00:00You finally start to care.
00:04You open up.
00:05You give your heart.
00:07And just when you think things are getting real,
00:09a pulsawhai vanishes.
00:12Goes cold.
00:13Sounds familiar?
00:14Yeah, it's brutal.
00:16But let's be honest, it happens for a reason.
00:19Hear us.
00:20The truth.
00:21Most people dante want to hear.
00:24Men dante pull away because you care.
00:26They pull away because of what asterisk your caring turns into.
00:30Asterisk, when you start caring,
00:32most of you stop being the version of yourself that attracted him in the first place.
00:36You shift from confident and mysterious to anxious and predictable.
00:40From she is got her own life,
00:42to he is my whole world.
00:44And that's when he feels a switch,
00:46and his instinct kicks in to pull back.
00:49See, in the beginning, you were a challenge.
00:52You were magnetic.
00:53You didn't chase him.
00:55You asterisk.
00:56Chose asterisk him.
00:58That's power.
00:59But when you start over-investing,
01:01checking your phone every minute,
01:03worrying if he still likes you,
01:05that power disappears.
01:07Men can asterisk feel asterisk that shift,
01:10even if you don't say a word.
01:12The energy changes.
01:14The vibe changes.
01:15And whether they realize it consciously or not,
01:18they start stepping back.
01:20Here is something you need to tattoo on your mind.
01:22Attraction ISNT.
01:24Built through effort.
01:26It has built through energy.
01:27When your energy becomes needy,
01:29when your happiness starts depending on his attention,
01:32you become heavy.
01:34And no one, man or woman,
01:36wants to feel emotionally suffocated.
01:39It's not love that pushes him away.
01:41It's pressure.
01:42The kind of pressure that says,
01:46validate me,
01:47reassure me,
01:49probe to me am enough.
01:51That's not love.
01:52That's fear in disguise.
01:55Men don't want to escape love.
01:56They want to escape the asterisk.
01:59Lowest asterisk of freedom that often comes when someone starts caring too much.
02:03And here's the irony.
02:04When you care too much,
02:07you stop caring for yourself.
02:09You abandon your own life
02:10to prioritize his.
02:13You stop doing what made you glow in the first place.
02:16The laughter.
02:17The confidence.
02:18The independence.
02:19Gone.
02:20Suddenly,
02:21your entire emotional thermostat
02:23depends on his replies.
02:25And that's when he senses it,
02:26the imbalance,
02:27and backs off.
02:28But don't twist this.
02:29It's not about playing games
02:30or acting cold.
02:33It's about balance.
02:34You can care.
02:35Deeply.
02:37Without losing yourself.
02:39You can love without overgain.
02:41You can be vulnerable without being desperate.
02:43Te secreti senti
02:45to stop caring
02:46et tes tu keep caring
02:48for asterisk yourself.
02:50Asterisk just as much.
02:51Because when you do that,
02:53you project confidence
02:54instead of clinginess.
02:56You create attraction
02:58instead of pressure.
02:59And let us get real.
03:01The man who has truly right for you
03:03won't you run from your care.
03:05He'll be drawn to it.
03:06But you'll only attract that kind of man
03:08when you stop operating from fear.
03:10Fear of losing him.
03:12Fear of being alone.
03:14Fear of not being enough.
03:16Because fear,
03:17energy always repels.
03:19Confidence energy attracts.
03:21Always.
03:22So next time a man pulls away
03:24after you start caring,
03:25don't panic.
03:26Don't chase.
03:28Don't start rewriting the story
03:29in your head about what you did wrong.
03:31Who's step back, recenter?
03:34Remember who you were
03:35before you started losing yourself
03:37in the U.S.?
03:38That version of you.
03:40The one with standards.
03:42With a life.
03:43With a purpose.
03:45That's the version he fell for.
03:47That's the version
03:47the right man will stay for.
03:49Here's the brutal truth.
03:50If you have to shrink yourself
03:52to keep him,
03:53he was never yours to begin with.
03:55Stop over-investing
03:56in people who make you doubt
03:58your worth.
03:59Care,
04:00but with boundaries.
04:02Love,
04:03but with self-respect.
04:04And if he still
04:05pulls away,
04:07let him.
04:07Because a man who
04:08S meant for you
04:09won T run
04:10when you finally show your heart.
04:13He'll el match it.
04:14He'll el match it.
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