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90 Day Fiance The Other Way S07E05
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00:00Previously on 90 Day Gemps 8 goes away.
00:03I unpacked an entire bag.
00:05Not this one.
00:06So proud of you.
00:07It feels good to be back in Aruba.
00:11No, I don't like the noise.
00:13I'm afraid.
00:15Please help me.
00:16If you start it once, I'll restart it.
00:19She's always had everything done for her.
00:21But now we're living together, and I can't
00:23have her have this vacation mode all the time.
00:26Oh!
00:27Yay!
00:29Hazel, it's time.
00:32Saying goodbye to Hazel feels like my heart
00:37is being ripped from my chest.
00:39Bye, Hazel.
00:41But I can't wait to see Matthew again
00:43and feel that spark with the person that I love.
00:51This is our campaign.
00:53Working here is not possible at all, no?
00:55It's small.
00:56For years, I've been the black shape of the family.
00:59It feels like I disappointed them again.
01:06I'm feeling super grateful to be moving in
01:09with Manon's parents.
01:10Oh, my God.
01:11Super cheap.
01:12There's no intimacy.
01:13There's no privacy.
01:15And honestly, staying at the house is just surreal.
01:20Yeah, it's surreal.
01:21Oh, my God.
01:23There's so many problems with the wedding.
01:26She told me if we don't give the money in two days, we're going to cancel the marriage.
01:30Well, how much is?
01:31I said, over $4 million.
01:36I said, over $4 million.
01:38You don't receive the money in December.
01:40No.
01:42You can look at the bank account.
01:45Yeah, we can.
01:46Yeah, we can't.
01:47I already have.
01:48Lo siento, pero es verdad.
01:50So don't get married.
01:52That's simple.
01:53Today's the day.
02:21Greta is arriving in the UK.
02:25Hey, Apple, your mummy's coming home.
02:29Do you know that?
02:30Yes, she is.
02:32I feel like I have a butterfly sanctuary in my tummy right now.
02:37It's been six months since we've seen each other.
02:42That is the longest we've been apart, and it hasn't been easy.
02:47It's definitely a bit of a scramble to get things ready.
02:51But I want everything to be perfect for her.
02:56I better make some room for her here.
02:59Greta is sacrificing everything she has to be here.
03:04Her friends, her career, her cat, to be with me.
03:11It's a lot of pressure.
03:24I just arrived in England.
03:26I'm really excited to see Matthew.
03:28I haven't seen him in six months.
03:30I am on the train, and the next step is to reunite with my love, Matthew.
03:37I've been to England five times, but this time feels really different because I'm starting a whole new life.
03:45I'm an American woman on the way to my English fiancee who lives in the countryside.
03:51I feel like I'm living out of a romance novel right now.
03:56It makes me very excited.
04:03I'm a little bit nervous.
04:22I have no idea what to do with my hands, no idea what to do with my feet.
04:30There's a lot riding on this for me.
04:32I just want to make sure I get it right.
04:34This has been two years in the making,
05:04and it's an incredible feeling to finally start my life with a person who I love.
05:10But I am also sweating more than I would like to be in this moment.
05:34It's been a long time.
05:40I didn't realize you would be right here.
05:42Yeah, right there.
05:44Hey, sweetie.
05:45Did you get a haircut?
05:46Yeah.
05:47You look very different.
05:48It's very short.
05:49I know.
05:50It will grow back out.
05:51All right.
05:52No, we did it.
05:53We're here.
05:54Yeah.
05:55Yeah.
05:56Yeah.
05:57I can tell it was a long journey for you because you stink.
05:59Yeah.
06:00I had to carry some very heavy suitcases, so I got very sweaty, and I smell really bad right now.
06:08Your antiperspirant is fighting on for its dear life right now.
06:10Yeah.
06:11You're welcome.
06:12Let's take you home.
06:13Okay, let's go.
06:14All right.
06:15Can I help you with that?
06:16Why are you being so formal?
06:31Let's take you home.
06:33Let's take you home.
06:35Okay, let's go.
06:36All right.
06:37Can I help you with that?
06:38I mean, why are you being so formal?
06:44I've almost forgotten what it's like to have Greta with me,
06:49to have you with me.
