Seeking Sister Wife Season 6 Episode 7

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00:00I was just wondering, maybe,

00:02should we do the sleeping schedule every three nights?

00:05But if we have an extra set, right?

00:08Yeah, true, but like...

00:24I'm getting ready to head out soon.

00:26It'll go by quick.

00:27I feel like if I don't maintain the relationship

00:30I have with Jackie,

00:31then they're not going to maintain

00:33the relationship that they have.

00:35We know she wants more kids.

00:36Mm-hmm.

00:37Would you change your mind?

00:38No.

00:39Keep in mind, we could lose Jackie over this.

00:43I would love to try the birthday cake.

00:45I'll just get the vanilla.

00:46Not even venturing out a little.

00:48This is ice cream.

00:49I'm on my first date with someone other than my wife,

00:53and I am nervous as heck.

00:55There's a lot riding on this.

00:56I don't think we're going for the same thing.

00:58I was just kind of looking to have more fun.

01:01It's really scary.

01:02Nice to meet you.

01:03Nice to meet you.

01:04Knowing that that could have been our one and only chance.

01:08Love it.

01:09I want to feel like I'm a part of this family 100%.

01:15There are times that I call into question

01:17on whether or not Teresa is ready for this.

01:19There are some red flags that I'm seeing.

01:21Are you guys ready?

01:38You ready, babies?

01:39They're so big now.

01:40They've gotten so big.

01:41Today we're going to talk to our friends, Tia and Ashley.

01:46I met them back when I was in high school.

01:49Hi.

01:50Hi.

01:51Hey guys.

01:52Hello.

01:53How are you?

01:55For us, they are super special because they are also our egg donor and they helped us have our children.

02:00Oh, do you want to go?

02:01Come here.

02:02Oh, yeah.

02:03Oh, yeah.

02:04What's that?

02:05Oh, yeah.

02:06You're so big.

02:07You're so big.

02:08I am one years old now.

02:09I am one years old.

02:12When Tia and I started our fertility journey, we obviously went through a fertility clinic

02:17and I seen many people that came in as a struggle and it just always touched me to help someone.

02:24So that's when I had the chance to do it, I threw the idea out.

02:28I love my little red head.

02:30Yeah.

02:31I can't believe how red his head is.

02:32I know that red and blue.

02:33But you have red.

02:34Your mom is red.

02:35She was wishing for that red hair.

02:39Yeah.

02:40It's just crazy to see how big they are now.

02:42Can you believe it?

02:43I wouldn't have thought a couple years ago we'd be here now, you know.

02:47Oh, yeah.

02:48So Ashley and Tia have two children of their own and we've got the twins and they're actually all half siblings.

02:53So we love that they all get to come together and hang out.

02:56So how's everything going with the search and this adventure?

03:02You guys started off.

03:04So I actually have gone on one blind date, but the woman is more interested in Billy than me.

03:11So it hasn't been as easy as I thought it would be.

03:14What?

03:15Totally.

03:16You can reel them in.

03:17So the date with Bez was very interesting.

03:21Hi, Arise.

03:23Sorry, my hands are sweaty.

03:24Oh no, you're fine.

03:25You're fine.

03:26Yeah, definitely didn't go as I had planned.

03:30Are you wanting more kids?

03:32I can't have more kids.

03:33Okay.

03:34Yeah.

03:35So I just, yeah, you could tell my dating game is off.

03:40So I'm just really deflated now because like we're back to like square one.

03:47Like, is this really meant for us?

03:48Or is this just, is this how it's going to be every time?

03:52So I'm on the dating apps, but I'll start a conversation with someone.

03:56And then I tell them what they're, what we're doing, what we're looking for.

04:00And they just ghost me.

04:01They're like, oh, and we've looked in like communities around, you know, Indianapolis.

04:06Oh my gosh, I'm getting started on that.

04:08There's like a lot of lingo you have to try to memorize.

04:11Like you would tell people like, this is what we are trying to do.

04:14And they're all like, no, like that's not okay.

04:16Cause we're, yeah, everybody has to be open to a relationship.

04:19It's called like unicorn hunting.

04:21Yeah.

04:22That's not what I'm looking for.

04:23And that's what we got kind of deemed as like, oh, this is what you're doing.

04:26And there's dragon hunting too.

04:27What is that?

04:28Dragon hunting is when a couple brings in a man who is usually bisexual and they form a triad.

