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90 Day Fiance Before the 90 Days Season 8 Episode 14
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days
00:00:03Wow
00:00:04This is your room
00:00:06Wait, wait, wait, what?
00:00:09Like you could have put a picture of me
00:00:10Didn't have one
00:00:11I would have settled for a smaller place without a roommate
00:00:15But our chemistry, it's there
00:00:18Good night
00:00:19Good night
00:00:20Feels very surreal having Elise here with me
00:00:22But I'm a bit worried that she might find parts of my life
00:00:25that she's not exactly happy with
00:00:28You keep talking about your ex, you keep bringing him up
00:00:31I'd rather stay single than back to my ex
00:00:34I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want to be introduced to your family
00:00:39I told you, yes
00:00:41These issues just keep popping up
00:00:43And the fact that her family might ultimately not approve of me
00:00:48I'm feeling this is like make or break
00:00:53It just felt like the right time to propose to Sheena
00:00:56I asked you to hold off so she could prove herself
00:01:00And then you just pull this little sneaky
00:01:01Now she's got the whole cat in the bag, doesn't she?
00:01:05Sheena and I are gonna move forward
00:01:07You're gonna be in our lives, but
00:01:09You might be surprised, Forrest
00:01:10I'm so disappointed
00:01:12My mom would actually step away
00:01:13Rather than accept Sheena as my wife
00:01:16It's tearing me apart
00:01:19I feel like your idea of being a husband changed
00:01:23You see it like a power
00:01:25I don't have any
00:01:26Because when I tell you to do something, you don't listen to me
00:01:30You want traditional roles when it applies to you
00:01:34I think that you got comfortable
00:01:36Don't ever get too comfortable, ever
00:01:38You don't want a bitchy wife
00:01:42Don't be a asshole
00:01:45Don't come home, ever
00:01:48I love you so much
00:01:50But stop telling me lies
00:01:52There is more to tell him
00:01:53And I have to get it said before he goes to his uncle
00:01:56So, my last marriage wasn't with a man
00:02:00I'm divorcing a woman, Daniel
00:02:02You're the first man that I've been with in 21 years
00:02:07It's not
00:02:08Don't
00:02:09It's not as bad as
00:02:10Don't come close to me
00:02:16Yeah, I can feel your energy
00:02:22Is passing through me
00:02:24I feel so alive
00:02:36Good morning
00:02:38Hi
00:02:40How are you?
00:02:41How are you?
00:02:42Thank you for taking care of me last night
00:02:45That's alright
00:02:45I can't have you feeling sick as soon as you get here
00:02:58I feel so bad
00:02:59Like every hour I was making you get up and get me water
00:03:02So who needs sleep?
00:03:04You're a very big caretaker
00:03:06Yeah, well, long flight
00:03:08And you weren't feeling this, so, you know
00:03:11You're such a good boy
00:03:14I arrived in Sydney yesterday
00:03:16And I met my boyfriend Joshua for the first time face to face
00:03:21The plan was for Josh to sleep on the couch last night
00:03:24But I was up every hour of the night
00:03:27I was coughing, I was shivering
00:03:29And he decided to come in the bed with me and take care of me all night
00:03:33It just feels like it's like a sinus infection almost
00:03:36Like it's just like swollen here
00:03:38Maybe you can go get me, like, nose spray
00:03:42Yeah
00:03:44I am a needy bitch
00:03:46Especially when I'm sick
00:03:47I need my man to attend to me
00:03:49Like a golden retriever puppy, like, running, like, catching a ball
00:03:53Joshua does that
00:03:55I feel a little better now with, like, all the water you've been making me drink
00:03:58Yeah
00:03:59And I took my medicine
00:04:00That's good, it's probably a good start
00:04:04What is it?
00:04:05It's Vegemite
00:04:06What's that?
00:04:07You have to try it
00:04:08It's a big thing in Australia
00:04:09It smells like sardines
00:04:13There's no fish in it
00:04:16Just take a big bite
00:04:22Suck!
00:04:22Is it good?
00:04:24It's not bad
00:04:26No, I don't like it
00:04:27I don't like it
00:04:30Joshua, what is that?
00:04:32Is that fish?
00:04:33It's not fish
00:04:36Do you want a tissue?
00:04:38It's a, it's a condiment
00:04:40I don't know how to explain it
00:04:41And you love it?
00:04:42Yeah, I do love it on toast
00:04:44You're not Australian if you're not eating Vegemite
00:04:46Tastes like
00:04:47I hated it
00:04:53Alright, take this Vegemite away from me
00:04:55Alright, there's other stuff like, um, berries and yogurt and stuff, so I'll grab you that
00:05:00Yes
00:05:01And then if you feel a bit better, maybe you wanna go wander up to the beach and uh, see
00:05:06Bondi
00:05:06Yeah
00:05:07Alright, well don't make me sick
00:05:11I feel like you are, I feel like you already got sick by kissing me all night
00:05:15Well we might get Toms too then
00:05:23Wow, so this is your beach
00:05:25This is it
00:05:26Oh my god, all the guys that wear the, what's the Speedo thing
00:05:30I can't, I can't, I can't
00:05:36Wow, the sand feels so nice, very different than Miami
00:05:39It's like really soft
00:05:43Do you wanna go in?
00:05:44Yep
00:05:45Wait, I have to change
00:05:47Towels in my bag, so let's figure this out
00:05:51Yeah
00:05:51So here's to cover me
00:05:52Okay
00:05:55Cover it out, by this
00:05:57Well this one, I can just go like this
00:05:58Yeah
00:06:02My top is off
00:06:05Hold me, hold me
00:06:06How do you do this part?
00:06:08Alright, so now we're gonna go down
00:06:09Okay
00:06:10So
00:06:11How are you gonna do that now?
00:06:14Hold it tight
00:06:18I'm losing it
00:06:20Hold it
00:06:23Voila!
00:06:24Well done
00:06:28That was pretty impressive
00:06:31Are you gonna protect me if there's sharks?
00:06:34Yeah, I'll do my best
00:06:35Let's go, ready?
00:06:36Okay
00:06:49It's actually insane to even think that
00:06:52I haven't even been here a full 24 hours
00:06:54And it's so natural
00:06:56There's a lot of sexual chemistry there
00:06:58We're so touchy-feely
00:07:01But he seems a little reserved
00:07:04So I'm just trying to feel him out
00:07:09I mean, I do have three weeks here
00:07:11And I came here to find my potential husband
00:07:14So getting to be alone with Joshua
00:07:16It's nice because I want to get into the deeper stuff
00:07:19For sure
00:07:23Holy camoly, I'm cold
00:07:25It's funny, you see adults in there freezing
00:07:28And then you see like little kids
00:07:29And they're just like follaking around for hours
00:07:32I think when I was a kid
00:07:34I spent every day at the beach
00:07:35We'd be swimming in the pool every morning
00:07:38Okay
00:07:39But then in the afternoons
00:07:41We'd be like doing the board training
00:07:42Every single afternoon
00:07:45I love learning about you
00:07:46I want to get to know everything about you
00:07:48Like I want to know the heart
00:07:50Like I want you to open up
00:07:51I feel like you're
00:07:54Reserved
00:07:55Were you reserved in your last serious relationship?
00:07:58Yeah, I probably was a bit reserved in my last relationship
00:08:00I was, yeah
00:08:02One big fear is probably, I don't know, opening up
00:08:04And then having it used like against me
00:08:09You know
00:08:12In my previous relationship
00:08:14We dated for seven years
00:08:17But I never felt secure
00:08:20I just felt like I wasn't good enough for her
00:08:22She just wanted me to be, you know
00:08:24Super successful
00:08:27And I was constantly being told
00:08:29If I wasn't, she would walk away
00:08:32So I was always living in fear, I guess
00:08:35She could just end it at any time
00:08:38Ultimately, I had my heart broken
00:08:39And I'm closed off because of that
00:08:44Like are you constantly thinking like it's something on your mind
00:08:47Or like it's just
00:08:48I'm always thinking
00:08:49Always, always thinking
00:08:51What's your top thought right now?
