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Love & Marriage: Huntsville - Season 10 Episode 10 -
Like A Bat Out of Nell
Like A Bat Out of Nell
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00:00Tell Hope or his fiance.
00:02Maybe we should leave Marshall and Tisha alone.
00:03The four of us, we won't be in no negative space,
00:06because we won't say anything negative about each other.
00:07I have no intentions of saying anything about you
00:10that's negative.
00:11I know we talk about this wall it seems like I have built up.
00:14I can't keep getting beat over the head for I ain't do.
00:17If there's no actions taking place, it's not going to change.
00:19There has to be a change.
00:22My name is Kitsue Francis.
00:23We're going to work our way through this.
00:25I think I'm a very angry soul right now.
00:28I redirect my pain from mental to physical.
00:30And because the gym does not have a way of arguing with you,
00:34it's a safe place.
00:35Sometimes he comes back home with me.
00:38She do something else, get the group together,
00:39play some adult games, some type of adult game.
00:41Nothing too challenging to get people all riled up.
00:43Right. It's just fun.
00:45You know, LA was interesting.
00:47Y'all disappeared all of a sudden.
00:49Allegedly, I was told you left to go be there
00:52for your little grandbaby from Letitia.
00:54And see, that's the problem.
00:55Letitia Scott need to mind her own business.
00:57And what's going on in her life and her marriage.
00:59Your friend need to keep my family's business
01:02out her mother mouth.
01:08We keep it moving.
01:10All day, all night.
01:12Yeah.
01:13Ain't no stopping.
01:14I drop that.
01:15We ain't stopping.
01:19You know, you know.
01:21We keep it moving.
01:22We keep it moving.
01:26All day, all night.
01:28Yeah.
01:31Yeah.
01:32All day, all night.
01:34Yeah.
01:35Ain't no stopping us.
01:38Yeah.
02:11The last time we talked, things were chaotic and a complete mess.
02:15Well, I only got some good news to tell her, so I can't wait to share.
02:20So, like, I feel like we have so much catching up to do.
02:22A lot.
02:23A lot.
02:23I feel like we haven't really even had a real conversation about you and Ken.
02:31Ken, he moved, he stepped away for a little while.
02:36For a couple of days.
02:37But, um, he's back at the house.
02:39I think it was so much tension and frustration, and it was all the arguing constantly, like, back and forth, like, a lot.
02:48I think that Ken, um, brings a good balance to you.
02:53I know.
02:55I hope that you're trying to be more vulnerable with him.
02:59That's hard for me trying.
03:00Good.
03:01Have you did your counseling session yet?
03:03I have started my counseling session.
03:05Oh, gee, that's good.
03:08Are you being open with them?
03:10Yeah.
03:11I was very emotional.
03:13I guess when I sat down, I knew I was going to relive some moments.
03:17I didn't want to relive.
03:18And I really didn't want to be there in the beginning.
03:23We talked about my parents.
03:26We talked about the emotional attachments that I haven't let go with losing them.
03:33We talked about bottling things up, you know, until it just overflows.
03:46And I do.
03:47I've bottled up a lot of anger, which comes from them not being here, too.
03:53That's a big part.
03:54Big part of it.
03:55But when I can't think about it anymore, I explode on everybody.
04:00Instead of talking or crying or releasing, I go to the gym.
04:05We done talked about some things and went through some things.
04:08And I'm like, I ain't never seen you cry.
04:11Because I hated it.
04:12I don't think anybody's ever seen me cry.
04:15I don't think my kids ever seen me cry except at funerals.
04:18It's just showing that I'm not strong enough to be there for them.
04:22No, that's not what they're showing them.
04:24That's how I take it.
04:25I know, but it's just showing them that you're human.
04:28And you have emotions.
04:29Yeah, but it's like a weak emotion.
04:31No, it's not weak.
04:32But it is.
04:33Well, to me, it was, I told Dr. Francis, it was like a weak emotion to me.
04:37Dr. Francis didn't tell you that was weak.
04:39I know he didn't.
04:40What did he tell you?
04:43That's part of being strong.
04:48I'm still not feeling that part.
04:50It's okay.
04:51It'll come.
04:51It'll come with time.
04:52It's hard for me to get close to people.
04:54I, uh, yeah.
04:56Because of that.
04:57I, you think I don't know that?
04:59Seriously, do you know how long we worked out for?
05:01I knew anything about you.
05:05Yeah, I don't know.
05:06I guess I don't want to get attached to people and then I'll lose them.
05:10I'd rather just keep my distance and keep my feelings.
05:13That's not, no, no, no, no, no, ma'am.
05:16That's not what he wants you to do.
05:18I get it, but then there's no pain in the end that I'll have to go through all over again.
05:21We're going to have pain.
05:23We're going to have sorrow.
05:24Those are emotions.
05:25That session was hard.
05:28It was hard reliving.
05:30It was hard thinking about it.
05:32But you definitely feel better afterwards, though, right?
05:35I felt a lot better afterwards.
05:36Like, after the session, the things that would have made me mad, I stopped and thought about
05:41it for a second before I reacted.
05:44Yeah.
05:45That felt good.
05:46So that's a tool.
05:48That felt good.
05:48I'm super proud of you.
05:51High five.
05:52You did that.
05:53I tried.
