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00:02what is up daddy gang it is your founding father alex cooper with call her daddy
00:11anita welcome to call her daddy thank you daddy gang we are in the presence of truly someone that
00:19is just doing it all and i'm honored to be sitting with you today anita is the most successful
00:25brazilian artist to ever come out of the country billboard magazine has called her more influential
00:32than beyonce rihanna and lady gaga what the fuck no no big fucking deal anita in brazil maybe i don't
00:42know international i don't know you also are nominated for a grammy this year for best new
00:48artist congratulations thank you it is like your career is incredible and watching you grow has
00:54just been so fucking cool but i know you from when we met at the baby to baby gala yeah
01:01i need to hear
01:02what your favorite moment is from that event because i i know we met like briefly but we were sitting
01:07next
01:07to each other i was dying you are so funny you're so charismatic you have such a personality what do
01:13you remember from that event i think our table was so fun we had like very fun people with us
01:19and we
01:20had fun just talking about things that people would never talk in a fancy table of auction you know
01:26dinner i don't think yes anita and i are like we meet and two seconds later anita's like so like
01:32how
01:33does your vagina smell and i was like oh hey girl what's up we're like let's talk about our buttholes
01:38and our vaginas as like a corporate spotify person is sitting directly to our left my favorite was also
01:44when they not that like everyone knows the baby to baby gala but so there's like angels that work at
01:50the event so oh my god
01:57so anita is like chilling and like now it's like towards the end of the night like people have
02:02left but like people are saying so anita's like you know girl like i got an early morning like i'm
02:06gonna dip out and i'm like totally get it i'll be leaving soon so everyone in the crowd is sitting
02:12and they're like hey can all the angels stand up to give people context it's about 11 women in a
02:18crowd of 300 and they go everyone all the angels stand up anita just starts standing up she's like
02:25bye everyone i gotta go and it's a dead silent room and she's like wait and i'm like anita it's
02:30only the angels worse than that it's worse than that tell us in my mind i thought he was she
02:37was
02:37telling she was calling all the women angels stand up all the women and i thought all the women was
02:44gonna stand up that's why i stood up and you're like this is the perfect moment for me to like
02:49sneak out the back door only 11 people of like 300 and anita literally sits back down she's like
02:54mother fuck that was terrible it was it was a great moment let's kind of go back through like
02:59your life a little bit to get to know you better what was life like where you grew up outside
03:05of
03:05rio de janeiro so people don't think when when they see me or they see like my songs and whatever
03:12they don't imagine that i come from like the communities it could be called the ghetto a little
03:18bit it's like the favelas when you go to brazil there's like communities places that like the
03:23houses are really close to each other it's a really like humble place simple i come from a place like
03:30that i was born and raised in a place like that my mom used to do the best she could
03:34to fake
03:34the danger and the bad sides of it for me and my brother so we all see everything with like
03:41this
03:41beauty and playing in the streets things like that very like very like in the hood you know
03:48yeah and and but she always told us that a way for us to leave there it's not that we
03:55don't like
03:55there but we all want to leave because we want a better life so she always said that the only
03:59way to
03:59get out would be studying and we always did the best we could like studying and doing like all we
04:06could and um i always loved music so i started doing music but also like studying everything
04:11i was my own manager for like 10 years me and my brother we were partners so it was a
04:17whole job not
04:19only from arts but also like business when and at what age did you realize your love for performing
04:26oh no since since i was a little kid i was already like singing and when i was three year
04:32years old
04:32like four or five i was already singing and my family used to ask me like these these questions
04:37like what are you gonna be when you grow up whatever and i always used to be like i'm gonna
04:42be famous i'm
04:43gonna be an artist i'm gonna have a pool in my house blah blah blah blah that was literally me
04:49so you kind of always knew always i would pass through some pass by some places that i knew it
04:56was like tv places like studios or whatever and i used to open the window or go to the bus
05:02window and
05:03say like you guys are gonna see me i'm gonna work here blah blah blah nine years old i was
05:09always like
05:09this personality kind of crazy i love that so much though because i think sometimes you have to
05:14have that energy in order to get to where you need to get sure i was sure it was not
05:22that i said like
05:23oh i want to be i was sure i was i would tell my family where i was gonna live
05:28how my house would be
05:29the tv shows i were gonna be the people we're gonna meet i would be like that when i was
05:34a kid i could
05:35literally like see and dream about this and like my family was like okay because it was a very humble
05:42life
05:42so they would never prospect that in my life totally so they would be like okay and i was like
05:50you guys don't understand i'm not saying i want to i'm gonna be there but there's no option it's
05:57happening do you guys want to come along for the ride or not exactly who were some artists that you
06:02admired growing up mariah carey was my first one so my first diva i and i had the the opportunity
06:09to
06:09tell her that and it was crazy and to be on the phone with her for hours that was also
