90 Day Fiancé UK Season 4 Episode 11

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00:00In the Gambia, it feels romantic.

00:03When I'm in England, then reality hits me.

00:07What the?

00:09This girl?

00:11I don't know how to show affection the way that you want.

00:15You need to grow up to go.

00:19I'm an evil genius.

00:23No more anymore, someday she will come back.

00:26I now pronounce you husband and wife.

00:30Hallelujah.

00:32We are now married.

00:34It's just a dream come true for me.

00:37I don't think our family will accept you.

00:40You're not convincing us.

00:43She would like you to go back with your ex.

00:47You don't have to worry about my ex.

00:49I'd like to talk to Heloise and explain, this is how I feel.

00:53I don't want you to talk to her.

00:56I'm in Albania.

00:58I'm so happy that Adnan is acting warmly towards me.

01:02Our first night together was amazing.

01:05Good morning, my love.

01:07One thing leads to another one.

01:11Hopefully, a proposal is on the horizon.

01:15I love you so much, so I want you to be my wife.

01:20Will you marry me?

01:24Oh, no.

01:25One thing.

01:26What's going on?

01:27I love you.

01:28I love you.

01:29I love you, dude.

01:30Where am I?

01:31I love you.

01:32I love you.

01:33Hey.

01:34Hey, baby.

01:35Hey.

01:36Hey.

01:37Hey, baby!

01:38Hey, baby.

01:42Hey, baby.

01:43Hey.

01:44Hey, I'm ready.

01:45Hey!

01:46Ibrahim's down on one knee, and he's asking me to marry him.

01:59It's a lot to take in.

02:03Yes, I will.

02:07Yes, yes.

02:11Oh, Ibrahim, that was my surprise.

02:14Thank you for accepting.

02:16You're very welcome.

02:18I'm the happiest man.

02:20Xena is going to marry him.

02:24I'm your fiancé now?

02:26Yeah, of course, yeah.

02:27I really love him.

02:29Thank you so much.

02:30I'm very happy for you.

02:31Thank you so much.

02:32That's really, really kind and lovely.

02:36I'm engaged, and I love the ring.

02:39I really love it, and I'm overwhelmed with love from Ibrahim.

02:44I'm very happy.

02:46That's my happiest day ever.

02:48Is it?

02:49Yes.

02:50I'm lost for words at the moment, but once I get over the shop and I sit down, you know,

02:56I'll come to it.

02:57I love you so much, Ibrahim.

02:58I love you, too.

03:00Good.

03:00From my heart.

03:01Okay?

03:04Let me take you to the next part of your surprise.

03:08It's this way.

03:09Mm-hmm.

03:10Oh.

03:11Ibrahim's got another surprise for me, and I'm very excited.

03:23Welcome, man.

03:24I have to be 100% sure that he's not just wanting to marry me to get out of the Gambia

03:32because he thinks he might have a better life in England.

03:36Babe, today, I'm very, very happy as you accept my proposal.

03:42I love you so much.

03:43Oh, that's really nice.

03:45What do you expect for the future?

03:49I want to marry with you in the UK.

03:55And where would you prefer to live?

03:58I prefer in the UK, yeah.

04:01In your house, they can do it there.

04:07What would you do if you eventually came to the UK?

04:11From there, I can have any job there.

04:13I can't do it there.

04:14I can't do it there.

04:15Very good.

04:16Very good.

04:19The more he's talking about the UK, the more I'm getting worried.

04:22Just because Ibrahim wants to get to the UK doesn't mean that he doesn't love me.

04:27I don't know.

04:28Oh, thank you.

04:30All right.

04:31Oh, I say.

04:32Oh!

04:33Yeah.

04:35All right.

04:36Enjoy your dinner.

04:38This is our engagement meal.

04:40The nicest one.

04:41So when are you going to tell your family?

04:48I'm dreading it.

04:49OK.

04:50Because they're not going to like it.

04:52Hey, hey, hey, why not?

04:54They're worried that you're only wanting to marry me to get to the UK.

05:00I don't mind anywhere, Gambia or the UK.

05:07I'll be happy wherever I live.

05:11So you just don't want to come to the UK?

05:14You'd be quite happy if I stayed in the Gambia?

05:17You don't mind?

05:18So long as you see me?

05:19I don't mind, yeah.

05:20Oh, that's really lovely.

