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Baylen Out Loud - Season 2 Episode 06- She's Gonna Lose Her Mind
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00:00Tonight, bitch!
00:01Sorry, you're not.
00:03You're not.
00:04I know the wedding's their thing,
00:07but hopefully she incorporates Sammy and me.
00:12I'm aware of almost no plans for the wedding.
00:15The doors have not been opened for me yet.
00:19If you're gonna have an outdoor wedding,
00:21you can have it in my yard.
00:23And if she needed an emotional break
00:24due to overstimulation, tics,
00:28she could have her emotional break in the house.
00:31Baylin has really been working really hard
00:34to be more independent.
00:36Having this wedding in her parents' backyard
00:38would be kind of like pushing her back into the fold.
00:42Yay! They're here.
00:44We're heading to Roanoke this weekend,
00:46and I'm excited to fill my family in
00:50on the non-existent wedding planning that's going on.
00:53We've went and seen a couple venues.
00:56Maybe you can check out some places around here
00:57on your way back.
00:59This is a private tour, right?
01:01Yeah.
01:02We are taking my mom's suggestion
01:04to look at a venue closer to Roanoke.
01:09Who is that?
01:10That's my mom and my sister.
01:12I asked them to join us.
01:15You didn't want to share any of that with me
01:17until they arrived?
01:18My mom has been dying
01:20to be a part of wedding planning,
01:22and the last person I want to hurt is my mom.
01:25I feel ambushed.
01:27I wanted to invite them
01:41because I don't know
01:43when we would have gotten a chance
01:44to include them in the wedding planning
01:45or anything like that, so.
01:48I feel caught off guard.
01:49We both decided
01:51we would involve our families
01:53in wedding planning
01:54after we pick a venue.
01:56So I think if my mom knew
01:58that Marlene and Colleen were here,
02:00she would feel left out.
02:02My mom drives a pussy Prius.
02:04Good afternoon, folks.
02:08Good afternoon.
02:08Hi.
02:08How are you?
02:10Baylen?
02:10Yes.
02:11Nice to meet you.
02:12Nice to meet you.
02:12Nice to meet you.
02:13I appreciate you guys coming out today.
02:16Where did you travel from?
02:18You OK?
02:18Yes.
02:19I have Tourette syndrome,
02:20which is an involuntary motor
02:22and vocal condition.
02:24I just want to make sure.
02:25Yes.
02:25I appreciate you.
02:26Thank you so much.
02:28I've never been around anybody with Tourette.
02:30I learned that I didn't know she had that
02:31until she brought it up.
02:33And obviously, there were some signs of that.
02:36So I just feel for her.
02:38I really do.
02:40Well, I appreciate you coming.
02:41And yeah, I'll show you around a little bit.
02:43Yeah.
02:44We're excited.
02:45Awesome.
02:47All right.
02:47Well, welcome.
02:51Oh, this is phenomenal.
02:54This is the Grand Hall.
03:03This is very grand.
03:12This place is crazy.
03:14This is pretty spot on.
03:16I'm glad you like it.
03:18During the reception,
03:19all these veranda doors were typically open.
03:21OK.
03:22So you have some people on the dance floor,
03:24some people on the veranda.
03:26This place is just very rustic.
03:28God damn!
03:29It's very rustic.
03:30It feels like homey and relaxing.
03:33Yeah.
03:33And the fact that you can, like, open the doors
03:35makes it indoor, outdoor space.
03:38And with my tics,
03:39I don't feel like I'm holding anything in
03:41or anything echoing.
03:44I'm obsessed.
03:45This setup works really well
03:46for a rain plan, too.
03:47Most of the ceremonies are out here
03:49where I'll show you in a few minutes.
03:51But if it were to rain,
03:52we set up rows of chairs down.
03:55Still provides a nice backdrop if it rains.
03:57Have you guys ever had alpacas?
03:59No.
03:59OK.
04:01I'm sure we could work something out on that.
04:03OK.
04:04We had an Indian wedding up here
04:05a few years ago
04:06where they brought a white stallion up.
04:08Oh, there you go.
04:09Don't look at me.
04:10Colin could ride up the driveway.
04:12You were speaking fairly.
04:13That's his dream.
04:14That's what he wants to do.
04:16He's like, let's get wedding pictures on a horse.
04:18A white stallion.
04:19There you go.
04:20I'm like, I could do a horse in carriage.
04:22OK.
04:23I'll drive the horse
04:24and then you can be in the carriage.
04:25Fine.
04:26I'm going to get that thing going.
04:29You have 911 on speed dial.
04:31No, literally.
04:33That's a bonus.
04:34You want to see where the ceremonies take place?
04:35Please.
04:36Yeah, let's go.
04:37Let's go.
04:39OK.
04:40This opens up to the ceremony site.
04:43Oh, my God.
04:45Look at that view.
04:47This is crazy.
04:49This is insane.
04:50Wow.
04:50This is my dream.
