Remy ma and Hitman Holla talk about children education

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Remy Ma and celebrated battle rapper Hitman Holla come together to discuss the vital topic of children's education.

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00:00Nick Cannon got like 13 kids now.

00:01What you...

00:02That's it?

00:03I think he just had like 13th or 12th.

00:04I feel like it's so much more.

00:05When he started having all these kids, because he was sleeping with all those Wild N' Out

00:09girls for so long and none of them were getting pregnant.

00:11You wouldn't drink?

00:12I don't think he slept with them Wild N' Out, bro.

00:14The twins had his face tattooed on him.

00:16Maybe because they liked him as a mogul.

00:18But you...

00:19I mean, I like him and my first joke on Wild N' Out was asking...

00:22You remember my first joke?

00:23I don't remember.

00:24I'm saying I don't...

00:25I ain't got no proof he slept with anything.

00:28I just know he got four baby mamas and 12 kids.

00:31I ain't got that.

00:32Oh, so they all from...

00:33You know what I'm saying?

00:34So relax.

00:35That's still a lot.

00:36But it's only...

00:37Four baby mamas is crazy.

00:38A lot of people think it's 12 baby mamas.

00:40Four baby mothers is crazy.

00:41The population got three baby mamas, four baby mamas.

00:44So somebody with a hundred names for me?

00:46Yeah.

00:47I said 80%.

00:48I went within that 20 there.

00:49You know what's so crazy?

00:50How crazy?

00:51Not if you take the LGBT community in the equation and divide it into what the whole

00:55world is, because we don't have a lot of...

00:57We don't have those issues.

00:58Divorce and all...

00:59I mean, it's new to us.

01:00We didn't have those rights.

01:01Baby mamas.

01:02Yeah.

01:03No, I know a lot of people in the LGBT that have baby mamas.

01:04Really?

01:05When y'all was like, yeah.

01:06Well, when Nick was with Mariah, that was his ex-wife.

01:08Then he made all the baby mamas.

01:10Right?

01:11But...

01:12They have three sets of twins too, so that's six.

01:15Is it three sets?

01:16But they say he was tired as hell on Christmas, zigzagging across the world trying to get

01:20to all these kids.

01:21Santa.

01:22You don't like Santa.

01:23Santa.

01:24I don't even like kids like that.

01:25Like, I love my kid.

01:27Like, it takes a lot for me to like a kid.

01:29Like, you gotta be cute.

01:31You gotta be, like, smart.

01:33You gotta have something about you.

01:35Like, the average kid, they be dirty.

01:37They be wanna touch stuff.

01:38I like seeing cute kids on Instagram, but do not bring them to my house and don't bring

01:42them here.

01:43You would love my daughter.

01:44Like, she's trained though.

01:45Like, she wouldn't touch your stuff.

01:46I would love your daughter because I love you, but I do not love people's kids.

01:49Listen to me.

01:50I promise you.

01:51My daughter, like, people, they don't even call from me anymore.

01:53They come to visit me to see her.

01:55Really?

01:56Like, she's not like a regular kid.

01:57Like, she's super.

01:58She's very smart.

01:59She's articulate.

02:00And I feel like that's because that's how I raised her.

02:02I didn't want her to be just like, what's that?

02:05Can I have some?

02:06I don't like what being a kid entails.

02:08I love kids.

02:09I love little dogs.

02:10Being a kid entails.

02:11So, you don't let people bring their kids over to your house for like holidays?

02:13No.

02:14What?

02:15No, don't come to my house with their kids.

02:16So, if I come over, I can't.

02:17My house, if your kid is doing something, they be like, you wanna go to Remy house?

02:20You wanna go to Titi Remy house?

02:21My son's 16 though.

02:22That's my house is a punishment.

02:23My son's 16.

02:24Oh, he could come.

02:25I'm working him.

02:26Here.

02:27I pay by the room.

02:28He's going to be clean.

02:29Like, I don't know.

02:30But I'm talking about little kids.

02:32My cousins and them, they threaten their kids to come into my house because they know

02:36I don't play that.

02:37We not doing that.

02:38Don't ask me nothing.

02:39Don't touch nothing.

02:40Mean auntie.

02:41Don't do it.

02:42It's not even that I'm a mean auntie because they call me, I get all the best presents,

02:45but play with them at home.

02:46I wouldn't give you nothing.

02:47Don't come over here.

02:48You mean I wouldn't give you nothing?

02:49What do you mean?

02:50You mean?

02:51I'm not mean.

02:52Mama, I don't wanna go to my mean auntie house.

02:53Yeah.

02:54They don't wanna come over because they know they can't do whatever they want.

02:57You can't run through here.

02:58Like, there's no running through the house.

03:00I'm not like one toy.

03:01Like, my daughter has a lot of toys.

03:02They know the rules.

03:03One toy at a time.

03:04That's it.

03:05When you're done with that one, you put it back.

03:06Oh, y'all know how to act?

03:07You go in that room.

03:08You go in that room.

03:09Like, I separate the whole thing.

03:10Like, I don't play with them.

03:11I don't play with kids.

03:12So nobody else in your family can spank your kids?

03:14Are you dumb?

03:15Like, what?

03:16No.

03:17Absolutely not.

03:18But it takes a village to raise a child.

03:20No, the **** you don't.

03:22I don't even know what a village is.