05:22Initially, Ibrahim said he'd like to move to the UK.

05:27But now, he's changed his tune a bit.

05:31I don't really know what Ibrahim really wants.

05:34If you stay in Gambia having more time with my family,

05:37I'll be very happy.

05:38Yeah, it'll be good.

05:39Yeah, of course.

05:40Yeah, all right.

05:41Give me a little kiss, babe.

05:42OK.

05:45I don't really think he's a con man or anything like that.

05:49But my mind's all over the place at the moment.

05:52I'm having a lot of reservations about the engagement, the marriage.

05:56And I'm going to sleep on it and see how I feel in the morning.

06:02Thank you so much.

06:03You're welcome.

06:04You're welcome.

06:05You're welcome.

06:06Oh, cool.

06:07That's lovely.

06:19Me and Adnan were having such a great time in Albania.

06:26We were flirting with each other.

06:28Things were going in the right direction.

06:30But we had a argument, so I've left.

06:38I just need some time to reflect and get my head around things.

06:42So I've booked myself in a hotel to get some space.

06:57Hey, babe.

06:58Hey.

06:59How are you, babes?

07:00Good, thank you.

07:01How are you?

07:02Oh, not so good at the moment.

07:03Oh.

07:04Where do I start?

07:06We were having a great day today.

07:08We went out.

07:09We were driving back home.

07:11And I saw this hospital.

07:13I said to him, Adnan, oh, did you see that guy?

07:15He had a hair transplant.

07:17The taxi driver said, oh, yeah, I had one done.

07:20I'm like, I know someone that wants to get it done.

07:22So I took the cab driver's number.

07:24I message him, say hi.

07:26This is Shauna.

07:27When I get back, he starts acting a bit agitated.

07:31He says to me, oh, you didn't ask my permission

07:33if you could take his number?

07:34What?

07:36I took his number right in front of you.

07:38I haven't got anything to hide.

07:39So I said to him, listen, I do apologize

07:41if you felt that disrespectful.

07:44Maybe it's like a culture difference.

07:46He says to me, oh, I don't want to hear it.

07:47Fuck off.

07:48You said that?

07:49Yeah.

07:50He says to me, you can go and do whatever you want

07:52with this guy now.

07:53I said, he's married.

07:55I'm like, there's nothing intentional.

07:57So what is up with him?

07:59I don't know.

08:00He was just acting weird.

08:02This is really wrong on so many levels.

08:05Yeah, I think so.

08:06I said to him, I've seen a different side to you.

08:08What's wrong with you?

08:09He said, I'm stressed.

08:10I'm like, if you're stressed, like, talk to me.

08:12Let's have that conversation.

08:14Maybe I can help you.

08:15I do think this is their culture.

08:18Mm-hmm.

08:19Because the man is very chauvinist.

08:21Yeah.

08:22But I'm so sorry I had to go through this.

08:24This is just not really idle.

08:26It's painful, but I'm all pain for us to have a conversation.

08:31When it's calmed down, I'm hurting, but I'll get over it.

08:35I'll survive.

08:36I'm so sorry.

08:37Yeah, I know.

08:38Me if you need me.

08:39Thanks, babe.

08:40I'll message you later as well.

08:41All right, take care.

08:42Bye.

08:43Bye.

08:44Bye.

08:45Bye.

08:46It says unavailable.

08:50That's been blocked.

08:51It's not going through.

08:53He just messaged, say, don't call me anymore.

08:59A bit hurt.

09:00Like, someone can be so nice, loving, and then act this way.

09:07Oh, he's messaging now.

09:09I can offer to meet up with him and see what he says.

09:12I just don't know what to think.

09:13My head's all over the place.

09:15Wow.

09:16Didn't realise something so small could cause someone to react

09:21the way they reacted.

09:24We've been together for two years,

09:26and I don't feel like I should give up just like that.

09:30I can't.

09:31It was just an innocent chat between me and the taxi driver,

09:34and I don't feel like we should give up over something so silly.

09:38Missed Voice

09:43Well.

09:44I'm back in the UK now, this time as a married man but I've had to come back without my wife.

10:14Ara and I are waiting for the visa to be approved so Ara can move to the UK, it feels like everything's on hold.

10:24We were told that the visa would take up to six weeks.

10:28I got an email through just now from our immigration lawyer.

10:36I haven't opened it yet, I'm a little bit scared to to be honest.