04:52Someone said something about like harem building.

04:54Harem building is where there's one man and multiple, multiple women.

04:59And the intentions there is really to, to bear his children.

05:03That sounds like a cult from out west.

05:05Yes.

05:06That sounds like a cult or like a handsmaid.

05:09Yeah.

05:10I mean, pregnancy for me like is high risk.

05:14So it'd be nice to be able to like grow our family without like having to do that like myself.

05:20But at the same time we have like, we only have our five embryos.

05:23So we only have those, those five, that's five and that's it.

05:27Like if they work, they work.

05:28If they don't, they don't like it's a, it's a hail Mary.

05:31So pregnancy was kind of rough on me.

05:34I mean, it was a twin pregnancy after all.

05:36So I was high risk.

05:37Don't be spilling it.

05:39And we only have five embryos left from the eggs that Ashley had donated to us.

05:44Cause like I can't make a baby, but I can carry a baby.

05:48And I feel like, you know, as I'm getting older, my window is closing for having children.

05:53So, you know, we only have so much time.

05:56I did throw out to Tia that if you guys couldn't and it didn't work out.

06:04I told her I would be okay being pregnant again.

06:07So I really love being pregnant and everything.

06:09And I know the struggles that both of you have gone through.

06:12So I'm willing to carry a baby for you guys.

06:20Just expand your guys' family.

06:22And you guys won't even, wouldn't have to consider these other options to go through that.

06:29Oh, that's crazy.

06:30Oh my gosh.

06:31Yeah.

06:32That is something to think about.

06:35I am shocked.

06:37She's already done so much for us.

06:39I couldn't believe that she was even offering that.

06:42Oh goodness gracious.

06:45That's for the babies.

06:47That's right.

06:48That's right.

06:50I see how much they love children.

06:52I want them to build what they want.

06:54And it's just something I wanted to offer if she couldn't build her family.

06:59Like even getting these babies from you was like, I feel like I owe you so much.

07:05That means a lot.

07:07I think that there's a lot of stuff that she, information that she gave us and that we need

07:12to digest and we need to think on before we make a decision over this.

07:17Yeah.

07:18It's a lot.

07:19Yeah.

07:20It's a lot to process.

07:21Not expecting that at all.

07:22It's something we can discuss.

07:24Yeah.

07:25We can definitely discuss further because that's big information.

07:28here.

07:29Hello.

07:30How are you?

07:31I'm good.

07:32And you?

07:33I'm very good, thank you.

07:36How is your day today?

07:38Hello, how are you? I'm good, and do you? I'm very good, thank you. How is your day today?

07:51Ocupado? Busy. Busy, yeah, today busy. A little tired, tired. As coisas vão bem. Gente, agora

08:02eu tô fazendo aula de inglês três vezes na semana. Então é algo que eu tenho no meu coração que eu deveria estar aqui, e eu tô muito feliz.

08:11Booty. Boa andar. So Lorena's been here now for two months. Things have been going really well.

08:23It's been a little adjustment with the sleeping,

08:25but it's gone pretty well. We're doing two days each wipe, and then Sundays I just am alone, like a day of rest.

08:38Each wipe's a little different, and Lorena definitely does things different.

08:44After 18 years, like, you get used to things. It's not like she's doing things wrong, per se. It's just different, right?

08:49Like, folding towels differently, I've noticed. She doesn't really, like, sort the laundry. Um, like,

08:57colors and things like that. Oh, like, you know, when you put a hanger on, like, the, in the closet, like,

09:04the way it faces, like, she'll put it, like, behind. Does that make sense? Oh, the opposite. Like,

09:09the opposite way. Like, you put it forward. Huh. She does it both ways. Oh, she does both.

09:14She puts it behind, and I'm like, what? It's just different to me. I have to get used to Lorena's

09:21sugar. She is a sugar queen. Oh, my God.

09:29You would think 90 days seems like a long time, but it's really not. Time flies. I think when you

09:33have kids, you realize how fast time flies. We were just really focused on enjoying my time with her,

09:42so it was like, wow, this is moving quickly. Do you guys want to sit and start talking and see

09:48about trying to call that lawyer? We all hope to do a big white wedding,

09:53big celebration with all the family and friends. You like? Yeah, see? Flowers. Oh, look. Sister,

10:00pictures, photos. We tried to get it all coordinated, but there were so many moving parts,

10:06with trying to fly people in on dates that worked for everyone, finding the right venue, getting the

10:10prenup ordered it all just honestly zip by really fast, so we're going to have to do a courthouse

10:16wedding instead. Once we file the paperwork, it said it can take two weeks.

