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00:00Although it was hard for us to deal with Danielle leaving,
00:05it seemed like a safe bet going with Teresa.
00:07We've known her for a very long time.
00:10Teresa and I, for so long, have maintained a strict friendship,
00:14so there's a bit of an adjustment I'm having to go through.
00:17Hello.
00:17Hello.
00:18Beautiful one and two.
00:20Who's one and who's two?
00:21We've been dating Sinead for three years.
00:24I told you that I want us to spend more time together.
00:27I don't want it to end, but if something doesn't change,
00:31I definitely am afraid that we might lose her.
00:35Can you believe she's here?
00:36Yeah, I know.
00:37I just want to make sure with Lorena being here
00:40that Garrick is careful with what he does.
00:44When's the wedding?
00:45We're going to get on her.
00:46Figure out a prenup yet?
00:48You never know what somebody will do,
00:50and Garrick legally marrying someone is a big step.
00:57What's going on?
01:21Everybody all right?
01:22What's up, my baby here?
01:23Hey, you look so nice.
01:25Wow, you look amazing.
01:28Tonight, I'm going on a date with Teresa.
01:31You're so fine, Nikki.
01:32I'm trying to give Teresa some special attention.
01:34She's only been here for a matter of months
01:37as, you know, in our relationship.
01:39Even after 14 years of friendship,
01:41I really am a different person when it comes to romance
01:45or when it comes to being involved in a relationship.
01:48We really push them to have that one-on-one time
01:51because they haven't had that chance to really do that
01:53in that romantic way.
02:09Hey, Teresa.
02:10It's lovely to see you.
02:16It's lovely to see you.
02:19Oh, thank you for joining me this evening.
02:22You're welcome.
02:23Thank you for joining me.
02:24Yeah, I'm glad we had a chance to get out the house a little bit.
02:28Yes.
02:29Just kind of give me a chance to check in with you,
02:32see how you're doing.
02:33I'm doing great.
02:34I love being on a date with Nick.
02:38It's always an adventure,
02:39and he always makes me discover things about myself
02:42that I've never felt before.
02:44He just looks into my eyes
02:46and reminds me of how beautiful I am,
02:48and that really is all that matters in the end.
02:52I'm so surprised that we find ourselves here
02:54at this point right now, Teresa.
02:55I'm not.
02:56No? Not at all?
02:57No.
02:59All these years I've been friends with you,
03:00all I ever wanted to do was tell you, like, how I felt.
03:03And that was the hardest part to do for me
03:07was to be like, Nick, this is how I feel.
03:09Because we were the homies for so long.
03:11Yeah, right, right.
03:12We were just friends.
03:17I was afraid to tell you how I felt.
03:20You know, I never wanted to cross any boundaries.
03:23You know, I didn't want to cross any lines.
03:25I mean, when we first started talking,
03:27I was in a relationship.
03:28You know what I mean?
03:29So I wasn't trying to cross any boundaries.
03:31It's just, man, I was like head over heels.
03:35I thought, oh my gosh,
03:37I don't want to jeopardize my own relationship with this man.
03:39But I was willing to risk it all.
03:41Oh my gosh.
03:42I really was.
03:43We were like, okay, it's settled.
03:45We're just going to be friends and talk and chit-chat, yada, yada.
03:48And I was like, I hope that things occur.
03:52I really hope that things happen.
03:54I'm not sure if it's obvious or not, but I'm pretty full of myself.
04:01I've got a pretty high opinion of the person that I am.
04:04So, because I understand that,
04:08when it comes to how I assess the way that someone else might think about me,
04:14well, I usually try to err on the side of caution
04:16and assume that they probably maybe aren't feeling the same way about me
04:21as I do about myself.
04:22So even if Teresa might have been giving me hints or clues
04:25that she was interested in me,
04:26I would have disregarded them as just the way that I look at myself.
04:31And so I just would dismiss it.
04:33Not only do I feel relieved that I told you how I felt,
04:36but the fact that you feel the same way for me is just like, oh.
04:40It's just a relief.
04:41It really, truly is.
04:42You have always been precious to me, Teresa.
04:45There's no doubt about that.
04:46Cheers.
04:47When Danielle had left, I thought, wow, okay.
04:51This is my time to step in
04:53because I have been your friend for 14 years.
04:55I have loved you for all these years.
04:57I am the perfect fit.
04:58And I am in the best place that I've ever been in in my whole entire life.
05:04I love being a part of this situation.