06:15crazy and
06:16for me she was the number one forever and um then rihanna and now i i'm sponsored by fenty i
06:25did the
06:26fenty show i do like photo shoots for fenty it's crazy even when you're saying that like does it
06:33still feel surreal like how much success you've had i think we should always remember because um
06:41sometimes and i think the industry does this to us they push us to think that we need always more
06:48more and more and more and i think nowadays with the internet it's kind of impossible for you to reach
06:55everything everyone every time you got to be happy also you got to take time for yourself also
07:01so i think that uh this speech that i used to have for my life for many years like you
07:09can be more
07:09you can do more never stop never give up i was like that and when i was like that i
07:16couldn't see
07:17those things that happened in my life i would be like okay yeah i met mariah okay yeah i loved
07:23it but
07:23i couldn't like look and be like wow nowadays for me it's like yeah we can definitely give up
07:31we can definitely go rest take a nap go to sleep we don't need all the money in the world
07:38you know
07:38a person the money doesn't mean happiness and the many as many number ones you get in your life that's
07:45not gonna make you happier or not so for me it's like every single thing that happened that happened
07:51in my life i learned how to stop and be like wow look at what i did this is so
07:57and then live that moment
07:58again i got to this reflection when because last year i got super sick right super sick i couldn't
08:04do anything i couldn't go upstairs at my house i couldn't do anything literally for three months i was
08:10like and um i thought literally that i was gonna die it was a whole thing and then um i
08:18was in the
08:18hospital for so long and then i was like you know what i was just working working working to reach
08:25everything and thinking i still didn't have enough and now i'm here and what did i get from life
08:32like right did i enjoy it did i have fun did i do nothing did i and the thing that
08:37i wanted the most
08:38was like to travel to have more free time and but today is too much for you to be successful
08:44you gotta
08:45be on instagram youtube tiktok spotify it's so many things that you gotta do we're just one human
08:54being it's too much how can we do all of that it's a lot so i'm not up to waste
09:00my life searching for
09:03for things anymore because i'm almost 30 now i'm 29 and i do think it was important and amazing for
09:09me to do that for so many years but now i just want to rest if i get more success
09:14amazing if no
09:16amazing it's okay your birth name is actually larissa yeah do you mind sharing why and when
09:24you started going by anita so um my name larissa is very common in brazil anita is a name that
09:32there
09:32was just one character from a series called anita and i wanted to be this girl because she used to
09:42say
09:42that she was like an 18 year old character in this series she used to say that she didn't like
09:48to be
09:49just one girl she liked to wake up and decide which girl she wanted to be today i want to
09:53be crazy
09:54tomorrow i want to be sexy and then i want to be pretty and then i want to be princess
09:58and i was like
10:00that's so cool because i don't want to i don't like to define myself and be like okay i'm this
10:05yeah i'm
10:05so many things i like to discover every day a new me you know and i think people have the
10:13necessity of
10:13defining you and be like oh she is that and i like to be all what is the difference between
10:20larissa and anita oh my god it's huge it's huge i started my career 12 years ago here in america
10:28i am
10:29the best new artist i'm joking but i am nominated as best new artist for the grammys because it's a
10:35new career started from the zero you know i left everything and i came to start here again but 12
10:42years ago when i started there i created this character because me larissa i'm very shy to be
10:49honest i'm very insecure i'm very like i don't like going out i don't like socializing i don't like
10:56doing anything you know i'm so the opposite of who i am when i'm in this character and when i
11:03created
11:04this character anita i wanted a person a persona that would be completely against hypocrisy you know
11:13people that are hypocrites that say one thing and do the other you know and uh that's what i wanted
11:21to
11:21do how many languages can you sing in sing i can sing in five languages it's because i sing in
11:28portuguese spanish english italian and french but french just a little bit i speak just a little bit
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12:27i feel like every time if i look down at it i'm like oh i'm smiling this makes me think
12:30of matt right
12:31because he gave me it um i'm also super into being able to personalize anything that i'm wearing
12:37especially engravings like how cute would it be to have henry and bruce's names engraved on a necklace
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12:58these
12:59languages so i'm gonna give a very good example right now of larissa and anita right okay so when
13:06i go to interview as anita you get to deliver entertainment right yeah so people ask me how did
13:12you learn so many languages they say with boyfriends whenever i wanted to have a know a new language i
13:19would date a different guy and like different accents but in reality i had which is kind of
13:26boring the reality larissa i hired different teachers from different places of the world and i would
13:32i used to leave them in my dress room for whatever commitments i had so i used to like get
13:37two
13:37hours of glam every day i would be studying this during this two hours the teacher would be telling
13:43me and i would be like stunning for these two hours i fucking love your honesty of like let me
13:49be so
13:49clear anita is like bitch if i wanted to learn italian i'm going to date an italian man i'm gonna
13:55fuck
13:55an italian guy i feel like actually i was just hiring people and they were just teaching me
