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00:00so what do we do from here I mean we are a family we'll be in each other's lives for the rest of our
00:07lives you guys are sisters and we're supposed to be all coming together as a family I'm not
00:14the worst on the planet because I always come back for them Tamar announced that she would
00:23be interviewing our niece Ashley on Tamar's podcast y'all tried to shut down my entire
00:28business sending a cease and desist nobody wanted to come to my defense so you're gonna sit there and
00:35say Toni Braxton don't care about you Toni Braxton no no Toni Braxton ain't never having your back
00:40we do not get the lead
00:41so I did talk to Toni she and Trina are on board to come to the sister retreat and just like you said
00:57Tawanda's not coming you've been present but you haven't been really present he has a
01:04congestive heart failure why did you want me to leave the room when the doctor was talking to you
01:09I asked the doctor if I was gonna die I now pronounce you husband and wife
01:16I have plans his husband's not doing well his heart's bothering him so Trina has to go right now
01:24where's Trina where's Trina I can't stand the thought of Tawanda's wedding day being ruined
01:31I have to take Vaughn to the hospital
01:41see all right
01:42they're called this morning and they need to go to the emergency right now like right now he had to go
01:48wow
01:48so that's where they went
01:49got it
01:50you could have told me that earlier I wouldn't have been asking for it all night
01:54anything dealing with the heart is serious so I'm extremely concerned I really wish that somebody
02:02would have told me sooner I'm just shocked about that I understand she got to take her husband I got
02:09a new husband I would have left with my husband too about an hour and a half ago they left is it
02:14his heart stuff his blood work terrible everything is not good Dr. Blake told Trina to take him
02:20right now like why is he here I probably should have told her sooner I won't feel better about
02:26this whole situation until I actually hear back from Trina and know that Vaughn is okay but I am
02:31relieved that Tawanda finally knows and was able to enjoy most of her entire wedding day without
02:35carrying the stress of the whole Vaughn situation I stayed the whole time I know and then Charlie
02:42Thompson I stayed the whole time I can't believe Tony stayed although I was sad I was happy that you
02:49know they got to the hospital and everything is going to be checked up on Vaughn because that's
02:54what matters I don't want to dwell on anything that was negative leading up to me walking down
03:00the hall with Sean because I mean it was so beautiful I want to do it again our family is just like any other
03:08family we have a lot of love and then we still have some unresolved situations that we need to work
03:13through but I feel like I'm right where I'm supposed to be
03:18Hello how are you
03:48Good, good, good.
03:50Shut the door.
03:51Have a seat.
03:53The last 48 hours have been a complete whirlwind.
03:58Vaughn was finally discharged from the hospital last night.
04:00And today, we have to do a follow-up with Dr. Brown.
04:04That's his primary doctor.
04:05And she's also a very good friend of the family.
04:11So I told you to go to the hospital at 7 o'clock
04:17in the morning because I received a phone call from my lab
04:21that you had a critical potassium level of seven.
04:28Yes.
04:29Your potassium should never be that high.
04:32And when I get something critical, it's not a suggestion.
04:38Then I seen you after the actual ceremony.
04:43And what did you do?
04:44You went and talked to another provider there.
04:46It took this doctor to reiterate what I already said for you
04:51to finally make the exit.
04:55It's never a suggestion.
04:56But you've got to take into account the reason why I
04:58didn't want to go to the hospital.
05:00No, I cannot.
05:01OK.
05:02It's called dead.
05:08It's called dead.
05:09Let's be real.
05:10If I'd ended up in the hospital, she wouldn't have gone to the
05:12wedding.
05:13And I didn't want to mess the day up, you know?
05:15If you were to fall out dead in the middle of the rest of the
05:19wedding, then what?
05:20You're still ruining the day.
05:22I want me to put it that way.
05:24I mean.
05:25Oh, OK.
05:28Apparently, he could have had a stroke.
05:30He could have had a heart attack.
05:31He could have passed away.
05:33If he would just listen.
05:36Just listen.
05:37And then order a plate of catfish to go.
05:40To where?
05:41When he was going to the hospital.
05:43I was hungry.
05:44I remember I told you I wasn't eating.
05:45Order catfish to go, uh.
05:49OK.
05:51One of the things about Vaughn's heart issues being scary is
05:55it's almost like he's so nervous that he is.
06:00Stupid is the wrong word.
06:01I'm not calling you stupid, babe.
06:03But you're just not operating the way you should out of fear.
06:10All right, so give me the update since the hospital visits.
06:15On top of congestive heart failure,
06:19I had the beginning stages of, uh.
06:23Early onset kidney disease.
06:25Yeah, that.
06:26Kidney failure.
06:29Your gut, your heart, and your kidneys
06:31are the three biggest things that you have to make sure
06:33that you maintain.