00:08:53That this is
00:08:55I like that you're sort of asking these questions
00:08:57But you know, it's scary at the same time
00:09:00Because it's opening up and being vulnerable
00:09:02No, I get it
00:09:04Like opening up can be scary
00:09:07But you know what?
00:09:09You made me feel safe already
00:09:11Really?
00:09:12That's like an early, early call
00:09:14So hopefully I'll do the same thing
00:09:16Yeah, I feel safe with you too
00:09:21Hi
00:09:21Hi
00:09:27I've never really had a guy say that to me actually
00:09:30Like guys have said a lot of things to me
00:09:32But feeling safe is not one I've heard
00:09:35It feels good
00:09:37I don't think there's anything sexier than a man being vulnerable
00:09:41So yeah, the plan was to wait
00:09:44But like he's so sweet to me
00:09:46He's so attentive to me
00:09:48He's letting his guard down
00:09:49Like it's hard to resist a sexy man that's treating you well
00:09:52So we'll see
00:10:07It's not...
00:10:08It's not as bad as...
00:10:10Don't come close to me
00:10:12Daniel
00:10:15You're telling me you have been a lesbian
00:10:19Listen
00:10:19Don't, don't, don't try it
00:10:21Listen to...
00:10:25Listen, I'm telling you the truth before we talk to your uncle
00:10:30I want it all out
00:10:31That's why I said I needed another day
00:10:33I wanted you to know everything
00:10:39Daniel
00:10:41Daniel
00:10:41Don't come close to me
00:10:43Please try to understand
00:10:47You don't know how hard it was to...
00:10:49I have a lot of secrets
00:10:50I have no more secrets
00:10:52Just listen, please
00:10:54I'm trying to tell you who I am
00:10:56Jesus Christ
00:10:58I'm not a lesbian
00:11:00I'm not straight
00:11:01I'm not bisexual
00:11:03I just believe that people should love people
00:11:06People should love people by their soul
00:11:08And people should love people for who they are on the inside
00:11:11Not on what is on the outside
00:11:16I don't think there's anything wrong with that
00:11:18You told me you have had a series of, you know, relationship
00:11:20I didn't know it's your fellow women
00:11:23Same sex
00:11:26Yes
00:11:28And you have been lying to me
00:11:31I'm sorry
00:11:34You are evil
00:11:37I'm not evil
00:11:38You know me, I take care of people
00:11:40And I feel I'm taking care of you
00:11:42I'm not evil, I have a good heart
00:11:44And I'm a good person
00:11:46What makes you a good person?
00:11:48Sleeping with your fellow women?
00:11:50That doesn't make me evil
00:11:53I'm still the same person you fell in love with
00:11:56The same person who tell lies
00:11:58And who keeps secrets
00:12:00I love you
00:12:01I don't want to hear that from your mouth again
00:12:04I love you
00:12:06Don't say that again
00:12:07You can't tell me not to say those words because I mean it
00:12:10I am in love with you, Daniel
00:12:12That's why I'm coming clean to you
00:12:14I could have kept this a secret forever and not told you
00:12:17But I'm telling you
00:12:18Shut your mouth
00:12:19You have been tortured by a woman
00:12:21Not even women, women
00:12:25You are a liar
00:12:28I'm just a person who has been lost
00:12:37Don't
00:12:37Can you hold this ring?
00:12:38No
00:12:40Hold the ring
00:12:43I've seen that from your head to toe is full of secrets and lies
00:12:49So you're full of evil
00:12:51I'm not full of evil, Daniel
00:12:55I'm staying in my room tonight
00:12:57I'm staying in my room tonight
00:13:09I thought I've seen it all
00:13:10But she keep on vomiting secrets
00:13:15No, no, no, no, no
00:13:17I cry, cry, cry the river
00:13:20I didn't think he'd call me evil
00:13:23I'm not evil
00:13:26I just believe a person loves a person
00:13:28And I don't think there's anything wrong with that
00:13:35Daniel's not gonna accept me for who I am
00:13:38You know what?
00:13:40F*** him
00:13:41F*** him
00:13:45Jesus
00:13:46Jesus
00:13:54You're officially on the jeepney
00:13:56I only have a week left here in the Philippines
00:13:58And I don't want to waste any time bringing Sheena to America
00:14:02So I have to be very clear here
00:14:05If you file today for the K1 visa
00:14:09It will be denied
00:14:17We are likely
00:14:34We are here
00:14:36I'm tired
00:14:38Let's get a rest
00:14:39Let's get a rest
00:14:57So this is gonna be like a village environment, right?
00:15:00Yeah
00:15:03Yesterday, we traveled from Nusibet to Fort Dauphin, my hometown
00:15:08We arrived late, so we stay in a hotel
00:15:12And now we are going to my family's village for a few days
00:15:18Can't forget my baby wipes
00:15:19I don't know how you guys wash your ass in the village
00:15:22We use water
00:15:26F***
00:15:27We had a big fight last night
00:15:30I still love him
00:15:31And I want him to meet my family
00:15:35But I don't feel like everything is resolved yet between me and Rick
00:15:42I don't want to ruin this vacation
00:15:44But the way you talked to me yesterday
00:15:49I don't like
00:15:53I went a little overboard
00:15:55I'm sorry for that
00:15:58I'm sorry for raising my voice to you
00:16:02It's just I was so frustrated, you know
00:16:05Hearing about your ex-boyfriend constantly
00:16:09I mean, I can't move forward if you're gonna keep going back
00:16:18Okay, I promise I'm not gonna talk about my ex
00:16:25Okay
00:16:26We are going to see my family and I don't want to go there in a bad mood
00:16:32I want them to accept you
00:16:34Because I want this relationship work
00:16:39I do too
00:16:42I overreacted yesterday
00:16:44It seemed like she was taunting me over something that she already knows that I'm insecure about
00:16:51And it just totally set me off
00:16:53I want to be here and, um, I want to really give this a chance
00:17:00Yeah
00:17:01There's definitely a strong connection between her and I
00:17:05And I'm glad that Trish is willing to forgive me
00:17:12So, I think we can, like, get a quickie in before we go
00:17:16What?
00:17:18No!
00:17:22Let's go now
00:17:24Let's go now
00:17:24Let's go now
00:17:29Let's go now
00:17:30Nice tuxus right here
00:17:31Yeah, it's nice
00:17:45It's quiet, you see? Not much people
00:17:48Not what I expected
00:17:51Ooh
00:17:53This is rough roads
00:17:57The roots are made of aluminum
00:18:00Let's get noisy when it rains, huh?
00:18:02Yeah
00:18:03What?
00:18:08I'm excited to see my family and go back to my village
00:18:13Everything is just simple
00:18:15There is no running water
00:18:18No fancy toilet
00:18:20But everybody are kind in my village
00:18:24And it's beautiful
00:18:26Do you think they're gonna be happy to see?
00:18:29Yeah, to see me
00:18:31What about me?
00:18:34They gonna be happy to see me, baby?
00:18:36I don't know
00:18:39They're happy because I bring a boyfriend
00:18:42Oh, okay
00:18:42And they will tell me if you were the good person for me or not
00:18:51Yeah, I just hope those questions don't come too hard and fast
00:18:57I feel a little bit scared
00:19:00My family won't accept Rick
00:19:04Men in my tribe is very strong
00:19:08When they don't like something, they are really aggressive
00:19:13Rick thinks he can handle any situation, but he can't
00:19:19I'm worried he doesn't know what he's in for
00:19:25Is it right here?