04:51To have that kind of a backdrop behind us, I mean, that's gorgeous.
04:55That's all I've been talking about.
04:56That's all I wanted.
04:58King Julian.
05:00Are there any places on site where outside guests could stay, like grandparents or people
05:04from out of town, Dick?
05:05Yeah, well, we have one four-
05:07Joe Biden.
05:08We have one four-bedroom cottage right up here on site.
05:13But most of the guests would definitely stay in Lexington.
05:16OK.
05:16So we're about 14 miles from, like, the heart of Lexington.
05:21OK.
05:22For a place that we didn't really know much about, and we kind of just booked a tour last
05:26minute, this venue checks a lot of the boxes that we have.
05:31It's really accommodating towards my family specifically just because it's a lot closer
05:37to them, and they also have a cottage on the grounds that my older grandparents can stay
05:43in.
05:44But all of our guests wouldn't be able to, like, stay on the property, like the last
05:49venue that we saw.
05:50What's y'all's availability looking like from, like, spring to summertime?
05:54I think we have, like, two dates left.
05:57The quicker you can book something, the better.
05:59We need to get on that.
06:01I appreciate you guys making the trip out here.
06:04Appreciate it.
06:04Of course.
06:05It's about starting.
06:06Thanks, guys.
06:06I'll walk back down with you.
06:07All right.
06:08I think I'm able to picture Colin as a groom.
06:13I'm also very excited to see Colin as a groom.
06:15He's going to make me cry.
06:19I'm going to cry my eyes out the day of the wedding, but I'm very excited to see him as
06:24a groom.
06:24Sorry.
06:29Y'all be safe going back, OK?
06:30I love you.
06:31I thought you guys liked it.
06:33Y'all be safe.
06:33Oh, I did.
06:34Y'all got some things to think about.
06:35Yes, for sure.
06:37All right.
06:37All right.
06:38Bye, guys.
06:38Bye, guys.
06:39Bye.
06:40See ya.
06:42It's starting to rain.
06:44We're leaving just in time.
06:45What did you think of the venue?
06:50It was really nice.
06:52Mm-hmm.
06:53I can just picture everything there.
06:57Like, me actually walking down an aisle there.
07:01Like, maybe not you on a horse.
07:04Like, I just don't know, like, what is up with that.
07:06I'm not getting on.
07:07Maybe that's something that we can work on.
07:08Oh, my God.
07:10Can you imagine the story that we could tell our kids?
07:14I'm not saving money for our wedding budget for there to be a horse.
07:18Your mom's a dirty, fat, filthy horse.
07:20What if he can find a good deal on a horse?
07:25There's still one rat.
07:27The one you got a good deal on probably has a discount for a reason.
07:31It has a discount for a reason.
07:33I'm telling you right now, it's going to be a donkey.
07:34So, it sounded like he has really only two available weekends.
07:42Whenever we get back the numbers from these places,
07:45we're really going to have to sit down and make a decision.
07:49If budget is the number one factor,
07:51then the wedding should be in my parents' backyard.
07:54It's affordable.
07:56I'm sure that if we told him tomorrow,
07:58my dad would plan everything out to a T.
08:00He would make everything for us.
08:02I mean, it would be really easy to accommodate
08:04everybody there.
08:06Me, personally, I don't really want to have
08:11your dad's backyard as an option.
08:16We're trying to build a life together.
08:20Yes, but that has nothing to do with my parents' backyard.
08:23Yes, it does.
08:24We're trying to make decisions on our own.
08:29And the decisions that we make
08:31may not align with your parents' or my parents' vision.
08:37And that's okay, because it's our life.
08:44Having the wedding in Alan's backyard would save us a lot of money.
08:47But I want us to focus on building a life together
08:50without Balen's parents influencing or questioning every decision we make.
08:56But Alan's not going to back off unless Balen says something.
09:02I know you don't like confrontation,
09:04but I do think that it's a conversation that you should have with your father.
09:11I just don't know if it'll break his heart or hurt his feelings if I tell him.
09:21And I just don't really want to find out.
09:27Her father's having a lot of influence on our lives right now.
09:33I've asked Balen to have a conversation with her father.
09:36So, you don't want Balen to go communicate for you every time there's a concern.
09:43How do you feel about having a conversation with Alan?
09:58I miss you guys so much!
10:03The next time we go to Roanoke, they're coming with us.
10:06Okay.
10:06We got back from Roanoke last night.
10:09I really loved the venue we saw yesterday.
10:12However, I'm not telling my family about it
10:14because I know my mom probably won't be too happy
10:17because of Colin's family being there.
10:20And because I know my dad is really insistent
10:23on having the wedding in the backyard.
10:27It's my mommy.
10:29She's calling.
10:31Hey, mom.
10:32Hi.
10:33Hey, bae.
10:34What up?
10:34So, your dad and I had, like, this little idea.
10:39Oh, you guys always have little ideas.
10:41The last little idea you had, we had therapy.