10:41There's no way it can be a decision yet, we only put it in two weeks ago.

10:46Hopefully it's the case officer being assigned or yeah, something like that but I don't know.

10:53I hope they haven't rejected us.

10:58This is all feeling very real now.

11:02Please find and attach a decision letter for your entry clearance application.

11:07This is it, I'm kind of nervous but also very, very skeptical.

11:12Your application for the United Kingdom visa has been successful.

11:24No way, it's real, Ara's going to lose her mind.

11:35All the things we've talked about doing and living together and being together we can actually do now.

11:40I better call Ara. I better tell her the good news.

11:46Hi, ma'am.

11:47Good morning, I got an email through.

11:49I am just at home and I saw my phone ring.

11:55My heart stopped because I realised that it could be the visa.

12:00What email is that?

12:02Um, it's from the lawyer.

12:06Okay.

12:07And it's a forwarded letter from UK Immigration.

12:12What does it say?

12:15You've been given a visa.

12:17Really?

12:17Yeah.

12:19Are you joking?

12:20No.

12:21Is it true?

12:21100% true.

12:24The visa got approved and I am so happy and excited.

12:27This is what we're dreaming for before I can be with you forever now.

12:37Yep.

12:38You ready to come over here?

12:40I am so ready to be with you.

12:43Good.

12:44I'm happy and I'm scared.

12:48I'm going to be leaving my family but yeah, I'll be with you, ma'am.

12:52I better get those flights booked and come and pick you up.

12:54Yes, book it please.

12:58I feel like I'm excited because finally I'm going to see my husband again.

13:02But at the same time, I'm going to be sad.

13:07Because Andy coming here in the Philippines means that I'll be leaving soon.

13:16I think it's just become really real for her and her family.

13:19Like, obviously we knew she was going to move over here but

13:23she's only ever really known living in the Philippines and living with her family.

13:28I think there's a lot of pressure for me to

13:32make her feel comfortable here because it's not going to be easy for her to

13:36settle in, got to find little ways to remind her of home and make sure she feels like

13:40this is her place.

13:41It needs to feel like a family home.

13:47So, how are you feeling?

14:01A little bit tired.

14:05A little bit tired.

14:06Today, I'm taking Sandra to see my mum.

14:11I'm really looking forward to today but I can't stop thinking about this barbecue that

14:15Heloisa is having.

14:17It's just really on my mind.

14:24Today's going to be a good day, yeah?

14:26Definitely.

14:28You're not going to have any argument about what Missy said, right?

14:34No.

14:35No.

14:37We're certainly not going to have an argument about it.

14:39Yeah.

14:40But I think I would like to call her just to air the view and say,

14:44look, you know, what's been going on?

14:46And I feel a little bit upset that, you know, the barbecue that you're having or had with me,

14:52you're also now having with your ex.

14:56Sandra's my partner and I love her.

14:57But to be honest, Sandra's ex, he's been a massive part of her life.

15:02So, I'm not convinced there's nothing to worry about and that it means nothing.

15:08I just think it's not the right time to call her.

15:12How lovely to see you, Sandra.

15:24Good that you're now in England to stay with Finn.

15:27So, I've been trying to persuade Sandra to move here.

15:30Sandra does not like the UK as much as I'd hoped.

15:35It's cold.

15:36Yes.

15:36It's dark.

15:38It's expensive.

15:39People are rude.

15:40Yeah, because it's some huge readjustment.

15:44Plus all your...

15:44Well, it's...

15:45Yeah, she's got two kids there.

15:47Um, a boy and a girl.

15:49Yeah, so great.

15:50It's better for him to move to Brazil, right?

15:52Yes.

15:53See?

15:55Yes.

15:56Lots to think about first, though.

15:58I'm trying to work out how I'd live there.

16:01So, are you going to start learning Portuguese?

16:04See?

16:04Your mum is in my life.

16:06Yeah, you can teach me.

16:07Right then, I'm going to go and make another cup of tea.

16:10I will see you in a bit.

16:11We'll see you in a little.

16:14The timing is right.

16:15Sandra's having a nice time with my mum, chatting to her.

16:19So, if she's talking to one of my family members,

16:21maybe I could talk to one of hers.

16:23I need to know if Heloisa is plotting

16:28to get Sandra back together with her ex.

16:39How are you?

16:40I'm good.

16:41And you?

16:42Yeah, not too bad.