00:19:28Yeah, it's here
00:19:29There's no turning back
00:19:41So we're gonna have to call a GP
00:19:44I'm super duper nervous about riding one
00:19:46Ah, you're gonna have to
00:19:47How's that work?
00:19:49Well, you can see those signboards
00:19:50Uh-huh
00:19:51Just have to find the right location
00:19:54Then we just have to go para
00:19:55Para is to stop
00:19:57Oh
00:20:02It's out here
00:20:03Oh, out here?
00:20:04Yes
00:20:05All right
00:20:07We're officially on the GP
00:20:13There it is, the big part
00:20:19I'm surprisingly not tapping the top too hardcore
00:20:23It's hot
00:20:24It smells like diesel
00:20:29It's been a couple days since I proposed to Sheena
00:20:31And we are just over the moon in love with each other
00:20:36But not everyone's happy
00:20:39My mom is still mad at me because I proposed to Sheena against her guidance
00:20:46And the vibe in the condo is just really awkward
00:20:52So Sheena and I have been trying to do our own thing
00:20:54Oh my gosh
00:20:55So this is the ball, dear
00:20:58All right, here we go
00:20:59We're getting off
00:21:00Here we are
00:21:00Thank you so much
00:21:01While it really hurts that my mom has distanced herself
00:21:04Right now is not the time to put the brakes on things
00:21:07I only have a week left here in the Philippines
00:21:09And I don't want to waste any time in bringing Sheena to America
00:21:14Good morning
00:21:16Will you have an appointment with Mr. Alexander King, please?
00:21:20Now that we're finally engaged, I called an immigration lawyer in Manila
00:21:24Just so we can get a consultation
00:21:26Oh, hi, sir
00:21:28Hi, good morning
00:21:29My name is Sheena
00:21:31Nice to meet you
00:21:33Nice to meet you
00:21:35Good afternoon
00:21:37Welcome to our office
00:21:39And welcome to the Philippines
00:21:40Thank you, I've been enjoying my stay
00:21:43Okay, so for this consultation, I would like to, you know, make an assessment
00:21:49Of course
00:21:49If you are eligible for the K-1 visa
00:21:53Now, how long have you been in this relationship?
00:21:57Seven years
00:21:59And you have never been convicted of any crime in the U.S.
00:22:03No, be clean
00:22:07Yeah
00:22:07When I walk, you can hear me
00:22:08Yeah, so, uh, are you, uh, working right now?
00:22:13Currently I'm not working
00:22:16But I can prove that I'm getting paid monthly
00:22:20Okay
00:22:20I'm receiving, uh, disability benefits
00:22:24Which is, it's a good enough amount to have me, you know, live my basic life
00:22:29And, you know, get an apartment, get food, all that good stuff
00:22:35I see, so, I have to, um, uh, be very clear here
00:22:41You know, disability benefits is not an income
00:22:46You know, you cannot consider it as an income
00:22:48The annual income for petitioners for, uh, K-1 visa is more or less 26,500 USD
00:22:57Now, is that shared between
00:22:59No, it's only the petitioner
00:23:00Only the petitioner
00:23:01Okay, that's for the petitioner, okay
00:23:03So, um, if you will file today, for example, it will be denied
00:23:14My suggestion is you build your financial capacity, you know, find gainful employment, then, uh, you can proceed
00:23:24I'm in complete shock right now
00:23:27I feel devastated to find out that my disability payments that I get monthly
00:23:32Does not count towards the amount that I need to bring to the United States
00:23:37To be honest, because of my autism, I am terrified about working full-time and starting a job
00:23:47In the past, I've had jobs that ended
00:23:52Awfully
00:23:53Because I didn't understand or I messed up
00:23:56But my back is at a wall right now
00:24:00You know, that if I don't get a job, our entire dream of bringing China to the United States is
00:24:06done
00:24:08So, let's say, you know, I go back home
00:24:10Yep
00:24:11And I instantly start working
00:24:12Yeah
00:24:13How long is enough to have the stable form of income, you know, before the K-1 is actually granted?
00:24:19So, yeah, uh, you need probably a year, uh, employment history
00:24:26Okay
00:24:27And then, uh, you will meet another year, uh, at least, uh, to have the petition approved and bring your
00:24:34fiancé to the U.S.
00:24:36Yeah
00:24:40It's quite frustrating for me that I'm the only one who's been working
00:24:45If he happened to have a job, then he could have acquired the CAVA visa sooner
00:24:53I'm worried that since Forrest has a disability, it will be quite difficult for him to get and hold a
00:25:00job long-term
00:25:03Is there any other options?
00:25:06So, depending on your goal
00:25:07Here in the Philippine immigration, we have a straightforward process
00:25:12If you get married here and he comes to the Philippines and live here, there is no requirement of financial
00:25:17capacity
00:25:18Okay
00:25:18So, there will be a, um, 100% chance that the petition will be approved
00:25:25Okay
00:25:26Okay
00:25:27So, these options will depend on your goal
00:25:31At this point, it's sounding almost impossible for Forrest to bring me to the U.S.
00:25:40I know it's going to be difficult, but I think he's going to have to consider other options
00:25:56I don't know, I'm just real pissed off, and at this moment, I'm at a crossroads, I don't know how
00:26:01to move forward
00:26:12Can I at least have my wallet?
00:26:14No
00:26:15Okay
00:26:17Don't talk to me, don't come to me
00:26:26You think you can just treat me this way, you will leave me all the time?
00:26:29All right, I'm just going to give you space, all right?
00:26:34Thank you
00:26:35What are you doing?
00:26:36I'm just going to give you space, and if you're going to give me a chance to put in the
00:26:54building, I'm just going to give you space, and I want to give you space, all right?
00:26:54Well, we'll probably walk in the building, I will bring you space, and I'm just going to give you space,
00:27:01and the day we are ready for it
00:27:02...paki, ano, paki, liko pasi ang asawa ko yung doon sa doon.
00:27:15Iyan siya, oh.
00:27:21Oh?
00:27:33I will be very guilty if I leave him on the street.
00:27:37But, just to be clear, I'm very pissed at him.
00:27:42He promised a really good day.
00:27:45But, of course, he needs to ruin the moment.
00:27:48Because it's not Juban if he doesn't.
00:27:58Anna, am I allowed to come in?
00:28:02Anna, am I allowed to come in?
00:28:18We're just gonna leave him for now.
00:28:20Just give her space, man.
00:28:22So she can just calm down.
00:28:25We'll talk about it when she's ready.
00:28:29I just feel really hopeless with Anna because I'm putting in massive effort to show Anna that I can be
00:28:38romantic.
00:28:40And, you know, she storms out of the nail salon place and it's just...
00:28:45I don't know, I'm just real pissed off that she would make a scene in public like this.
00:28:50And, at this moment, I'm at a crossroads. I don't know how to move forward.
00:28:56Mama, your day good?
00:28:59It's okay.
00:29:01Every time he was having a good time, he would do this to me.
00:29:07Right in front in public. It's so humiliating.
00:29:12I don't think he's powerless.
00:29:13The fact that he could upset me this much definitely has our opposite relationship.
00:29:24Hello?
00:29:25Hello?
00:29:27How's your baby?
00:29:29Nana's baby?
00:29:32I'm in shock with Joanne.
00:29:34Why?
00:29:35It's a bad trip because...
00:29:37Why?
00:29:38Because he wants to have a relationship with him.
00:29:40He's like this, this, this, this...
00:29:44I don't want to be like this.
00:29:46I'm in shock with you.
00:29:48I don't want to see that.
00:29:55I'm sorry.
00:29:56You have taken a job.
00:29:59You have taken a job.
00:30:00I'm sorry because you're not taken care of.
00:30:01I can't break your body.
00:30:01Why does your life?
00:30:04Why?
00:30:06Don't waste your relationships.
00:30:09I am so, so, so tired of it Jobam.
00:30:12I have to be this timid...
00:30:14Yeah, but...
