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00:01Previously on Unexpected.
00:02Why are y'all putting it all the way over here?
00:04Setting up for the baby shower was very stressful.
00:07I don't like it like that.
00:09That looks stupid.
00:10What are you talking about, man?
00:11I wish her dad would have let me stay the night before,
00:13because it would have been a lot easier on us.
00:15I don't know why he don't let you sleep over.
00:17Ain't like she's going to get pregnant again.
00:20Hunter here.
00:21You do the talking.
00:23Hunter doesn't want to go to the ultrasound.
00:26Don't come over here.
00:27You don't want to hear what I got to say.
00:28It's kind of like I'm a single mom, really.
00:31You're either going to have to change,
00:32or you're going to have to leave.
00:33I understand that Hunter's only 13,
00:35but he needs to man up, like, now.
00:37Call them and ask for a Band-Aid, please.
00:39We're both super anxious,
00:41because, like, it's a lot of responsibility
00:43to take care of a new human.
00:45Something we need to talk about,
00:47you starting to contribute 25% of your paycheck
00:51into the household income.
00:53It takes a lot more than just changing diapers
00:56and feeding him to be a parent.
00:58Like, financially, they're going to have to step up.
01:01I'm going to go meet with Connie and Sue.
01:04Before you go, I think they should go over.
01:06Go over?
01:07Because I have something to tell you.
01:08If this meeting goes wrong and goes bad,
01:11it would suck to go to jail for fighting Bryce's family.
01:15Whew.
01:16What's wrong?
01:17I just feel a little nervous, you know?
01:18I'm hopeful for a resolution,
01:20but never underestimate a mama bear.
01:38I am going to meet with Sue and Connie.
01:42You know, I want to resolve issues.
01:45Trying to resolve this stuff was my intentions,
01:49but after I, you know, told Isabella
01:53that I was going to meet them,
01:55she dropped a bomb on me.
01:59So, when we went to the fair,
02:04there was an incident, and Bryce had hit me,
02:09and I didn't tell anybody.
02:11He did what?
02:12He hit you?
02:13Yeah.
02:15What happened?
02:16What led up to him hitting you?
02:18Someone had came over there that, um,
02:22it was, like, one of his friends.
02:24I told him to go away, and, um,
02:27Bryce slapped me and was like,
02:29I told you about being friendly or something.
02:31He said something like that.
02:33Oh.
02:35Because you talked to a guy?
02:37Yeah.
02:39I'll send you the messages where he admits to it.
02:45Okay, so, you know, this changes the whole ballgame now, right?
02:49Yeah.
02:50All right.
02:51I love you, buddy.
02:52I love you.
02:55Why did you wait until I was on my way
02:57to having a meeting with them to tell me?
02:59Because I felt like you just needed to know the whole truth.
03:02Like, I just couldn't hold it in any longer.
03:04Like, I'm just, I was literally just lying to everybody for him.
03:12I think, you know, lying about situations like that's never good.
03:17Don't cry, okay?
03:19I know it's hard, and I'm sorry.
03:21To see you go through that kills my soul.
03:25If you would have been honest with me about the fair, we'd have done work through that.
03:30But now...
03:31Because I don't want anybody to hate him.
03:33There's nothing you can say to make me hate Bryce.
03:37Like, the biggest thing for me is accountability.
03:40So, if those are his actions, that's why I'm upset.
03:45Not because you told me.
03:47It's not like he's repeatedly just hitting me.
03:49It happened one time.
03:58You know, I don't, I'm at a loss.
04:00I don't know what to do.
04:02Like, I don't know how to resolve this with them.
04:09And, you know, I guess I'll discuss it with them and see what they have to say.
04:14And hopefully, we can get through this.
04:30I don't know what we've got to do this.
04:32Here, Bella.
04:34Go.
04:35You don't got enough saran wrap for this.
04:37We got little boxes.
04:38God.
04:41Joke's on you, buddy.
04:42Hunter and I are doing a lot better since he almost bailed at me at my last ultrasound appointment.
04:48What happened?
04:49I try and he doesn't try.
04:54We talked about it.
04:55He actually kind of, sort of listened.
04:58And I really am trying to take my mom's advice and just give him a little bit of grace.
05:02Because he's only 13, but I'm really starting to see him step up.
05:07I feel like he's really trying now, so.
05:11Do you think it'll last?
05:13I hope it'll last because he doesn't have very long before this baby comes.
05:22All right.
05:23Now, if you wouldn't mind, this needs to go in your belly.
05:27No, I'm behind it.
05:29I'm behind it.
05:30I'm behind it.
05:31I'm behind it.
05:31I'm behind it.
05:31I'm 39 weeks pregnant and literally baby time at any point.
05:34I'm having a lot of contractions.
05:36Sometimes they really, really hurt.
