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00:00Although it was hard for us to deal with Danielle leaving,
00:05it seemed like a safe bet going with Teresa.
00:07We've known her for a very long time.
00:10Teresa and I, for so long, have maintained a strict friendship,
00:14so there's a bit of an adjustment I'm having to go through.
00:17Hello.
00:17Hello.
00:18Beautiful one and two.
00:19Who's one and who's two?
00:21We've been dating Sinead for three years.
00:24I told you that I want us to spend more time together.
00:27I don't want it to end, but if something doesn't change,
00:31I definitely am afraid that we might lose her.
00:34Can you believe she's here?
00:36Yeah, I know.
00:37I just want to make sure with Lorena being here
00:40that Garrick is careful with what he does.
00:44When's the wedding?
00:45We're going to get on her.
00:46Figure out a prenup yet?
00:48You never know what somebody will do,
00:50and Garrick legally marrying someone is a big step.
00:57What's going on?
01:21Everybody all right?
01:22What's up, my baby here?
01:23Hi, you look so nice.
01:25Wow, you look amazing.
01:28Tonight, I'm going on a date with Teresa.
01:31You're so fine, Nikki.
01:32I'm trying to give Teresa some special attention.
01:34She's only been here for a matter of months
01:36as, you know, in our relationship.
01:39Even after 14 years of friendship,
01:41I really am a different person when it comes to romance
01:45or when it comes to being involved in a relationship.
01:48We really push them to have that one-on-one time
01:51because they haven't had that chance to really do that
01:53in that romantic way.
01:54Thanks, Teresa.
02:14It's lovely to see you.
02:16It's lovely to see you.
02:20Thank you for joining me this evening.
02:22You're welcome.
02:23Thank you for joining me.
02:24Yeah, I'm glad we had a chance to get out the house a little bit.
02:28Yes.
02:29Just kind of give me a chance to check in with you,
02:32see how you're doing.
02:33I'm doing great.
02:35I love being on a date with Nick.
02:37It's always an adventure,
02:39and he always makes me discover things about myself
02:42that I've never felt before.
02:44He just looks into my eyes
02:46and reminds me of how beautiful I am,
02:48and that really is all that matters in the end.
02:50I'm so surprised that we find ourselves here
02:54at this point right now, Teresa.
02:55I'm not.
02:56No?
02:57Not at all?
02:57No.
02:59All these years I've been friends with you,
03:00all I ever wanted to do
03:01was tell you, like, how I felt.
03:03And that was the hardest part to do for me
03:07was be like, Nick, this is how I feel.
03:09Because we were the homies for so long.
03:11Yeah, right, right.
03:12We were your friends.
03:13And I was afraid to tell you how I felt.
03:20You know, I never wanted to cross any boundaries.
03:23You know, I didn't want to cross any lines.
03:25I mean, when we first started talking,
03:26I was in a relationship.
03:28You know what I mean?
03:29So I wasn't trying to cross any boundaries.
03:31Yeah.
03:32It's just, man, I was like head over heels.
03:35I thought, oh my gosh,
03:37I don't want to jeopardize my own relationship with this man.
03:39But I was willing to risk it all.
03:41Oh my gosh.
03:42I really was.
03:43We were like, okay, it's settled.
03:45We're just going to be friends and talk and chit chat, yada, yada.
03:48And I was like, I hope that things occur.
03:52I really hope that things happen.
03:55I'm not sure if it's obvious or not,
03:56but I'm pretty full of myself.
04:01I've got a pretty high opinion of the person that I am.
04:04So because I understand that,
04:07when it comes to how I assess the way
04:11that someone else might think about me,
04:13well, I usually try to err on the side of caution
04:16and assume that they probably maybe aren't feeling
04:20the same way about me as I do about myself.
04:22So even if Teresa might have been giving me hints or clues
04:25that she was interested in me,
04:26I would have disregarded them
04:28as just the way that I look at myself.
04:31And so I just would dismiss it.
04:33Not only do I feel relieved that I told you how I felt,
04:36but the fact that you feel the same way for me
04:39is just like, oh, it's just a relief.
04:41It really, truly is.
04:42You have always been precious to me, too.
04:45There's no doubt about that.
04:46Cheers.
04:47When Danielle had left, I thought, wow, okay.
04:51This is my time to step in
04:53because I have been your friend for 14 years.
04:55I have loved you for all these years.
04:57I am the perfect fix.
04:58And I am in the best place that I've ever been
05:01into my whole entire life.
