Seeking Sister Wife Season 6 Episode 10

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00:00E eu casei com Garrick.

00:02Now, I am Merrifield.

00:05I think there's still a lot of settling in to do.

00:09I'm wondering how the future's gonna look for all of us.

00:14Has everything been going good? You want some tea on him?

00:17Give me the tea on...

00:18Or the D.

00:21I am feeling jealous.

00:22There is a bit of me that's like,

00:24oof, someone's getting a little...

00:26I'm sorry.

00:27I'm excited.

00:28She really shows facial expressions,

00:30that she's not comfortable.

00:32I want to believe that she won't be jealous,

00:34but we never know.

00:37How did it go last night?

00:39The conversation with Jackie regarding my boundary

00:42with Yesel not having a baby with another woman

00:45didn't turn out the way we wanted.

00:47Did she basically end things with us?

00:49Yes.

00:51Well, that kind of sucks now, doesn't it?

00:55I don't think after tonight,

00:57I want to pursue a relationship with you.

00:59So that's how she broke up with us.

01:06Okay.

01:07I haven't told my family about our relationship dynamic.

01:11They're extremely opinionated.

01:14But with Shanae being gone,

01:16I might need to lean on my family.

01:19The way that you are about yourself, Teresa,

01:22it's causing disruptions in the harmony of our situation overall.

01:27I think they are getting tired of me running away

01:31and not addressing the issues when they bring them up.

01:35We have reached a sort of a crossroads.

01:37I know.

01:38I got you.

01:39I'm going to go take a moment.

01:41I'm sitting here trying to have an adult conversation.

01:43If you want to get up and act all flustered, all extra,

01:46and just get the up and go then.

02:08All right, you ready?

02:09We are heading straight for that bar.

02:11I'm definitely going to need a shot of liquid curry.

02:14I know why I'm so anxious.

02:16Today is our second date with Randy,

02:18and Billy's coming with,

02:20and I'm super excited to see her again

02:23and kind of see where her head's at

02:25and where this is all heading.

02:28How are you doing?

02:29Hey, I'm doing great.

02:30How about yourself?

02:31Good.

02:32Good, good, good.

02:33Good shot if we...

02:34Yeah, I guess we'll go big or go home, so...

02:37I want tequila.

02:38Tequila?

02:39And whiskey, please.

02:40All right.

02:41Now that these feelings of jealousy have hit me,

02:44I'm anxious to see Randy again,

02:48but at the same time,

02:50Reese is super excited.

02:51I don't want to let him down.

02:53He's already got emotions invested,

02:55and obviously he sees something in her.

02:58Cheers.

02:59Cheers.

03:00So, I want to give it a shot.

03:04My favorite!

03:06Give us...

03:07Oh, my gosh.

03:08Oh, careful, careful, careful.

03:10All right.

03:11Go first.

03:12Oh, I get to go first?

03:13Yeah.

03:14How are you feeling?

03:15Well, I'm really anxious.

03:16So, I mean, obviously,

03:18she's kind of interested.

03:20I don't know how this is going to go.

03:22Just pull off the band-aid.

03:24I did.

03:25I did it.

03:26Good job.

03:27How about you?

03:28How are you feeling?

03:29We're concerned about you.

03:30We just have to make sure we're on the same page.

03:32You know?

03:35Hello.

03:36Hey!

03:37How are you?

03:38Good to see you.

03:40Good to see you.

03:41Hello.

03:42You doing okay?

03:43Yeah.

03:44Yeah, I'm doing okay.

03:45You guys are playing ginga.

03:46You're playing a game.

03:47So, I had a great time with Reese on the first date.

03:52He seems like a great guy,

03:54but there are some concerns that I have with Billy

03:57that I think need to definitely be addressed.

04:01So, how's the babies?

04:02How's the kids?

04:03Good.

04:04Getting big.

04:05Oh, my gosh.

04:06You're so cute.

04:07It's crazy.

04:08I was looking at pictures from a year ago,

04:09and they just look so different.

04:10And it's only a year.

04:11So, how are you guys feeling with everything?

04:16I feel like I love being able to get to know you

04:21and being able to message you,

04:23because now you totally understand him,

04:25so I have somebody that I can relate to.

04:27I know she's had some questions, too.