14:00do you ever worry that like now being so honest about like the two characters that people will
14:06be like wait why what the fuck like this isn't the real you no because i think uh it's so
14:12important
14:13for me to have this clear and to understand that i use my character to break rules to bake to
14:18break
14:19boundaries and like uh things that limit us women to do all women women that wants to be free in
14:27sex
14:27women to want women women that wants to be free in um work whatever i like this character it brings
14:35it brings to us um self-esteem confidence and something to look at even i do when i'm myself
14:43larissa nowadays i look at me as a character and i'd be like okay i think i can get that
14:49from anita and
14:51be a little bit more confident about myself you know it's so much easier for people to watch a movie
14:57and see that character and be like okay and understand the actor is another thing yeah but
15:04they don't understand that musicians singers they do the same thing we do the same thing there's no
15:11way we're bringing the on self the person that we are at home the person that we are in family
15:17and bring this person on stage it's not entertainable it's not it's not different enough
15:23for people to look and be like oh this is special who is your favorite person that you've collaborated
15:30with on a song uh snoop dogg that is for sure because i think him and cardi b because they
15:39are
15:40so funny and snoop dogg is very like simple humble and he's like everything for him is a vibe
15:50it's all about if he likes you if he likes what's your your energy if if he see he has
15:59something kind
16:00of i don't know he sees someone and he feels the energy and then he decides if he likes or
16:05not i feel
16:06i think so that's what i think from him because i just feel like i can hug him and be
16:12there like
16:12safe forever i think he's one of the coolest guys and cardi b she just she's funny
16:20but good energy like best energy like high level i love that i was reading the list i'm like pharrell
16:26missy elliott snoop dog rita aura cardi b saweetie becky g i'm like back is one of my best friends
16:33missy elliott was great energy too it was so good so good okay anita you're also known for your
16:41dancing okay yeah the anita challenge went viral on tiktok which i remember just watching these
16:48videos and being like one how is this not getting censored on tiktok i can't even like fucking curse
16:52in my tiktok meanwhile people are like doing the challenge and like it's incredible watching it
16:57can you explain how twerking in brazil is different than twerking in america
17:05because it's not even only twerking it's partying in general i think here in america people in the
17:12parties they are more concerned about who they're with uh where they're going what they're wearing
17:18and you know it's like the table situation in brazil there's no table situation
17:22you go to the party there's no table everyone is just one place mass together just to find out
17:30you know and um we love dancing we love dancing sometimes we don't even understand whether you're
17:38singing we just want to dance sometimes it's just the same lyrics over and over they just
17:44sing a different melody just same words always and we love it we just want to dance we just want
17:51to
17:51listen and dance what is it like being known for like the way that you dance though are you like
17:56so
17:56proud of yourself it's crazy because in brazil it started this fever of like oh we're gonna do
18:01anita moves anita moves okay now we need you to twerk okay okay so this is gonna be iconic i
18:08think people
18:08will fucking love it is this the wrong surface oh my god okay okay so do you want music we
18:15have music
18:15no it doesn't need to okay so you just go like you're gonna do a push-up right okay and
18:20then
18:21you just do a circle that basically you're doing this with your knees okay you focus here in your
18:31hips what so it's like a push-up what how that must take a lot of upper body you're doing
18:37this
18:38but in this position anita oh my god i could only dream no but you're you're this other one is
18:47hard
18:47though when you do like when you do a circle but you stop in the middle so you do a
18:51square
18:53this one is harder like when you do this
18:56oh i feel so creepy i'm literally like holy shit dude that was so good i am like inspired now
19:06to go
19:06home and like secretly practice it but like not letting anyone know i'm practicing it but like i
19:10will be working on it next time i see you maybe i'll have a little move to bust out call
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23:00And do you incorporate these into your sex?
23:03No.
23:04No.
23:05It's just a dance.
23:06When the guy asks me to dance, I go like, dance first.
23:13He's never going to fucking dance.
23:15So I'm like, what the fucking question is that?
23:17Right.
23:18You're like, I'm not performing.
23:19Exactly.
23:20I get silly.
23:21It's so annoying.
23:23I'm like, dance first.
23:25You dance, I dance.
23:26Are you currently single or in a relationship?
23:28I'm single, completely single and not looking for anything.
23:32I love it.
23:33And so happy with myself.
23:34And I don't have sex in months.
23:37So many months.
23:38I don't even remember the last time I had sex, to be honest with you.
23:41Are you just masturbating?
23:43No.
23:45Like I'm celibate.
23:47Listen, I didn't find anyone special enough that I would think like, okay, this one deserves
23:52to come here and I didn't find it yet.
23:56You're spending time alone.
23:58But I was crazy before.
23:59I used to like fuck even like one person that would cross me on the street.
24:03I'll be like, you come here.
24:04Stop.
24:05I would be like that.
24:06How did you get that confidence?
24:08Just like go up to people.
24:09Because I was living Anita 24-7 at the time.
24:12Do you have a type of guy?
24:14No.
24:14Girl?
24:15Breathing and alive.
24:18I don't know.
24:19There's something inside that comes.
