00:00I'm raising kids with my boyfriend's ex-wife, and no, I'm not a homewrecker.
00:04People assume she's still my man.
00:06Or that we're sister wives.
00:07We're not.
00:08We knew that the internet was really going to come for us, and they did not disappoint.
00:13People think that we are throuple, that we're poly,
00:16that I am still messing around with the ex-husband, that she's a mistress.
00:20I think our co-parenting relationship has been rocky.
00:23The toxicity we had, and you couldn't put us in the same room.
00:26Camry and I are here filming TikToks.
00:29Oh.
00:29What did you think about, like, me being here and raising someone else's son?
00:36I got your coffee.
00:38Oh, thank you.
00:40My name is Sharice.
00:41This is London.
00:42She's almost 10 months old.
00:44This is Jenna-Lise.
00:45She is six.
00:46And this is Jeremy.
00:50Normally our mornings are pretty chill.
00:52We don't really like to yell or talk too much.
00:55But that's going to end soon because Cammy, his ex-wife, is coming.
01:00Hi.
01:01Hi.
01:03I'm Cammy.
01:04And I'm Sharice.
01:05And we co-parent our five kids together.
01:07But don't call our sister wives.
01:09All right.
01:09Let's go sit over here.
01:11Me and Jeremy separated after about a year of being married, and then we got divorced.
01:15I was very nervous when I first got with Jeremy.
01:17I never wanted to date anybody that had children.
01:19But I fell in love with the kid.
01:22I fell in love with the man.
01:23And here we are 10 years later.
01:25Super day.
01:25Super day.
01:26I have three kids.
01:27And Sharice has two kids.
01:29We all co-parent Kylan, who is their son.
01:32Jeremy and I have Jenna-Lise and London together.
01:36And then Cammy has her husband, Chris.
01:39And they have Myla and Miles together.
01:43Can you tell me what's the best thing about having two parents?
01:46You get love from each one of them every time you go to a different house.
01:51What do you think about your stepmom?
01:54I love her.
01:55And she cooks and cleans from me.
01:59And I'm really thankful for that.
02:01Our parenting styles are 100% different.
02:04I like a little bit more of a schedule, a little bit more of a consistent routine.
02:08I'm pretty strict.
02:09I'm a lot more lenient.
02:10I'm like, let's go crazy.
02:12More gentle parenting, I guess you can call it.
02:14We've always made it very clear.
02:16You may love each other and be close, but understand you're not sisters.
02:20Cammy's not your mom.
02:21I'm your mom.
02:22Who's the most strict?
02:23Which one of us four?
02:25Daddy has the most rules?
02:26Okay.
02:27Who do you think is the most fun?
02:29Me?
02:30Aww.
02:31Okay.
02:32Kylan?
02:32Oh, this guy is the strictest.
02:35Okay.
02:35This guy?
02:36You're me.
02:37No.
02:38Who's the funnest?
02:39The one in my life.
02:40The funnest is Sal.
02:42Oh.
02:43Who's the funnest?
02:45Yeah.
02:45I'm the funnest.
02:46Cheers.
02:47You think I'm the funnest?
02:48It's like a pic for something.
02:50Who wants to make a TikTok?
02:51Because it's TikTok time.
02:53Woo!
02:54Do it.
02:55When I heard Jeremy was with someone, I was f***ed.
02:58We were not good at all.
03:00You couldn't put us in the same room.
03:02But after a while, we were able to talk.
03:05And she was able to see how I was with Kylan, how I was with Jeremy.
03:08Can we put this...
03:09Yeah, can we change the babies while we're getting set up?
03:11I realized that it's not about me and my feelings.
03:13It's about my son.
03:15And realized she's in his life.
03:16She's taking care of him.
03:17Be a bigger person.
03:18We're still working on it.
03:20And we're just two girls who are deciding to be friends who only have the love of this
03:25little boy in common.
03:26The TikTok page is pretty much just her and I.
03:29Mostly it's about our dynamic, our relationship, and us being friends in our unique situation.
03:35The views started coming in and we're literally looking at our phones and it's like 600,000
03:39views, 700,000 views.
03:41We just hit a million views on like three different videos.
03:43If you want to see more of our hot mess life, we can put a camera up and we can
03:46show you.
03:47You want chaos, what can you chaos?
03:48All right, you ready?
03:49Hug your biological mom.
03:51So hug your mommy.
03:52Run to your mommy and hug her.
03:54What mommy did you come out of?