05:04I love being a part of this situation.
05:06And I would just be so devastated if it didn't work out.
05:11And it's as if when we were in a past life,
05:15you put a bell within my soul.
05:18But in order for me to find you, I had to ring it.
05:21I had to be confident enough to ring it.
05:23I had to be wise enough to ring it.
05:26I had to be courageous enough to ring it.
05:28And then there you are.
05:31So is there anything you feel I could be doing more of
05:36in terms of our relationship?
05:38Is there anything that you feel like
05:39maybe I'm not paying enough attention to?
05:43Just cuddle me more.
05:45Just cuddle.
05:46That's it.
05:47That's all I need.
05:48Good.
05:49I'm glad to hear that.
05:50Awesome.
05:50Because we're all loving having you there at the house.
05:53You know, we enjoy it being together.
05:55I like the potential for where this can go.
05:58When Teresa and I, as we've moved into this new dating phase,
06:02you know, it's a different frequency to operate on
06:04than the friendship mode.
06:06We'll go home and check in with the rest of the family,
06:10see how everybody's doing.
06:11Yeah, let's go do it.
06:12I'm doing some data collection here, you know.
06:14I'm trying to get some information here.
06:16I'm taking mental notes.
06:17There's a lot more that I think I need to learn
06:21before we, you know, really solidify this relationship.
06:25Come here.
06:26Come here.
06:26It's my birthday today, and with Lorena here in America,
06:53it's an amazing present.
06:55Yeah, to finally have a sister-wife here.
06:59It doesn't seem real yet, though, but it's like, it's real.
07:04Sister, I cried so much before leaving Rio.
07:07I cried on the plane.
07:09Yeah.
07:09I cried before coming here.
07:11They cry all the time.
07:29Samantha.
07:30They cry all the time.
07:32Well, sexually, I could probably have, like, six wives,
07:40but with the emotional stuff, man, I can barely handle one.
07:46Well, finally found a good girl that wants to love the whole family.
07:51Took you a while, bud.
07:52Six and a half years?
07:55I think the craziness makes it go quick.
07:57When's the wedding?
07:59We've got to get on her.
08:01Figure out a prenup yet?
08:03No, I've talked to her about it.
08:08Me and Sam are business partners, build custom homes together,
08:11so we're vested together.
08:13I expect him to be passionate about the prenup
08:17and just making sure the business is just taken care of.
08:22I think he thinks about his family, too.
08:24Yeah, he's thinking about his kids, his wife.
08:27You know, it's not just me and Lorena.
08:28There's so many other family members involved.
08:31We reach out to a lawyer, and the guy doesn't return, like, five times.
08:36He won't even return our messages or calls.
08:38So Danielle and me found more of a generic one.
08:44Well, it's like, it's a legal prenup.
08:48But what does it say in it?
08:50Well, you can alter it.
08:51You can go in and do some of your own editing through, like, a lawyer website.
08:56They have, like, forms and stuff, legal forms.
09:00Well, I know you and I talked, and we agreed to do that.
09:03I mean, not just for us and the business sake,
09:06because you and I are partners in the business,
09:08but, you know, if you were to just marry Lorena
09:12and something happened to you,
09:14then technically it's all hers.
09:17And, you know, just making sure, you know, Danielle's protected
09:21and the boys, especially Leia and all that,
09:24because you guys aren't legally married anymore,
09:27and just, you know, mom and dad live with you.
09:30I mean...
09:31Yeah, we'll just get that paperwork, like you guys were just talking about,
09:34get the legalities of everything straightened up before the wedding.
09:38I don't want to see any of you guys get hurt, you know?
09:41I got a lot to do.
09:43Maybe you're going to have to help me.
09:44You're going to procrastinate things, bud.
09:4890 days just goes by quick.
09:52Sure.
09:53I'm just frustrated with Garrick.
09:54I definitely think if things didn't work out with Lorena,
09:57it would be very hard for my sister,
10:00it would be very hard for Garrick,
10:02it would make it hard for our whole family.
10:05Oh, my gosh!
10:07Man, dude, that's not enough candles.
10:09It's happy birthday.
10:10Can she have a birthday?
10:12Happy birthday to you, and happy birthday to you,
10:16and feel Jesus near every day of the year.
10:19Happy birthday to you, happy birthday to you,
10:22and the best year you've had so far.
10:26Two years ago on my birthday,
10:28we were with Natalia,
10:31and Garrick proposed to her.
