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00:00Thank you for being willing to trust me.
00:03I'm just angry and tired.
00:04There are reasons why you are angry,
00:07and that's what we're looking for.
00:09You have to make a lot of money on this property,
00:10the one that you're going to put me on the listing for.
00:12I can already promise Chris.
00:14So you're just going to have to add another agent.
00:17Hello.
00:18How you doing, Miss Destiny?
00:20Beautiful.
00:21Well, thank you.
00:23Hello.
00:25Hey, how y'all doing?
00:27Destiny is walking in here with Will
00:29after a conversation we just had about Twan.
00:31So this is very surprising to me.
00:35Now, you said, keep my name out your mouth,
00:38trying to make your problem.
00:39I said why I said it.
00:40You don't have to yell at us, though.
00:42I'm doing what everyone else is doing, OK?
00:44You're asking me.
00:45What do y'all think y'all doing here?
00:48Gang up on me?
00:48Go ahead.
00:49I dump your ass in that pool you keep hollering at me.
00:51You won't dump me, no, my .
00:53You won't dump me, no, my .
00:55Keep hollering at me.
00:56Keep hollering at me.
00:57I should not have said, I will dunk you in the pool
01:00if you keep hollering at me.
01:01And I apologize for that.
01:03I accept Kim as apology, but it really hurt.
01:06That hurt me.
01:07And if I yelled at you, I apologize to you.
01:12We keep it moving all day, all night, yeah.
01:17Ain't no stopping us, drop that.
01:19We ain't stopping.
01:21You know, you know, we keep it moving all day, all night, yeah.
01:34All day, all night, yeah.
01:36Ain't no stopping us, yeah.
01:38All day, all night, yeah.
01:39Ain't no stopping us, yeah.
01:42Yeah.
02:00I'm going to go.
02:14Girl!
02:14Hey, Chris!
02:16So I invited Tisha to the house so we could catch up.
02:19And I can just check her temperature on everything
02:21because the last couple of meetups have been a disaster.
02:25Chris, you're welcome!
02:26Yes!
02:26You're welcome, baby!
02:28Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, just walk, just walk, just walk.
02:31So, Nell, why did you guys leave L.A. early?
02:36That's none of your business.
02:38I don't owe you anything.
02:40It's so quiet in here.
02:41Where everybody at?
02:42Where's Ken?
02:43Getting Zari back and forth to dance.
02:45Oh, he don't know the day.
02:46We be all over the place, girl.
02:47Good.
02:48I'm happy to hear y'all still a teen.
02:50I was kind of concerned a little bit.
02:51Yeah.
02:52We're still working through it because, when I tell you,
02:54it has been arguments after arguments.
02:56Have y'all seeked, like, outside help to help, like,
03:00communicate better?
03:00I have.
03:00So, I'm going to dance.
03:03That's good.
03:04So, you're going by yourself.
03:06I'm going by myself for now.
03:07Okay.
03:08Because I do feel like I need to work on me.
03:10Because it's like, I bottled up a lot of anger,
03:13life anger issues, and then I blow up.
03:16Okay.
03:17I don't just blow up on family.
03:19It's like, whoever comes into contact with me
03:21that presses the smallest button
03:24sends me over the edge.
03:25And I don't even know why.
03:27So, has the therapist been helping you to, like,
03:29try to zoom in and see what is causing that problem?
03:33We're working on it.
03:34Because that's going to be better for you,
03:35not only your relationship with Ken,
03:37with your kids, with your friends,
03:39with everybody around you.
03:40Everybody.
03:40I do.
03:41Even with yourself.
03:42I agree.
03:42I think what this taught Ken and I,
03:45especially for me,
03:46is that we have to love each other in every season.
03:50Because you're going to have your seasons in life.
03:51Because we're going to have seasons.
03:53Oh, we're going to have them.
03:53Yep.
03:54But it's either we're going to,
03:56hey, let the weather take us down through there,
03:58or we're going to get through it.
04:00I have hope for y'all.
04:02As a black community,
04:03we've always, like,
04:05strayed away from going to therapy.
04:07It's like, we'll pray about it,
04:08and then we try to resolve things of our own.
04:10So I think it's a good thing
04:12that Trish is going out
04:14to seek the help that she needs
04:16from a therapist
04:17who can really give her the tools
04:19to do better and be better in life.
04:21I'm just happy that you're getting the help.
04:23I think you're going to,
04:23next year, next year,
04:25we're going to see a whole different Trish.
04:26I feel like I have to for myself,
04:29for the kids, for family,
04:31just for life in general.
04:32Speaking of family,
04:34that's what I want to come over here
04:35to talk to you about.
04:36I'm going to take a little mini trip
04:38to, um, to my hometown,
04:40to Bessemer.
04:41So I can see my mama
04:42in her food truck.
04:44So I wanted to know
04:45if you'll be able to come along with us.
04:47It's going to be this coming up weekend.
04:50Why are you looking like that?
04:52Because we'll be in Miami
04:53for Xavier's birthday.
04:54Aw, really?
04:58Dang.
04:59I hate you can't make it.
05:01I know.
05:02Dang.
05:03Trish?
05:04I really wanted Trish
05:05to experience Bessemer.
05:06But hey, I understand mom life,
05:08mom business comes first.
05:10So she's just going to have
05:12to miss out on this one.
05:13So, you know,
05:14I haven't had a chance
05:15to talk to you
05:17since, um,
05:19we left Nell's little thing.
05:21Girl, you were so out of it
05:22at that time.
05:23I was!
05:24Mm-hmm.
05:24So at first,
05:25I thought it was fun.
05:27But then,
05:28we went outside
05:29to have a conversation with Nell.
05:31I felt like I was handling
05:33the conversation well.