10:24We have 17 business days left until we have that 90-day mark, and it's going to take like 14 of those

10:30days to file for her adjustment of status, and once they are legally married, our immigration lawyer can

10:36then file her adjustment of status paperwork, so we need to get married tomorrow. Otherwise,

10:42we risk Lorena being deported. So this has got me a little stressed out, this whole place we hired to

10:49do the prenuptial agreement. It doesn't have the proper people to speak Portuguese, so they can't finalize

10:57that. Yeah, because it's not valid, which makes sense, right? Because she has to understand it.

11:01She's not fluent in English. She needs somewhat like representation, like somebody, a third party

11:10telling her what's in it, like in Portuguese, right? Garak was doing like prenup stuff online,

11:16and he realized when he got like to the end of it that it's really important that it's translated

11:22in Portuguese. It's verified by a third party that Lorena understands it or is not valid.

11:28They haven't called back yet today, so it's got me stressed out because we got to get this done

11:32immediately. With no prenup, that will leave me, the kids, and my brother's business completely

11:38unprotected legally. But then we're also looking at the time frame of her K-1 visa expiring, so

11:44both things are extremely important for the protection of our family and for Lorena staying here.

11:48If we can't get this prenup finalized by the end of the day, we are going to be in an

11:52impossible situation.

11:56Oh my gosh. We have to have them finalize this today. Oh God.

12:01We should have researched this better. I thought it was the same day.

12:05Why did you wait when this was so serious of a matter?

12:09Honestly, I think we thought that it would be a lot easier with the prenup than it was,

12:14just there was a lot of little details to the process that we didn't realize.

12:17Looking back and thinking, should we have started this earlier? I mean, yeah, we should have. I mean,

12:24we didn't realize how complicated, all the little different details.

12:28I think it's a race against time now, especially since there are only a few days left,

12:36right? So it makes me a little sad. I won't deny it with a heavy heart, but I trust in God.

12:44I hope there will be time.

12:45God has brought us this far. He's not going to fail us.

12:49I feel a little worried and emotional.

12:54I'll pray. It'll be okay.

12:55Yeah.

13:13I think you should call that lawyer right now.

13:14Okay.

13:15I don't even know the process. If some kind of hiccup in the paperwork and immigration

13:24isn't filed in time and they kick her out, like she'd go back to Brazil and we'd have to restart

13:29the process over, reapply. But that'd just be devastating to me, the whole family. We've come

13:36this far. It's been six years. Finally, it's working out. And then she's away from us again. I,

13:43I just, I don't even want to go there. Yeah. It would just destroy everything.

13:50So we're a plural family. My husband and I aren't legally married any longer. Um,

13:56but we, we brought, um, a woman here from Brazil and she's on a K-1 visa and her and Garrick are

14:04tomorrow going to the courthouse to get the marriage certificate and everything. Okay.

14:14I feel definitely vulnerable and nervous. I'm thinking about my kids. I'm thinking about

14:18not only my kids, but about the rest of my family. I mean, our house is in Garrick's name.

14:23Our construction company is in his name. And so we need the prenup first. This could be a total

14:27disaster and that Lorena could take advantage of Garrick and I and our family. Okay. And then would I

14:34just call you back on this number? That would truly be devastating. I don't even know what

14:41words to describe how that would make me feel.

14:52Nick always says, he just wants everybody to be okay. And that everybody includes you. I do feel

14:58like I'm trapped in a cycle of ups and downs of feeling amazing about myself and then days feeling

15:04like I'm worthless. Your insecurities are unfounded. They're baseless. How are you?

15:11Good. How are you? Tonight, I'm going out to dinner with Jackie to talk about my boundary.

15:16Cheers. Definitely nervous to actually vocalize it to her. I figured this would be a conversation to

15:24have between, like, woman to woman. Tough topic, really.

15:46Do you want to sit? Yeah. Blueberries?

15:50Grapes?

15:50Okay. Come on, bud. Let's go play. Yesel's been gone for a while and with each

16:03travel for work, it just gets harder and harder and harder. Let's go. Let's go. Let's go.

16:09There's a new challenge. There's a new tantrum. Don't fight. Oh, see? There it is.

