90 Day Fiancé UK Season 4 Episode 4

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00:00I feel amazing she's perfect for me in every single way she's beautiful she's

00:04smart I am really excited now oh my god we are the party people really really

00:21party people it's true love what could go wrong I'm not ready to be a stepdad the idea actually

00:37makes me feel a little bit sick I just want everyone to be happy are we supposed to live

00:42together if you can lie oh come on don't even bother before most game over isn't it do you

00:48think she's real maybe she's drinking me along wife is like real here's your sister really

00:54your wife I'm a Muslim she is Christian you don't drink alcohol I've got nothing to hide you don't

01:08open the phone it's a suspect I didn't answer the phone today because I was just trying to avoid

01:14another route it is still in my head this is it I'm going out to meet Sandra and I'm so excited

01:31hugging her feels like the first time all over again I will be now spending so much time with

01:37your kids this is all new he does not want to be a stepfather of your kids how are you going to deal

01:43with that they need a father Abraham's been keeping secrets for me he said he never had one look at his

01:50friends on Facebook do you know her no I'm gonna go to the Gambia and get these questions answered I'm

01:57worried that she's gonna be heartbroken have you got the social media or not you're lying man you've put

02:03a single it's just a joke man ain't really no joke and I ain't happy about that hey hey this is a joke

02:09man come on

02:33oh hi Abraham I'm all right mm-hmm yeah have you thought about what's happened the deception I left the

02:44room to have a bit of space from Abraham because he's put single in his social network I don't know

02:51if he's the man who he says he is is he playing me you know I don't know what to think at the moment

02:58yeah I'm sorry you are upset the last time you left she said I should leave you alone so that's

03:08why I tried to go in Facebook and try to annoy you and try to convince you to come back to me I did it

03:14as a joke it doesn't seem a very good sort of joke does it why did you say you didn't have social

03:23media yeah because it was temporarily I don't know one month or something like that it was not there

03:32permanently or maybe I didn't delete it properly it does sound a bit cock and ball I'm not good very

03:40good on the phone can you check and see yeah no no social media there no really I don't have anything

03:49to to hide see nothing there oh it has gone then oh good it's a trust thing now so how do I know I

04:00can trust you in the future yeah you can trust me because how do I know though you put a doubt in my

04:05minds now and it's upset me a lot because I really love you and I don't want to jeopardize my time my

04:14effort my energy into you if you're not trustworthy yeah of course forgive me forgive me for these times

04:20I think I will because I'm forgiving person and I think we should start afresh from now on what do you

04:27think yeah of course that will be okay but I will be keeping an eye out if there's any more

04:32inaccuracies with any social medias then you could be in a lot of trouble so be careful

04:39I need to confront Ibrahim about these disgusting photos that I found on his social media of women

04:48scantily clad now I was holding off because these photos are my prime ammunition and as a woman I'm a

04:59a little bit devious and I always hold back the best till last so I'll be confronting them about

05:06that at the right time we'll wait and see I don't want to be any trouble again tomorrow I'll take you

05:13to the village to the family to try to convince you to forgive me and then go back to good times yeah

05:20yeah that'll be good Ibrahim's taking me to meet his family and that does mean a lot I'm gonna enjoy my

05:27time in the village but I'm also gonna be looking for any other discrepancies that might come to light

05:34one of the best moments of my life has definitely been reconnecting with Sandra

06:03when I first met Sandra 17 years ago there was a spark but I never thought that spark would stay

06:10alike and now I'm in Brazil after spending eight months apart so this trip will be a real test for

06:17me and for her it's gonna be the first time that I'm gonna be beating all of her extended family

06:23embarrassing it's also the longest time that will be together come on then let Julia play Sandra's sister

06:34was meant to be looking after the kids but somehow we've ended up looking after her kid buy two get one

06:40three it's good what's this name what's his name it's so scary to me to be a parental like figure but

06:59if that's what Sandra wants I'm ready to give that a go one two three I should count in port skis

07:05uno dos tres cuatro quick five so I'll try and embrace it and we'll play a game of hide and seek

07:15that's all I can think of they're not here in the washing machine hopefully not no could one of them

07:23sit under oh that was good oh you hid behind there so you want well you're meant to stay you're meant