06:34Yes.
06:35If those things don't function, nothing else will.
06:37Your blood flow won't go to your wanker
06:40if your heart's not pumping.
06:41Hmm.
06:42Yeah.
06:43It's a muscle.
06:45So we're going to make different choices.
06:47Yeah.
06:48It's going to be all about you.
06:49Yeah.
06:50Yeah.
06:51I made a mistake, and it will never happen again.
06:57I'm certain of that.
06:59Well, as long as we clear, I'm good.
07:03Since the doctors first discovered Von's congestive heart failure,
07:09they gave him 90 days to make improvements with medicines and diet,
07:13or he'll need to have surgery.
07:15And the idea of Von getting heart surgery of any kind is terrifying.
07:21So I just hope he'll listen to the doctor's orders going forward
07:24and stay healthy.
07:25We still have so much more life to live,
07:28and I'm not ready to live it without him.
07:33All right, let's get out of here, because I have to go back.
07:36I'm going away on a sister trip.
07:37I hope you have a great week.
07:38Yes, ma'am.
07:40And we're going to take this medication?
07:41Yes.
07:42I like the red.
07:43It's pretty.
07:44It's like Kool-Aid.
07:46Get out.
07:47Don't come back.
08:11Even with everything going on with Von,
08:14I agreed to go on the trip to Malibu in an effort to rebuild,
08:19because our sisterhood is bigger than the circumstance.
08:23The big issues, they're going to come, regardless.
08:26I mean, whether it's in the middle of fun or not in the middle of fun.
08:29But if you go in with bad intention,
08:31that's what you're going to walk out with.
08:32OK, this view is beautiful, but it's getting a little chilly out here.
08:35And I'm hungry.
08:36And I'm hungry.
08:37Let's go eat.
08:38So I'm going to go in with good intention,
08:40hoping that we will reach at least a place where we're being
08:44in a conversation.
08:53OK, here we go.
08:54Tony is moving.
08:57Let's go ahead and have Glam come in and do all final looks.
09:00Make sure everybody feels good.
09:02All right, guys, let's go ahead and speed on camera.
09:04Let's get ready to go.
09:07And .
09:10Hey, divas.
09:11Hi, Loke.
09:12Hey, Loke.
09:13Hey, Treve.
09:14Hey, Tay.
09:15Hi, Tony, Michelle.
09:16Mwah.
09:17Hey.
09:17Why are you coming here with your wallet, girl?
09:19Ain't nobody stealing.
09:20I just got here.
09:21What's popping?
09:22Hey, nothing.
09:23What are you doing?
09:24You got your hair cut fresh.
09:25I did.
09:25It looks good.
09:26How you know?
09:27You can tell?
09:27It's some very Tony Braxton.
09:28Very.
09:29Tamar reached out to me about doing a sister's retreat.
09:32And I agreed to it because I haven't been happy with myself
09:35and my sister since the big fight at the restaurant.
09:39My regret at the restaurant was I lost my cool.
09:43And you should never lose your cool.
09:45It was not indigenous of who I am as a person.
09:48And I don't know how we got here.
09:51But I think it's important that we get past this.
09:54Gossa, tell me about the wedding.
09:57It was nice.
09:59So when is Tawana back from her honeymoon?
10:02I don't know.
10:03I didn't ask her.
10:04I didn't know.
10:05So you don't talk to Tawana now?
10:06I didn't say that.
10:07I said I don't know.
10:08You don't know nothing.
10:09I don't.
10:10I honestly don't.
10:11She has not been very phone answering.
10:14She has not.
10:15She responded to my text two hours later.
10:17At all.
10:21She'll eventually come up for air.
10:23Mm.
10:24Yeah.
10:29I feel like we're missing somebody.
10:31Hold on.
10:32We're having a special guest?
10:33We are.
10:34We always have a special guest, Toni.
10:36Who's this special guest?
10:37Somebody you love.
10:38Somebody you comfortable with.
10:42You're right back.
10:43Wait.
10:44Just hold off.
10:45Pull yourself something.
10:46I don't know, but I'll be inviting stuff.
10:50Right?
10:53What's going on, Trine?
10:55She made it.
10:58No.
11:03Start to just soften the body.
11:05That's not the devil, Trina.
11:06We're not going to hell.
11:08I don't know what she praying.
11:09Why she over there doing gongs.
11:11You don't succumb to nothing.
11:15Trina, why do you think you're better than me?
11:17Why?
11:18What is it that you mad at?
11:19You put your hands on me.
11:20You put your hands on me.
11:21You put your hands on me.
11:22You put your hands on me.
11:23I didn't touch you.
11:24Did not.
11:25Whoa.
11:26You didn't touch me?