05:38She's being dramatic.
05:42It's not as bad as getting kicked in the balls.
05:44He always makes a joke out of it and tells me that I'm being dramatic.
05:47So, in addition to wrapping him up in a watermelon, we're going to put the little simulator thingy
05:53on his stomach.
05:55It is supposed to mimic the feeling of a contraction.
05:57And he is going to get a little sliver of what I go through.
06:02Are they both on?
06:03Yep.
06:03All right.
06:04Give me a countdown for little stuff.
06:07I say, since he thinks getting kicked in the balls is worse than this, that I should
06:10get to kick him in the balls, too.
06:18Do you feel anything?
06:27What is that?
06:28What level?
06:28We're in between one and two right now.
06:32What's the max?
06:33Five.
06:34I do love Bella, and no matter how mad she gets to me, I ain't going nowhere.
06:38So, if being tortured is going to make Bella laugh and help us move along, that's what
06:42I'll put up with.
06:44Good answer.
06:46It's so hurting.
06:47I'm about to take it off.
06:53This is so fun.
06:55Are you starting to get the idea of what I go through every day?
06:58No.
06:59That was light work.
07:02Says the one who jumped out of their chair freaking out.
07:04Oh, but you want to try it?
07:06Up.
07:07Up.
07:07I do it every day.
07:09No, no.
07:10That was a curse.
07:11Come on.
07:11That hurts.
07:13That hurts.
07:15That hurts.
07:15That hurts.
07:15That hurts.
07:16That hurts.
07:16That hurts.
07:18That hurts.
07:20I'm done.
07:21I took the pain like a champ.
07:23You got to a two, buddy.
07:24All the way up to five.
07:26Oh, it was hard.
07:27I think it was a two.
07:28I think it was a two.
07:28Amy, I need shorts and underwear.
07:36Did you actually pitch for something?
07:37Yes.
07:39I was walking in here and it was still coming out.
07:42That was horrible.
07:50Where does this go?
07:51The next cubby.
07:53The next cubby?
07:53Could've just said shelf.
07:56Is there anything else going in here?
07:58No, we got to hang up our clothes.
08:00Are you going to get up and help me?
08:02Or you just sit there?
08:04This is our child.
08:06You're supposed to help too.
08:07I'm going to sit here.
08:08Even though we got a lot of gifts, the baby shower was definitely a lot more stressful
08:12than I thought it was going to be.
08:14So I'm trying to take it easy because stress is definitely the last thing I need during my
08:18pregnancy because that can make me go into labor early.
08:26We'll fold the not-newborn stuff and put it, or get that thing from under the bed and
08:32put it in there.
08:35Just open that side.
08:36No, stop.
08:38Stop yelling at me, bro.
08:41You didn't, you were trying to break it.
08:43Oh, is it?
08:45Oh my God.
08:47Recently, her mood has been horrible.
08:49It's because I have barely talked to my mom in a week.
08:53She also said you want to be in the living room, but I want to be in the living room.
08:56Oh, ma'am.
08:58I know who's going to be in the room.
09:00To be determined.
09:02I can't believe that it's even that half to be determined.
09:04Okay, well.
09:04That hurts my feelings.
09:06Neither of y'all look at me, so Jesse is the only one in there right now.
09:11Well, my mom told me that she was upset about how I was during the baby shower and
09:16that she was crying on the way home or something, and she had texted me and was like,
09:23yeah, she said, when you lay in bed tonight, me, I want you to think long and hard about
09:29the decisions that you're making and about how you're treating me.
09:35So, yeah.
09:37Okay, I'm not going to argue with her.
09:39Mm-mm.
09:40Because there's no point.
09:41No, not at all.
09:43I'm sorry, babe.
09:45It is all right.
09:47No, it's not.
09:49About to put together that bassinet, Dad.
09:51Back-a-back-a-back-a-what?
09:52About to put together that bassinet.
09:56You don't even know what you're doing, so stop.
09:57Why don't you just look at the instructions first?
09:59Oh, my God.
10:01Can you stop and just wait?
10:03I know Mia's been under a lot of stress lately.
10:06She's been having a lot on her plate, mostly because of her mom.
10:09And I don't want my stubbornness or whatever you want to call it to add on to her stress.
10:16Now, look, while we're all right here, we might as well talk about this
10:20since it's not going to be long until the baby comes.
10:24Sorry.
10:25Hello?
10:26I'm listening to you.
10:27Okay.
10:28Well, we can pause this for now.
10:29We can pause this.
10:30I'm listening.
10:30I'm trying to read the instructions.
10:32Hey, we're going to have attention.
10:33Can you look at me, please?
10:34Yes.
10:35All right.
10:36I know we had talked about it before, but I've decided that Jessie can stay here after the baby's born.
10:43Jessie's still not my favorite person.
