00:00I am leaving marriage next week, girl.
00:04Is it a destination?
00:06I am leaving marriage next week because this man is a pure narcissist.
00:11I can't take it anymore.
00:13And a friend of mine was telling me to leave quietly because he can harm me.
00:17I wanted to tell him directly, but now I'm scared.
00:20Advice me, please.
00:21If you're leaving marriage next week, leave marriage next week.
00:25What are we doing?
00:26What's this grand announcement?
00:27If he's this much of a narcissist, then you've seen his narcissistic tendencies popping up.
00:35You are the one best place to tell us whether he can harm you or not.
00:38Because again, not all narcissists are overt narcissists.
00:42We have covert narcissists who are very good at keeping it harsh.
00:47Only you and he know.
00:49Overt narcissists, on the other hand, are very loud about it.
00:52Everyone can tell this man is a problem.
00:54So in this particular case, maybe he is covert.
00:56So regardless, only you can tell us, the extent to which you feel, this can be an issue.
01:03But again, you are leaving marriage next week.
01:06Babe, leave marriage next week.
01:08I don't know what else to tell you.
01:11Sometimes I feel like when people do this grand announcement, it's because...
01:16You want to be worn back.
01:17The Loki wants to be worn back.
01:19I want you to act like you care.
01:20Beg.
01:21Please beg.
01:22I don't understand that.
01:23You know, I've been in a situation where I was like, I'm leaving you.
01:26Not because I wanted to leave you, but because I wanted to see if you care.
01:30You know, I'm like, fine for me.
01:32Like, what's...
01:33Are we 12?
01:34Show me that you love me.
01:36Show me that you want me around.
01:38And here's the thing.
01:39You're going to receive a big heartbreak when this person says, okay.
01:43Okay.
01:43What you going to do now?
01:46You're going to come to the internet and say, oh, he's toxic.
01:49Oh, he did this.
01:50And try to spin the situation.
01:52My thing is, if you have a problem, communicate it.
01:55It's that simple.
01:57And it doesn't sound like it is.
01:58But if you have a problem, communicate it.
02:01If you're feeling some type of way, sit down and say, hey, my husband, this is how I feel.
02:06This is what is happening.
02:07If you're feeling like this person doesn't give you attention, like, hey, babe, can we come up with date nights?
02:12I feel like we don't spend enough time together.
02:15I'm feeling a bit neglected.
02:17Do you feel the same way?
02:18Can we work on our marriage?
02:20Can we say, we are going to be having exclusive time, just the two of us, this and this day?
02:27You know, this and this hour.
02:30But saying, I'm leaving marriage.
02:35Anyway, I don't know.
02:36Do you have the divorce papers?
02:37Is this a trial separation?
02:39Where are you going?
02:39To what extent is this leaving?
02:41What did he do?
02:43Like, you know, and then the worst part is that you're taking advice from your friend who clearly just wants drama.
02:51Like, to be honest, and I took a true draper.
02:54That's really it.
02:55Mwambie.
02:56Mwambie.
02:57I know, the friend is Mwambie.
03:00Yeah, and I say, man, Mwambie, Mwambie, Mwambie, Mwambie, Jewel, I'm watching, I'm watching, I'm watching.
03:05If he was serious, he wouldn't come home and found an empty house.
03:08But anyway, girl.
03:09We don't know what you're going through.
03:11You know what?
03:11Let's not minimize it.
03:12Let's get into our next segment where we help you identify what narcissism truly is.
03:20Mwambie.
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