Sam,
00:39:43yes, I have
00:39:44feelings for you.
00:39:48Can I ask
00:39:49a question?
00:39:50Do you feel
00:39:51like when
00:39:52Chris said
00:39:53leave the other
00:39:54week at the
00:39:54last commitment
00:39:55I know it
00:39:55really hurt you,
00:39:56like you were
00:39:57really upset,
00:39:57we could see
00:39:58that, do you
00:39:59think that that
00:40:00really hurt you
00:40:01to a point where
00:40:02had you already
00:40:03made up your
00:40:03mind?
00:40:04I hadn't made
00:40:04my mind,
00:40:05that just hurt
00:40:05me to the
00:40:05point where
00:40:06this is why
00:40:07I think I
00:40:08needed so much
00:40:09from Chris
00:40:09because I was
00:40:10really hurt
00:40:10that he said
00:40:10he wanted to
00:40:11leave, that he
00:40:12had already
00:40:12given up.
00:40:12So I'm like,
00:40:13I need to
00:40:13see from you
00:40:14that you
00:40:14haven't given
00:40:15up completely.
00:40:15And I get
00:40:16maybe for you
00:40:17what you did
00:40:17was enough,
00:40:18but for me it
00:40:19wasn't.
00:40:19And then I
00:40:20decided that
00:40:21based on the
00:40:21fact that what
00:40:21you did wasn't
00:40:22enough of my
00:40:22expectations,
00:40:23the call
00:40:23happened.
00:40:24I ended
00:40:25things because
00:40:25I wasn't
00:40:26getting what
00:40:26I wanted
00:40:27from Chris.
00:40:27And if that's
00:40:27not what he
00:40:28can give,
00:40:28because he's
00:40:29got kids and
00:40:29he's got fun,
00:40:30he's got
00:40:30everything else.
00:40:31Then you're
00:40:31not ultimately
00:40:32a good man.
00:40:39It's really
00:40:40upsetting that
00:40:41it hasn't
00:40:41worked out
00:40:42between Sam
00:40:42and Chris
00:40:43because I
00:40:44care for both
00:40:45boys, but
00:40:46listening to
00:40:46both sides of
00:40:47the story, I'm
00:40:48like, they're
00:40:50not speaking the
00:40:51same language
00:40:52and they're
00:40:53seeing different
00:40:53things and I
00:40:55don't think
00:40:55they're going to
00:40:56align tonight.
00:40:59Just
00:40:59unfortunately
00:41:00it hasn't
00:41:00worked.
00:41:00I don't want
00:41:01this to be
00:41:01yucky.
00:41:02I just want
00:41:02to be amicable.
00:41:03I don't want
00:41:03it to be yucky
00:41:04either.
00:41:04It's not yucky
00:41:05though, is it?
00:41:06It's not yucky.
00:41:07Don't mistake
00:41:08passion for
00:41:09anger.
00:41:09I think you're
00:41:09both passionate.
00:41:10It's not yucky
00:41:11in my opinion.
00:41:12You're both
00:41:12just ironing it
00:41:13out.
00:41:14We do love
00:41:15you both.
00:41:15We love you
00:41:16a lot.
00:41:17Yeah.
00:41:18100%.
00:41:18Kings.
00:41:19I think it's
00:41:20really sad what's
00:41:21happened with Sam
00:41:22and Chris.
00:41:22I love them as
00:41:23people and I
00:41:24love them together
00:41:25and I'm
00:41:26getting this
00:41:26feeling of
00:41:27like Chris
00:41:28did try
00:41:29the way
00:41:30he knew
00:41:30how and
00:41:31it wasn't
00:41:32enough for
00:41:32Sam.
00:41:34It's a
00:41:35hard one.
00:41:44So
00:41:45Beck and
00:41:45Danny,
00:41:46how about
00:41:47you guys?
00:41:48You're next.
00:41:49How was
00:41:50your homestays?
00:41:51We had
00:41:51such a good
00:41:52homestays,
00:41:52didn't we?
00:41:55if my family
00:41:56felt the need
00:41:57to have
00:41:58hard conversations
00:41:59with you,
00:42:00they would.
00:42:01I think
00:42:02obviously because
00:42:02Danielle fancied me.
00:42:06I'm joking.
00:42:07You should be
00:42:07able to say
00:42:08something nice
00:42:09and be genuine
00:42:09about it and
00:42:10then not say,
00:42:11oh, your cousin
00:42:11wants to
00:42:11me.
00:42:12I never said
00:42:13that.
00:42:13There's a camera
00:42:14in my face and
00:42:15you're abusing me
00:42:15over a joke.