16:16There it is. Every day. I have so much going on. The kids work. What's the matter?

16:22A boo-boo. A boo-boo? This one? And just maintaining my sanity.

16:28Mommy's gonna build is pretty exhausting. Daddy texted us. Do you want to see what he said?

16:46Yeah. Yeah? Ooh, it's a video. Can I turn it on? Sure.

16:50Bye.

16:52Hey, man. Oh, man. I just, I miss you guys terribly.

17:00Just feeling a little lonely today, and I, and I, just one of those days where I really,

17:03really wish I was, I was just home instead of being away from you.

17:07I'm missing him a lot. I hear his voice, and I wish it was right next to me instead of in front of

17:15me on a screen. I hope you and the boys are doing good out there at home right now. You know, I'm sure

17:22they, they like to touch your patience a little bit, so I miss them. I wish I was the one at home

17:26reminding them who's in charge. Although they're not listening to me either, so.

17:30Hmm. Keywords either. Getting emotional about it now, but it's like, it's guilty because I want

17:36him to be home, and he wants to be home. I'm glad, uh, it's a good thing, I mean, I guess we, uh, you

17:41know, we met Jackie when we did. You know, you're, I'm sure you're, you guys have been spending some

17:44time together getting to know each other, developing that friendship, which is great. You know, I can't

17:49wait to hang out with the both of you. The goal of having a sister wife for us is for someone to also

17:57be here for me when Yesel isn't here, to share parenting responsibilities, provide the level of

18:04intimacy and attachment that I'm looking for. Someone who's there for me in an emotional and

18:11supportive way. I love you and I miss you and I can't wait to see you.

18:17I know Jackie and Yesel have been texting daily, but Jackie and I really haven't communicated at

18:23all with each other. Jackie has texted me checking in, has asked if we can hang out a couple times,

18:30and I've definitely been stalling because we do have to talk about the whole baby issue.

18:38That was so nice of daddy. I did reach out to her to set up a dinner to talk about my boundary. My fear

18:46is the longer that I hold out on speaking to her, the more attached her and Yesel are going to get. And,

18:53you know, if this conversation doesn't go well, the more feelings are going to get her between her and

19:00him. Can I have a hug? Can I just miss daddy? Okay. Thank you. Okay. Okay, boss. Okay, boss. Let's do it.

19:20All right, the pancakes are done. The meat is basically done. Guys, look what came today.

19:36Yay!

19:37Today, we are going to be giving Nick the special custom boudoir calendar that we made and we want to

19:45make it extra special. So we are making him breakfast in bed and all of us girls are going

19:50to take it downstairs and give him the breakfast and give him the calendar and do a big reveal.

19:55I think he's going to love it. Yes, I think he's going to be very, very appreciative and feel very

20:01special. When I first saw the photos, I had a hard time with them. I think I was comparing myself to

20:07April and Jenny. You know, I am a little bit older. I have some past trauma with some past

20:12relationships where, you know, we'd get into arguments and they would, you know, call me ugly

20:19or old or washed up or things to hurt my feelings. And it's one thing I appreciate about Nick is even

20:25if he's upset with me, he's not belittling me or putting me down and making me feel less than worthy

20:30to be here. We're gonna have to do the whipped cream. We know that Teresa has had a lot of trauma

20:38that she's had to work through and is still working through. And it creates a lot of self-esteem

20:46issues, a lot of her beating herself up. And so unfortunately, we have seen quite a bit of her

20:53negative self-talk. Let's go. And it can just kind of create a bad energy in the house.

20:59Oh, hello. Hi. Good morning. What's going on? Here. Hi, everybody. Oh, boy. Oh, wow. Looky here.

21:12Breakfast and thanks for Nikki. Oh, this looks lovely. Thank you so much. You got some whipped cream on my

21:21pancakes. Yes. This is the kind of thing that, uh, in this situation, I mean, I just wake up

21:29living a dream every day. I mean, it's just so much to be thankful for with the way our situation is

21:35set up that it, uh, it's definitely, uh, something special for me to be involved with. We have another

21:40surprise for you, too, though. There's something else going on other than the breakfast. Yeah. Hold on,

21:44hold on. Let's, let's show you real quick. It's obviously a calendar and we made it for you. It was

21:53Teresa's idea. Oh, wow. My, oh my, this is beautiful. What? We had so much fun. Oh, my babies. It's a nice

22:07treat for me for sure. Oh, my goodness. I like sexy ladies. Yes. I like my women to be beautiful

22:18and intelligent. Yeah. They have to be, uh, both in capacities that are greater than mine.