05:06And I would just be so devastated if it didn't work out.
05:11And it's as if when we were in a past life,
05:16you put a bell within my soul.
05:18But in order for me to find you, I had to ring it.
05:21I had to be confident enough to ring it.
05:23I had to be wise enough to ring it.
05:26I had to be courageous enough to ring it.
05:28And then there you are.
05:29So, is there anything you feel I could be doing more of in terms of our relationship?
05:38Is there anything that you feel like maybe I'm not paying enough attention to?
05:43Just cuddle me more.
05:45Just cuddle.
05:46That's it.
05:47That's all I need.
05:48Good.
05:49I'm glad to hear that.
05:50Awesome.
05:50Because we're all loving having you there at the house.
05:53You know, we enjoy being together.
05:55I like the potential for where this could go.
05:59When Teresa and I, as we've moved into this new dating phase,
06:02you know, it's a different frequency to operate on than the friendship mode.
06:07We'll go home and check in with the rest of the family.
06:10See how everybody's doing.
06:11Yeah, let's go do it.
06:11I'm doing some data collection here, you know.
06:15I'm trying to get some information here.
06:16I'm taking mental notes.
06:18There's a lot more that I think I need to learn before we, you know, really solidify this relationship.
06:26Come here.
06:26It's my birthday today, and with Lorena here in America, it's an amazing present.
06:55Yeah, to finally have a sister-wife here.
06:59It doesn't seem real yet, though, but it's like, it's real.
07:04Sister, I cried so much before leaving Rio.
07:07I cried on the plane.
07:09Yeah.
07:12Sou feliz e agradecida por estar numa famĂlia grande.
07:16Why?
07:17For you, yeah, I cried, cried, cried, cried, cried.
07:20Fiquei um pouco apreensiva, mas todos me receberam com muito amor.
07:25They cry all the time.
07:29Samantha.
07:30They cry all the time.
07:35Oh, my God.
07:36Well, sexually, I could probably have, like, six wives, but with the emotional stuff, man,
07:43I can barely handle one.
07:46Well, finally found a good girl that wants to love the whole family.
07:51Took you a while, bud.
07:54Six and a half years?
07:55I think the craziness makes you go quick.
07:57When's the wedding?
07:59We've got to get on her.
08:01Figure out a prenup yet?
08:03No, I've talked to her about it.
08:08Me and Sam are business partners to build custom homes together, so we're vested together.
08:13I expect him to be passionate about the prenup and just making sure the business is just taken care of.
08:22I think he thinks about his family, too.
08:24Yeah, he's thinking about his kids, his wife.
08:27You know, it's not just me and Lorena.
08:28There's so many other family members involved.
08:31We reach out to a lawyer, and the guy doesn't return, like, five times.
08:36He won't even return our messages or calls.
08:39So Danielle and me found more of a generic one.
08:44Well, it's like, it's a legal prenup.
08:48But what is it?
08:49So, well, you can alter it.
08:51You can go in and do some of your own editing.
08:54It's through, like, a lawyer website.
08:56They have, like, forms and stuff, legal forms.
08:58Well, I know you and I talked, and we agreed to do that.
09:03I mean, not just for us and the business sake, because you and I are partners in the business.
09:08But, you know, if you were to just marry Lorena and something happened to you, then technically it's all hers.
09:17And, you know, and just making sure, you know, Danielle's protected.
09:21And the boys, especially Leia and all that, because you guys aren't legally married anymore.
09:27And just, you know, mom and dad live with you.
09:30I mean.
09:31Yeah, just get that paperwork, like you guys were just talking about.
09:34Get the legalities of everything straightened up before the wedding.
09:39I don't want to see any of you guys get hurt, you know.
09:41I got a lot to do.
09:43Maybe you're going to have to help me.
09:44You don't have to procrastinate things, bud.
09:4890 days just goes by quick.
09:52That's true.
09:53I'm just frustrated with Garrick.
09:54I definitely think if things didn't work out with Lorena, it would be very hard for my sister.
10:00It would be very hard for Garrick.
10:02It would make it hard for our whole family.
10:05Oh, my gosh.
10:07Man, dude, that's not enough candles.
10:09Happy birthday.
10:10Does she have a birthday?
10:12Happy birthday to you, a happy birthday to you.
10:16A real Jesus near every day of the year.
10:19Happy birthday to you, happy birthday to you.
10:22And the best year you've had so far.
10:26Two years ago on my birthday, we were with Natalia.