24:22And this something, for some reason, I can feel it.
24:25And then I'm like, so there's no type.
24:28I can literally show you three different ex-boyfriends and you'll be like, what's the sense
24:33between these people?
24:34I love that though.
24:36What do you think is like something that you're most attracted to in a person?
24:41I think when they're funny, I love when they're funny.
24:45You make me laugh.
24:46I'm like, ah, I love it.
24:51And when they are confident, a little aggressive, but in a good way.
24:57I like when they are aggressive in a good way.
25:00Not like abusive relations.
25:02Have you found yourself in any abusive relationships?
25:07Oh, yeah.
25:08Terrible.
25:08But I need it just once and then never again.
25:11Like in two months, after this one guy I had like for a year and something.
25:17Wow.
25:19So I can look if I'm starting with someone in one month, I can feel it's abusive and I'm
25:26like out.
25:27Can you try to give like if people are listening, they're like, fuck, like I think I may be in
25:32one.
25:32Like, do you have any like signs or things to look for?
25:35Yeah, because in the beginning, they let you feel very uncomfortable, you know, and then
25:42they start to make you feel insecure about yourself without saying they don't say you
25:49are less or not.
25:52You know, yeah, they just make they point.
25:55It's like they point things and other people that they are actually talking about you, but
26:00they pretend they're not.
26:02And then, oh, honey, I'm almost a psychologist.
26:05I look and I'm like, hmm, OK.
26:08And then I start bringing shit over for themselves to think.
26:11So you mean like they'll point something out in someone in a room?
26:15Yeah, that like relates to you or is like what you don't have or or or just say like,
26:22you see, that's so bad.
26:24Oh, my God.
26:24Kind of like to guide you how to not be.
26:28Are you usually the one breaking up with people or they?
26:31Yeah, I am.
26:33I need that to change, though.
26:35I think that's why I'm waiting so much.
26:36I want things to be different.
26:38Got it.
26:40What is like a deal breaker for you in a relationship?
26:43When I feel suffocated, I don't like that.
26:50Or when I think when I feel suffocated is the number one thing, like when the guy doesn't
26:57let you breathe and like jealousy for no reason, you know, like too much.
27:02Come on or needy like I miss you.
27:04I want to talk to you like 24 seven.
27:06Come on.
27:07Give me a break.
27:07Give me a time to breathe.
27:09Right.
27:10There's nothing more like unattractive, which I get it.
27:12We're all insecure.
27:13But being in a relationship with someone that's so insecure about you in the relationship,
27:19it's like such a turnoff.
27:22You're like, can you just like get into therapy, muster the courage?
27:25Or like when the guy tries he's selfish, he tries to say he's doing things for you, but
27:30he's actually doing for him.
27:32He doesn't want to be alone.
27:33He is needy.
27:34He doesn't want to stand with himself alone.
27:38But he says that, oh, no, I'm doing this for you.
27:41Come on.
27:41You're not.
27:42I want to be fucking alone.
27:44For a little time.
27:46Can you give advice to women listening that are like, okay, wait, Anita, you have not
27:51been with someone.
27:52You're not hooking up with people.
27:53Like, how are you so comfortable being alone?
27:57So everything started and I hope people don't need that to change lives.
28:02When I got sick, that was like when I was in bed thinking I was going to die, I started
28:06to look over all the things in my life and I started to see all the things that I didn't
28:11want to repeat again.
28:12It's not that I don't want to have sex with people anymore.
28:14Please, God, I'm down.
28:16I'm open.
28:17I'm free tonight.
28:18I'm just saying that I'm rethinking the reason why I used to do things and how I was
28:26doing things and I want to do differently.
28:29I don't want to have sex with a guy because I want him to fall in love with me or
28:35because
28:36I don't want to lose him.
28:37I want to have sex because I feel like doing it because I feel like this guy deserves my
28:44this queen going to, you know, I don't know.
28:47And before I didn't used to like staying by myself.
28:51I used to just like need friends every time in my house.
28:55Friends every time I needed people.
28:57Yeah.
28:58And now I don't need no, but I can be alone like this for days.
29:04You know, cook my own food and be like, life is beautiful.
29:07I'm just here chilling.
29:09And I, I feel like we need to ask ourselves, why are we scared of the silence?
29:17What is inside of us that we don't want to listen to?
29:21You know, what, what we don't like about ourselves that we don't want to face it.
29:27I'm not saying I regret the thousands of people I fucked.
29:30I'm just saying right now, I don't feel like maybe next month I feel like fucking thousands
29:38of people again.
29:39And just now I just feel like, um, uh, not right now.
29:44Is it worth it?
29:46I remember I went through almost, this is, I've never said this.
29:49I almost went an entire year in my twenties where I did not have sex.
29:53And I was like, totally happy.
29:56Oh, I'm so happy.
29:58Like, it was like, just like a reclaiming moment for myself of like, I need to just figure
30:01my own shit out and I don't need any penis getting in the vicinity of me while I try to
30:07I kind of want, but it needs to be a great penis.
