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00:00Working here is not possible at all, huh?
00:04The cafe has to be successful because if we're not,
00:07we'll be living with the parents forever.
00:13So when do you think you'll do furniture shopping?
00:14Probably this week.
00:16You might have to keep an eye on it, Dylan.
00:18She's already like, about my finances.
00:21I'm like, the .
00:23This is exactly what I was worried about.
00:26Obviously, you talked to your mom about the spinning habits.
00:29Yes, I had opened up to my mom and I had told her.
00:32But Tia does have a spending problem.
00:34If she wants to come here and have the champagne lifestyle,
00:37unfortunately, that's not going to work.
00:42Let's show you the other bedroom.
00:44I think it'll make an excellent kids bedroom.
00:45Two little twin beds here.
00:47Twins is on the agenda.
00:49I've become really unsure if I want kids,
00:51but I haven't told him yet.
00:54I just don't feel like we're in a place for a house at all.
00:59I have up.
01:02I want to be with you.
01:03It's hard for me to believe you, really.
01:06I can't stop to thinking about he touching a stripper.
01:11I can't give you a chance, but it's not a chance to come back together.
01:16It's just one time.
01:18This is broken.
01:20I don't think he cannot change my mind.
01:23I don't think he can change my mind.
01:25I don't think he can change my mind.
01:27I don't think he can change my mind.
01:29I don't think he can change my mind.
01:31I don't think he can change my mind.
01:33I don't think he can change my mind.
01:35I don't think he can change my mind.
01:37I don't think he can change my mind.
01:39I don't think he can change my mind.
01:41I don't think he can change my mind.
01:43I don't think he can change my mind.
01:45I don't think he can change my mind.
01:47We're going to cook and make money.
01:56We hope so.
01:58We're going to cook and make money.
02:01It's been a week now, and things are starting to come together.
02:06The cafe now looks like a cafe.
02:09Construction's done.
02:11Equipment is in.
02:12And today is just final touches.
02:15It's really exciting.
02:17We're going to make something ready today.
02:21I'm thinking I'm going to make bread all banana.
02:25Tomorrow, the owner of the property is doing a religious ceremony, also known as Asunder Khan.
02:33So today we're going to prepare the cafe and some food to show a lot of people that we are opening a new cafe over here.
02:42What are you making?
02:45Make coffee.
02:46It's just coffee.
02:49So making coffee is also an art.
02:51Like if you make good coffee, it can be at the start of our menu.
02:56Since the main customer in our area is students, we are focusing on home-cooked food like bread roll, which is basically a bread filled with potatoes.
03:10Along with that, we're going to serve dal, lentils, rice, potato curries, the things that Indians love to eat on a daily routine.
03:19Coffee machine is here.
03:20Nice.
03:21Coffee.
03:21Yeah.
03:22Mostly people in India drink chai, but coffee is also getting popular, but people serve instant coffee.
03:29So if we get a machine which will grind the beans and make a fresh coffee will definitely going to attract a lot of customers.
03:37And that's why we just wanted this big, real-deal coffee machine.
03:42We have to make a espresso machine in the entire market.
03:45We have to make a espresso machine in the entire market.
03:47We have to make a machine in the entire area.
03:49Yeah.
03:50Eggs are delivered.
03:51All the stuff, looks like all the stuff is here.
03:55Yeah.
03:55We get a stove, we get fridge, we get another, like, cooking station.
04:02See how crowded it is already?
04:04We're not even working yet.
04:06This is such a small space.
04:08How are we going to all fit in here?
04:10We need to be, like, making schedule that who will be in and who will be out.
04:15So only, like, two people at a time, those who are cooking.
04:20Oh, we got a logo.
04:21Yay!
04:22Family Cafe.
04:23Yay!
04:24When I first showed the location to my family, everybody seemed disappointed.
04:29But I want to show them that the location is so good that we are going to get a good customer over here.
04:34Now I think we should start cleaning the place.
04:36We have a lot to do.