00:30:14Anna, I'm not trying to get you to change.
00:30:17Self-spoken woman.
00:30:18It's like...
00:30:19I've, like, sacrificed a lot of my life so you can be happy.
00:30:25And even when I do the things you want me to do,
00:30:27it's something else you want me to do.
00:30:31So I'm like, look, I just give up.
00:30:34There's nothing else that I can do to make you, you know, happy.
00:30:41I feel exactly the same sometimes.
00:30:52I'm so cold.
00:30:53Can I have a shower with me?
00:30:55Okay.
00:30:56I mean, are things moving a little fast?
00:30:59Maybe.
00:31:01But, I mean, like, I wanted to save water.
00:31:04I'm a big environmentalist, you know?
00:31:07Ha ha!
00:31:27It's so cold in here.
00:31:29Oh.
00:31:34I'm so cold.
00:31:35Can I have a shower with me?
00:31:37Okay.
00:31:39I never thought you would ask.
00:31:41Ha ha!
00:32:02I mean, are things moving a little fast?
00:32:05Maybe.
00:32:07But Joshua and I are both super sandy and gross from the ocean.
00:32:11And, I mean, like, I wanted to save water.
00:32:14I'm a big environmentalist, you know?
00:32:17Ha ha!
00:32:19I'm trying to control myself.
00:32:21But Josh is just, like, so hot.
00:32:23And we've been making out all day.
00:32:26You know, in the back of my mind, I do have some questions.
00:32:29And I do want to see more of him and more of his life.
00:32:32But, like, at this point, like, it feels right.
00:32:35So, I bought some massage oil and then I think there's some wine.
00:32:39Maybe we can have a glass and relax.
00:32:41I love it.
00:32:42Okay, perfect.
00:32:53Babe, are you coming?
00:32:55Yeah.
00:32:59Everything feels really natural.
00:33:01Everything feels like it's progressing between us.
00:33:04We just draw on to each other, which is, you know, really exciting.
00:33:08We had an amazing day together and I want to pamper Elise.
00:33:12Now's the time to pour some wine, you know, light a candle and, you know, show that I've got skills.
00:33:24Wow.
00:33:25Look at this.
00:33:26Yeah.
00:33:30Welcome to Sydney.
00:33:32Making you feel better and more relaxed.
00:33:36Cheers.
00:33:37Cheers.
00:33:41Feel like a massage.
00:33:42Yeah, I would love one.
00:33:44I'm going to light it up.
00:33:45This doesn't mean you're necessarily sleeping in the bed tonight.
00:33:48It's okay.
00:33:48I didn't mistake it.
00:33:51Lay on your stomach.
00:33:53Okay.
00:34:00Is that all right?
00:34:01Nothing.
00:34:02It's okay.
00:34:05Wow, that's a lot of oil.
00:34:09You can go harder.
00:34:11Harder.
00:34:12Wait.
00:34:14We should go down lower.
00:34:17You're, like, trying to be, like, a little respectful, but come on.
00:34:22Do me a little bitch.
00:34:24Give me, like, everything.
00:34:25Slap on the ass?
00:34:26Yeah, slap on the ass.
00:34:27Like, grab my hair with the oil in it.
00:34:30I mean, I don't have extensions for nothing.
00:34:32Rip me around a little bit here.
00:34:35Wow.
00:34:37It's a family show, I thought you said.
00:34:41Can you hear that?
00:34:42Yeah.
00:34:43Shaking.
00:34:44I can feel it.
00:34:45You reckon?
00:34:46Mm-hmm.
00:34:54All right, guys.
00:34:59What the f*** are you doing?
00:35:03Oh, my God.
00:35:06The timing on me.
00:35:08Hi, Chris.
00:35:09Yeah, hi.
00:35:10Nice.
00:35:11Now it's a party.
00:35:12Now it's a party.
00:35:14I'm going to stop on my car.
00:35:15I'll get another wine glass.
00:35:19I did not see that coming.
00:35:21I did.
00:35:22I'm on a f***.
00:35:23I'm naked right now.
00:35:25But, you know, there's better places to give a naked massage in the house than the communal area as well.
00:35:29Half naked massage.
00:35:30Yeah, you know what?
00:35:31You're absolutely right.
00:35:32Yeah.
00:35:32But, um, you know, I think I was just blinded lust.
00:35:36Ew.
00:35:37You just have to say it so weird for, bro.
00:35:43All right.
00:35:43Well, I'm going to go to my room.
00:35:48Well, that just ruined the moment.
00:35:50This is exactly why I don't want a guy with roommate.
00:35:56Can you button me back up?
00:35:58I'm, like, literally in my bra and underwear.
00:36:02Showing your skin to other people?
00:36:04Who is that?
00:36:05Who would have?
00:36:06No, I'm not embarrassed.
00:36:08Like, I'll get naked in front of everyone.
00:36:09We know that.
00:36:10But, like, Chris walks in as your hands are groping my body.
00:36:14And it's, like, such a sexual nice night.
00:36:16And, like...
00:36:16Yeah, I probably should have done it in the bedroom.
00:36:18Not my finest hour.
00:36:21Sorry, baby.
00:36:22Well, that f***ing killed the mood.
00:36:24For now.
00:36:27Okay.
00:36:36Andrews?
00:36:37Andrews?
00:36:37Andrews, Andrews, Andrews, the head to me.
00:36:38Wait, this is the shower?
00:36:40Yeah.
00:36:41Out of the toilet.
00:36:43Oh, hell no!
00:36:45Yeah.
00:36:46I'm a little bit...
00:36:47I'm the rest of his reaction in front of my father.
00:36:51Paper for the...
00:36:53What?
00:36:54This is paper to write on.
00:36:55Who...
00:36:56You wipe his...
00:36:57Yeah.
00:36:58Stop it.
00:37:19Well, babe, this is where you grew up?
00:37:22Yeah, it's here.
00:37:34Hey.
00:37:36Yeah.
00:37:37Is that your rooster?
00:37:38No, not mine.
00:37:39By my neighbors.
00:37:40Oh, okay.
00:37:42We just got to the area of Trisha's family home.
00:37:45I've never seen a home where you have to walk so far to get to off the main road.
00:37:51Oh, this is a journey.
00:37:54Don't complain.
00:37:56But I'm happy to be here with Trisha because I want a future with her.
00:38:02And if I can get her family's approval, I think that she would be able to see that I'm a
00:38:07good person.
00:38:09And maybe it would make up for what I did in the past.
00:38:14Oh, this is it?
00:38:15Yeah, this is my home.
00:38:18Okay.
00:38:19Oh, that's my sister.
00:38:20Oh, this is your sister.
00:38:23Good girl.
00:38:23I didn't get to meet her.
00:38:27She does look like you.
00:38:28She's very beautiful.
00:38:29Yeah, she is.
00:38:30Nice to meet you.
00:38:33And who is this?
00:38:35My brother.
00:38:35Oh, this is your brother?
00:38:37Yes.
00:38:37Oh, my brother.
00:38:39Por favor.
00:38:40Chisi.
00:38:41Por favor.
00:38:42Hola, my.
00:38:42How are you doing?
00:38:43Nice to meet you.
00:38:45Nice to meet you.
00:38:48Trisha's told me that she has a huge family and they all live on this compound together.
00:38:54Hi, I'm Rick.
00:38:55Nice to meet you.
00:38:56Oh, this is your brother.
00:38:57Okay.
00:39:00Okay.
00:39:01Nice to meet you.
00:39:01Oh, how are you?
00:39:04My sister.
00:39:05This is your sister?
00:39:06Yeah.
00:39:06It's so nice to meet you.
00:39:07You look like my grandmother.
00:39:10I wasn't expecting that many people.
00:39:13You know, I keep seeing people pouring in one by one.
00:39:18Just when I'm thinking, that should be everybody there.
00:39:21There's more people coming.
