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Married at First Sight (UK) Season 10 Episode 18
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00:01A really easy decision for me.
00:03Stay.
00:04Previously.
00:05Stay.
00:06Stay.
00:07It was a commitment ceremony of celebrations.
00:09I think we're in such a good place now.
00:11Bub leave and Grace is back.
00:13I'm just really excited to see how far we can go.
00:17And revelations.
00:19You're not as emotionally connected as maybe we thought you were.
00:22Yeah.
00:24Ahead of an emotional exit for Sarah and Dean.
00:27You've tried, you know, but I can't do this anymore.
00:30It's tiring.
00:31I just don't think we're right for each other.
00:33My decision is to leave.
00:36My decision is to leave.
00:43Tonight.
00:45I don't think he's really trying.
00:46Even while apart.
00:47Just say, yeah, you are treating me like a f***ing piece of shit.
00:50Nelly.
00:51I'm not you.
00:52And Stephen.
00:53I don't think any of this is Nelly's fault.
00:55You did f***ing up.
00:56Find their marriage stays under fire.
01:01Clowns.
01:02And for Devani.
01:03You have great sex.
01:04You have great sex.
01:05You're not really having any at the moment.
01:07I have no sex.
01:08The burden of a long hidden secret.
01:10So I know the truth.
01:12She knows the truth.
01:13This is really starting to piss me off.
01:16Sparks an explosive clash with wife Julia Ruth.
01:20I look like a complete f***ing fool today.
01:23We need to talk about this off camera.
01:24You can be honest.
01:25Let it f***ing go.
01:26You want everything to be done your way.
01:28No respect for me at all.
01:30I don't know where we go from here.
01:32I'm so excited to have a spa day and get our nails done.
01:46Today the group is splitting in two with husbands and wives spending time apart on separate days out.
01:52Just let the hair down.
01:53Yeah.
01:54Get in the jacuzzi.
01:55I can't wait.
01:56One half is arriving at a luxury spa while the other heads out for cocktails.
02:01Come on you lot.
02:02We're away from the partners.
02:03Let's have a good day.
02:04Yeah.
02:05Let the ball and chain out.
02:07In this phase of the experiment, our couples have been spending nearly every waking hour together.
02:12It's so nice just to have a little break from the hubby.
02:15I know.
02:16Cheers babe.
02:17While this level of closeness can deepen their bond, it's equally important that they take some time apart to gain perspective and reflect individually on their relationships.
02:27This is nice.
02:28You've done it.
02:29Oh there we go.
02:30Woo.
02:31How can I help you with today?
02:33Can we have like four tequila shots please?
02:35Absolutely.
02:36Yay!
02:39Today offers a valuable and mutually beneficial opportunity for each newlywed to seek support, gain perspective and find greater clarity on their journey so far.
02:49Right, let's have a cheers and let's not think about what they're doing.
02:52Cheers!
02:55Good to get out.
02:56It is good to get out.
02:57Finally.
02:58Yeah.
02:59You know what, I actually think this is really what I needed.
03:01Come on guys!
03:02Yeah!
03:03This is what I needed.
03:05It was a pretty hard commitment ceremony last night.
03:07So, no, I am really excited to see everyone have some drinks, have some combo.
03:11Yeah, I'm really looking forward to it.
03:13Would anyone ever like make their partner do a lie detector test?
03:16They weren't 100% believing what they're telling you.
03:19And it depends what it is.
03:20You would love a lie detector test.
03:22Yeah, you would love a lie detector test.
03:23You would have one in the ass.
03:24You're thinking of where they sell them now.
03:25You're going to go home.
03:26If you had one, would you ask him about his feelings?
03:30Just so you put yourself at ease.
03:31Yeah, of course.
03:32You only ask one question.
03:33Do you fancy me?
03:36Yeah, but that's just me, right?
03:37That's because clearly, and I hate to admit it, I'm obviously insecure about that.
03:40So I just want to make sure that he does.
03:42But he says he does, so I have to believe him.
03:45This is the first time in my entire life I have told a man that I like him.
03:50Since the commitment ceremony, though, how's that been?
03:54Like, has that affected your relationship at all?
03:56Yeah, of course.
03:57How's he been since?
03:59It was really, really hard.
04:00And don't get me wrong, the experts have called out stuff that he has done in the past.
04:06Do you feel there have been times of conflict where you have been minimized?
04:11Yes.
04:13Do you feel like there's an issue that you bring to him and the issue is deflected?
04:18Yes, I'm sorry.
04:21But when I opened up last week, my feelings were shut down like that.
04:25So why weren't my feelings considered doing this?
04:27That is a masterful deflection.
04:30We are talking about your wife right now.
04:33You see that shake?
04:35You're minimizing her feelings.
04:38Oh, wow.
04:42What Paul was saying was valid.
04:43I have felt those things at some point in this process.
04:45Yeah, I forgot about it.
04:46And he did them.
04:49And I feel really guilty and I literally cried after her because I felt so bad that in that moment I didn't stand up for him.