10:45I mean, he's not proving himself as far as I'm concerned, but I know it means a lot to Mia.
10:50So against my better judgment, I'm going to let him stay after the baby's born to help out.
10:58Hopefully, he better.
11:01But this is going to be a two-week thing.
11:04That's it.
11:05I'm doing this to be nice.
11:06I'm doing this.
11:08It's against everything that how I grew up.
11:11I don't know what the difference from two weeks to a few months is.
11:15A few months?
11:17What are you talking about?
11:19Why would you say, like, a few months?
11:21I think Jessie should move in after the baby's born.
11:24At least until she's out of the newborn stage.
11:27I don't even want to talk about that, because that's, yeah.
11:31Yeah.
11:32So while I'm here, do I have to sleep out here on the couch, or am I allowed to be
11:36in the room with Mia?
11:36I would prefer you being on the couch.
11:38I was raised Catholic, and I mean, you just don't share a bed together until you get married.
11:43From there, we'll figure out how things work, but this is how it's going to be for now, for sure.
11:49I mean, I don't care if y'all think I'm being mean, but I am trying to be nice, so.
11:52If my dad said on these two weeks, then he doesn't change his mind, then we'll just have to figure
11:57out what we're going to do after.
11:59Honestly, I don't think her dad's going to change his mind, because he's been pretty stubborn about everything.
12:05We're hoping he does, but I don't think he will.
12:09Maybe we should get your mom involved. She knows how to push the boundaries.
12:12I don't think that's a good idea.
12:14Well, I think it is.
12:16Oh.
12:17Okay.
12:23Some things have been brought to my attention.
12:26Like what?
12:27Like what?
12:27I don't.
12:28I'll read you the text he sent Belle.
12:30I was shocked.
12:32I mean, it was like being hit in the face with a two by four.
12:36I see where this is going.
12:38It happened.
12:53It looks like she's arriving.
12:57I am full of anxiety about this meeting with Natasha, okay?
13:05Because the night of the crap dinner, she screamed at me.
13:09Bryce told me he wanted me to ask you for that necklace back.
13:13Oh, that's fine.
13:14Sue, you're a bitch.
13:16A bitch who raised a bitch.
13:19I'm willing to put that aside, because I'm hopeful for a resolution.
13:24The new child is going to be born, and she deserves to have people supporting her,
13:31versus tearing each other apart.
13:34Tasha's a freaking nut, in my opinion.
13:39Sue thinks it's going to be a resolution.
13:41It's not, okay?
13:43She's setting Sue up to make some big dramatic scene or something, and I'm not going there.
13:50And I suggest the same for Sue, but at least Connie's going with her.
14:02I'm feeling very uncomfortable about this.
14:10Hey, Connie.
14:11Hey, how are you?
14:12I'm fine.
14:12How are you?
14:13I'm doing all right.
14:14Hi.
14:15If this meeting goes wrong, you know, I've got a lot to lose.
14:20I've been to jail for robbery, and I'm on probation.
14:25So I'm risking 20 years if I violate.
14:31And you know, with the information Belle gave me today, yeah, I'm nervous, because I want to lose my .
14:37So I had every intention of coming here and trying to resolve everything.
14:43But some things have been brought to my attention.
14:47Like what?
14:47Like what?
14:48I don't.
14:49What do you mean?
14:50Bryce slapped Isabella.
14:55When?
14:56At the fair.
14:59No.
15:00I have it in text message where he admitted to it.
15:06When Tasha said that my son hit her daughter, my instant thought is, there's no way.
15:12I was shocked and speechless.
15:14I mean, I couldn't utter a grunt.
15:17I couldn't utter a word.
15:19I couldn't shed a tear.
15:21I mean, it was like being hit in the face with a two by four and not being able to
15:29feel it.
15:30I'll read you the text he sent Belle the night that that happened.
15:33I see where this is going.
15:35Well, hold on.
15:35I'm going to read the text.
15:36I'm going to read the text.
15:37Belle never told me.
15:38I'm going to read the text.
15:40Let me read the text.
15:41I am easily jealous.
15:43I don't know why the I do the I do.
15:46I didn't even mean to hit you in your face.
15:48I meant to hit you in the arm.
15:50When was the text message sent?
15:52From Bryce to her?
15:53Yeah.
15:54I don't have it on here, but I have the screenshot.
15:57Okay.
15:57Figure that part out.
15:58Why?
15:58Why does it matter?
15:59It happened.
16:02Okay.
16:03So now all this time later, this is being grown up.
16:07No, it's not all this time later because I just found out today.
16:10Oh, you just found out today.
16:12Yes, I did.
16:14Why that came up at that particular moment.
16:17The only thing that I can think of is that Isabella, she's a manipulator.
16:24She manipulated her mother to not come to a resolve with Bryce's family.