16:45I want to talk to you.

16:46Really?

16:48What happened?

16:49What's been happening with her ex-partner?

16:52I don't understand the question.

16:54Why are you asking this?

16:55So, Sandra mentioned the other day that you guys were going to have a barbecue with him.

17:02And it made me really sad, because I then thought, wow, Heloisa doesn't really want me to be with Sandra.

17:10I thought all of this.

17:12I was talking with my husband, and they met, and they invite each other to have a barbecue.

17:19What did you want me to do?

17:21Say no to my husband?

17:23I'm a friend.

17:25And I think that you're jealous.

17:26Are you?

17:27Not jealous.

17:28No, I think it's the emotion I felt when I heard that was I felt sad.

17:33And I thought, wow, he's still getting inside her mind, getting inside her family's mind.

17:40How can he not be if he's going around having barbecue at your house?

17:45He's still a big part of your whole family.

17:48I'm not going to say anything about you.

17:50You're not going to say anything about you.

17:52What this feels like is Heloisa's sabotaging our relationship.

18:04Do you want Sandra and him to get back together?

18:09Uh, I don't want her to go back to him.

18:12Definitely not.

18:13Because she says she loves you.

18:15But you are not going to get married with my sister.

18:18Wow.

18:21Because I doubt a lot.

18:22If you're coming to Brazil.

18:25Really?

18:26I don't think you're going to leave your country and come here to live here.

18:32I don't believe it.

18:34I don't think you're doing anything.

18:43Well, the proof is in the pudding, and I'm a spotted dick.

18:48How are you doing?

18:50We're at all our lunch.

18:51Hi.

18:52Hi.

18:54I just called your sister.

18:58Why did you call her?

19:00Uh, I just wanted to have a conversation with her about...

19:04But we talk about this.

19:05Yeah.

19:06And I thought it was, you're not ready.

19:09No, but it was on my mind, and I thought the time was right.

19:12Why did you phone?

19:14She is having a barbecue with Sandra's ex-partner, and I wanted to understand why.

19:20It's quite upsetting, because if the shoe was on the other foot, and you were having some wine and

19:25cheese with my ex-partner, Sandra might feel betrayed is the word I'd use.

19:34And that's quite a strong word, and it's not a word I was comfortable saying to your sister.

19:38And I didn't say that.

19:40I just said I felt hurt.

19:41But why?

19:42This is going to change something for you?

19:43And I did ask her, do you want them to get back together?

19:47And she said no.

19:48Yeah, I told you a million times.

19:50But she still has doubts about our relationship, and I'm going to prove her wrong.

19:54That was not the right time to talk to my sister.

19:59Can we move on?

20:00You're not going to talk about this anymore?

20:02No, because it's resolved in my mind.

20:04It's all finished.

20:04I think she'll see.

20:05I've said, and now I just need to show.

20:35Today's my last day, and Ibrahim proposed to me last night, and I did say yes.

20:42But really, I do have a lot of reservations about the engagement.

20:48Oh, that's it.

20:49Lovely.

20:50And before I go home, I do need to be honest with him.

20:55I can't believe it.

20:56The last day.

20:58It's gone by in a flash.

21:00I hate this day, man.

21:02I hate this day as well.

21:04I really do.

21:05Fish and chips?

21:06Yes, please.

21:07Ladies first?

21:08Yes.

21:08Yes, of course.

21:09Lovely.

21:11Yeah, thank you, brother.

21:12Enjoy, Niamila.

21:15The last supper.

21:19We hope to see you very soon, ma'am.

21:22Yeah, I hope so.

21:26I really need to tell Ibrahim about how I'm feeling.

21:30It's only fair to be honest with him.

21:33I don't want you to take it the wrong way or be upset, but I've been thinking overnight about the worries that I have about our engagement.

21:46I know we're engaged, but I don't know if I can commit to marriage.

22:01There's a lot of things stacked against it at this moment in time, like the suspicions that I had about you when I thought your sister was your wife, then your nephew was your child.

22:12I'm not happy about all what's happened.

22:16No, these things go over in my mind.

22:19I still love you, but it's very, very difficult for me, and I can't commit when I have nagging feelings in my mind.

22:31You look upset, are you?

22:34Yeah, of course I look upset, ma'am.

22:41Yesterday, I was the happiest man, but things are going from backwards now.

22:49Ibrahim, hold my hand.