30:11It needs to be a penis plus a brain plus a tongue plus so many things, you know, it needs
30:20to be, uh, like a mix.
30:24Cause it's a lot of work to have sex.
30:26For me, it's a lot of work.
30:27I like to put a show on.
30:28Oh, you do.
30:29Can you give us some tips, Anita?
30:31Like if the girls are like, what do you mean put a show on?
30:33Like, give us some tips.
30:34Like what's your go-to?
30:35Cause I like to enjoy myself.
30:37I like to feel like I'm like dancing and performing.
30:43Is it a deal breaker for you if a guy is not good at like eating you out?
30:48I teach.
30:51I love you.
30:52I would teach.
30:53I would say, come on, let me say something.
30:56Do this, do that.
30:58And I don't like when they go like this.
31:00Look, they put the tongue very, um, hard and they go like.
31:09And it's like, you go like.
31:11Right.
31:15Oh my God.
31:16I don't like that.
31:17Right.
31:17It's just like a little like slithering and you're like, it's so bad.
31:20I was this day, these days.
31:22Oh, by the way, I didn't have sex with guys this whole time with girls.
31:25I did have.
31:26So I was teaching this friend of mine how to, how to eat a pussy these days.
31:32And she was like, oh, it's that easy.
31:34And I was like, yeah, I came in three minutes.
31:37She came in two.
31:38Wait, you were practicing on each other.
31:40Yeah.
31:41And you're just friends.
31:42Yeah.
31:43There was no like sexual connection.
31:45Oh no.
31:45I was just teaching her.
31:46So you just like took off your pants.
31:47Like, here's my vagina.
31:48Let me teach you.
31:49Uh-huh.
31:50Fuck.
31:50Okay.
31:51Like, we need some tips.
31:52Without taking off your pants and us doing it, do you have any like, like one specific
31:59thing that you can adjust for the men or women listening that could maybe just like help
32:03achieve more orgasm?
32:04I will say, first of all, for girls, for whatever, guys, girls, to eat girls, personally, I think
32:13it's kind of different for each girl.
32:15I don't know.
32:16The things I like can be different from the things other girls like.
32:20Me, personally, when I'm doing that with a girl, I go nice and slow.
32:26I do circles and then I just do up and down and I do side by side, but like slow
32:32and wet
32:33and not like you're eating a pasta.
32:39It's just like you are an ice cream that is cold and you cannot freeze your tongue.
32:46If you're going to, you're going to freeze your tongue.
32:50You're going to feel like ice cold.
32:53And yeah, I just go nice and slow and then I put a finger on it and I don't put
32:59the finger
32:59on it like, don't, don't, don't, don't, don't, don't, don't.
33:02You know, I just put it like nice and slow, small movements and like just smooth, you
33:12know, and, and, and then, um, uh, like I don't go in the crazy side by side.
33:20I don't like, I just go in a smooth, keep going with the flow, you know, and the girl
33:26is kind of going to guide you.
33:28And then you can just put the finger in the beginning of the entry of the vagina.
33:32You don't need to go all the way down there.
33:35And it's not because the woman squirt that she came.
33:38There was this time, this guy, he made me squirt like 20 times and I was not coming.
33:42I was like, this doesn't mean something is happening.
33:47It's men that are obsessed with getting a woman to squirt.
33:50Let me look at me in the eyes of this camera.
33:52Stop.
33:53The next day it hurts.
33:55Oh, it hurts so bad.
33:56Come on.
33:57I think sometimes men forget, like, would you want us like jackhammering your dick?
34:02Yeah.
34:03No.
34:03You like when it's like very wet and like you don't need it to be like, let's fucking go.
34:09Imagine we did that also dry.
34:11You would have rug burn.
34:12Same for us.
34:13Okay.
34:13Same for us.
34:15There is also like with guys, what I do, let me try to give an example.
34:22I always use oil when I can, when the guy is not full of like, some guys are like, oh,
34:27you're using the, I love, I love using lubricant.
34:31Love it.
34:32And some guys think it's because they're not doing a good job.
34:35Shut the fuck up.
34:36It's just more pleasing.
34:38Yes.
34:38If you use lubricant, I put the lubricant, I'm going to teach you in this bottle.
34:42Okay.
34:43Okay.
34:43Here we go.
34:44I put the lubricant and then I go like this.
34:48First of all, I go like this.
34:51And then this is one movement.
34:54And then you're going to do something.
34:55There's something you can do that.
34:57They are not going to understand what you're doing.
35:00You could tell him to close his eyes.
35:03You're going to do this.
35:04You're going to hold here in the bottom and you're going to do this with the hands like
35:10this.
35:10You go down and circle, down, circle, down, circle.
35:15And then you go up and down, up and you do this, but up and down, up and down.
35:19And you do this, down, down, down, down.
35:22He's going to be like, what is happening?
35:25But you should put lubricant on it.