22:23That's not easy to do. So, you know, I have a very high standard. So, yeah, I like sexy women for sure.

22:29Oh, my babies. I love you all so much. I might have found my favorite picture.

22:40See, Teresa, I told you you didn't have anything to worry about. Look, she's crying.

22:44These are happy tears. Worry about? What could there possibly have been to be worried about? I was,

22:51I was just feeling a little insecure that day in my lingerie and thinking I wasn't going to look

22:56that beautiful for you. And, um, you're beautiful, Teresa. Thank you. I mean, I, I hope at some point

23:04you really do come to realize that your insecurities are, are unfounded. They're baseless. You don't,

23:11you don't need to let those things prevent you from enjoying yourself and your experience, Teresa.

23:19And, and not just in regards to a photo shoot or something, but just in terms of our life together

23:24and our relationship overall, you need no armor here, you know, take, put your shield down and just

23:30go ahead and relax and just allow yourself to just enjoy the ride. Enjoy the ride, Teresa.

23:37You know, Teresa, Nick always says that he just wants everybody to be okay and that everybody

23:55includes you. You know, I, I just wish you knew that. I do feel like I'm trapped in a cycle of ups and

24:02downs of feeling amazing about myself and then days feeling like I'm worthless. And, um, I feel bad

24:10because Nick is constantly always reassuring me. And I hope that I can get to a point in my life at some

24:16time where I'm as confident as the other girls are. I think what I'm needing, you know, in this

24:22relationship to feel more secure in our bond is definitely, I would love to change my last name to

24:29Davis. The reason that Teresa wants to change her last name is because she thinks that's going to fix

24:37her emotionally. She thinks that's going to make her feel better about all the things that she needs

24:42to address within herself. And it's not, it's not going to fix those things. I know it sounds crazy,

24:48but I really want to get a tattoo of all of you on my thigh. It just shows like permanence,

24:54like, I'm not going anywhere. I know you guys aren't going anywhere. And it just will represent

25:00like that this is forever. I definitely feel like we're kind of in a tough spot right now with Teresa,

25:07just because our love for her is truly genuine. And we also recognize that her love for us is authentic.

25:13But the relationship she has with herself is just so problematic that, um,

25:22it could potentially being a reason why this situation doesn't work out between us.

25:39All right. So that was fun. So what did you think? Oh my goodness. What Ashley offered?

25:50That's so selfless. I like, she's already done, given her eggs. Yeah. And now she's saying that she

25:58would carry for us. Who does that? I mean, do you think Ashley's offer could possibly eliminate like

26:05these struggles that we're having though? Would we just like drop the whole idea of,

26:09of a sister wife? Like, it does sound really tempting because I'll be honest,

26:13it's been really stressful to search.

26:17So it would be really easy just to be like, done now. Hey, you know,

26:23I can't help, but feel guilty about everything because this was initially my idea. And he's now the

26:30one who's going through it. It's all just been a lot for Reese and there's a lot of pressure on him.

26:37I mean, it, it could be a solution.

26:44I would, I, I just, I don't know.

26:47Like, honestly, the first thing that came to mind was like,

26:50I love that and that she would offer that, but I, that's, that's not why we're seeking a sister

26:58wife is just to have a baby. Right? Right. And at the end of the day, like we want more babies,

27:04but we also like, we want more adults too though. You know, like we don't just like want a hundred

27:09babies with just us. Like, we want. No, no, that's why we, that's why we want a community family,

27:14like that we all take care of each other and we all help each other. That's the whole point of it.

27:19I feel like if we gave up right now, I'd be a little disappointed. I feel like, like we wouldn't

27:24have put, you know, our full potential on the line. And I feel like we have an amazing

27:30family to offer up and we're open to loving another family. I'm not done. I feel like this

27:36is something we can do. I really do believe in it. I believe in you. I believe that you can

27:41get it done and you can find someone. All right. So, I mean, we're still doing this, right?

27:46Yeah. You know, that is kind of just good knowing moving forward that she

27:52has offered that up. And if we, you know, maybe need to utilize that, that it's, it's an option.

27:57It's, it's an option. Exactly.