06:51And so, yeah, it's...
06:53I feel very sort of disjointed right now.
06:57So I'm just waiting for those sort of jigsaw pieces
07:00to come back together over the next few days.
07:03It's good to see you again.
07:06There is no return flight booked this time.
07:09That's the first time we've done that.
07:11And now it feels like this is where everything else begins.
07:16This is the crossroad of everything in the future.
07:20Yeah, it feels very special.
07:27Let's go home.
07:29Yeah, let's go.
07:31Damn, you're a really bad B.O.
07:33I know.
07:34Oh, wow.
07:36Thank God I got that loop for you.
07:41I'm not Indian. What did they think?
07:42Progress is good at the cafe.
07:43And I'm not Indian.
07:44I'm not Indian. What did they think?
07:46Progress is good at the cafe.
07:49And things are moving along.
07:51And today we're having a Hindu ceremony.
07:53I'm not Indian. What did they think?
07:55Progress is good at the cafe.
07:57And things are moving along.
07:59And today we're having a Hindu ceremony called a puja.
08:02It's for blessings for our new house.
08:04Oh, wow, beautiful.
08:06Indian lady.
08:07Indian lady.
08:08Indian lady.
08:09My family is very religious.
08:10They believe that people are not good.
08:11It's not good.
08:12It's not good.
08:13I'm not Indian.
08:14What do they think?
08:15Progress is good at the cafe.
08:16And things are moving along.
08:17And today we're having a Hindu ceremony called a puja.
08:19It's for blessings for our new house.
08:21Oh, beautiful.
08:23Indian lady.
08:24Indian lady.
08:26Indian lady.
08:27Indian lady.
08:29Indian lady.
08:30My family is very religious.
08:32They believe that a prayer is required
08:35because we all are moving in with a good intention.
08:38So that's why they choose to do a housewarming ceremony.
08:50Hope it doesn't break the floor.
08:52No, don't worry.
08:54Coconut is a high-hanging fruit.
08:56And it gets the water by itself.
08:58We consider it as pure.
09:00And they're cracking the coconut like,
09:02it's like blessing the house.
09:04It's like as many you'll do,
09:06more blessings to the house.
09:09Okay, hold it.
09:10Both hands.
09:13Oh, my God.
09:14Be careful with them.
09:18And both right hands.
09:20Right leg.
09:22Inside.
09:23One.
09:24Come.
09:25Yes.
09:26Great.
09:27Come over.
09:28That's gonna be...
09:31Carrying the thing on my head,
09:33it's supposed to be like I'm carrying in everything
09:37in the house with me,
09:38like I'm gonna take control of everything.
09:41It's a balanced thing.
09:42If you want, you can get in your hand.
09:44Yeah.
09:45I see.
09:46Okay.
09:47It's not easy.
09:48If you're not used to carrying something on your head...
09:52Yeah, come.
09:53I find these ceremonies to be very beautiful.
10:03The prayer that they're saying a mantra.
10:06Yeah.
10:12I'm so fascinated by it.
10:14How do they remember all these prayers and what to say?
10:18And everybody all says it together.
10:21It's been a surprise for me that Jenny and I are leading the ceremony.
10:38This is amazing.
10:39This is a very good day.
10:41And now all my extended family members are showing up,
10:44and it's this really happy moment.
10:55I don't spend a lot of time around his extended family.
10:59Most of them are going through the complexity of the culture
11:03and that's what makes them like to resist against our relationship.
11:08Jenny, my sister-in-law.
11:11This is like Sri to you.
11:14She's the sister-in-law.
11:16This is true.
11:17This is my sister.
11:19Touch of feet.
11:20No, no, no, no, no, no.
11:22This one, this one.
11:23No, no, no, no.
11:24This one.
11:25This one.
11:26How about you?
11:27Since my extended family members choose to come here for the pooja,
11:31it's a really good sign that they start accepting our relationship.
11:34I think that they need to get to know me
11:37and be happy for us and get over it.
11:41Make small flowers and small, small flowers.
11:47I'm making the middle dots.
11:50You're making the middle dot?
11:51Yes.
11:52Sri is teaching me how to draw vangoli on the floor,
11:57which is usually a flower, some sort of design,
12:01and it's used to welcome the guests and keep negative energy out of the house.