04:38A lot of people will be coming over here.
04:40I'm so nervous.
04:42I'm nervous, too.
04:44The people who are coming tomorrow for the blessing ceremony, they are the first ones who are going to try the food.
04:50So we really need to make sure that everything is perfect.
04:53Is this preparation for the bread rolls?
04:55Yes.
04:56Yes.
04:58No.
05:00People who need money.
05:01Don't drink anything, Jenny.
05:08We need to make a very good impression,
05:10otherwise they're not going to come back.
05:25Yay!
05:28Looks so good.
05:31Let's get some water.
05:33What's this?
05:35Let's take some water.
05:38It smells great.
05:41It smells great.
05:42It's water.
05:47Are you taking water from here?
05:49What are you doing here?
05:51There's no water here.
05:53No, it's not water.
05:56We'll get some water from here from the bathroom.
05:59I can't believe my eyes.
06:02This is unfiltered water.
06:04The area is next to the toilet.
06:06It's not hygienic at all.
06:08I don't know what makes him think that he can take water from the bathroom and use it for the kitchen.
06:13That's not going to happen in my kitchen.
06:15What happened?
06:16What happened?
06:17What happened?
06:18They fill the water from the bathroom and using it for cooking.
06:25It's very basic.
06:26It's very basic.
06:27It's very basic.
06:28It's very basic.
06:29It's very basic.
06:30It's very basic.
06:31It's very basic.
06:32It's very basic.
06:34It's very special.
06:37It's very basic.
06:38You're not doing it without the waste of waste.
06:41What happens?
06:42Like, they fill the water from the bathroom and using it for cooking.
06:45This is a very basic thing.
06:46It's a very basic thing.
06:47You're not doing our waste of waste.
06:48All people in the office have been working.
06:52They told me that the water is used here.
06:55They use water. They're cleaning up and washing them.
06:57They're taking water from there.
06:59I thought, perhaps, I have the source of water here.
07:03In this café, there's no system of water.
07:07You have to open a café with water.
07:10We have to provide water for each of us.
07:13We need to provide water.
07:15We need to do it.
07:16I think my bed is all right it's my failure it's not just theirs all the
07:22hard work is gone we are planning to do opening tomorrow and if we can't even
07:29prepare the food I don't know how we go with even able to run the cafe so what
07:34now what are we gonna do what happens I don't know we're gonna prepare it again
07:37everything tomorrow
07:40maybe this is why people get sick a lot when they eat in India
07:45oh thanks I feel so special you are
07:55here we go
07:58furniture shopping
07:59furniture shopping
08:01oh wow oh my god this is super comfortable oh that suits you oh yeah they
08:21comfortable it's not too bad how about that one go ahead babe just sit in there please you love
08:28bossing me around don't you know I'm not bossing around you like that one versus
08:33that one this one's become more comfortable yes thank you oh here it is
08:38that's what I like you really like that one it looks like a movie theater thing
08:41it does when I'm shopping for furniture I look for quality I look for comfort and
08:47I look for durability and if it fits that category it's perfect you do need to
08:53look at the price tag also that does come into it my love
08:58you can't just ignore it you have to at least just graze your eyes across it can't help it
09:03if I have expensive taste so this is like two thousand six ninety nine and this one is two thousand
09:10ninety nine what do you think I'd say a thousand bucks is cheap for a couch wouldn't it be better to
09:18get something more cost effective and then we can put the rest of the money towards your debt we did have
09:24the conversation about budgeting and slowing down the spending oh my gosh we're furniture shopping you
09:31have to really talk about this now I know love but it's important you still have this debt looming
09:37over you and this credit card interest is accumulating every month but his relationship with money is
09:46reckless she would have these big spending sprees in Vegas where she dropped five to ten thousand
09:52dollars she'd walk into these clothing stores and the shop assistants would just absolutely love her
09:57throwing clothes at her she'd buy one of every color if she's got money she's gonna spend it all of it and
10:04once we get married our finances are gonna be intertwined so it's a it's a big issue I want you to be