11:27Did not touch you.
11:28Whoa.
11:29We have it right here.
11:30She said she did not touch.
11:31Did not touch you.
11:36I feel like we're missing somebody.
11:38Be right back.
11:39Wait.
11:40Wait.
11:41I don't know, but I'll be inviting stuff.
11:43Right?
11:44What's going on, Trine?
11:46She made it.
11:49Tawanda made it.
11:53What is wrong?
11:54Why is there food?
11:55There's nothing wrong with Tamar.
11:56She hungry.
11:57We're having dinner.
11:58Why is crackers in her mouth?
11:59Because she hungry.
12:00We're having dinner.
12:01Why is she a blow-up doll?
12:02Because she hungry.
12:03We here.
12:04Put the hole in her mouth.
12:05We are all here.
12:06Why does she look like a missionary?
12:08That ain't missionary.
12:09Because she's using the missionary position.
12:11It's a blow-up doll.
12:12No, it's not.
12:13That's Tawanda.
12:14There was a time in our sisterhood whenever we would go out
12:17and then no one had a date, we would have someone who was invisible.
12:20So to have a blow-up Tawanda was, it was pretty lighthearted.
12:24It was nice.
12:25It was funny.
12:33Tawanda, we are glad that you could join us after all.
12:38When does she, how'd she get here?
12:40She blew here.
12:41She got nothing to get here.
12:44Tawanda would be offended by the outfit.
12:46Very.
12:47Well, then she should have been here.
12:48She can't be here, so boom.
12:49Well, they're honeymooning.
12:50Tawanda just got married.
12:51All right.
12:52I really wish Tawanda could have been here since the issues we need to work out
12:55are with all four of us.
12:57But, of course, right now, the time for Tawanda and Sean to enjoy their literal
13:00honeymoon season, honeymoon phase, I get it.
13:02However, it feels so good to be laughing with Tamar and Trina.
13:05We're like natural comedians.
13:07And we used to laugh more than we used to fuss.
13:11Dismissed all of this.
13:14Mm-hmm.
13:17That's good.
13:21You're eating a biscuit with a knife and fork?
13:23I'm gonna get my nails started.
13:25Girl, you was married to Birdman.
13:27You're doing a lot.
13:28Look.
13:29Are we talking about that?
13:30No.
13:31It's out in the open.
13:32No, we're not.
13:33Why it's out in the open?
13:34I didn't spill the story.
13:35You don't even know if it's true.
13:36Yes.
13:37Is it true?
13:38I'm not comfortable talking about my personal life.
13:39Tony's only gonna tell whatever Tony wants to tell.
13:40She doesn't feel comfortable talking about it right now.
13:41So, with that being said, I don't think I feel comfortable talking about it right now.
13:43So, what are we gonna do this weekend?
13:44I feel like we have been...
13:45You don't even know if it's true.
13:46You don't even know if it's true.
13:47You don't even know if it's true.
13:48Yes.
13:49Is it true?
13:50I'm not comfortable talking about my...
13:51I'm sorry.
13:52I couldn't even get it out.
13:53Yeah.
13:54Just gonna let it go.
13:55I'm not comfortable talking about my personal life.
13:56Well, people have...
13:57Tony's only gonna tell whatever Tony wants to tell.
14:00She doesn't feel comfortable talking about it right now.
14:02So, with that being said, I don't think I feel comfortable talking about it right now.
14:05So, what are we gonna do this weekend?
14:10I feel like we have been in this state of fighting for too long.
14:17And it's time for us to move to the next chapter.
14:20So, how do we do that?
14:23We need to have a lot of hard conversations, real conversations.
14:28Uncomfortable conversations.
14:30I think I'm the most uncomfortable I've ever been in our relationship.
14:34and still yet I've shown up for Malibu.
14:37So, I think with conviction can say I'm definitely ready for that.
14:40I'm already uncomfortable.
14:42And what else we're gonna do?
14:44We're gonna do our sound bath.
14:45I've never had that before.
14:46That's amazing.
14:47It's nice.
14:48It's healing through sound and vibration.
14:59Uh-uh.
15:00What?
15:01He moving out of the way.
15:02Oh, I didn't see that.
15:03You thought somebody was here moving to Wanda?
15:05No, no, I'm just saying wait.
15:06I didn't see him.
15:09It could have been an animal.
15:10Anything.
15:11Uh-uh.
15:12Trina has anxiety.
15:13The hell to the...
15:14Yeah, everybody does.
15:15Yeah.
15:16And her anxiety, if anything, is remotely triggering for her?
15:21Mm.
15:22It's giving...
15:23I don't receive that diagnosis or that analysis.
15:26I appreciate what you're trying to do, what you're trying to say.