00:42:16Dude, there's a
00:42:17camera in my face
00:42:18and you're making
00:42:18a joke of what
00:42:19I'm saying.
00:42:20Yeah, I'm done.
00:42:21me.
00:42:23Well, we had
00:42:24like two
00:42:27perfect things
00:42:28and then
00:42:28we had a
00:42:29little argument
00:42:30at the end.
00:42:33We had a
00:42:34tiny little
00:42:34ding-dong
00:42:34at the end.
00:42:37It lasted
00:42:38about 15 minutes.
00:42:40I think
00:42:40like for me,
00:42:41I don't know
00:42:42for anyone
00:42:43else who
00:42:43experienced
00:42:44like going
00:42:45into your
00:42:46partner's
00:42:46home.
00:42:47In that
00:42:48moment,
00:42:48I felt
00:42:49like a bit
00:42:49out of place
00:42:50in the house.
00:42:50Like up
00:42:51until that
00:42:51point,
00:42:51I felt
00:42:52so comfortable,
00:42:53like so
00:42:54welcome.
00:42:55Not that I
00:42:55was ever
00:42:56like unwelcome,
00:42:57but in that
00:42:58moment,
00:42:59arguing like...
00:43:00Hardly an
00:43:00argument,
00:43:01a ding-dong,
00:43:02but yeah.
00:43:03Or whatever
00:43:03you want to
00:43:04call it.
00:43:07Whilst
00:43:07Danny did
00:43:07call it an
00:43:08argument,
00:43:09Bec called
00:43:09it a ding-dong,
00:43:10so she's
00:43:10wanting to
00:43:10really contain
00:43:11it.
00:43:11Yes.
00:43:12When we
00:43:12had the
00:43:13disagreement
00:43:13at the
00:43:13house,
00:43:14I felt
00:43:14really
00:43:14uncomfortable
00:43:15because it's
00:43:15not my
00:43:16space,
00:43:16it's your
00:43:17space.
00:43:17Do you
00:43:18know what I
00:43:18mean?
00:43:18I don't
00:43:18know if
00:43:18anyone else
00:43:20can...
00:43:20Yeah,
00:43:20so that
00:43:21was sort
00:43:22of something
00:43:22that stuck
00:43:23with me
00:43:23in the
00:43:24sense of
00:43:24like moving
00:43:26forward.
00:43:26It made
00:43:27me look at
00:43:27things in
00:43:28a different
00:43:28way in
00:43:29the sense
00:43:29that I
00:43:31probably
00:43:31want to...
00:43:32I don't
00:43:32know how
00:43:33I'd want
00:43:33to navigate
00:43:36if I
00:43:37was to
00:43:37move to
00:43:37Adelaide,
00:43:38how the
00:43:39logistics of
00:43:40it would
00:43:40look as
00:43:40a man.
00:43:43As a
00:43:44man.
00:43:47I feel
00:43:48like...
00:43:49Do you
00:43:49know what
00:43:49you mean
00:43:49like it's
00:43:50more
00:43:50Bec's
00:43:50house
00:43:51than
00:43:51it
00:43:51is
00:43:51my
00:43:51Like moving
00:43:51into her
00:43:52house.
00:43:53correct.
00:43:53Like I'd
00:43:54want to
00:43:54sit down
00:43:54and speak
00:43:55to Bec
00:43:55on a
00:43:56deeper
00:43:56level
00:43:56about
00:43:57that.
00:43:59Because
00:43:59like I
00:44:00feel like
00:44:00if you
00:44:01move in
00:44:01with a
00:44:02woman
00:44:03and like
00:44:03I would
00:44:04never just
00:44:04move in.
00:44:07Like we'd
00:44:08have to talk
00:44:09about that
00:44:09on a deeper
00:44:09level in
00:44:10the sense
00:44:10that like...
00:44:12I'm not
00:44:13moving out
00:44:13of my
00:44:14house.
00:44:16No, I'm
00:44:17not asking
00:44:17you to, but
00:44:18what I'm
00:44:18saying is
00:44:19like...
00:44:19It's how
00:44:20he fits
00:44:20into it,
00:44:21babe.
00:44:21Yeah, how
00:44:22I fit
00:44:22into it.
00:44:23That's more
00:44:24what I'm
00:44:24saying.
00:44:25And to you
00:44:26right now,
00:44:26you're probably
00:44:26like, that's
00:44:28easy.
00:44:28I know, like...
00:44:29It's just, but
00:44:30like I get from
00:44:31Danny's perspective,
00:44:31he's like, I move in,
00:44:33so like he's got to
00:44:33get his stuff out.
00:44:34Where does he put
00:44:35his stuff?