10:31And Garrick proposed to her.
10:33Minha dulcijos, vocĂȘ casa comigo?
10:39Yeah?
10:40Yeah?
10:40Yeah.
10:41Yes?
10:42We all know how that relationship ended.
10:45It was really hard for us.
10:47We didn't know what was going to happen in our marriage, if we were going to stay together or not.
10:51Now we're here at this point with Lorena, and there's that fear of, like, the bomb dropping in a sense.
10:58And we have the whole future ahead of us, and we have the whole future ahead of us, and today's an amazing day.
11:03It's a celebration.
11:04We're all excited and happy, but what's to come, and what does the future hold?
11:10Bye, don't they?
11:10I just want to say, I'm so blessed for my family.
11:14I thank God every day for all of you.
11:17I'm very blessed.
11:21My sister.
11:24Okay.
11:26Yay!
11:28Thank you, Glenn.
11:29Thank you, Glenn.
11:30Have you been listening to anything that I've shared about where we go from here?
11:37About more time?
11:39Quality time?
11:39I can no longer deny the fact that I just need more from him, and I'm not getting it.
11:46I mean, I'm sure he'll have a lot of questions.
11:49My brother, Joel, is coming over.
11:52How you doing?
11:53I plan on telling him that we're seeking a sister wife.
11:58Get out.
11:59What kind of freaky stuff is going on over here?
12:05You give me everything.
12:07You give me everything.
12:08You're too big, Daddy.
12:16Bouncy, bounce.
12:17Bouncy, bounce.
12:18Bouncy, bounce.
12:19Get it.
12:20Get it.
12:20Get it.
12:20Get it.
12:21Come here.
12:21Bouncy, bounce.
12:22We recently started seeking a sister wife again for the second time, and it's already been
12:26a little touch and go, a little dicey.
12:29Yesel told me he's already browsing the apps without me knowing.
12:33Your turn.
12:34It's Mommy's turn.
12:36How dare you?
12:37I had a conversation with my best friend, Leah, who's also Yesel's ex-fiancee, and decided
12:42that it's time to sit Yesel down and have a discussion and establish some clear boundaries.
12:47So how was your night with Leah?
12:50It was good.
12:50Trickery board, wine.
12:53Um, she grilled me a little bit.
12:55About, about us seeking?
12:57Yeah.
12:58Good things.
12:59Yeah.
13:00Yeah.
13:01No legitimate concerns.
13:02I never envisioned Leah and I being as close as we are.
13:07Nobody envisioned that.
13:08But here we are.
13:12Tell me your voice.
13:13For societal standards, it's weird.
13:16I think eventually you kind of just get used to it.
13:19You appreciate it.
13:21Especially when it comes to parenting our kids together.
13:24It's very healthy.
13:25It's amazing.
13:26I want to say it's just a beautiful thing.
13:29Tell me all about it.
13:30She identified some gaps there were last time about boundaries that weren't discussed
13:38or some that weren't necessarily respected.
13:41Not going off and making decisions on my own.
13:43Right.
13:44And that's where it fell apart the first time.
13:46Absolutely.
13:46Is, you know, the whole like, oh, I'm just, we're going to go, we're going to go fishing.
13:51And then, you know, fishing turned into dinner without you telling me you were going to dinner.
13:56And then dinner turned into, oh, we're going to her parents' house for a bonfire.
14:00And then 3 a.m. hit.
14:02So it made you feel?
14:04Like backburnered first time around.
14:08We didn't have the boundary talk.
14:11It was just kind of jump in with both feet and see how it goes.
14:14I was already friends with this person.
14:16So there was already a friendship there pre-established from many years ago.
14:21Just hanging out with somebody.
14:22That's how I saw it.
14:24But I really didn't think of how my wife saw it.
14:27The lack of communication, you know, just not involving Danny as much in some of the activities that me and this other person were doing.
14:38A big lack of communication.
14:39If I want to stay out with her and you want to stay out with her, fine.
14:44But just like pitch it to the other person.
14:46Yeah, yeah.
14:46Would you mind if?
14:47Okay.
14:48And that needs to be respected.
14:49I would like to take the lead this time.
14:52That way it's a pace set at my speed.
14:57As far as what we're looking for, what's your vision?
15:04Honestly, for me it'd be just an adult.
15:08Somebody's got, you know, their life together.
15:11Obviously we have kids so that's very important.
15:13It doesn't matter to me if, like, they already have a child versus not.
15:19But if they don't, I don't want another woman to have a child with you.