16:32That's what I believe.
16:33I just think Isabella's a provoker.
16:36There's just no way that what she was saying was true.
16:39Why does she want to wait until now to try to look somebody like make somebody look stupid?
16:43Yeah, I'm sure.
16:44Yeah.
16:45Victim blame.
16:46Victim blame.
16:47It's also wrong for him to be berated over and over and over.
16:50Like if we poke and prod somebody to get a reaction.
16:54And it's not victim blaming.
16:55Once you teach your daughter to take responsibility for herself and maybe what she's doing, she's no longer the victim.
17:01She don't deserve to be hit.
17:03And you are acting crazy.
17:06I don't give a damn.
17:09You don't slap somebody.
17:11I don't care what she done.
17:13And then for his mom and his grandma to think he's anything other than a manipulative, narcissistic piece of is
17:23beyond me.
17:25If they had been like, oh, I'm so sorry, things would have been a lot different.
17:29But they all act just alike when it comes to accountability.
17:35Obviously, I'm not getting anywhere with these two bitches.
17:39Tell us what you think we should do, Natasha.
17:42I think for one thing, you have a lot to say.
17:44I sure do.
17:44Connie, please.
17:45Make sure you get her some accountability.
17:46I want resolve.
17:48I need to because there's a baby.
17:49I'm not trying to be a smart aleck.
17:50I'm not being a smart aleck.
17:51They're probably going to co-parent.
17:53And I hope that that works out well for them.
17:56They're going to have to have counseling to do that.
17:58Both of them.
17:59So that they don't have outside influence except from a person that has no interest.
18:07Right.
18:07But Bryce needs anger management.
18:10And I'm going to revisit the incident again and find out the truth.
18:14All right.
18:14I'm done with this.
18:15We just need to go.
18:16Thank you for the visit.
18:17Yeah.
18:17I hope we can get this worked out.
18:20Do I think couples counseling is going to help them?
18:23No, I don't.
18:24Because I don't think Bryce sees any wrong in his actions.
18:28In order for Bryce and Isabella to continue a relationship, I think Bryce needs anger management.
18:35He needs to learn how to stop, think, keep a cool level head, and walk away.
18:41Otherwise, I don't think there's any hope for their relationship.
18:49Why do you keep telling me to hurry up?
18:51I don't want to talk to you anymore.
18:52Why?
18:53Because you're rude.
18:54I feel like our relationship has changed a lot since we had Sammy.
18:58We're not talking about stuff that normal teenagers talk about.
19:01We argue a lot more.
19:03I'm done, like, for real.
19:05That much baby at 15 years old, a C-section would be the smarter thing.
19:10That's the one thing I didn't want for you.
19:12I didn't want her to have to get cut open.
19:24Oh, where's she going?
19:27I hope your water breaks.
19:29So I made it to another week.
19:31Today is my 40-week doctor's appointment.
19:40I've done a lot of research on what can induce labor naturally.
19:43I have tried multiple different workouts.
19:46I've eaten spicy foods.
19:48I've done the yoga ball.
19:50I've pumped.
19:52I've had sex.
19:53Like, I've just about tried everything.
19:56I was even trying to drink water.
19:58I drank four bottles of water last night.
20:00You know how hard that was?
20:01That stuff is disgusting.
20:02I don't know how people do it.
20:07It has no flavor.
20:09At all.
20:13Maybe some crunches, squishing them.
20:19We cannot believe she made it to 40 weeks, because, you know, they kept saying she was going to go
20:24earlier, because he was measuring bigger.
20:27So I am glad she's made it, but I am so ready for him to be here, because I know
20:32she's miserable.
20:37Are you miserable?
20:38I'm having a contraction.
20:39That's what I thought.
20:41There was a lot of pressure on my butt.
20:48So we've only got three choices.
20:51Weight and watch.
20:53Induced labor.
20:54C-section.
20:55The babies scored at 97th percentile, which was 9 pounds, 12 ounces.
21:00So for a young lady, that's a lot of babies.
21:02Mm-hmm.
21:03You've done this a long time.
21:04What is your recommendation?
21:06Well, that much baby, probably at 15 years old, if the baby hadn't dropped the C-section would be the
21:12smarter thing.
21:15I really don't want to wait.
21:17Like, whatever we can do as soon as possible.
21:20My first choice was an induction.
21:22But the risk of me dying would have been a lot higher, just because it could put so much stress
21:29on my body and have no progress.
21:31And then his heartbeat could drop and mine could skyrocket.
21:34And I don't want to have to have an emergency because that's a lot of trauma.
21:38So when he said that C-section was probably the safest, then that was what I would do because I
21:45don't want anything to happen to the baby or me.
21:47If you all have a question, let me know, okay?
21:50Okay. Thank you.
21:50You're welcome.
21:52Okay.
