00:00here's the issue it comes from caroline she says good morning my husband died three years ago and
00:08i still wear my wedding ring i wouldn't say i'm actively looking for love but i am open to finding
00:13someone again my friend told me i shouldn't wear the ring when we go out for drinks because it
00:18immediately turns guys off from approaching me but i argue that whoever i date's going to know
00:24i'm a widow probably on the very first date so why not just be up front about it i would love
00:29the guy's opinion on this caroline says she said i wear the ring because my husband will always be
00:34part of who i am he's also the father of my children and i feel like taking the ring off
00:39denies them somehow oh what do you think oh well this is heavy-handed obviously and i can't speak
00:48from any point of experience other than being a guy walking around a bar i totally understand what her
00:54friends are saying because as a guy you don't want to approach a married woman right at a bar
01:00and make them feel uncomfortable i completely agree with jeff every single point that he made
01:05is exactly what i was going to say when you're at a bar a single guy you are looking at fingers yeah
01:10and you don't want to be the guy that breaks up a happy home sure you never want to be that guy
01:15i agree with you guys when it comes to the dating scene yeah but i feel like caroline
01:21isn't really ready i think you're absolutely right i think that if she were if she were out
01:26there looking for love then she would not be wearing the ring and maybe maybe it's even the
01:31circumstance maybe this isn't the ideal place for her to find her next date while she's hanging out
01:36with the girls in a bar or going out for drinks and wants a stranger like maybe that's not what she
01:42sees for her future she's a mom
01:44you
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