12:11How's my flower coming?
12:13Wow.
12:14You like it?
12:16Let's see.
12:17Who makes it better?
12:19A little bit more here.
12:21What did you make?
12:22You didn't make rangoli.
12:24Sumit Jenny.
12:26Jenny, what are you doing?
12:28Make a flower.
12:29Flower.
12:30I made flower.
12:31Here.
12:32This one.
12:33I made the flower.
12:34Very pretty.
12:36Very nice.
12:37He's saying Jenny didn't make it good.
12:47Why are you having a problem?
12:49No problem.
13:09Someone doesn't like my artwork, so I'm just going to watch.
13:13Should I complete this?
13:15Yours?
13:16Very good.
13:17Very nice.
13:29Why are you bothering?
13:30We're enjoying when you're bothering.
13:41Why are you taking mama?
13:43Jenny, when I eat, what's she do?
13:45Oh, she'll know the battle.
13:46Oh, they are.
13:54Oh!
13:56J'étais malheureuse, misérable.
13:58Manon, moi, ma fille, elle mange pas,
14:01mais pourtant elle est grosse.
14:02Il y a beaucoup de body shaming.
14:04Piense si es que se quieren casar,
14:08porque, pues, esta situación es bochornosa.
14:12I trust Lizana Opinion so much.
14:15He **** up.
14:34Amour.
14:41On va jouer à la pétanque.
14:44So, we've been in Quinte Marseille for a few days.
14:47C'est parti, les amis!
14:48It's a very tiny house,
14:50especially with a little 19-month-old baby boy.
14:55Voilà, va promener Benjamin.
14:57So, plan a little fun getaway
14:59to start fresh with my parents.
15:01Just get out of the house
15:03and we are going to go play some pétanque.
15:10Ah, et bonjour, et bonjour!
15:14The first time playing la pétanque.
15:16Yeah.
15:17Let's see how we do.
15:18Un, deux.
15:19Two people in the same team.
15:20On peut jouer à trois boules.
15:22With three balls.
15:23Un, trois, deux boules.
15:25Three guys, two balls.
15:26Okay.
15:29La pétanque is actually a game
15:31that involves like a little cochonou,
15:33like we call it,
15:34a little small ball and big ones.
15:36Very funny.
15:37And you gotta actually throw the balls
15:39really close to the smallest one.
15:41Et voilà!
15:42You want to actually knock down
15:43the balls that are close,
15:45so yours can stay closer.
15:47And you steal the points kinda.
15:49J'ai pas joué depuis très, très longtemps.
15:55Ah, c'est pas mal ça.
15:57Merci.
15:58Okay.
15:59Hey, Anthony.
16:00Hey, je suis Marseillaise, moi,
16:01dans le sang, eh.
16:07Merci.
16:08Cause you push mine.
16:11Oh!
16:12Okay.
16:13Oh, je suis trop...
16:14Oh, je suis fait genre, hein?
16:15Je suis trop grave.
16:16Oh, tu es trop fort, hein?
16:18Wow!
16:20C'est pas loin.
16:22Pétanque,
16:23it used to be a tradition
16:25as a family when I was young.
16:26During summer times,
16:28my parents didn't have a lot of money
16:29for fancy, expensive vacations.
16:31So they used to rent a townhouse
16:35in a very, very small
16:38Assault of France type of city
16:41where every day it's just
16:43aperitif, lunch, pétanque, and nap.
16:47And you start again in the morning.
16:49Ben!
16:51Ben, il faut que je joue!
16:53Bon, allez, okay.
16:54Voilà.
16:56Ah, Mano.
16:57Faut que je te dise...
16:58J'étais vraiment surprise
16:59quand tu m'as dit
17:00que tu voulais revenir.
17:01Ça m'a...
17:02Je te dis la vérité,
17:03je n'employais pas mes yeux, hein.
17:04J'ai mes oreilles, hein.
17:05Toi qui...
17:06Tout le temps,
17:07je reste là-bas,
17:08je reste là-bas,
17:09la France,
17:10ou la France, voilà.
17:11Parce qu'ici,
17:12j'étais malheureuse,
17:13misérable.
17:14Je me sentais comme...