03:24I've never lived in a village.

03:26I live in towns, neighbors.

03:28I've never lived in no mother**** village.

03:29Don't hit my kid.

03:30I barely hit my kid.

03:32So how you say is you get on other people's kids?

03:34Oh, I **** somebody else's kid up, though.

03:38So don't hit my kid, though.

03:39That's the difference.

03:40I tell people all the time.

03:41People are like, oh, you say this and this and this, but when I say something,

03:44just because you let me talk to you crazy, handle you crazy,

03:47that don't mean I'm gonna let you do it to me.

03:49This is like, no.

03:50It doesn't work like that.

03:51You're who you are.

03:52You tolerate what you tolerate.

03:53I am who I am.

03:54I tolerate what I tolerate.

03:55And I don't tolerate that.

03:56So don't try to do to me what I do to you, but it's not gonna work.

03:58I knew the other question I forgot to ask, Cardi.

04:00I want to ask you, being a mom, did you ever suffer postpartum depression?

04:04Because you know what?

04:05I'm talking to more women who are being more open about their journey with postpartum

04:10that I didn't even understand that postpartum could last days, weeks, months, and even years.

04:15I just didn't know.

04:16I think, I don't think it was diagnosed, but I do recognize that there was something going on.

04:22Like, I breastfed my daughter.

04:23My daughter is four.

04:24She just turned four like two weeks ago.

04:26I breastfed my daughter so she was almost three years old.

04:29And-

04:30Is that long?

04:31I mean-

04:32What?

04:33I don't know.

04:34I don't breastfeed.

04:35I was in posture care.

04:36I put it like this.

04:37What's the longest relationship you've been in recently?

04:38Right.

04:3924 hours.

04:40Exactly.

04:41So imagine-

04:42What's the average age when they're supposed to stop though?

04:43Well, they say, there's really no average age, but they say the doctor recommends like

04:48at least going a year.

04:49Oh yeah.

04:50And that's what I was saying.

04:51I was like, I'm gonna do a year.

04:52And I ended up going, she was almost three.

04:55And a lot of it had to do with, it was COVID.

04:57We was inside, whatever the case may be.

04:58But that shit takes a lot on you.

04:59Like it's a lot.

05:00It's just, it was an experience that I loved that I had with her, but getting her off of

05:16it and stop it.

05:17It was just, and then your boobs.

05:19Like it's just a lot.

05:20Wait, how long did y'all produce milk?

05:22Me, my shit was still gone.

05:24If I would've still gone, I believe it would've still been coming out.

05:26Some people, it's harder for them, but my shit was just like a whole milk dairy aisle.

05:31It was cool.

05:32I'm mad.

05:33Not 2%.

05:36But wait, so postpartum, is it, when they said postpartum depression, how do you know that?

05:43I don't know.

05:44Your hormones be up.

05:45Like your hormones be all over the place.

05:47So you be having different emotions and things that you go through.

05:51And I think with us, meaning like people of color, it's so many things that we assign

05:57to other races.

05:58Black people don't go through that.

05:59They don't have bipolar.

06:00They don't have mental health issues.

06:02They don't do postpartum.

06:03All of these different things that we've been going through for years.

06:06And because we were not diagnosed and because we were in denial that these things happened

06:10to us and in our community, that's why a lot of us was f***ing child abuse.

06:14That's why a lot of us was f***ing dealing with f***ing that we thought was normal.

06:19Like I thought it was normal that if I said something, my mother said to get my a** whooped.

06:23That was normal.

06:24That's not normal.

06:25That's not normal.

06:26Like, and we became accustomed to it.

06:28But I think as a people, we're starting to go to the doctor more.

06:32Think of all the people, like have you ever heard of f***ing anybody growing up, like

06:36their parents were bipolar or their parents were suffering from mental health.

06:39Like you had to-

06:40See, my mom, you know, my book, I just, I just did crazy.

06:44Crazy.

06:45Yeah.

06:46Like that's how it was just, they crazy.

06:47Crazy.

06:48Just like knew that it was going from day to night instantly.

06:51Had we had these diagnoses and there was medication, like people might have had different

06:56childhoods.

06:57Different childhoods.

06:58Yeah, that's f***ing.

06:59You know what's so crazy?

07:00They be out here talking about women versus men in hip hop when you got the gunners and

07:06six nines getting out while all their homies locked up and you and Kim went to prison.

07:09They locked us up.

07:11Y'all the real G's.

07:12Nah, that was whack.

07:13I ain't like that s***.

07:15I was talking to God many and that's like, really?

07:18Eight?

07:19Eight?

07:20I promise you, like I just, what I don't like about the judicial system, like s*** is mad

07:26random.

07:27Like they really could just be like, we're not s***ing like, yeah, they're facing 5 to

07:2925.

07:30That is a big s***ing range for somebody to just play around in.

07:34I may have options.

07:35You can have options.

07:36Like 5 to 25?

07:37They're like, what?

07:38So you could just be like, uh, 18.

07:41No, you can.

07:42No, no.

07:43Seven.

07:44No, no.

07:45That's a big difference.

07:46Let me tell you how you, how you can make sure that that's not a problem.

07:48You go and say, being a part of the YSL gang.

07:52I mean, it clearly worked for some people anyway.

07:59That's crazy.

08:01Well, I don't know.

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