22:51It's not a no, but I'm going to go home and speak to my family and see what my family have to say about the whole situation.

23:02I understand you have to explain to your family and see what they're going to say, so I'm upset, but I already love you, so you are already on my heart, so I can go back.

23:20I don't know what's going to happen.

23:24I think I'd better go now and start packing.

23:28All right, see you back in the room.

23:33Good to see you now.

23:58Good to see you now.

23:59Good to see you now.

24:01Good to see you now.

24:07I decided I'm going to meet Adnan.

24:14Maybe if we meet each other, we can get things back on track.

24:24Thanks for coming.

24:25You won't sit.

24:32I come all this way and I have to see it through.

24:35I'm going to give it one more push and try and talk through what happened.

24:40Are you okay?

24:42I'm good.

24:45That's good.

24:48You have something to say.

24:49Okay, just to recap, yesterday when I exchanged numbers with the driver, I was helping my friend back in the UK.

25:04He wanted a ear transplant and I said, I will give you my number and then he can get in contact and they can chat.

25:13We left the band, you became upset, shouting, telling me to F off because I didn't ask you permission.

25:25Everything was going great, but something happened that I can't accept.

25:30It made me realize we are not for each other.

25:34This conversation here is not a conversation where it's going to be agitated.

25:39So I appreciate you to be a bit more mindful in the way you're speaking to me.

25:46The reason, I don't want you anymore.

25:49Do what you want.

25:50You know, Adnan, I think that's very disrespectful because I've been in your life for two years.

26:01We have ups and downs.

26:04Go.

26:05You can't tell me to go.

26:07Go.

26:09The fact that there's no consideration, there's no love, there's no sympathy, shows me that this relationship is done.

26:17You can hate me, but there is a way that you can speak to someone without being disrespectful.

26:24Because I don't wish you bad.

26:26I always wish you well.

26:28But the relationship has run its course.

26:31You go your way and I go my way.

26:34At the end of the day, Adnan, I'm here just for us to part amicably.

26:38It's not to get back together.

26:39That ship has sailed.

26:41We both understand, just as I may.

26:43You do your wish, but you can't.

26:45I don't want to be with you, Adnan.

26:46Are you listening to me?

26:47Are you wish?

26:48Are you listening to me?

26:49It's your wish.

26:50I don't dream.

26:52Are you listening to me?

26:53Don't dream.

26:54Please.

26:57Comprehend and listen.

26:59The ship has sailed.

27:00Do you know the meaning?

27:02Ship, sail, gone, gone, bye-bye.

27:06It's over between us.

27:07I catch a fish in the sea.

27:10I catch a fish in the sea.

27:12You understand?

27:12I was fishing in the sea.

27:17So is this your anger coming out then?

27:20I was fishing in the sea.

27:21I was fishing.

27:22You caught a fish.

27:23And what happened?

27:24Just no substance to you.

27:25Is that it?

27:26I'm so happy that I've seen this side to you because I've been living into a bubble.

27:33And that bubble is popped.

27:38And I've seen the real Adnan.

27:42The one that fake pretends.

27:46You're a user.

27:48He pretends that, that, that.

27:50What are you, what are you using?

27:52You, you are.

27:52For what I use you?

27:53You're a liar.

27:54You are a narcissist.

27:57For what, for what I use you?

27:58You're so immature.

28:00Don't whistle at me.

28:01I'm not a cat or a dog.

28:03Anaconda.

28:04How am I a snake?

28:05A snake goes behind your back and take his number without you knowing.

28:11There you go, whistling.

28:12Is that, is that the way the Albanian men treat the women in Albania?

28:17He's so immature.

28:19This is a revelation.

28:20I'm seeing the true Adnan and I don't like it one bit.

28:25To be fair, I'm always a bigger person.

28:28So I, I'll give you a hug, Adnan.

28:31We can part ways on a hug.

28:33I, I don't, I don't want a fake hug.

28:36Fake, Adnan, why do you call me fake?

28:39Am I fake?

28:40I can't talk anymore.

28:43You are fake.

28:46You are fake.

28:50I am done.

28:51I know.

28:54See you little boy.

28:55Have a great life.

28:56You deserve it.

28:58What's fake?

29:04There's no consideration.

29:06There's no love.

29:07So I can't be with someone like that.

29:09I can't.

29:15Fake.

29:16It's calling fake.