35:28But you go like this.
35:29Don't do this.
35:30It's like go up and down.
35:33Don't let it go.
35:34Just up and down.
35:35And you do this, open and close, open and close.
35:38Because then you're going to switch the pressure on it.
35:40And you're going to be like, what is she doing, though?
35:44But you got to put lubricant on it.
35:46Right.
35:46So you're kind of like massaging down past their tip and then around their shaft while
35:50you're holding the base.
35:51Yeah, like this.
35:52Oh, that's magical.
35:54And then they get super confused because it feels like a blowjob, but it's not.
35:59And then you, for the blowjob, I like using things that you put in your teeth to fix it.
36:07Plastic.
36:07Yeah, yeah, yeah.
36:08The Invisalign.
36:09Kind of.
36:09There's a bunch of brands.
36:11Yeah.
36:11If you use the one down, just the one down.
36:15Life-changing.
36:17Really?
36:17Because it feels like you don't have teeth.
36:21I need a...
36:21It feels like you don't have teeth.
36:23Yeah, you can try.
36:24I just added that to my Amazon cart while you were speaking.
36:28You can ask them.
36:29Wow.
36:29They're going to feel like you don't have teeth.
36:31And just on the bottom.
36:32Because it's going to touch the...
36:33Yeah, because it's on the up too, it's going to look weird.
36:37Yeah, yeah, yeah.
36:37But if you use only on the bottom, they're going to feel like you don't have teeth because
36:42you can touch as much as you want with this teeth here because it's not like aggressive.
36:47It's like smooth as a plastic.
36:50This is an educational podcast today.
36:53Okay.
36:53We are educating about this.
36:54But this is bad.
36:55They don't like it.
36:56Like the brand of the dentists, they will try to kill me.
37:01And they're going to say I'm bullshit.
37:03Because I try to say that in Brazil.
37:05Wow.
37:05They wanted to kill me.
37:07I feel like they would love it.
37:09The sales are going to rock it.
37:10They wanted to kill me.
37:11No, no, no.
37:11That's not the purpose.
37:12This is health for people to take care of the...
37:14While you're sucking dick, you're also aligning your teeth.
37:17You're multitasking.
37:18But people don't want to know about that.
37:20They don't do blowjobs.
37:21They just were born from sand spirit that came.
37:25And so everyone is virgin.
37:26Today, I am claiming that this is a great technique.
37:31And you can be fixing your teeth while sucking dick.
37:34Nothing better.
37:35I wouldn't say that.
37:36I'm not a dentist.
37:36I'm just saying, if you want to try, you try.
37:39If no, it's okay.
37:41Totally.
37:42If you already have one, pop it in.
37:44See how it works.
37:45Yeah, dentists hate me because I said that in Brazil.
37:48They hate me.
37:49Dentists?
37:50They do.
37:51Because I said it's good when you use it.
37:54But they hate it.
37:55They don't like that I said that.
37:57They're the virgin dentists.
37:58They need to fucking relax.
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39:46Have you ever been cheated on?
39:50Once when I was 19, 18.
39:56How did you find out?
39:58Oh my God.
39:58Online.
39:59A fan, a fan told me.
40:02No.
40:03Oh, but twice.
40:04I was twice.
40:05Once was a fan told me.
40:08Second one, I pretended it was a fan because I actually dreamed about it.
40:12I dreamed about a lot of things that actually happened.
40:16So there was this one time I went to sleep.
40:19This boy, I landed my car to him.
40:22He didn't have a car.
40:23I landed my car to him.
40:24I was already a singer.
40:25I was performing somewhere else.
40:27He went to the place.
40:28And he, when I went to sleep, I literally went to, like in my dream, I went to the club
40:34he was.
40:35I saw him kissing the girl.
40:37He was wearing blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
40:40The girl was wearing blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
40:42And it was so clear to me.
40:45And I know I have these type of dreams.
40:48So I didn't tell him I dreamed.
40:50I said, hi, a fan took a picture and sent me, you were with this girl, you were wearing blah,
40:57blah, blah, blah.
40:57She was wearing blah, blah, blah.
40:59And then he was desperate saying, yeah, I'm sorry, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
41:05After months, I told him I dreamed it.
41:07Have you ever got caught cheating?
41:10No, I'm so smart.
41:15I am so smart.
41:16How do you feel about sex on the first date?
41:19I don't care if I feel like I do.
41:22You just be yourself.
41:23And if he likes you, amazing.
41:25If he doesn't, it's because he's an asshole.
41:27And he's not that he's an asshole.
41:30He doesn't match you.
41:31And you just want him because of you think you need him for something, but you don't.
41:37I love that advice.
41:38It's like, if you're good with yourself, who gives a fuck?
41:40If they don't care, it doesn't matter.
41:42There was this one time, this one guy I went on a date.
41:45But after it ended up not happening anymore, I was like, he doesn't want me, blah, blah, blah.