04:56Hate upsetting people.
04:57But you didn't upset him, to be fair. His own actions being handed to him upset him.
05:02I think it's the avoidance.
05:03He goes in tangents and starts talking about different things all the time.
05:05Yeah, and I'm like, just say it, man.
05:06Yeah, and it comes across that he's kind of shifting blame.
05:08Yeah.
05:09And although sometimes it does get shifted onto you, which is totally unfair.
05:11Yeah.
05:13I am finding it hard to hear them speak about Steven in a negative way.
05:16But I think also a part of it comes down to the fact that I do obviously really like him and I do want him to feel like I did have his back and support him where possible.
05:24But there is a line where there's some things I can't defend.
05:31Oh, hello, lads. How are we doing?
05:37You all right?
05:38Hey, lads.
05:39Oh, hello.
05:40Nothing to see you.
05:41What are you doing? What are you doing?
05:43Good?
05:45Very much looking forward to a relaxing spa day after last night's commitment ceremony.
05:48Fresh opinions, fresh energy, new lease of life.
05:52How did you find last night?
05:54Yeah, it was intense.
05:55Yeah.
05:56How are you feeling genuinely?
05:57Yeah, yours was a bit brutal.
05:58It's not exactly the ideal situation if you put in.
06:01Yeah.
06:02You handled yourself pretty well.
06:03Yeah, you really did.
06:04You did.
06:05Do you know what?
06:06I feel like she's honestly a sweet, lovely girl and I think she just honestly genuinely does have like really strong feelings for you and I think that's where the insecurities may come from.
06:17Coming away from the commitment ceremony, I think it's a hard one because I didn't feel supported.
06:23So, I think I'm more annoyed at the blindsiding from Nelly's part to be honest and I don't consider her feelings when that's not been the case since day one.
06:30So, why is she waiting until now to set?
06:32She's obviously going to get my back up.
06:33Devani, was that proper intense for you guys?
06:35I mean, yeah.
06:36I've had my ups and downs for sure.
06:39Yeah.
06:40The first week I got a grilling from Paul and Charlene.
06:43Did you?
06:44Yeah, yeah, yeah.
06:45Just because we had a couple of arguments throughout our honeymoon and it was just more like dealing with the conflict side but outside of that we're pretty much good to be fair.
06:54Oh good.
06:55I suppose my only concern is that he's just way further ahead than me in terms of like progression.
07:07Like I'm on path but I just like I know he's like 20 million miles ahead.
07:12It worries me a little bit but bless him.
07:15I feel like it's nice to like not be with Devani today just to have like a breath of fresh air.
07:20I feel like this is a little bit needed.
07:24I said to me, is there anything bad about her?
07:26And he's like, there's nothing bad.
07:28Like she's just perfect.
07:38So how are you feeling about you and Bailey at the moment?
07:40I feel good.
07:41Like I feel like we are sailing through it.
07:44I like him so much.
07:46I feel super lucky that Bailey and I are in a really consistent place and our feelings just grow day by day.
07:53It's exciting to think about what the future could hold for us.
07:57How do you feel like on the back of the commitment ceremony?
08:01Because you, I feel like that was the first time you opened up.
08:04Like properly opened up.
08:05I feel like Leah feels slightly different towards me now in a positive way now that she's seen me be able to be vulnerable.
08:14I've been through a lot of situations where me acting off of how I feel has just led to me getting really hurt.
08:23And so, you're protecting yourself.
08:30Yeah.
08:32And it's like I've turned something off in me from like my previous relationship and I like can't get it back on.
08:41If you were to start taking some baby steps toward a more emotional style, I think it would be received pretty well.
08:50Yeah.
08:51Moving forward, if I feel something in the moment with me, I just act on it.
08:58Don't overthink it.
08:59Don't get sore in my head about it.
09:01Just act and be, just be in the moment and enjoy it.
09:04Yeah.
09:05Don't overthink everything.
09:06Don't overthink everything.
09:07Don't overthink everything.
09:08Don't overthink everything.
09:09Don't overthink everything.
09:10Don't overthink everything.
09:11Yeah.
09:12The commitment ceremony yesterday was tough for me and Leah.
09:15I was quite vulnerable and I've got some home truths but I feel like they were needed.
09:20But I do feel like we're both feeling like we're in a similar place at the moment
09:28The fact that she broke down obviously, I don't want to see that it's not nice and it did make me sad
09:33Well, I've needed that yeah
09:35I've needed to see that she has got a heart in there that she has got emotion that she she is feeling something
09:40So I think for me now. I just need to make her aware that a I'm not gonna hurt her be
09:45It's all right to be vulnerable with me. Like I feel like we could go somewhere
09:50How do you feel about your ball and train? We're all right, but we're not at the same time
09:56Like last night we had an argument. What was the argument about?