17:15Je me sentais comme...
17:17Comme...
17:19Comme un ovni ici.
17:21Je me suis toujours sentie
17:23pas acceptée
17:24avec la société,
17:25les amis, tout ça,
17:26mais dans la famille aussi.
17:28Mano, moi, ma fille,
17:30elle ne mange pas,
17:31mais pourtant,
17:32elle est grosse.
17:33Il y a beaucoup
17:34de body shaming.
17:35Ok, je le sais
17:36que je suis différente
17:37des autres.
17:38On a tout le temps cru faire
17:39de notre mieux.
17:40Voilà, le mieux.
17:41Après, je dis pas
17:42qu'on a fait tout parfaitement,
17:43ça, c'est loin de ça.
17:44C'est loin de ça.
17:45C'est loin de ça.
17:46Je suis un peu perdu.
17:47Je ne sais pas si elle
17:49résolvait des choses
17:50avec la famille,
17:51ou si elle a juste
17:52de plus de plus de plus
17:53de plus de plus de plus.
17:54C'est difficile
17:55pour Manoë
17:56de, comme,
17:57de plus de plus.
17:58Mais je me suis certaine
17:59que Manoë
18:00d'être plus en plus
18:01de plus de plus
18:02de plus de plus
18:03de plus de plus.
18:04C'est compliqué.
18:05C'est compliqué.
18:06C'est compliqué.
18:07Enfin,
18:08on le fait pas méchamment,
18:09c'est inconsciemment.
18:10Mais je le sais.
18:11On aime nos enfants
18:12puisque tout le monde...
18:13Bien sûr.
18:14Vous m'avez toujours aimée.
18:15Je le sais,
18:16ça se voit et tout.
18:17Mais je ne peux pas
18:18dénier qu'il y a
18:19certains choix
18:20que vous avez pris
18:21et qui m'ont construit
18:22et fait devenir
18:23celle que je suis aujourd'hui
18:24qui était
18:25une fille pas confiance,
18:26qui pensait
18:27qu'il était un problème,
18:28qui pensait
18:29qu'il était
18:30une erreur de la nature.
18:33Maman.
18:34En plus,
18:35tu apprends,
18:36tu grandis,
18:37tu changes
18:38et tu vois
18:39ce que c'est
18:40d'avoir un enfant.
18:41En plus,
18:42je te dis,
18:43ils ont fait
18:44ce qu'ils ont pu.
18:45Et franchement,
18:46au final,
18:47je suis contente.
18:48Je ne prends
18:49que le positif.
18:50L'important,
18:51c'est que tu sois heureuse.
18:52Et que tu sois bien
18:53où tu as envie d'être.
18:54Qui choisit ta vie,
18:55ce n'est pas les autres.
18:56Et nous,
18:57on sera toujours là
18:58pour toi de toute façon.
18:59Tu le sais.
19:00Oui, je sais.
19:01Merci, je le sais.
19:02Mon ami !
19:03Mon ami.
19:04Mon ami !
19:05but I'm like this is my past life so I just want them to be aware all the ways
19:11of thinking needs to evolve because I'm committed to make it work here in France
19:16so I hope to see them making a change but we'll see
19:35you told me I still do you want it in the booth you don't get it be careful will
19:42you worse I'm sorry for how this is turning out for me so embarrassing
19:49talking about about her please finish with her I don't want to the people see
20:01me fighting okay amor I so so embarrassing Lissana is my pageant coach I work with
20:12Lissana I kind of believe he's making me look like that he say I talk the money
20:17when I don't talk anything it's like he up you're gonna have to have the biggest
20:24problems you're gonna have to have later let's just maybe get back back to it
20:30yo tengo 12 millones de pesos por esta boda es funcionado o no es que no
20:41la decisión es o quitamos algo de lo que está o se cancela la boda
20:49no es normal que una pareja que está a punto de casarse peleando enfrente mío
20:55o sea esta situación es bochornosa limpiate por favor a con gracias siento
21:01que en este momento deberían estar más unidos las diferencias y es la reacción
21:06tan fuerte de mad en ocasiones pues me genera un poco de inseguridad en cuanto a
21:11la boda y de pronto dudas que se generan de que será que si hay matrimonio
21:20venga yo miro la lista y le marco eso los tachamos ok los bailarines
21:27you're getting rid of that one yeah and mariachi desistir de los mariachis
21:32si ya ahora tenemos como pagar 12 millones cierto bueno hermosa entonces para cuando tengo todo esto
21:41yo hablo con todos los proveedores a ver qué podemos hacer pero también es que piensen si es que se quieren casar porque pues espero que realmente más que el dinero los una el amor que es lo más importante
22:04y
22:24It's sick of me.