41:53And then after two weeks, when I was like, better with my therapy on point, and I was like, what
42:01the fuck I was doing with that guy?
42:03He has, he makes no say he kisses terribly.
42:07His kiss?
42:09I was like, where the fuck did this guy learn to kiss?
42:12It was like, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
42:16It was a terrible kiss.
42:18The sex would be even worse.
42:21Why I was caring so much.
42:23It was, it's just our fear of being rejected.
42:26It has nothing to do with the guy.
42:28We don't even care about the fucking guy.
42:30So true.
42:31It has nothing to do with the fucking person.
42:34The person sometimes is shitty.
42:36Yes.
42:37And we are concerned just because we don't want to feel rejected.
42:40I also think a good bit of advice is pretend in your head.
42:43Imagine if they were obsessed with you and they wouldn't stop hitting you up.
42:47Then now assess, would you actually like them?
42:49Like if you're coming from a place of like, they don't like me.
42:52I want them to like, that's just the chase and we get addicted.
42:54No, and then he texted me and I was like, no, thank you.
42:57Like you kiss like a frog.
42:59I was like, no, today I have my mind so on point.
43:02No, thanks.
43:04Some people, you just go with them because your mind is not on point.
43:08Right?
43:09And then you wake up one day and it's like, alleluia, what the fuck?
43:12What I was doing with that person?
43:15It's so crazy too when you look back and you're like, I can't believe I was fucking obsessed
43:20with that guy.
43:21He fucking sucked.
43:23Yeah.
43:23Sometimes you just need to like step away from it.
43:25How do you feel about sharing nudes?
43:28I don't do that.
43:29You don't?
43:30No.
43:31Is it just because you're nervous because like you're a celebrity?
43:34Before, yes.
43:35Nowadays, I just think it's new.
43:40I think it's more sexy when you're wearing like panties or something that is almost showing
43:47but it doesn't show.
43:48I think it's more sexy.
43:50Plays more with the imagination, to be honest.
43:52I love that.
43:53Or like having a hand on it, you know?
43:55It's more.
43:57Even a picture of a dick.
43:58It's not beautiful.
43:59Come on.
44:00Getting a picture of a dick.
44:03Let's be honest.
44:04It's not great.
44:05Let's be honest.
44:05It's not great.
44:06You're like, oh, there it is.
44:07Like when you see that guy naked, like it's not hot.
44:11That's not hot.
44:12What are you responding if a guy sends you a dick pic?
44:16I'd be like, I sent an emoji or something.
44:20I don't know.
44:22I'm like, that's not it.
44:26I don't know.
44:27I don't feel anything with that.
44:29What emoji?
44:32But the eyes.
44:33You know, these two eyes that look like, that's it.
44:37It kind of doesn't say anything.
44:39It's just not to leave the guy in red.
44:41I kind of love it though because then it could make him a little insecure.
44:44Like, wait, hello?
44:45And you're like, that's all you got.
44:46That's all you got.
44:47Do you like sexting?
44:50Sex what?
44:51Sexting.
44:51Like texting.
44:52Sexting.
44:53No.
44:53No.
44:54Me either.
44:54All these things for me are just not.
44:57I like the real thing.
44:59Come on.
45:00Come here.
45:00Let's.
45:02Yes.
45:03Not the sex sex.
45:04I like the little horny talk.
45:06Uh-huh.
45:07But not the sex like, I'm going to put my dick, put in your pussy and bang it 20 times.
45:13I don't like that.
45:14I like the little horny thing.
45:16You know?
45:17What intimidates you in the bedroom?
45:21What intimidates me?
45:22A huge, insanely huge dick trying to put it on my ass.
45:28That's very intimidating.
45:30When a dick is like huge.
45:33It's so scary.
45:34And it's trying to go in your butthole.
45:36It's kind of not good.
45:39Because you're so scared.
45:42This one guy I saw, I was like, okay, I think I'm going to try here.
45:48And then his dick was so big.
45:50So big.
45:53And I was like, listen, I'm scared.
45:58And then he said, why?
46:01And then he said, this is something I don't think I can handle right now.
46:06At this moment of my life.
46:08I cannot handle this, I think.
46:10Check back with me in a couple months.
46:12And then we just talked and cuddled and it was it.
46:15Have you ever had a threesome?
46:17Oh, so many times.
46:18Do you enjoy them?
46:20I do.
46:20I think it's cool.
46:22I like it.
46:22I think it's more.
46:24But you have to be very aligned with everyone.
46:28You know?
46:29And yeah, I have threesome, four, six some.
46:34Six some?
46:35I had a boyfriend that used to like to switch couples and all.
46:39Do you like the swapping thing?
46:41Yeah.
46:42Did you like it?
46:42Yeah.
46:44He was very like comfortable.
46:46And the people, he always let me pick.
46:49And it was just fun.
46:52It was very cool and respectful and fun.
46:54Did you ever get jealous?
46:56Oh, no.
46:57No.
46:57I'm not a jealous person.