10:13100% honest with me how much debt what's the actual number 20 20 so like how many credit cards in total
10:29they have you have you maxed out five all of them why is there five credit cards maxed out how does that
10:38happen I had no debt when we went to Thailand and then when I came back I accumulated the debt again
10:45because I had to start all over okay this is your fault I had no debt when I moved to Thailand with you
10:53when I met Dylan I was in a lot of debt but I worked really hard myself and was able to pay it off but
11:01then we moved to Thailand and we broke up 11 months later I had to move back to the United States and start
11:08from scratch I hadn't been working in Thailand I had zero savings I felt like I was at the lowest of my
11:15lowest so I have a lot of resentment regarding my financial situation because I sacrificed a lot for
11:23Dylan I understand that some of it was possibly my fault but that was four years ago and you've been
11:31dancing for the last four years making pretty good money it just seems like the same problem just keeps
11:37occurring your spending habits going to change yes I'm not the same I've learned from my mistakes
11:49that's why I'm asking you to sell that house to help me with this debt I'm scared that if I do so
11:59one of my properties that there's gonna be something else and something else and something else I own a
12:07couple of properties in Launceston and they generate some income but I don't think selling one of those
12:13properties to pay off her debt is the right financial choice because it just feels like
12:17she's not taking any accountability for her spending habits and it's rubbish that she's in debt just
12:24because she moved to Thailand she's been spending this way her whole life when I first met Patia I
12:30thought she was you know rich or something I thought you know she's stripper she's got heaps of money but
12:36then I found out she was 60k in debt so this is a pattern and I mean I love Patia and I want to be
12:44with her but I don't want to have to be always cleaning up her mess you keep asking me for a ring
12:52the main reason you haven't got that ring and I haven't proposed yet is because of the spending
12:58issues that you've had my fear is that this spending thing is never gonna stop I'm hoping
13:07there's gonna be lots and lots of little babies and children I didn't plan on opening up to Matthew's
13:14family but it all just kind of came out I've been having like a lot of anxiety about having children
13:19lately me and Madeleine got into it a couple times she called off the wedding you're completely just
13:32manipulated and controlled all the time wake up you don't have to go through with this
13:38so
13:42so
13:47so
13:53Since I've arrived in England, things have been up and down.
14:21It feels like Matthew and I are on different pages about everything.
14:26Like money and where we're going to live and the future.
14:30It's been a bumpy start.
14:33What type of tea is this?
14:35English breakfast.
14:36I don't know why I asked that.
14:38The only tea that we have.
14:41Matthew is working today.
14:44So Matthew's mother has invited me to tea with her, Matthew's grandma,
14:50and also Matthew's brother's fiancé.
14:55All right, so these are the normal...
14:57Do you think we're meant to say normal?
14:59Oh, it's OK.
15:00I'm used to it.
15:01So these are the vegan ones?
15:03We're not saying you're abnormal.
15:05It's OK, I realise I probably am.
15:08So this is the vegan plate here?
15:09That's the vegan...
15:10Oh, my goodness!
15:11Matthew and I did English afternoon tea once before.
15:15I just loved it.
15:16I felt very posh, as English would say it.
15:20You drink tea together and you normally have a tray of little sandwiches and pastries set in the middle of the table,
15:28which is why in those old English TV shows, when people are trying to speak to each other,
15:33they have to, like, look over the little rack of food.
15:37This is vegan cheese.
15:39Yeah, vegan cheese.
15:40I think I'm gonna have fat.
15:43Sorry, Greta.
15:44Are you all right with me eating this?
15:46Yeah, I figured no worries.
15:48Greta, I just want you to know how welcome you are in our family and how much it means to have you with us.
15:53And if you stay in our house for three weeks or three months or even perhaps not quite three...
15:58Three years!
15:59No, three years would be for our two lives.
16:02Especially in such a small house.
16:04Yeah, but you know you are most welcome and...