05:35I was, like,
05:35in my calm voice.
05:37I thought you did great.
05:38Thank you!
05:38Because I was irritated
05:40when I,
05:41when people voice started
05:42elevated like that
05:43and I'm already in a moment,
05:44I'm like, yeah, mom.
05:44You was like,
05:45I'm over it.
05:46Yep.
05:51I said,
05:52Letitia Scott,
05:53we're about our own business.
05:55I'm just loud.
05:58I need to tone my voice.
05:59I mean, were you screaming
06:00at somebody or something?
06:01I didn't think I was.
06:03I started out very calm.
06:04They kept going,
06:06well,
06:06how are we going to resolve this?
06:08Do you have a problem?
06:08Do you have a problem?
06:09And I'm like,
06:09I don't have a problem.
06:11And then Destiny said,
06:12well,
06:12Who's saying this?
06:13Kimmy.
06:14Okay.
06:14Um,
06:15and then Destiny.
06:16Everyone's saying something
06:17at this point.
06:18And I'm like,
06:19I'm good.
06:19So two on this side
06:20got the gas
06:21and the other two
06:21on this side got the light.
06:23Yeah.
06:23And that's,
06:24and that's the same thing
06:25like Kimmy was saying.
06:26Kimmy was like,
06:26you just can't be yelling at me.
06:27That's the problem.
06:28Yeah.
06:28I'm happy to hear
06:29that it just wasn't me.
06:30She must be.
06:31She was just on 20
06:32and I'm like,
06:32what is wrong with you?
06:34And Kimmy says,
06:35don't you yell at me.
06:37Well,
06:38what do you think
06:39you doing right now?
06:40But y'all apologize
06:41and hugged it out, right?
06:43I'm cordial.
06:44I can apologize.
06:45Kimmy's apology,
06:46it was a public apology.
06:48So I did accept it.
06:49Normally,
06:50I don't do that.
06:51It normally takes
06:52more time than that.
06:53So I still have my guard up.
06:55Most definitely
06:55keeping my eye on these ladies.
06:57No, I think what happened
06:58was the whole issue
07:01about her grandbaby.
07:02You know,
07:03we did some stuff in LA
07:04and she said
07:05that she had to leave early.
07:06I thought she said
07:07because of the delivery
07:08of the baby.
07:09He had got a call
07:10saying he needed to get back.
07:12He had a baby
07:13on the way in labor.
07:14I saw that
07:15on social media.
07:16Me too.
07:17We all did.
07:18Kimmy,
07:18was you a part
07:18of that conversation
07:19when she said
07:19the reason they had
07:20to leave LA early
07:21was something dealing
07:21with the grandbaby?
07:23I felt like you said
07:24it did have something
07:25to do with you.
07:26You had to come back home
07:27for the situation.
07:28I did not tell you that.
07:31I feel like
07:32she wasn't supposed
07:33to talk about the baby.
07:34Yeah, so if you didn't say it,
07:35then how does Tisha know?
07:37Somebody had to voice it.
07:38How would I know?
07:39It didn't come out
07:39in the air.
07:40How would I know?
07:41I know all this
07:42went on with you
07:43and Kimmy.
07:44Where did it leave
07:46you and Leticia?
07:47Nowhere.
07:49She ain't talking to me
07:50and I ain't talking to her.
07:51And that's the problem
07:52with this group of ladies
07:54that I have.
07:55It's always something,
07:57but it's always pointed
07:58at me.
08:00Why am I defending myself,
08:02my family,
08:03and especially
08:04my granddaughter?
08:05I'm not gonna keep
08:06talking about
08:07my granddaughter.
08:08I mean it.
08:09Like, I felt like
08:10she was on 20
08:11for no reason.
08:12Sometimes you can say things
08:14that kind of like
08:14push your foot in your mouth.
08:16So I believe
08:16that she said stuff
08:18and then she's like,
08:19oh, I wasn't supposed
08:20to say that.
08:20And she tried to like
08:21backtrack.
08:22But you already
08:22put it out there.
08:23So it's too late.
08:23That's what I said.
08:24Sometimes you get angry,
08:26you start saying stuff,
08:26and you don't pay attention
08:27to what you're saying.
08:28Mm-hmm.
08:29And then you start
08:29telling yourself.
08:30Mm-hmm.
08:31And she said
08:32she was a life coach.
08:34She needs some help.
08:35Lady needs some help.
08:36I think with myself
08:37saying Dr. Francis,
08:38it has definitely helped
08:39a lot with my anger issues
08:41or why I get angry.
08:43And I think Nell
08:43could definitely
08:44benefit from it
08:45because we have
08:46a lot of similarities
08:47on anger issues.
08:48So y'all haven't spoken
08:49to each other since?
08:51No, I didn't have
08:51said to her.
08:52She told me to keep
08:53her out of my mouth
08:54and I'm going to say
08:55do exactly
08:56what she asked me to do.
08:57She's not the type of person
08:58I would like want
08:59to like hang out with,
09:00be around,
09:01being associated with
09:02at all.
09:05Coming up
09:06on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
09:08When Kenny comes
09:10into the picture
09:10and the kids are saying
09:11there's a breath
09:12of fresh air,
09:13let me gravitate
09:14towards the fresh air,
09:15you're saying,
09:15wait, wait a minute,
09:16whoa, whoa, whoa.
09:17Whoa, what about me?
09:19I've had you all this time.
09:20He's the new kid
09:21on the block.
09:21I was jealous
09:22when he came along
09:23and they started asking him
09:24instead of me.
09:25It kind of made me feel
09:26something like a boy.
09:27Wanda!
09:28Miss Wanda!
09:29Hey!
09:31Come on, girl!
09:32Yeah!
09:33You got your truck!
