00:00we're talking about sex there's no way to ease into this what makes what makes sex good and just
00:13oh all right to meet you shoot from the hips talk more about it let's go i mean i thought that was
00:19the answer everyone would give i mean everyone needs a good warm-up and um you know using your
00:24tongue where necessary is good for that do both parties have to reciprocate i think if you should
00:29if you're gonna give you should receive yes okay yes all right i'm gonna say chemistry i think
00:34chemistry i gotta know that's not a popular answer but when you have a good chemistry with somebody
00:39it's like a dance a naked dance with two people a naked dance it's like a naked dance or more
00:46depending on how you get down oh right i think mutual attraction is super important and great
00:51conversation you know is always important to me i agree i say pay attention i think uh definitely
00:58watching what your partner is doing watching what they're saying trying to listen for signals like
01:04really communicate without speaking right and what they don't like because if you tell you don't do
01:09this don't come in there she may not even tell you but if she's breathing hard at one thing you're doing
01:15and then she kind of sighs at another thing you're doing go back to the first thing you were doing
01:19but you have to yeah you have to be able to talk too because sometimes we don't want to say oh i
01:23don't like that or can you do this we have to be able to have fun with it because i think sex
01:28should be fun also it shouldn't always be like oh i don't want to say this i don't want to seem weird
01:32you should always be able to say okay um that didn't really work for me but you know what i love when
01:37you do this and just being positive about it do you think that's like a maturity and experience thing
01:41because i feel like when i was in college or some things i wouldn't have really said now i'm like
01:44look look it's not how you say it it's not how you say it though a closed mouth don't get that literally
01:49oh lord i said it like the right way like you gotta like you know be like oh you know i really loved
01:54it when you did xyz you want to stroke the ego you don't want somebody to be like you know
01:58well i didn't like this and i didn't like that and i didn't like that like me but what about when you
02:01do stuff that you need to know some type of confirmation like i won't just put my thumb in your butt
02:06is that something you should ask no no no no i don't think you should ask that because if you
02:13say to somebody can i put my thumb in your butt you don't just say yeah you just try to do it if
02:16they seem cool with it then you keep going that's that's so you just know it okay this is the level
02:20of communication that i'm talking about if she's squirming away from your thumb retract bro get it get
02:25up out of here i feel like you have to ask for everything but i feel like if a thumb in the butt it's
02:30kind of like it's kind of like off center you might need to ask but that's a weird way that's a weird
02:34question to ask and that also i think sometimes you cheat yourself if you ask a question because
02:38people when you ask think too hard about it if you just try to do it and they're like oh i never
02:44thought i would like this if you ask me i'm gonna be like no i don't think i would like that but if
02:47you just try to do it i'm like oh this isn't so bad no you gotta ask me about that no that's that's
02:52a no i mean so can you be at dinner like if you're like so finger in your ass i mean can you do that
02:57you're talking about someone that's putting their penis inside you you should be able to have a
03:00conversation with them about things that you figure if the penis is going in the thumb shouldn't be
03:04that big of a deal if the penis going in there if depending on where you like it and now i like
03:11whatever she likes i'm down i'm down i'm down for whatever she's happy with whatever she's
03:16comfortable with i'm trying to i like to be good giving and game so if if she's into it i'm down to
03:20give it a shot if i've never done it before i'm down to ask some questions i don't like asking
03:24questions over dinner i don't want to discuss anal while i'm having a steak
03:27that just kind of goes the other way but not like i'd rather do it in the moment i'd rather it
03:33i'd rather it come across in the moment though if can you take criticism in the moment fellas
03:37can i take criticism yeah i'm grown yeah i'm going to be guided like if you tell me i like it this way
03:50i don't like it that way i am willing to adjust because if you don't get off i'm not happy right
03:54certain things you can't say you can't be like i just wish your penis was bigger
03:57there's nothing you can do about that there's nothing you can do about that hallmark don't
04:01have a car well they ain't gotta they don't have a car can i get some more no
04:05if you have the things that we've already described if you have chemistry if you have
04:11communication you have a partner who's really connecting with you it doesn't take that many
04:15words you don't have to say i don't like it when you do this a simple and that's all i need to hear
04:22yeah we don't need a lot don't need a whole lot of community i don't need a thesaurus i don't need
04:28you're giving me a dissertation
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