10:00He just said like you need to start looking after yourself this week
10:03But then listed everything that I needed to do like what like get your lashes done get your nails done
10:08Do this do that. Oh, but then he was like I didn't mean to like make a list
10:11I just wanted you to feel better about yourself
10:13I know it came from like a good place
10:15But at that time I thought who the fuck are you talking to like that, but I was just like whoa
10:20I was like don't tell me what I need to do
10:25So I still want you probably yes, okay by the time I'd calm down I thought right
10:29I'm ready to like speak to him. So I go to the apartment. I'm like, where are you? He wasn't in the apartment
10:34So then I was like he wasn't in the apartment. No
10:37So now we've argued I've cooled down like I want to come talk to you and you're not there
10:42And you haven't even told us that you fucked up
10:44Oh
10:45So now we head spiraling as well
10:47It's been doing me head in I'm not gonna lie. I don't want to argue with Joe
10:54That's the last thing I want to do
10:56Of course it's upsetting
10:58Because Joe means that absolute world to me
11:05I know it's obvious to people that I haven't really been my full self this week
11:09Yeah
11:10Obviously I've got stuff going on at home and my granddad has died
11:13Which is not like helped at all
11:15But me and Maeve had this like argument last night
11:18And I've just got huge doubts in my head
11:22What was that about?
11:23I just said, can you look after yourself a bit more this week?
11:26Like go and get your nails done, have a sunbed
11:29Just do whatever you need to do to like feel good
11:32Did she react to that straight away?
11:34Yeah, she just stormed off, got really really wound up
11:36And then it just wound me up
11:38Because I'm like I just didn't understand the reaction
11:42She's very like bang as well
11:45Like not to 100 rapid
11:47It's just not how I deal with shit at all
11:49Like not at all
11:51And because she just went at me
11:53I was just absolutely fuming
11:55Like fuming
12:01I don't feel like Joe's a talker though
12:03Like so I don't feel like he's ever gonna be like
12:05Oh this is what happened between us
12:06Do you know what I mean?
12:07He won't ever
12:08I don't think he'll ever spill a tea
12:09There's nothing to worry about
12:10I feel like he's just
12:11He's so into you
12:12The way he looks at you
12:13He's so upset
12:14For real though
12:15Yeah
12:16Yeah, he's definitely into you
12:18I feel like me and Maeve have been in this bubble
12:24And then I've like been in denial about all
12:28Like the differences we actually have
12:31And how maybe we're not compatible
12:36But because we've been in this bubble
12:38I've just kind of like ignored it all
12:40And then I've just bottled it all up
12:42And I think that's just like really affected me
12:44Because I haven't just been able to be my full self
12:47I'm actually very shocked
12:50Every couch they've had on the commitment ceremony
12:53They've been saying they're perfect
12:56This hasn't started since you said I love you, is it?
13:00No, because I do genuinely have love for her
13:04Like I genuinely do
13:05Well then, do you love her?
13:16I do love her
13:17In a way
13:22But I'm like truly head over heels, truly in love
13:30Probably not
13:33There's just like these massive differences
13:35Where I'm just thinking
13:36Is this actually going to work?
13:38You know?
13:39Right
13:40You know like on the couch
13:41Yeah
13:42There'll be sunshine and rainbows
13:43I know
13:44So have you held it back from the experts?
13:45I haven't just been fully, fully honest
13:48I think because we do care about each other
13:51We don't want to like say negative things about each other
13:54But in reality
13:55There has been things that have happened
13:57Where it's like
13:58Not
13:59Good
14:00How are you feeling?
14:01You're going to move forward with it?
14:02I can't just hold these issues in anymore
14:05Because it's literally like burning me up inside
14:10I'm hoping
14:11This isn't Joe just running at the first hurdle
14:14Because I think he'll regret it
14:15It's been very hard for me bottling all this up
14:22I really feel I can't do today
14:24Feeling very overwhelmed
14:26Absolutely exhausted
14:27Need to leave and have a little time by myself
14:45This is nice
14:52This is cute
14:54Very nice
14:55Nice
14:56A shot of dessert
14:57Yeah
14:58Aww
14:59Look at this
15:00Yeah
15:01Oh, straight on it
15:02You've got mine here
15:03Straight in her
15:04Yeah
15:05Woo
15:11What are you looking up to?
15:12We do cocktail making
15:13What?
15:14What?
15:15Have you been making us cocktail?
15:16Did you take the backwash in there?
15:17Did you take the backwash in there?
15:18Yeah
15:20We do need to play a game
15:21Snog, marry, avoid
15:22Really?
15:23Yeah
15:24Can't choose your partner
15:25Got him
15:26Funnest snog
15:27It would be probably Rhys
15:29Right
15:30Marry it would be
15:32Ashley
15:34And avoid
15:35I'm like Nellie
15:38Any reason for that?
15:39I love you but I couldn't deal
15:41Fine
15:42Fair
15:43Very honest
15:44Okay
15:45You'll go
15:46Oh shit
15:50I would snog Ashley
15:51Oh Ash is doing well
15:53Come on Ash
15:54My man
15:55I'm Mary Stephen
15:56Sorry
15:59And I would avoid
16:00Alicia
16:01I can't
16:02How come?