00:44:36And we would
00:44:36make space
00:44:37100% for that.
00:44:39From my point of
00:44:40view, I suppose
00:44:41everyone looks at it
00:44:41different, but it
00:44:42makes you feel like
00:44:43a bit of a bitch
00:44:43moving in with a
00:44:44woman.
00:44:46What are you on
00:44:47about?
00:45:01From my point of
00:45:02view, I suppose
00:45:03everyone looks at it
00:45:04different, but it
00:45:05makes you feel like
00:45:05a bit of a bitch
00:45:06moving in with a
00:45:07woman.
00:45:11What are you
00:45:12on about?
00:45:13Oh, no, that's
00:45:14not what I was
00:45:15getting at.
00:45:15Oh, God.
00:45:17Oh, my God.
00:45:18He's talking about
00:45:19feeling emasculated
00:45:21if she was the
00:45:22one who owned the
00:45:23house.
00:45:23And let's not use
00:45:24the term bitch in
00:45:25that way either,
00:45:26Danny.
00:45:27Not cool.
00:45:28We're on 800
00:45:29square metres, five
00:45:30minutes from the
00:45:31city, with a
00:45:32$97,000 mortgage
00:45:34and a $3 million
00:45:34house.
00:45:36F*** me.
00:45:41Whoa, whoa, whoa,
00:45:42whoa, whoa, whoa.
00:45:43Like, firstly, you've
00:45:45never said that to
00:45:46me.
00:45:47Women have worked
00:45:48really, really hard
00:45:49to make sure that
00:45:50we've got this
00:45:51multi-million dollar
00:45:52home in the most
00:45:53affluent suburb of
00:45:54South Australia.
00:45:56So, yeah, you're not
00:45:57going to be a bitch
00:45:58moving into my house.
00:45:59That was not what I
00:46:01was getting at.
00:46:02Are we serious for
00:46:03this?
00:46:04We're in the 2020s,
00:46:08emasculated by moving
00:46:09into a home with
00:46:10your woman.
00:46:12I'll be honest, I'll
00:46:13be going to hers.
00:46:14Let's grow up.
00:46:15You like to be a
00:46:16provider.
00:46:17Correct.
00:46:18Correct.
00:46:18Yeah.
00:46:18I'll be honest, I
00:46:19couldn't go to hers.
00:46:20I'm going to buy the
00:46:21house.
00:46:21I'm going to pay for
00:46:21everything.
00:46:22That's just a manly
00:46:23thing.
00:46:25Dan's a bit like
00:46:26me.
00:46:26He likes to feel like
00:46:28the man, the boss,
00:46:29the alpha male.
00:46:30So I understand where
00:46:31Danny's coming from.
00:46:32He just wants to feel
00:46:32more emasculated in the
00:46:34relationship.
00:46:35We're more traditional
00:46:36in that way too.
00:46:37No, but like, I get it.
00:46:38Like, I have it.
00:46:39My house is bigger than
00:46:40yours, but it's like,
00:46:41yeah, like, it's a
00:46:42different vibe.
00:46:43I do agree with Danny.
00:46:45I think for a man to
00:46:47feel masculine and his
00:46:48masculine energy, they
00:46:50want to have the house
00:46:50and the woman move
00:46:51into it.
00:46:52I know that's not like
00:46:53the norm these days, but
00:46:54like, I like that.
00:46:55And that's what me and
00:46:56Scott are doing.
00:46:57So I do agree with
00:46:58Danny on that.
00:46:59And I think he wants
00:47:01to feel like the man
00:47:02and he has every right
00:47:02to feel like that.
00:47:03I feel like it's
00:47:04emasculating.
00:47:05Like, I get what you're
00:47:06saying.
00:47:06Like, you want your
00:47:07place to be like,
00:47:08here, babe, like,
00:47:09come to me.
00:47:09Like, I'm the man.
00:47:11Like, I think that's
00:47:12like where you're
00:47:12coming from.
00:47:13Yeah, that's what I'm
00:47:14saying.
00:47:16I felt uncomfortable
00:47:17when we argued and
00:47:18it sort of, it made me
00:47:19feel demasculated to
00:47:20like be in her house.
00:47:21Yeah, like a bit of a
00:47:22bitch.
00:47:23I've had that
00:47:24discussion with Beck
00:47:24two or three times.
00:47:26I'm not a hit 1990s
00:47:29song on R&B radio
00:47:30that keeps repeating
00:47:31itself.
00:47:31Do you know what you mean?
00:47:32I didn't feel uneasy
00:47:33until we had the
00:47:34disagreement.
00:47:35I was just like,
00:47:36do you know what you
00:47:37mean?