28:10Oh, we're recording. How are you?

28:13How are you?

28:13Good. It's nice to see you.

28:16Nice to see you.

28:18Tonight, I'm going out to dinner with Jackie. We haven't really seen each other since Yassel

28:22left, but we do have some heavy topics that we need to discuss and it's better done in person.

28:28I've actually never been here.

28:29Me either. It's so cute though. I'm excited.

28:32Talking to her about essentially me not allowing her to have a baby with my husband.

28:38It's really pretty. Thank you.

28:41I mean, even saying it sounds harsh, never mind hearing it.

28:46Cheers.

28:47Cheers.

28:47Definitely nervous to actually vocalize it to her.

28:55But it's definitely something that needs to be said.

28:58You're welcome.

29:00Are you thankful right now?

29:01No.

29:01We're good.

29:03So, how have you been since Yassel's been gone?

29:08It's like a learned difficulty.

29:11So, for me, it's like part of the gig, you know?

29:16Right.

29:17He does his best in like checking in with me and like how I'm feeling and how my day is going.

29:24I do feel like I'm getting closer to Yassel, although the distance has been very difficult.

29:30Every day that we get to talk, we get to learn more about each other.

29:34But since Yassel's been gone, Dani has completely distanced and removed herself.

29:41There was many times where I've tried to reach out to be there for her and just kind of like

29:47still, you know, have our relationship aside from Yassel and I's relationship.

29:51And I just felt shut out.

29:53So, now that Yassel is away, I figured this would be a conversation to have between like

30:01woman to woman.

30:02Right.

30:02So, I know the last time we talked about kids, you definitely want more.

30:08Yeah.

30:11And I wanted to be completely transparent and open about how that would look for me and like

30:18the boundary that I do have.

30:22You know, I've told you I'm more than open to another baby and raising another baby.

30:27Like I have no problem going through all the phases again and I love it with my whole heart.

30:32However, the one like boundary I have with it is, I don't think, tough topic really.

30:46I don't think I'm able to handle him having another baby biologically with another woman.

31:02Can I ask like why or like what stemmed this?

31:31You know, I've always wanted a girl.

31:38I didn't get my girl, which is fine.

31:39I love my boys.

31:40But my body's done.

31:42It would be way too high risk.

31:44So, if another woman was to have Yassel's biological baby and that baby were to be a girl, I would feel

31:53robbed of an experience, I guess in a way, because it's not my girl.

32:01Like why couldn't I do this for him?

32:06So, with that being said, I'd be open to like exploring other options to have a baby.

32:14Like what would the other options be?

32:19Um, I've given a lot of thought to a donor.

32:24Have you talked to Yassel about that?

32:26Mm-hmm.

32:27And what's he said?

32:28I think he understands that if he does want more kids in the family, then that's how it's got to happen.

32:38I guess.

32:44I did not see this coming, honestly.

32:48I mean, all of my conversations with Dani previously about children have been, you know,

32:55that she was going to be a very much supportive part of that. So, this definitely took me by surprise.

33:05My fear ultimately is that there's not that excitement that you would have conceiving a baby naturally.

33:12Right, right.

33:14That would be the last thing I would want.

33:20I feel like this is totally unfair to Yassel.

33:24He's always emphasizing how he would love to have more kids.

33:28I do think this is selfish of Dani.

33:33I feel a little bit hurt and I would be lying if I didn't, you know, tell you that.

33:39I mean, I kind of feel like you guys should have like talked to me about this when we first started talking.

33:48I did want to bring it up sooner, but I did want it to be a conversation between you and I without Yassel present.

33:58Which, unfortunate that we're like this deep in and we have to have it now.

34:02If you were in my shoes, like, would you think that this was fair?

34:07No.

34:10I'll always think there is a degree of unfairness.

34:13Like, please don't think, I don't think that.

34:15And I feel guilty about it.

34:16Yeah, Dani, like, I honestly, I really don't think this is fair.

34:21Like, you know, to like bring somebody else into the picture and just make like a decision solely based on your comfort.

34:31I mean, my intentions have been very clear since day one.

34:39I've asked about their boundaries.

34:42This was never mentioned to me.

34:43So the fact that, you know, my feelings weren't taken into consideration for me feels incredibly selfish.

34:52You know, finding a partner that would be like open to having like more kids biologically.

34:57Like, that's probably what's going to be best for me.