00:39:23Like, how am I going to remember all these people's names and who they are?
00:39:28Bye-bye.
00:39:37I did not say you sleep down.
00:39:49And me, I'm sorry.
00:39:51Okay.
00:39:53The bunk beds remind me of when I was a kid and me and my sister.
00:39:57I never imagined myself sleeping in the bunk bed at my age.
00:40:02But I respect her dad and their culture.
00:40:12This is the shower?
00:40:15Yeah.
00:40:16We just put water in the container and bring it here.
00:40:20There's no running water coming up to wrench you off.
00:40:24No.
00:40:24And where does this water come from?
00:40:28From the river?
00:40:29Like, something under the ground.
00:40:32A whale?
00:40:33Yeah.
00:40:35He's going to show you the bathroom.
00:40:37Okay.
00:40:39I smell something already.
00:40:43Oh, hell no!
00:40:45Yeah.
00:40:46All I see is a wooden plank with a hole cut out of it, y'all.
00:40:52Paper for the, uh, and then, yeah.
00:40:55Wait, wait, wait.
00:40:57See this paper to write on?
00:40:59You wipe, you wipe this?
00:41:01Yes.
00:41:01Yes, break.
00:41:02Stop it.
00:41:03That's how I...
00:41:04Sit, sit, sit.
00:41:05Finish.
00:41:06Oh, good.
00:41:07That's it.
00:41:09I'm a little bit embarrassed of his reaction in front of my father, but I'm not surprised.
00:41:17Ever since Rick came to Madagascar, he complains about everything.
00:41:24I don't like the traffic, I'll tell you that much already.
00:41:27And they just leave the mood out like this without refrigeration?
00:41:32These are tight quarters right here, baby, and kind of squished.
00:41:36It's hot.
00:41:37I hope it's not going to be this hot in those days.
00:41:40Shouldn't they have, like, some long tongs?
00:41:42No, we don't need the long tongs.
00:41:44You are the only bougie here, Alfredo, or something.
00:41:47Oh, my God.
00:41:48Terrible.
00:41:52This is the living room?
00:41:54Yeah.
00:41:55Yeah, this is the living room.
00:41:59What is this, like a family meeting or something?
00:42:04Okay.
00:42:05Yeah.
00:42:18So they approve that you are here, and he's going to give us a blessing.
00:42:24Thank you.
00:42:25This blessing is just for accepting you to go around with me.
00:42:30Okay.
00:42:31In my culture, you cannot just walk around with a man outside there without your parents'
00:42:39acceptation.
00:42:41Like, it's not a blessing to get engaged.
00:42:44No.
00:42:45It's just he's giving an authorization to having a relationship.
00:42:52It's just for a blessing.
00:42:54It's a blessing.
00:42:55It is a bracelet.
00:42:57Yeah, a bracelet.
00:43:00It's not a blessing.
00:43:42Gracias.
00:43:46Gracias.
00:43:47Gracias por esto.
00:43:56Gracias.
00:43:57Oh, is that his...
00:43:58Yeah, his person.
00:43:59Oh, okay.
00:44:24Until he says, I don't want to be with you, until he says those words, I'm not giving up hope.
00:44:29I'm still deeply in love with Daniel.
00:44:32I believe that if he just gives me a chance, he will see that we are meant to be together.
00:44:39Same sex is a disgrace.
00:44:40This is something that you and I cannot settle.
00:44:43Are you still thinking that there's a chance for us, or is there no chance for us, Daniel?
00:44:50Hi, His Place!
00:44:52I thought, we will be broken sometimes in the Pikachu.
00:44:57We do all the way to another queen.
00:44:58Bye.
00:44:59Bye!
00:45:01Bye!
00:45:04Bye!
00:45:23i feel miserable
00:45:27numb
00:45:30really sad
00:45:35but i feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders i just don't know what happens from here
00:45:44last night i came clean to daniel i told him everything there are no more secrets
00:45:52and he didn't react good he called me evil he didn't talk to me he looked at me with disgust
00:45:58he's not accepting who i am so he slept on the sofa i slept in the bedroom i'm mad and
00:46:07i'm angry and i'm hurt but i'm still desperately madly deeply in love with daniel
00:46:15my plan is to go back to lagos today i'm cutting the trip short there's a big fear he's never
00:46:21going
00:46:21to trust me again and that he's going to leave me but until he says i don't want to be
00:46:25with you
00:46:26until he says those words i'm not giving up hope
00:46:31telling the truth is a heavier weight between daniel and i i don't even know if he wants to talk
00:46:37to his
00:46:37uncle anymore about me lying about still being married but i believe that if he just gives me
00:46:44a chance looks at me as lisa sees me as a person he fell in love with those months ago
00:46:49that he will
00:46:50see that we are meant to be together i still want to be with daniel but now it's up to
00:46:56him
00:47:02how do you feel misa is full of lies i don't think her lies is over because she keep on
00:47:09cooking new
00:47:10ones every day why did you call her evil because she's she's evil keeping sick all the secrets
00:47:18i've been thinking that way of how to talk to my uncle about the one she she told me already
00:47:24that she have she have not been divorced not knowing that she has been in a relationship
00:47:29with her fellow women she's been practicing same sex
00:47:34so i don't know how i'm going to face him it's against our tradition
00:47:47daniel can i ask you a question
00:47:52just allow me to be like we have to talk you can't ignore me forever
00:48:00please you need to give me time i have to thank
00:48:06can you grab your bags i can't carry everything to the car
00:48:12i'm not happy that the person i loved have engaged in this act of same sex i'm not happy
00:48:20another love gone bad again bad again bad again but what obsesses me the most is the lies
00:48:29i love this i want to forgive her but after what she did i don't trust her anymore
00:48:36i don't know if i can continue this relationship
00:48:39you're on your own hope you feel the pain of your thoughts inside driving you insane
00:48:51i don't trust her anymore
00:49:00Heard any more than I've forever done
00:49:13So are you ever going to talk to me?
00:49:17I am totally confused.
00:49:20We dated for six months.
00:49:22You have every opportunity to tell me whatever you want to tell me.
00:49:25But you never did.
00:49:27I was scared.
00:49:28Why didn't you tell my uncle?
00:49:31Because this is between me and you.
00:49:33Why does he need to know anything?
00:49:35Anything?
00:49:36Yeah.
00:49:37You called it anything?
00:49:38Yeah.
00:49:39Same sex is a disgrace to any family that are involved in it.
00:49:45It's against our tradition.
00:49:47But it's not against American tradition.
00:49:50But you are in my country.
00:49:51You are in my tribe.
00:49:52This is something that you and I cannot settle.
00:49:56Daniel, my uncle has to be involved.
00:49:59Are you promising me that you will not go back to practicing same sex?
00:50:03Daniel, if we're married, I plan on marrying you for the rest of my life.
00:50:07There's not going to be another woman.
00:50:09If I'm with you, I'm with you.
00:50:12Are you still thinking that there's a chance for us or is there no chance for us, Daniel?
00:50:17Daniel, I don't know.
00:50:19I don't think I will continue with this relationship until my uncle comes.
00:50:24I should have told you.
00:50:26I should have told you before I came.
00:50:28And then you could have determined if you wanted to even be with me or not be with me.
00:50:32And there wouldn't be all these emotions involved.
00:50:34And there wouldn't be all this struggle.
00:50:36I should have just told you.
00:50:37I was scared to tell you.
00:50:39And I was scared to lose you.
00:50:43I'm scared of losing you.
00:50:46This all comes down to his uncle.
00:50:48When he finds out that I lied about me being with women for 21 years,
00:50:53I'm worried that his uncle will never forgive me and never accept me.
00:50:58And this relationship will be over.
00:51:02I don't want to talk about this anymore.
00:51:04I'll say my uncle comes.
00:51:05Please.
00:51:22Don't help that out.
