She’s Not Attacking You — She’s Mirroring You. - video Dailymotion

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She’s not trying to attack you — she’s mirroring the energy you lead with. Men who listen to understand instead of listening to defend create calm, trust, and emotional depth in their relationships. This shift changes everything.  Subscribe to @cupandinspiration for daily relationship and self-growth wisdom.

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00:00Your girl will always follow your lead, so if she's always poking at you, disagreeing with you,

00:04it's because you're doing the same to her. Your girl will mirror the behavior you show her. So

00:07if you are listening to argue, she will in tune start to listen to you just so she can argue back.

00:12But if you listen to understand through active listening while she's explaining, you say,

00:16hmm, makes sense. Can you explain more? Can you go more in depth? Because you're listening to

00:19understand where she is coming from, she will eventually do the same to you and you guys will

00:23have less arguments and more in-depth conversations. You'll be able to meet each other at common

00:27ground and move forward instead of consistently arguing. The problem in most relationships is

00:31that the man listens to the woman through a defensive frame. So when she says something,

00:36he's like, don't attack me. Don't speak to me like that. Why are you speaking like that? Why aren't

00:40you listening to me? And then both of them just end up attacking each other, arguing, and the

00:43argument never gets settled. But if he just listened and stopped being so defensive every

00:47time she opened her mouth, she would do the same and everything would be a lot more calm.

She’s Not Attacking You — She’s Mirroring You.

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