15:27Trina, your anxiety is on a thousand.
15:28Trina, if your anxiety wasn't high, your blood pressure wouldn't be high.
15:31My blood pressure is high for certain other reasons in my life.
15:34Why?
15:35What's those reasons?
15:36Well, that's not something I wanted to divulge on television.
15:40For the masses.
15:41I'm not trying to get you to divulge anything.
15:42You told me that you had hypertension because of stress.
15:45How is Typhi?
15:46We check his blood pressure and mine.
15:48You on medication, too?
15:49I am.
15:50On high blood pressure medication?
15:51Yes, I am.
15:52My stress levels are very high.
15:53Yeah.
15:54Yes, I'd say...
15:55That's all I said here, right?
15:56Wait, wait.
15:57Wait, wait.
15:58No, I'm just saying that's all I said here, right?
15:59I didn't spill anything.
16:00I would like to know what just happened here because I just said...
16:02Nothing happened.
16:03Okay.
16:04I'm just telling you something I don't want to divulge.
16:05I'm like, I didn't divulge it.
16:06Wait, wait.
16:07That didn't happen.
16:08She didn't say it like that.
16:09That didn't happen.
16:10That didn't happen here.
16:11Sometimes I tell you, just say, okay.
16:12Just say, okay.
16:13That's your way.
16:14That's not my way.
16:15Okay.
16:16No bad.
16:17Sometimes it's hard for people to say, okay.
16:19Oh, I hear you.
16:20You want to have that back and forth to go and ah, rah, rah.
16:23We're at the rah stage.
16:24Just say, okay.
16:25Okay.
16:26That doesn't mean you agree or disagree.
16:27It just means you're open to listening.
16:29So you'll talk to us about it off camera?
16:31Off camera.
16:32Okay.
16:33And I feel that the weekend is going to be harder than I even expected.
16:49My sister Trina is a Christian.
16:51Well, nothing about what we're doing today is religious.
16:54I'm very firm.
16:55I'm not going to help.
16:59How do you help this person take me down?
17:02What accountability do you take for actually getting physical with your sisters?
17:07Tamar.
17:20All right, cell phone's off.
17:25All right, let's do it y'all.
17:26Let's get everybody in place.
17:27Here we go.
17:31What's popping?
17:32Hey everybody.
17:33Hey.
17:34How you doing?
17:35It's Tawanda.
17:36She's not here.
17:37But she's here with us in spirit.
17:39And by blow up.
17:41Make yourself comfortable.
17:43I took my shoes off.
17:44You may want to take your shoes off.
17:45I'm going to take mine off.
17:46I'm Dr. Sheena.
17:47Dr. Sheena.
17:48Yeah.
17:49And Chelsea.
17:50Chelsea.
17:52So I'm a psychologist.
17:54And I focus on liberation work and embodiment work with black people who are surviving trauma.
18:01And I'm so excited to be here.
18:03Me too.
18:04I know all that.
18:05Yeah.
18:06All the people.
18:07Yeah.
18:08My name is Chelsea.
18:09I'm here to facilitate the sound bath.
18:11My passion is really in just facilitating space for people to really just drop into their
18:16bodies and regulate their nervous system.
18:19We promised our sister before she left us that we would continue on and do the best that
18:28we could do and be close and be sisters.
18:31And so far, we have not only failed her, but we have failed ourselves.
18:37And this is why you all are here to tap into our individual selves.
18:43Yes.
18:44Beautiful.
18:46So I have to have a disclaimer real fast.
18:48Okay.
18:49My sister, Trina, who I am very, very grateful that you are here today.
18:54She's never been to a sound bath.
18:57She is a bona fide Christian, and she don't cross the line of-
19:01And I'm going to speak for myself in one second.
19:03Okay, I'm sorry.
19:04But my faith does not leave a lot of room for ambiguity.
19:09What's abogu- what's that?
19:12Abogu-inty?
19:14Ambiguity.
19:15What's that?
19:16So in essence, and I'm going to paraphrase it.
19:20I'm going to give you guys a chance, but I'm very firm.
19:23Mm-hmm.
19:25I did a little reading, I did a little research, and I wanted to go in being open because I
19:31didn't want to seem as if I was so completely guarded that I wasn't looking to move forward
19:37to something that could possibly heal the sisterhood.
19:40But I can't compromise how I feel spiritually trying to mend a fence.
19:45All right.
19:46Anything else to add, Chelsea?
19:48It's not the devil, Trina.
19:49We're not going to hell.
19:50I'm not going to hell.
19:51No, we're not.
19:52I can't speak for anybody else.
19:53I can only speak for me.
19:54Yeah.
19:55Well, nothing about what we're doing today is religious.
19:58Um, our intentions here today are to support connection with sisterhood, and I also think
20:04the legacy of your sister.