21:57I really didn't think he wanted him C-section.
22:00I really thought he would make me wait.
22:02That's the one thing I didn't want for you.
22:07That's my baby.
22:08Like, I don't want to...
22:10I didn't want her to have to get cut open.
22:13I wanted her to do it naturally.
22:15Because I've always been told that C-sections are terrifying and all these bad things that happen.
22:21But we need to do what is best for her and for Wes.
22:26It'll be okay.
22:28Hopefully.
22:39Dang, Jose, you're still shaving?
22:44Jose.
22:45I'm glad he died.
22:47What are you doing?
22:48What?
22:49What are you doing now?
22:51My hair.
22:52You keep saying, hurry up, and you're doing it on purpose.
22:57He got an attitude.
23:00Going to my first day of work.
23:03I'm a buster.
23:04I'm going to be serving the chips and drinks.
23:06I make $12 an hour.
23:08But since I'm 16, I might not be able to work a lot of hours.
23:12And knowing that I have to give Mama G 25% of my paycheck is adding to my anxiousness.
23:23Oh, there comes your dad.
23:27Oh, it's so bad.
23:29Don't talk to me.
23:30You just yelled at me.
23:32I'm just saying, why do you keep telling me to hurry up?
23:36I wasn't telling you to hurry up.
23:38That's what you were doing.
23:41You have an attitude because you're nervous, and you want to take it out on me, and I don't care
23:46for it.
23:47I don't want to take it out on you.
23:48I'm really asking why you keep asking me.
23:49I really don't care about it right now.
23:53I feel like our relationship has changed a lot since we had Sammy.
23:56We're not talking about, like, stuff that normal teenagers talk about mostly.
24:02We argue a lot more.
24:03We're just talking about Sammy and all that.
24:06Sadly.
24:07A lot of stress on us, and we start fighting.
24:12It's me.
24:17Why do you keep telling me to hurry up?
24:19I don't want to talk to you anymore.
24:21Why?
24:22Because.
24:23Because what?
24:23Because you're rude.
24:25If I said that to you, you'd say something worse.
24:27Okay.
24:28Is that not true?
24:29Please leave me alone.
24:32Can you tell me why you snapped on me?
24:34You just, like, keep on, like, messing with me and messing with me.
24:38And then I just, like...
24:41That's what happens.
24:42I swear, they argue like brother and sister.
24:46And I've had a...
24:47I'm so irritated.
24:48I wasn't even there.
24:49And just hearing the feedback...
24:51Okay, but it wasn't...
24:52You guys talk about it.
24:53It's irritating me.
24:54You guys are about to start arguing again about the argument.
24:57No, we're not, actually.
25:01All I'm saying is you're not about to keep talking to me like that.
25:03Literally, I'm just trying to have a good day with Sam.
25:06I was trying to have a good day with you, too.
25:08But I'm literally asking why you were telling me...
25:10I'm sorry I ruined you having a good day by asking why you were taking so long.
25:14You did not ruin my day, Maya.
25:14Bro, you need to go anyway.
25:16I'm done, like, for real.
25:21Sounds great.
25:24I feel bad fighting with Jose before his first day of work,
25:27but being postpartum since I had Sammy,
25:30I've been getting irritated a lot faster.
25:32And, like, I don't know.
25:33I feel like I'm on my period on, like, steroids right now.
25:36My mood swings go from piss to calm like that.
25:41Jose, are you okay?
25:44I felt like I was being rushed.
25:45Okay, all I said is that you yelled at me,
25:47and I didn't want you to keep talking to me like that.
25:49Okay, I'm not.
25:50Okay, relax.
25:52You look nice.
25:54Thanks.
25:55I don't want you to start work all upset.
25:57Us arguing is what makes me upset.
26:00Okay.
26:00Well, I'm going to go back downstairs.
26:02No, we're going to go together.
26:04Go.
26:06Okay.
26:08It makes me feel sad the way we act to each other now,
26:11because I don't want to treat her like that.
26:14I want to go back to the oldest, where we were always together in love.
26:18But sometimes I do get mad easily, because I feel like Maya does not have the same responsibility as me.
26:26Being a sole provider for Sammy and also finishing school is a lot to handle.
26:34Maya.
26:35What?
26:35Because you almost put coffee with no coffee filter.
26:39Don't sit here and blame me.
26:41You know what time it is, right?
26:43Yeah, it's 51.
26:45Okay, I was making sure before you blame that on me, too, if you're late.
26:49I sure will.
26:51I don't think this is just about the coffee.
26:56I love Jose, but it's hard to be, like, patient and understanding.
27:02I feel like he, like, has it easy, because I don't rely on him for a lot with the baby.
27:08But I can't really say anything, because it's just going to make the fighting worse.
27:12Let's go.
27:13Can you just sit by to Sammy?