05:55Since my first meeting with Dr. Francis, I can say, Ken, our relationship, it has progressed.
06:00It's getting better.
06:01But I think we still have a lot to work on as far as communication with each other.
06:07It feels right when I start to open up.
06:09It feels like this is the right thing to do.
06:11One thing I did after learning about the attachment and letting go, because I can't talk to them,
06:19you know, physically, so I went to their graves.
06:24I never wanted to do that.
06:24I did not go to their graves at all because I felt like I would get angry at talking to
06:32the ground.
06:34I sat there, and I cried again.
06:38It was actually comforting, though.
06:45I did go and visit my parents' grave for the first time.
06:49It feels like a weight lifted.
06:51I'm sure I probably should have done it a long time ago.
06:55I don't think I've ever talked about this.
07:01Ever.
07:02Thank you for sharing.
07:03I really mean that.
07:04That mean a lot to me.
07:05When I go home, I'm going to think about it all night now.
07:06I'm going to go home and cry, crown kids, big old shows.
07:10I'm going to start punching holes in the wall.
07:12That is not going to help you.
07:13You did before.
07:14It is not going to help you.
07:15Then I used to cover it up with mirrors and pictures.
07:21You're funny.
07:36Welcome to Magnolia.
07:43How are you?
07:44I'm awesome.
07:45How are you doing?
07:45Good.
07:46I am Kimberly.
07:47I'm Jamie.
07:47It's nice to meet you.
07:48Hi.
07:49I think I have a little reservation for some ladies.
07:51Ladies.
07:51That would be me.
07:52Perfect.
07:53Any ideas what kind of smells you like?
07:55Um, no.
07:56We're just curious on how we get to the smell.
07:59I want to try to do as much as I can to kind of move things along with the ladies.
08:04We need to spend more time together.
08:06We need to learn each other, understand each other, get to know each other.
08:10And that only happens with spending time.
08:12So I got Trisha, Destiny, Tisha, and me.
08:15We're going to make soap.
08:17I probably will pick based on colors because I think some of these are pretty.
08:19Well, you can have your best friends.
08:21Can be whatever color you want.
08:22Hey, Latisha.
08:23It smells good in here.
08:24Uh-huh.
08:25Uh-huh.
08:25What's up?
08:26Hey.
08:27You look pretty.
08:28Thank you, dear.
08:28You too.
08:28Brown.
08:30This is nice.
08:31You look good.
08:32You do.
08:36So we couldn't go running?
08:38You said running.
08:39Yeah.
08:39That's your thing.
08:40Kimmy is more relaxed.
08:41She.
08:42I see.
08:44Kimmy, Trish said no running.
08:46She said she thought it was going to be some exercise.
08:48She did not think that.
08:50You didn't think that at all?
08:51I did.
08:52Why would you think that?
08:53We're going to eat, and we're going to, like, sit down, have some wine, make some bath balls.
08:58I thought Kimmy would organize something active because I keep challenging her and keep picking
09:04with her about it.
09:05So I was just expecting her to be like, you know what?
09:07I'm going to do it one day.
09:09But no, here we are making soap.
09:12I'm just going to pass this around to each of you.
09:14So what you're going to do, you're going to pour this right about there.
09:17And then you're going to pour your scent halfway, and then dump both of them in.
09:23So it should be, like, on a 60?
09:25Yep.
09:25And that's what's going to moisturize you.
09:27Okay.
09:28Shea butter, cocoa butter, and then a pumice oil mix.
09:33And when you add the water, that's what's going to start to make it warm.
09:36Well, hello.
09:37Hi, Slowpoke.
09:38Hey, girl.
09:39That's Destiny.
09:40Hello.
09:40What color would you like?
09:43Um, green?
09:45Green?
09:45Ooh, green for money.
09:47Yay, yay.
09:48Let me see what you're doing.
09:49Oh, no.
09:49This is a loss.
09:50I think I like this one.
09:51When you pinch it, it releases it.
09:53That's so cute.
09:55So then I put this in here or do the oil first?
09:57Do the oil first.
09:58She said that.
09:58Yeah, you said that.
09:59Oh, yeah.
10:02It's like every time I try to get everybody together, somebody missing.
10:05The first dinner, who was missing?
10:07You was missing.
10:08Nell, Nell.
10:09Where's Nell?
10:10She's having her own event that she's getting ready for.
10:13I didn't invite Nell because I knew she was getting ready for her event.
10:18Fletch-tivities, and it is tonight.
10:20And I didn't want us making bath bombs to make her tardy.
10:24Oh, I thought it was because Tisha was here.
10:28What?
10:29What?
10:29What did I do with it?
10:35Coming up on Love and Marriage Hunterville.
10:38Destiny said you said keep my name out of your mouth.
10:41I did say that.
10:45Hello.
10:50Where's Nell?
10:51She's having her own event that she's getting ready for.
10:54Oh, I thought it was because Tisha was here.
10:57What?
10:58What?
10:59What did I do with it?
11:01Y'all going to her event, right?
11:02Yeah.
11:03You're going to go.
11:04You going to?
11:04Oh, yeah.
11:05Yeah, I'm going to Christmas by the Marcia.
11:06Marcia said he was going to go, so I'm going with my husband, girl.
11:09Lance will probably be there, too.
11:10Oh.