16:07Thank you so much.
16:10I've said to Matthew, I think you're his soulmate.
16:13Aww.
16:14You were pulled together from across the world.
16:17It was meant to happen, wasn't it?
16:18It was fate.
16:19Oh, sorry.
16:20That's, like, so sweet.
16:22Yeah, I mean, it really, like, it really means the world to be so accepted in this family.
16:28Like...
16:29Yeah.
16:30I, like, don't know what that's like, really.
16:32We have, last two years, we've had some wonderful Christmases, haven't we, together?
16:36Yeah.
16:37Yeah, they really have.
16:38And I know you said that that's not what you have done in the past with your family.
16:42Yeah.
16:43And, like, holidays are especially really challenging because I, my mother and my sister and I, we
16:49made homemade ornaments for the tree.
16:52And the first time we were integrating the tree after she had passed, my father was in a new relationship and I was, like, so excited to hang up the ornaments on the tree.
17:04And this, this person that my father was in a relationship basically said, like, the ornaments were really ugly and that she didn't want them to hang on the tree.
17:16Yeah, and so, like, one of my first memories was, like, me, like, trying to hide some of the ornaments in the tree.
17:25Oh, no!
17:26And so, like, we can still...
17:27Oh, you shouldn't have to hide them.
17:28Have you still got them?
17:29No, because she, she, she threw them out.
17:32Oh, my God.
17:33That's awful.
17:34That's dreadful.
17:35Oh, Greta.
17:37Oh, Greta, I want to hug you.
17:39I'm sorry.
17:40I'm going to hug you.
17:41Let me hug you.
17:42I can't bear that.
17:43I tell you what, we've got lots of family traditions and we will have some Christmas family traditions and you can be part of those traditions.
17:52And your babies.
17:54Yeah.
17:55We'll hang ornaments.
17:56Yeah.
17:57We'll make them.
17:58In fact, we've got lots of Christmas ornaments and we will buy some new ones.
18:01You buy new ones.
18:02And you can make some ornaments.
18:04Yeah.
18:05We will start.
18:06You'll be able to do that with your children.
18:07Yes, you will.
18:09I'm hoping there's going to be lots and lots of little babies and children.
18:13I've been manifesting twins since I was like 16 years old.
18:16Oh, my God.
18:17Excellent.
18:19Yeah.
18:20I mean, I think like when we first met, we both wanted children like a lot.
18:25But I've been having like a lot of anxiety about having children lately.
18:30And I can't tell if it's like a phase or not.
18:37Like if I'll want them more later, like if we have a house together and I can like feel it more.
18:44I mean, I know he wants children and I think he should have children like I and I like I think he's he's the type of person who would be a really amazing dad.
19:00And I don't want to take that from him.
19:03It's hard as well because your upbringing in your childhood and not having your mother to see as a role model.
19:11Such a young age.
19:12That means being a mother yourself must be quite a big thing.
19:16Yeah.
19:17I loved having babies myself and I've always looked forward to the day when perhaps they would go on and have children of their own.
19:25So I would be disappointed if I didn't have any grandchildren, but it's quite a big decision whether you're going to have children or not.
19:34It is the sort of thing that could break up a relationship if one desperately wants children and one doesn't.
19:41Relationships, if they last the long haul, they don't go easy.
19:45There's tricky times and you have to get through them together.
19:49I didn't plan on opening up to Matthew's family, but it all just kind of came out.
19:56I didn't want to ruin this perfect image they had of the future, but they're so excited for me to be here and they love me so much and they've been so accepting.
20:06I don't want to get their hopes up about something that may never happen.
20:12Matthew, he loves you dearly and he wants the best for you.
20:20So you'll have to navigate that decision together and hopefully, you know, reach a compromise.
20:27The last time Matthew and I talked about kids was almost six months ago.
20:33And Matthew and I talked about it and agreed that we would want kids together.
20:38But when I've really started to picture it recently, like house, marriage, kids, I feel really conflicted.