04:30Yeah, me too.

04:32Shoot, ask away.

04:33Yeah, I was just wondering how you feel about some things,

04:38because I felt like last time we met

04:42that maybe you were uncomfortable.

04:46I got the vibe that maybe it was just, like, not for you,

04:49or you weren't sure about me,

04:52or just the whole situation in general.

04:57I really didn't even want to come back.

05:01Oh.

05:02I, like, basically wanted to cut off contact because of it.

05:07Because of my reaction?

05:09Yeah.

05:10Oh, okay.

05:13Knowing that Billy did feel jealous,

05:15I'm not surprised that Randy is feeling this way.

05:18I would be really disappointed

05:20if we had to end things with Randy

05:24because of these feelings.

05:25I mean, we put all this effort.

05:27I have put a lot of emotion, a lot of time and energy,

05:31and for it to all just kind of be flushed away

05:34is really defeating.

05:52This is why Mommy's a nurse and not a cake decorator.

05:55I'm going to let it slide because you're cute.

06:01Are you excited for Daddy to come home?

06:04Mommy.

06:05Today's finally the day.

06:06Yessel comes home, and I'm super excited,

06:10but I would say this homecoming feels a little bit more awkward

06:14than most because we need to address

06:17that things didn't work out with Jackie,

06:20which sucks a little bit.

06:23Daddy's going to be home in, like, 45 minutes, dude.

06:27So Mommy's got to get cooking, okay?

06:29I don't want negative feelings to fester

06:32or, like, resentment or anything.

06:34It feels like it might be a little bit in that arena,

06:39which is scary.

06:40So I feel like...

06:45I kind of, like...

06:49This is why I'm excited for your Daddy to be home.

06:56It's been a long couple of days of traveling.

06:58I am jet-lagged.

07:08Also, I am feeling a little bit cranky

07:10about how it was handled with Jackie.

07:16We've had our struggle with seeking a sister-wife, obviously.

07:20It just didn't really work out with Jackie.

07:23So it's just one of those things that...

07:26It sucks, especially because it happened while I was away.

07:31Shortly after Danny and Jackie had that conversation,

07:35Jackie did reach out to me.

07:37She immediately let me know how very disappointed she was.

07:42Danny and I haven't really talked about

07:45what happened at that dinner or after.

07:49I am feeling a little bit bitter.

07:52We have to really hash this out,

07:54so we're back on the same page

07:57and just...

07:58There's no more awkwardness between us.

08:01Daddy.

08:02Hi, boy.

08:03Oh, my goodness!

08:04Go get one!

08:05Go get one!

08:06Go get one!

08:07Go get one!

08:08Hi, Bobby.

08:09Good job!

08:11Oh!

08:12He's a big boy!

08:13Isn't he heavy?

08:14I am so excited to see Danny and the boys.

08:32Coming home is always one of the best days of the year, I guess one could say.

08:45Oh, yeah.

08:46Thank you, babe.

08:47You're welcome.

08:48Mmm.

08:49Good luck.

08:50I'm about to bust this food down.

08:51I am really hungry.

08:52Mm-hmm.

08:53This is mine.

08:55Where's your guys' food?

08:57Okay.

08:58Did you make some for you?

09:00You know how hard I worked making all of that

09:02with your two children running around in the kitchen?

09:04With, like, no other adult help?

09:06I mean...

09:10What?

09:11To be fair.

09:12Mm-hmm.

09:13We could have had a little adult help.

09:17Mm.

09:18You know.

09:19Mm-hmm.

09:21Mm-hmm.

09:22Mm-hmm.

09:23Mm-hmm.

09:24JJ.

09:25JJ.

09:26JJ.

09:27JJ.

09:28No, no.

09:29I could have.

09:30Watch that one, huh?

09:32Mm-hmm.

09:33Are you mad about it?

09:34Are you...

09:35I mean, I'm a little...

09:37I'm a little pissed about it.

09:38It happened while I was away.

09:40I wasn't really there to even try to remedy this situation.

09:44I wasn't there to try to support you in this situation.

09:47Right.

09:48So it sucked.

09:55This is supposed to be a happy time.

09:57I just feel like you're a little hangry,

09:59and you should probably eat.

