Are You Making These TONE DEAF Mistakes in Your Relationships

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Ever felt misunderstood when someone says you're not supporting them— when you've been doing everything you know how?  This spoken-word insight explores the emotional gap we often overlook: 💡 The difference between doing support and being emotionally present.  In relationships, it’s not always about what you do— But how do they feel when you do it? Let this message shift how you show up for the ones you love. It did for me.  ✨ Subscribe for weekly insights that challenge how we grow, love, and communicate.  🔔 Hit that bell to never miss a moment of the grounded truth.

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00:00You ever had someone say to you, I don't feel supported.

00:03And your first thought is, wait, what?

00:05Because in your mind, you're thinking, I call, I show up, I'm here.

00:10So now you feel misunderstood, like they don't see the effort,

00:13as if they're erasing everything you've ever done.

00:15But here's where the mirror shows up.

00:17What if the version of you they're experiencing is not the same version you think you're giving?

00:21What if your version of being there is logistical, but what they needed is emotional?

00:26That's the disconnect nobody warns us about.

00:28The moment they voice what they're experiencing with you,

00:31your first instinct will be to defend, to hide behind the avatar you think you are showing up as,

00:36and not the one they're experiencing.

00:37So when somebody finally voices their experience with you,

00:40don't rush to edit their memory with your intention.

00:43Just hear it.

00:44Because in that moment, they're not asking you to fix it.

00:46They're asking you to understand it.

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