20:49I feel nervous that I'm going to now have to bring this news to Matthew because it could really determine the course of our relationship.
20:56I accumulated this debt because of you.
21:06Every time there's a problem, it's like it's my fault.
21:09It's almost like he wants to see me suffer through the debt.
21:13Like, let's watch you squirm.
21:15He needs to move past this because if he doesn't propose, I'm done.
21:19What's up, man?
21:20How you doing?
21:21Good.
21:22Starting without me?
21:23No.
21:24No.
21:25No.
21:26No.
21:27No.
21:28No.
21:29No.
21:30No.
21:31No.
21:32No.
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21:35No.
21:36No.
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21:38No.
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21:41No.
21:42No.
21:43No.
21:44No.
21:45No.
21:46No.
21:47No.
21:48It started without me.
21:50Let me grab a beer.
21:51I'll be right back.
21:54Brian is one of my closest friends.
21:56We met in Colombia.
21:58He was married to one of Madeleine's friends, but Madeleine and Brian made each other.
22:06Madeline started a rumor that I was unfaithful to my ex-wife.
22:11just to get back at me telling Luke what happens when he's not there.
22:17It's Madeline's world, and we're just living in it.
22:19Like, she says, jump, and Luke says, how high?
22:21She says, bark, and Luke barks.
22:26Here you go, man.
22:28Cheers.
22:29Salud.
22:30Madeline does not want me to see Brian.
22:32But to be honest, I think that we should be able to talk,
22:36and I could use it just about now.
22:39How you been, man?
22:40Good.
22:42How's it going?
22:43So you've been here for a couple of days now, right?
22:44Yeah, it's been dramatic, man.
22:46Me and Madeline got into it a couple of times.
22:49She called off the wedding.
22:52I mean, it's been stressful, man, you know?
22:54But trying to work through it.
22:57Yeah.
22:58It sounds real healthy, Luke.
22:59It sounds like you're really making progress.
23:01Yeah, I mean, you have a point, dude.
23:04I feel like you have, like, Stockholm Syndrome.
23:07You know?
23:08What's that?
23:09When someone, like, kidnaps somebody and takes them hostage,
23:12then the hostage starts to fall in love with the captive?
23:18We've been through a lot, you know?
23:19I mean, maybe there's a little bit of a trauma bond there.
23:22Like, I've kind of been at, like, my lowest low in life, you know?
23:27Like, financially unstable.
23:29Yeah, but you've been saying this since the moment you met her.
23:32So everything you tell me, nothing's changed.
23:35It's bad, bro.
23:37And you're completely just manipulated and controlled all the time.
23:43What is it about her?
23:45Like, why do you want to be with her?
23:47Sell her to me, please.
23:50Really, like, me seeing you and your life, I wanted to move here.
23:54I wanted to be in a different country as an entrepreneur living the life.
23:59I just wanted to live the dream and not have to work how I did in the United States.
24:03Sell me her, not the dream.
24:04Sell me her.
24:05I think, ultimately, I'm a little bit scared of being alone.
24:12And she has been there.
24:14Is she there for you?
24:16Because last time I talked, you're like, oh, sometimes she ignores me for days.
24:19That's someone that's there for you?
24:22I'm telling you to sell me her.
24:24You haven't said one nice thing about her.
24:26And you're getting married.
24:28Like, what about this sounds like a good idea?
24:31You don't have to go through with this.
24:36Did I want to be going through this stuff, like, weeks before my marriage?
24:41No.
24:42You know, am I happy right now?
24:45No.
24:46I feel like I'm walking on eggshells.
24:49But the way she makes me feel when I'm with her makes me forget a lot of the stress,
24:56a lot of the things that I'm going through.
24:59I see my future, and I want to be happy.
25:02I want to be happy with her.
25:04I just, I want it so bad.
25:06It's just, I felt like I haven't been myself in a really long time.
25:11Because, really, like, I can't hit home on the financial stress that I'm going through.
25:17So, where is the root of your financial problems?