11:10Did y'all talk?
11:12Did y'all square y'all stuff out?
11:13We had a conversation.
11:15You going to be a stepmom?
11:16No.
11:17Damn.
11:17Thank you, Chris.
11:19So, real talk, I sat and I talked with Lance about finding out about this baby on the internet
11:24because y'all all know I did not know about a kid.
11:27I was told that I had a baby on the way, but I wasn't sure.
11:29So, I didn't know how you would react to that.
11:32And, of course, I didn't want to say anything before knowing that it was my child.
11:36We all saw it at the same time.
11:37We all saw it when you saw it.
11:39Yeah.
11:40And, you know, he brought up the whole googly eyes situation.
11:44No, she's not.
11:46Okay, y'all good.
11:47You stay close.
11:48Wait a minute.
11:49The googly eyes, smiley.
11:51And I'm like, you talking about googly eyes and you have a whole kid that you didn't tell me about.
11:56Like, what are we doing?
11:57So, I said, well, speaking of Twan, it's his name.
12:00Oh, you got a name now.
12:02Well, my name ain't changing.
12:04What's your name?
12:05Googly eyes.
12:06Okay, I'm sick of you.
12:07I told Lance that if he asked me out, I would say yes.
12:10And then this negro hit me with it.
12:13That's my god brother.
12:14Yep.
12:16Life just keeps on lifing.
12:19What you say when he said that?
12:21I was like, we finna keep it in the family then.
12:22I think it's humorous that Destiny just found out that Lance and googly eyes are god brothers.
12:32Like, close.
12:34Like, dudes.
12:35Like, bros.
12:36I'm gonna say that I don't think this revelation is gonna make much of a difference.
12:42I don't have a lot to base it on, but the rules tend to change when it comes to Destiny.
12:49I was like, well, I was told that he possibly was interested.
12:55And although it's been nothing but professional, he guarded my body really well.
13:00And I told Lance that if Twan was interested, that I would be too.
13:05He was like, well, I mean, what can I say?
13:07I mean, I had a whole baby out here.
13:09I blessed the situation.
13:11Oh, he blessed it.
13:12Long story short, Lance thought I should talk to his mom because she felt a way about the googly eyes still.
13:17Which is why she was giving me that energy in LA.
13:20I think Nell got triggered because when I met with her and I said, you know,
13:25you told me that they left LA early because of the baby situation.
13:29And she was like, that's not true.
13:31Isn't that what she told us?
13:33What did she tell us the reason she left LA early?
13:35I didn't know why they left in the moment.
13:37And so she came back and she was talking about the child.
13:39And she was like, that's one of the reasons they had to leave early because they found out
13:43that she was in labor, I guess, having the baby.
13:45That's what I took from what she said.
13:47Oh, well, she said that's not what happened because the baby was born in November.
13:50Then she remembered that it was actually October.
13:53Oh, wait, wait.
13:53She said the baby was born in November, but she actually remembered it was October?
13:56Yes, October.
13:58She definitely said something about the child was the reason.
14:00How would I even know?
14:01I don't even know nothing about the day it was happening.
14:03I'm just saying.
14:04Like, I don't know nothing about it.
14:06Like, she told me.
14:06She said, Letitia Scott need to mind her mother...
14:11Mind her business about what?
14:13I don't really know.
14:15You didn't ask her?
14:16It was about the comment about the signing NDAs and...
14:20That's my business.
14:21Her husband mentioned my husband.
14:23That's my business.
14:24So I did talk to her after the party and she brought that up.
14:27She told me to go talk to Chris.
14:29It was your fashion, the way you went and talked to Chris.
14:32She was trying to explain her side of the story.
14:34She was like, when she went over there and was pointing on his face.
14:36She's all up in my husband's face.
14:39She was like, Why did you say those things about Marceau and Murray's?
14:43And she just started doing this right here.
14:46She crossed the line.
14:47She went too far.
14:48Mel wants to have a problem with me.
14:50Like, I don't have a problem with me.
14:50Well, that's why I told her she should talk to you.
14:52We had a conversation already.
14:54That's where my confusion comes.
14:55Because they'll have the conversations and then all of a sudden it's a problem with me.
14:59Right, and I haven't done anything.
15:01That's where I get confused.
15:02Her conversation was after her conversation, right?
15:05Right.
15:06It's so weird.
15:07I don't know.
15:07It was recent.
15:08I have given Nell a lot of grace.
15:10And I've tried to really put forth an effort with trying to build something with Nell.
15:16I thought like, hey, this is going to move in a good direction.
15:19Now, had I known she was going to go back and say the things she said to Destiny about me.
15:25But you know what?
15:26She got me that one time.
15:27It would never happen again.
15:29Sometimes you got to just have a conversation with people and everybody be on the same page.
15:37Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
15:40Let's go.
15:40Let's dance again.
15:43This is so funny.
15:46I told Nell we went to make balls, soap balls today.
15:50And she said, well, it sounds like y'all did something without me.
15:53I said, well, we did.
15:54I feel like y'all need to talk.
15:58No, we don't.
16:22Hello.
16:23How y'all doing today?
16:25Hello, hello, hello.
16:26This is beautiful.
16:28And I can't wait.
16:30We're getting ready for Fletch-tivities tonight.
16:33We're going to have all the couples.