22:30I am so sick and tired about always I need to forgive him.
22:36And he continued to do ..
22:41My question is, for how long he think I'm going to forgive him?
22:51Who tell you you're going to have to sleep in with me?
22:54If you don't want me sleeping here, I can go sleep elsewhere.
22:57Whatever you want, Madeleine.
22:59I've had a real ..
23:00You think I want to sleep in with someone telling me I still live?
23:02I don't know what you want, Madeleine.
23:04I've had a really long day, and I'm exhausted.
23:07So I apologize for being rude.
23:11I apologize for making you look bad.
23:13I am very sorry.
23:14That is not my intention.
23:17I don't want to fight, but I've given up my life in the United
23:21States and all of my financial security.
23:24She doesn't understand the gravity of the situation.
23:28It's very troubling.
23:30Can we go to bed together on my first night here, moving here,
23:33or would you like me to go to the other room?
23:39Whatever.
23:42You have to understand, I work in hospitality, Chloe.
23:44I have to be nice to people.
23:46You can climb the rope.
23:46Just don't put people on your back.
23:48I can't promise you that.
23:50His literally sole purpose on his job
23:52is to entertain young drunk girls.
23:55And it's like if I worked at, like, a strip club.
24:05That's going to be a beautiful sunset today.
24:07I know.
24:08It's going to be gorgeous, just like you.
24:11Don't start.
24:21Hello.
24:22Good evening.
24:27Now that I'm living in Aruba and I'm finally back with Jonathan,
24:31it is a relief to put everything from long distance behind us.
24:35I really want to become a less jealous partner,
24:40but his job makes that much more challenging,
24:43considering his job is like a strip club located on the ocean.
24:49Oh, electronic mode.
24:51Jonathan has a lot of big dreams, and he told me
24:53that he wanted to go into business together.
24:55I'm hoping part of him truly is considering it because I just,
25:00I don't think I could see the trust coming back truly at his job.
25:05I really don't.
25:06It's actually so pretty.
25:08Mm-hmm.
25:09That's, like, picture perfect.
25:11There it is.
25:14Enjoy, OK?
25:16You're welcome.
25:17Anyway, you mentioned that you want to open, like, a business-type situation.
25:27Yeah.
25:28Does that mean you're going to lean towards leaving?
25:31Yeah, of course.
25:32I don't want to work for somebody, Chloe.
25:34I mean, like, what kind of business are you thinking?
25:38Basically, if I'm thinking I'm starting a business where I could be in the water.
25:44And that's something I can't explain that feeling, you know?
25:48I would always want to work on the water.
25:50You understand?
25:51Yeah.
25:52I mean, but it's up in the air.
25:54But...
25:55Yeah, I know it's up in the air, but I mean...
25:56No, I think that...
25:57We're going to...
25:58We are going to have to help each other in this.
26:00Help you how, though?
26:02Help me create the business.
26:05We can come with a business plan now, and then maybe, hopefully, lucky enough,
26:09we can find an investor to put money into it.
26:11Once I finally manage to get through that, then I will leave Jolly Pirates.
26:15But that's the whole idea.
26:18I think I want to believe him that he wants to open a business together,
26:22but I do feel like part of him telling me all these things
26:25is because he just wants to take my focus off of him quitting his job.
26:30So you think within the year?
26:32Within the year, I will start making bigger moves.
26:35I'll work really hard for, like, a year, maybe two.
26:39So you think you'll be there for two more years?
26:42Maybe two.
26:44Sure.
26:45But what if you find a job that I like sooner than two years or one?
26:55I mean...
26:56Because there's plenty of other jobs.
26:59I've asked Jonathan to quit multiple times.