10:00We will talk about it later

10:02when we can sit down, focus, full bellies, kids asleep.

10:05Okay.

10:06Let's give them a nap while I eat some food.

10:09Okay.

10:12I think in an ideal world,

10:14Yesel would want Jackie here to welcome him home.

10:17I don't like feeling like I let someone down.

10:23And just, like, knowing that...

10:26You know, maybe I could have prevented

10:29the ending of everything.

10:31Kind of feels like I took it away from him, so...

10:34It's just emotional.

10:35I'm, like, disappointed in myself a little bit.

10:38We let Danielle come in, and we let Vera call her mommy.

10:47And then she left.

10:49I don't want to do that again with Teresa.

10:53It's just enough is enough at this point.

10:57There's been some things going on in my family.

11:00I am scared to let my family in on this,

11:04because it can go either way.

11:06What is it then?

11:07I want us to be able to have fun and enjoy Jenny's pregnancy...

11:26Absolutely.

11:27And enjoy each other's company.

11:29All the time.

11:30And if every single time we try to talk to her about her...

11:33Self-destructiveness.

11:34Right.

11:35Her self-destructiveness.

11:36Let's go ahead and call it what it is.

11:37Right.

11:38Every time we try to talk to her, she runs away,

11:41and then we never get to talk about it,

11:43and then she'll try to come back and act like nothing ever happened.

11:46You know, I love Teresa very much.

11:49We all do.

11:50She's got a special place in our heart,

11:52and she's made a place in our family.

11:55I mean, we'd like to have a place for her in our family.

11:58But it's been eight or nine months that we've had to constantly revisit these same issues,

12:04these same topics that she finds herself stuck on and able to move past.

12:09This is not the energy or the mode that we want to sustain.

12:16All we've done is try to help, making sure that she feels secure and...

12:24Supported.

12:25...try to help her cancel out all of those negative, you know, self-talk moments.

12:31I don't want to have that constant energy in the house of being like,

12:35Oh.

12:36Right, right.

12:37You know what I mean?

12:38Walking on eggshells, worried about if somebody's...

12:40Going to trigger her.

12:41Right.

12:42Something's going to upset her.

12:43Right.

12:44I mean, and I guess if she's just going to always run away, then maybe we need to just let her run away.

12:49Yeah.

12:50And not keep trying to pull her back in.

12:53It's 100% about Teresa's relationship with herself.

13:00That is the trouble.

13:02Mm-hmm.

13:03There's nothing we can do to help her address the relationship she has inside.

13:10And the thing is, is the baby's going to be here in a few weeks.

13:14And it breaks my heart.

13:16Because we're so concerned about making sure Teresa feels good.

13:19We can't even enjoy Jenny's pregnancy.

13:22And I just don't want to keep doing that.

13:24It's like maybe she's just, you know, keep giving her a chance.

13:31Give her a chance.

13:32And like, you know, she'll, she'll work through it.

13:36Um, but at the same time, we're at the point that we're at, you know?

13:40And so that's what's, that's what has me really torn, you know?

13:44It's like, especially coming up on having a baby.

13:48It's like, you know, maybe, maybe I'm being too hard.

13:52You know, maybe it's not a big deal.

13:54Like maybe like I'm overreacting and stuff like that.

14:00It's upsetting and concerning to me for my two beautiful wives to be all emotional and upset.

14:07And I'm really not happy about that at all.

14:10We let Danielle come in and we let Vera call her mommy, you know?

14:18And then she left.

14:19And so it's like, I don't want to do that again with Teresa.

14:25And have my child get attached just for you to leave because you can't get your together.

14:31Yeah.

14:33It's just enough is enough at this point.

14:37Either she's going to commit herself to doing the internal work that she needs to do to help herself heal.

14:44Or she's not going to be here.

14:46Today I'm going over to my mom's house.

14:53I'm going to be meeting with my mom, my sister Chastity, my Auntie Pumpkin, and my Auntie Tiffany.

15:00So that I can share that me and Matt, we had this polygamous relationship.

15:06Hey.

15:07Are you ready for a shot?

15:08Yeah.

15:09Um, shot o'clock?

15:10Yeah, I'll take one.

15:11Yeah.

15:12Two or three years ago, I told Chastity that we had this relationship.