09:34The hose came from
09:36high spiel!
09:36Yeah!
09:38We got involved, baby,
09:41but we should have walked.
09:43Now it's going on,
09:44so keep it on the low.
09:48We got involved, baby,
09:50but we should have walked.
09:52Now it's going on,
09:53so keep it on the low.
09:59Well, well.
10:02Well, hi.
10:03How are you?
10:05Meet again.
10:05You meet again.
10:06Feel good to see you.
10:07Please, go right ahead
10:08and have your seat.
10:11Listen.
10:12Listen, sit down
10:12anywhere you want to sit.
10:13Let's get a little fancy here.
10:14Just sit right there.
10:15Just be comfortable, okay?
10:18So I'm here
10:19at my second session
10:20with Dr. Francis.
10:21Yay, I am back.
10:22I know, right?
10:23I think I've made
10:24a lot of progress
10:25since the first time.
10:26I still have a lot
10:27of work to do,
10:28but I can already
10:29see that it's worth
10:30the struggle.
10:31Last week,
10:32we did,
10:33we talked about
10:35your family as a whole.
10:38Yeah.
10:39And I'm trying
10:40to get to know
10:42about you.
10:44Are you ready for that?
10:45Yes.
10:47You know,
10:48I think that last session
10:50was pretty awesome.
10:52I actually went
10:53to visit my mom
10:53and dad's grave
10:54for the first time,
10:55and I cried.
10:58Yeah.
10:59Trish,
10:59that's growth.
11:02It was something.
11:07I'm taking the time
11:08right now
11:09to tell you,
11:10to validate you,
11:11to let you know
11:12that going to
11:14your parents' grave site
11:16was an amazing
11:17growth piece
11:18for you.
11:19People are always
11:20growing.
11:21So the question is,
11:22who am I now?
11:24do you have
11:26any children?
11:27Mm-hmm.
11:28I have two.
11:29Boy and girl.
11:30Boy and girl.
11:31And you were married?
11:32Mm-hmm.
11:33How'd you get along
11:34with father?
11:35No, we don't get along.
11:36So you're divorced?
11:38In the process.
11:39Mm-hmm.
11:40How long
11:40have you been separated?
11:43About six years.
11:44About six years?
11:45You may be separated
11:47physically,
11:48but emotionally
11:49you are still together.
11:51Well,
11:51actually,
11:52you know,
11:53the guy I'm with now.
11:54Ooh.
11:55What's your relationship
11:56like with him?
11:58I mean,
11:58we argue like
11:59in the normal couple,
12:00but we have
12:01a great relationship.
12:03What kind of relationship
12:03does you do
12:04and have with this
12:05man right here?
12:06I don't know.
12:06Kenny seems,
12:07um,
12:08you would have thought
12:09he was their dad.
12:11So he's strong?
12:12Very.
12:13Very strong.
12:13Good.
12:14Like,
12:14every event,
12:16everything they have
12:16going on,
12:17he's there.
12:18He's there, right?
12:18Even when I'm not.
12:19Or I can't make it.
12:21He's there.
12:21So,
12:21so,
12:22so he's heavily
12:23invested in them.
12:25Oh, yeah.
12:26Okay.
12:26And because of his
12:28attachment
12:28and heavy,
12:29heavy involvement
12:30in them,
12:31what does that do
12:32for you and him?
12:33It's great.
12:34I mean,
12:34it's good.
12:35It's...
12:36I was jealous
12:40in the beginning,
12:41but yeah.
12:42You were jealous of him?
12:43Because
12:43I didn't think
12:46they would take
12:47to him
12:48like they did.
12:49Hmm.
12:50Can you,
12:50can you tell me
12:51what that jealousy
12:52might,
12:53might have looked
12:54like an experience?
12:56It was...
12:58I don't know.
13:00I,
13:00it just felt like,
13:02it was like a possession.
13:04It was,
13:04it was my kids.
13:07So,
13:07did,
13:08did,
13:08did you get it,
13:09did it feel like
13:10you were losing your kids?
13:11Honestly?
13:12Yeah.
13:12I did.
13:14Um,
13:14it made me happy,
13:15but then I was like,
13:16wait a minute now.
13:17Because my kids
13:19always came to me
13:21for things
13:21and always asked
13:22me for things,
13:23so I was always
13:24the center of it.
13:26Then when he came along
13:27and they started asking him
13:29instead of me,
13:29it kind of made me feel
13:31some type of way.
13:32So what did you do
13:34with that?
13:36I used to make
13:37little smart jokes.
13:39But the joke,
13:41because he would see it
13:42as a joke,
13:43it would not negatively
13:44impact your relationship
13:46because it was just a joke.
13:47But you were serious
13:48about using the joke.
13:50It's,
13:51yeah.
13:52Yeah.
13:54And so when
13:55Kenny comes into the picture
13:57and the kids are saying,
13:59there's a breath of fresh air,
14:00let me gravitate
14:01towards the fresh air,
14:02you're saying,
14:02wait,
14:03wait a minute,
14:03whoa,
14:03whoa,
14:04whoa,
14:04whoa,
14:04what about me?
14:06I've had you all this time.
14:07He just,
14:07he's the new kid on the block.
14:14Yeah.
14:16After my ex moved
14:17to Atlanta,
14:18you know,
14:18out of sight,
14:19out of mind,
14:20the kids came to me
14:21for everything.
14:22I was like the center.
14:23And then here comes Kenny.
14:25I definitely felt jealous
14:26and I'm like,
14:27wait a minute,
14:28wait a minute,
14:28it's been me here
14:29that's done all of these things
14:31for you guys.
14:32It's like they
14:33gravitated towards him
14:34so well.
14:36I don't have that
14:37responsibility anymore
14:38and it kind of felt awkward.