03:55What mommy did you come out of?
03:55Who came out of?
03:57Who would you rather have a hangout day with?
04:04We always say that our daughters are like our opposites.
04:07She's mean.
04:07Like this is my girl and she's her daughter.
04:10She is mean.
04:10And she's like a little mini me.
04:11All right, let's do nap time.
04:13Guys, go play in the room.
04:15Girls, go to the room.
04:17We knew that the internet was really going to come for us and they did not disappoint.
04:25They just kind of blew it up, but it created a conversation that people need to have on
04:30why you would or wouldn't do this.
04:34People think that we are Threpple, that we're Polly, that I am still messing around with
04:40the ex-husband, that she's a mistress.
04:42They think that all the kids are his and he has cheated on me.
04:46That video posted, look at the comments.
04:49This is Polly Amory, but it's okay to be Polly, but it's not okay to call it for what it
04:56actually is.
04:58Oh, what about this one?
05:00My son's stepmom, is that your wife or your ex-husband's new wife?
05:04I don't know.
05:04That's weird AF posts to make and one goofy way to clout chase her social media.
05:09Like, okay, girl.
05:09The internet thinks that I just want to live in her bedroom with Jeremy and all five kids
05:14and her husband and her dog.
05:17All of it.
05:17I'm good.
05:17I think one of the hardest comments that I had gotten one time was talking about how
05:22I was a bad mom for letting another parent take over.
05:26I'm still parenting my child just as I would, or I'm just sharing him.
05:30Jeremy, do you ever feel uncomfortable or weird having your ex around?
05:34In the beginning, I didn't like her around because I couldn't stand her.
05:38But yeah, she's cool.
05:40She's cool.
05:40Yeah.
05:41We don't always get negative comments.
05:43As a bonus mom, this makes me happy, jealous.
05:45I've tried for 10 years to be that woman's friend.
05:47And the last three, I've protected my peace, but happy for you.
05:50That's very sweet.
05:51There's definitely a lot of blessings on our page and a lot of people who are proud of
05:55the lifestyle we're creating for each other and our children.
05:57I'm going to check on London, guys.
05:59I'll be back.
06:00Okay.
06:01Adios, muchacho.
06:03Oh, my sister's calling.
06:07Hi.
06:09Hi.
06:10What are you doing?
06:11Just hanging out.
06:12Cami and I are here filming TikToks.
06:15Oh.
06:16Hey, Cami.
06:17Hey, girl.
06:18What's up?
06:19Somebody's warming up a little bit.
06:21What did you think about, like, me being here and raising someone else's son?
06:26I was f***ed off that you were going to be so far.
06:29I think that I was probably a little worried because I wouldn't see you.
06:34And I wanted to, at that time, know Cami, but I didn't know anything.
06:39So can I ask you something?
06:40Be honest.
06:41At the beginning, was it something personal against me that you didn't like me?
06:44Or was it just the situation?
06:46Um, I think it was a little bit of both.
06:51Okay.
06:51I think it was personal because of all the stuff that happened between you guys in the beginning.
06:57Yeah.
06:57But the goal is making sure that they're not miserable at the end of the day.
07:01Goal checked.
07:03I'm really proud of you guys for getting through everything that you've been through.
07:08Thank you for the kind words.
07:10Bye.
07:11Bye.
07:11That was my first time talking with her, honestly, and having that conversation.
07:14So it was really emotional to hear that she can come to an understanding with me as well.
07:18So it was a very special, very sweet moment.
07:20Let's go get the kids situated and get them outside and, like, breathe in air or something.
07:25Sounds good, girl.
07:27Yay!
07:28That counts.
07:28I believe our co-parenting setup is great for our children.
07:31The fact that they are all able to really see that we are able to get along and put everything
07:35aside,
07:36I don't think I would want anything less for my children ever.
07:39Go, go, go, go, go!
07:41If you don't like it, that's fine.
07:43We're not preaching.
07:44We're not telling you how to live your life.
07:45But this is much simpler than arguing.
07:48They're going to have these memories, and we know that we did that.
07:51What is next for your family?
07:52Any more kids?
07:54Calm down.
07:55I think I'm done.
07:57Kind of doing what we're doing now.
07:58Keeping their childhood just happy and healthy.
08:01Not everything's going to be picture perfect.
08:03You can still navigate and make it possible to have that happy ending.
08:07I hope we're raising five of the most smartest, sweetest, brightest kids in the world to flourish.
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