15:15But I think I've decided now after three years to let my family in on our secret, on our life.

15:22Because we just broke up with Shanae.

15:23And I'm hurting.

15:24Right now, I need my family more than ever.

15:26I don't have that extra support to lean on in my relationship.

15:33Because Matt is also hurting.

15:34He doesn't know how to process my pain and his own.

15:36I don't have that extra support to lean on in my relationship.

15:40Because Matt is also hurting.

15:41He doesn't know how to process my pain and his own.

15:46But I think I've decided now after three years to let my family in on our secret, on our life.

15:51Because we just broke up with Shanae.

15:53And I'm hurting.

15:54Right now, I need my family more than ever.

15:57I don't have that extra support to lean on in my relationship.

16:02He's so stupid, I swear.

16:03What?

16:04Sorry.

16:05What you been up to, Angelica?

16:06Nothing, just working.

16:07Raising these kids.

16:08I'm raising these kids.

16:09Trying.

16:10My family is very judgmental.

16:24They're extremely opinionated.

16:27I am scared to let my family in on this.

16:31Because it can go either way.

16:33All right, Jeff.

16:34Go ahead.

16:35Explain the game.

16:36Because some of them don't know.

16:37See?

16:38You have to see.

16:39You have to put it in the center.

16:40Ah, pass it to the right.

16:42Left, you pass it to the left.

16:47There you go.

16:48Center and right.

16:49Yeah.

16:50There you go.

16:51All right, so the reason why I wanted to talk to you guys.

16:54Don't make me fall asleep.

16:55There's been some things going on in my house, my family.

17:00You can have just one more baby.

17:02No, no more kids.

17:03Where is it?

17:04Where is it then?

17:05So...

17:12Matt and I have actually been dating...

17:16You said you're the swingers?

17:17Whoa, whoa, whoa.

17:18Someone else.

17:19Girl, don't tell me that.

17:21What, you swing?

17:22Yes!

17:23But we're not swingers.

17:24We're not swingers.

17:25Listen, let her talk.

17:26Yeah.

17:27We're not swingers.

17:28Matt and I have been dating a woman and...

17:32What?

17:33As a sister wife.

17:35As a sister wife.

17:36Oh, hell no!

17:39What?

17:40I don't get it.

17:41I don't know what you're saying to me.

17:43I don't know what she's saying.

17:45So essentially, Matt has a second...

17:48He has a girlfriend or a second wife.

17:50Do you have a girlfriend?

17:52You sign...

17:53You're signing up to be...

17:55A sister wife?

17:56Like on TV?

17:57You and Matt are married.

17:58Yes!

17:59You and Matt are married.

18:01You and Matt got married.

18:02How long have you been married?

18:03Since 2019.

18:04Okay.

18:05How you sign up to be a side chick?

18:07You're married.

18:08You're okay with being a married side chick?

18:09I know you love him, but you know what?

18:11No.

18:12I can promise you his ain't that good.

18:13I know.

18:14He don't even got that much money.

18:15It was actually my idea.

18:16Help us, Jesus.

18:17Why?

18:18It doesn't have anything to do with sex.

18:32It's not fueled by sex.

18:33What is it?

18:34Not for you?

18:35Why?

18:36Why?

18:37Why did you bring it up though?

18:38Why?

18:39Because I want the relationship.

18:42I want the relationship dynamic, the friendship, the camaraderie.

18:45With Matt?

18:46Or the girl?

18:47No, with the other girl.

18:48You want a friend, so you're going to find a side chick for Matt?

18:51No.

18:52No.

18:53Because you're the side chick.

18:54No.

18:55I don't know how she got to this point where she thinks it's okay to find another...

19:01a replacement for herself, because that's what it is.

19:05I love Matt.

19:06I love my son-in-law, but I just don't think he's worth any of this.

19:12Angelica, whatever happened to just having an affair?

19:18He's throwing that all in your face.

19:20You know what I mean?

19:21Why can't he just have an affair?

19:23Because an affair doesn't involve a full relationship.

19:27Oh, it does.

19:28Like...

19:29Do you think, okay, do you think he will allow you?

19:32I don't want to be with anyone else.

19:35Yes, you do.

19:36But him, she loves him.

19:37She just wants to make him happy.

19:38That's the way I'm thinking.