14:40So do you get upset
14:40with the kids sometimes
14:41because he's paying them,
14:43you know,
14:44a lot of attention
14:45and the attachment
14:46is growing here
14:47or do you get upset
14:48with him for being
14:49such a good guy
14:50that the children
14:52would trust him
14:53to,
14:54so that they go with him
14:55and I don't know
14:56about you and that
14:57because you just said,
14:58wait a minute,
14:59I'm supposed to be
15:00number one,
15:01I'm supposed to be
15:01the center.
15:02after dealing with
15:06so much loss,
15:07it was hard
15:08trusting anyone.
15:09It was hard
15:10to accept help
15:11and I think
15:12that was one
15:13of our biggest issues
15:14with Ken and I.
15:15You're really good
15:16at this.
15:23What do you think?
15:24I don't know,
15:25I'm waiting for an
15:25explanation on that one.
15:27Self-protection.
15:28Do you like nuts?
15:30No.
15:32You don't like nuts?
15:33Well, I will,
15:34can I tell you
15:35a nut story though?
15:36Okay.
15:36Okay.
15:37Have you ever
15:37taken a good look
15:39at pistachios?
15:40So when you take
15:43a look at pistachios,
15:45you notice that
15:46all the shells
15:48are not opened
15:49to the same dimension,
15:51the same width,
15:52the same crack.
15:53The cracks are not
15:54always the same.
15:55You know that, right?
15:56Mm-hmm.
15:56I'm wondering,
15:58you know,
15:58how painful
15:59was something
16:00in your past
16:01that made you say,
16:03I'm going to be like,
16:05here's a pistachio
16:07and I'm going
16:08to be closed.
16:09You are protecting
16:10yourself from something
16:12that happened
16:12in the past
16:13and so he had
16:15to pay his dues
16:16to get into this.
16:19And then when
16:20he got into this,
16:22this evolved
16:23with the children
16:24and when this
16:26evolved with the children,
16:28you started to feel
16:29like you're having
16:31another loss.
16:32It's my parents.
16:39It's just,
16:39I don't want to deal
16:40with any more loss.
16:41It's just,
16:42I don't care if it's death.
16:43Just, I just,
16:44that's why I just,
16:45just like to stay to myself.
16:52It took you all this time
16:53to show your vulnerability
16:56and your hurt
16:58and your pain
17:00and your disappointment
17:02and I want to thank you.
17:04It feels like
17:05a weight lifted
17:06when I start to open up.
17:08I feel like
17:09it's really time
17:09for me to talk to Ken
17:10and make things right
17:11because I don't see
17:12a relationship
17:13for us in the future
17:14if I don't deal
17:15with the trauma
17:16of my past.
17:23Coming up
17:24on Love and Mary's
17:25Huntsville.
17:25Y'all both
17:26have said things
17:27about each other's husbands
17:29because of what her husband
17:30is saying about,
17:31he was making jokes
17:32about Marceau and Mary's
17:34and today, 2025,
17:37I'm tired of people
17:37joking about it
17:38because it ain't funny
17:38no more.
17:41I felt like
17:41I was losing my kids.
17:43To me?
17:44Yeah.
17:45Well, how are you
17:46going to lose them to me?
17:47Y'all just pushing me
17:48to the side.
17:55This should be fun.
18:14Yep, I hope y'all
18:15enjoy the ride.
18:15It's cute in here.
18:17Road trip, bitches!
18:19Road trip!
18:20I'm super excited
18:23to bring the girls
18:23to my hometown,
18:25my stomping ground,
18:26Bessemer, Alabama.
18:27Give me cakes!
18:29Good morning, T.
18:30You ready?
18:31I'm getting ready.
18:32What you doing
18:34with that pillow?
18:35That's why I said
18:35she got a bag.
18:36You better put that
18:37back in the car.
18:37You ain't taking no nap.
18:38I am the person
18:40I am today
18:40because of Bessemer
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18:45You look so cute!
18:47Thank you, darling.
18:48Let me put this
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19:27Yeah, you just took it.
19:28So my mom, you know, she started her food truck.
19:31She got it up, open.
19:32I saw those pictures.
19:33Yes.
19:34It's purple.
19:34I love it.
19:35So we're going to go pop up and pay her a little visit.
19:38She don't know we coming?
19:39No, she don't know.
19:40It's a pop up.
19:42I'd never think a pop up on Wanda is doing.
19:44Well, she's going to be out.
19:45She going to be happy to see us.
19:47No, we don't want you acting up, though, Kimmy.
19:49Wanda is having her food truck soft opening.
19:54So we going to softly tiptoe in there
19:56and softly tiptoe right back out.
19:58This your shot.
19:59I got one already.
20:00Uh-uh.
20:01This yours right here.
20:02So you didn't invite the rest of the ladies?
20:04Trish had to work.
20:06What about Nell?
20:06I don't talk to Nell.
20:08Why would I talk to Nell?
20:09You witness how she treated me?
20:11You saw her.
20:11I can't even say she going to throw her in the pool
20:13when she was yelling at her.
20:14No, she said.
20:16My mother yelled back with her with no problem.
20:18I can't do all that holla.
20:19And then that lip went up, she was like, I'm going to try
20:22her ass in there.
20:24No.
20:26And like, call it like it is, though, for real.
20:28I asked her three times to stop yelling at me.
20:30She kept saying she wasn't yelling.
20:31Even Trisha.
20:33Trisha leans over.
20:34She was like, stop yelling.
20:36You are yelling at her.
20:37I'm telling you to stop yelling at my head.
20:40Stop yelling at me.
20:41She didn't.
20:42I wasn't yelling at you.
20:43She did.
20:44She did.
20:45That's y'all gaining up on her.