10:34Minha dulcihosa.
10:36Você casa amigo.
10:40Yeah?
10:42Yeah.
10:42Yes?
10:43We all know how that relationship ended.
10:46It was really hard for us.
10:47We didn't know what was going to happen in our marriage,
10:49if we were going to stay together or not.
10:51Now we're here at this point with Lorena,
10:54and there's that fear of, like,
10:57the bomb dropping in a sense,
10:58and we have the whole future ahead of us,
11:01and today's an amazing day.
11:03It's a celebration.
11:04We're all excited and happy,
11:05but what's to come,
11:07and what does the future hold?
11:08I just want to say I'm so blessed for my family.
11:14I thank God every day for all of you.
11:17I'm very blessed.
11:21My sister.
11:22Have you been listening to anything that I've shared
11:34about where we go from here?
11:37About we need more time.
11:39Quality time.
11:40I can no longer deny the fact
11:42that I just need more from him,
11:43and I'm not getting it.
11:44I mean, I'm sure he'll have a lot of questions.
11:49My brother, Joel, is coming over.
11:52How you doing?
11:53I plan on telling him that
11:55we're seeking a sister wife.
11:58Get out.
11:59What kind of freaky stuff is going on over here?
12:01You're too big, Daddy.
12:16Bouncy, bounce.
12:17Bouncy, bounce.
12:18Bouncy, bounce.
12:19Get it.
12:20Get it.
12:20Get it.
12:20Get it.
12:21Come here.
12:21We recently started seeking a sister wife again
12:24for the second time,
12:25and it's already been a little touch and go,
12:28a little dicey.
12:29Yesel told me he's already browsing the apps
12:31without me knowing.
12:33Your turn.
12:34It's Mommy's turn.
12:36How dare you.
12:37I had a conversation with my best friend, Leah,
12:39who's also Yesel's ex-fiancee,
12:41and decided that it's time to sit Yesel down
12:44and have a discussion
12:45and establish some clear boundaries.
12:48So how was your night with Leah?
12:50It was good.
12:51Trickery board, wine.
12:53She grilled me a little bit.
12:55About us seeking?
12:57Yeah.
12:57Good things.
12:59Yeah.
13:00Not sure.
13:00Not legitimate concerns.
13:02I never envisioned Leah and I being as close as we are.
13:07Nobody envisioned that.
13:08But here we are.
13:11Come here, boys.
13:13For societal standards, it's weird.
13:16I think eventually you kind of just get used to it.
13:19You appreciate it,
13:20especially when it comes to parenting our kids together.
13:24It's very healthy.
13:25It's amazing.
13:25I want to say it's just a beautiful thing.
13:29Tell me all about it.
13:31She identified some gaps there were last time
13:33about boundaries that weren't discussed
13:38or some that weren't necessarily respected.
13:41Not going off and making decisions on my own.
13:43Right.
13:44And that's where it fell apart the first time.
13:46Absolutely.
13:46Is, you know, the whole, like, oh, I'm just, we're going to go, we're going to go fishing.
13:51And then, you know, fishing turned into dinner without you telling me you were going to dinner.
13:56And then dinner turned into, oh, we're going to her parents' house for a bonfire.
14:00And then 3 a.m. hit.
14:02So it made you feel like backburnered first time around.
14:08We didn't have the boundary talk.
14:11It was just kind of jump in with both feet and see how it goes.
14:13I was already friends with this person.
14:16So there was already a friendship there pre-established from many years ago.
14:21Just hanging out with somebody.
14:22That's how I saw it.
14:24But I really didn't think of how my wife saw it.
14:27The lack of communication, you know,
14:29just not involving Danny as much in some of the activities that me and this other person were doing.
14:38A big lack of communication.
14:40If I want to stay out with her and you want to stay out with her, fine.
14:44But just, like, pitch it to the other person.
14:46Like, would you mind if?
14:47Okay.
14:48And that needs to be respected.
14:50I would like to take the lead this time.
14:52That way it's a pace set at my speed.
14:57And as far as what we're looking for, what's your vision?
15:04Honestly, for me, it'd be just an adult.
15:08Somebody's got, you know, their life together.
15:11Obviously, we have kids, so that's very important.
15:14It doesn't matter to me if, like, they already have a child versus not.
15:19But if they don't, I don't want another woman to have a child with you.
15:27Wouldn't it be unfair to that person?
15:32Well, that's not what I want.