27:04His literally sole purpose on his job is to entertain young drunk girls in literal dental floss bikinis,
27:14and then put these drunk dental floss girls on his back as they, like, cling on to him for dear life and then flip with them in the air.
27:25Even one more year is pushing it.
27:27Like, you're going to be 33 working on a pirate ship.
27:31I think he would probably stay until the boat sinks.
27:34I don't know.
27:35It's an easy and fun job.
27:37I get good tips on that boat because of the things I can do.
27:40You know?
27:41I snorkel with the people.
27:42I show them all sorts of stuff.
27:44I feel like you don't have to be so much, like, the center of it anymore.
27:46Like, I feel like you can slowly kind of step out of the limelight if you will.
27:51I mean, if I start getting, like, colleagues that start doing what I do, like, nobody climbs the rope.
27:57Climbing?
27:58Okay, you can climb the rope.
28:00Just don't put people on your back.
28:01I'm trying to do that, lady.
28:02I'm trying, but I can't promise you that.
28:05You have to understand that, like, I did leave working on the boat to go work in a hotel because my ex didn't like me working on the boat.
28:14And I did it thinking that it would make things better.
28:17But it didn't.
28:18I know, but I'm not your ex.
28:20I understand that.
28:21So you can't compare.
28:23I understand.
28:24It's going to put me in a situation I've been in before, and I really don't want to do that again.
28:28I was just, like, mad that I had to go to work.
28:31Mad that I was doing what I was doing.
28:33But the work's not always fun.
28:34I mean, I think you can have a good balance.
28:36Yeah, I know, but that's why I'm trying to find a way to respect you as much as I can at work.
28:40So I can stay with my job because that's something I really, really love.
28:44I'm not asking you in this moment to go put in your two weeks.
28:47That's not what I'm asking you to do.
28:48I'm asking on the boat.
28:50Somebody asks, be like, listen, like, I have a girlfriend, whatever.
28:54I know you want to put on a show.
28:56But, you know, leave young girls and dental floss out of it.
29:01Leave them out of it.
29:05You got to understand, you met me on Jolly Pirates.
29:08You know, like, you can't expect me to just change for you.
29:13Just I met you a year ago, and like, oh, I have to change my job and my lifestyle and everything.
29:18If you're going to sit here and tell me, no, I'm not going to stop flipping young, beautiful girls,
29:24then you can easily tell them no as well.
29:27At least have more respect for me.
29:29And if you're going to say no to someone, say it to them, not to me.
29:32The only way that I would leave Jolly Pirates is if I did something for myself.
29:36It's like if I worked at, like, a strip club.
29:41No.
29:42I don't work at a...
29:43Similarly.
29:44I do not, not even...
29:45But it's like if I worked at a strip club.
29:46That's not even though.
29:47Because I'm saying most of your clients are girls.
29:48No, not about them.
29:49What do you mean?
29:50There's kids.
29:51There's families that come on the boat.
29:52In the morning trip.
29:53You know what I mean.
29:54No, in all trips, Chloe.
29:55Like, Chloe, what is wrong with you?
29:57Anyway.
29:58Okay.
30:05Your parents are not here.
30:07Yeah.
30:08I'm seeing my fiancé for the first time in six months,
30:11and I'm sleeping down the hall from his parents.
30:14It's not ideal, especially for the type of stuff I like.
30:27And nothing will ever have to be done with her.
30:29When they don't want a bride,
30:31they don't know how to marry anymore.
30:32Without a bride, they have to marry me too.
30:39In everyone, the Kensington Gardens,
30:42we're coming up, we're coming up now.
30:46In everyone, the Kensington Gardens,
30:49we're coming up, you're not gonna stop us now.
30:53Wow, you're driving more smoothly than what I'm used to.
30:59Not doing any of your speeding antics.
31:01Oh, I've been practicing just for you.
31:04I just arrived in England.
31:06It's been a long day of travel,
31:08and things were pretty awkward when we first saw each other.
31:11I think once we settle in together,
31:15we will feel more connected to each other.
31:18The town still looks the same.
31:20Not much changes in Sleepy Park or Barbara.
31:22It's still pretty cute.
31:25Filled with old people.
31:27Uh-huh, yeah.
31:30Matthew's hometown is like the quintessential English countryside.