10:43Yeah, I think this one's better than therapy.
10:45Your mom and I want to celebrate your engagement and was hoping that you guys would be open to maybe come to the house,
10:54bring in some of your buddies, and have a big party.
10:57What do you think?
10:57Like an engagement party?
10:59Absolutely.
11:00Oh, my God.
11:01That would be so sweet.
11:04Surprise, surprise.
11:06We want to hold the engagement party because what better way to get involved in the wedding planning?
11:13And hopefully they see that we can pull things together when needed.
11:17So, where is this party going to be?
11:20We're in the backyard.
11:22It's pretty amazing for Alan and Julie to offer their backyard for an engagement party.
11:27But also, at the same time, like, this is definitely Alan's way of saying, hey, the backyard could definitely be a wedding spot for you guys.
11:35Baylin really loved the venue that we saw yesterday.
11:38So, I just don't want her to feel like she's being pushed in a certain direction.
11:42You would do all the inviting of your friends.
11:45We'll give you the time and the date for this weekend.
11:48Hopefully that gives people enough time.
11:50Is Sammy going to be there?
11:52Yeah, she's promised to fly out.
11:54Obviously, you know, she hates to fly, but she's been a little better lately, so.
11:58That sounds promising.
12:00Yeah.
12:00We're definitely excited for this, so.
12:03Thank you guys so much for putting this together.
12:06Yeah, thank you guys.
12:07I'm excited.
12:09I love you.
12:10Okay, I love you.
12:10I love you.
12:11Bye.
12:11Bye.
12:12Okay, bye.
12:13I'm pretty excited for the engagement party.
12:16It's thoughtful that they want to do something for us, but do you think that your parents throwing this kind of a party, they have some kind of ulterior motive behind it?
12:29Why do you think my dad has ulterior motives?
12:32I mean, your dad really does want us to have our wedding there.
12:38That's what I think.
12:38But regardless of their motives, I do think that you still need to be able to have that conversation with your dad regarding the boundaries in our relationship.
12:51I don't want to have that conversation.
12:54I understand where Colin's coming from, but my parents have been there through the ups and the downs of my tics and my condition, and they not only are my parents, but they're my best friends.
13:07So, I know Colin sees it as my dad overstepping in our relationship, but I don't really want to talk to my dad.
13:14Velen sounded so excited for the engagement party.
13:28Yeah. Listen, I'm going to the rental place tomorrow, and I'm ordering a tent and generators with lights and tables with the chairs, games, like the cornhole and things like that.
13:42It sounds fun. It sounds a little overboard and extra for an engagement party, but it sounds fun.
13:47You're lucky I'm not coming home with a bulldozer.
13:49Okay. It's a little much. It's a little much, but that aligns perfectly with who Al is. Not so much me. I would be like, all right, let's dump off some pizzas, throw in a couple tables. Al's like, no, this is how it's going to roll.
14:08I'll help you do it.
14:12Yeah, I'm going to call the rental company tomorrow. You won't have to do hardly anything. Just be there and enjoy the whole thing.
14:20I'm going downstairs to get this stuff ready. I'm going to make sure I got everything. Okay.
14:25It'll be fun.
14:27Oh, this is going to be epic.
14:28You got this, Al.
14:38Both hands on the wheel, 10-2, bitch.
14:44Are you excited to go to therapy?
14:46Yeah, I'm excited.
14:47You sound excited. You sound really excited.
14:51We're headed to couples counseling.
14:53The last time, it was pretty intense, so I'm a little bit nervous to see what's going to come up today, especially with the engagement party right around the corner.
15:02Till that do us part.
15:03Nah, bitch.
15:06Did you invite your family to the party?
15:08Yeah, they're coming. It's just a long drive for them, as you know.
15:12But I do think that that is, like, the perfect time to maybe tell everybody what...
15:18That you suck George Washington's...
15:20Tell everybody what venue we chose.
15:26Once we decide what it is, we can just tell everybody there.
15:30It does add a little bit of pressure.
15:32But if there's no deadline, I mean, we could be doing this for the next six months to another year of debating back and forth between venues.
15:41I think...
15:42I think you sucked Joe Biden's...
15:46I thought it was George Washington.
15:50You're changing up presidents on me.
15:54All right, we're here.
15:55I like the hand action.
16:01Can we sway them, too?
16:01No.
16:02Okay.
16:05Hello.
16:06Hi.
16:08It's so good to see you again.
16:10It's nice to have you been.
16:12Lovely.
16:12How are you?
16:13Good.
16:14Hey, Colin.
16:15How are you?
16:15Good.
16:16How are you?
16:16Good to see you again.
16:17How have you two been since the last time you were here?
16:22Lovely.
16:23I've been good.
16:24Yeah.
16:24I have been opening up a lot more about just things that overwhelm me or stress me out.
16:29And it's almost just like nice to be able to like talk about it.
16:33Ho, ho, ho your ass out the door, bitch.