20:06All right.
20:07So I invite you to choose a shape that feels right for the moment.
20:12You might decide you want to stay seated.
20:15You might decide you want to lay down on your backs.
20:17You want to try laying down, Trina?
20:18I'm purple sitting.
20:19You want to sit.
20:20She's never seated.
20:21I'm purple sitting.
20:22I'm purple sitting.
20:23I'm purple sitting.
20:24I'm going to get my life my entire...
20:25And checking in with your breath.
20:27Start to just soften the body.
20:33With each exhale, you're letting go.
20:40We start with the lower frequency sounds just to help us ground.
20:46See if you can listen to the sounds around you with as much detail as possible.
21:15And starting to bring some awareness back into your bodies.
21:20And then taking a moment to acknowledge each other.
21:24Just making eye contact with each other for a moment.
21:28Seeing each other.
21:29Hey.
21:31Hey.
21:33Yes.
21:34You had your eyes open the whole time.
21:36You don't succumb to nothing.
21:38You want to be honest?
21:39Yeah.
21:40I tried to release myself and let myself go, but I don't know what she praying.
21:44Why she over there doing gongs and stuff.
21:48You said the gong?
21:49Yeah.
21:50The gong show?
21:51And pouring rain and the wind chimes and stuff.
21:54You probably should have had like a five minute conversation with her before.
21:57Probably.
21:58Just so you could have...
21:59I was not able to get into it.
22:01The whole time I'm pleading the blood and I'm speaking in tongues in my head.
22:06That's not my thing.
22:07I don't do the crystals and the bongs and the gongs and the pouring over me.
22:13I...
22:14That's not for me.
22:15It was good, Chelsea.
22:18I appreciate it.
22:19Off camera's rolling.
22:20Camera speed.
22:22Hey Ted.
22:23Action trim.
22:24Hey Ted.
22:25Hey Sink.
22:26What's popping?
22:27You look cute.
22:28I like that outfit.
22:29All cameras rolling, camera speed, okay, and action, Trina.
22:43Hey, Ted.
22:44Hey, Sink.
22:45What's poppin'?
22:46You look cute.
22:47I like that outfit.
22:48Ella?
22:49Where you going?
22:50I'm hanging with my sister.
22:51You going on a date?
22:52With my sister?
22:53When you came to the table, it was Toni Raxton.
22:57So far, the sister trip has been absolutely beautiful.
23:02Any time I can see that glimpse of our sisterhood and our sistership, it makes me happy.
23:09I really like this house.
23:11Beach house, yes.
23:12Everyday living can't do it.
23:14It's so far.
23:15I don't mind the far.
23:17Far is not a problem for me, because we all know that I live in South Carolina.
23:21It's not.
23:22It's about an hour and a half.
23:24And some change sometimes in traffic, yes.
23:26But I love living that far out.
23:28So you would drive an hour and a half every Sunday to come to my house?
23:31That's what I did.
23:32Every Sunday.
23:33You know, before Ashley coming on my podcast, we was fine.
23:38And I individually talked to everyone.
23:41I individually talked to my mother.
23:43I individually talked to Toni.
23:44I individually talked to Trina.
23:45Well, y'all know I can't get Tawana on the phone, and she really don't like me,
23:48and she really don't talk to me, so we ain't gonna act like that.
23:50And Trina and I got together every Sunday to watch Sunday Night Football.
23:54And I had her and her neighborhood come over my house, and they all ate.
23:58We drank beer and had a good old Grand Ole Opry.
24:02We would cook together, drink together.
24:04We would sit and talk together, watch TV together, play games together.
24:07We were just being the family that I was accustomed to us having.
24:11I just wish we could go back to those days because they were really fun times.
24:15What changed?
24:16What stopped you?
24:17If we're being honest...
24:18I wanna be honest.
24:19You said you didn't want anything to do with us anymore.
24:22You sent out a whole text message to me, to Wanda and Toni.
24:26You said that you don't want anything to do with the Braxons.
24:28You don't want your name coming out of our mouths.
24:30Well, don't you think that was after you all served me paperwork?
24:33I didn't serve you anything.
24:35You have displaced anger.
24:37But that is your lawyer.
24:38That is your personal lawyer.
24:40Because to me, that's a cop-out.
24:42That's not fair.
24:45To get a cease and desist letter from your family, that's up.
24:49People are downplaying it as if it's nothing.
24:53When it's everything to me.
24:55Because my cease and desist was to shut down my business.
24:58All I can stand by is my business.
25:00How I'm gonna feed my child?
25:02If I knew someone who was trying to shut your business down or your business down,
25:06I would go for bad for you both.
25:10So yes, I did lash out.