15:34And that's, for me, that's a non-negotiable.
15:38But you can see how that may create some drama.
15:42I don't feel safe conceiving again.
15:44So, part of my reason is just, like, a little bit of selfishness.
15:49Because what if, what if this woman, you know, has a baby with you and it's a girl?
15:56Yeah.
15:57Like, I couldn't, I couldn't handle that.
16:01I've always wanted a girl, you know, to see another woman have what I wanted so bad.
16:10With my husband, I just, I don't know if I'd be able to, to stomach that.
16:17I'm good at that.
16:21I understand.
16:22I know.
16:22But it's, it's going to bring up a lot.
16:25I know.
16:25I'm with you 100%.
16:27With Danny's boundary, it's just going to make it a lot more difficult to find the woman
16:33that's just going to be, like, oh, no, yeah, that's fine.
16:36I'm okay with that.
16:36It might not be.
16:38Obviously, it does slim down the choices a lot.
16:43You know, I hear what you're saying.
16:45But we need to get this ball moving.
16:47We got to start going out on dates.
16:49My business trips aren't going away.
16:50Me being away from you and the kids isn't going away.
16:53I understand that Yesel wants to speed things up because he's leaving soon and I want to
16:59slow things down.
17:01But from my perspective, this is a major life change.
17:05Like, we're looking for someone to come in for life because this is more than just a friend
17:10to me.
17:11You know, I, I share what it is to be a family with this person.
17:15So I just want to take our time and make sure that this is someone that we, we want around
17:24for life.
17:25The urgency is what scares me because you setting the pace is where it fell through last time.
17:32That may make it just harder to find the right person.
17:36Well, it's not easy regardless.
17:38That's very true.
17:39Hasn't been and won't be.
17:40I can't wait to get the dress off, do you?
17:55Stop it.
17:56We're supposed to be spending plenty of time together having serious conversation.
18:00You don't have to have clothes on.
18:01Why would I have a serious conversation?
18:02Yes, you do.
18:03Serious conversation.
18:04People with clothes on.
18:07No, no, no.
18:09There's no such thing as serious in having it goes off because then at that point it
18:12does become serious.
18:14I try to see Shanae a couple times a week, but life gets in the way.
18:17So sometimes it's not able to happen.
18:19I wish I could spend more time with her.
18:21I wish I could, you know, we can go on trips.
18:24We can plan outings.
18:25We can just do spontaneous things that you normally do in a relationship.
18:30This is cute.
18:32But it's pretty tough because she has a daughter and we're both balancing our kids, work.
18:40Only being able to spend time with Shanae for a few hours inside of a hotel room doesn't
18:45really feel like what I signed up for.
18:48So we're here.
18:49What do you want to do?
18:50I mean, no, we need to talk.
18:58I feel like any time me and Matt get alone, his instant thought is like, let's be close
19:04and let's be intimate.
19:05And normally I'm game, but I can no longer deny the fact that I just need more from him
19:11and I'm not getting it.
19:13Have you been listening to anything that I've shared about where we go from here?
19:17About we need more time?
19:19Yeah.
19:19About we need more time?
19:21Like I'm never too busy for you.
19:23But you can't say that because if that's truly how it was, I wouldn't feel the way that I
19:28feel.
19:29Three years of me giving you effort and I haven't walked away yet, but clearly something is
19:36disconnected if I still feel this way.
19:39What do you need from me?
19:40I need more.
19:42It's just always something.
19:44And it feels like I'm pulling your attention from your family and that obviously means a
19:49lot to me because I love them and I love Angelica, but I can't deny that I need more and I want
19:55more and I deserve more.
19:57I think these feelings are now kind of coming to the surface for me after three years.
20:03And we've talked about marriage and what that might look like and having ceremony because
20:08obviously he's legally married to Angelica.
20:11But having those serious conversations really did allow me to see like this is somebody I
20:15could spend the rest of my life with.
20:18But how much longer am I supposed to feel like I'm going without or I'm the afterthought in
20:22my own relationship before something has to change?
20:26You signed up for this.
20:27But you have a child as well, so I would figure you would know how that feeling is of wanting
20:32to be home and be present with your child, but also want to spend time with someone that
20:36you care about.
20:37I know you need time.
20:39I need time with you as well.
20:40It's a tough place to be in.
20:41It is a tough place to be in.
20:43I want our kids to be a blended family.
20:45But again, if we can't lay the foundation and get us right, how am I supposed to feel
20:52comfortable bringing Michelle into the situation?