00:47:37No, I don't know what
00:47:38you mean, Danny.
00:47:39I do wonder if Danny's
00:47:41showing a little
00:47:41insecurity there.
00:47:43You know, I think
00:47:43some men would not
00:47:46see a barrier to
00:47:47moving into a house
00:47:48owned by the woman.
00:47:49It wouldn't feel
00:47:50emasculating.
00:47:51He's really dropped
00:47:52the ball here.
00:47:54And I'm old school
00:47:54too.
00:47:55I'm exactly the same.
00:47:56I can proudly say it
00:47:57as well that if me and
00:47:59Rachel do something,
00:48:00I would feel more
00:48:01comfortable if Rachel
00:48:02moved into my place,
00:48:04feel like a provider.
00:48:05Well, I don't think
00:48:06that's very fair because
00:48:07at the end of the day,
00:48:08the difference is that
00:48:09I've got a massive house
00:48:11with a lot of space
00:48:12five minutes out of the
00:48:13city with a mortgage
00:48:14of 97 grand.
00:48:15I feel like you're a
00:48:16team.
00:48:16I feel like you're a
00:48:17team.
00:48:18A hundred percent.
00:48:19I was brought up on
00:48:19those values.
00:48:20That's just the way I
00:48:21think.
00:48:21If I moved badly,
00:48:22I'd be getting
00:48:22lost.
00:48:23Yeah.
00:48:24Props over.
00:48:25I think that's
00:48:26what I'm so going
00:48:26to be, like, I guess.
00:48:27Really?
00:48:28I wouldn't, yeah.
00:48:29But I wouldn't, like,
00:48:31we've got to work
00:48:31together.
00:48:32Do you know what I mean?
00:48:32I know we work together,
00:48:33but as a man, it's just
00:48:34something I do.
00:48:36As a man, maybe I'm
00:48:38old school like that,
00:48:39but I believe, like,
00:48:39the man should be the
00:48:41man of the house and
00:48:42take care of the big
00:48:43bills.
00:48:44It's nice to have your
00:48:45own thing, but ultimately
00:48:46you work together,
00:48:47right?
00:48:47Exactly, yeah.
00:48:48Ultimately, you work
00:48:49together.
00:48:49It's about how can we
00:48:50work together, how can we
00:48:51make this work, what are
00:48:52your needs, you know,
00:48:54vice versa.
00:48:55It doesn't have to be a
00:48:56demasculating thing,
00:48:57it just has to be
00:48:58teamwork.
00:48:59Like you're a teen.
00:49:00No, you're a teen.
00:49:02For some reason, it's just
00:49:04a mental thing, it's just,
00:49:06it just works like that.
00:49:08Females feel more secure
00:49:09when it is like that.
00:49:11It's just how it is.
00:49:12Unfortunately, it's a
00:49:13double set, it's just how
00:49:14it is.
00:49:15Guys don't have that
00:49:15problem.
00:49:16Yeah.
00:49:18I understand where
00:49:19Danny's coming from,
00:49:20don't agree with it, but
00:49:21I understand where Danny's
00:49:23coming from.
00:49:25Beck and Danny's homestay,
00:49:26I don't think was as great
00:49:27as they made it out to be.
00:49:30There's something, there's
00:49:31something not right there.
00:49:32This is a serious
00:49:34conversation you guys
00:49:34think to have.
00:49:35Uh, yeah, I know, for a
00:49:36dinner party.
00:49:39You don't like it, shut up.
00:49:40Great.
00:49:41Excellent.
00:49:43So glad we're talking
00:49:44about it with everyone.
00:49:46Oh, goodness.
00:49:48No, I said it to you
00:49:49already.
00:49:50Not to that level, babes.
00:49:51I have, 100%.
00:49:52You haven't?
00:49:53No.
00:50:02Still to come.
00:50:04I did spiral a little bit.
00:50:06Dave, what's going
00:50:07through your head, bro?
00:50:08David finally finds his
00:50:10voice.
00:50:11I've hit my wall.
00:50:12I've been calm throughout
00:50:13this whole thing, but I'm
00:50:15at my limit.
00:50:16This is really a
00:50:18relationship in peril.
00:50:19Yeah.
00:50:20Before Beck confronts Danny.
00:50:23I would have appreciated
00:50:24you having been that open
00:50:26on this weekend.
00:50:27It's in a lot of
00:50:27relations.
00:50:28It's just made me that
00:50:29whole table of people.
00:50:30Experiment now.
00:50:31Before hindsight.
00:50:40How about you?
00:50:41Alyssa, how was yours?
00:50:44Um.