16:37Berkey turkey beat jerky head ass.
16:41That tick came from forever ago where I would make fun of my brother, Berk, by calling him that.
16:47Berkey turkey, beef jerky head ass.
16:49Banana whoop your ass.
16:50Buddy your own biscuit, you fat ass.
16:53Um, how's the wedding coming along?
16:55Wedding planning.
16:56We have seen a lot of venues.
17:00We have a lot of good options.
17:02My dad offered my back, my parents' backyard as a wedding venue.
17:07Okay.
17:09And that's where it stands.
17:11Yeah?
17:11Okay.
17:12It's just...
17:14It came from a good place.
17:17I think they're still, just in their own way, still trying to figure out how to let you go.
17:26Hmm.
17:27Do your parents trust the two of you?
17:33You don't think so?
17:36Hmm.
17:37I don't think they 100% trust us.
17:41And what?
17:41Just making, like, big decisions, like, whether it's the venues, or what career I want to go into, or healthcare, or taking care of Baelin.
17:57Mm-hmm.
17:57Their father's having a lot of influence on our lives right now.
18:06There's a lot of pressures that I'm feeling.
18:09So I asked Baelin to have a conversation with her father about allowing us to be able to have the freedom to be able to make whatever choice.
18:20And she does not want to have that conversation.
18:26Okay.
18:29Colin keeps bringing it up.
18:31I just don't like the situation with it feeling like it's Colin versus my family.
18:37My parents will always be my parents, so what else do I do?
18:41Like, I see both sides, I understand both sides, but I just don't want to be in the middle.
18:46So, one of the things that I'm picking up on is that you are feeling the pressure.
18:53Yeah.
18:53And so Baelin is the closest to her parents, and she's your fiancé, therefore it makes sense that you would want her support in having this conversation with them.
19:02I wonder what type of relationship you want with them.
19:09You don't want Baelin to go communicate for you every time there's a concern, right?
19:17Yeah.
19:18So, how do you feel about having a conversation with Alan?
19:22This is your future father-in-law, and right now you're...
19:37Alan's bald, and Chuck is bald, and Marlene's a dirty, fat, filthy, horny whore.
19:43And Alan's going to be your future father-in-law.
19:46Uh, I've had a lot of conversations with Alan in the past.
19:53Nothing better happen to my kid.
19:55If she's over there on your watch and something happens to her, I will find you.
20:00I would like to have both of your blessings to have your daughter's hand in marriage.
20:04I don't really have an answer.
20:07Um, I don't know.
20:13It's really important that Colin does have that honest, direct conversation with Alan.
20:19If he continues to go through Baelin, there's a potential for miscommunication, lack of trust, and potentially even some more resentment.
20:32We can still both talk to him.
20:35If you want me to sit there with you.
20:36I am fine with us both going and talking to him.
20:44Maybe he will, like, bring down his guard a little bit more if you're there.
20:52I don't know when the conversation with my dad will happen, but...
20:56I'm a little nervous because I don't really know what he's going to say, don't really know how it's going to go.
21:01You can handle it.
21:04It just won't be...
21:06Comfortable.
21:07It won't be comfortable.
21:09It won't be.
21:13All righty.
21:14So we'll see you guys next time, and then we'll check in, see how things have gone.
21:21Take care.
21:22It's margarita time.
21:44Colin went out golfing tonight, but my sister just got here for the engagement party, and her and my mom are heading over to have drinks.
21:51I don't know much of the party plans for this weekend.
21:53However, what I do know is that this will be a great distraction from the conversation Colin wants me to have with my dad.
22:02And Sammy's definitely going to need a drink after flying with her OCD and her anxiety.
22:08And she just turned 21, so...
22:10Shot, shot!
22:11Sorry.
22:14Coming.
22:16Who the heck is here?
22:17Who the heck is here?
22:18Get me!
22:19Hi!
22:19Your favorite people have arrived in!
22:22Hi, everybody.
22:23Hi, honey.
22:24I'm going to need a drink, too, because I'm going to have to tell them that Colleen and Marlene came to the wedding venue tour with us.
22:31Are you guys the bartender, so I, like, don't have to do anything?
22:33Nope.
22:33You don't have to do anything.
22:34We'll just hope it comes out fine.
22:36I'm just going to move that out of your way for a second.
22:39Oh, you just use this.
22:41God.
22:42All right.
22:42How was the travel here?
22:46It was just a flight.
22:48I had anxiety, and then I got on the flight, landed, and now I'm here.
22:51She's minimizing it.
22:52So you didn't fly the plane.
22:53She's minimizing.
22:54You know I don't like to talk about my flights after I...
22:57I have to wait like...
22:58You're like, I've made it.
22:58I'm done.
22:59I have to wait like a week.
23:00I mean, I'm glad you're here, and you made it safe.
23:02Me too.
23:03Both feet on the ground.
23:05Yeah.
23:06I always hate flying with my anxiety, but I would never miss Balen's engagement party, even though my parents threw it together last minute.