07:29to hide running around with the kids in a tiny apartment it is chaos it's just exhausted me

07:40and I've got to ask myself do I want this life we've had two hours of this and I guess it makes me miss

07:50some aspects of normal life it's normal for me I think I've sort of numbed myself to it and just

07:57you know what's a bit stoic about everything Finn's being over the top he needs to do things like

08:05stepfather um I didn't choose this this is the reality there we go done I chose the love of Sandra

08:17sure but I didn't choose anything else that came with it could I do this day today the answer is

08:24definitely not

08:31good morning darling me and Messe have got a fiery relationship we argue we make up we argue we make up

08:56that's us but I'd like to have less arguments it's just a lot of tension this morning

09:03Messe's being so quiet I can tell he's still thinking about me not picking up the phones Jay

09:10I just want to get this resolved once and for all I need to apologize I should have just answered the phone

09:18but I just worry I want you to get along I want you to be good maybe this morning we call Jay

09:25if you want darling I don't want to make you upset my first priority you we can talk

09:33I do worry about the doubts that could be in Messe's mind but I just want to prove to him that I've got nothing to hide

09:40let's talk okay if you want to talk first no problem we talk together and I think the best

09:52thing to do is just call Jay and get this over and done with hello hello you good yeah Messe is here

10:00hello hello yeah um yeah okay

10:10it has upset me what you think about me yeah

10:22how awkward is this do i really have to be here i don't think about the visa anytime

10:33you know it was only else a concern for shannon and making sure that she was all right

10:38jay i don't understand why you worry shannon is my girlfriend it is my work it is my job

10:48i am worried about the shannon why would he want the visa to come to england anyway look

10:53just looking out for you appreciate it i need to explain myself you think me wrong

10:59shannon my priority i don't want to get upset shannon i love really shannon yeah you know i

11:08obviously i've

11:10to be honest that sounds really nice

11:15seeing that makes me go yeah everything's fine yeah everything's good not knowing but

11:24which would get to see you sometimes yeah that's it like no one's ever met him same time you and

11:31shannon really good friends uh i don't want to damage your friendship i want everyone is

11:39happy yeah all we needed to really do was sit and talk and we've done that and it's it's been great

11:45i feel better i am explained myself you can't talk about me this style now we're gonna get off

11:52um thank you very much all right now we forgot about everything

12:01shannon seems now happy okay if you're happy i am happy i love the shannon i once spent all my life

12:10together now i know what i do it is the really big decision of my life i am

12:18asking her shannon will you marry me this is what i want

12:24smiley face

12:27smiley face i'm hoping we can just put all this behind us now and enjoy our time together

12:33methe's planned a little trip for us so it'll be nice to get away for a few days

12:38let's go get packed let's go let's go let's go but there are a few worries we've managed to

12:46communicate better today but who knows how long that's gonna last do you pack the bags i'm coming

12:52what the fuck i unpack the bags help me i know we've managed to resolve this issue with jay but

12:59we need to keep this up if me and methe keep arguing i don't know how we're gonna move forward

13:03we can't sustain such a rocky relationship really look everything yours here not everything mine

13:11really what's your problem

13:22my name is andrew i'm 36 years old and

13:51i'm from watford

13:52i'm a software engineer

13:57sorry can i stop a second i've got really boring jobs

14:02i don't know how do i spice that up

14:06my job definitely doesn't suit my personality

14:14i love flying drones i love being around nature

14:19out in the wilderness any chance i get to have an adventure i'm always up for it

14:24i'm probably a bit crazy impulsive

14:29i actually spent a year as a busker

14:33but it's worth all of the risk for the adventures that i've had

14:37um we are recording so welcome everybody how are you doing andy yeah i'm not too bad my job may be boring but my podcast is bonkers how many bones would you have as a guest you've broken are i've i've lost count i have brittle bones

14:56brittle bones. They x-rayed my spine once and I had 118 micro fractures. The podcast is really

15:02just two idiots in wheelchairs. Talking about everything from dating and relationships. Literally

15:09spent like a whole weekend with this girl and then she told me she was a lesbian. Shit! To the

15:15mad adventures we've had together. Like when was the last time you've broken a bone? Went to the