16:03She was like vomiting on herself
16:04She was like vomiting on herself
16:05Oh right
16:06And then like flirting with someone on the
16:07I had it and I couldn't do it
16:08Yeah
16:09Fair enough
16:10Moving on
16:11Moving on
16:12Yeah, come on
16:13Yeah, come on
16:14Yeah, I'd probably snog
16:15Leisha
16:16Oh right
16:17Cool
16:18And marry Rhys
16:19Oh, that's nice
16:20That's nice
16:21I'd avoid Leona
16:22Because I haven't got to know you yet
16:23How's everyone feeling?
16:24How's everyone feeling?
16:25I know
16:26Well how are you guys feeling?
16:27Oh and you
16:28Yeah
16:29How do you feel?
16:30How do you feel?
16:31You're very happy
16:32Yeah
16:33We know you're happy
16:34Yeah, we don't need to hear about yours
16:35We can see how happy you were
16:36Yeah, honestly
16:37He's an amazing guy
16:38An incredible guy
16:39I couldn't have asked for
16:40Like a better man
16:41Like he gives me everything that I want
16:42And also everything that I need
16:43And like I am falling for him
16:44I would admit that
16:45I like
16:46Oh
16:47Oh
16:48Oh
16:49Oh
16:50Oh
16:51Oh
16:52Oh
16:53Oh
16:54Oh
16:55Oh
16:56Oh
16:57Oh
16:58Oh
16:59Oh
17:01And as a couple I feel like we've grown so much
17:03Oh that's lovely
17:04And I'm just really excited about like our future
17:06And I just
17:07Yeah
17:08Cheers to you guys ready
17:09I'm not joking
17:10That is too good to not cheers to you
17:12Cheers
17:13Thank you
17:17Me and Abi initially like we had everything
17:20But then we started laughing
17:21I was like oh class I've got this as well
17:23Happy days
17:24Like proper like belly laughing over the game of cards and stuff
17:26Do you know what I mean?
17:27I was like oh a nice one
17:28Yeah
17:29The banter's got to be there innit?
17:30Yeah 100%
17:31Sexual attraction and banter
17:32You're a little bit further down the line than what Abi and I are
17:34Yeah
17:35But you're an amazing example of what I've got to come
17:38That's nice to me
17:39Yeah cheers mate
17:40And I know Maeve you and Joe are really really good
17:44I know that you've got like an amazing relationship
17:46Yeah
17:47And it's great that you're doing your thing
17:49I do miss Joe and after our argument last night it's actually killing us inside knowing that he's upset
18:01Like I can't wait to go back and give him a cuddle and tell him everything's gonna be okay
18:06Nelly how are you getting on with Stephen at the moment?
18:13You know what? That commitment ceremony was really heavy
18:19Cause Paul said in this whole process
18:22Have you felt dismissed?
18:23Yeah I have felt dismissed
18:24He said are you feeling like the deflection?
18:27We've all seen it right?
18:29Yeah
18:30But I feel incredibly guilty for not sticking up for him
18:34I don't think you should feel guilty though because you have felt them emotions
18:38Yeah I have
18:39But I just feel so bad because I just never want him to feel like I'm here to hang him dry or not support him
18:45But I knew at that point like I have to be honest I have felt those things
18:49I'm not going to lie to the experts
18:55So last night was fun wasn't it?
18:57Yeah right
18:58That was brutal for you
18:59Yeah
19:01Can you see where you went wrong?
19:03Yeah 100% and I held my hands up to that
19:06You did fuck up
19:08You didn't prioritise Nelly as best you should
19:11Yes but in that moment I was annoyed at her because I would have spoken up against Paul
19:16If he had said it the other way around
19:19You wanted a bit of support?
19:20We're supposed to have each other's backs
19:24Did she ever feel like that?
19:26Probably
19:27Probably
19:28Yeah that is the truth
19:29Did you ever feel like that?
19:31Probably
19:32Yeah
19:33Probably
19:34Like do you deflect?