00:51:24That does not hurt.
00:51:25That really hurts?
00:51:26Yeah, it's not happening.
00:51:27That's how you know I'm so sexually attracted to you.
00:51:29Because I love popping your pimples.
00:51:31I'm good.
00:51:41Did you sleep well?
00:51:43I'm pretty tired.
00:51:45I can't believe after six months I had sex.
00:51:48I feel like I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:51:52Like I'm a little mad at myself that I should have waited longer, but it felt right.
00:51:57It was a lot of fun.
00:52:01Do you think Chris hurt us?
00:52:04Possibly.
00:52:06How many times do you have sex last night?
00:52:09Twice.
00:52:11It was just too hard to keep our hands off each other and just it felt like it flowed.
00:52:15It was like missionary.
00:52:17It was great.
00:52:18And then like to the side was the other one.
00:52:22Did you get a glimpse of the picture of Chris above?
00:52:24I forgot that painting was in the room.
00:52:26Well, you didn't even f*** me doggy style.
00:52:28I couldn't even see the painting last night.
00:52:33I feel like we're an old married couple.
00:52:36Like I'm so comfortable with you.
00:52:38Like usually like at home, like if I like sleep with a guy, like I just want to like go
00:52:43leave the next day.
00:52:45But like I'm stuck with you and I'm here with you.
00:52:47And then like I'm happy that I'm here.
00:52:49And like I came.
00:52:51You know, did you?
00:52:53I did.
00:52:56Chris walking in when I'm on the couch getting massage.
00:52:58That definitely brought the mood down.
00:53:00He had a lot of making up to do if he wanted to have sex and he definitely made it
00:53:04up.
00:53:04It was everything I could have dreamed of and more.
00:53:08Everything about this man is so f***ing sexy except the uncircumcised f***.
00:53:13Those are the first f***ing f***ing uncircumcised.
00:53:18It's a little weird.
00:53:19It's like, you know, but.
00:53:23Also, there's not like a dictionary on like how to use the extra skin.
00:53:27But like, like I'm not complaining about it.
00:53:32I can deal with that.
00:53:35I'm glad that you felt comfortable very quickly.
00:53:42I did.
00:53:43I'm like one part of me is like super happy, but the other part of me is like f***.
00:53:47I should have, I should, I want to know more than, and then, but whatever.
00:53:50Like I shouldn't be so hard on myself.
00:53:52Just ask anything you want.
00:53:54Do anything you want.
00:53:55Say anything you want.
00:53:56Yeah.
00:53:56Okay, I'll start asking.
00:53:58Don't hate me.
00:53:59Okay, go.
00:54:01So I'm confused about this rental situation.
00:54:04Like a little annoying that Chris like walked in during that.
00:54:07Like, why is he even here with you renting it in the first place?
00:54:12Because last I knew is you lived with your parents.
00:54:15Yep.
00:54:17I mean, look, we were living together and then we sort of had to get out.
00:54:21After we moved out, I dropped my stuff to my parents and sort of stayed there for a week.
00:54:25But then, you know, I, um, I've been living with Nat.
00:54:32I've been staying at hers because, you know, she lives a lot closer to work.
00:54:37Like, so why?
00:55:07To me, it's a little weird that you're living with a girl.
00:55:11And like, you talk about her a lot too.
00:55:14And like, I just, I don't know.
00:55:17Like, she's my friend.
00:55:19You're here.
00:55:20You're my, you're my girlfriend.
00:55:21So it's, it's exactly the same as Chris.
00:55:23I would, I would treat her exactly the same as I do Chris, you know?
00:55:26Like, do you guys like share a bathroom?
00:55:28Like, does she see you naked?
00:55:29Like, like, how does that work?
00:55:31Why is that funny?
00:55:32No, it's funny because, you know, I get it.
00:55:35That's, you know, I get why you would ask those questions.
00:55:37Um, yeah, of course we share a bathroom, but, but, um, she hasn't seen me naked.
00:55:42Her and I are just friends.
00:55:43She's like, you know, she's a really good friend.
00:55:45But, you know, she knows about you.
00:55:47And that you're my partner.
00:55:48And, you know, um, I really want you guys to get along because it's important for me.
00:55:52Well, you must feel some sort of way because you didn't tell me you lived with her.
00:56:00Maybe it was a part of me, you know, not wanting you to get, you know, jealous and back out
00:56:04of this before you got here.
00:56:05So, you know, when you.
00:56:06And how do I know you're telling me the truth?
00:56:08Well, that's your job to believe me.
00:56:10And it's my job to prove it to you.
00:56:14I'm supposed to meet Josh's friends tonight.
00:56:16Including that.
00:56:18So, I need to take advantage and get the whole picture of him.
00:56:21I want to see how Joshua treats me in front of her.
00:56:23See what she says to me.
00:56:25If there's any skeletons in the closet that Joshua hasn't told me that I'm going to find out.
00:56:29It's like, what else do I not know that I should know?
00:56:33I want to give Joshua the benefit of the doubt, but I don't fully trust him after this.
00:56:38At the end of the day, like, you know, you're, you know, you're mine and you're my number one priority,
00:56:43so.
00:56:51Oh, I'm 52.
00:56:5652.
00:57:04They want babies.
00:57:31That's a goat.
00:57:32We call it a wuss.
00:57:35I think that's enough.
00:57:37This is all enough there.
00:57:50Oh, much.
00:57:52Enjoy.
00:57:53Oh, thank you.
00:57:59I don't know if I can hold my legs like this.
00:58:02I'm going to sit like your aunt.
00:58:04Try that.
00:58:06She had to eat pizza.
00:58:07I'm going to try that.
00:58:08Oh.
00:58:12Only women are allowed to sit like this.
00:58:14She's not going to sit like this till the end, just serving the food.
00:58:20So far, everything has seemed pretty good with Rick and my family, even though he's acting like an old man.
00:58:31My father said you have to use to do it.
00:58:35But I know my family is going to be asking him a lot of questions, and I don't know how
00:58:42Rick is going to respond.
00:58:51Like, what is the intention to me?
00:58:57I look at her as being a prospective wife to me.
00:59:10I love her very much, and I'm hoping that she could possibly love me the same.
00:59:17Oh, my God.
00:59:18¿Qué es eso?
00:59:48Ah, hey, hey, hey, hey.
00:59:54You have the same age as him.
01:00:27Yes, I have two babies, and then I have three adults.
01:01:10They want babies.
01:01:19Trish and I have been talking about whether or not we're going to have kids, and I'm just
01:01:27not ready to make that decision yet.
01:01:50They want respect.
01:01:55And as a mother, we get married.
01:01:58And I have a child.
01:02:03I have a child.
01:02:06I have a child.
01:02:29I understand that.
01:02:31And now that I see how important this is, it's going to be the forefront of my mind.
01:02:37And when are you going to decide?
01:02:52Before, you know, I come to your father and ask for your hand in marriage, I will make
01:02:59a decision.
01:03:00Okay.
01:03:02Okay.
01:03:03Okay.
01:03:10Okay.
01:03:11She warned me about how strongly her family felt about having kids.
01:03:17But now the heat is on, and I'm starting to feel the pressure.
01:03:21My feelings have grown so much for Trish that I couldn't picture a life without her at this
01:03:28point.
01:03:29But I really don't want to have more kids.
01:03:35I don't know how I'm going to make this decision.
01:03:41Today, I found out that he was living with you.
01:03:43Yeah.
01:03:44I thought you knew that.
01:03:45I don't think that guys and girls can be friends without hooking up.
01:03:47I've tried that.
01:03:48It's never succeeded for me.
01:03:49Oh, no.
01:03:49I have so many guy friends.
01:03:51Let's put two and two together.
01:03:53Josh lied to me about living there.
01:03:56Something's fishy.
01:03:56Something's shady.
01:03:57So are you jealous of me?