31:35There's lots of sheep, a lot of cute little cottages,
31:39and just long country roads leading to nowhere.
31:43Definitely not a place I would choose to live in my 20s.
31:46It maybe would be a place I would live in my 60s.
31:49I mean, I like a lot of the same things old people do,
31:52but I prefer city energy, not retirement home energy.
31:59There we are.
32:06Your parents are not here.
32:08Yeah.
32:09Hi, Nellie.
32:10Hi, Nellie.
32:11Oh, you're my baby.
32:13Yeah, Apple.
32:14There you go.
32:15Hi, sweetie.
32:17I have stayed at this house three times before.
32:21Mommy's home, yeah.
32:22But it's always been, like, a little bit awkward because it's a small space.
32:28We all share one shower.
32:31I don't really have my own place to have my own alone time.
32:36Oh, wow.
32:37You got your new computer monitors?
32:38Yeah.
32:39I'm also seeing my fiancé for the first time in six months, and I'm sleeping down the
32:44hall from his parents, and the walls are pretty thin.
32:49It's not ideal, especially for the type of stuff I like.
32:52Sorry.
32:53I just got that out.
32:54Is this where I put my stuff in these drawers?
32:59Uh, yep.
33:00Everything with a G on it.
33:01But there's stuff in there.
33:02Oh, God.
33:03Really?
33:04Oh, yeah.
33:05These are my shirts.
33:07Oh.
33:08I'll figure that out.
33:10Um.
33:11I guess you have to figure that out now, right?
33:14Okay.
33:15That's mine.
33:16That's mine.
33:17That's mine.
33:18Maybe we should just get, like, a bag and just, like, put everything in the bag and then
33:22figure it out later?
33:23Mm-hmm.
33:24Granted.
33:25Okay.
33:26Put everything in here.
33:29Like, I just don't know why all of this wasn't done beforehand.
33:34There you go.
33:37Three functional empty drawers.
33:39Okay.
33:40I don't know if that's enough.
33:41Can you make me a fourth one right now?
33:43Okay.
33:44Well, I thought there was enough space.
33:49I mean, did you expect me to wear, like, four outfits over and over again?
33:53No.
33:54There's 20 hangers here.
33:55No space for about five or six pairs of trousers down there, seven pairs of shoes.
34:01Seven pairs of shoes are going to fit there and trousers?
34:05Yeah.
34:06Lined up, yeah.
34:07So you don't see space as an issue right now?
34:10No.
34:11I think this is fine.
34:12This is fine.
34:13Should we lay out and start doing the suitcase or...?
34:16Um, I feel like I just want to do that, like, alone because it's, like, too cramped for me to unpack while you're sitting there.
34:21Okay, sure.
34:22Sure.
34:23I'll let you unpack, then.
34:24I can't even know where to put anything.
34:39I know it's, like, so silly to, like, cry over, like, not having the space to put your stuff, but it just feels, like, really discombobulating.
35:00It just doesn't really feel like home, and I'm just, like, coming here and trying to just find the space to put my things, and there's not enough space, and, like, I'll just be living out of a suitcase, basically.
35:14And, uh, it's just, like, it's just, like, a really weird situation.
35:21I just thought he would get ready more for me to come, so it just kind of feels like I'm not really welcome here.
35:32I left home to come here and then just, like, to feel like you're just taking up space that you shouldn't be taking up.
35:40It just makes me really realize, like, I need, we need to find a place, like, of our own.
35:47Because it's just not really gonna work.
35:51I was already a little bit annoyed that Matthew hadn't seriously started looking at apartments for us, and then it doesn't even seem like he was expecting me to arrive here.
36:00It feels pretty inconsiderate, like, I just left Hazel to move here.
36:06He's just not really making me feel at home right now.
36:11How's it going?
36:12Need any help?
36:16You can get me a bigger room.
36:19This one will have to do, I'm afraid.
36:21You can get me a bigger room.
36:22Here, I gotos.
36:23Here, I goto.
36:24Here, how's it going?
36:25Here, how's it going, man?
36:26Here, here, I goto.
36:27Oh, yeah, I've never got it.
36:29I've never got it.
36:31I've never got it.
36:32I've never got it.