15:20bar, got my two rum and cokes and as I was walking back tripped over my own feet. Now here is

15:26slightly drunk Andy's logic. I've got a skeleton that could break very easily. What am I going

15:31to save? Obviously. Obviously the rum and cokes. So I like supermanned as I felt to try and balance

15:37these drinks. Landed face first on the floor. I don't really walk anymore. My condition hasn't

15:43held me back in life but it's definitely held me back in finding true love. I wanted somebody to

15:51share my life with and I started thinking about these memories of being in hospital with these

15:57amazing Filipina nurses who were just the kindest, most caring people. So I went specifically on a

16:03website that was for meeting Filipino people and then I met Ara. The first thing I noticed was her

16:10deep brown eyes. I just thought she looked really beautiful. There was something that pulled me in

16:15and when we started talking she was genuinely interested in who I was. She was asking me loads

16:21of questions about my life, about my job. I told her about my disability and her first response was

16:28I don't care and she was okay with it which is I've never experienced that before.

16:36It was very unexpected. I mean I wasn't sure if it was genuine or just catfishing me or something.

16:41There were all these different thoughts going through my head. How are you? How was your day?

16:46Fine.

16:49What are you up to now?

16:51Nothing.

16:53But I really have fallen hard for Ara. So I have to just trust her.

16:59You mum okay?

17:01Um, yeah. I'll be going there once this fall has ended.

17:06Yeah.

17:07We've never met in person before. We've only known each other just a short amount of time.

17:12But, completely in love with her.

17:16Alright.

17:17Okay.

17:18You wanna go?

17:21I need to take care of my mum outside.

17:24Alright.

17:25How about beautiful?

17:26Okay.

17:27I love you.

17:27I told my friends and family as little as possible.

17:43A few of my close friends I said that I'd met this person and I kind of downplayed it.

17:48Today I'm meeting with my friend, Abi.

17:51Hey.

17:52Hey.

17:53You alright?

17:54How are you?

17:54Good to see you.

17:55I really value Abi's opinion.

17:58Thanks so much.

17:59Good to see you.

18:00How have you been?

18:01Busy.

18:02Yeah.

18:03Yeah.

18:04How's Ara?

18:06She's good.

18:06Yeah, she's amazing.

18:07I'll be honest, like, when you first said that you were dating someone online from the

18:13Philippines, we were a bit like, oh, is this okay? Like, a bit worried.

18:19A lot of people thought that, I think.

18:20Yeah.

18:21I've watched a lot of, like, catfish TV.

18:23Yeah, me too.

18:25Yeah, it does make me a little bit worried.

18:29Everyone's saying that.

18:31So, do you think she's real?

18:33I mean, I was a bit worried.

18:35Really?

18:35Yeah, I just thought, like, what if this person doesn't exist? But, you know, I just saw

18:40her and I was like, this is the person for me. So, I'm going to go out to the Philippines

18:45to meet her in person.

18:50Yeah.

18:51I don't know if it's brave or stupid.

18:54Uh-huh.

18:55I mean, going out to the Philippines, it is objectively mental. How long was the flight?

19:02In total, it's about 30 hours of travel.

19:0630 hours?

19:06Yeah.

19:07Andy.

19:12So, Andy and I both have brittle bones. We have had similar issues with our spines, and

19:17personally, I would never, ever go on a 30-hour flight. What's the access like?

19:23It's not great.

19:25Andy. I can't imagine going there and just trusting someone that I've never met before.

19:31I have often been worried about Andy because he does make reckless decisions, and he takes

19:37risks. I just feel like all of this is happening very quickly.

19:40I mean, it's kind of what I've always been like.

19:43I know. Yeah.

19:45I think she's understandably a bit worried that I'm travelling 30-plus hours across the

19:51world on my own in a wheelchair to go and meet somebody that I've never met in person before,

19:58but...

19:58So much that could go wrong and so many risks. Is it worth it?

20:07Yeah. I know that sounds crazy, but... Yeah.

20:13If you love somebody, you love somebody. You can't help that, no matter how crazy it is.

20:17I think tonight will be fun, though. Did you get a cake?

20:37I think I also got a cake.