19:41I can't say nothing, because the stuff I'm going to say you're not going to like.

20:00Oh, yeah.

20:02Hey, babe.

20:03Hey.

20:04Boys are down after about seven books.

20:08Two bedtime songs.

20:09The usual.

20:10That looks nice.

20:11Ooh.

20:12A little hot.

20:13A little bit.

20:14It moved at me.

20:15Since Yesel's been home, there's definitely some tension in the air.

20:20I can tell he's upset.

20:21A little more paper doesn't hurt.

20:23I think he's pissed.

20:24I know he's pissed.

20:25I want to touch some grass with my toes, because the last three months, I feel like I need to be grounded.

20:42The last few months have felt very long.

20:47While I was away, Jackie and I were video calling, messaging on a pretty regular basis.

20:53Things were going well.

20:54I feel like we had a strong bond.

20:56I felt pretty close to her.

20:57And then in one day, it just blew up.

21:02What happened at that dinner?

21:04What exactly happened?

21:06There it is.

21:07You still a little spicy?

21:09Obviously, things completely fell apart.

21:12Right.

21:13So...

21:14We had the conversation about the no kid thing.

21:17Like, I'm just not comfortable with her having a biological child with you.

21:21What did she say when you brought that up?

21:23I just feel like she was a little too shell-shocked, and she definitely thought it was unfair.

21:30I feel like, you know, woman to woman, I feel like maybe she could have took it as you asserting almost like some sort of dominance or something.

21:44She could have took it as a threat.

21:46You don't know.

21:47I could have possibly been the buffer there.

21:50It sounds like her problem.

21:52No, it's an all of us problem.

21:55If you were there, that boundary is not going to change.

21:59So this is not a her problem.

22:04It's not a her problem.

22:11I wonder every day if Dani really wants this.

22:15I have kept a lot of my opinions to myself.

22:18And I feel like maybe it wasn't the wisest choice to completely let her, you know, give her the reins.

22:26And I am regretting not being more vocal with my concerns initially.

22:31I don't feel like it.

22:32I just kind of want to ask, like, is it, is it, do you still want to do this?

22:36Or is it the boundary awaited for you to, like, sabotage?

22:41Kind of like the relationship.

22:43So...

22:44You've got to look at it from somebody else's point of view.

22:46You're a person coming into an established marriage, an established family.

22:55If somebody's telling you, you cannot have biological kids with my husband, I mean, wouldn't you see that as a major red flag?

23:05Like, what, what else? Are they trying to control me, you know?

23:12It's not about control.

23:14Like, it's not, I could, I could see how it would seem unfair to someone.

23:18Absolutely.

23:19And I get that.

23:20But this is not like a new boundary just because it's her.

23:24Is it something that, is it fair to me? Because, obviously, I want more kids.

23:32Oh, I feel like that's another discussion to have.

23:35And we're, we can have it right now.

23:43Do you think it's fair to you?

23:45Just, just, just a thought in my head is all it is.

23:54Well, if I could give you more, I would.

23:56Oh, I know you would.

23:57I just, like I've said multiple times, like, I just don't, my journey's over with it.

24:02My body's done.

24:03My heart is not.

24:04So to watch another woman have what I want so bad, I can't do that.

24:16I can't do that.

24:19I believe if someone wants this dynamic with us that bad, then they would, you know, be willing to compromise.

24:34Can you live without having more biological children?

24:45Yeah.

24:46Okay.

24:47Absolutely can.

24:48I mean, I have our three boys.

24:50I have you.

24:51And we're perfectly happy.

24:53I'm perfectly happy.

24:54Okay.

24:57I am more than prepared to sacrifice having another child for the sake of my family.

25:03my boys and my wife's happiness.

25:06All right.

25:07Let me guess.

25:08During this, during this process, I feel like I've been giving you more of the reins and, you know, with Jackie and all that.

25:20Mm-hmm.

25:21And I feel like it, it, it possibly bit us in the ass.

25:27Maybe if we are more together and, and, and all of it.

25:35I just realized we both kind of did the same thing in different ways.

25:40Irony.

25:41You know, we got to learn lessons the hard way.

25:45That's true.

25:46During our first attempt at seeking, Yesel took the reins and I took a back seat and it, it blew up in her face.