15:28Wouldn't it be unfair to that person?
15:32Well, that's not what I want.
15:34And that's, for me, that's a non-negotiable.
15:38But you can see how that may create some drama.
15:41I don't feel safe conceiving again.
15:46So, part of my reason is just, like, a little bit of selfishness.
15:50Because what if, what if this woman, you know, has a baby with you and it's a girl?
15:56Yeah.
15:57Like, I couldn't, I couldn't handle that.
16:01I mean, I've always wanted a girl, you know, to see another woman have what I wanted so bad.
16:10With my husband, I just, I don't know if I'd be able to, to stomach that.
16:17Excuse me.
16:18Excuse me.
16:19I get it.
16:21I understand.
16:22I know.
16:22But it's, it's going to bring up a lot.
16:25I know.
16:25I'm with you a hundred percent.
16:27With Danny's boundary, it's just going to make it a lot more difficult to find the woman that's just going to be like,
16:35Oh, no, yeah, that's fine.
16:36I'm okay with that.
16:37It might not be.
16:38Obviously, it does slim down the choices a lot.
16:44You know, I hear what you're saying.
16:45But we need to get this ball moving.
16:47We got to start going out on dates.
16:49My business trips aren't going away.
16:50Me being away from you and the kids isn't going away.
16:53I understand that Yesel wants to speed things up because he's leaving soon and I want to slow things down.
17:01But from my perspective, this is a major life change.
17:05Like, we're looking for someone to come in for life because this is more than just a friend to me.
17:11You know, I, I share what it is to be a family with this person.
17:15So I just want to take our time and make sure that this is someone that we, we want around for life.
17:25The urgency is what scares me because you setting the pace is where it fell through last time.
17:32That may make it just harder to find the right person.
17:36Well, it's not easy regardless.
17:38That's very true.
17:39Hasn't been and won't be.
17:40I can't wait to get the dress off, do you?
17:55Stop it.
17:56We're supposed to be spending body time together having serious conversations.
18:00You don't have to have clothes on.
18:01Why would we have a serious conversation?
18:02Yes, yes, you do.
18:03Serious conversation.
18:04People with clothes on.
18:07No, no, no.
18:09There's no such thing as serious in having it goes off because then at that point it does become serious.
18:14I try to see Shanae a couple times a week, but life gets in the way, so sometimes it's not able to happen.
18:19I wish I could spend more time with her.
18:21I wish I could, you know, we can go on trips.
18:24We can plan outings.
18:25We can just do spontaneous things that you normally do in a relationship.
18:30This is cute.
18:32But it's pretty tough because she has a daughter and we're both balancing our kids, work.
18:40Only being able to spend time with Shanae for a few hours inside of a hotel room doesn't really feel like what I signed up for.
18:48So, we're here.
18:49What do you want to do?
18:50I mean, no.
18:55We need to talk.
18:58I feel like any time me and Matt get alone, his instant thought is like, let's be close and let's be intimate.
19:05And normally I'm game, but I can no longer deny the fact that I just need more from him and I'm not getting it.
19:13Have you been listening to anything that I've shared about where we go from here?
19:17About we need more time?
19:19Yeah.
19:19About we need more time?
19:21Like, I'm never too busy for you.
19:23But you can't say that because if that's truly how it was, I wouldn't feel the way that I feel.
19:29Three years of me giving you effort and I haven't walked away yet, but clearly something is disconnected if I still feel this way.
19:39What do you need from me?
19:40I need more.
19:42It's just always something.
19:44And it feels like I'm pulling your attention from your family and that obviously means a lot to me.
19:49Maybe because I love them and I love Angelica, but I can't deny that I need more and I want more and I deserve more.
19:57I think these feelings are now kind of coming to the surface for me after three years and we've talked about marriage and what that might look like and having ceremony because obviously he's legally married to Angelica.
20:11But having those serious conversations really did allow me to see, like, this is somebody I could spend the rest of my life with.
20:18But how much longer am I supposed to feel like I'm going without or I'm the afterthought in my own relationship before something has to change?
20:25You signed up for this.
20:27But you have a child as well, so I would figure you would know how that feeling is of wanting to be home and be present with your child, but also want to spend time with someone that you care about.
20:37I know you need time.
20:39I need time with you as well.
20:40It's a tough place to be in.
20:41It is a tough place to be in.
20:43I want our kids to be a blended family, but again, if we can't lay the foundation and get us right, how am I supposed to feel comfortable bringing Michelle into the situation?