20:40Tonight, we're going to a family barbecue. It's her sister's birthday. I'm going to be

20:43beating lots of family members for the first time. I do have some nerves here because I've

20:49got to try and speak some Portuguese. I know very little. I am really worried about it,

20:53and I don't want to let you down. That's the main thing in the whole world.

20:59I really love Sandra. She brings an awful amount of joy, happiness, and I want to impress

21:05Sandra's family. Ten minutes, and we'll be there.

21:09Ten minutes?

21:10Si.

21:11When coming here, I want him to spend time with my family and my kids.

21:20Hello.

21:22At the end of this trip, I hope he can decide this is the place he wants to be.

21:28Hello.

21:29Good to see you.

21:30Good to see you. Hello. Hello.

21:32I have a huge family. I wish him all good luck.

21:38This is the place I love you.

21:40This is the place I love you.

21:43What are they singing?

21:45He's but it's her best.

21:47Wow, what are they singing?

22:06That's everyone, right? There's no one else. Oh, it's another one.

22:09It appears to the walls.

22:14It's just a sea of people.

22:17I don't know the place. I don't know the language.

22:20This is totally not my world whatsoever.

22:23And breathe.

22:26It's unusual, this.

22:28There's a lot of people.

22:31Shall we sit down?

22:33Shall we sit?

22:35I'm just going to hide here.

22:36When I'm with my family, I like to spend time with him.

22:40And Finn just sits on the sofa.

22:43I don't want to do that.

22:44What's the Wi-Fi password?

22:47And he is here in Brazil.

22:49He needs to communicate with my family.

22:52He needs to assume us.

22:56Yes.

23:00The brother, yeah, Erasmus, he is full on.

23:06And we've got a whole night of this.

23:08I'm staying on this couch.

23:20I'm staying right here.

23:22Absolutely humiliating.

23:36I didn't expect it.

23:37I didn't want it.

23:38And the sooner we forget about that, the better.

23:40Welcome to my family.

23:43Yes.

23:45Yes.

23:45This is how my family.

23:47Can you stay for a little bit?

23:48It's quite hard work, this.

23:51I'm really not feeling comfortable enough to interact with everyone.

23:54So far, our brother's come along.

23:55He's picked me up.

23:56There's a lot just dealing with him.

23:57I just need to take stuff and breathe.

24:01You should learn Portuguese.

24:03Yes, I know.

24:03But at this stage, it's difficult saying that now.

24:07I can't just learn Portuguese in a night.

24:10I'm in the shit here.

24:11I'm really struggling.

24:13I need you like I've never needed you before.

24:15I am not going to be out of time.

24:18So, this is how it's going to be.

24:20Can you do that?

24:23No, but I don't think I have a choice.

24:25Yes, I'm sorry.

24:26Just stay for a little bit because really, my heart rate is still going.

24:30There's a lot going on.

24:32Finn's been very dramatic.

24:34He didn't try and I didn't like that.

24:37Honey, this is how my family lives.

24:39It's either sink or swim.

24:41And at the moment, I'm sinking.

24:43Don't leave me.

24:44I'm properly scared.

24:46I use laughter as a defense mechanism.

24:49When I feel uncomfortable, I laugh.

24:50When I think something's funny, I laugh.

24:52There's no difference.

24:53I want to go there.

24:55Eat.

24:56Be with my family.

24:58Oh, dear.

25:01Sandra's just run away, which is genuinely annoying because I've got to fend for myself.

25:07I'm annoyed with Sandra that she's just done that.

25:10I need her.

25:12If I could get off this sofa now and run, I would.

25:16I love her.

25:32I love her.

25:33I love her.

25:34Oh, my days.

25:36Everyone rushing late?

25:40I'm so busy.

25:41Oh, my days.

25:42We're on the ferry to meet Ibraham's family.

25:45I'm meeting them for the first time, so I'm really excited.

25:49But I'm also on a mission looking for anything

25:52that would lead me to believe that he's not been honest with me.

25:56I can't wait to see my room that you made for me,

25:59cos I'm excited.

26:01Oh, OK, I even forgot.

26:03Ah, how could you forget?

26:05Because of the excitement, I forgot to...

26:07Ah, that's so exciting.

26:09Ibraham has built me a room in his house,

26:12and I think that's really sweet, and I can't wait to see it.