25:13And I was like, F y'all for not coming to my defense or not helping me.
25:19Because I didn't do anything to anybody.
25:22The important thing is that you put the anger where it belongs.
25:28With you all.
25:29No ma'am, sir.
25:30Y'all attorney tried to take my business out of here.
25:34I did not hire him in that capacity.
25:37It's not about hiring him.
25:38It's your friend.
25:40You cannot hold anybody else accountable for someone else's actions.
25:45And I refuse to take accountability.
25:48I had nothing to do with that.
25:49If I did it, I will say it all day long.
25:54I am not afraid of anything that I do or say.
25:57Because I stand behind all of my convictions.
26:00Period.
26:01I can't speak for anybody but Trina.
26:03And Trina didn't do it.
26:08Joni, what do you have to say about this?
26:09Nothing.
26:10Nothing.
26:11I don't understand it.
26:12Okay, so what is it that you need to understand?
26:14I feel like I'm tried and convicted for a crime that I didn't commit.
26:17Didn't know anything about.
26:19And you didn't defend me.
26:20What am I going to defend?
26:22Your best friend.
26:23One of your best friends.
26:24No, no, no.
26:25Tell me what am I supposed to defend?
26:26Jo, leave my sister alone.
26:29Okay, you want me to call the attorney the .
26:31No, your friend.
26:32No, no, no, no.
26:33Talk to him every day.
26:34But what does it have to do with it?
26:35A real question.
26:36Sure, absolutely.
26:37Were you the one who gave the information?
26:40Um.
26:48Wanda, would you like some champagne?
26:51I bet Tawanda might feel some kind of way there.
26:52Why would she feel a certain kind of way that we have a symbolization of her?
26:56Tawanda, what you think?
26:58It can't just be an argument or a disagreement.
27:00Everybody's fine.
27:01And this is not a war.
27:03So why did you get in between us?
27:04Because we are not supposed to do that as sisters.
27:06You better take that back.
27:07I'm not taking nothing back.
27:08I'm not taking nothing back.
27:17Were you the one who gave the information?
27:21Um.
27:23Did I give him a?
27:25Yes, I did.
27:26He asked me for the name of my attorney, and I gave it to him.
27:28Why wouldn't I?
27:29Did you give him my address?
27:31I didn't.
27:33Did you give him my address?
27:34I had no idea you were being served.
27:35I want to apologize to you at the restaurant where I blamed everybody.
27:40Correct?
27:41Mm-hmm.
27:42And I asked specifically, and nobody wanted to say, and I have to tell you that I am sorry.
27:48Because I was angry with you.
27:49Because I'm like, how'd she throw me like that?
27:53How do you help this person take me down?
27:55And I'm sorry.
27:56I'm grateful for the apology.
27:59I think as sisters, as people, you should apologize if you've done something wrong.
28:03I think that was big of her.
28:04I think it was mature and grown up.
28:06Just to say, I'm sorry.
28:07I accused you of something that you didn't do.
28:10I am appreciative of it.
28:13As siblings, we are supposed to be here for each other.
28:16No one is showing up for me.
28:19And that is something that I am willing to accept and take.
28:24What accountability do you take for actually getting physical with your sisters?
28:29Well, because you put your hands on me.
28:31That's not true.
28:32That's not, wait, wait.
28:33First, I'll let you tell your truth.
28:35Because there's a difference between your truth and the truth.
28:38So tell me when I put my hands on you.
28:40So would you like to have proof?
28:42Yes?
28:43Proof is great.
28:44Would you like to have proof?
28:45If you want to get proof, I'll watch.
28:46Okay, let's go have proof.
28:47We're gonna have proof.
28:49Roll the tape.
28:52Because I did not hit Tamar.
28:53And the world will see that I did not hit Tamar.
28:56I think it's important that we see ourselves.
28:58Have you already seen this?
29:00Tamar.
29:01Excuse me, Tamar.
29:02Tamar.
29:03Tamar.
29:04Tamar.
29:05Have you already seen this?
29:07Is that what we're doing?
29:09Because it was a lot.
29:10And then I wanted to spend some time with Brooke.
29:12Excuse me, OG.
29:13And Brooke had a good old time.
29:14Has Tamar already seen this?
29:16This footage has not been seen by Cass.
29:18Everybody's watching it in real time.
29:19For the first time?
29:20This is like 20 minutes.
29:21It's longer than that.
29:22Because that's why I wanted to have an answer to it.
29:24That's why I can't.
29:25It's so nasty.
29:26It's so rude.
29:27What's nasty and rude?
29:28You are nasty.
29:29What's nasty and rude is you're not answering someone when they ask you a question.
29:31I don't have to answer you.
29:32You're not answering me honestly.
29:34In your opinion.
29:36You're a liar, Trina.