23:12Time that we spend together right now is so very meaningful because Balen's life is really going to change with getting married and whatever else comes after that.
23:22This isn't going to happen as frequently.
23:24It's going to be few and far between, so we have to take all the moments while we have them.
23:28Balenia!
23:30All right.
23:31We're just going to keep...
23:33Okay, do you guys want these ones?
23:34She's already been drinking.
23:36Ooh, big old titties.
23:37All right.
23:37Okay.
23:39How's Balen as a bartender?
23:41Oh, she's going on.
23:42You know, if she turned the thing around for Tiff, I'd...
23:44No.
23:45Like, you know.
23:47Okay, sorry.
23:47Cheers to being 21, dick.
23:52No, absolutely not.
23:54Okay, you don't have to.
23:55I eat this.
23:56I just don't like tequila.
23:58Oh, I'm trying not to judge you, but I'm kind of judging you.
24:01Our goal for the wedding is to help Balen expand her alcohol palate.
24:06Yeah.
24:08So, on a scale of one to time, what's our excitement for the engagement party?
24:12How is the backyard looking?
24:14Your dad has spent more time on the mower.
24:17I'm like, I met him in the driveway the other day.
24:19I was like, you actually missed a blade of grass?
24:22And I think you should go back out there with the scissors.
24:25It might be overkill.
24:26It's okay.
24:28Al's vision seems to be coming together.
24:30It's with the high hopes for Colin and Balen to flip a switch and go, oh, we definitely want our wedding here.
24:38So, I guess we're just going to see how it turns out.
24:42So, how was your trip to Roanoke that we haven't had a chance to chit-chat about?
24:48It was good.
24:49We had a really good barbecue.
24:50It was really, really nice.
24:52With, like, all his family or whatever?
24:53Cray cooked the best barbecue chicken.
24:55What did you eat?
24:56He made, like, homemade brownies with sprinkles on top.
25:00That's right up around.
25:01A barbecue chicken.
25:03And then we went and saw a wedding venue that we decided last minute to see.
25:13Kind of, like, close to them?
25:14Yeah.
25:15Okay.
25:16It's a good distance.
25:17I couldn't.
25:18So, we looked at that and they ended up coming.
25:20They surprised me there by coming.
25:22What do you mean that they, like, surprised you at the venue?
25:28Like, you didn't invite them?
25:30They just showed up.
25:30Like, they showed up.
25:31I turned around and they were right there.
25:32Did Colin invite them?
25:33Colin invited them.
25:36This is one of her biggest moments in life.
25:39And as the mother of the bride, I still haven't even been able to see any venues.
25:44I wish my parents were a little bit more involved because I feel like Colin inviting his family
25:49to the wedding venue that they toured stripped them of it a little bit, of experiencing that
25:53with their daughter.
25:58It was really nice.
26:01So, truly, how close do you think the two of you are to coming to a decision on the venue?
26:08We're coming to a conclusion.
26:09Okay.
26:10All right, ladies.
26:11Well, cheers to, um, hopefully finding a wedding venue.
26:14Yep.
26:15Cheers to more of these girl dates and talking about future wedding plans after, after the
26:21venue is secured.
26:22Are you okay?
26:23Cheers.
26:23Ready?
26:24Sweet.
26:24Cheers to more planning.
26:29He's like a s***.
26:29Oh, that was not a good ending.
26:33That's okay.
26:34We have to really hurry up and pick up the red.
26:36Oh, my God.
26:37It's fine.
26:37Don't freak out.
26:37Slide it into the thing.
26:38Okay, where's your towels?
26:40Yeah.
26:41Okay.
26:42I'm relieved that my mom knows now that Colin's sister and mom went on the tour.
26:46And moving forward, I would like to involve my family more.
26:50I mean, look how great they are at helping me clean up all my other messes.
26:53After I just cheers to more of these get-togethers.
26:56Let's do it.
26:58Yeah.
26:59Hi.
27:04Ah.
27:05Today's Van Collins engagement party, and it's looking pretty amazing.
27:10This is so beautiful.
27:12My dad is making this wedding venue decision really hard.
27:15We're making the right decision, right?
27:18I don't know, are we?
27:20Boys, let's go.
27:30Your dad needs help with the outdoor stuff, and it's going to go right in that area over
27:35there.
27:35Today's Van Collins engagement party, and it's looking pretty amazing.
27:41But what we've set up today is just the beginning.
27:45And if they want to have a wedding in the backyard, I would build 10 times better than this, to have these guys have an amazing day.
27:52Hey, y'all.
27:54Me-law!
27:55How are y'all?
27:56Hey, girlfriend.
27:57Okay, huggies.
27:58Oh, how are you?
28:00I'm so glad that you came to help.
28:01Thanks.
28:02Oh, yes.
28:02Okay, we're going to throw these over here for now.
28:05Is there a lot of people going to be here?
28:07Probably 50 or more.