20:46Because people telling her to stop yelling.
20:47But no, I'm saying before that, just the simple fact
20:51that I asked her to come out and have the conversation.
20:53Yeah.
20:54You almost begged her.
20:56Damn near carried her to come outside
20:59and have the conversation.
21:00You should have done that.
21:01Maybe if we talk.
21:02I'll go with you.
21:03I'll go out here, but I'm not finna do all the arguing.
21:07I'm prayerful that's not going to be the case.
21:09I'm not going to do all that.
21:10I think for me, my energy changed when she was like,
21:15one, she said, y'all were ganging up on me.
21:17What did y'all think y'all doing here?
21:19Gang up on me?
21:20Destiny said, huh?
21:22And she went, Scott, one-pointer and two-pointer.
21:27I didn't say you.
21:28I didn't say you.
21:29I'm strictly talking about one-pointer.
21:32One-pointer and two-pointer.
21:34Not you.
21:35Scott, one-pointer and two-pointer.
21:38Why you got to do the boys?
21:39Because that's my whole thing about Nell.
21:42Like, I'm not about to disrespect you.
21:45You're, you can pretty much be like my mom almost.
21:48You're not!
21:49I'm serious!
21:50I can't die.
21:52It says in the Bible, respect your elders.
21:55Oh, Jesus.
21:56So that's what I'm going to do.
21:57I'm going to stay in the child's place dealing with her.
21:59I've said to Tisha before, I think there's something else
22:02that there's some kind of issue somewhere else.
22:04And I don't personally, I don't know what it is.
22:06I'm going to tell you what I think it is for the both of them.
22:08Y'all both have said things about each other's husbands.
22:11Because of what her husband is saying about,
22:14he was making jokes about Marceau and Maryse.
22:16And today, 2025, I'm tired of people joking about it
22:20because it ain't funny no more.
22:23So that was my whole thing was,
22:25I don't even have an issue with them.
22:26One is a woman.
22:27I'm like, let's just stop it.
22:28You ain't even got no reply to that, do you?
22:30It's weird, huh?
22:31It's not really a reply,
22:32but I'm saying that you guys, I think, feel the same way.
22:35So with you saying-
22:36But then she started it!
22:37When she gets the messiness back,
22:39then it's the problem.
22:40That's where the problem comes in.
22:41That's where the problem comes in.
22:42Because she hasn't even seen me yet!
22:43That's the thing!
22:44She has not even witnessed me yet be messy with her.
22:47Or she has not even witnessed me come for her yet.
22:49But I think that you let that comment go about your husband,
22:53when y'all had y'all conversation,
22:55but I don't know if she's really let it go.
22:57Because it's the truth for her, and that's my thing.
22:59It's a real issue for her.
23:01No, it is.
23:02It is!
23:03So don't play with me!
23:05I really don't like being the middleman,
23:08and it seems to be the running thing in this friend group.
23:10It's really annoying, to be honest with you.
23:12And I don't know how to handle it.
23:14I try my best to be as neutral as possible,
23:17but that never works.
23:18I'm the person that's in the middle,
23:20being in the tug of war.
23:22I didn't tell you this, and I should have,
23:24but I forgot.
23:25But when I met with her, she was like,
23:27she need not worry about my husband.
23:28She need to worry about that girl on that video,
23:30on that tape.
23:31Baby, I ain't got... I ain't worried about nothing.
23:33Do you see me?
23:34I see you.
23:35I ain't worried about nothing.
23:36All of you.
23:37Baby, let me tell you something.
23:38I ain't never got to worry about another woman.
23:40Ever.
23:41You know what?
23:42Let's just change you.
23:43Let's change the topic.
23:44I always love this view on the way to Birmingham.
23:46Okay.
23:47Let's talk about the view of you and your dating life.
23:49Uh-oh.
23:50Give us an update on that.
23:51What's going on?
23:52I have a new movie role.
23:53It's an independent film, and...
23:54Oh, it's a movie for real?
23:55It's a movie for real, yeah.
23:56But I have to learn how to box.
23:58And so, I asked Mr. Googly Eyes...
24:01Oh, the train you how to box.
24:03Because he boxes.
24:05Sounds like God just put that together.
24:07Do y'all do boxing dates?
24:09We haven't had our boxing date...
24:12A boxing session yet.
24:14Yeah, but we did...
24:15We had a business date, and we talked about working together.
24:20We have an attraction to each other.
24:22We've acknowledged that.
24:23What did you and Will acknowledge?
24:25Will's nice.
24:26He's really nice.
24:27So, Will get the curve.
24:28It was one and done.
24:30Will what?
24:31Will.
24:32Will is nice.
24:33Will you enjoy his company?
24:34I'm not.
24:35But, you know, I know y'all joke about me, like, in my dating, and your little videos
24:39of the multiple people.
24:40But, like, my philosophy is, you know, you date until you find the one.
24:44Absolutely.
24:45And people automatically assume that you, like, sleeping with everybody.
24:47No.
24:48Like, I told all of them, like, I'm not sleeping with you.
24:50So, if that's what you're looking for, you got the wrong lady.
24:53That's part of why he went and got that girl pregnant, because you would
24:55that part.
24:56Be very clear.
24:58Because I would.
24:59You out here wild-dogging.
25:02Coming up on Love and Marriage Hunterville.
25:07I know we've kind of had, you know, some rough spots.
25:11Some things that I've said in the past, like, I'm not proud of.
25:15You sound like Ms. Nell over here.
25:18Oh, Lord.
25:19She got herself upset with me.
25:21The old lady now.
25:22I'm gonna have to let my momma have the Ms. Nell, because I'm not about to go back and
25:26forth with this lady.
25:27And you shouldn't have to go back and forth with her.
25:32Hello.