01:04:34¡Suscríbete al canal!
01:05:27¡Suscríbete al canal!
01:05:28So, I just can't ignore him forever, especially now that he's in my house.
01:06:00So, I just can't take your arrogance, Javon.
01:06:09I just think that I feel like I have to fight to be heard.
01:06:12You know, I know you want to come off like, you know, I'm not going to be pushed around.
01:06:16You're going to hear me.
01:06:18To me, it causes more fights than it solves.
01:06:23I get what you're coming from, but this is what you married.
01:06:29I am not the type of woman who would just say yes just to have peace.
01:06:36Ever since I was a child, I felt like I was voiceless.
01:06:40And I saw my mom, you know, she gone through this domestic abuse in the past.
01:06:46The goodness in her was also the reason why she was abused.
01:06:53And I promised myself that's not going to happen to me.
01:06:57Every time you show some sarcastic remarks or arrogance or you raise your voice sometimes, I mean, we argue.
01:07:06My initial reaction is to stand up for myself if I have to.
01:07:14I know, but Anna, you understand I'm not your father.
01:07:18I don't raise my voice at you, and I'm not this person that's trying to, like, dominate you.
01:07:23I know you're not my dad.
01:07:25The point is, you're hard on me.
01:07:28I'm hard on you, but I'm not aggressive with it, you know?
01:07:32I know I've married a strong woman, but you're a little bit too strong.
01:07:36And that can sometimes work against you rather than for you.
01:07:42I grew up with an abusive father.
01:07:47He died long time ago, but from hearing about my mom's relationship with my dad,
01:07:54I learned from a very young age when to speak up.
01:07:58If I'm not comfortable, I should know how to express my feelings and set boundaries.
01:08:05But maybe there's a way for me to be strong and independent without lashing out.
01:08:15I'm sorry, because I haven't realized that I was...
01:08:22And I'll do my best to, you know...
01:08:28I guess just not be so, you know, sarcastic and arrogant, okay?
01:08:37All right?
01:08:37Deal?
01:08:38All right.
01:08:39Come on.
01:08:40Be all right.
01:08:43Work it out, okay?
01:08:53I just know, you know, whatever issues that me and Anna have had.
01:08:59I'm very proud to be worried.
01:09:00Thank you so much, boo-boo.
01:09:03Thank you.
01:09:05I don't know what it is, but every time we make up, he starts to look hot.
01:09:12Oh, yeah?
01:09:13Oh, yeah.
01:09:15Yeah.
01:09:16Yeah, take me a minute.
01:09:19Catch y'all.
01:09:31I get the feeling that we're going all the way
01:09:35Because we're falling deep, boy, and I've got so much to say
01:09:39Baby, do I look okay?
01:09:42Absolutely perfect.
01:09:44But it might get a bit cold at night, so maybe grab a top or something?
01:09:50And guess what?
01:09:51What?
01:09:51I have a purse that matches your outfit perfectly.
01:09:54So I have to carry it?
01:09:55Yeah.
01:09:56That's not great.
01:10:04Oh, God, it's a little nipply out.
01:10:06A little nipply.
01:10:10Do you want a chocolate?
01:10:12Yeah.
01:10:14Okay, so where do you want to sit?
01:10:17Is there upstairs?
01:10:19The plan for today is we're going to go and meet my friends
01:10:21To get her out into the city, in the harbor.
01:10:24I am excited, but nervous, more so.
01:10:27I explained to Elise that I was living with Nat
01:10:30And she was not happy about it.
01:10:32But I want to prove to her that she has nothing to worry about.
01:10:40Are you falling?
01:10:41Yeah.
01:10:42Totally for you.
01:10:43Oh.
01:10:45That was cool.
01:10:46Wow.
01:10:50This is, like, stunning.
01:10:52Like, not what I expected.
01:10:54It's nice, huh?
01:10:55It's beautiful.
01:10:57Thank you, babe.
01:10:59I love how you hold my purse.
01:11:03Walking into this, I'm afraid of a lot.
01:11:04Like, I'm afraid, you know, am I going to catch him in any more lies?
01:11:08I'm nervous to see how he's going to act towards me.
01:11:10Is he going to be attentive?
01:11:10Is he going to make me feel comfortable?
01:11:13It's really important to be accepted into the friend group.
01:11:15But on the same time, like, I came here for answers.
01:11:17I want answers and I want to figure out his life.
01:11:19And, like, I don't want to be lied to.
01:11:22Oh.
01:11:22Hey.
01:11:24Hello.
01:11:26Hello.
01:11:27Hello.
01:11:28Hello.
01:11:28Hello.
01:11:29Nice to meet you.
01:11:30Hi.
01:11:30Nice to meet you.
01:11:31How are you?
01:11:31You're a young person.
01:11:32I'm tall.
01:11:33No, I'm a young person.
01:11:34Not tall.
01:11:34Hi.
01:11:36Nice to meet you.
01:11:38How are you?
01:11:38And I know you.
01:11:41I know you.
01:11:43Keep back.
01:11:44Keep back.
01:11:48Where are we all sitting?
01:11:50We're all sitting alone.
01:11:50We're sitting, I guess.
01:11:52We'll get attacked by seagulls.
01:11:53Hopefully no one can look at my skirt.
01:11:57Just everyone, man.
01:11:58Yeah, sorry.
01:11:59This is great.
01:12:01Oh, my favorite people.
01:12:03Thank you.
01:12:04I need this.
01:12:06Thank you so much.
01:12:07To my girlfriend, Elise.
01:12:09I don't know why that's so funny.
01:12:11Like, why are you saying it with a smile?
01:12:14Okay.
01:12:14To my girlfriend, Elise.
01:12:18I can't.
01:12:20I can't.
01:12:21I'm literally going to get there.
01:12:22I've spoken to Elise before.
01:12:24And she comes across lovely.
01:12:27But she comes across very Miami.
01:12:29Like a lot of skimpy clothes, right?
01:12:31Very skimpy, but gorgeous.
01:12:32Like, this is skimpy for us.
01:12:34Yeah, well, very skimpy.
01:12:35Yeah, yeah, correct, correct.
01:12:36She'll skimpy, skimpy, skimpy.
01:12:38Are you jet lagged?
01:12:39It's all right.
01:12:4016 hours.
01:12:41I'm so jet lagged.
01:12:42I'm in this way.
01:12:43You guys, I don't like this.
01:12:45It's too far away, so.
01:12:46Yeah, I know.
01:12:46Wrap up to this other bar.
01:12:47Yes, let's do it.
01:12:48Okay, let's go.
01:12:52Are we going to go in here?
01:12:54Yeah, yeah.
01:12:54We're going to go.
01:12:55Oh, this place looks so cute.
01:12:56Yeah.
01:12:57My impression of Josh's friends is they're all nice.
01:13:03But when I see Nat and I think my boyfriend lives with her, I'm like, is there something
01:13:08like I'm not understanding?
01:13:10Because I don't think there's a sexual connection.
01:13:12But like, I think it's weird.
01:13:13I think it's so weird.
01:13:16Guys, we need to make Elise love Sydney.
01:13:20Okay.
01:13:21So, otherwise, I'll be moving to Miami.
01:13:24I can make you love Sydney.
01:13:25I would love that.
01:13:27Are you staying in Sydney?
01:13:29Bondi, bitch.
01:13:31I'm staying in a rental that Joshua and Chris have.
01:13:35Yep.
01:13:37Because today I found out that he was living with you.
01:13:39Yeah.
01:13:40I thought you knew that.
01:13:41Yeah, he was staying in a rental a little bit.
01:13:46So, how did he ask to live with you?
01:13:48Like, how did this happen?
01:13:50He was kind of between places.
01:13:52And I was like, why don't you just come and stay with me?
01:13:53Because it was much closer for his work.
01:13:57And, you know, to be honest, I was going through a bit of a rough time.