25:22How much money did you spend on Madeline in a year?
25:27A lot.
25:32Any woman will love you if you send your whole paycheck to them.
25:37That doesn't mean it's true love.
25:39A real woman, knowing that you're in financial ruin, won't push the limits of what you can or cannot give her.
25:46It's hard to be your friend.
25:48When you keep making the same mistakes with the same girl, wake the up.
25:58Brian is saying some pretty nasty , but there's some truth in that.
26:04I've boughten her cars, I've boughten her beauty studio, I pay her rent, I pay her food, I pay everything.
26:12It's been horrible since I've moved here.
26:16And it's not how I want my future to be.
26:19It's not the relationship that I had envisived.
26:22I don't know, I don't know what to do.
26:31You keep asking me for a ring, but my fear is that this spending thing is never going to stop.
26:42I haven't seen the changes.
26:46I need to see those changes before we commit and get married.
26:53It's an addiction that you have.
26:56It's a chronic addiction.
26:58You know, it's detrimental, love.
27:00It's got to stop.
27:01And it's serious.
27:04You brought me to tears with it, because it's like, when is this woman going to stop spending?
27:08You know, there's been many months where you have not had the money for rent, and I've had to pay it for you.
27:15What are you talking about?
27:16That's because you put me in that place.
27:19You've got a very deluded view of what has and hasn't happened.
27:25I didn't know, like, deep down, how you really felt about my spending issue.
27:32In the past, every time I expressed it, you'd get really upset and mad and just told me to stay out of your business.
27:38And it would just start a fight, and so I just kind of gave up.
27:42You're right.
27:43But I accumulated this debt because of you.
27:50The debt that you had when you met me, whose fault was that?
27:56When I met Dylan, I just moved to Vegas, and I was in a lot of debt.
28:00As performers, strippers, we had to look the part, and it's expensive.
28:05We had to tan, we had to do the nails, the hair.
28:07You have to spend to make it, but I did not spend like I used to.
28:13Babe, I've learned from my mistakes, but this debt, I swear, honestly, I feel like it's your fault.
28:21You know it's your fault.
28:22Every time there's a problem, it's like it's my fault.
28:25It just seems it's just easy just to blame stuff on me and then just keep spending.
28:32It makes me mad.
28:33This last debt was because of him.
28:37If it bothers you, help me, help me pay it.
28:41It's almost like he wants to see me suffer through the debt.
28:44I'm like, let's watch you squirm and see what you can do, you know?
28:48You're not that same girl anymore.
28:51I've gotten better.
28:53Now that we're together, it's going to be your money, and I'm not going to be doing that.
28:57I don't know what more I can do or say to say, look, I'm not that high-maintenance girl like I was back in the day.
29:05He needs to move past this because if he doesn't propose, I'm done. I'm moving on.
29:10He spread some holy water which was mixed with a cow urine.
29:25It just carnivore.
29:27I don't know what they do.
29:29It ?
29:30Do I have a cow urine?
29:35The Tethysman – a cow whining saint…
29:41And asmain saintaUN, it's a baby.
29:44Today's day, Shaganada.
29:47Only my shagd manava.
29:49Tere to badee nava.
29:51Only my shagd manava.
29:52Oh, tehen to badee nava.
29:54So, Viko?
29:56That email I'm writing.
29:58I want Jojo.
29:59For the burger, I want it.
30:02Patties and french fries.
30:07You know, last night was rough night.
30:09Like, I know, I really felt so bad
30:12that you guys worked so hard for so long,
30:15and we have to throw everything away.
30:17That was so bad.
30:19Last night, that really set us back.
30:22We were up late preparing once again,
30:25and now we all are tired, cranky,
30:27and, you know, it's not a great way
30:29to start our first day.
30:31The blessing ceremony is a big thing
30:33for all the businesses in the market.
30:35A lot of people are coming,
30:37and we're gonna hand out a sample of our food
30:39in order to advertise our cafe.