16:35We're getting the games together that we're going to play.
16:37I think we'll do good.
16:38We got some very competitive people in this circle.
16:42Oh, yeah.
16:43Yeah, I'm sure we'll have a good time.
16:45I didn't know we were the first ones here.
16:48Look at us.
16:48Oh, right on time.
16:50Hello.
16:51Hello.
16:51Hello.
16:52I love when the game gets together, especially on game night.
16:55I think Fletch-tivities are going to be fun.
16:57Just the name gets me tickled.
17:00Oh, yeah.
17:01You're alone.
17:02Look at all of it.
17:03What's y'all doing?
17:03We're going to play some games.
17:06Not no shots yet.
17:09We're going to juggle some balls in the cups.
17:11Okay.
17:12You're having all kinds of balls today, aren't we?
17:13That's what I was going to say.
17:15What other balls we have?
17:17Did I miss, Dr. Chesh?
17:18No.
17:21You did?
17:22What?
17:24I meant to make some soap balls.
17:26You was getting ready for this, so...
17:29Oh, so what was it, a couple's thing or a female thing?
17:34Oh, it was all the girls but you.
17:38Oh, wow.
17:40You're making balls.
17:42But you was preparing for this.
17:43We're not about to say that's awkward.
17:44You was preparing for this.
17:46I'm kind of feeling some type of way about not getting invited
17:49to something that Kimmy has planned for the girls,
17:53and I'm getting left out once again.
17:55I'm kind of wondering, like, was this intentionally?
18:00Tilly, what up?
18:02What's up, Martell?
18:02Y'all looking all fancy and stuff?
18:04Hello.
18:05Tilly, how you doing?
18:06You all right?
18:07What's up?
18:07Hey, what's up, though?
18:09Okay, here's what's going on.
18:11Hello, how are you doing?
18:12Momo, what up, though?
18:13Hey, lady, how are you?
18:14Can I get to?
18:15Mr. Lou?
18:16How are you, sir?
18:18What up, what up?
18:18Martell, how are you, sir?
18:19I'm good, you good?
18:20Everything good?
18:20Everything's great?
18:21What about my number?
18:22Well, this is my first time seeing Martell
18:25since he did that little interview skit that he did.
18:29I'm here to have a good time.
18:31Marcel can be cordial with Martell.
18:34That mean I can be cordial with Nell.
18:36I'm just going to make sure I keep everybody's name
18:39at my MF mouth.
18:41What's a party without a drink?
18:44Get a couple of wangs.
18:45Who else coming from?
18:53I don't see nobody missing, but Destiny and, what, Lance?
18:57Are they coming together?
18:59I don't know.
18:59We'll see.
19:00Oh, .
19:01Do we have some more people?
19:03I don't know if they're coming together or not.
19:05That's going to be tough.
19:05Okay.
19:06Destiny and Lance.
19:08They're saying like they're a couple or something.
19:10She looks like she had a feeling about Destiny.
19:14Oh, have y'all gotten past that?
19:16Yeah, we're good.
19:17Oh, okay, okay.
19:18Well, damn, everybody good.
19:19I think they're neutral.
19:21I just think they're good.
19:22Friends.
19:23Yeah, just friends.
19:24Yeah, friends that ride together.
19:26Friends that ride together to a couple of events.
19:30Oh, this is a couple's event?
19:32Ish.
19:33I'm the ish.
19:35I was going to say, Martell's not a couple.
19:36I was going to say, that's a couple.
19:37No, he got a picture of him in the couple.
19:39What you got, Martell?
19:41Don't laugh, but it's kind of,
19:42it's kind of corny, but
19:44Oh, so you did bring, you did bring Arianne with you.
19:51So it's still a couple's night.
19:53Though I had my jacket zipped up,
19:54I wasn't trying to hide anything.
19:56As a matter of fact,
19:57hell, I, I show it.
19:59Hell, I just, it was cold,
20:00so I just had my jacket zipped up.
20:02She's covering your heart?
20:04Yeah, it was something like that.
20:08Hello.
20:08Hey, how y'all doing?
20:12Hey, how y'all doing?
20:14What up, what up?
20:15Oh, hey.
20:17Hey, how you doing?
20:18How you doing?
20:19How you doing?
20:19Destin is walking in here with Will
20:21after a conversation we just had about Tuan.
20:24So this is very surprising to me.
20:28Awkward.
20:28How are we going to do?
20:29All right, good.
20:32Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
20:35How much y'all know about Destin?
20:36Good, wholesome girl.
20:38Good, wholesome girl?
20:38Yeah.
20:39That's not what I want to hear.
20:41Oh, what you want to hear?
20:43That's not.
20:43CC down for the calls tonight.
20:45You got the one night to prove you're worth it.
20:48So, Nell, why did you guys leave L.A. early?
20:53That's none of your business.
20:55I don't owe you anything.
20:59Hello.
21:01Hey, how y'all doing?
21:02Hey, how y'all doing?
21:03What up, what up?
21:04Hey, what's up?
21:05Hey.
21:06Oh, my girl.
21:07Get your cards.
21:08Right.
21:08Get your cards.
21:09Let me.
21:12I didn't ask you what I told him.
21:15Will, that's my bro.
21:16We've been cool for a long, long time.
