00:00She didn't wake up one morning and randomly stop respecting you.
00:03Respect died slowly, quietly, and you were there for all of it.
00:09If that sentence made your chest tight, good.
00:12This video is for you.
00:14Let's be honest.
00:16You didn't lose her respect because you're not perfect.
00:19You lost it because you stopped leading your own life.
00:22You started asking instead of deciding.
00:24You started explaining instead of standing firm.
00:26Somewhere along the way, you traded Backbone for comfort and called it being nice.
00:32That's not love.
00:34That's fear wearing good manners.
00:36Look at your daily behavior.
00:38Be honest.
00:39You say yes when you want to say no.
00:41You avoid conflict because you're scared of tension.
00:44You let small disrespect slide and tell yourself it's not worth the argument.
00:49Here's the harsh truth.
00:50Every time you do that, you teach her how to treat you.
00:53And she learns fast.
00:55You also stopped respecting yourself.
00:58You let your body go.
01:00Your ambition faded.
01:02Your routines disappeared.
01:04You complain more than you act.
01:06You talk about dreams but never move.
01:09And she sees all of it.
01:11She doesn't hate you for failing.
01:12She loses respect because you stopped trying.
01:15Let's talk about attraction.
01:16Because no one wants to say it out loud.
01:19Attraction isn't built on words.
01:21It's built on presence.
01:23On certainty.
01:25On a man who knows where he has going and dosentity need approval to get there.
01:29When your mood depends on her reactions.
01:32When your confidence collapses if she's distant.
01:35You hand her emotional control.
01:37And control kills respect.
01:40You might think you're being patient.
01:42Understanding.
01:44Supportive.
01:44But what you're really doing is shrinking.
01:47And no woman respects a man who shrinks himself to be tolerated.
01:50She doesn't want a second child.
01:52She wants a partner who can stand on his own feet.
01:56Now, here's the part that stings.
01:58Complaining about her won't fix this.
02:00Blaming her won't fix this.
02:02Watching videos like this without changing anything won't fix this either.
02:06Respect doesn't come back from talking.
02:09It comes back from action.
02:12You rebuild it by rebuilding yourself.
02:14You set standards.
02:16You enforce boundaries calmly.
02:18You stop over-explaining.
02:20You handle your responsibilities without being asked.
02:23You train your body.
02:26You sharpen your mind.
02:28You lead your life again.
02:30Whether she applauds or not.
02:31And one last thing.
02:33Do this for you.
02:34Not to win her back.
02:36Because the moment you need her validation, you've already lost.
02:40Fix the man in the mirror.
02:42Respect.
02:43Follow strength.
02:44Always.
02:45Ash.
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