29:37No, you're a liar.
29:38Mentirosa.
29:39Mentirosa.
29:40One day you tell me something.
29:41And back at you.
29:42Oh, you don't even know what it means.
29:43It doesn't matter.
29:44Trina, why do you think you're better than me?
29:46What?
29:47No, why do you think?
29:48Why do you think that, Tamar?
29:49Let's get to this.
29:51Why do you dislike me so much on camera?
29:53Why do you feel like everybody's upset with you?
29:55But you just said, mentirosa.
29:57I know that bitch.
29:58No, that is not.
29:59I did not call you out of your name.
30:00What is the problem?
30:01What is the issue that you have?
30:02You called me a liar, so I brought you one back.
30:04Trina, what is the issue that you have with me?
30:07Put it on the table.
30:08Be an adult.
30:09You're 50.
30:10And I have.
30:11Put it on the table.
30:13Could you put your hands on me?
30:14You put your hands on me.
30:15You put your hands on me.
30:16And you did not say, I'm sorry, not one time.
30:18And you didn't touch me.
30:19I didn't touch you.
30:20You didn't touch me?
30:21Did not.
30:22Whoa, you didn't touch me?
30:23Well, let's look at the footage.
30:24You didn't touch me?
30:25Let's look at the footage.
30:26Let's get this straight.
30:27Let us.
30:28But we have it right here.
30:29Did you not touch me?
30:30Did not touch you.
30:31OK.
30:32We have it right here.
30:33You did not pass any less on you.
30:34Fast forward.
30:35I don't even .
30:36You're going to owe everybody at this table an apology.
30:40And you're all going to owe me one, too.
30:42Since this hoe over here talking about .
30:44No.
30:45Go there.
30:46Tony.
30:47Tony.
30:48Tony.
30:49Tony.
30:50Tony.
30:51Tony.
30:52Tony.
30:53Tony.
30:54Tony.
30:55Tony.
30:56Tony.
30:57Tony.
30:58Tony.
30:59Tony.
31:00Tony.
31:01Tony.
31:02Tony.
31:03Tony.
31:04Tony.
31:05Tony.
31:06Tony.
31:07Tony.
31:08Tony.
31:09Tony.
31:10Tony.
31:11Tony.
31:12Tony.
31:13Tony.
31:14Tony.
31:15Tony.
31:16Tony.
31:17Tony.
31:18Tony.
31:19Tony.
31:20Tony.
31:21Tony.
31:22Tony.
31:23Tony.
31:24Tony.
31:25Tony.
31:26Tony.
31:27Tony.
31:28Tony.
31:29Tony.
31:30we know that ray charles can see that and so can stevie wonder i did not hit my sister
31:36my hair was pulled i was kicked take accountability for your words your actions and your deeds
31:45period i don't know why the fight's got to be to the death it can't just be an argument or
31:50disagreement everybody's fine and this is not a war that's the part i don't get why i got oh okay
31:57i guess okay good because no one ever says you know what trina you're wrong you know what tawanda
32:04you're wrong you know what tony you're wrong it's always tamar that becomes very taxing
32:12when it is a group by one there's things that you've been wrong at absolutely about no one calls
32:20you on that's not true whoa let me finish i feel that you put your hands on me whether that was
32:29your intent or not and if you're telling me that that was not your intent i have to accept that
32:37outside of what i feel and what i believed in that moment in that moment i felt attacked i felt like i
32:45couldn't get a word in edgewise in that moment my loyalty everything that our sisterhood stood on
32:57was being challenged and it wasn't a conversation it was an attack
33:03so trina the last thing i want to do is put my hands on you because i love you me putting my hands on
33:12you was probably one of the things i regret the most there is no excuse from that even if you put your
33:21hands on me but i don't receive that because i didn't
33:29i understand that the sisters had a retreat trip tawanda has nothing to say umbelina tawanda what you
33:47think what i will not allow to happen is that you create a narrative that i put my hands on you you
33:55said i shouldn't have gotten her face and i got in between my sisters where do we go from here
34:08me putting my hands on you was probably one of the things i regret the most there is no excuse from
34:14that even if you put your hands on me but i don't receive that because i didn't and what i will not
34:21allowed to happen is that you tell a story or create a narrative that i put my hands on you and
34:27i did it when it was shown here and you stopped it wherever you wanted to stop it we can play it i
34:32think it's it's still my interpretation it doesn't it's not going to change you can play it a hundred
34:36times but no but my interpretation we do play it a hundred if you did not mean to put your hands on
34:42me my hair i did and kicked me out you and did and that was the and that and behind my sister
34:49what's wrong i didn't retaliate you should have you should have absolutely not that's not what sisters
34:56do well in my opinion sisters don't get in between sisters as if me and tony has never gotten into a
35:02physical altercation then you shouldn't have been in her face like that she got in my face we got in each
35:05other's face thank you well you should have been in hers but if you didn't say that you said i
35:09should have gotten her face and i'm saying it again which is what i'm what's what i'm trying to
35:13say but what did you hear me say afterwards did you hear me say that afterwards no after she said it
35:20i know trina not on my side come on it's obvious let's look let's read the room i am not making