00:50:48Do you know what?
00:50:49Alyssa and David really have
00:50:50not spoken about themselves
00:50:52at all.
00:50:53No.
00:50:53No.
00:50:53That is not usual for them.
00:50:55David looks quite
00:50:57uncomfortable, actually.
00:50:58Yeah.
00:51:00I feel like we had highs
00:51:03and lows.
00:51:04I did spiral a little bit.
00:51:06Like, I did get in my head.
00:51:08Because, you know, as soon as
00:51:09we touched down in Adelaide,
00:51:12I felt like this weight.
00:51:16I felt like, oh my goodness,
00:51:18I, you know, I said I was
00:51:19going to move to Sydney
00:51:20and, like, we're going to
00:51:21make this thing work in Sydney
00:51:22and we'll meet halfway.
00:51:23But I have a lot of
00:51:24responsibilities in Adelaide.
00:51:27I have contracts in place.
00:51:28I have my business.
00:51:29I have a house.
00:51:30I have a cat.
00:51:32But I'm almost 34.
00:51:33And in the next few years,
00:51:34I want to start a family.
00:51:35So I kind of put pressure on
00:51:37myself.
00:51:38And that's where I started to
00:51:39spiral on homestays.
00:51:41Because I was like, shit,
00:51:42this is not going to work.
00:51:44Like, I don't think I'm going
00:51:45to be able to stretch myself
00:51:46out of Adelaide, like,
00:51:48in the next three months.
00:51:49It might look like six to
00:51:51twelve months if we're going
00:51:52to make this work in the
00:51:52real world.
00:51:58Beforehand, you were saying
00:51:59potentially you'd give it
00:52:00three months to move to
00:52:01Sydney.
00:52:02Is it the move to Adelaide
00:52:03now?
00:52:04Well, that's what it would
00:52:05probably be.
00:52:09It would be Adelaide,
00:52:10yeah.
00:52:11Oh.
00:52:12We haven't heard that
00:52:13from her before.
00:52:15A lot came out of
00:52:16homestays, but it's just like,
00:52:17how do we move, like,
00:52:19forward?
00:52:19But I feel like the way that
00:52:21we process things are very
00:52:22different.
00:52:23And I'm wondering why am I
00:52:25spiralling?
00:52:25You know, we're all under
00:52:26pressure.
00:52:26But some people also deal
00:52:28with pressure differently.
00:52:29When I need to just process,
00:52:31my mind's going,
00:52:32bing, bing, bing, bing.
00:52:33I retract.
00:52:35Things have kind of turned on
00:52:37its head a little bit.
00:52:38Alyssa's now saying,
00:52:39I can't move.
00:52:41David's going, look, I'm
00:52:42willing to sacrifice everything
00:52:43and move down to Adelaide to
00:52:45give this relationship the best
00:52:47chance.
00:52:47But her retracting and pulling
00:52:49away from Dave, freaking Dave
00:52:51out.
00:52:51It felt, you know, it sort of
00:52:52felt for Dave a little bit.
00:52:53If anything, all the risk is
00:52:55on David.
00:52:56And there was one other
00:52:58thing.
00:52:59I know that I can be a bit
00:53:01full on.
00:53:02And, like, he does ground me,
00:53:05but maybe I'm finding a little
00:53:07bit sometimes too much where I
00:53:08feel like I'm not myself.
00:53:10Like, it's really shifting my
00:53:13energy.
00:53:14And that's not something I'm
00:53:15used to.
00:53:16My husband also snores.
00:53:18I've had, like, lack of sleep
00:53:19the last three months.
00:53:20Like, it's just, it's a
00:53:21compiling thing.
00:53:25I feel like right now Alyssa
00:53:27is trying to look for any
00:53:29little thing she can pull from
00:53:32the sky to question things in
00:53:35the relationship.
00:53:35And that is pushing me away.
00:53:37She says she doesn't want to
00:53:38push me away, but her throwing
00:53:40all these doubts, there's only
00:53:42so much I can take before I start
00:53:44feeling like an idiot, you
00:53:46know?
00:53:47I think I was fine with just
00:53:50continuing to be that emotional
00:53:53shoulder to lean on until
00:53:55homestays.
00:53:56We've been on this experiment for
00:53:58two months, and it's been long
00:53:59enough for her to, like, be a bit
00:54:02more certain.
00:54:03You know, if this ultimately isn't
00:54:05going to work, I'm not going to
00:54:06force anything.
00:54:07Like, it's up to her to come from
00:54:09her head into her heart for this
00:54:11to work long term.
00:54:14Dave, what's going through your
00:54:15head, bro?
00:54:22I've hit my wall.