21:18So watching Will walk in with Destin is definitely unexpected.
21:22It took me by surprise.
21:23He didn't tell me.
21:25Hey, I guess that answered that Lance question.
21:29Oop, there it is.
21:30So Will DMs me and asked me on a date,
21:32and why not bring him to game night?
21:34We have some of the same friends, and I knew the peanut gallery would be all in my business
21:39and snickering like they were, but I'm grown, and I'm single, and I can date who I want
21:46and however many people I want.
21:49So what was so funny?
21:50They thought Destin was coming in with Lance.
21:53And then I pop up.
21:54And you pop up.
21:55Yes.
21:56Love, everybody, guys.
21:57What up?
21:58What up?
21:59What up?
21:59I'm here with a date.
22:09I did expect that Destin was going to be there with someone.
22:12I thought maybe Antoine.
22:15I didn't know it was going to be Will.
22:17Is it weird?
22:18Of course.
22:19Does it bother me?
22:20Not...
22:21Okay.
22:22It bothers me, but it doesn't bother me to the extent of, like, it will be an issue.
22:28Nice to meet you.
22:29Hi!
22:30You look cute.
22:31Hey, babes.
22:32Lance is a lover boy.
22:33He is, like, always dating somebody.
22:36So I'm not surprised to see him with someone here.
22:38Because he probably didn't want to see me with another person.
22:41So he had to bring a little datey date.
22:44Everyone, this game is called Flip Cup.
22:47You guys are going to start on this end.
22:50You're going to flip the cup.
22:51Everyone else is going to move back.
22:53Hey, can we huddle before we get started?
22:56That's on y'all.
22:57That's on y'all.
22:58Hey, guys, come on.
22:59Let's huddle up.
23:00I don't know where my competitive gene comes from, but if I'm on the team,
23:04you have to know that we're going to win.
23:06Because that's all we do.
23:07One, two, three.
23:08Win!
23:09Let's go.
23:10Let the games begin!
23:11On your marks, get set, go!
23:21There we go, Marty.
23:22Let's go, baby.
23:23Let's go, baby.
23:24Somebody's going to mess up.
23:25I ain't worried about it.
23:26Let's go!
23:27Woo!
23:28Yes, sir!
23:29Hey, go!
23:30Hey, go!
23:31Hey, go!
23:32Hey, go!
23:33Let's go!
23:34Let's go!
23:35Let's go!
23:36First rounds of games are going well.
23:41We're winning, as usual.
23:43If you look over our history, as long as I'm on the team, you want to win, put Reece Scott
23:48in.
23:49Okay, the next game is going to be the spoon game.
23:52Musical spoons, all right?
23:53Okay.
23:54Whoever doesn't grab a spoon, you're out.
23:56Y'all ready?
23:57Let's get it!
23:58On the music.
23:59This way.
24:00Clockwise.
24:01Keep it moving!
24:02Keep it moving!
24:03Keep it moving!
24:04Keep it moving!
24:05Keep it moving!
24:06Keep it moving!
24:07Keep it moving!
24:08Keep it moving!
24:09Keep it moving!
24:10This is so funny!
24:11So, who doesn't have a spoon?
24:12I know!
24:13So, who's popping out?
24:14You're out!
24:15Well, don't feel too bad, because I made us lose on the little beer pong thing.
24:20Oh, yeah.
24:21Y'all was losers the whole night, though.
24:22Come on!
24:23Stop the music!
24:24I don't give a damn!
24:25I would need to be out.
24:26Y'all cheated!
24:27Woo!
24:28Scope versus Scope!
24:29Yeah!
24:30So, musical spoons was such a cute idea, but Marceau and Martel being the last two standing,
24:33I thought was hilarious.
24:34Here we go, last man standing.
24:35Smoke versus Scope.
24:37Okay.
24:38So, musical spoons was such a cute idea, but Marceau and Martel being the last two standing
24:47I thought was hilarious.
24:47Here we go, last man standing.
24:49Smoke versus Scope!
24:50Keep moving!
24:51Get moving!