35:24this up tony stood up i mean i guess the bird is rubbing off on her she stood up like gang gang i got up
35:34like gang gang trina got the pushing well she didn't push tony she pushed me back and everybody
35:41know when you acting gang gang you can't put your hands on somebody so when she pushed me i took that
35:46as a lick and i'm standing by that so why did you get in between us because we are not supposed to do
35:52that as sisters we are better than that she stood up first step we are sisters she stood up first i can
35:58stand up second and i got in between my sisters you better take that back i'm not taking nothing back
36:05you take it back that you put your hands on me you take that back i take it back
36:11now what
36:11i hate that it got physical like my parents didn't play that this is the first time in my
36:33life that i've ever seen my sisters get physical this is boring for me
36:38i love that they're talking and recognizing their contribution to how we got there i just never
36:45get that angry but i recognize that it's our face and it's going to get better i'm going to keep saying
36:51that because i got to say it so it can happen words are powerful for me the bigger picture is
37:00where do we go from here
37:06i realize that there are some relationships that will just not be resolved
37:16and i have to be okay with that until that time and that place comes
37:24but what i don't want is any more of that okay i wish we can just have a couple conversations and
37:37everything is going to be where it used to be and that's not where we are just yet nothing is healed
37:42overnight but tomorrow's another day
37:57chef can i have a little champagne just like trina some berries like trina that's what i want to bury
38:02like trina me too and this is my oh that's enough i don't want to ruin my bed oh
38:10that's the water
38:33the chicken is chickening it's all good chef you did that ain't you glad we changed the menu won't
38:38he do it what was the menu prior to you tony braxton food that nobody want to eat you said
38:43us eating seafood that one time for her birthday nobody want that we want black people food we want
38:48the house smell like chicken like it's supposed to she said ooh we're going to start with a foam
38:53a moose boosh i'm like no nobody wants that who wants to eat foam foam flavored foam foam
38:59umber hey tree hey love hey umber she made all your favorites huh yeah rumors
39:11i can't see for pickles let me see everything okay chef can i have everything oh she wanted
39:16to be fancy pants wanda would you like some champagne
39:23what does she have in her mouth girl twisted pretzels a little pretzel i bet you
39:27wanted might feel some kind of way that why would she feel a certain kind of way that we have a
39:31symbolization of her mouth open well that's the best i could do trina got on tracy we are all here
39:38trina got on who oh yeah yeah it's great i'm definitely happy that i decided to go on this sister retreat
39:48no matter what fights ensue no matter what arguments ensue we're always going to have our sisterhood
39:55forever hello isn't family great i love you on purpose mind you it might take a little time
40:05to heal but at the end of the day your sisters are your first friends
40:14they're the first people you tell your secrets to
40:16and that is something that i'm always going to strive to keep for the rest of my life
40:26how big are your boom aren't they great they are good look look how pretty they are
40:31don't i don't want to see your boo is the best gift ever given to myself things not only going to
40:37get better they are getting better you know what i mean and we're going up and up and up and up and up
40:42we have so many amazing memories yes so many fun times at the end of the day this is me showing up for
40:52my family i'm so grateful that you're here i would like to get to the other side and start winning with
41:01my sisters what's new pussycats i cooked for six hours because mommy's oven is so slow
41:08you're gonna have sickness you're gonna have ups and downs it's just what you call life and it's
41:17what you do with it that matters hey beautiful hey daddy get off the phone it's sister time i'm always
41:26working on healing the sisterhood i think it is an emotional roller coaster but i'm just optimistic
41:32that is gonna get better little baby steps to wanda what you think 20 has nothing so i understand
41:41that the sisters had a retreat trip i was not in attendance i'm a newlywed hello this new season was
41:51giving us a new exhale of life we're just still gonna push through
41:59through with grace we can stand alone
42:05we can stand together
42:14listen i'm in my non-offensive era does that mean that you won't offend anybody or you won't get offended
42:21both amen that's a good place to be salute oh to a non-offensive era to a non-offensive era
42:31clank clank clank clank clank clank clank we're family and sisters exactly and let's always be
42:37intentional about who we are as sisters even when it hurts yes let go okay yeah that's the best fried
42:45chicken i haven't had in a long time it's really good you really take it to one do the ticket don't even
42:51say anything let's let her do it
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