19:35You know you do
19:36You said it yourself
19:37I think at times Nelly has probably felt like that and I think
19:44Yeah
19:45Like maybe you could just take that on the chin
19:47And do you know what she said to me afterwards because I spoke to her after the commitment ceremony and she said out of all of this I just feel like I want to protect him
19:57Yeah
19:58And because of what happened on the couch she just feels like she's now in protective mode and wants to like put you in a little bubble of like this isn't who Steven is
20:07I don't want her to change who she is
20:09She's not gonna change who she is
20:10No no no no
20:11She just wants to care about you
20:12She protects anybody
20:13But I will see a change if it does happen
20:16But also
20:17And I think then she's then not being genuine to herself
20:19Yeah but your focus right now is completely in the wrong place
20:21You're focused on Nelly now changing her behaviour and then you not feeling like it's gonna work because Nelly's trying to protect you
20:28Yes but I felt blindsided three times by her now
20:31I don't think any of this is Nelly's fault to be perfectly honest with you
20:34I'm not saying last night was Nelly's fault
20:35I'm saying there's three previous times if she's blindsided me with things
20:38When the cameras have been rolling
20:39We're bringing back things from the past
20:40No
20:41But this is what I mean
20:42This is what I'm trying to get to
20:43Like I'm telling you how I'm feeling
20:45And again it's like
20:46Yeah but it's irrelevant
20:47It's not fucking irrelevant
20:48I'm telling you she's blindsided me three fucking times
20:51Which I'm allowed to feel
20:53Which is what we said what was what we promised
20:55I'm sorry I'm talking
20:56When we've promised not to blindside one another
20:59We open an eyes for one another
21:00And then she's not done that to me
21:02It's gonna put my back up right
21:03I can't
21:04I'm gonna disagree with you then
21:05We'll go with someone else then
21:07Because I'm getting annoyed myself
21:08But this conversation is fine
21:09No because again
21:10When I'm talking about something which matters to me
21:13It's disregarded
21:14It's not
21:15Stephen it's not
21:16I ask you the question
21:17We'll move on
21:18We'll move on
21:19We'll stop talking about it anyway
21:20Because obviously eyes and ears are here
21:21Brilliant
21:22Obviously girls can have girls back to work
21:23So let's just cut this conversation
21:25It's not that
21:26It's just all I wanted was for you to say
21:27Can't I bill it and you'd blame Nelly
21:28I didn't blame Nelly
21:29Again once I then started opening up that thing
21:31It's not that you're opening up Stephen
21:33It ain't that
21:34No but it has been that again
21:35Your feelings and Nelly's feelings
21:36Can both be equally as valid
21:37When I have a sale on something
21:39People are like
21:40Yeah but this
21:41Yeah but that
21:42So I'm done with it
21:43You're just taking it the wrong way
21:44You talk about your own feelings more than you talk about like how you've made Nelly feel
21:51You do
21:52You
21:53Okay Rebecca
21:54Babe you do
21:55You know
21:56It's not an attack on you
21:57It's not an attack on you
21:58I'll step out and get another drink
21:59I'm fucking done with it
22:00I'll step out and have a fucking drink
22:02Let's all go
22:04Don't eat all
22:05No no you fucking stay there
22:14Fucking clowns
22:15Steve you've got to take a breath right
22:32You've got to stay cool mate
22:34Yeah look at me
22:36Look at me though
22:37You've got to stay cool
22:38You've got to stay cool
22:39I understand you're pissed off
22:41I understand you're wound up
22:42You've got to cool down
22:43Hmm
22:44So just make it clear that you're taking accountability for what you've done
22:47But also explain that there's reasons and you've only got one side of the story
22:52That's what I mean
22:53They only listen to one side though
22:54That's their problem
22:55Then this is your opportunity to see
22:57I've said my side
22:58They only listen to one person's fucking problem
23:00What?
23:01Steve
23:02Steve
23:03You've got to cool down
23:04He thinks it's an attack
23:06Yeah
23:07He thinks that by giving him this feedback
23:09That we're attacking his character
23:11But what he doesn't realize is you've got two people that really care about you
23:14That are trying to make you see your wrongdoings
23:20You alright?
23:21Steven you have two drinks
23:23You're okay
23:24I made sure of it
23:25He's like down them right now
23:26How you feeling?
23:27Yeah no I'm good
23:28Take this how you wish
23:33No one here is trying to attack you
23:36No one
23:38I don't think Steven likes the home truths
23:41I don't think he likes when people are calling him out on the shit that he's doing wrong
23:45But what we do just need in those moments is for him to just be like
23:48Yeah I did
23:49I made a mistake
23:50I own it
23:51And this is what I'm gonna do to make it up to Nelly
23:53Oh
24:00Delivery
24:01Oh
24:02No
24:03Everyone looks a bit nervous
24:04You see the faces just
24:08Hello
24:09We've provided a game to help you open up and reveal to the group
24:12Things that people might not know about you yet
24:14Or might come as a surprise
24:16Lord
24:17It's a game we've called Secrets and Liars
24:20Ooh
24:21Each of you should take a turn to pull out a question from the envelope
24:24Read it to the group and then each of you should answer it in turn
24:27Have fun and be honest
24:29Love Mel, Paul and Charlene
24:32Oh
24:33You're getting hot under the collar now
24:34Yeah
24:35Can't wait for this
24:36Right
24:37Ooh
24:38Who's your secret crush amongst all the couples?
24:41Oh Jesus Christ
24:43Okay
24:44Just from conversation alone and you know banter which is potentially what I'm lacking in mine
24:49I think Ash is genuinely someone that I would get on with really well on the outside world
24:53You know what I'm saying
24:54Yeah
24:55Okay, next
24:56I'll say Grace because she actually reminds me of one of my exes literally
25:00And she thinks a lot
25:02Fight you for her
25:03My stereotypical type is Joe
25:08Like light eyes, lighter features
25:10Physically is my type
25:12But Billy's my guy
25:14Adore him
25:15Like I'm not pushing on Joe by the way
25:17Yeah
25:18Next question
25:20Who is keeping a secret about their true feelings towards their partner?