20:55Would you ever consider moving closer, way closer to us?
20:59You guys can come to my side of town.
21:02We would love to come where you live, but it's way more expensive.
21:05On your side of town.
21:07In a perfect world, I would absolutely be open to moving closer to be with them.
21:11We would blend our families, but it would take a serious level of commitment and some big changes that I would need to see on his end.
21:22Okay, so there are clearly some more conversations that we need to have around where we go from here, but I think Angelica should probably be a part of them.
21:31So if it's alright with you, I can swing by the house in the morning and we can pick up where we left off.
21:36Okay, that sounds good.
21:37But in the meantime, I do have an idea of how you can make it up to me.
21:42Go for it.
21:43I need a massage.
21:45Naked.
21:46No, not...
21:47No, not naked.
21:49We don't have time for all of that, remember? You have to get home to the kids.
21:52I know Matt probably wants to be intimate tonight in the hotel room, but I'm really just not in that headspace.
22:00There's also something else that I need to share with them, but I think it needs to be in person, and I think they both need to be present for it, because it could absolutely be a game changer.
22:08Come on, man. I know you can do better than that. I've seen what those hands do.
22:14If I massage any harder, we're going to miss our check out in the morning.
22:17Well, we're not staying into the morning, remember?
22:19Yeah, we are.
22:21Yes, we are.
22:23Jenny and April are married legally.
22:25I love you.
22:26And I would like to be legally married to someone else to show my commitment to Nick.
22:31I am excited to add another person to our circle.
22:37Oh, um, oh.
22:52We were just talking about how the day went.
22:54It was so much fun. I really enjoyed it.
22:56Good.
22:57Get a little bit of adult time.
23:00Always nice.
23:02Oh, thank you.
23:07Hello, my loves.
23:08Hello there.
23:09How was your day?
23:11You know, my days are always great.
23:13How are you all doing?
23:15Doing good, doing good.
23:16Vera's playing with her siblings, so.
23:18Even though we have crazy busy schedules and days and we're all doing our own thing, we
23:24still have just as much time, like, relaxing together.
23:28You know, let's enjoy our evening.
23:29It's almost like a Friday night every night.
23:31For sure.
23:32I mean, Nick sets the mood, too.
23:34Like, he'll come home and he'll have, like, stuff ready for us, whether it's, you know,
23:38a glass of wine or whatever, like.
23:40Music playing.
23:41Yeah, like, he tries to make it, like, an ambiance for us when we get home from work, too.
23:47Teresa was mentioning to me about maybe wanting to go on a date with someone new.
23:54Well, I am excited to add another person to our circle.
23:59Honestly, you know, being your friends for so long, I, you know, kind of prepared myself
24:15if I were to ever be with y'all.
24:17This is back when Danielle was still here.
24:19And I had prepared myself that if I got with y'all, I would marry Danielle.
24:24Jenny and April are married legally, and I would like to be legally married to someone
24:32else to show my commitment to Nick.
24:34I don't want to ever make love to any other man but Nick.
24:37I view this as a lifetime commitment.
24:41Hypothetically, if Danielle wanted to come back, like, what would that look like for y'all
24:46if she, if she did?
24:48I don't know.
24:49It, it would probably take something extreme for me to be able to accept her back in.
24:54Yeah, I, I really, I mean, I love Danielle a lot, but I don't have any desire for that
25:01to happen.
25:02I just want hope Danielle's happy wherever she is, whoever she's with, you know, I just
25:06hope she finds herself in a good situation.
25:09We would never allow a bad experience with one person to prevent us from potentially having
25:15a great experience with someone else.
25:17That's why we were so open to allowing Teresa to come move in with us.
25:20But after the two-year relationship we had with Danielle and the difficult breakup we
25:26went through, um, I think we all are feeling like we should be a little more cautious.
25:31Well, I'm excited to share this love that I have with someone else.
25:35And for me to get, you know, Jenny and April are married and it would be nice for me to change
25:40my last name to Davis and be married to, and find someone who loves you just as much as
25:45I do.
25:46And the girls do as well.
25:49For Teresa to become a part of our family like that, that's a very heavy decision to
25:55make.
25:56That's something that, uh, I put a lot of weight into.
25:59So it's not something that I would just lightly bestow upon someone.
26:02It's getting late though, guys.
26:05I think I want to get ready to lay down, so.
26:07I'll go as well.
26:10Okay.
26:10I'm not sure how you're feeling, Teresa.