25:57The second time around, Yesel let me take the reins because I feel like he felt a little bit guilty and it blew up in her face again.

26:05We're one for one each.

26:08Dead even one for one.

26:09Yes, we are.

26:10Okay.

26:11Knowing that we're both learning from our mistakes is reassuring.

26:15And now it's even.

26:17Moving forward, we should definitely bring up the baby subject in the beginning, you know?

26:24We.

26:25We.

26:26Together.

26:27Together.

26:28So it's not just one person delivering that very big piece.

26:31Especially if we know it's somebody that's definitely interested in having a child.

26:36Mm-hmm.

26:37You know, put it in our profile.

26:39It's just one of those things we, I feel like we need to be really upfront about.

26:42Right.

26:43I have learned that keeping quiet doesn't work because emotions are very loud.

26:50Yeah.

26:51And this is for everybody out there.

26:53If your relationship is not solid.

26:55Right.

26:56On solid freaking ground.

26:57Right.

26:58Try and polygamy out.

26:59Whew.

27:00It is not for the faint of heart.

27:02No.

27:03No.

27:04Mm-mm.

27:05As long as we commit to being on the same page with each other, then I feel like, you know,

27:12third time might be the charm.

27:13Might be.

27:14Or fourth or fifth or sixth.

27:16We're not gonna speak.

27:19We're not gonna do that.

27:22This experience has made our relationship better.

27:26Learning how to just slow things down a little bit.

27:29Finding more of those compromises that we never thought we'd have to make.

27:33Right.

27:34As many times, times as it takes.

27:36Jesus.

27:37Okay.

27:38I think our needle and haystack is out there.

27:43How far out there?

27:47No idea.

27:48I don't think it'll be easy, but I'm looking for a lifelong bond with someone.

27:54You don't take the easy road to get that.

27:56Hot young couple, done with kids, but looking for a sister wife.

28:02You're not wrong.

28:03I am hoping third time is the charm, and we hit a home run.

28:09But in the back of my mind, all I'm thinking is, does she really wanna do this?

28:13We'll see what happens.

28:15Well, I'm about done stroking this fire.

28:19Stoke.

28:20Stroke this fire, I'm gonna stroke that fire.

28:23Can we go inside now?

28:24Okay.

28:26How do I know you're not just gonna run away with my husband?

28:32I just really hope that Billie can get her feelings in check, because I like Randy.

28:50I felt like last time we met, that maybe you were uncomfortable, because I mean, basically, it was jealousy.

29:01I really didn't even wanna come back.

29:05Because of my reaction.

29:07Yeah.

29:08Okay.

29:12I don't know.

29:13I wanted to talk to you about that a little bit more, if we could, and just make sure.

29:17Yeah, absolutely.

29:18Make sure.

29:19I've gotta run the restroom, so I'm gonna leave you ladies so you can sit and chat for a minute, okay?

29:23All right.

29:26I just really hope that Billie can get her feelings in check, because I like Randy, I see something there.

29:32But this relationship has to work for Billie as well, so I'm just gonna excuse myself and let them talk amongst themselves,

29:40because there are gonna be a lot of tough conversations in the future if we do move forward with this.

29:45So I think this will definitely be a test for them to see, I mean, if they're compatible in this journey.

29:51So, how do you think that you will handle the jealousy if we do bond and click?

30:03Because I'm not fully convinced right now that you would be able to deal with that.

30:10So, one of my biggest fears is how do I know you're not just gonna run away with my husband?

30:21What if my husband ends up loving you more?

30:24Because everything is, you know, shiny, it's new, it's fun, and I'm not.

30:29I'm what's been here before, you know what I mean?

30:32Old news.

30:33Like, yeah, like the old news.

30:36I wouldn't do that.

30:39I mean, I can understand those fears.

30:42I don't wanna ruin anything that you guys have, you know?

30:45Yeah.

30:46I mean, I wouldn't be human, I think, if I didn't have some sort of emotion.

30:49Definitely.

30:50You know what I mean?

30:51I totally agree with that, too.

30:53Like, having all those emotions and fears is natural.

30:58So, I know you have your fears, but I have mine, too.

31:03And how, you know, am I supposed to know that I'm not always gonna be second?