25:25Oh
25:30It's a very difficult question
25:31But for me I'm gonna go juicy ruse
25:33Paul asked like a few times in terms of
25:35Oh do you fancy a partner?
25:36Do you fancy a partner?
25:37And you found it really difficult to answer
25:39Before you came here I've said to him multiple times to his face
25:41He knows that he's not my type
25:42He's heard it a million times
25:43The boy doesn't need to hear it five million more times
25:45Yeah fair
25:46Okay, ta
25:47Listen Julie Ruth
25:49I do think
25:50You're probably like struggling with saying that you just openly don't fancy Devan
25:55And that you might not get there
25:57And you might be feeling like bad to say it almost
26:03I've said this to you guys you've all heard it
26:05It's the volume and physical type
26:07The man has heard it more than he needs to fucking hear it
26:09That's it's really rude now after a while
26:11Do you know what I mean? It gets a bit dry and old
26:16That's fine
26:17Your go
26:19Nelly and Steven
26:23Who of them?
26:24Yes
26:27I think Nelly likes him a lot more than what Steven likes Nelly
26:33I think Steven's acting like he likes you but I don't think he likes you as much as he's saying that he's like you
26:37I agree
26:41If I'm brutally honest and I love you to death but I do feel Steven, yeah
26:45Hearing people say that they think Steven likes me less than I like him
26:52It's obviously not nice to hear but I knew anyway
26:56So I'm not going to deny it
26:58But I just need to talk to Steven and just have it all out and then lay it all on the table and say listen where do we go from here?
27:04I don't think he's really trying
27:05He's not trying, of course he's not fucking trying, he's actually not trying
27:17But I know I agree and that's why I feel so bad
27:20Because I had that in my last two relationships
27:22Don't get upset, just say here you are treating me like a fucking piece of shit
27:26You are a fucking idiot
27:27Just be honest and open and write yourself
27:29But now you're being a fucking knockout
27:30No, no, no
27:31But I thought I was getting mugged off
27:32I say here like you are fucking mugging me off
27:34Because you're probably stronger than me mate
27:35The moment you see something you call it
27:37I don't do that
27:38But why?
27:39I'm not you
27:43I'm not you
27:44I wish I had that policy
27:46No, I know but why?
27:47I can't, give me arse
27:48I'm gonna, I'm fine, I'm done with it
27:49Nelly
27:50Nelly, I'm not attacking me
27:51I'm just saying
27:52No, I'm done with it
27:53But Nelly
27:54Guys, I gotta have a time out
27:55Like I need a time out
27:56Like fuck this
28:01Fuck this
28:03Fuck it
28:04Hey
28:05Why is this happening?
28:06I feel like she's losing herself
28:08100%
28:09She is?
28:11Hey
28:12I can't be arsed anymore
28:13Like fuck this
28:14I ain't coming for this
28:25Come on
28:26Come on, come on, you've got this
28:39Maybe if she does give Stephen an ultimatum he might think twice and be scared to
28:46But at the end of the day, that's what you have to do
28:52Welcome back
28:54I'm crying because I'm so upset
28:56It's been a lot for Stephen and I
28:58And I'm just, it
28:59I think that's what it is
29:00I think it's all just coming out
29:01I'm clearly very open with this group
29:03And
29:04As much as I'm trying to hold back I can't
29:07Guys, I just want to say I am really sorry for walking off
29:11It was really overwhelming and it's
29:13It's just how I deal with the situation
29:16Yeah
29:17He isn't doing enough
29:18Yeah, I agree
29:19He does need to do a lot more
29:20And you need to stop giving so much to yourself
29:21Yeah, I know
29:22I think I am too forgiving
29:24I'm so concerned about pushing that guy away
29:27I feel like if I was you, I'd almost just tell him where you're at
29:31And just say you've got to a point now where he needs to show it
29:34Or you're gone
29:35Or you're gone
29:36Yeah, or you're gone
29:40Because of my past relationships and what's happened to me
29:43I worry that if I was to voice how I'm feeling to Stephen
29:47I'm going to push him away
29:49And then he's going to be like, Nellie, you're too much
29:52Like, see you later
29:53I can't give you that, goodbye
29:55And then there I am
29:58On my ear again
30:00Like, that's what it comes down to really
30:06Are we all ready for the next question?
30:08Let's go!
30:09Woo!
30:10Nellie
30:12It's the Philippines
30:13Which couple do you secretly think has the best sex?
30:16I'll start
30:17Bex and boo
30:19Yeah
30:20Easy
30:21I'll go Kieran Demid
30:23Aww
30:25Yes
30:26Can I say me?
30:29Oh
30:30What's the body when that's happening?
30:31I won't lock him out the room
30:32He's like, please
30:33Where's the body when that's happening?