26:12I was thinking maybe we could, uh, you know, take a dip.
26:15Yeah, you'd love to take a dip.
26:17It's a nice night.
26:17Oh my goodness.
26:19Yes, I would love to.
26:20Sometimes I feel like an outsider or a newbie, but again, I think that's just because my last
26:26name's not Davis yet.
26:27I love you.
26:28Um, but I don't want to rush things too much.
26:31I know I've moved in with them and I live here with my son.
26:34Um, but I think I would feel more solidified in my position if I shared their last name.
26:42Oh, thank you.
26:45Getting in the hot tub isn't a special occasion at all.
26:47You know, that's Tuesday night around here.
26:49You know, that's, that's any day of the week.
26:50We get a lot of use out of that, that hot tub, for sure.
26:59I only wanted to be your girlfriend for like 14 years.
27:03That's right, huh?
27:03We don't have to be, uh, so far away.
27:11Teresa's a, she's gorgeous.
27:12I mean, she's just absolutely beautiful.
27:14Wow.
27:15But because she was my friend, I had Teresa kind of locked in a different box than apparently
27:22she wanted to be in.
27:24So, um, trying to make a hard turn, a tough 180, and that's hard to do.
27:30Like I say, I know you're like, you know, interested and kind of eager to find somebody else to come
27:35to the family, but, you know, I'm still kind of enjoying this right now, you know?
27:39Yeah.
27:40Well, you know.
27:41Well, it's not like you can't enjoy this with another person here.
27:45Well, since everyone's asleep right now, I think, um, why don't we go ahead and take a trip
27:50upstairs to the boom boom room, huh?
27:52Oh, yes.
27:53Yeah?
27:54Yeah.
27:54I love a good boom boom in the room.
27:57It's always a good way to end the evening, huh?
28:00Yes, I do love that.
28:02The sex part about it is not difficult.
28:04It's not a sexual hang-up that I have with Teresa that's easy to do.
28:10It's establishing the basis for us to actually love each other in a romantic sense that I
28:18have been having difficulty with.
28:21In case things don't work out with Teresa romantically, I'm trying to make sure that
28:26I don't also ruin the friendship.
28:30And we can cuddle after you, huh?
28:31And we will cuddle after, yes.
28:33Oh, good.
28:33Thank God.
28:34We're searching for a sister-wife.
28:39Get out.
28:41They're gambling with their relationship.
28:43You guys are signing up for a problem.
28:45I mean, I'm nervous for them.
28:47I am hungry.
29:05I know.
29:06I am really hungry.
29:07I think I did real good.
29:08Yes, you did.
29:08I did real good here.
29:10Yes, you did.
29:10Well, you know what?
29:11Blame the brother.
29:12We're just waiting for him.
29:13Today, my brother, Joel, is coming over.
29:17I plan on telling him that we're seeking a sister-wife.
29:21I think he's a good, like, first person to tell.
29:24Yeah, it is.
29:25Yeah, it is.
29:26We never told either of our families that we were seeking the first time around because I just don't think we were ready to tell them.
29:35And it's possible there might have been some judgment.
29:39Growing up, I was Catholic.
29:41My parents are old school.
29:43Old school Dominican.
29:44I mean, throw the chancleta at your head.
29:48You know, those Dominicans.
29:51It's a good test subject, I think.
29:53Yeah.
29:54I mean, I'm sure he'll have a lot of questions.
29:58I know your brother.
29:59Yeah.
30:00I think this time around, it's starting to get more real.
30:04So, I think it's better to bring him in now than to just one day have a family dinner.
30:10And, hey, this is our wife.
30:12Surprise.
30:14Oh, shoot.
30:15What's up, bro?
30:15Hey, bro.
30:16What's going on?
30:16How you doing?
30:17Chilling.
30:19Welcome, welcome.
30:20Thanks for coming.
30:21Joel, he's always been somebody I can count on.
30:24We're close enough where I feel like he definitely should know.
30:27Hello.
30:28Hey, Danny.
30:29Oh, I like that sweatshirt.
30:31Hey, how are you?
30:33It'll be interesting to hear exactly what is on that mind.
30:37How you doing, buddy?
30:38Because it is going to come out.
30:39How you been, Danny?
30:44A little stressed.
30:46Yesel's leaving soon.
30:48So, when are you leaving anyways, bro?
30:50My trip's coming up soon.
30:52Yeah.