30:41But, like, it's not gonna be easy
30:43because we all are tired.
30:46Okay, here we are.
30:51We have the water jar if you guys need water.
30:54Yeah.
30:55We have water over here.
30:56Yeah, big jar.
30:57Sunda Khan ceremony is an important time
31:00when we ask for the blessings
31:02from all the gods and goddesses.
31:04This particular ceremony become extra special
31:07because it's on an auspicious day
31:09where the planets and stars are aligned,
31:12which helps us to get more blessings from the god.
31:15I feel like I need to take a coffee-making class.
31:27I'm here.
31:28I'll teach you.
31:29That's not an issue.
31:30Okay, so to make Americano single cups...
31:33Single sauce.
31:34Shots.
31:35This is for double shots.
31:36Double shots.
31:37Press it.
31:38Your espresso is ready.
31:39Then put the water here,
31:40and the Americano is ready.
31:42I was really excited to get this coffee machine,
31:47and now I'm looking at it like,
31:50what the hell?
31:51Temper this and steam that.
31:54I'm in way over my head here.
31:56I'm lost.
31:58Shall I help you?
31:59Yeah.
32:00Yeah.
32:01You have to be really very fast.
32:02Simple.
32:03Okay.
32:04I mean, what the hell did I get into?
32:06My fingers are crossed.
32:08Everything works out.
32:10We'll see.
32:13I already forget what to do.
32:29Before the main ceremony begins,
32:31the priests come into every individual cafe
32:35and bless every shop.
32:45He spread some holy water,
32:46which was mixed with a cow urine.
32:50Cow urine is considered very religious
32:52and pure in my culture.
32:54Did you say cow urine?
32:56Yeah, you heard it right.
32:58Cow is a holy animal above anyone,
33:00even like gods,
33:02because cow gives us milk.
33:04She's like a mother to us.
33:06Throwing cow urine around while you're cooking,
33:08we would never do something like that in America.
33:11You use holy water, we use cow urine.
33:13All right,
33:14now we are
33:15the cafe's bliss.
33:16Now our cafe's bliss.
33:46We are just making a buzz that yes we are here in the market so from tomorrow onwards
33:58please do come in and enjoy more and more different varieties of foods and coffees.
34:10End of the day I'm very proud of the work we did I guess it's really good we served a
34:15lot of people hundreds of plates went out of the kitchen it really makes it feel good that
34:20we can do it.
34:22You guys you know all I saw was food going out the door and no money coming in I know how
34:29important this was but we made no money.
34:34When they said we were going to be handing out samples I thought it was going to be small
34:40but they're handing out whole plates of food and there's got to be at least a hundred
34:46people here so at this point we might as well just be throwing money out.
34:51So there's a lot of people so I thought this is our chance we are letting people know that
34:56look what we are having over here which you won't find in the neighborhood.
35:01See we are new today and they are running business for months now so how will people
35:06recognize Family Cafe?
35:08Take it as investment.
35:10Yes don't worry it will be all fine tomorrow.
35:13Are these people delusional?
35:15Am I the only one realizing we didn't make any money today on top of all the food we had to throw
35:23away yesterday? Like what the hell? Now I'm worried it's going to take us longer to start making
35:30any money and we might be stuck living with the family forever.
35:41I've been having a lot of anxiety lately because I've been thinking about something.
35:53I don't think I've ever picked apples before. Really? No.
36:14It's great as a third day here and things still feel unsettled.
36:18I hear some snorts. Oh my god, piggy.
36:24Aww. Aww.
36:26Look at those sweet little angels.
36:29Aww, hi honey.
36:30Look at their ears, you're just like...
36:35Hi. How are you? Do you have a name?
36:39It's okay if you don't want to come to us, you don't have to.
36:42We just want to say hello.
36:45I think we should go pick some apples for them, honey, so they trust us more.
36:48Yep, let's go get some apples.
36:52Do apples grow in Oklahoma?
36:54Um, I'm sure they do, but it's not really a thing in Oklahoma.