24:52I was victorious and for him to pull out a spoon the same color of the spoon that I won with
25:15you know that's that's the typical Marceau you know people say how you do one thing's how you
25:20do everything and him cheating in this game is very telling apparently it was an extra spoon
25:33I'm not saying how I got there but this one's the real spoon
25:39what are the freaking odds Martell and Marceau the last two at the table they're very competitive
25:49very we have a lot of type A personalities here as well what's going on how y'all do I mean we
25:56we came to an agreement Speck is there we still with more negativity you know amongst us and our
26:01significant other and I'm so agree to that we're gonna do the best with our significant others
26:06oh what'd you say we're gonna do the best with our significant others I'm just happy as that is
26:10I enjoy the peace it's good to see Marceau and Martell getting back to a place where they can
26:17uh be around each other laugh and joke and everything's not so on edge I can't take all
26:23the credit for it but if they want to heap it on me
26:27I told Nell we went to make balls soap balls today and she said well it sounds like y'all did
26:36something without me I said well we did I feel like y'all need to talk
26:40no we don't oh of course you do you always need to have a conversation you always say we need to have
26:47conversations last conversation we got somewhere
26:49I did not tell her that no when you came in and you said Kiara and I said man who's that and he said
26:58Kiara I kept looking at you how many years did you go do you know how old are you already one
27:06dang yeah we've been there 30 years you know you always tell me to have the hard conversations so
27:13I have the hard conversations so I don't know why when she met up with you it was a problem I
27:18honestly don't know I honestly don't even care though but I mean well maybe it's because
27:22she maybe miscommunicated what she was trying to say so I don't know and that means y'all should
27:29talk about what was actually meant or said okay just for a minute you can get some fresh air so
27:37since Kimmy asked me so nicely to speak to Nell I'm really going to try to resolve whatever this
27:42issue is she has with me now that's the plan we'll see how it plays out can I interrupt y'all I wanted
27:50us to chat if that was possible and what we chatting about I know you had a conversation with
27:56Tisha I feel like the conversation you had with her at that moment went well but then she felt like
28:04I guess after Destiny and Trisha were talking about some of y'all's conversations she felt like
28:10maybe that conversation wasn't as cool as she thought it was when it happened Destiny said you
28:15said keep my name out your mouth I did say that and that's like tough I said I did say that and
28:22I meant that it would appear that nobody's interested in mending this particular fence
28:26I picked the hardest battles apparently what happened to make something like that that's
28:31what I'm saying if maybe if we talk I'll go with you
28:34coming up on love and marriage huntsville we don't have to talk about my problem
28:43each and everyone here got their problem hey Nell let me tell you something what is this oh hey I
28:48dump your ass in that pool you keep hoiling at me you want me to tell you something you want me to
28:54Don't hollin' at me.
28:55Don't keep hollin' at me.
28:56No, it's not.
28:58Destiny said you said keep my pain out your mouth.
29:01I did, too.
29:02And that's, like, tough.
29:04I can be in a room and be cordial with someone if need be,
29:08and that's just where I'm at.
29:09But why?
29:10What happened to make something like that?
29:12That's what I'm saying.
29:13If maybe if we talk, I'll go with you.
29:19So Kimmy wants me to go outside and speak with Leticia.
29:23I really do not want to go,
29:25but I go because I want everybody to be happy.
29:29I go out here, but I'm not finna do all the arguing and back and forth.
29:33And I don't want you to.
29:34I'm not gonna do all that.
29:36I'm not gonna do all that.
29:38How much y'all know about Destiny?
29:40Good, wholesome girl.
29:41Yeah.
29:42That's not what I want to hear.
29:43No!
29:45Oh, what you want to hear?
29:45That's not it.
29:46She down for the calls tonight?
29:48Yes, yes.
29:51This boy is a fool.
29:52This is the first night of this boy.
29:53You got the one night to prove you're worth it.
29:55One night to prove you're worth it.
29:57Ah, wow.
29:58Damn!
29:59That's so up.
30:00What have you learned so far?
30:02Hmm?
30:02We look good together for sure.
30:04Oh, yeah.
30:04I learned that I didn't know she looked that good in her bodysuit
30:08until tonight.
30:09I saw her before, but tonight was different.
30:13Oh, yeah.
30:14Oh, yeah.
30:18Did you guys know about each other?
30:20Did you guys know about each other?
30:21Who?
30:22Will or not?
30:23Yeah.
30:23With death one?
30:25So, I bless whatever it is that anybody wants to do.
30:26You know what I'm saying?
30:27Y'all done or y'all still dating?
30:29Oh, we're done.
30:31Finito.
30:32Oh, is y'all actually dating?
30:34I don't know y'all dating.
30:35Oh.
30:36It was a little something.
30:37That's why we're sitting there.
30:38Oh, yeah.
30:39I was lost.
30:40I was truly lost.
30:41You didn't know you were a rebound.
30:46I wouldn't necessarily say Will is a great option
30:50to be a rebound guy, just knowing who he is.
30:54She might want to just have a little fun for the time being,
30:57and because that's probably definitely not going
31:00to go the way she wants it.
31:03Will!
31:04I'm looking for her.
31:05I'll just look.
31:06There's no ring.
31:07100%.
31:08There's no ring for you.
31:09I wanted us to kind of sit down because you two
31:11had a conversation, and at the end of the conversation,
31:15I was under the impression that y'all were amicable.
31:20What happened since that conversation?
31:23So Destiny, when she told you that I need to keep her
31:26mother name out my mouth, why did she tell you that?
31:31Because we were talking about L.A., and when you told me
31:36they left early to go basically for the delivery of the baby,
31:40and Nell said that wasn't accurate and that you need to keep
31:44my mother name out your mouth.
31:46So Nell, why did you guys leave L.A. early?
31:48That's none of your business.
31:52OK.
31:53I don't owe you anything.
31:54You don't, but I don't know why you're giving me this attitude,
31:57because one, I don't talk about you.
32:00I'm not giving you no attitude.
32:02Do y'all feel like she's giving attitude?
32:03I'm just asking another question.
32:04No, you're doing this and I'm doing you like that.
32:06Like I told you, my granddaughter is off limits,
32:08and I meant what I said.
32:09So maybe that's why she's backtracking what she said,
32:11because she did tell me that.
32:13I did not tell you that.
32:14Kimmy, was you a part of that conversation
32:15when she said the reason they had to leave L.A. early
32:17was something dealing with the grandbaby?
32:19I felt like you said it did have something to do with
32:22you had to come back home for the situation.