30:52So, first off, I'm glad you came over today so we can have, you know, a chat, have some
30:56lunch.
30:57Well, yeah.
30:58Free food, bro.
31:00True.
31:01So, I'm going to get free food.
31:03A peralta's going to go.
31:04But, yeah, I wanted to tell you that, you know, we've been searching for someone to join
31:13our family, you know, to add, you know, somebody to our relationship, to be basically a polygamous
31:19relationship.
31:22With Joe and Danny?
31:23Yeah.
31:24Mm-hmm.
31:24We're searching for a sister-wife.
31:32Get out.
31:33Mm-hmm.
31:34A sister-wife, huh, Danny?
31:35Mm-hmm.
31:37This is out of nowhere.
31:38Out of nowhere.
31:40I thought he was joking.
31:42I thought he was just trying to see my expression to see how I would react to it, because this
31:46was just out of nowhere.
31:47I wouldn't think that he'd be this type of person that involves another girl into their
31:51marriage.
31:52So, uh, whose idea was this?
31:54Mutual.
31:57Yeah?
31:58Mutual?
31:58Mutual idea?
31:59Yeah.
32:00Just one day I was like, oh, today's the day we, uh, invite a sister over here.
32:07I mean, that's not necessarily a sister.
32:12They'd be sisters.
32:13Yeah.
32:13I'd be more in a relationship with the other one.
32:16So, it is like a relationship, a full thing.
32:18Yes, it's a full relationship.
32:20Wow.
32:21Sounds like a party, bro.
32:22What kind of freaky stuff is going on over here?
32:27This is probably the weirdest thing that they have done.
32:29Yeah.
32:29100%.
32:30This is weird.
32:31This is going to make things awkward during family get-togethers, during Christmas, holidays,
32:36birthdays.
32:36You've got to give them two gifts.
32:39You've got to buy two teams.
32:42I think you're just going to be stretched too thin.
32:45You got the stamina for that, bro?
32:47Oh, my God.
32:48Are you guys prepared for the jokes that will come your way?
32:52Like, people's opinions, I guess.
32:54You guys are signing up for a problem, I mean.
32:59Signing up for a problem?
33:01I mean, for a lot, is what I'm saying.
33:03You know, for a lot of things to come.
33:05Do y'all, what, like, take turns having sex?
33:07Do you, like, uh...
33:09Man, that's an interesting way to put it.
33:11Um, I guess it kind of would be something like that.
33:14What if she introduces another guy into the relationship?
33:17Negative drill instructor.
33:19Nope.
33:21You know, Danny's got to be comfortable.
33:23Danny, how excited are you for this?
33:26I mean, I...
33:27Yeah, I feel like it's a lot.
33:30But in the same aspect, it kind of takes a weight off.
33:35In that there's going to be another person here, present, around.
33:38Help me while he's gone.
33:40So, I think, initially, it'll be a lot.
33:43But if we get into, like, a good rhythm with her,
33:46it could work out really well.
33:48As far as, like, her having kids,
33:51are you okay with that?
33:53So, I would be okay with raising more kids.
33:56I have no problem with, like, the 3M wake-ups
33:59and the diaper changes and all that.
34:03However, I wouldn't want her to have a biological child with him.
34:09Oh, yeah?
34:10So, we will evenly take care of the child
34:16not biologically conceived with him.
34:18So, yeah, if you're all even and she says,
34:21yo, boom, put a baby in this, like, you know...
34:26You know, you guys don't think it's fair, you know,
34:28that she has a kid, too?
34:38That's a tough one.
34:40I feel like if you're going to have a strong, healthy polygamous relationship,
34:46everything needs to be fair across the board for everybody.
34:50Everything needs to be equal.
34:51Everybody's got to have their input.
34:53It doesn't need to feel like one person sits above everybody else in the relationship.
34:58You know, I think that'll create a lot of friction.
35:01This boundary has the potential to create a whole lot of friction
35:06and push somebody away even before the relationship actually begins.
35:12There's a lot of moving parts.
35:13There's a lot of things we still have to maneuver through
35:17and then seeing if it all actually comes together or it all just falls apart.
35:21The thing that makes me most nervous about them is that they might break up.
35:27And if they break up, it'll be a tragedy.
35:29They're gambling with their relationship.
35:32They've been through too much to let somebody else come along
35:35and ruin the good thing that they have.
35:38I'm nervous for them.
35:40I mean, this is dangerous waters, you know?
35:42This is dangerous.
35:43Even I'm getting nervous for you guys, you know?