37:00I'm going to get some of the apples down here on this low branch.
37:03Yeah, they look good.
37:04Oh god.
37:06You know, who'd have thought that three years after we met on a vegan dating app,
37:11we would go on this journey together and share these experiences.
37:16Yeah, I'm really grateful that you love animals as well, because I've felt like I've always
37:23struggled finding a partner who feels the same way that I do about animals.
37:27So thank you for allowing me to have that space.
37:31I feel exactly the same.
37:33I thought I'd have to go my whole life, being in relationships with people or probably getting
37:38married to someone that I just accepted wasn't a vegan or doesn't live animals to the same extent
37:45as me.
37:46And it surprised me when I was able to find you.
37:51And maybe what I'm trying to say is thank you for being in my life.
37:56No.
37:59Greta moved to a new country.
38:01She's left her cat behind, her friends behind to be with me.
38:06And although it hasn't been perfect, I just want to reassure her that she's my person,
38:12and I'm looking forward to a life with her.
38:15That's very sweet.
38:16And I mean, you helped me be unapologetically myself, but I've been having a lot of anxiety
38:25lately because I've been thinking about something, like really struggling with it.
38:35And I didn't talk to you about it because I wanted to know if I was going through a phase or not.
38:45But where my head's at now, I feel so unsure if I do want kids anymore.
38:57That's a bombshell.
39:05Yeah.
39:08I am like really struggling because I think you were meant to be a dad.
39:14And I think like you would be an amazing dad.
39:20I absolutely want kids and I want those kids with you because you are the one for me.
39:27Do you think maybe the reason why you feel like you don't want kids is because you had a difficult childhood?
39:39No, I think my childhood would actually be one of the reasons why I would want kids,
39:48because I would be able to build a family life that I've always dreamed of but never got to experience.
39:53This is a complete shock to me. Me and Greta have spoken together about kids
40:04dozens if not hundreds of times. We've even named what all of our kids would be called.
40:10The hobbies they would have, the way we would raise them, all the way down to the kinds of schools we
40:15want them to go to. I don't know where this has come from.
40:24I was really sure about having kids and then I started to really think about what having a child
40:29would mean and like what my life would look like if I had a kid. And I think having a kid
40:36and a family life would be a major deterrence to being the type of advocate that I've always wanted to be.
40:45I don't think you should see it purely from your impact. I think you should see how much of an impact
40:54they could have as well. Your ability to raise people in the image that you always wanted to be
41:02raised in as a child, I think it's such an opportunity for you. And if you don't have the time
41:10to be a mother, I will be 200% of the father.
41:27Still to come on 90 Day Fiancé The Other Way.
41:29I feel like our life is really starting here. It's giving me anxiety. There's no food deliveries,
41:51no taxi, nothing. We are finally moving to our home sweet home. It's in the ass of France.
42:00What the ? There's nothing here, Ben. I'm not married for this.
42:08I've got one, Pattaya. Ah! Dylan's mom is the reason why we are not married today.
42:15I feel like you're a needy mother, Jo. I'm not going to be classed as needy.
42:20Every day you have to talk to your mom. It's ridiculous.
42:24You better start picking your battles because you're just going to be nagging me until we're both dead.
42:28At the beginning, I felt like he was Mr. Darcy and I was Elizabeth.
42:38Honey, I'm home.
42:40And that's not how I'm feeling right now.
42:44The honest truth is that I don't think I'm being very fair to you, Paul.
42:50What do we do now?
42:51I already told your parents we're moving out.
42:57We are depending on them right now. We cannot move out of there.
43:01If you don't want to go with me, I guess I'll have to move out by myself.
43:06You're going to be marrying my son, but it's her.
43:11Is this really what you want?
43:12I still have so many doubts. I even know if you're going to marry this guy.
43:26These aren't my areas.
43:30Oh, God.
43:31I feel like I was in a relationship with a total different person.
43:36Chloe.
43:37Those are not mine.
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