35:02I think right now I just need to remove myself from this.

35:05Um, I can respect that.

35:11I appreciate that.

35:13I appreciate that.

35:15Dani has some insecurities that she needs to address before trying to seek a sister right.

35:23I'll help with your back.

35:26You're welcome.

35:28I'm kind of disappointed because I was so vulnerable with them.

35:33I'm leaving very much hurt.

35:35It sucks.

35:39And it sucks that I have to go home and tell Yasol

35:41that this is how this turned out because I don't think that's the outcome he wanted.

35:48There's a very good possibility that he's going to be disappointed.

35:51But one of my biggest fears in seeking a sister wife was disappointing both parties and

36:00it's coming true.

36:01so I feel a lot of guilt and a little bit of shame to it because I don't

36:10I don't want to be the problem and it feels like I'm the problem.

36:13I don't want to be the problem.

36:17We need the prenup first.

36:18Oh, I don't understand.

36:21You're not comfortable?

36:22Um, I don't understand.

36:24I'm not comfortable.

36:25If he's married with me, it's because he believes in me.

36:38Lorena?

36:40Sister?

36:41We're coming down.

36:42We started working on the prenup like three weeks ago.

36:45And yesterday Garek realized when he got like to the end of it, um, that it's really important that

36:51it's translated in Portuguese.

36:53But the lawyer that I thought was going to work with us, she said she's not a certified translator.

36:58Hopefully we can get it figured out because I think it's very important to have this in place before

37:03they legally get married.

37:05So the lawyer's office told me she doesn't feel comfortable because she's not a certified translator.

37:11And because just the time frame involved, she said there's no way it would be done tomorrow.

37:17From what she's telling me.

37:19Did you tell her we already have the document?

37:21I told her we have the document.

37:23I told her that.

37:24We need to get the marriage license immediately over to the immigration lawyer.

37:31The key is the prenup.

37:32We actually have to have her adjustment of status done or she can be deported.

37:41I told her that she can be deported.

37:46Well, I mean, worst case scenario, I guess there's a something, there's such a thing,

37:49this law firm in Colorado says, I don't even know, I've never even heard, a post-marital agreement.

37:57So that's after, right?

37:58Mm-hmm.

37:59I don't feel comfortable with that.

38:02You risk if one party doesn't want to sign at that point.

38:06They don't have to, and you're already legally married.

38:12We need the prenup first.

38:24Not comfortable.

38:25Oui.

38:25Por quê?

38:26Um, it puts me in a vulnerable spot if things aren't done right.

38:30If he's married with me, it's because he trusts me.

38:39I don't want to be able to give myself to what they were, of rights, that they worked for years.

38:45But now that I've arrived, we're going to start a new chapter together.

38:55What do you want?

38:56What do you want to say?

38:57What do you want to say?

38:59Yeah.

39:07Lorena's definitely my sister, and I trust her.

39:09I think it's just like the scars of the past too with, especially Roberta mainly.

39:15And like people do things you never thought they would do, you know?

39:18Like I don't want the K-1 visa to expire and Lorena to be deported, but I also want to think

39:25about myself and my kids and all the moving parts too, so.

39:38We should research another law firm to see.

39:40We just need to get this all figured out soon, so I think we should call another one.

39:46We have to get married tomorrow, but the prenuptial agreement has to be translated today.

39:52Do I postpone the wedding and take the chance of Lorena being deported?

39:58Or do I go ahead and get married to Lorena without a prenup and put at risk what me and

40:06Danielle have built the last 17 years?

40:10The way things are, I'm going to have to choose between my two wives.

40:13Randy, I'm Reese, nice to meet you.

40:25Nice to meet you too.

40:26This is the second blind date that Nikki has set us up on.

40:29So is it going to be sexual too?

40:32I mean, it's part of it.

40:34Really?

40:35Yeah, so.

40:35The conversations were a little heavy.

40:40I'm just dreading breaking the news about what happened with Jackie.

40:44How did it go last night?

40:46She didn't like it.

40:48She felt that it was unfair.

40:55It's been a nightmare today.

40:56We're trying to do the prenup today.

40:59I have some concerns.

41:01Garrick and I have a business together, and if the prenup doesn't get signed properly,

41:05I could end up not having anything.

41:10This is amazing.

41:11This is gorgeous.

41:12Matt invited me out tonight.

41:14I'm still really resentful that he has not reached out in as long as he

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