35:51So, how do you think the party was?
36:05It's your party, you tell me.
36:09Oh my gosh.
36:10Oh gee.
36:11Real?
36:13Bye gee.
36:15See you.
36:15See you?
36:16See you.
36:17You sleepy good?
36:19I'm pretty good.
36:19I got to spend the night with Garrick.
36:22Lorena insisted.
36:26Even though it was her first night in America.
36:28Oh my gosh.
36:29See?
36:30Which was very sweet of her because if it wasn't my birthday,
36:33she probably would have spent her first night in America with Garrick.
36:37What are you doing, little princess?
36:39You have coffee?
36:40That's coffee.
36:42Can you smell it?
36:44Well, did you enjoy the rest of the birthday with our husband?
36:48See you.
36:51Wait a minute, Sonia.
36:52Bye.
36:53So what are we going to do today?
36:56I'm excited.
36:58Oh.
36:58Yeah.
36:59Sweet.
37:00Mom?
37:01No.
37:02Should we get your stuff?
37:03Unpack?
37:03Yeah.
37:04Yeah?
37:06It's the big moment moving my things from Garrick's room to the sister room.
37:13I had to decide what to bring.
37:15Oh my gosh.
37:17I think it's hitting me that, like, we are a plural family.
37:21There's somebody else in the house and, like, I'm not always going to be with Garrick.
37:25And, you know, it's change, you know?
37:27Change is happening.
37:28It's also strange for me to put my things here.
37:31See?
37:31Strange you and me.
37:33Yes.
37:34Differentias.
37:34You know, it's been 17 years of just him and I.
37:38I've been thinking we probably need to work out a schedule with changing the sheets.
37:42Like, oh my gosh, like, I'm taking myself out of Garrick's space and, like, what that
38:01really means in my mind and, like, trying to process that.
38:04It's kind of like packing for a trip, like, you don't even know where you're going and
38:08what to bring.
38:09It doesn't feel normal.
38:10It doesn't feel real yet.
38:12And I'm, like, wondering when it's going to, it's going to take some time, I think,
38:14to, like, settle in that this is our new normal, you know?
38:17Okay, so, you, yeah?
38:20Me, aqui, sim.
38:21Aqui, me, okay?
38:23Sim.
38:23Aqui, aqui.
38:24Me.
38:25And me, need to bring, yeah, so, I'll have to bring some of this stuff, move some of this
38:30stuff, too.
38:32I'll take some upstairs.
38:33Ah.
38:34Some, and you, Cher?
38:35Yeah?
38:36Uh-huh.
38:36Ă diferente, tudo diferente.
38:39More hangers, too.
38:40Eu acho que Deus jĂĄ me preparou, porque eu quero viver aqui com eles, entĂŁo, aos poucos
38:45eu vou me adaptando, eu vou aprendendo.
38:53It's okay.
38:54Yeah.
38:56Diferente?
38:57I do feel a little bit emotional, I know it's good, but I'm not sure what to bring and
39:02what to leave.
39:05Eu me sinto um pouco emotivo, sei que Ă© bom, mas nĂŁo tenho certeza do que levar e o que deixar.
39:15I totally understand, especially because you always kept your things here in the room
39:21itself.
39:21It was just yours, but don't worry about everything now.
39:25You only take the essentials.
39:27I'm just wondering how I'm going to adjust, you know?
39:31I'm just a little emotional, because, yeah, I've always shared a room with her, you know?
39:36It's good, I'm happy, but, you know, it's just me.
39:48Reese and I are actually on the hunt for a sister wife.
39:55I mean, I'm kind of speechless.
39:57I would appreciate any help.
39:59So, what's his bedroom type?
40:02Me and you, tonight, in the bedroom.
40:05Scene.
40:06It's like, wow, I'm excited to love her, make love to her.
40:10It's been eight months since I saw her.
40:13My first night alone, it's just, like, a shock.
40:16How would you feel if I went out on, like, dates with other people?
40:25There are huge deficits in the relationship.
40:28We're at a crossroads.
40:29I'm kind of torn a little bit about what I want to do.
40:32Give me back.
40:35I'm glad you came out tonight.
40:36Thanks for having me.
40:38We met somebody.
40:39Her name is Jackie.
40:40She's got a great pot, you know?
40:41Point blank, are you okay with me having sex with your husband?
40:46Who makes the...
40:47If he doesn't live up to what we agree to,
40:51then I don't think I can continue to seek a sister wife.
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