28:08Today, I am mostly excited about the food table, mostly the desserts.
28:14That's where I'm going to be spending most of my time.
28:16The backyard definitely looks way better than I expected.
28:19There's a tent, food, tables, chairs, like literally everything.
28:25Kobe.
28:26Is there anything missing from this party?
28:28I would add a DJ, and then I would add maybe a surprise gift, like a car for one lucky brother.
28:37Like me?
28:37Like one who's like 17.
28:41Sammy's out getting the cake.
28:42So, oh my gosh, I appreciate you so much.
28:45Yeah, of course.
28:46It's just weird, because it's feeling very wedding-esque.
28:50I know.
28:50Are you so excited, though?
28:51Like, how do you feel about, like, all the planning and everything?
28:55I don't know.
28:56It's just odd still, because I haven't really contributed anything to her planning.
29:01So this feels like this is my opportunity to do something.
29:07Yeah.
29:08No, I'm excited to see what wedding venue she picks.
29:11Did you know that her father wants her to be here?
29:14Has she told you that?
29:15Oh, no, I didn't know that.
29:17Low-key, though?
29:19Yeah.
29:19I mean, it would be amazing.
29:20Like, that would be amazing.
29:21Maybe she'll see this and be like, okay, this is, this will work.
29:26Like, overwhelmed with trying to sell this backyard venue idea.
29:32I've come around to seeing the benefits of having the wedding here, and I can see the potential,
29:37especially how everything is coming together.
29:39But it's, like, exhausting at the same time.
29:42It's like, Al, like, when do we stop?
29:46These look good.
29:46I'm sending her inside.
29:47Oh, yeah, thank you.
29:48I like them, their engagement ring.
29:49I'm sending her inside to make some punch.
29:52It's kind of funny, actually, how hard we're trying.
29:55Well, that's all set up over there.
29:59Okay.
30:00Got it.
30:00What else do you have to do?
30:02This is literally it for me.
30:03Listen, this looks amazing.
30:04I got it.
30:05Those look really funny.
30:06I'm stressing.
30:07I got a surprise coming for Bayland.
30:10I got alpacas coming here.
30:12What alpacas?
30:13From the farm that we went through.
30:15Oh, that I can't.
30:16We're not running alpacas here today.
30:18They're coming right over here.
30:19Put them in the yard.
30:20I literally can't with you.
30:22No, I'm selling this whole outside venue.
30:24This whole thing.
30:24I'm going to be one of those event planners.
30:26I'm going to get a suit.
30:27Oh, the alpaca surprise is so next level.
30:31But I kind of wouldn't expect anything less from him.
30:35If he's going to do a surprise, he's going all in.
30:39I just can't believe he went that far in.
30:42I'm sorry.
30:44Everything looks so good.
30:46Yeah, this looks amazing.
30:47I'm going to go get dressed.
30:48And you have to get dressed, too, because you're dripping sweat.
30:51We missing anything?
30:52Yeah.
30:53Yeah, the alpacas, apparently, for the love.
30:56Ha!
30:57Hearts don't lie.
31:04And you scared my eyes.
31:09You ready?
31:11Yep.
31:11Hey, y'all.
31:12Hey.
31:13Can you clean up, Nas?
31:18Oh, they're here.
31:18They're here.
31:19They're here.
31:21Oh, my gosh.
31:22I am so excited.
31:23Today is our engagement party day.
31:25And we finally made the decision about our wedding venue.
31:29And we are going to tell all of our guests.
31:32Hi.
31:33Hi.
31:33Hi.
31:34We were good.
31:35Oh, my gosh.
31:37They kind of overdid themselves.
31:39What do you think?
31:41It's amazing.
31:43Oh, my God.
31:43Y'all got wood tables and everything?
31:45My initial reaction to everything being set up was,
31:49I got one.
31:51What?
31:52Alan really went, like, all out with this.
31:54It went full throttle.
31:55And it's amazing.
31:57Mm-hmm.
31:58What do you think, sweetheart?
31:59Oh, my God.
31:59You guys are amazing.
32:01Is that the alpaca bench that you made?
32:03Yeah.
32:04Come on.
32:05Find a spot in your apartment because it's going there.
32:09We wanted to have a tough conversation with my dad.
32:13Give your alpaca a kiss.
32:15Today is not the day.
32:17Not the day, not the time.
32:19This one's not going to spit in your face.
32:21One, two, three.
32:24I think that a conversation like that definitely needs to be had.
32:28But having it on a day like this would just ruin the moment.
32:33My mom's a swinger.
32:37It's okay.
32:38We were talking about these people we know that we think are swingers.
32:41And that was on the way here.
32:44This is so beautiful.
32:47It's so rustic.
32:49This is beginner level, Baelin.
32:50Oh, it's beautiful.
32:51For a wedding, this could be, like, advanced.
32:53You can see the look, though.
32:54You can see the look.
32:56No, it's so perfect.