46:59I'm jealous if I don't feel respected.
47:02If I don't feel respected, I'm very, I get not even jealous.
47:07I get angry.
47:09I think that people that want to potentially do threesomes or foursomes or orgies or whatever,
47:15like I think you need to know yourself before you do that.
47:18Of like, if you're a jealous person.
47:19Yeah.
47:20Don't fucking do it.
47:21You can't do that.
47:21Yeah.
47:22Know yourself.
47:22Sometimes people, I think, do it for their partner.
47:25And it's like, if you know your relationship, don't do it just because you think he or she
47:29wants to do it.
47:30Yeah, that's a big issue, to be honest.
47:33I don't, yeah, I think you need to be very friends with your partner to make sure.
47:39He also, there was this one time, and threesomes also with guys, but he wouldn't be with the
47:44guy, just me.
47:45And he was super comfortable with that.
47:47He picked it and it was cool.
47:49I liked it, to be honest.
47:51But he let me feel free with that.
47:54Do you like to use toys in the bedroom?
47:57I do.
47:58The guy got to be confident, though.
47:59I know.
48:00But I do.
48:01Me too.
48:01And that's why I did my line of perfume.
48:05Like, when I did that, it was more about, like, I was doing concerts.
48:11And obviously, I'm performing for, like, two hours.
48:14And Carnival is, like, four hours performing nonstop.
48:16Even seven hours I've done.
48:19And when you finish, you don't smell good.
48:23Let's just have a real talk.
48:27A butthole smells like butthole.
48:30If you go in the end of the day, you put your finger in a butthole and you smell it.
48:34It smells like butthole.
48:36It's a place that is there.
48:38Inside.
48:39Locked.
48:39In the dark.
48:41Warm.
48:42Hot.
48:43Doing this.
48:45The whole date.
48:48This is going to sweat.
48:49It's, like, under your arms.
48:51There's no way.
48:52You're going to sweat.
48:52You're going to smell.
48:54It's there.
48:55Inside of your whole clothes.
48:57So, I was, like, I don't like.
48:59I'm obsessed with smell, right?
49:01I was, like, I don't like smelling, like, sweat in my butthole.
49:05And then a friend of mine told me, oh, I'm going to do something for you.
49:09And she did this perfume.
49:11And I used it.
49:12And it was, like, I was smelling great even if I went to the Sahara Desert.
49:19And I did a music video there.
49:21It was, like, 42 degrees Celsius.
49:25And it was so hot.
49:26I was wearing, like, a jumpsuit of plastic.
49:28I was sweating, like, crazy.
49:30And I was still smelling good.
49:32I was, like, you know what?
49:35I'm going to make this, like, professional.
49:37And then I did it.
49:39And you just smell amazing.
49:42Your pussy and your buttholes smell great the whole time.
49:46And then I give it to the guys that I'm with.
49:49And they put in their balls and the dick and the butts, too.
49:53They smell great.
49:54For me, it's such, like, a turn-on.
49:59I love it.
49:59After I got this product, something I always done was, like, to forget, oh, my God, by accident, my panties
50:08at the place.
50:10So they smell so good.
50:11And it smells insanely good, like, strawberry or whatever, cotton candy.
50:17And this guy, obviously, when you leave, guys, pay attention.
50:21He will smell the panties.
50:24He will smell the panties.
50:26He wants to know.
50:28And then he will smell the part that your butthole is on it.
50:31And it's not going to smell like butthole.
50:34And it's just heaven.
50:36They always come back.
50:38Anita, you're giving us everything we need today.
50:42Okay?
50:42There's so few people that you can just, like, have an open conversation like this.
50:46Talk about your sexuality, your sex life.
50:48What do you want people to know about you as an artist and an individual if they're watching today and
50:55they're, like, new fans?
50:56Like, what would you want to say?
50:57I would say definitely what I said here.
50:59Like, I think I'm an artist that fights against hypocrisy.
51:03You know?
51:05That's the artist I like to be.
51:07About everything.
51:08Not only sex.
51:09But I bring up subjects, which is, like, talk about my plastic surgeries.
51:15Talk about sex.
51:16Talk about poop.
51:17Talk about things that we all do.
51:21And for some reason, we live our lives pretending we don't.
51:27Yeah.
51:27You know?
51:28And I don't understand what's the type of insecurities or, I don't know, that make people live in this fake
51:36world
51:36that just pretend life is this 24-7 glam.
51:42Knowing more about you now and knowing how hands-on you are with your craft.
51:46Like, you are running the show.
51:48You're your own manager.
51:49You do everything.
51:50I really respect you.
51:52And I cannot wait to see what you do next.
51:55And I can't wait for the new album and all the things.
51:57You deserve all of it.
51:58So, thank you so much for coming on.
52:00I loved it.
52:01I felt really at home.
52:04I hope people like it.
52:05And I loved meeting you.
52:07You have great energy.
52:08You do, too.
52:09Love you.
52:10Love you.
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