00:54:23I've been calm throughout this
00:54:24whole thing, but I'm at my limit.
00:54:28And I sort of need that mental space
00:54:31as well, just as much as she probably
00:54:32needs it from coming back from
00:54:33homestay.
00:54:35And it's something we both need.
00:54:37But it's at the point emotionally I
00:54:38don't have much to give.
00:54:40I'm invested in this relationship.
00:54:42I am prepared to move for this
00:54:43relationship.
00:54:44But for me, I bonded with her mom
00:54:46and her two best friends.
00:54:48And I've got her mom saying, this is
00:54:50all good for you.
00:54:50Her friend saying, this is good for
00:54:51you.
00:54:52They really love David a lot.
00:54:54So I'm just like, what other green
00:54:57checks do you need ticked off?
00:54:59Like, you know?
00:55:04Well, this is David being really raw,
00:55:07isn't it?
00:55:07I mean, he's saying that he's
00:55:08exhausted and also he's hit his
00:55:11limit.
00:55:12And I know that they talk about it
00:55:15in relation to the experiment, but
00:55:18actually, you know, the experiment
00:55:19for some people, it brings them
00:55:21closer right now.
00:55:22And I get some real worries that he's
00:55:25started to step back.
00:55:27We got cracks, man.
00:55:28We've got cracks like everyone.
00:55:30We got cracks.
00:55:30But that's something that, you
00:55:32know, we will talk to the experts
00:55:34about.
00:55:35We actually haven't seen them in
00:55:37this state before, have we?
00:55:38No.
00:55:39I'd say absolutely more questions
00:55:41than answers we got tonight.
00:55:43So that's where we've got to go
00:55:44tomorrow night.
00:55:46We are going to need to ask about
00:55:48the homestays and particularly where
00:55:51they see themselves in the future.
00:55:54This is really a relationship in
00:55:56peril.
00:55:57Yeah.
00:56:02It sounds like you've been
00:56:03approached by some producers to do
00:56:05another show.
00:56:05Is that right?
00:56:06I've had the producers from Aussie
00:56:08shore reach out and see what I do
00:56:10this season three with them.
00:56:11Gotcha.
00:56:12All right.
00:56:13I had one of the female cast members
00:56:15slide into my DMs like four or five
00:56:17days ago.
00:56:17And I think it's come from there.
00:56:19Yeah.
00:56:20Is that something you want me to go
00:56:21and do or?
00:56:22My job is not to advise you on what to
00:56:24do or what not to do.
00:56:25We're documenting your life on flex.
00:56:27If this is where your life goes, you know.
00:56:30It's entirely up to you.
00:56:31If you decide that you want to pursue it
00:56:33further, I can talk to them and see
00:56:35whether we can capture some of the
00:56:36journey.
00:56:40Gosh, mate.
00:56:41I've already...
00:56:42So I've also blocked my parents in now on
00:56:44social media.
00:56:44So they didn't see my escorting videos.
00:56:48And then it took two days and they've
00:56:49seen them because a friend had gone and
00:56:52seen them and been like, have you seen
00:56:53what Marcus is doing in Australia?
00:56:54And they obviously had no idea.
00:56:55So I'm just dealing with that at the
00:56:56moment.
00:56:57And I think to drop the bombshell that
00:56:58yes, I'm an escort and I'm also going to
00:57:00go on Aussie shore.
00:57:03All right.
00:57:04You're on flex.
00:57:05You're an escort.
00:57:06And then you're going to go on Aussie shore.
00:57:08It's a big wait for Marcus.
00:57:09I've had a busy three days this week, mate.
00:57:11Yeah.
00:57:11I don't know if it's going downhill or
00:57:13uphill.
00:57:13I can't quite decide.
00:57:30How are your homesteads, guys?
00:57:32I went out on his Harley.
00:57:34Like, I grew up there.
00:57:35So I'm like, I went to school there.
00:57:37I had my first kiss there.
00:57:38I did this there.
00:57:39And it's like, it's not like a foreign
00:57:40place for me.
00:57:41Yeah.
00:57:41It's just easy the fact that she's lived
00:57:42there before.
00:57:43So that's pretty big for us.
00:57:45That's amazing.
00:57:45Yeah, it's really good.
00:57:46The taste of the outside world, you
00:57:49know what I mean?
00:57:49We know.
00:57:50Yeah.
00:57:51So what's your plan of a fight, guys,
00:57:54after the experiment?
00:57:55I do like Cronulla.
00:57:57Yeah.
00:57:57That's good.
00:57:58I could see myself there.
00:57:59That's very important.
00:58:00That's the whole point of it.
00:58:01The home visit.