20:54Would you ever consider moving closer, way closer to us?
20:59You guys can come to my side of town.
21:02We would love to come where you live.
21:03It's way more expensive on your side of town.
21:07In a perfect world, I would absolutely be open to moving closer to be with them.
21:11We would blend our families, but it would take a serious level of commitment and some
21:18big changes that I would need to see on his end.
21:21Okay, so there are clearly some more conversations that we need to have around where we go from
21:27here.
21:28But I think Angelica should probably be a part of them.
21:31So if I survive with you, I can swing by the house in the morning and we can pick up
21:35where we left off.
21:36Okay.
21:37That's all good.
21:38But in the meantime, I do have an idea of how you can make it up to me.
21:42Go for it.
21:43I need a massage.
21:45Naked.
21:45Naked.
21:46No, not.
21:47No, not naked.
21:49It's right now.
21:49We don't have time for all of that.
21:50Remember, you have to get home to the kids.
21:53I know Matt probably wants to be intimate tonight in the hotel room, but I'm really just
21:58not in that headspace.
22:00There's also something else that I need to share with them, but I think it needs to be
22:03in person and I think they both need to be present for it because it could absolutely
22:07be a game changer.
22:10Come on, man.
22:11I know you can do better than that.
22:12I've seen what those hands do.
22:13If I massage any harder, we're going to miss our check out in the morning.
22:17Well, we're not staying to the morning, remember?
22:19Yeah, we are.
22:21Yes, we are.
22:22Jenny and April are married legally.
22:25I love you.
22:26And I would like to be legally married to someone else to show my commitment to Nick.
22:31I am excited to add another person to our circle.
22:37Oh, um, hey.
22:43We were just talking about how the day went.
22:54It was so much fun.
22:55I really enjoyed it.
22:56Good.
22:57Get a little bit of adult time.
22:59Oh, thank you.
23:04Hello, my loves.
23:08Hello there.
23:09How was your day?
23:11You know, my days are always great.
23:13How are you all doing?
23:15Doing good.
23:15Doing good.
23:16Vera's playing with her siblings.
23:17So, even though we have crazy busy schedules and days and we're all doing our own thing,
23:24we still have just as much time, like, relaxing together.
23:28You know, let's enjoy our evening.
23:29It's almost like a Friday night every night.
23:31For sure.
23:32I mean, Nick sets the mood, too.
23:34Like, he'll come home and he'll have, like, stuff ready for us, whether it's, you know,
23:38a glass of wine or whatever, like.
23:40Music playing.
23:41Yeah, like, he tries to make it, like, an ambiance for us when we get home from work, too.
23:47Teresa was mentioning to me about maybe wanting to go on a date with someone new.
23:53Well, I am excited to add another person to our circle.
24:00Oh, um, you just got here, Teresa.
24:05I know.
24:05Are you sure you're ready to add another person?
24:08Honestly, you know, being your friends for so long, I, you know, kind of prepared myself
24:15if I were to ever be with y'all.
24:17This is back when Danielle was still here.
24:18And I had prepared myself that if I got with y'all, I would marry Danielle.
24:26Jenny and April are married legally, and I would like to be legally married to someone
24:31else to show my commitment to Nick.
24:34I don't want to ever make love to any other man but Nick.
24:37I view this as a lifetime commitment.
24:41Hypothetically, if Danielle wanted to come back, like, what would that look like for y'all
24:46if she, if she did?
24:47Like, I don't know, it, it would probably take something extreme for me to be able to
24:52accept her back in.
24:54Yeah, I, I really, I mean, I love Danielle a lot, but I don't have any desire for that
25:01to happen.
25:02I just want to hope Danielle's happy wherever she is, whoever she's with, you know, I just
25:06hope she finds herself in a good situation.
25:09We would never allow a bad experience with one person to prevent us from potentially having
25:15a great experience with someone else.
25:17That's why we were so open to allowing Teresa to come move in with us.
25:21But after the two-year relationship we had with Danielle and the difficult breakup we went
25:26through, I think we all are feeling like we should be a little more cautious.
25:30Well, I'm excited to share this love that I have with someone else and for me to get, you
25:37know, Jenny and April are married and it would be nice for me to change my last name to Davis
25:41and be married too and find someone who loves you just as much as I do and the girls do as
25:47well.
25:47For Teresa to become a part of our family like that, that's a very heavy decision to
25:55make.