26:21Let me show you Xena's room.

26:27It's gonna be amazing.

26:31As you can see, it's still not really ready,

26:35a lot of things to do.

26:37But God is great.

26:39Maybe very soon I'll be able to finish it.

26:42Inshallah.

26:49Oh, isn't it lovely?

26:50Oh, look.

26:57I'm glad we're here.

26:58It's a long journey on that boat.

27:00Does your family speak English, though?

27:03English, no.

27:04Oh.

27:08Oh, wow.

27:09This is good.

27:22I've never had such a warm welcome.

27:24They seem so lovely.

27:26Where shall I sit?

27:27I can see my family, they are very happy to see Xena.

27:35And I think she will like it in the village.

27:40So, can I give you a photo?

27:42Yeah, yeah.

27:43See around the house, please?

27:44Yes.

27:45Yes, definitely.

27:46Let's have a look.

27:47Let's go ahead, yeah?

27:48Not many boyfriends would build a room, would they, for their girlfriend.

27:52I'm really excited to see my room.

27:54I can't wait.

27:56Where is it?

27:57Let's go, that's it, yeah?

27:58What, this one?

28:00Yes, this one.

28:01Oh, are you joking?

28:04Is that it?

28:05Sorry, it's not ready.

28:06When it's finished, it's going to be perfect.

28:14Are you upset?

28:15I am a bit.

28:16It's just like a shack.

28:18Why hasn't it got a roof?

28:20Why hasn't it even got a window?

28:22Is it going to have a window?

28:24Of course, yeah.

28:26I wasn't expecting Buckingham Palace or anything like that, but...

28:30When are you going to get it finished?

28:34When?

28:37Oh.

28:38It looks like ages.

28:41Oh.

28:42Oh.

28:44Finances was the main issue, man.

28:46I know.

28:47Let's see what we can arrange financially, maybe.

28:51I still need 2,000 pounds.

28:55Yeah.

28:56Windows roof.

28:57Yeah.

28:58The bathroom there behind.

28:59What en suite?

29:00I think she can help me a bit there to finish the room.

29:05You're just going to have to get your finger out and get it finished ASAP, because this

29:09is a huge disappointment for me.

29:11Oh, whoa, whoa.

29:12Very sorry, babe.

29:13Can you show me where the toilet is?

29:14Yeah.

29:15Follow me.

29:16OK.

29:17Is it a long way?

29:18No.

29:19Oh, that's the toilet.

29:20Toilet, yeah.

29:21Oh.

29:22You're joking?

29:23What do you think?

29:24No.

29:25No.

29:26I can't.

29:27This is a...

29:28This is a local toilet, man.

29:29Local?

29:30Why did...

29:31If I sit down, I won't be able to get up again.

29:32What if a gecko comes crawling around, nibbling up my bum, what do I do then?

29:51First impression?

29:52No.

29:53Didn't know it was like this.

29:55Opposite man?

29:56OK.

29:57I like authentic, but that's...

29:58I'm thinking of what is going to be my backup plan.

30:02Really, my best bet would be for me to go wee in a jug, because I can't sit down or stand

30:07over that.

30:08I would need a jug, wee in a jug, and tip it down.

30:11So, have you got a jug?

30:13A jug?

30:14A jug.

30:15A jug.

30:16You know, like a jug, what you cook with or you tip with.

30:18If I'd have known, I'd have brought one with me.

30:20I am a lady of a certain age, and I don't know how I'm going to manage, because I will

30:26need to go to the toilet more than once in the night.

30:31I'm not feeling it.

30:34No.

30:35It's pissing it down.

30:56It's not a really good start to the trip.

30:59Me and Messe are going on a trip.

31:02He's organised it all, so I have no idea what he's got in store for us.

31:06I am scared.

31:09I love all-inclusive hotels, spas, all that kind of thing.

31:14I'd love to be on a beach right now, sipping a cocktail in the sun.

31:19Just where... Where is he?

31:22Oh.

31:23Oh, here.

31:24What the fuck?

31:26Hello.

31:27I love it.

31:28Oh, my God.

31:29Look at this.

31:31She is absolutely like the caravan.

31:32This is a really good way to holiday.

31:33Amazing.