29:21Say goodbye to the skimpy bikini top.

29:41Until next time when it comes back.

29:45I'm just packing to go home and I'm feeling really sad to be leaving the Gambia.

29:49Because it's so lovely and I'm going to have to be leaving Ibrahim.

29:52But I have to go sometime.

29:55Passport.

29:58Money.

30:00I think that's, that's about done now.

30:03My head is just, I want, want to know what my family are going to say.

30:06When I tell them that Ibrahim wants to marry me.

30:10My England coat.

30:15Look, this is what I'll look like when I get to the airport.

30:20I should have got a scarf, really.

30:24Horrible England, cold weather.

30:27I have a message for you about your family.

30:31So when you go, you have to try to convince them.

30:36They can accept our marriage, ma'am.

30:40I have to talk to them and...

30:41I will, I promise.

30:43In a couple of days, once I'm home settled,

30:45and I'm counting all the icicles on the window,

30:47and then I'll go out, and then I'll go to my family and see them.

30:56Shall we head off?

30:57Yeah.

30:58Yes.

31:02It's very, very difficult to say goodbye to someone you love.

31:10Come, bud. You all right?

31:12Yeah.

31:15You don't know when she will be coming, but...

31:27I don't know what the future holds, but I'm going to speak to my family.

31:39OK.

31:40I don't want you to be upset, because it's not the end.

31:43It could be the beginning.

31:44Don't be upset.

31:45OK, greet everyone for me.

31:47Love you.

31:48Love you, babe.

31:49Love you.

31:50I'll FaceTime you when I get in.

31:52OK, bye.

31:53OK, bye.

31:57I'm hoping for Xena to call me as soon as possible,

32:03to tell me that her family agreed to be married, yeah.

32:08I'll be the happiest man on earth.

32:11I always get emotional when I say goodbye to Ibrahim,

32:20because I just love him so much.

32:24But there's been a lot of ups and downs on this trip,

32:28and I need to get home and think about it

32:30and make a decision on what the future holds.

32:45I'm back in the Philippines, but this time, when I go home,

32:49Ara's going to be with me, and that feels amazing.

32:53OK, so we're going to the cemetery today to see my dead relatives.

32:56Still going to see the tomb of my grandmom, as well as my uncle.

33:01On Halloween?

33:02Yeah.

33:03Spooky.

33:03It's All Souls Day, Mahal, of course.

33:05It's very important to Ara that I take part in her cultural traditions.

33:09She's made it very clear from the start.

33:12And I'm kind of enjoying it.

33:13It's so different from what we do in the UK.

33:16We're going to sleep there.

33:19In the cemetery?

33:20Yes.

33:21Ara's just told me that we're spending the night in the family mausoleum.

33:27It's a bit weird.

33:33All Souls Day is kind of the Filipino equivalent of Halloween,

33:37or, like, the Day of the Dead.

33:39It's a day where they go to the cemetery and celebrate their dead relatives.

33:46And it looks quite surprised, because we do have a big resting place for the dead ones

34:04in our mausoleum.

34:05But it's normal here in the Philippines.

34:09It's a house.

34:10I told you, in the first floor, there are all graves on the second floor.

34:13This is where we sleep usually.

34:15At least the dead get their own floor.

34:17That's reassuring.

34:19Okay, this is not what we get in the UK.

34:23This place has blown my mind.

34:25When Ara said we were going to go to the cemetery to spend the night in the cemetery,

34:28I was expecting gravestones and, like, you know, like, creepy, like,

34:32Adam's Family stuff with, like, the fog rolling in.

34:34It's like a little festival here.

34:36It's about a celebration of life, not a celebration of death.

34:38It's kind of beautiful.

34:40It's kind of made me realize I need to make more of a conscious effort with my family

34:43when I get home.

34:44You just kind of get caught up in everyday life.

34:46Now I'm bringing Ara back.

34:47I know she's going to want to have some kind of family around her.

34:50And if it's not her family, then it should be mine.

34:52It's a good thing that you witness our tradition now that you're getting my daughter away from me.

35:04Oh, you make me so cute in our hands.

35:06I'm going to miss her.

35:09So I'm asking, what is your plan?

35:12I think my mom will going to ask Andy about starting a family.

35:19Give me my grandchild.

35:24I don't have two minutes to eat my food and I'm already getting grilled about having kids.

35:29It's a lot of pressure for me and little me.