32:24Absolutely she said it.
32:26He had got a call saying he needed to get back.
32:29He had baby on the way in labor.
32:31I saw that on social media.
32:33Me too.
32:34We all did.
32:35Don't do that.
32:36You're talking about my granddaughter.
32:37I don't care about your granddaughter.
32:38Well, that's it.
32:39That's a mouthful right there.
32:40I'm just saying, you don't have to curse at me.
32:42You don't have to.
32:43You don't have to.
32:44I did not curse at you.
32:45It was a figure of speech, and I told her
32:47to tell what I said.
32:48You're trying to be extremely disrespectful.
32:49Keep my name at your mouth.
32:50I don't talk about you, though.
32:51I didn't curse at you.
32:53Well, what the ?
32:54Now you just curse.
32:55Is that got to curse more than that?
32:56This is hilarious.
32:57It's not funny.
32:58I don't like this.
32:59At the end of the day, Nell,
33:00if the situation with your grandchild was none of my business,
33:03why did you bring it up to me?
33:05You told me about the situation.
33:07I can care less.
33:08This is the reason I don't really want to have a conversation
33:10with Nell, because I am trying to talk to her.
33:12I'm being cool, calm, collective,
33:14and she's giving me bad energy.
33:16So y'all were perfectly fine until Destiny told you
33:19that she said you left L.A. because of the birth of the baby.
33:23I thought we was.
33:24Y'all were perfectly okay until that.
33:25I'm like, okay, here we go again.
33:27I didn't have that energy for you like you have for me.
33:30That's not true.
33:31So it seems like you have a problem with me.
33:33That's not true.
33:34And I don't know what it is.
33:35That's not true.
33:36And so...
33:37You just want beef with me just for...
33:38I don't want beef...
33:39Yes, you do.
33:40I haven't even thought of anything with you.
33:41Yes, you do.
33:42You think I'm doing something and you're doing the same thing.
33:44I'm good. I'm fine.
33:45Okay, I'm good. I'm fine, too.
33:47Boy, lies y'all tell.
33:49We can't resolve anything if she does not.
33:51If she can't admit to exactly what it is.
33:53Ammit to what?
33:54I don't know, Nell.
33:55That's what I'm trying to talk to you about.
33:56You keep talking over me.
33:57What is that for me?
33:58I stated where I stand.
34:00And I said, I'm not talking about my granddaughter.
34:04Other than that, I'm good.
34:05Come on.
34:06I'm good.
34:07So the boundary is set.
34:09Exactly.
34:10Okay, but then...
34:11Well, that didn't turn out too well.
34:13I don't know.
34:14Kimmy, you're the mediator, so...
34:16It's hard to mediate I'm good.
34:18I've been in a circle of friends that say I'm good...
34:21Me, too.
34:22...when they not good.
34:23And we don't want Hister to repeat itself.
34:25It's like y'all trying to make it something that's not.
34:27Nell, you said, keep my name out your mouth.
34:30That's a problem.
34:31And I said why I said it.
34:33And it made it something.
34:34Don't act like we're trying to make your problem.
34:36I said why I said it.
34:39Ooh.
34:41I know Trisha's in the middle of it.
34:43I hear you.
34:44I know she in the middle of it.
34:45But when I hear the ladies outside going at it,
34:47instantly know that it's probably Tisha and Nell.
34:49So I'm making a beeline over there.
34:51I've been thinking about it all night.
34:53And I'm going out there to make sure that my wife
34:55is calmed down and, you know, separated.
34:58I'm not saying that you did.
34:59We don't have to talk about my problem.
35:01I have to tell you that you did.
35:02Asian everyone here got their problems.
35:03You don't have to yell at us, though.
35:05I'm not yelling.
35:06I'm doing what everyone else is doing, okay?
35:08Do you expect me not to say nothing?
35:10Do you think I'm talking to you like you're talking to me?
35:12You're yelling at us.
35:13Do you think I'm talking to you like you're talking to me?
35:15You're asking me yelling at us.
35:16What do y'all think y'all doing here?
35:18Gaze up on me?
35:19Oh, Jesus.
35:20Victim, victim, victim.
35:21I didn't say you.
35:22I didn't say you.
35:23I'm strictly talking about 1.0 and 2.0.
35:26Because I didn't see this coming from you.
35:28So where are you yelling?
35:29Like, really?
35:30Hey, listen.
35:31Listen, let's not over react.
35:32Hey, Nell, let me tell you so.
35:33I dump your ass in that pool you keep hollin' at me.
35:38I dump that one.
35:39You want to dump me.
35:39Whoa!
35:40Don't I dump it?
35:41I'm Poisoned!
35:42Keep hollin' at me!
35:43.
35:45Hey, Nell, let me tell you so.
35:46I dump your ass in that pool you keep hollin' at me.
35:49Tell me something.
35:50You want to dump me?
35:51I'm Poisoned!
35:52Don't I dump!
35:53I'm Poisoned!
35:54Keep hollin' at me!
35:55No!
35:56I'm Poison, no!
35:57You stupid!
35:58I'm Poisoned!
35:59You won't dump me no with.
36:02I'll show you who I did up.
36:05Who? Why are you talking like that?
36:06You threatened me.
36:08I'm just messing with you.
36:09I'm telling you to stop yelling at my ass.