31:08Yeah, and that's totally legitimate, and I've told Reese I don't like, like, the terms, like, first wife, second wife, because I don't want there to be a hierarchy among people.

31:22It's all, it's all of our relationship.

31:25Like, yeah, we got married first, and I understand that, like, when we have history, but that's why we're going slow and dating is to build up that rapport so that you guys can be just as comfortable.

31:38You have very valid fears, you know?

31:40And as long as we go slow and steady and everyone's comfortable, I think we'll be on the path to the right way, because, I mean, those fears that you have of being kicked out is the same fears that I have, you know, of being kicked out.

31:53Yeah.

31:56I'm glad that we were able to have this conversation and talk about these things, because that's really reassuring that things could work, you know?

32:07I'm definitely glad that we had this conversation.

32:10Here you go, ladies.

32:13Oh, I'm starving.

32:14Randy seems really receptive to everything I'm saying, which is a good quality, you know?

32:18I want to be able to have a sister wife that I can talk to and ask hard questions or have hard conversations.

32:23So, I feel like it's definitely a good thing.

32:29No, look who's here.

32:30Oh, there he is.

32:31Oh, food is here.

32:32Food is here.

32:33We're back.

32:34The man, the myth, the legend.

32:35That's right.

32:36So, after, I mean, I guess, so where do we stand?

32:42Like, where are we going from here?

32:45I think that we can continue to talk and explore it, see where things go, and hopefully it will work out.

32:57Okay, cool.

32:58Okay, I was kind of nervous.

33:00I was like, oh my God.

33:01I know, I give up vibes, but I promise I'm okay.

33:06I'm really satisfied with the way she handled my concerns.

33:11I feel better knowing that she's willing to communicate and hear my side, too.

33:17I'm excited to see where this goes because they're great people.

33:23And Reese is cute, and he gets cuter, too.

33:27Like, he's one of those people, it's like, you get to know their personality and they get...

33:32So, it's good.

33:33He's so fun.

33:35All right, so what are we thinking for third date then?

33:39That's what we're going to do with our date?

33:41I mean, I have...

33:42That's what I was thinking.

33:43All right.

33:44Okay.

33:45And...

33:46We're going to do it.

33:47I was really nervous that it wasn't going to happen.

33:49I don't want Billy to be uncomfortable or feeling jealous.

33:53I don't want our relationship to go negatively and get worse while a relationship with someone else is getting better and forming.

34:02So, you're going to have to speak up, obviously, and then we can address it.

34:09Okay.

34:10If Lorena is pregnant, there is no going back.

34:21We're tied to her for life.

34:23Hi, Lorena.

34:24Hi, Lorena.

34:25Hi, sister.

34:38Where were you when he met this girl and went on a date?

34:40So, if you let me explain, I can put all that out there.

34:44About three years ago...

34:45Are you kidding me?

34:47You wait...

34:48We met her on a dating app.

34:50No, he met her, not me.

34:51No, no.

34:52We met her on a dating app.

34:53Okay.

34:54I created his dating profile.

34:57I helped him write the biography.

34:59I was the one that was swiping through the photos.

35:04So, you picked her?

35:05And I was the one...

35:06I liked her profile.

35:08For him?

35:09For him.

35:10Her name is Shanae.

35:12She's been a great friend to me and a support system, a sister.

35:18What is this about you don't have a support system?

35:20You need to bring this bitch in because you need support?

35:23When your sister's right across the street, I'm always around the corner.

35:27What do you need support for?

35:29For what?

35:30For Matt?

35:31No, it's more than that.

35:33What?

35:34What is it?

35:35It's a different relationship.

35:36She and I are experiencing the same thing.

35:39We're going through the same thing.

35:40What?

35:41What do you want to do?

35:42And it's like a frustration with Matt.

35:46She understands how, you know, how he can be and how...

35:50Kind of how?

35:51Because they're in a relationship as well.

35:56My understanding is she's looking for her village, her support system.

36:01She has it right here.

36:03I know.

36:04I said it in front of me and hurt my feelings, but when she explained it to me...

36:07That came out of your mouth right now was supportive.

36:10I...

36:11We're in shock!

36:14It does bother me and hurt me to see her sad and tearing up and holding back her feelings.