35:34Yeah, I mean, hopefully we're going to start a family at some point when we get back, right?

35:37Yeah.

35:39We are planning to have kids.

35:40Like, we're planning to have a basketball team.

35:44You're going to do that?

35:45Yeah.

35:46Yeah?

35:46I am joking.

35:49I love teasing my mom about having grandchildren.

35:53And I know she loves it.

35:55When I move to the UK, I hope Andy and I are going to build a spicy hot Asian kids.

36:01That's the biggest responsibility of a wife, to annoy a husband, right?

36:05And you do so well at it.

36:08I'm going to miss this kind of celebration we're in.

36:12Andy will not be having a good life if he's going to stay here in the Philippines.

36:17You need to separate yourself from your family to build your own.

36:25This is the life that I chose, so if I like it or not, I'll be staying in the UK to be with Andy.

36:35It's finally the day we're leaving the Philippines to move to the UK.

36:55I think the reality is really kicking in now, Farah.

37:00I feel so emotional saying goodbye to my family and friends.

37:21I tried to stop my tears.

37:24I don't want to cry.

37:26I'm going to North Pole.

37:27That's why I'm wearing pants.

37:29North Pole.

37:31Bye, Kui Andy.

37:33Bye, little sis.

37:34Take care.

37:34I cried three times in my life.

37:36One, two, three.

37:39And one of them is leaving my family at the airport.

37:47It's hard.

37:48It's really, really hard for me to leave my family behind.

37:51She's crying a lot.

37:57She's very emotional.

37:58Bye-bye, mama.

38:00I don't think I've seen her like this since the wedding.

38:03And it's kind of hit home for me how much I'm asking her to do.

38:21Oh, Lord, thank you for having my best day here for me to discuss my worries and my problems.

38:42I'm back in the UK, and it's really hard for me to move on from what has happened in Albania.

38:48At least I can turn to my church sister B.

38:51How were you doing?

38:52Just love highs and lows.

38:55It's enough now, and it's come to an end.

38:58I'm sure there is a lot of heartache.

39:01I had it all planned out.

39:02We're going to get married.

39:02He's going to come to the UK.

39:04I was adamant that he was the one.

39:06So I wanted to do anything to keep that relationship going.

39:09So there was time where I struggled.

39:11Should I stick with my face?

39:12Should I stick with him?

39:13Yes, exactly.

39:14It's not easy.

39:16I think if Adnan really truly loved me,

39:19he would have made an effort to resolve the situation.

39:22And I don't think that the love was there in the first place.

39:24It was easy for him to just walk away.

39:27I haven't got no regrets going to Albania.

39:29I've got closure.

39:30I said to myself, why didn't you not spot this?

39:35Why didn't you see the red flags?

39:36Don't be too hard on yourself.

39:37I know, but it's so difficult.

39:40My friends always had a problem with admin,

39:42and my daughter think that it was a holiday romance from the start.

39:46But I wanted to prove everyone wrong.

39:48So maybe this one was for you to just enjoy a little bit of fun.

39:53Maybe not too much.

39:55Maybe not too much.

39:56Yeah.

39:58I'm glad she is okay.

39:59I think that's the main important thing is that she's okay.

40:04Greatest thing I've taken away is I have to find someone that's like-minded like myself,

40:09someone that's in the church, someone that understands my faith, someone can relate to me.

40:14And guess what? No, you told me about the church dating app.

40:17I'm on it.

40:18Yes.

40:18Go ahead.

40:19Okay.

40:20Good.

40:21Next.

40:22Dating app time.

40:23Finger crossed.

40:26Yes, I'm on the dating app.

40:28I'm not ready, but I've learned my lesson.

40:31I will never, ever, ever date a 25-year-old again.

40:38No more Toy Boys for me from now on.

40:40At least I've got one person that would never let me down, and that is God.

40:56Last night, after we got home, we have a huge argument.

41:18I want to call with Luisa and tell her what happened.

41:21I want to call with Luisa and tell her what's going on.

41:26How's everything?

41:29Ah, here is amazing, as always.

41:33What about you?

41:34Uh, so last night, when we got home from Finn's mom's, we have a huge argument,

41:47because I didn't like that he called you, uh, without saying anything to me.

41:53And right now we're not talking.

41:56And he went to work.

41:59I'm really sad.

42:00He is so obsessed with my ex, and I really don't know why.