31:34Amazing style.

31:35Yeah, can I see inside?

31:36Yeah.

31:37Okay.

31:38Oh, my God.

31:39This is not my cup of tea.

31:40I love it.

31:41I love it.

31:42I love it.

31:43I love it.

31:44I love it.

31:45Oh, my God.

31:46I love it.

31:47Oh, my God.

31:48I love it.

31:49Oh, my God.

31:50I love it.

31:51I love it.

31:52Oh, my God.

31:53I love it.

31:54This is not my cup of tea.

31:57It's small, though.

31:59How we had together this space.

32:01We're going to have to keep each other happy and positive.

32:05If we have an argument, there's nowhere to go.

32:09No problem, darling.

32:11We make good holiday together.

32:13Let's go, co-pilot.

32:17Please don't crush this caravan.

32:21Why you say it in our negative.

32:23Just I want this holiday.

32:25We make the good holiday.

32:27You don't make me arguing.

32:28I make us arguing.

32:30I don't make an argument.

32:31I don't.

32:32We don't argue this trip, okay?

32:34Promise?

32:35Promise?

32:36Yeah.

32:37Okay.

32:38Okay.

32:39We see.

32:40Be careful.

32:41I am careful.

32:42I don't think you understand this, Matt.

32:43How are you, though?

32:44Matt?

32:45Right.

32:46If you say turn right here.

32:47Okay, okay.

32:48You are the boss.

32:49I am listening to you.

32:50You say to turn around.

32:51Do this.

32:52Do this.

32:53Do this.

32:54Do this.

32:55Do this.

32:56Do this.

32:57Do this.

32:58Do this.

32:59Do this.

33:00Do this.

33:01Do this.

33:02Do this.

33:03Do this.

33:04Do this.

33:05Do this.

33:06Do this.

33:07Matt is not helping me at all.

33:08Okay.

33:09Look the fucking map.

33:10Matt?

33:11I don't know.

33:12He's not listening to me.

33:16Really?

33:17You fuck this map.

33:18Okay.

33:20At this rate, I don't think we're ever going to get there.

33:23Fuck.

33:24Fuck.

33:25What?

33:26Ah.

33:27If you don't look this map, really don't use this map.

33:35Hey, who is that the arguing first?

33:37I am glad to God.

33:39I am glad to God.

33:44Maybe we find a good area here.

33:46We look, yeah?

33:48No one here.

33:49You know what?

33:50Yeah, we don't need anyone.

33:54Uh.

33:57This camparelle looks really great.

33:59Fishing jump.

34:01Amazing wheel.

34:03Calm.

34:04No anyone here.

34:06Just Shannon and me.

34:07Okay.

34:11Okay.

34:12When I imagined the caravan trip in Turkey, I thought of beaches, sun.

34:19This isn't what I thought of at all.

34:21Uh.

34:22Uh, you've got to get your ass off.

34:24Pardon, pardon, pardon, pardon, pardon.

34:26It's tiny in here.

34:27It's tiny in here.

34:29Shannon going the mood slowly, slowly, because small area, she's stressed out.

34:35If you know, if we booked the hotel, they already make the bed.

34:39Calm down, darling.

34:40We are here just on the nature.

34:42Calm.

34:43Relax.

34:44Please.

34:45You don't like the camping life.

34:47If there's no rain, it's not muddy.

34:50Really good.

34:51I don't like the rain.

34:52I'm coming to Turkey for no rain.

34:54I'll just eat behind here.

35:14This barbecue has gone from bad to worse.

35:17Sandra's left me to fend for myself.

35:20I'm really struggling.

35:24He needs to communicate with my family.

35:27And my sister wants to have a chat with him.

35:30She wants to know what he's really in tension with me.

35:36Hey.

35:37Hello.

35:38Can I have a conversation with you?

35:39Depends what about.

35:41I'm a little bit worried, because she's gonna tell him a lot of things that he doesn't want to hear.

35:47You know, I'm very protective with Sandra Wright.

35:50I just want you to be sure what he wants with her.

35:53This is Sandra's closest sister.

35:59And Heloise are coming in like that.

36:02It's now put me right on edge.

36:05You don't like kids.

36:06And she has two kids.