36:20At the end of the day, I'm not okay with this, but I am okay with my sister's happiness.

36:25So, um, we actually just got broken up with by Sine.

36:31Good.

36:32And, um...

36:33And you're sad?

36:34I am sad.

36:35Who gives a if she left?

36:36I feel like you're in the middle.

36:37And it's still not what's going to be you and your husband like it should be.

36:40And your kids.

36:41But I've developed a really good and close relationship with her and friendship.

36:44That's fine.

36:45You can still be her friend.

36:46She can be your best friend.

36:47You know?

36:48That's what I was getting at.

36:49Okay.

36:50Okay.

36:51What?

36:52You guys are...

36:53You and her are going to still be friends?

36:54Hopefully, yeah.

36:55You know, this was...

36:56There was a lot of love and a lot of...

37:00A lot that went into this.

37:02I'm in a lot of pain.

37:04You know, I am in a lot of pain.

37:05I'm hurting.

37:06And I'm looking for my community, my support system.

37:10And I'm coming to you guys asking for that.

37:14That's why I'm here today.

37:16That's...

37:17I love you.

37:18That's what I need.

37:24I don't agree with any of this stuff you're doing.

37:27But I'll be here for you.

37:30You can maintain her friendship.

37:32Just keep her out of your bed.

37:35At this point, I'm completely over even attempting to have a conversation with them.

37:39Maybe this wasn't the best way to go about telling my family about our situation.

37:48It just reminds me why we're on this journey.

37:53And it's...

37:54If anything, it's pushing me to continue down this path even more.

38:02I...

38:03I need Sine.

38:04I...

38:05I cannot lose her.

38:18Okay.

38:19Sister.

38:20You?

38:21Pipi?

38:22Un, dois, tres, cuatro, cinco.

38:24Aqui.

38:25This.

38:26This.

38:27This.

38:30Three weeks after Lorena and Garrick got married, Garrick and my brother Sam ended up having

38:35to go out to Wisconsin to help my grandma with some remodel work for her house that she's trying to sell.

38:41Capi e flat.

38:42Necessito.

38:43Assim.

38:44Flat.

38:45Yeah.

38:46Assim.

38:47Necessito.

38:48So shortly after Garrick left for Wisconsin with my brother, Lorena realized she was a

38:53little bit late with her period.

38:55And...

38:56Grávida, dois.

39:00Entende?

39:01Grávida, dois.

39:02No, grávida, dois.

39:03No, grávida, um.

39:04Okay.

39:05Eu sempre quis engravidar, mas não que eu quisesse engravidar tão rápido chegando

39:10aqui.

39:11Eu estou um pouco preocupada realmente se eu estiver grávida, porque vai ser muita mudança.

39:20Principalmente eu ainda não estar nativa no idioma do inglês e ter um bebê e também

39:27a minha família longe de mim me deixo um pouco preocupada se vai mudar as coisas muito, tanto

39:34pra mim e pro Garrick, mas também pra família.

39:38Oh, meu Deus.

39:40Lorena's only been in the USA for three months, and Garrick and her literally just got married

39:45like three weeks ago, so everything is really happening fast.

39:49To be honest, everything with the relationship with Lorena has happened fast.

39:53The situation, like, it's kind of surreal how fast everything is going.

40:02Garrick and I have never been to this point in polygamy where he's having a child with

40:05another woman, and so I really don't know how I'm going to feel.

40:10The reality is that if Lorena is pregnant, there is no going back.

40:14We're tied to her for life.

40:16I'm sorry, why am I okay?

40:19No, I insist.

40:21Okay, any minute now she should be here.

40:24I have no idea what to expect from this conversation, this interaction we're about to have with Teresa.

40:29Oh, she's here.

40:31I just hope that we can all leave from this experience still being friends at the very least.

40:39I see my house over here.

40:46I see her house over here.

40:49I feel like we're getting really close to having our dream, you know, our village, our family.

40:54Now, would you be okay, though, knowing I'm right next door with a sister wife?

41:00How are you?

41:04I'm doing all right.

41:05You?

41:07Yeah.

41:08I went with Matt to see another woman, and I didn't tell Shanae.

41:13I think what broke the camel's back for me is you met this person.

41:17I'm not ready to lose her at all.

41:20I'm angry, Angelica.

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