27:15No.
27:16I'm going to let him sleep.
27:19I feel like they're both under a lot of pressure right now.
27:21I think the stress of not only being new parents, but, like, sleep deprived, trying to figure it out on
27:29their own is a lot.
27:31And so they need to work as a team and find a balance between them, because if they continue to
27:39keep fighting the way that they have been, this ain't going to end well.
27:44It's not.
27:45Bye.
27:51Well, Sammy, now it's just us.
27:55So who's going to help take care of the baby in the middle of the night if she's, like, really
27:58exhausted?
27:59It's what it is.
27:59Well, I done told him that Mia is not going to do all of it, and he's not going to
28:03be a POS daddy.
28:04I hope not.
28:05It would break my heart to have to break my daughter's heart.
28:08What do you mean by that?
28:09Get rid of him.
28:10Well, I ain't going to kill the dude.
28:22What are y'all doing?
28:23Laying down.
28:24So there's nothing you want me to tell him?
28:26Oh, he'll not tell me.
28:28Look at that boy.
28:29He said no.
28:32I asked Keith to meet me today because the kids have told me that he was only going to let
28:36Jessie stay for two weeks after the baby's born.
28:39However, I feel like Jessie needs to stay a little bit longer because Mia's going to be going through postpartum
28:44and needs him to be there to, you know, help with her.
28:48And not only that, he's a dad.
28:50How is he going to learn to be a dad if he can't be around the baby?
28:57Hi.
28:58Welcome in.
28:59Oh, Lord.
29:02To be honest, I'm surprised he showed up.
29:05I was surprised he was going to come and show up and talk to me.
29:09Because I've only met Mia's dad a couple times since the kids been together.
29:13And from everything they told me, he's just not a people person.
29:16He'll go hide in his room.
29:18I really thought he wasn't going to show up.
29:20The past two years, two and a half years, I've known Mia and been to her house.
29:23So he said, like, two things to me.
29:24Yeah, and he's like, how you been?
29:26And I'll be like, good.
29:27And then we just go on about our date.
29:30Hey.
29:31That's why I'm stepping in now.
29:32Because I do feel like I can change his mind.
29:35Hell no.
29:36I say I got a 50-50 chance.
29:38No.
29:39She doesn't.
29:40How do you know?
29:41Cuz, bro.
29:42I'm telling you.
29:46So, what's up?
29:49What are we doing here?
29:52Um.
29:55He did not want to go.
29:56Yeah.
29:57I mean, I didn't want to go, no.
29:58To meet up with AK.
29:59No, I didn't want to go.
30:00I thought it was pointless.
30:01But, I mean, I went.
30:03Because, yeah, we are going to have to communicate somewhat.
30:06You know, a co-grandparent or whatever you want to call it.
30:09So, yeah, I mean, I did it for that sake.
30:14Jesse and Mia.
30:15Mm-hmm.
30:16What is going on with this two-week thing?
30:18That's what's just been bothering me.
30:19Like, why is it only two weeks after a baby's born?
30:21Is there like a rule that once kids have a baby,
30:25they automatically have the movement together?
30:29No.
30:30They're kids.
30:34To be honest, I really don't give a what she says.
30:37I'm being nice with the two weeks thing.
30:39I think very nice.
30:42So, who's going to help take care of the baby in the middle of the night
30:44if she's like really exhausted and needs help with fixing the bottles or changing diapers?
30:54It's life.
30:55It's what it is.
30:56Well, I done told him that Mia is not going to do all of it and he's not going to
30:58be a POS daddy.
31:00Oh, no, that ain't going to happen.
31:02Um...
31:02I hope not.
31:03Or break my heart to have to break my daughter's heart.
31:08What do you mean by that?
31:09Well, I mean, you know, that I used to be a piece of , and he'd get rid of him.
31:12Right.
31:13You know what I'm saying?
31:13But, um...
31:13Well, I ain't going to kill the dude.
31:17If that's what you heard.
31:18Oh, yeah.
31:19No.
31:20Yeah, nobody's going to lay a hand on my kid.
31:24Keith is no joke when it comes to being a dad.
31:27He, like, puts on this tough act, like, dad act.
31:30You don't have to, like, watch her every move.
31:33Yeah, if I'm at her house, I do watch my every move.
31:35I barely touch her when I'm at her house.
31:37I promise you, if we were to stay at his house, she wouldn't be pregnant right now.
31:41Instead of him letting her come to me all the time.
31:42Yeah, but if you would have wrapped it up, you wouldn't even be pregnant either.
31:45But she's going to be on birth control after this.
31:48Yeah, we know.
31:49And there ain't no more grandbabies right now.
31:51Which means I ain't got to wear no condom.
31:55Sorry.
31:56I said that out loud.
31:58Yeah.