42:07Since the beginning of your relationship, I saw him very incompetent with your ex.

42:14If you cannot try to solve this problem, I think you're not going to be together.

42:19You should come back here and stay here, you know, break half this relationship.

42:25What do you think?

42:26Yeah, maybe.

42:29Right now I just want to fly to Brazil.

42:36I try a lot.

42:37I did a lot, um, for this relationship to work.

42:43And, and I don't know what I can do anymore.

42:56I'm sorry.

43:04Yes, I, I, I don't know.

43:08So today he invited me to go to the radio station where he work, right?

43:15So I'm going to meet him there.

43:23You're listening to Asian Star.

43:24It's Finn with you on your drive home coming up to ten to five.

43:28I'm talking about bucket lists in the final hour.

43:31Sandra and I had a massive argument last night, but I've got a plan to make things better.

43:37I'm going to let you in on something.

43:39I've got a big surprise for you in the final hour of today's show.

43:41I'm going to propose to my long-distance girlfriend live on air.

43:45So stay tuned for that.

43:46Asian Star, see you soon.

43:49Right, so that's done.

43:50Out to the listeners.

43:51Done and dusted.

43:52Um, I'm nervous about it.

43:54A lot could go wrong.

43:55But I think a lot could go right.

43:57There's chaos underneath.

43:58There's chaos inside.

44:00But on the outside, I'm swimming like a swan.

44:03If there's ever a place to do it in my head, it's right here.

44:06The great Michael Jackson said that the only place that he felt comfortable was on the stage.

44:10And I can relate to a little bit of that.

44:18I hope he thought about our argument and he will apologize me.

44:25Come on, come into the office.

44:28It's where all the magic happens.

44:29How are you?

44:31I'm fine.

44:34This is really weird.

44:36I'm sitting here, I listen to him making radio show.

44:40And for Westbound, Junction 8, Junction 10, also another broken down vehicle has caused a lane closure there.

44:46And he's acting like nothing happened.

44:49So we're talking about bucket lists.

44:52I really need something from you.

44:53Would you like to do a quick thing on the radio?

44:58He wants me to speak on live radio.

45:00I really don't want to be here right now.

45:03Well, you won't have to do a lot of talking.

45:05I'll do most of the talking as I do in this relationship.

45:07But he's asked me about my backing list.

45:12Right now, my backing list is going back to Brazil.

45:15Bucket list is what we're talking about.

45:19So what is on your bucket list?

45:21Well, mine is varied.

45:24For a while now, I've been, as you know, in a relationship with someone from afar.

45:29She's actually joining me in the studio right now.

45:36Sandra, good evening. How are you?

45:38I'm fine.

45:41You sound nervous. You sound worried.

45:42Yes, but...

45:43Well, I'm the one that's nervous because I'm about to do something on my bucket list.

45:48Something that's probably never been done on radio before.

45:52Yeah, I'm just going to go for it.

45:55I just wanted to ask you one thing.

46:03Will you marry me?

46:06Are you sick?

46:06There it is.

46:10It's never been done before.

46:11This is live on the radio.

46:12And I'm holding a ring out to my girlfriend.

46:14And she's just asked me the question, are you sick?

46:17So there it is.

46:18This is a proposal ring.

46:20What's your answer?

46:22I think today was another good day to ask that.

46:25She's looking at the ring now.

46:27Is she putting it on her finger?

46:28Because I can't reach over, which is what you should do traditionally.

46:30But I'm married to the microphone before I'm married to the actual person.

46:34What's your answer?

46:38This is awkward.

46:39It's the people of Slough.

46:48What's your answer?

46:49It's not been a show of laughs.

46:51We can't continue.

46:53I think this is over.

46:55I've just landed in the UK for the first time with Ara.

46:58What?

46:59Oh, it's cute.

47:02What's next?

47:03Yeah, we're going to try for a baby.

47:04Aww.

47:05We're obviously trying to do it as often as possible.

47:07I'm telling you that we have to decide when to get married.

47:16You really need to talk to him.

47:17I don't want you to just do things because you're trying to please someone else.

47:20So how is the Gamby then, Nan?

47:24Why do you think he wants to marry you?

47:26Because he loves me, you said.

47:27Oh, you don't seem very happy, babe.

47:29I'm not too pleased.

47:31I've been doing a lot of thinking.

47:59Bye.

48:02Bye.

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