36:13Stop yelling at me.
36:15She didn't.
36:16She didn't.
36:17She didn't.
36:18She didn't.
36:19She didn't.
36:20Nobody's yelling, but she didn't.
36:21She didn't.
36:22You're the only person yelling.
36:23You're the only person yelling.
36:24It's bull .
36:25I don't know what the issue is with Nell and everybody.
36:28Like, I just don't know.
36:29Like, at the end of the day, Nell just need to learn how to talk to people.
36:32Don't sit there and tell somebody you're going to dump them in the .
36:35But you can't yell at people, Nell.
36:37And you can't just say what you're going to do to me.
36:39When I yell, there's a problem.
36:41When they're yelling, oh, we're not yelling.
36:43We're just talking to you.
36:44It's very much a double standard with these girls.
36:47This is crazy.
36:48So can we get back to, like, where everybody's good?
36:52Everybody's not good.
36:53That's the problem.
36:54Everybody keeps saying, I'm good, I'm fine, and you're not good.
36:57What Fletch-tivities is showing me is that the men are maintaining a cool, calm, collected
37:02demeanor as they navigate through complex controversy.
37:05And the women, well, don't let you judge for yourself.
37:09So Fletch-tivities are over?
37:11Are we going to talk our way through it?
37:13Is this what we're talking about by Fletch-tivities?
37:15Let me tell you this.
37:16Let me tell you this, for real.
37:21My fuse is shorter than what most people think.
37:24Wow.
37:34My dad was abusive.
37:36He would drink and get drunk and be loud and holler and stuff.
37:40And that never was okay with me.
37:43So after my parents got divorced, I felt like I was my mother's protector.
37:48Anybody who came around that felt they needed to yell to be heard just didn't work for me.
37:55Never has.
37:58From this size to this size.
38:01It doesn't work for me.
38:02I should not have said, I will dunk you in the pool if you keep hollering at me.
38:07And I apologize for that.
38:09However, we're not going to keep doing the hollering thing, no matter how normal it is in your world.
38:19I accept Kimmy's apology.
38:21But I really do.
38:23Because it really hurt.
38:25That hurt me.
38:26And if I yell at you, I apologize to you.
38:32You too.
38:33I appreciate that.
38:34It'll be a cold day ahead before I apologize to Nell.
38:36If anything, she owes me an apology.
38:39She's the one talking about me behind my back to all these ladies and is getting back to me, third person.
38:45Like, yeah, no, I'm good.
38:49Can we get a hug?
38:50Kimmy and Nell.
38:51Oh, you don't hug me.
38:53I'm fine.
38:54I ain't got no long-term energy.
38:56Can we get a hug?
38:57Can we get a hug real quick?
38:58Yes.
38:59It's a hug.
39:00It's a hug.
39:01It's a hug.
39:02It's a hug.
39:03It's a hug.
39:04It's a hug.
39:05It's a hug for her.
39:06Hey, guys.
39:07This is progress.
39:08This is progress.
39:09Hey, listen.
39:10This group is progressive.
39:11It's a hug for you.
39:12I'm really sorry.
39:13I was able to make up with Kimmy even though I'm the person that it takes me a minute.
39:22But Kimmy apologized to me the same night.
39:26So I felt like I need to put my big girl pants on and accept the apology.
39:33She said she was sincere about it and I just have to take it for what it is.
39:37I can't do the hollering.
39:38The hollering is tough for me.
39:40I was raised in a house where my dad would holler and it's not good for me.
39:45And so as much as people think I'm patient, that's my trigger.
39:51The yelling, I can't.
39:52I apologize because that shouldn't come out like that at all.
39:56It shouldn't come out.
39:57It shouldn't come out.
39:58It shouldn't come out.
39:59It shouldn't come out.
40:00But I think you would look cute in the footwear.
40:02Your ass is going with me.
40:03I'd have pushed you and saved you.
40:08I swear.
40:09I'd have saved you and I pushed you.
40:11Next on Love and Maritonsville.
40:16Kimmy says, don't you yell at me.
40:19Well, what the you think you're doing right now?
40:22She made the comment.
40:23If you yell at her again, she's going to dunk you in that pool.
40:27That mother went in that pool before me.
40:30When Kenny comes into the picture and the kids are saying,
40:34there's a breath of fresh air.
40:35Let me gravitate towards the fresh air.
40:37You're saying, wait, wait a minute.
40:38Whoa, whoa, whoa.
40:39Whoa, what about me?
40:40I've had you all this time.
40:42He's the new kid on the block.
40:44I was jealous when he came along and they started asking him instead of me.
40:47It just kind of made me feel some type of way.
40:50Wanda!
40:51Miss Wanda!
40:52Hey!
40:53Come on, girl!
40:54Yeah!
40:55You got your truck!
40:56The hoes came from Highsfield!
40:59Yeah!
41:00I felt like I was losing my kids.
41:02To me?
41:03Yeah.
41:04Well, how are you going to lose them to me?
41:06Y'all just pushing me to the side.
41:10What do you feel about it?
41:11About what?
41:12About what?
41:13About this little ?
41:14About what?
41:15This little went to this live out here about Maso and Maurice.
41:19Oh, Lord.
41:20Just wanted to know what really was going on.
41:22We don't care.
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