00:00She says, I'm fine, and you think, okay, she's fine.
00:06Wrong.
00:07That phrase is the biggest emotional landmine you'll ever step on.
00:12When a girl says, I'm fine, she's almost never fine.
00:16She's testing you not because she's manipulative, but because she's disappointed that you still don't get it.
00:22Let's break it down.
00:23I'm fine is code for I'm hurt, but I don't trust you enough right now to handle it.
00:27It's her emotional defense mechanism.
00:30She's pulling back, not to punish you, but to protect herself.
00:36Because maybe the last time she opened up, you brushed it off.
00:40Maybe you got defensive.
00:42Maybe you didn't listen.
00:43So now, she hides behind two tiny words that sound calm, but scream chaos inside her mind.
00:50You see, when a girl says, I'm fine, it's not the end of the conversation.
00:55It's a challenge.
00:56A silent dare asking, do you actually care enough to look past my words?
01:01And most guys fail right there.
01:04They nod, say okay, and walk away.
01:07Like that's what she wanted.
01:09Congratulations.
01:10You just failed the emotional IQ test.
01:13Here's the brutal truth.
01:15She doesn't want you to fix it.
01:17She wants you to feel it.
01:18She wants you to notice the tone, the hesitation, the storm in her eyes when she says it.
01:23She wants reassurance, not solutions.
01:27She's saying, I need to know I matter enough for you to dig deeper.
01:32So next time she says, I'm fine.
01:35Don't panic.
01:36Don't start defending yourself.
01:38Just pause.
01:40Look at her.
01:42Ask, are you sure?
01:44And mean it.
01:45Let her see that you actually give a damn, not just about what's said, but about what's unsaid.
01:50Because women speak more through silence than through words.
01:53And here's the kicker.
01:55If you really pay attention, you'll realize I'm fine as levels.
01:59The calm, I'm fine.
02:00She's irritated.
02:03The flat, I'm fine.
02:04She's holding back tears.
02:06The cold, I'm fine.
02:09She's halfway out the door.
02:12Decode it right.
02:13And you can save the moment.
02:14Miss it.
02:15And you will else spend the next week wondering why she is suddenly too tired to talk.
02:20So don't be that guy who takes everything at face value.
02:23Be the one who listens between the lines.
02:25Because women, Don T, want a mind reader.
02:28They just want someone who actually listens when the words start making sense.
02:31Two words.
02:33I'm fine.
02:34Now you know what they really mean.
02:38The Castionis, will you act like you do next time?
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