32:01I should knock him outside the head right now.
32:03You need to wear a condom.
32:04Right?
32:07Lord Jesus.
32:09Forgive me.
32:12I mean, what can we do to change your mind?
32:16To have Jesse stay a little bit longer than two weeks.
32:19I mean, I don't see a big thing in having to spend every waking moment with one another.
32:24I mean, they're children.
32:25They have a kid together, yes.
32:26But no, this is not going to be their little housey poo thing.
32:30Not in my house.
32:32I don't think he's budging right now.
32:34But I feel like it'll be a little different after the baby's born.
32:38I would really hope and pray.
32:40Because if not, Mia's going to feel like she's all alone and doing this all by herself.
32:45As a single mom when she really isn't a single mom.
32:48There's no **** all that.
32:49It's not happening.
32:50So, I mean, that's just how I feel.
32:52So, that's how it's going to be.
32:55I don't know what she thought was going to get solved at a cafe.
33:01Zero.
33:02It's my house.
33:03It's my house.
33:04And I mean, it's my rules.
33:06That's how I feel about it.
33:11That's how I feel about it.
33:15That's how I feel about it.
33:15That's what it's going to do.
33:17It's my room.
33:18We're just going to run out a café, but it's your house right now, it's my emotions right now.
33:18We are about to leave for the hospital.
33:20This is our last time in our room without a baby.
33:24Are you so excited?
33:28I'm a little nervous, my stomach hurts, but I want to eat, but I can't wish us luck.
33:48We are going to the hospital for a scheduled C-section, his eviction date, um, he's gotta
33:54move out now.
33:58I'm so excited.
34:00Hannah, are you scared?
34:05What?
34:07I'm just getting nervous that the anesthetic won't work on me, and I'm going to feel it,
34:11and I'm going to have to go under.
34:12I'm a little nervous going into the C-section just because I've never had one, and I really
34:16don't know what to, you know, expect.
34:19I mean, I know that they're going to cut her belly and all that stuff, but we're going
34:22to go in thinking that nothing's going to go wrong.
34:24Everything's going to be fine.
34:25He's going to come out healthy.
34:26She's going to come out healthy.
34:28She's just going to be a little sore, and we'll be going home in two days.
34:33You ready, boo?
34:36I'm so scared.
34:37I said she's scared, daddy.
34:41Thanks for putting up with me for the last 40 weeks because I couldn't do it.
34:44I've been crazy.
34:45I've been putting up with you for 15 years.
34:46What are you talking about?
34:49I don't know how a winner did it.
34:51He must be, like, cooter whipped.
34:56Okay.
34:59But thanks, mom, for not making me give up my baby.
35:03I would never make you give up your baby.
35:05I wouldn't have done it.
35:06I wouldn't have let you.
35:09Just like I'm not raising him.
35:10Nope.
35:12I raised you to raise your son.
35:16You know, there's going to be a lot of things in life you're going to have to do for that
35:20little boy that's going to make you nervous and scared.
35:25She's going to be part of it.
35:28You've matured a lot over the last nine months, and I feel like I raised a very strong-willed person.
35:37And you'll be a good mom.
35:41Okay, next subject.
35:44How's it make you feel, Bella?
35:46You're in your mom.
35:47I'm proud of you.
35:50It feels good.
35:51I mean, I've always felt like I'd be a good mom because I had a good mom.
35:56And still have a good mom.
35:59Until I finish college and I'm out of her house and ten feet out the door.
36:04You're not going very far.
36:05Nope.
36:09Love you.
36:14Your daddy said you can get an eviction notice, but Wes will always have a...
36:19He's crazy.
36:22You're going to be a mom.
36:26You all right?
36:27No, not really.
36:29I'm just...
36:30I'm hurt that they're attacking my son.
36:33He's just being crucified.
36:35They're dragging him over the coast.
36:37He doesn't deserve it.
36:38It's been a constant character assassination to Bryce.
36:43And it's just ridiculous.
36:55Wow, now that's a fire there.
37:04Hi.
37:05Hey.
37:07You all right?
37:09Yeah.
37:09No, not...
37:10Not really.
37:11What's wrong?
37:15Um, I'm just...
37:16I'm hurt that they're attacking my son.
37:19Oh, it's all right, Connie.
37:21You're fine.
37:21It'll be all right.
37:23It's all good.
37:23Don't worry about it.
37:24He's just being crucified.
37:26They're dragging him over the coast, you know, and he doesn't deserve it.
37:30I am extremely upset with what I heard from Natasha.
37:33And since I don't really believe what she said is consistent with my son's character, I really want to let
37:42him explain things to me.
37:43Bryce never slapped Isabella.
37:45It's ridiculous.
37:49Put it right there.
37:50It's got to warm up a little bit more.
37:53Sit by your pawpaw.