25:56That's something that I put a lot of weight into, so it's not something that I would just
26:01lightly bestow upon someone.
26:03It's getting late though, guys.
26:05I think I want to get ready to lay down, so I'll go as well.
26:10Okay.
26:10I'm not sure how you're feeling, Teresa.
26:12I was thinking maybe we could, you know, take a dip.
26:14Yeah, you'd love to take a dip.
26:17It's a nice night.
26:17Oh my goodness.
26:19Yes, I would love to.
26:20Sometimes I feel like an outsider or a newbie, but again, I think that's just because my last
26:26name's not Davis yet.
26:27I love you.
26:28But I don't want to rush things too much.
26:31I know I've moved in with them and I live here with my son, but I think I would feel more
26:37solidified in my position if I shared their last name.
26:42Oh, you're welcome.
26:45Getting in the hot tub isn't a special occasion at all.
26:47You know, that's Tuesday night around here.
26:49You know, that's any day of the week.
26:51Wow.
26:52Okay.
26:52Okay.
26:56We get a lot of use out of that hot tub, for sure.
26:59I only wanted to be your girlfriend for like 14 years.
27:03That's right, huh?
27:03We don't have to be so far away.
27:09Teresa's a, she's gorgeous.
27:12I mean, she's just absolutely beautiful.
27:14Wow.
27:16But because she was my friend, I had Teresa kind of locked in a different box than apparently
27:22she wanted to be in.
27:23So, I'm trying to make a hard turn, a tough 180, and that's hard to do.
27:30Like I say, I know you're like, you know, interested and kind of eager to find somebody else to come to the family.
27:36But, you know, I'm still kind of enjoying this right now, you know?
27:39Yeah.
27:39Well, you know.
27:41Well, it's not like you can't enjoy this with another person here.
27:45Well, since everyone's asleep right now, I think, um, why don't we go ahead and take a trip upstairs to the boom boom room, huh?
27:52Oh, yes.
27:53Yeah?
27:54Yeah.
27:54I love a bad boom boom in the room.
27:56It's always a good way to end the evening, huh?
28:00Yes, I do love that.
28:02The sex part about it is not difficult.
28:04It's not a sexual hang-up that I have with Teresa.
28:08That's easy to do.
28:10It's establishing the basis for us to actually love each other in a romantic sense that I have been having difficulty with.
28:20In case things don't work out with Teresa romantically, I'm trying to make sure that I don't also ruin the friendship.
28:30And we can cuddle after, yeah?
28:31And we will cuddle after, yes.
28:33Oh, good.
28:33Thank God.
28:36We're searching for a sister wife.
28:39Get out.
28:40They're gambling with their relationship.
28:43You guys are signing up for a problem.
28:45I mean, I'm nervous for them.
28:50I am hungry.
29:05I know.
29:06I am really hungry.
29:07I think I did real good.
29:08Yes, you did.
29:09I did real good here.
29:10Yes, you did.
29:11Well, you know, blame the brother.
29:12We're just waiting for him.
29:14Today, my brother, Joel, is coming over.
29:17I plan on telling him that we're seeking a sister wife.
29:21I think he's a good, like, first person to tell.
29:25Yeah, it is.
29:26We never told either of our families that we were seeking the first time around because I just don't think we were ready to tell them.
29:36And it's possible there might have been some judgment.
29:38Growing up, I was Catholic.
29:41My parents are old school.
29:43Old school Dominican.
29:45I mean, throw the chincleta at your head.
29:48You know, those Dominicans.
29:51It's a good test subject, I think.
29:53Yeah.
29:54I mean, I'm sure he'll have a lot of questions.
29:58I know your brother.
29:59Yeah.
29:59I think this time around, it's starting to get more real.
30:04So, I think it's better to bring him in now than to just one day have a family dinner.
30:10And, hey, this is our wife.
30:12Surprise!
30:14Oh, shoot.
30:14What's up, bro?
30:15Hey, bro.
30:16What's going on?
30:16How you doing?
30:17Chilling.
30:18Welcome, welcome.
30:20Thanks for coming.
30:21Joel, he's always been somebody I can count on.
30:24We're close enough where I feel like he definitely should know.
30:27Hello!
30:28Hey, Danny.
30:29Ooh, I like that sweatshirt.
30:31Hey, how are you?
30:33It'll be interesting to hear exactly what is on that mind.
30:37How you doing, buddy?
30:38Because it is going to come out.
30:42How you been, Danny?
30:44A little stressed.