32:57Yeah, it's so cute.
32:58My dad is making this wedding venue decision really hard.
33:04Everything that he did, he made absolutely beautiful and unforgettable.
33:09Like, spot on.
33:11Your dad really did go above and beyond for this.
33:15All out.
33:16It's amazing.
33:18I mean, it's amazing.
33:19Those and I are having a problem.
33:24Let's just switch sides.
33:25Well, I don't want you to smash the cookies either, so just keep a proper distance.
33:29Okay.
33:30Okay.
33:30Right here.
33:31Yep.
33:31Out of reach.
33:32Yep.
33:32Here we go.
33:34This is so perfect.
33:36I didn't think that it could look like this.
33:40Like, I...
33:41I didn't see the vision either.
33:43I didn't envision any of this.
33:45It makes me change my mind, and now I'm stressed.
33:52We're making the right decision, right?
33:58I don't know, are we?
33:59I mean, I could really picture the wedding back here.
34:05Could you?
34:06Yeah.
34:08Seeing how good the backyard looks makes me question if we're making the right decision.
34:14Like, just makes my heart happy.
34:16I was definitely feeling that set against it before.
34:20But now, Baylen's second-guessing the wedding venue choice, and I kind of am too.
34:26I don't know.
34:27I don't know.
34:28I don't know.
34:29I don't know.
34:44Are we really just flipping everything?
34:50All right.
34:51Well, we can talk about it later.
34:53After seeing this amazing engagement party set up, it can only make me wonder what they
34:59would do for the wedding.
34:59And it's making me a little nervous because we have to announce our wedding venue, and
35:06I'm second-guessing it.
35:09Oh, my family's here.
35:11Hello.
35:12Hi, everyone.
35:13Hey, mom.
35:14It's so nice to have both Collins and my friends and family get together and all of us just
35:20having dick for Thanksgiving.
35:23All of us having a good time.
35:25Hi.
35:25Hi.
35:25Hi.
35:25Hi, guys.
35:26Thanks for coming.
35:27Hey.
35:28Hi, guys.
35:29It's just a really special day.
35:31Four years ago, I would have never pictured myself here now.
35:35I've gone from needing my parents and living with them to being independent and growing.
35:47Having Colin in my life has made me the person I am today.
35:53I feel like we're doing vows right now.
35:58Damn.
35:58I feel like I'm so happy.
36:00Yeah, I feel like I'm so happy.
36:04We don't start to guide us alone because we become more real big together.
36:11We are that life that burns forever.
36:14Hi! You look beautiful.
36:16How are you?
36:18Great.
36:19It's been a few months since Olivia has visited from Tulsa.
36:22I'm glad she's here, but we do set each other's tics off.
36:25I've tried since I'm stupid.
36:27Same.
36:29So have you, like, found a wedding venue?
36:32Um, we've seen a lot of them, and it's just really hard.
36:38Yeah.
36:43So do you guys know anything about the venue?
36:46I know that you looked at one wedding.
36:48It is amazing.
36:51Mountains, 360 views, very private.
36:56I think it's a very hot contender.
36:59I do.
36:59Like, have they come over to you and said, like, hey, that's the one?
37:03No.
37:03Because I know that they've looked at a few.
37:06They haven't really said that this is the right one or not.
37:09Yeah.
37:09Like, really, they haven't?
37:11Mm-mm.
37:11No.
37:12No, they haven't, really.
37:13No, they have not said this is the one.
37:15Yeah.
37:16Hopefully they give us some clarity.
37:17I know.
37:17I hope so.
37:18So should.
37:18I hope so, too.
37:21them kids.
37:23Yep, yep.
37:27Aw.
37:28Sammy looks so good.
37:30Baby!
37:31Hi.
37:31You look so very gorgeous.
37:33I love you, but we got to put that down.
37:34Let's go walk it up.
37:35Okay.
37:35Oh, bitch.
37:37You're bald, Chuck.
37:38Just in case you weren't aware already.
37:40Yeah.
37:41Stay away from the gate.
37:42I know.
37:42I'm trying to stay away from everything.
37:44I'm excited.
37:45It's really cute.
37:46You like it?
37:47It's so cute.
37:47You could have a wedding out here now.
37:49Oh, good Lord.
37:50Thanks, Sammy.
37:52It's bottom barrel, but it's not bad.
37:55Well, from where I'm standing, the barrel looks pretty good.
37:58It looks pretty bad.
37:59I think it's great.
38:00It's a glimpse of what the wedding could be if they wanted the wedding here, but I think
38:04he did a great job.
38:07My surprise is here.
38:08Oh, my gosh.
38:09I'm going down the driveway.
38:13Perfect.
38:15Oh, hey, everybody.
38:18Holy s***.
38:19She's going to lose her mind.
38:21Hi, Scoob.
38:23Hi.
38:24When we were at an alpaca farm for Easter, Balen really, really bonded with one particular
38:32alpaca named Scooby.