25:33Hi.
25:34How are you guys doing?
25:35Great.
25:36How about yourself?
25:37Not too bad.
25:38Not too bad.
25:39I know that me and Trisha do have, you know, the things that we're doing.
25:43And I'm trying so hard to kind of continue to be patient.
25:44I know that me and Trisha do have, you know, the things that we're going through and I'm
25:56trying so hard to kind of continue to allow her to seek the help and the therapy that she needs, because I feel like if she does that, we'll be perfectly fine.
26:03This place is nice.
26:04You finally get us to get us some date time.
26:05Without little people.
26:06Without the kids.
26:07I know, right?
26:08This drink is actually good.
26:09It is.
26:10Got us a great workout in.
26:12continue to be patient and continue to allow her
26:16to seek the help and the therapy that she needs
26:19because I feel like if she does that,
26:21we'll be perfectly fine.
26:22This little place is nice.
26:24You finally get us some date time.
26:26Without little people.
26:27Without the kids.
26:28I know, right?
26:28This drink is actually good.
26:30It is.
26:31Got us a great workout in.
26:32I'm sore.
26:33I think I have a hard time because I like to train
26:36with my people.
26:37So then I'll be like extra sore and tired.
26:39How is that going, people you were training with?
26:41We got to get our own brick and mortar for one.
26:44I've actually reached out to a couple of people
26:46who possibly will do, will help us build that out.
26:49Me and Trisha, it's crazy.
26:50We're so much alike when it comes to what we want.
26:53But I think for me, you know, I feel like once Trisha
26:58actually takes all the tools that they give her,
27:01she needed to actually input them into her lifestyle.
27:04And I think we know the proper steps to take
27:06in order to be successful.
27:08I just want you to understand this too.
27:09I know we've kind of had, you know, some rough spots.
27:14But at the end of the day, I'm still here,
27:17ready and rocking for you, you know?
27:19One, I want to say that I'm so proud of you
27:22because, you know, I've been preaching this therapy thing
27:24for a long time.
27:26The fact that you did it though, like I can't do nothing
27:31but be happy.
27:31I know you've had a couple of sessions.
27:33How has it been going?
27:35It's been, it's, listen, it's been interesting.
27:38I'm not going to lie.
27:39Right.
27:40But I like Dr. Princess.
27:42He used the metaphor as me being a pistachio.
27:47And he said, I'm the pistachio that's still guarding
27:50and protecting, that's still closed and hasn't completely
27:53opened up to no one yet.
27:55And he was right.
27:56He told me I need to, you know, start talking to people more.
27:59Right, but you know, I'm that person you can tell,
28:01you can come to for that.
28:04Yeah.
28:04So Ken tells me that I can open up to him
28:07and, you know, come and talk to him when I have issues.
28:09I think I can.
28:10I'm not sure because that's just not something I do
28:14or have done in the past.
28:15But I'm hoping he'll be patient with me
28:16because it's very new to the both of us.
28:18Dr. Princess hit on a, like, a major part
28:21that I never thought about.
28:22I said in the beginning, I was getting a little frustrated
28:25when Xavier used to call and ask him,
28:26talk to you about things that he would, you know,
28:28normally call me for.
28:29Right.
28:29And I used to be like, wait a minute.
28:31And you were like, he would tell me, oh, he called to talk to,
28:34he called, Xavier called and told me this or,
28:36and I'm like, well, what the hell?
28:38I went from panicking, now I'm enraged.
28:44Y'all just pushing me to the side.
28:47What made you jealous of that?
28:48Like, what made that a thing, like?
28:52I felt like I was losing my kids.
28:55To me?
28:55Yeah.
28:56It's never going to be that.
28:58I don't know.
29:00Well, how are you going to lose them to me?
29:02Because they ain't going to go and talk to nobody but me.
29:04I understand where you come from when, you know,
29:07when you're used to being that person.
29:11That goes back to what Dr. Francis was saying as well.
29:14I've been the sole person for so long.
29:16It was definitely different because I was like,
29:19what the hell is happening here?
29:21So I share with Ken that in the beginning it was very hard for me to let him into my life and the kids because I've always been their go-to person.
29:29Like, there's always been me, me and the kids, and it was just not normal for me to see them run to someone else other than myself.
29:37And I think that was just also a part of me protecting my heart and the kids' heart because we've been through a lot in the past and I didn't want them to go through it again.
29:46At the end of the day, we just have to be more, you know, conscious of what we're doing.
29:51Like, when we do have a disagreement, it's not turning into a big fight.
29:55I don't see myself doing nothing but life with you, you know?
29:59I might have my moments where I say, obviously, but you know, it's just frustration and that's something that I also have to stop.
30:04You know, I have to say, like, some things that I've said in the past, like, I'm not proud of and I apologize again.
30:11Ultimately, I'm happy.
30:14Me too. Very.
30:16Coming up on Love and Married Huntsville.
30:23Letitia said, tell Letitia stop to get my name by her mouth.
30:29I think he could have left that part out.
30:30I'm going to have to let my mama have them as nails.
30:32This bitch is crazy as hell.
30:41Wait a minute.
30:42Wait a minute.
30:43Look at Wanda's truck.
30:51We're here, we're in Bessemer, and look at this.
30:54I'm just so happy that my mom stuck with her dream of starting this food truck.
30:59Here go my truck, y'all.
31:00Look at it.
31:01I know, right?
31:02Oh, my God.
31:03Don't be talking, don't be laughing.
31:04I take this very serious now.
31:05Is that truck working?
31:06Does it run?
31:07Yes.
31:08You can start it up right now.
31:09For her to start this business at her age, that's something to be celebrated.
31:16I'm so proud of her, and I'm so happy for her because she did it.
31:20Wanda!
