You’re not unloved — you’re just not seeing how they love you. - video Dailymotion

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It’s not that they don’t love you — it’s that love is human, imperfect, and deeply real. When you stop demanding perfection and start noticing effort, you open your eyes to the love that’s always been there. 💫  Follow @cupandinspiration for more emotionally awakening reflections on love and growth.  © All rights and credit reserved to the respective owner(s).  Credit: QUINLAN WALTHER (@quinlanwalther)

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00:00Sometimes the key to improving your relationship is opening your eyes, choosing to find appreciation

00:06rather than criticism, noticing the ways your partner does show up for you, the ways they

00:11do love you, they do try, understanding that sometimes the best they can do is loving you

00:17in the ways they know how, not necessarily each and every way you wish they would.

00:22It's easy to get fixated on disappointment, on every need that isn't being met exactly

00:27how we want, but then we forget this isn't a validation machine, this is a relationship

00:32with a whole other human on the other side, a human who has limits, flaws, and a finite

00:37capacity.

00:38No one is going to love you perfectly every moment in every way, not because they don't

00:43care, but because they're a person, not a circus monkey, thank God.

00:47So if you want more love, first consider giving it by showing more appreciation than you do

00:54criticism, and second, open your eyes and look around for it.

01:00Bye.

You’re not unloved — you’re just not seeing how they love you.

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