38:34Yeah, Scooby just turned two.
38:37Good boy.
38:38Would I be able to particularly have Scooby at the wedding?
38:42If you want Scooby there, we'll make sure Scooby's at your wedding.
38:45So I really knew I had to get him here today.
38:48This is going to be absolutely amazing.
38:50You can't wait to see the look on her face.
38:52Oh, yeah.
38:59What?
39:01What?
39:04This is Scooby.
39:06Oh, my God.
39:07It's Scooby.
39:11Scooby.
39:12I love you.
39:16You look so good.
39:21Thanks for making my kids smile.
39:22Thank you so much.
39:23Thank you so much.
39:25You're so welcome, Balen.
39:26I love you and I wanted you to have you.
39:27This makes my entire f***ing day.
39:29It was just really thoughtful.
39:32I feel like my dad knows just how much alpacas calm me down and help my anxiety.
39:38Honestly, what a great day.
39:40I really don't like surprises, but this was the best surprise I've ever had.
39:43It was pretty amazing.
39:44It was pretty amazing.
39:46Her face is like ingrained like I'll never forget it.
39:50This is the happiest I've seen Balen in a while, you know, because we see a lot of ups and downs.
39:59So just to see this one moment of, like, authentic, pure joy, it's amazing.
40:08It means everything to me to make Balen happy.
40:16And I'm pretty sure Balen understands just the distance that her dad will go to make her happy.
40:23Alan's bald.
40:28We have to make a decision on the venue.
40:32We still have a really big decision to make today.
40:35Like, the clock is ticking.
40:37Dick, dick, dick, dick, dick, dick, dick, dick, dick, dick, dick, dick, dick, dick, dick.
40:41Are we on the same page?
40:46Take a f*** up the ass.
40:48I think we are.
40:49Come on.
40:50In this moment, I am extremely overwhelmed and anxious, um, and Colin will be doing all the talking.
40:59Suck a f***.
41:00Suck a f***.
41:01Can you go right here?
41:02Yeah.
41:02All right.
41:03Hey, everybody.
41:04Can we get you guys to come over here?
41:06We just have, uh, an announcement and everything.
41:09Oh, boy.
41:10What do they have to tell us?
41:11It's a boy.
41:12No, I'm just kidding.
41:15Chuck is bald.
41:17Alan is bald.
41:18Jamie does crystal meth with Joe Biden.
41:23Okay, keep talking.
41:24I'm just...
41:25So we just wanted to thank everybody for coming out here.
41:28Friends, family.
41:29Like, this means a lot to us.
41:31We wanted to give a big shout out to Julie and Alan for hosting an event like this.
41:35F*** all you people.
41:35It means a lot.
41:36F*** you.
41:36You guys did an amazing job.
41:38I sister sucks f*** for a living.
41:39So thank you guys.
41:40God.
41:41Just throw that one out there.
41:43Poor Colin.
41:44Can't make it through a sentence.
41:45So in the quest for a wedding venue, it has been our number one priority to find something
41:52that Balin feels comfortable with.
41:55And that in and of itself has been pretty eventful, trying to find the right one that checks all
42:01of the boxes.
42:02It's been a really, really hard decision because of all the great options that we have.
42:07With that being said, where we will be having our wedding will be at...
42:15Miss it, b***h.
42:33Oh.
42:34In all Nantucket, they all wankers.
42:38Nantucket.
42:39You forgot your dildo in the airport.
42:41I'm on the struggle bus with the dildo tip.
42:44I mean, you're thinking about getting the real estate?
42:46Yeah, I am.
42:47As a realtor, you're an independent contractor.
42:49And so healthcare can be challenging.
42:51I don't care who it upsets.
42:53I'm going to do what's best for me and what I think is best for the both of us.
42:57If this doesn't work out, what are you going to do?
43:01It's getting harder for Sammy to come here with her anxiety and her thoughts.
43:06So this just adds to it.
43:10I really wish that Sammy could be here.
43:12Wedding planning can be a little scary.
43:16We've gone back and we've crunched the numbers.
43:18We're going to need them to kind of like come back down to earth.
43:22I want us to have kids sooner than later.
43:25You're throwing me for another loop.
43:27If you can't take care of you, then you can't take care of a child.
43:32You remember the link I sent you on the device?
43:35Yes, the new Pulse.
43:37So this device that sits on your hand like a watch could cut her tics almost in half.
43:42I would love to try this device.
43:45It's not available here.
43:46If you did want to try it, you'd have to go to the UK, I'm afraid.
43:51Well, Dwayne is.
43:53Good day, day, Governor.
43:53Hello, London.
43:58Okay, here we go.
43:59Next stop, Piccadilly Circus.
44:01Pick a dick, bitch.
44:03Spotted dick.
44:05Dick.
44:06There's a guy over there in the corner laughing at me.
44:08This device would make situations like today a lot less stressful.
44:14Are you ready to try the device, Bailey?
44:15This could change everything.
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