00:58:02It's like, can I see myself there?
00:58:04Yes, I can.
00:58:05Let's just do it.
00:58:06Just give it a go.
00:58:07Yeah.
00:58:07Just give it a go.
00:58:08And that was a realisation I had.
00:58:10And you have a plan moving forward.
00:58:12And like, you guys are great.
00:58:15Yeah.
00:58:16Rachel and Stephen, homestays.
00:58:18Hey, guys.
00:58:19Who's talking?
00:58:20I didn't know you missed.
00:58:21You can talk.
00:58:22Captain Steve-o.
00:58:23I reckon Rachel goes first and I'll...
00:58:25No, can Steve-o go first, please?
00:58:26I agree.
00:58:27I think Steve-o can go first, thank you.
00:58:29I'll go first.
00:58:30I always talk.
00:58:31Yep.
00:58:32Can you hear me down there?
00:58:33Yeah.
00:58:33Yeah, boys.
00:58:34Loud and clear.
00:58:35All right.
00:58:35So, look, I'm happy to say that Rachel and my family did get along.
00:58:40Everyone loves each other.
00:58:41A lot of the drinks were flowing.
00:58:42Everything was fantastic.
00:58:44And, yeah, we had a really good time and took Rachel out on the boat
00:58:49and she got to experience a little, you know,
00:58:52a little snapshot of what my life is about
00:58:55and what I'm passionate about.
00:58:57So, I took her out fishing
00:58:58and I can definitely say very impressed with Rachel.
00:59:01She full on...
00:59:01She's a country girl.
00:59:02Full on leaned in.
00:59:04She's a catch.
00:59:05I am the catch of the day.
00:59:07She's a catch.
00:59:07That's right.
00:59:08The catch of the day, right here.
00:59:09Amen.
00:59:11And, look, I was very impressed with her fishing skills.
00:59:13She kissed a couple fish.
00:59:15I did.
00:59:16But I'm looking at this woman going,
00:59:17look, it's not just that she's leaning into fishing.
00:59:20It's more the fact that I'm seeing a woman there
00:59:23that is having a crack
00:59:25and I can see that outside fishing,
00:59:29Rachel will have my back in things.
00:59:33Oh!
00:59:35I can see we can do life together,
00:59:37but I feel a lot more confident now
00:59:39that the foundation has been laid on my side anyway with Rachel
00:59:42that we can take this out onto the outside.
00:59:46Yeah.
00:59:48And have somewhere to start
00:59:50because it's been done and dusted.
00:59:52I'm still going to meet her side,
00:59:53but I feel more confident on my side
00:59:55that Rachel and my family and my lifestyle will match now.
00:59:58So we had a good time.
01:00:00That's a day.
01:00:06Who would have thought?
01:00:08Who would have thought?
01:00:10Hearing Stephen talk about our homestay
01:00:13and, like, the beautiful things he was saying, yeah.
01:00:16You sound emotional.
01:00:18I am emotional.
01:00:19I'm so emotional about it
01:00:21because I've got this guy
01:00:24that I truly, truly care about
01:00:27and I'm developing such strong feelings for
01:00:30and every time he talks about us with the group
01:00:34and everything, it's beautiful.
01:00:35It's just so nice
01:00:37and what an amazing journey and opportunity we've had
01:00:44and the fact that we get to be with each other
01:00:46is just even better.
01:00:50Some guys are going to buy girls flowers.
01:00:52My guy bought me a fishing rod.
01:00:55I'm just saying.
01:00:57I was happy.
01:00:58Your girl's got her first fishing rod.
01:01:01Oh, Rachel looks so happy.
01:01:04Look at Stephen's smile.
01:01:06We've never seen him smile like this.
01:01:08We've never seen him as relaxed
01:01:10and as confident as he has been tonight.
01:01:13That was a full-bodied smile.
01:01:15He's really transformed
01:01:17but watching him now is just such a joy
01:01:20and he's so comfortable in her space.
01:01:23Look, we went through hard times
01:01:25at the start of our relationship.
01:01:27You all saw it.
01:01:28And you know what?
01:01:30We've just saw it
01:01:31and, you know, we're now hitting weeks
01:01:33where it should test us
01:01:35and instead it's strengthening us
01:01:37and it's really nice.
01:01:38I love it.
01:01:39Yay!
01:01:41Well done.
01:01:43Rachel and Steve-o.
01:01:55At the dinner table tonight,
01:01:57Danny said that he...
01:02:02would feel like a bitch
01:02:04moving into a girl's house.
01:02:07I hadn't heard that yet.
01:02:10And, like, I would hope
01:02:11that my husband knows
01:02:13that he can talk to me.
