00:00We thought we would end up with women, but here we are.
00:03We ended up together.
00:04A lot of people think that we're faking it, we're gay baiting, that we're not actually
00:09into guys.
00:10A lot of judgment that I receive is, oh, he's so old, why are you with him?
00:14It's creepy.
00:14It's weird.
00:15People immediately think I'm trying to prey on someone half my age.
00:19Did I ever think I would be dating a man?
00:21No, no.
00:22I still sometimes wake up and I'm like, this is my life.
00:25Given your guys' past relationships, this one being so out of the norm for what you
00:30guys have usually done, did you really think that this would last?
00:37I'm Drake, and this is my man, Mark.
00:39We thought we would end up with women, but here we are together.
00:45I'm 42 years old.
00:47I am 23 years old.
00:50We met on set, actually, on an adult film about a year and a half ago.
00:57We were brought together by our friend Gordon.
00:59We kind of just fell in love after our collab, Love at First Sight.
01:03So you're here, you're here, then you're here, then one big one up top.
01:08That'll work.
01:10One of my goals for my man here is to get him better athletically.
01:14I'm a little bit skinny, I slack a little bit on the gym, and you're a really good fitness
01:19instructor, so you can help me out.
01:23A lot of judgment that I receive is, oh, he's so old, why are you with him?
01:27It's creepy.
01:28It's weird.
01:29Yeah.
01:30Check this out.
01:31What?
01:32This video went crazy.
01:34Look at these comments.
01:36When we're out at dinners and everything, we'll get funny looks, so people will come up
01:40and be like, oh, is this your dad?
01:41This is the gayest **** I've seen.
01:44That's kind of what we were going for.
01:46How many followers does he have?
01:47Exactly.
01:48And nobody.
01:49Daddy.
01:50I am considered like the internet's leading daddy figure.
01:54Embarrassing.
01:55They're just looking for attention.
01:56Well, of course, that's what the internet's for.
01:59Just wrong.
02:00Just wrong.
02:01What does that even mean?
02:01Just wrong.
02:03People immediately think I'm trying to prey on someone half my age.
02:07But really, Drake's the boss tier.
02:09I learned from Drake about all the industry stuff.
02:12I'm basically daddy in this relationship.
02:14You know?
02:14More or less.
02:15They still follow.
02:16They're in my DMs asking to meet up.
02:19Like, okay.
02:20Yeah.
02:21Someone needs attention.
02:22You get thick skin pretty quick doing this.
02:24The way I think about it, the haters are actually the biggest fans.
02:28Yeah.
02:28The judgment that we receive has made us really strong.
02:37Right now, I'm just setting up the bed.
02:40A more amateur feel, more at-homey, more chemistry boyfriend type of thing is, quite frankly,
02:46what our fans love.
02:47One of the most important things is making sure you have a good camera set up, making sure
02:50you have good lighting.
02:51I like to have at least two cameras involved.
02:54Oh, hey baby.
02:55Yeah, Drake's the maestro with the lights and cameras.
02:58Alright, so we have our camera set up.
03:00I'm gonna be using our other phone for some POV shots when it comes to the filming part
03:04and everything.
03:05I like to be daddy and I like to take control.
03:07My sexuality, you know, this is a huge topic online.
03:09I would say I'm very open, you know?
03:12It kind of changes.
03:13Sometimes I feel I'm a little bit asexual on some days.
03:15Sometimes I feel like I'm pansexual.
03:17Sometimes I feel like I'm moneysexual.
03:19You know, it all just depends on my mindset that month and just kind of like my eternal
03:23being.
03:25Drake's the only one I still get down with just for-
03:27Yeah, for fun.
03:29But yeah, somewhere between pansexual and asexual.
03:33I never thought I could be in a serious relationship with a man.
03:36I always thought I was attracted to women, you know, growing up being in high school.
03:39I had many, many girlfriends.
03:41That was just kind of like what I was into until I met Mark.
03:45I was a little curious, but Mark really kind of got me out of my shell.
03:49We could be whatever we want and whatever the fans are calling for.
03:52I had no idea I had a gay bone in my body until I met this guy really.
03:57And then it just all fell into place so nicely.
04:00I was just raised very Midwestern traditional and it's like, you go to high school, then
04:03you go to college, then you play football, then you get married to a woman.
04:06And then I moved to California and I realized I didn't have to live that way.
04:10And it felt right.
04:11Escaping the norm.
04:14Oh, that was good.
04:15That was a good one.
04:16Viral.
04:20The age gap is about exactly 20 years.
04:23Yeah.
04:23Common misconceptions about age gap relationships is that the older guy is dominant.
04:27I never thought I would be with a guy of such size and such masculinity.
04:31Whereas, I see Drake as like my peer despite the years difference.