36:07Well, I think my reservations around having kids are just so many.

36:16I've never had that desire or drive.

36:19Like, I would never see myself as Lorenzo and Elisa's dad.

36:24What stepfather?

36:25I don't think I would want that either.

36:27But you need to accept her with her kids.

36:30As with her kids.

36:31Okay?

36:32You are going to be responsible for them as well.

36:36The most important thing is to think about that she has kids.

36:39But I don't know if he's going to embrace this.

36:42It's not only about you.

36:46I feel like this is becoming a grilling and I'm not ready for this.

36:49I'm very worried about how it would pan out.

36:52There's also culture difference as a language.

36:55I don't see too much effort for me to learn.

36:58You only speak in English.

36:59Yeah.

37:00Even with my family.

37:01I'm really worried about it.

37:04You know our history, right?

37:05Yes.

37:06And my mother had nine.

37:08Nine.

37:09Nine children.

37:10And so, I think Sandra would like to have more kids with you.

37:15Really?

37:16Has she said that?

37:17I don't...

37:18Yes, she did.

37:19That's a surprise to me.

37:20Yeah.

37:21But she said.

37:25I feel like I've signed up to something I didn't know I'd been signed up to.

37:28The impression I got is just different.

37:31I don't think I can make any decisions now.

37:34This relationship has taken a step back.

37:36Heloise has put a lot of doubts in my head.

37:40You've been with her for two years.

37:42And you're not sure about what you really want.

37:45But you are in doubt.

37:47But I think that I can't give what everyone wants straight away

37:51because it wouldn't be realistic.

37:52I can't be rushed in a situation like this.

37:55And I feel like the more people that rush me,

37:57the worse it will get.

37:58It will push me away.

37:59Sandra is more decided.

38:01Excuse me.

38:02That's why I don't want her to suffer.

38:03There is no...

38:04There is no rule book for this.

38:06It's small stages.

38:08Need to do more efforts.

38:10If you cannot, I don't think our family will accept you.

38:13Okay.

38:14You're not convincing us, my family and I,

38:19that you really accept our culture, Sandra's kids.

38:23It's not a relationship.

38:25I don't believe in this guy.

38:27To be honest, I don't believe him.

38:32Think about it.

38:34This feels like judgment day.

38:39She's saying that I've made no effort tonight.

38:43And that's tough because I think I've put in enough.

38:48The biggest thing that's come from all this

38:50is Heloisa drops the bombshell

38:52that Sandra actually wants more kids.

38:54There's a lot to think about.

38:56And if I'm honest, I'm not sure how I feel about

38:58where this relationship is going to go.

39:00You think there's rain, it is the fire.

39:28It's raining.

39:32The sky's grey.

39:33It's miserable and depressing.

39:35I just feel like I'm back in England.

39:37What?

39:38Do I look like the barbecue expert?

39:40No.

39:41Maybe you will watch anyone.

39:43Here we go again.

39:44Why has everything got to be an argument?

39:46Oh, fire, stop.

39:48It is dying.

39:50It is dying because you are really talking too much.

39:53What the fuck?

39:55Medium.

39:57Medium.

39:58Medium.

39:59Yeah, medium.

40:00You think you are in the steakhouse?

40:02Yeah.

40:03Oh, my God.

40:04Oh, my God.

40:05Really, Shannon going to stress.

40:07Darling, what are you doing?

40:09One's a boot, one's a shoe.

40:11Really good idea.

40:13I think this is hard for Shannon.

40:15It is really wet.

40:16It is really cold.

40:17It is coming off.

40:19But we are together now.

40:23Cheers.

40:24Cheers.

40:25We will be happy.

40:28Do you know?

40:29Would you rather?

40:31No.

40:32Basic one.

40:33Would you rather have bad sex all your life when you want?

40:38Yeah.

40:39Or?

40:40Other one.

40:41What is the other one I am choosing?

40:42Best sex of your life.

40:47Really amazing sex.

40:49Ooh.

40:50Every five years.

40:52Ooh.

40:53Can we make cheating?

40:56Me and Mete have so much more fun when we are not arguing.

41:00I wish it would always be like this.

41:04Car coming.

41:05He has flashed his light.

41:06Look.

41:07Yeah.