30:35I won't lock him out the room.
30:37He's like, please!
30:45Well, I know you have great sex. You have great sex.
30:48You're not really having any at the moment.
30:52It's all good. It's all good.
30:57Getting called out for the lack of intimacy in my marriage.
31:00Yeah, shit, I'm not gonna lie.
31:02If they had the full perspective of what was going on,
31:04their opinions would be different.
31:08Next question.
31:09Which marriage is least likely to last?
31:12Oh, that's a bit harsh, isn't it?
31:14Savage!
31:15Okay.
31:16Potentially, you and Julia Rue.
31:19Only because you've just expressed struggle.
31:21I feel like at this point,
31:22you should be having intimacy with your partners.
31:27If you're not having intimacy at this point,
31:30or any romance, you know, I feel like there's questions to be asked.
31:42Mine would be yourself and Julia Rue. I'm sorry.
31:44I think it would be out of everybody least likely to last long term.
31:50I'm gonna say the same.
31:53Just because of the differences that I've noticed already.
31:56Hearing everyone else's opinions,
31:58this is really starting to piss me off.
32:01I'm really sorry, mate. I'm gonna have to say you as well.
32:05You're not really digging into it and looking into what the problems are.
32:10The group think my marriage is a joke.
32:12I'm gonna go with the Bunny and Julie group.
32:21Because the clock is ticking. We're halfway through this.
32:23Yeah, I know.
32:24And I think you need to get the romantic side.
32:27Yeah, for sure.
32:29They think my wife doesn't want to have sex with me.
32:31I know why.
32:32Are you physically attracted to your husband?
32:36I think it's an attractive man, yes.
32:41Are you physically attracted to your husband?
32:46Julia Rufus spinning their narrative.
32:48That is not exactly true.
32:51What's the sex like then?
32:53Oh, shit.
32:56They're not connecting.
32:57Mm-mm.
32:59Has the intimacy progressed?
33:02Yeah, I think we'll just take our time with that one a little bit.
33:06Well, I know the truth.
33:08Julia Ruf knows the truth.
33:10Are you getting enough affection for you in that relationship?
33:12100%.
33:13Do you want to go to the next level though?
33:14100%.
33:15You need to make her see that's what you want.
33:19I agree. Yeah.
33:20She needs to feel like...
33:21So you need to be more dominant.
33:22It's more like that passion.
33:23She wants to feel wanted.
33:24I think she just needs to see a different side of you.
33:28The truth is, we've been having sex.
33:31She lied to the group.
33:33She lied to the experts.
33:34And I'm done keeping that secret when it's making me look like a fool.
33:38There's definitely a conversation that needs to happen.
33:40Honey, I'm home.
33:54After their separate days out, the husbands and wives are returning to the apartments.
33:59Oh, you're so comfortable.
34:00But one bride is returning to an unsettling surprise.
34:14Hello?
34:18Where's Jo?
34:19I've come back to the apartment and I've found her empty and I've got a message on my phone from Jo saying that he's really struggling and he needs to have some time away from the apartment.
34:34After our argument last night, in the back of my head today, I have actually been really worried because we haven't really spoke about it and I just want to sort it out so it's hard that he's not here.
34:48I just want to reassure him that I'm here for him.
34:51Hello?
34:57Hello?
34:59Hello?
35:00Hello?
35:01Yeah, you?
35:03Er...
35:05I've just come away, just for the night.
35:08But it's nothing about, like, you know, last night.
35:13I don't want you to, like, think it's anything that you've done or anything.
35:16It's just...
35:18What's going on at home and then...
35:20Yeah, I'm just stressing out about everything, so I just need it, just...
35:24A lot's going on, innit?
35:26Yeah.
35:28Thank you, thanks for ringing.
35:29Appreciate it.
35:30Yeah, I just want to make sure that you're alright because I've been worried about you today.
35:34Alright, love.
35:35Alright, okay, darling, I'll drop us a message later, okay?
35:38Alright.
35:39You might. Bye, darling. Bye. Bye-bye.
35:41I understand his reasons, of course I do, but I want to be there for him, I want to look after him.
35:53Like, this is what I'm here for, I'm going to be your other half.
35:56I mean, I would like to think it's not about our argument last night, but I don't know.
36:03I just hope when he comes back we can sort things out, because in my head I've been absolutely spiralling, and I really, really miss him.
36:10Did you miss him?
36:17Oh, God.
36:27Hello.
36:28Hello.
36:30Hey, hey, hey, how you doing?
36:31How was your day?
36:32It was alright, how was yours?
36:34Um, the first part of it was good, the second part of it went really shit.
36:38Why?
36:39Um, everybody doesn't believe that our relationship is going to grow, prosper, or even flourish.
36:46Um, it just had me thinking about the authenticity of me being true to myself in this whole experiment.
36:57The reason why they made that judgement is based down to the information that they don't know.
37:03No one knows where we really are, except for me and you.
37:06We're the only two people that really know what's going on in this relationship.