30:46Yesel's leaving soon.
30:48So, when are you leaving anyways, bro?
30:50My trip's coming up soon.
30:52Yeah.
30:52So, first off, I'm glad you came over today so we can have a chat, have some lunch.
30:57Well, yeah.
30:57Free food, bro.
31:00True.
31:01So, I'm going to get free food.
31:03A Peralta's going to go.
31:04But, yeah.
31:06I wanted to tell you that, you know, we've been searching for someone to join our family.
31:13Um, you know, to add, you know, somebody to our relationship to be basically a polygamous relationship.
31:22With you and Danny?
31:23Yeah.
31:24Mm-hmm.
31:24Um, we're searching for a sister-wife.
31:32Get out.
31:33Mm-hmm.
31:34A sister-wife, huh, Danny?
31:35Mm-hmm.
31:36This is out of nowhere.
31:38Out of nowhere.
31:40I thought he was joking.
31:42I thought he was just trying to see my expression to see how I would react to it, because this
31:46was just out of nowhere.
31:47I wouldn't think that he'd be this type of person that involves another girl into their
31:51marriage.
31:51So, uh, whose idea was this?
31:56Mutual.
31:57Yeah?
31:58Mutual?
31:58Mutual idea?
31:59Yeah.
32:00Just one day I was like, oh, today's the day we, uh, invite a sister over here.
32:07I mean, that's not necessarily a sister.
32:12They'd be sisters.
32:13Yeah.
32:13I'd be more in a relationship with the other one.
32:16So it is like a relationship, a full thing.
32:18Yes, it's a full relationship.
32:20Wow.
32:21Sounds like a party, bro.
32:24What kind of freaky stuff is going on over here?
32:27This is probably the weirdest thing that they have done.
32:29Yeah.
32:29100%.
32:30This is weird.
32:30This is going to make things awkward during family get-togethers, during Christmas, holidays,
32:36birthdays.
32:37You got to give them two gifts.
32:39You got to buy two chains.
32:42I think you're just going to be stretched too thin.
32:45You got the stamina for that, bro?
32:47Oh, my God.
32:48Are you guys prepared for the jokes that will come your way?
32:52Like, people's opinions, I guess.
32:54You guys are signing up for a problem, I mean.
32:59Signing up for a problem?
33:01I mean, for a lot, is what I'm saying.
33:03You know, for a lot of things to come.
33:05Do y'all, what, like, take turns having sex?
33:07Do you, like, uh...
33:09Man, that's an interesting way to put it.
33:11Um, I guess it kind of would be something like that.
33:14What if she introduces another guy into the relationship?
33:17Negative drill instructor.
33:19Nope.
33:20You know, Danny's got to be comfortable.
33:23Danny, how excited are you for this?
33:26I mean, I...
33:27Yeah, I feel like it's a lot, but in the same aspect, it kind of takes a weight off, in
33:35that there's going to be another person here, present, around, help me while he's gone.
33:40So, I think, initially, it'll be a lot, but if we get into, like, a good rhythm with her,
33:46it could work out really well.
33:48As far as, like, her having kids, are you okay with that?
33:53So, I would be okay with raising more kids.
33:56I have no problem with, like, the 3M wake-ups and the diaper changes and all that.
34:03However, I wouldn't want her to have a biological child with him.
34:09Oh, yeah?
34:10So, we will evenly take care of the child not biologically conceived with him.
34:19So, yeah, if you're all even and she says, yo, boom, put a baby in this, like, you know,
34:26you know, you guys don't think it's fair, you know, that she has a kid too?
34:38That's a tough one.
34:39I feel like if you're going to have a strong, healthy polygamous relationship,
34:46everything needs to be fair across the board for everybody.
34:50Everything needs to be equal.
34:51Everybody's got to have their input.
34:53It doesn't need to feel like one person sits above everybody else in the relationship.
34:59You know, I think that'll create a lot of friction.
35:01This boundary has the potential to create a whole lot of friction and push the body away.
35:08Even before the relationship actually begins.
35:12There's a lot of moving parts.
35:13There's a lot of things we still have to maneuver through and then seeing if it all actually comes together or it all just falls apart.
35:21The thing that makes me most nervous about them is that they might break up.
35:27And if they break up, it would be a tragedy.
35:29They're gambling with their relationship.
35:32They've been through too much to let somebody else come along and ruin the good thing that they have.
35:38I'm nervous for them.
35:39I mean, this is dangerous waters, you know.