31:21Miss Wanda!
31:22Hey!
31:23Yo, Miss Wanda is back!
31:27Come on, girl!
31:28Yeah!
31:29You got your truck!
31:30The hoes came from Highsville.
31:31I'm so glad to see y'all, though.
31:32I like your truck, Wanda.
31:33Well, thank you.
31:35Congratulations.
31:36We're about to order, yeah, we're about to order.
31:38I want a loaded chicken potato.
31:39Okay.
31:40I want steak.
31:41Steak?
31:42Medium.
31:43Medium.
31:44Don't cook my steak all the way to the belt.
31:46If you don't know you ain't best or we do everything wrong.
31:48You picked it.
31:49Because I don't want my steak cooked like a belt.
31:51It's not gonna be cooked like a belt.
31:54It's gonna be cooked like a belt.
31:57It's gonna be cooked like Besser.
31:58It's not gonna be cooked like a belt.
31:59Because I don't want my steak cooked like a belt.
32:03It's not going to be cooked like a belt.
32:05It's going to be cooked like steak.
32:06OK, that's what I want.
32:07All right, y'all, give me a minute.
32:09I'll be back.
32:10OK, she said, we're going to sit down.
32:12Listen.
32:13I'm always nervous when they come to meet Wanda.
32:16That's just keeping it real.
32:18Because you just never know what's about to pop off.
32:22I'm excited that Wanda is opening up her food truck.
32:26That is where my excitement begins and ends.
32:30Everything else is sheer nerves.
32:33Hey, mama!
32:35Give me a hug, girl!
32:37Give me a hug!
32:39Look at you!
32:40Come on!
32:41Give me some hug!
32:42Yes!
32:43Are we going to say grace?
32:44I already blessed the poo.
32:45Amen.
32:46Ooh, Lord, we thank you.
32:47Amen.
32:48Thank you, Destiny.
32:49You're welcome.
32:50Y'all blessed the hands that fed you.
32:52That's right.
32:53Very pretty picture of you on the truck.
32:55So have you had it out and about?
32:57Like in town?
32:58This is my very first day.
32:59Yay!
33:00This is a great location, too.
33:02So how was the ride here?
33:03It was good.
33:04We had some good conversations, you know?
33:06Ooh.
33:07Wasn't anything about me?
33:08It's always about you.
33:10It's always about you.
33:12I can't believe y'all talking about me.
33:14So I got to talk about y'all damn asses then.
33:16Come on, let's go.
33:17No, no, no!
33:18Speaking of, everybody want to talk about our group.
33:20You sound like Miss Nell over here.
33:22Oh, Lord.
33:23She got herself upset with me.
33:25Who?
33:26Miss Nell.
33:27Nell who?
33:28The fracture lady.
33:29The old lady Nell?
33:31That's why I came to you.
33:33Because I'm like, I got to get my mama to talk to her.
33:35Oh, hell, wait a minute.
33:36Because I can't deal with it.
33:37Nell did what, girl?
33:38OK, let me tell you what happened.
33:39Please tell me.
33:40So what happened was, her husband said something about our husbands.
33:44And I told her, I was like, it really played an effect on my marriage.
33:48Overall, what I was saying is that I cannot argue with this lady because she's more of my mother's age.
33:55And she's an elder.
33:57And you know what the Bible said about your elders.
34:00No, you know what your mama said about the elders.
34:02OK, not your definition, but the Bible.
34:03OK.
34:04You respect your elders, so your days won't be cut short.
34:08Well, you've been trying that way.
34:09Exactly.
34:10So I was like, I'm going to have to let my mama have to Miss Nell because I'm not about to go back and forth with this lady to get my days cut short.
34:15And you shouldn't have to go back and forth with her.
34:17I think that Tisha suggesting her mom and Nell talk is a horrible idea.
34:24Very, very, very horrible idea.
34:26Because Nell and Wanda both will pop off.
34:30And I just don't think it's a good idea.
34:35Ooh, girl, you made me.
34:37My nerves, my blood pressure up now.
34:39.
34:40Now, when I'm coming back to Huntsville.
34:42When I'm coming back to Huntsville.
34:44Nell want to insert herself in my child business?
34:48Baby, you ain't nobody counsel.
34:51You ain't nobody instruction.
34:53You can't even keep your own marriage together.
34:55While he stepped out on you?
34:57While you're worrying about what Monso and the rest of the people are doing?
35:01The only thing I'm going to talk about is mine.
35:03If you put my child in your mouth, now it's time for me to come and talk with you about yours.
35:08When I'm coming back to Huntsville.
35:10I need to know.
35:11Isn't it time you ready to drive to Huntsville?
35:13OK, I'm coming.
35:14Do you think it's really necessary for them to have a conversation?
35:16Oh, hell yeah, it's going to be necessary.
35:18It was necessary for her to step to my damn daughter.
35:21The thing is, she didn't say it to Tisha.
35:23She said it to her.
35:24We thought everything was fine.
35:25She stepped to Destiny and told Destiny how she was talking about.
35:27Also, you with the bone carrier.
35:29Oh!
35:30No, no, no.
35:31They carried their own bones before I even got in the picture.
35:33But she said she told you and you told Tisha.
35:35No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
35:43She stepped to Destiny and told Destiny how she was talking about.
35:45Also, you with the bone carrier.
35:47Oh!
35:48No, no, no.
35:49They carried their own bones before I even got in the picture.
35:51But she said she told you and you told Tisha.
35:54No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
35:56Ms. Wanda, you know I adore you, but please stop.
35:59Please.
36:00Ain't that the pot calling the kettle?
36:02They had their own issue, and apparently they resolved it.
36:07But when I talked to her, I didn't know that they hadn't moved forward.