37:08I didn't want to talk about this.
37:09Well, this was the problem.
37:12We've been intimate, you already know that.
37:13And I asked you not to say it on camera.
37:19I didn't say it on camera.
37:20That's the thing.
37:21No, but at the same time, I looked like a complete fucking fool today.
37:24A hundred percent.
37:25Taking all the blows.
37:26You didn't, you didn't...
37:27So, take the blows.
37:28No, no, no.
37:29And I said I didn't want to talk about it.
37:30No, no, no, it's not about taking the blows.
37:31So, you'd rather make me look like an idiot and lie.
37:32So, you'd rather out me in front of the camera and not bring it to camera?
37:36I didn't out you.
37:37I didn't bring it to fucking camera.
37:38That's the point that you're missing.
37:40This came out of something else.
37:42Go and ask everyone that I went to the place with.
37:45I didn't mention nothing.
37:46They told me, oh, yeah, your relationship is weak because of intimacy, X, Y, and Z.
37:50But they don't really know what's going on.
37:52I know what's going on.
37:53You know what's going on.
37:54I shut my mouth knowing that I was going to look like a fool.
37:56So, what did you say?
37:57It's not because of that.
37:58It's because of X, Y, and Z.
37:59I did so.
38:00You would rather allow me looking like a dickhead.
38:01No, no, no.
38:02I'm being...
38:03No, no, no.
38:04I've been worrying about you this whole time.
38:06That's the difference.
38:07And now you've gone and aired my shit out when I asked you nicely not to bring it to camera.
38:11Even for your own sake, not to bring it to camera.
38:13I didn't air this shit out.
38:14I didn't mean to sit on the couch and tell everyone to stick to shit.
38:18I don't give a fuck if you said a little shit.
38:20At least you're being true to yourself.
38:21I'm looking like a delusional prick saying, oh, yeah, you know, I have...
38:25So, cop it and come and speak to your wife.
38:26I was coming to talk to you.
38:27That's the difference.
38:28But you're more than okay to spin the narrative and make it sound like, oh, yeah.
38:31It's not spin the narrative.
38:32You say, oh, yeah, as your wife, as your wife.
38:34Cool.
38:35I'm still your husband and you're not understanding this because I was put in a hard position that I didn't want to.
38:39But it's the same.
38:40No, no, no.
38:41It has nothing to do with ego.
38:42It has nothing to do with ego.
38:43I know why I came here.
38:44This experience is about being true to yourself and being open.
38:47You could have told me how the stranger were and we could have had this off camera.
38:49I didn't want to talk about sex on camera.
38:51You want everything to be done your fucking way.
38:53This whole relationship...
38:54Team together.
38:55Decision together.
38:56Every single time it's always about me adjusting to this relationship.
38:59This shit feeling like a fucking mug.
39:00Because I don't want to talk about sex.
39:01No, I don't want to be talking about sex, but be honest and say it once.
39:04Let it go.
39:05Sex is set.
39:06Why the fuck do you think I was coming home?
39:07Oh my goodness.
39:08Why not just say, babe, this is a hard day for me.
39:09We need to talk about this off camera.
39:10Let me ask you an honest fucking question.
39:11When people ask you about, have we been intimate?
39:12How do you say it?
39:13We say, no, we haven't been intimate.
39:14I'm not ready.
39:15I don't want to do it.
39:16I'm not ready.
39:17So when we have, because we have, you've still been saying no.
39:18Yeah.
39:19Lying to people's faces.
39:20Is that your authentic self?
39:21This experiment is about...
39:22My sex life with you doesn't have to make me a fake person because I don't...
39:24No, no, no, no.
39:25No one ain't saying that.
39:26No one ain't saying that.
39:27We're looking like fucking fools, looking like mugs on our forehead because of this fucking
39:47communication.
39:48So come and talk to me about it.
39:49You've been yelling at me about it.
39:50I know why I came here.
39:51Two main points.
39:52What is the point of honey? You're so disrespectful you could have said to me babe
39:55I had a shit day. Please. Can we talk about the intimacy thing and that's what I was doing
39:59But you're not listening no respect for me at all. It's crazy. No respect for me
40:08Trust broken
40:10Through our whole relationship out the window when he decided to completely disrespect my wishes. I don't know where we go from here
40:22Next time you will be participating in love hate week a new task
40:27I'm excited about the love part, but I'm not excited about the heat bring some couples closer
40:32I love us. I love that. You're completely authentically yourself. It's the best thing about you
40:37But forces tensions to the surface for others you quite happily shift the blame to me. I can't win with you
40:43Well, this isn't me. I just don't know that grace is fucking hard work
40:47And while secrets and betrayal still plague Julia Ruth and Devani
40:51I don't care whether people know that we have sex or not
40:55You do I said I've had attraction issues if you're embarrassed of me why I have sex
40:59Joe and Maeve's reunion is less than a happy one
41:03Can you really see or working on the outside? I'm feeling overwhelmed. What why that's how I feel what the fuck's going on?
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