35:42This is dangerous.
35:43Even I'm getting nervous for you guys, you know.
36:02So, how do you think the party was?
36:05It's your party.
36:06You tell me.
36:09Oh, my gosh.
36:10Oh, gee.
36:11Real?
36:13Bye, dear.
36:15See you, babe.
36:16I see you.
36:17You sleeping good?
36:19I'm pretty good.
36:20I got to spend the night with Eric.
36:22Lorena insisted.
36:26Even though it was her first night in America.
36:28Oh, my gosh.
36:29Si.
36:29Which was very sweet of her because if it wasn't my birthday, she probably would have spent her first night in America with Eric.
36:37What are you doing, little princess?
36:39Yeah, coffee.
36:40That's coffee.
36:42Can you smell it?
36:44Well, did you enjoy the rest of the birthday with our husband?
36:51Muito, Sonia.
36:52So, what are we going to do today?
36:56I'm excited.
36:58Oh.
36:58Sweet.
37:00Mom?
37:01No.
37:02Should we get your stuff?
37:03Unpack?
37:03Yeah.
37:04Yeah?
37:04It's the big moment moving my things from Garrick's room to the sister room.
37:13Hard to decide what to bring.
37:16Oh, my gosh.
37:16I think it's hitting me that, like, we are a plural family.
37:21There's somebody else in the house.
37:23And, like, I'm not always going to be with Garrick.
37:25And, you know, it's change.
37:27You know, change is happening.
37:28It's also strange for me to put my things here.
37:31See?
37:31It's strange you and me.
37:33Yeah.
37:33It's different.
37:34You know, it's been 17 years of just him and I.
37:38I've been thinking we probably need to work out a schedule with changing the sheets.
37:42Like, oh, my gosh.
37:57Like, I'm taking myself out of Garrick's space and, like, what that really means in my mind
38:02and, like, trying to process that.
38:04It's kind of like packing for a trip.
38:06Like, you don't even know where you're going.
38:07It doesn't feel normal.
38:10It doesn't feel real yet.
38:11And I'm, like, wondering when it's going to...
38:13It's going to take some time, I think, to, like, settle in that this is our new normal, you know?
38:17Okay, so you, yeah?
38:20Me, aqui, sim.
38:21Aqui, me, okay?
38:23Sim.
38:23Garrick, me.
38:24Me.
38:25And me need to bring...
38:27Yeah, so I'll have to bring some of this stuff.
38:29Move some of this stuff, too.
38:32I'll take some upstairs.
38:33Ah.
38:34Some, and you share, yeah?
38:36Uh-huh.
38:36It's different.
38:38Everything is different.
38:39More hangers, too.
38:40I think that God already prepared me, because I want to live here with them.
38:44So, at the end, I'll be adapting.
38:46I'll be learning.
38:53It's okay.
38:54Yeah.
38:54I do feel a little bit emotional.
38:59I know it's good, but I'm not sure what to bring and what to leave.
39:02I totally understand, especially because you always kept your things here in the room
39:21itself.
39:21It was just yours, but don't worry about everything now.
39:25You only take the essentials.
39:27I'm just wondering how I'm going to adjust, you know?
39:31I'm just a little emotional, because, yeah.
39:34I've always shared a room with Garrick.
39:36You know?
39:37It's good.
39:38I'm happy, but, you know, it's just me.
39:40I'm just a little emotional.
39:42That's okay.
39:45I know what you're doing, honey.
39:49Reese and I are actually on the hunt for a sister wife.
39:55I mean, I'm kind of speechless.
39:57I would appreciate any help.
39:59So, what's his bedroom type?
40:01Me and you, tonight, in the bedroom.
40:05See?
40:06I was like, wow, I'm excited to love her, make love to her.
40:10It's been eight months since I saw her.
40:13My first night alone, it's just, like, a shock.
40:18How would you feel if I went out on, like, dates with other people?
40:25There are huge deficits in the relationship.
40:28We're at a crossroads.
40:29I'm kind of torn a little bit about what I want to do.
40:32Give me back.
40:33I'm glad you came out tonight.
40:36Thanks for having me.
40:38We met somebody.
40:39Her name is Jackie.
40:40She's got a great pod, you know.
40:42Point blank, are you okay with me having sex with your husband?
40:46Who makes the rules?
40:48I rule with an iron fist.
40:50If he doesn't live up to what we agree to,
40:53then I don't think I can continue to seek a sister wife.
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