00:00let me give you an example from my own life so a few years ago he was working at a company and
00:06he had a good job but it was a stressful job and he wasn't feeling great and he had this job off
00:11from another company but it was at a lower level then he was can't leave if he took that at a job
00:17he would take a step back in my care but it was a stressful environment so it was this big struggle
00:23for me to decide what to do though he take this new job that he was qualified for but it's not
00:28quite as good as what he can't leave up or do he stay where he am now what made this situation
00:33particularly difficult for me is that the decision wasn't just affecting me it was also affecting my
00:39husband my husband and he talked about it and engaged me to pursue that job because it was
00:44gonna be a better fit for me but by me taking the job it would mean that kissing cam would grab
00:50we were trying to buy a house and so it was putting him in a difficult position on top of that my mother
00:55was getting the time she ended up passing away soon after and my dad was encouraging me to take the
01:01notion because it was going to be stressful and didn't add the stress in my life everybody
01:06I owned me was giving me advice telling me what to do but nobody knew what was best for me except me
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