37:54Yeah, sit by your pawpaw.
37:55The man and mama are all upset, so...
37:58What happened?
37:59Well, when we went to meet with Tasha, she said, I just found out that Bryce hit bell.
38:07I mean, it just...
38:09It was like an arrow to the heart, okay?
38:13All right, well, don't worry.
38:16I didn't hit her, okay?
38:19So y'all can stop worrying about that.
38:22All right, then.
38:23Growing up, seeing what I saw, watching my mom get beat, like, no.
38:27I don't tolerate men hitting women at all.
38:30I've witnessed it multiple times on my mom's side.
38:33Like, I don't...
38:35I don't play with that at all.
38:38So...
38:38The fact that, like, I don't know.
38:41That's just crazy to me.
38:44I mean, I've been against that all my life.
38:50Never...
38:50I've always been taught never to do that.
38:55A response to the text message that you had sent to Isabella...
39:03I didn't.
39:07You didn't what?
39:08I didn't.
39:09I'm not giving a response to that.
39:12So you have no response to the text message that was read?
39:18No.
39:23But you did send the text message.
39:25No.
39:27You're saying you didn't send the text message that Isabella has with her up and from your number.
39:33No.
39:33Because she would...
39:34It doesn't...
39:35It has my name on it.
39:36That doesn't mean that it's my number.
39:41I don't like that they're attacking your character.
39:45That's harmful to you and it's evil.
39:47And I don't...
39:47I don't like that.
39:48He would never do that.
39:50And that's just bringing up some drama.
39:52It's been a constant character assassination to Bryce.
39:57And it's just ridiculous.
39:59I could understand if it was somebody that's done all these things wrong.
40:03And I could also understand if it was somebody that wasn't being provoked by the other person.
40:08Because Isabella's a provoker.
40:09And apparently her own mother has not explained that to her own daughter.
40:15Why?
40:15Because she would have to take responsibility for that.
40:19You train your own kids.
40:26Did y'all talk about like what happened at the park?
40:29Yeah.
40:30I'm so done with them calling me a liar and say he didn't hit me.
40:34When the proof is literally right there in front of their faces.
40:37Like the messages are right there.
40:39And it's all poor pitiful Bryce.
40:42Every single time.
40:44I'm at a rough spot because like I want to be with him.
40:47But like you also have to take accountability.
40:49And I don't think that any of them are ready to take accountability for their actions.
40:53It just...
40:55Like how do you okay your son, grandson, whatever to be a piece of crap.
41:00Like not do anything.
41:02And not say, hey, your behavior is wrong.
41:05Is he gonna like go to anger management? Are you okay?
41:08Yeah.
41:09He doesn't want to go.
41:10He said that he would do couples therapy.
41:15We're gonna go to counseling.
41:16I'm gonna try to work on our relationship with communication.
41:21And I just hope that he's willing to go to anger management before the baby gets here.
41:26Like after everything that's been done and said, I don't see why he wouldn't want to do it for his
41:32baby.
41:33Because that's who suffers.
41:35Hurt people hurt people.
41:36And he's hurt.
41:37So the anger management's not an option.
41:42I know, I just don't want to argue about it.
41:45Like it's easier to let him make his own decisions than me fight with him and beg him to do
41:49it.
41:50Oh my gosh.
41:52You're aggravating me being nonchalant about it.
41:55Because I'm not being nonchalant about it.
41:59Figure it out before she's born.
42:02I'm telling you the truth.
42:05Recognize that he needs to go to anger management.
42:08Because you think you're stressed out and crying now and hurt?
42:12Wait till you're up with the baby all night.
42:14And then Bryce is acting stupid.
42:18Just, oh.
42:20This hurts my heart.
42:21It hurts my head.
42:23You have to get some backbone.
42:25I did not raise you to be weak.
42:27Like you're not, you wasn't raised like that.
42:32Next time on Unexpected.
42:34Ready?
42:35Yeah.
42:36No, I'm not going to lie.
42:37I mean there was a lot of stuff going through my mind about her C-section.
42:40What if they start to get him out and then something bad happens?
42:43And they have to save one or the other.
42:46That's a decision that I hope I never have to make.
42:50I'm proud of Jose.
42:52He is busting his butt.
42:53And I know that being a stay at home mom right now is not easy either.
42:57Being a mom is obviously really hard.
42:59But I feel like a lot also adds on to it when you're a teenager.
43:03Since I have the baby, I don't feel like I'm my own person anymore.
43:07Who are you?
43:10Graduation day.
43:12Are you excited?
43:14Yeah.
43:15Her whole entire life we had a great relationship until she moved in with her dad.
43:20The 16 year olds need their mother when they have a baby.
43:22Yeah.
43:23Well, it's not how it's going to be.
43:25Today's about Mia, not about you.
43:29I hate him.
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