04:35We're doing some red light therapy.
04:38We'll try anything once or twice or thrice.
04:40Yeah.
04:40So this is one of those things.
04:42For some reason, Mark, it did something to me in my brain.
04:45And now I'm with him and I'm going to be happier.
04:48Being in an age gap relationship, I honestly do not mind it.
04:52To me personally, I'm comfortable.
04:55You know, you have a lot of experience on me and you teach me a lot and, you know, vice
04:59versa.
05:02There we go.
05:03We got our nice outfit closet.
05:05At least three times a day, I make a pop culture reference and Drake looks at me like the dog
05:09that doesn't understand you.
05:11And it's fun though.
05:12Yeah.
05:13And I'll teach you some brain rot that you don't understand.
05:15What is brain rot?
05:16Exactly.
05:18Most of my videos, I just like to dabble in a more boy next door type of fit.
05:23But, you know, when we want to spice things up, we want to kind of get creative.
05:26We'll use things like this, you know, puffy jacket.
05:30My favorite part about this closet is this right here.
05:35Good for role playing.
05:36Good for, you know, doing public activities.
05:41Most of our friends are in the industry.
05:43Yeah.
05:44They don't judge at all.
05:44Our friends are very supportive.
05:46And this is the first time I've ever really, like, succeeded wildly at anything.
05:50So, my parents were just happy to see me making a ton of money and happy.
05:55My family, they've been very accepting of me in the industry.
05:59But after they found out I was with Mark, seriously, they were very judgmental.
06:06Our friend Gordon is going to be coming over today.
06:09And he has a lot of strong opinions about our relationships.
06:12I met Mark and Drake both separately just through having mutual friends in the industry.
06:19Hey, what's up, guys?
06:21Hey, Gordon.
06:21How are you guys doing?
06:23We're doing good, buddy.
06:24We made it.
06:24Got some drinks?
06:25Yeah.
06:26Hey, let me go grab you.
06:27You ready to grab your wine?
06:28Ah.
06:29There you go.
06:30Thank you, man.
06:32It's good to see you guys.
06:34Yeah.
06:35I mean, just thinking about, like, with you all and everything that you guys have going on.
06:43Obviously, the age gap and that sort of stuff.
06:45I know you guys have been dealing with some of that online.
06:48Yeah, I mean, it hasn't really been affecting us that much.
06:50You know, we've been getting a ton of hate comments and a lot of people who are going to judge.
06:54But, you know, I don't care.
06:57You guys have had way different past relationships to, obviously, what's working out for you guys
07:03right now.
07:04Yeah.
07:05You being with girls, you being with girls as well.
07:08How did you guys even realize, like, this is what I wanted?
07:12I wanted to give a gay relationship a try.
07:16I mean, I did not think we would get this far.
07:19Honestly, I'm going to be real.
07:22We never put a label on it.
07:23It was almost just like we looked up.
07:26If you're doing what you're doing with Drake with a girl, you look like you're dating him.
07:29I'm like, yeah.
07:31I guess you got me.
07:32Before I met you, you've never really been, like, my type.
07:35But it's more about who you are as a person.
07:39Your mental, everything.
07:41That's what kind of clicked with me.
07:42That's why, like, I'm so into you.
07:44Just been being so out of the norm for what you guys had usually done.
07:49Did you really think that this would last?
07:53The more time we spend together, the more I realize, like, yeah, I think we're going to work out.
07:58Because we don't really get into fights that much.
08:01We get each other.
08:02We understand each other.
08:03Like, I really do care for you.
08:05I haven't found a better fit, male or female.
08:08I'm glad you brought us together.
08:09Because, you know, this is the love of my life.
08:15Cheers.
08:15Cheers.
08:16Cheers, guys.
08:18We gave a cute little selfie today.
08:20Let everyone know how we're doing.
08:22What do I like most about our relationship?
08:24I think we fill in each other's blank spots really nicely.
08:27We do.
08:28I think that's kind of why we started this, like, a ploy.
08:32And it just became a real thing.
08:33I feel like being around you and being with you, I'm able to kind of come out of my cage.
08:37We can own it.
08:38You know?
08:38Us as a team and us as lovers, we can make anything happen.
08:42Anything's possible.
08:43I'm so happy that we're here.
08:45I love you, buddy.
08:46I love you, too.
08:47Keep judging.
08:48Please.
08:48Keep judging.
08:49We're going to conquer.
08:50We're going to take over.
08:51We're going to keep dominating.
09:04We're going to close this road.
09:05I love you, too.
09:08You know?
09:12Please, please.
09:12Take, take perch.
09:12Where have we Tal data in the center?
09:12We're going to go to the dose of insight.
09:12You know?
09:12You