01:14:00And I needed comfort.
01:14:03I needed someone there to...
01:14:04Forgot.
01:14:05Yeah, shoulder to cry on.
01:14:06So, it worked out well.
01:14:09I mean, look, as I said, like, she's one of my closest mates.
01:14:14There's a lot to unfold.
01:14:15I don't think that guys and girls can be friends without hooking up.
01:14:18I've tried that.
01:14:19It's never succeeded for me.
01:14:20I have so many guy friends.
01:14:21Oh, yay!
01:14:22I have so many guy friends.
01:14:24And this is probably Australia.
01:14:26There's probably a little bit of a culture.
01:14:27It's a culture thing, yeah.
01:14:29It's definitely a culture thing, yeah.
01:14:30It's a bit more laid back.
01:14:31We're a bit more easier than it.
01:14:32Like, we trust more, I think.
01:14:34Yeah, we trust.
01:14:35Yeah.
01:14:38I think men and women can be friends.
01:14:39I have a lot of male friends.
01:14:41I wouldn't ever sleep with Josh.
01:14:42He's my brother to me.
01:14:44So, I find it very weird.
01:14:46I think about lies and insecurities.
01:14:48And hopefully they'll grow together and go through that.
01:14:51Yeah, yeah.
01:14:51And that's how trust is built.
01:14:56I think that he's going to have a struggle maintaining you and maintaining me, if I have to be completely
01:15:02honest.
01:15:07So, are you jealous of me and our relationship?
01:15:10I feel uneasy about it.
01:15:14Well, look, I get it.
01:15:15And hopefully that can change, you know.
01:15:17I think it's more of the fact that we are living with her.
01:15:19I guess the question I have, are you paying?
01:15:22Like, are you letting them live there for free?
01:15:25I'm always paying for the whole rental, right?
01:15:28Right, but...
01:15:29You have been generous.
01:15:30I'm being generous.
01:15:31I'm a generous person and I love doing that for my friends.
01:15:34Yeah, I know.
01:15:34Well, I think that she's helping you financially.
01:15:37I think that she has a financial hold on you that's making you feel some sort of...
01:15:41No, no, no, no, no.
01:15:41Why don't you hold?
01:15:42No, I don't.
01:15:43No, that's...
01:15:44No.
01:15:44See, that offends me.
01:15:51She took me in and, like, helped me out.
01:15:54So, yeah, you could say it financially, help me there.
01:15:56But in saying that, like, it's temporary.
01:15:58Everyone knows it's temporary.
01:16:00I should have been more clearer and I should have been more transparent.
01:16:04Let's put two and two together.
01:16:06Joshua's struggling financially.
01:16:08He's lied to me about living there.
01:16:13I don't want my boyfriend getting financially supported by another girl that's disgusting and weird.
01:16:18Like, that's not what I signed up for.
01:16:26Why do we have to live in your country?
01:16:28If you live here with me, I could take good care of you.
01:16:31I don't know if I can leave my family.
01:16:34I have been waiting here for the last seven years.
01:16:37If he happened to come back to his country, we're not even sure that he would ever come back.
01:16:43I'm sorry.
01:16:44I'm so sorry I have shamed you.
01:16:46You're really good.
01:16:57So that was eye-opening.
01:17:00Yeah, I know.
01:17:10It's just so much information all at once.
01:17:14Yeah, it's a lot to think about it, to be honest.
01:17:17Sheena and I just met with an immigration lawyer and everything kind of blew up in my face.
01:17:25I thought this entire time that it was only going to take months to get Sheena to the United States
01:17:30and everything figured out.
01:17:31But now, after hearing that, my disability payments that I get monthly does not count.
01:17:37And it's going to take years.
01:17:39This is the biggest setback ever.
01:17:44There's just so many things going on in my head right now.
01:17:47I just want to, you know, understand kind of what you're thinking.
01:17:51Well, for me, it's like I wanted to move in the U.S.
01:17:56But the thing is, it's been like seven years.
01:18:00Plus, you're going to add another two or three years while you find a job and save enough money for
01:18:05the K-1 visa.
01:18:09I don't know.
01:18:12I know that you wanted to go to the U.S., my love.
01:18:16But why do we have to live in your country?
01:18:18That's my good question.
01:18:22It's easier for me to stay here, got a Filipino visa.
01:18:27And I'm a professional here.
01:18:29If you live here with me, I could take good care of you.
01:18:32Then I'll try to help you to find a job as well.
01:18:35I think that's the best option for us.
01:18:42I still have my worries about that, though.
01:18:45With my autism, it makes things hard.
01:18:49And I know I am fighting with my mom, but I don't know if I can leave my family.
01:18:58What makes you upset is, like, he loves his mom, his family.
01:19:02I understand that, but what about me?
01:19:05I have been waiting here for the last seven years.
01:19:09If he happened to come back to his country, we're not even sure that he would ever come back.
01:19:14So I will be the one who's stranded, and I will be hurt as well.
01:19:30I just really felt sad, disappointed.
01:19:33I was expecting you.
01:19:35That I could be with my partner for the last seven years.
01:19:44I don't know.
01:19:51I don't want to be apart from you that long, and I don't want to...
01:19:57I don't want to give up my mom.
01:20:04Sorry.
01:20:05I'm so sorry I put you in this situation, Sheen.
01:20:14Now that I know that I can possibly stay here and be with Sheena every single day,
01:20:20I feel kind of stuck.
01:20:22Any option I make, I'm either going to hurt the woman I love or my mother.
01:20:31This, this is probably the hardest decision I've ever had to make.
01:20:35She's my second half.
01:20:37I know she's the one for me.
01:20:40And just being with her, being able to talk, joke, have everything, I don't want to lose that.
01:20:46I won't give it away, I won't keep trying.
01:20:58Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:01Teamwork makes the dream work, babe.
01:21:03Ah, you're going to...
01:21:04Oh, I'm sorry.
01:21:05This is kind of turning me on, babe.
01:21:08I did not know.
01:21:12I'm so hungry.
01:21:14You have pregnancy cravings?
01:21:17I haven't gotten my period yet.
01:21:19How would you feel if I was?
01:21:25Tell me you love her.
01:21:27If I was in love with her, I would have made a move.
01:21:30Dude, you made a move, you blow it.
01:21:32No, no, no, no, no, no.
01:21:34Laura made a move on me.
01:21:36I am thinking about sharing my life, and you are keeping secret from me?
01:21:41This is betrayal.
01:21:50This water is cold.
01:21:52You can survive.
01:21:54I hope Trish's family can see that I'm trying, and that I am a good partner for Trish.
01:22:00I am a good partner for Trish.
01:22:10Going to Casablanca right now to see Mohamed, it's kind of surreal.
01:22:14I mean, I have my engagement ring Mohamed gave to me when he proposed.
01:22:19Putting this ring back on is actually bringing up old feelings.
01:22:23But I don't know how this meeting is going to go.
01:22:27My heart's racing.
01:22:34Why did you just leave?
01:22:37You're upset.
01:22:38So you don't care that I'm upset?
01:22:41So you just walk away from me?
01:22:43After what I found out about Nat, my mind is just in so many directions, and I'm freaking
01:22:49out.
01:22:51I don't know what the f*** is going on right now.
01:22:55I want to go home.
01:23:00She has gotten married five times.
01:23:03And from 21 years, she has been in a relationship with several women.
01:23:09Why am I hearing this one now?
01:23:12This is an abomination.
01:23:14No.
01:23:14I can't help with my past.
01:23:16It's like, I am willing to do whatever it takes to be with Daniel.
01:23:20I can't believe you.
01:23:22Because of this, the marriage will be over.
01:23:27Thank you.
01:23:27Please.
01:23:28Please.
01:23:28Please.
01:23:29Please.
01:23:31Please.
01:23:31Please.
01:23:31Please.