41:08Look, look, look.

41:09Yeah.

41:10You know what this mean in England?

41:11No.

41:12We call dogging in England.

41:13Dogging?

41:14What?

41:15Really, I don't know.

41:16I am think just dogs.

41:17Woof, woof.

41:18This mean?

41:19Car sex.

41:20That's lighter than the sex, Annie.

41:21Yeah, we are not doing nothing.

41:22Now I am showing you my flashing light better than the other.

41:25I am showing you my flashing light better than the other.

41:28That's lighter than the sex, Annie.

41:30Yeah, we are not doing nothing.

41:31Now I am showing you my flashing light better than your flashing light.

41:38Huh?

41:39We don't want to join them.

41:40Turn your light off.

41:41It means that we want to join them.

41:43You want the chamois?

41:44No.

41:45We can turn off our light.

41:47That's meaning turkey, not the sex, anything.

41:53Just we are doing the doggy.

41:59Does it count if it's in a caravan?

42:03Really cold now.

42:06Maybe we'd go inside this.

42:11You don't want to make it.

42:13No, I don't want to make it.

42:16Too cold.

42:18Really shit.

42:21You turn off this light.

42:23That's me in the...

42:25What's me in this, eh?

42:27Stop.

42:29We're not doing that tonight.

42:31Yeah.

42:32Turn off.

42:51Today I'm flying halfway across the world to the Philippines.

42:54Aaron and I have never met.

43:00I'm terrified, but I need to know if it's real.

43:07The accessibility in the Philippines outside of Manila is not great.

43:12All right, Gov.

43:14Heathrow.

43:15Yeah.

43:17It's a less developed country.

43:19Very provincial.

43:21The roads are barely good enough for cars.

43:23They're definitely not good enough for wheelchairs.

43:26Ever been to the Philippines before?

43:29No.

43:30I think a lot of people were very cautious and I've never had that in me.

43:34The kind of life I've lived with having a disability and everything, you sort of take chances when you can because you don't know when your next chance is going to be.

43:43I can't wait to be there.

43:44My parents were always worried because of my condition and they don't want me to have any fractures or accidents away from home.

43:57But I think as I've got older, they've learned that they can't really stop me from going anywhere.

44:02So, I'm coming to the Philippines.

44:05This is all a bit mad.

44:06I have no idea if I was going to be there when I get there.

44:07I don't know what I'm going to do if she's still not there.

44:08She'll probably sort of miss through a little bit before I'm just going to play.

44:09MashaAllah.

44:35It's taken me forever to get through customs and baggage.

44:54The airport's insane.

44:56It's noisy, chaotic, and I can't find her anywhere.

45:09Yeah, nothing.

45:10And there's no Wi-Fi at the airport.

45:12My phone won't connect to any of the networks.

45:19No free Wi-Fi, no signal.

45:21So, I can't call her.

45:23Absolute nightmare.

45:27What's down here?

45:29What if this ain't real?

45:36I've been on two planes and nearly 30 hours of travel.

45:43Erm...

45:46Yeah, I can't see her.

45:49I have no hotel.

45:53I am...

45:55Screwed, basically.

45:58What the fuck is she?

46:00Erm...

46:05I can't see Ara.

46:06I'm really worried that she's not going to show up.

46:09Maybe she was stringing me along the whole time.

46:11What happened?

46:13Shorna, don't respect me.

46:14Like a partner, like a boyfriend.

46:16And she's so fucking rude.

46:18This is extremely hard for me at the moment.

46:20I don't want to lose Adnan.

46:21For me, everything is done.

46:23What are you doing?

46:24God, no.

46:25Saying to you, stop.

46:27I am really angry.

46:28Mate doesn't listen to me.

46:30My toes nearly under the wheel.

46:32If you don't have the good communication, I can ask her, will you marry me?

46:36What does your nephew call you?

46:38He called me father.

46:39What the fuck?

46:40Certain things I don't think are adding up.

46:43Oh, I'm struggling.

46:46Oh, mate.

46:47Ah!

46:48There's a cockroach.

46:49That could have gone right up my vagina.

46:51I can't help.

46:53All right.

46:55Let's go.

46:57I am really excited but not enough

47:12you haven't really looked forward

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