01:02:14Like, we talk about everything.
01:02:16So, yeah.
01:02:20I feel blindsided by him.
01:02:24I feel completely utterly betrayed by my husband.
01:02:32They got dragged back into the drama
01:02:37and we've got them.
01:02:39Mavs royalty, Jamie and DiBinica.
01:02:43The spiciest sofa showdown
01:02:45plus the footage you won't believe.
01:02:49After the dinner party tonight.
01:02:57If I was to move to Adelaide
01:03:00as a man,
01:03:02it makes you feel like a bit of a bitch
01:03:03moving in with a woman.
01:03:13I've never experienced a slow burn
01:03:15in my life.
01:03:17And here I am with a slow burn
01:03:19and, like I said,
01:03:20we went through hard yards earlier
01:03:22and now we're so strong
01:03:24because of that.
01:03:25And so...
01:03:26Said to you about it.
01:03:27Yeah.
01:03:27Yeah, but not to that level.
01:03:29I think I would have appreciated it
01:03:30having been that open.
01:03:32It's in a lot of relations.
01:03:34It's just made me that much more confident
01:03:36coming out of the experiment.
01:03:37Before home stage.
01:03:39Frankly, Dani, time and time again,
01:03:41has not stepped up
01:03:42and made the commitment
01:03:43that she wants and craves.
01:03:46She's been transparent.
01:03:47He hasn't said that he loves her back.
01:03:50He's now saying,
01:03:51I don't want to live in your house.
01:03:53So there's a number of things
01:03:54that are now adding up
01:03:55that Bec's starting to worry about
01:03:57when it comes to Dani's level of commitment.
01:03:59Yes.
01:04:00And rightly so.
01:04:02I mean...
01:04:06The idea that...
01:04:08Like, that it...
01:04:09Like, that you...
01:04:11Like, you basically just said,
01:04:12if I was to move to Adelaide,
01:04:14I don't know if I'd want to move into my house.
01:04:17I was saying, I didn't...
01:04:18I was saying, I would have rather
01:04:21you had said that to me before
01:04:22announcing it to attack some people.
01:04:24I was saying, I didn't say it like that.
01:04:26I was saying, we have to, like...
01:04:28I'd put money into a house
01:04:30and we'd renovate it
01:04:30or I'd pick up the mortgage
01:04:31because we're just moving.
01:04:33And now it is,
01:04:33we've made me feel demasculating.
01:04:35Yeah.
01:04:36OK.
01:04:36I'm excited.
01:04:37I was like, you said just then,
01:04:38I'm like,
01:04:38but only 50% of us are not still good at me.
01:04:41And I was like,
01:04:42you know,
01:04:42I haven't said that.
01:04:43So, for my side,
01:04:44that's why you're saying my side...
01:04:45Because I'm not moving out.
01:04:49I think Bec revealed how hard
01:04:51that conversation was for her.
01:04:54You know, when she said,
01:04:55oh, here we are,
01:04:55having this conversation
01:04:56in front of everyone.
01:04:57She felt really uncomfortable
01:04:58and I think
01:04:59after the dinner tonight,
01:05:01they'll be going home
01:05:01for quite a big conversation.
01:05:21OK.
01:05:22So, the purpose of this conversation
01:05:23is to talk about
01:05:24what's been happening
01:05:25within the group of women.
01:05:27Hello.
01:05:28Hello, ladies.
01:05:30Welcome to your hens night.
01:05:33Not to make comparisons
01:05:34between men and women
01:05:35and who does it better.
01:05:37Wow.
01:05:37I just hope that there's
01:05:38some insight here
01:05:39with the ladies
01:05:40that, yes,
01:05:41in the future,
01:05:41you are going to be
01:05:42in contact with other women
01:05:44who have strong personalities,
01:05:46have strong judgments about you
01:05:48or opinions about you.
01:05:53But that doesn't mean
01:05:54that you have to play dirty.
01:05:56As a woman,
01:05:57I think it's important
01:05:58that we support each other.
01:06:03Love that.
01:06:05That we empower each other.
01:06:08Empower each other.
01:06:08I'm so excited.
01:06:09This is amazing.
01:06:12That we don't compete
01:06:14with each other.
01:06:15Yeah!
01:06:17That we give other women
01:06:19an opportunity to shine.
01:06:21Jules, were you married?
01:06:24Yes.
01:06:28Just like we do.
01:06:29I'm falling in love with you.
01:06:31And that does not
01:06:33take away any of our power.
01:06:35This is the last dinner party.
01:06:36Here we go.
01:06:38Yay!
01:06:41¡Gracias!
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