36:11And when I brought it to her, she was like,
36:12we already talked about this and we're supposed to be good.
36:15Letitia said, tell Letitia stop to get my .
36:19Ain't about her .
36:20I think you could have left that part out.
36:22That's what she said, though.
36:23Isn't that what she said?
36:24I'm just saying in front of Wanda.
36:26I see what Tisha's doing.
36:28She's, you know, sending Wanda to do her light work.
36:31That's not even a conversation to be had.
36:33It's just not.
36:34It's kind of like sicking your dogs on somebody.
36:36Bad idea.
36:37Horrible idea.
36:39So that was the whole thing.
36:40I don't know what she want from me.
36:42She felt like me and Kimmy wasn't being transparent,
36:46because when she was asking us about the whole interview situation,
36:49I was like, I said what I had to say on my social media page.
36:53How do you two ladies feel about what Martell said about your husbands?
36:58Me and my husband did a live, and we absolutely discussed how we felt about it.
37:02I know.
37:03So if you want to know how I feel about it, go watch the live.
37:05I just want to know, what do you feel about it?
37:08About what?
37:09About what?
37:10About this .
37:12About .
37:13This went to this live out here about Maso and Maurice.
37:18What do I feel about the ?
37:21Yeah.
37:22What do you feel about her?
37:23I know you've seen it.
37:24You never replied back to it.
37:26You never said anything.
37:27So I just want to know, what's really going on?
37:29We don't care.
37:30I'm talking to you.
37:32Okay.
37:33Babe, I'm talking to you.
37:34No, I don't give it any energy.
37:37I didn't see the whole thing, because I just felt like it was ridiculous.
37:42But I would have took it in consideration.
37:44I was like, well, damn, this bitch said she had it in the butt, in the mouth at the same time.
37:50Why are you doing this?
37:51Because it happened, right?
37:53So what you feel about it, baby?
37:54It's just disgusting.
37:55I told you what I feel.
37:56You don't like what I feel.
37:57I don't believe that lady.
37:59I don't know who she is, and I don't know where she came from, and I don't believe the lady.
38:04You didn't conversate with Maurice about it after you heard about it?
38:07No, I did.
38:08I said, do you know her?
38:09Like, who is she?
38:10You actually believe it?
38:11You don't believe it?
38:12No, I don't.
38:13And since something happened, I'm not gonna sit down and not take into consideration what
38:17they just would say it.
38:18You believed her?
38:20It's a certain thing.
38:21But Wanda, there's been many times I've said very plain, I think that people can cheat.
38:28I don't have any issue with knowing that men, women, whoever, can cheat.
38:33That ?
38:34No, ma'am.
38:36Absolutely not.
38:38At this moment, Wanda is acting like a certified blogger.
38:42And I would assume part of being good at this is moving on.
38:48I've not done anything, haven't done anything, don't intend to do anything.
38:52You never showed me I did anything.
38:54Let it go.
38:55For real.
38:56This is one of them on the chin moments, ain't it?
38:58You gotta go like this when you say it though, Destiny.
39:00I take it on the chin.
39:01Right.
39:02Take it on the chin all the time.
39:03Call it whatever y'all wanna call it, but I'm just telling y'all, young girls, don't
39:07be going around here saying that y'all don't believe what these folks be saying.
39:11Y'all got to take into consideration.
39:12So you believe everything somebody said?
39:13Hell yeah, that's why I ain't with my husband today.
39:15Hell yeah.
39:16And that's probably why.
39:17Hell yeah, that's really ain't with him.
39:18And if it look like he'll do it, he did it.
39:21I think Kimmy is in denial.
39:23I think Kimmy like, I don't give a what's going on.
39:27I really think that.
39:28I think Kimmy like, I'm down with my man no matter what.
39:32Wanda, nobody believes her.
39:35Nobody.
39:36I don't know.
39:37Millions stills are millions, y'all.
39:39Listen, we came here to support your food truck.
39:41I appreciate it.
39:42But since y'all came all the way from Huntsville,
39:44and I haven't talked to y'all in a long time,
39:46I just wanted to know what really was going on.
39:48We don't care.
39:49Maso said he don't care.
39:50I said I don't care.
39:51My Reese did never say he didn't care.
39:53That's why I'm asking his wife.
39:54We can speak with everybody when we say we don't care.
39:56We want our refund.
39:57We didn't come here for that.
39:58Give us our money back.
40:00Oh, Lord.
40:02We're here to support my mom.
40:04And instantly she's like, I got words for y'all.
40:07Like, can we just have a good day to eat a nice potato
40:10and have a moment and pay you and then leave?
40:14Not the mess today.
40:16I ain't embezzling with this .
40:18I'ma tell you something.
40:19If a man come to you and he don't give you a straight answer,
40:23he damn did it.
40:32Next on Love Ameritonsville.
40:34How do you think he gonna get you a man if you ain't shaking?
40:36I know that's your standard, but I have a standard.
40:38I think that'd be an issue with women trying to hold out with a man.
40:42So you just think that every woman that goes on a date with someone
40:46should just be sleeping with everybody they go on a date with?
40:49It's different.
40:50You say, oh, let's have a party.
40:51Yeah.
40:52You have a good time.
40:53But when you say dinner, it's a little more intense.
40:57We absolutely have to have it.
40:58Okay.
40:59Well, .
41:00Let's have it.
41:01Let's do it.
41:02See how this go.
41:03I'm an open book.
41:04Are you?
41:05100%.
41:06So you have four children and never been married.
41:08Why haven't you been married?
41:10All Chris said was, he explained it.
41:13It was a question that dad said.
41:14I asked him.
41:15Now you're back on dad.
41:16So I was like, what the hell?
41:17One person here is doing a mother line.
41:20And that happened to be me.
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