36:33I've never got it.
36:34I've never got it.
36:35I've never got it.
36:46Oh, yeah.
36:47What's she doing?
36:50What happened?
36:51Why she took your mom away?
36:57What happened?
37:01Why?
37:02Why don't you go to your home and your home?
37:05It's different from your home, but now we're married.
37:09We're married and we're happy and we're happy.
37:12The biggest thing.
37:14You have more than your home.
37:16What's your home?
37:18I'm happy with you.
37:20I'm happy with you.
37:22I'm happy with you.
37:23What happened?
37:25It's not like that, brother.
37:27It's not like that, brother.
37:28It's not like that.
37:29It's not like that.
37:30It's not like that.
37:31It's not like that.
37:32It's been married.
37:34It's been married.
37:35It's been married.
37:36It's been married without marriage.
37:42I didn't expect that my aunt would start saying all this.
37:46She was fine in the starting.
37:48She came to a celebration and all of a sudden she's getting mad and talking about Jenny.
37:53It's really, like, make me, why and what is going on over here?
38:02Still having a problem with our age gap?
38:04Yeah, age gap thing.
38:05Well, we love each other.
38:07Love each other.
38:08Love each other.
38:09Love each other.
38:10Love each other.
38:15Well, if you don't like it, you don't have to come over here.
38:17Over here.
38:18Over here.
38:20Over here.
38:21Over here.
38:26Over here.
38:36This woman is no girl.
38:39She is not a girl, she is a woman.
38:43But she is with us, and she is happy.
38:46This is the biggest thing.
38:48She is happy.
38:49That's okay.
38:50I don't want to say anything about this.
38:52I don't want to say anything about this.
38:54But she is happy with us.
38:56She was happy with us.
38:58She was happy with us.
39:00She was happy with us.
39:02You said that our family is a family.
39:05She is happy with us.
39:07I am happy with us.
39:09That's why I am happy with us.
39:11I am happy with us.
39:13I am happy with us.
39:15I have been out of my house.
39:17I want to see my family.
39:21Many people say,
39:23what have you done with your son?
39:25I don't think I will go anywhere.
39:28I will stay in my home.
39:31I am happy with you.
39:33But after a few times,
39:35my husband also told me
39:37that you cannot do anything.
39:39You have to have married both.
39:41Then I thought that they have done it.
39:43I will not change you.
39:45I will not change you.
39:49I will not change you.
39:51I will not change you.
39:53I will not change you.
39:55I will not change you.
39:57I will not change you.
39:59I will not change you.
40:01If you think that it is a mistake,
40:03then it will be my son.
40:04And it will be fine.
40:05That will be fine.
40:07I will not change you.
40:09I will change you.
40:11You will change your house.
40:13I will tell you.
40:15Why are you not going to be by the name of the Bohr?
40:17If you are married,
40:18then you will not be married.
40:19If you leave the Jenny,
40:23then you will be married.
40:25You are a very good lady.
40:27You are the part of our family.
40:29Okay.
40:31If you don't have to be married,
40:33then you will be married.
40:35If you have to be married,
40:37then you will be married.
40:39If you don't have to be married,
40:41then you will be married.
40:45It is like all the good work
40:47we've done till now
40:48can be spoiled by one loud person.
40:51It might make my opinion feel like
40:53fighting against the society and culture
40:56is not worth it.
40:58I don't know,
40:59but I think it's very risky for us.
41:02You are going to your family.
41:09Next time on 90 Day Fiance,
41:14the other way.
41:15I'm Patia.
41:16I'm 58
41:17and I'm an exotic dancer.
41:19But now I'm hanging up my cowgirl hat
41:22to move across the world
41:23to be with my boyfriend, Dylan.
41:26G'day.
41:27I'm Dylan.
41:28I'm 38 years old
41:29and I live in Launceston, Tasmania.
41:32We've been together for 12 years
41:34and have broken up 20 times.
41:36I'm just tired of the back and forth.
41:38You know?
41:40I'm not going to keep the breakup,
41:42the makeup, the breakup,
41:43makeup going for the rest of my life.
41:45It's either or get off the pot.
41:48In Oklahoma, I get weekly massages.
41:53I feel like you don't necessarily appreciate
41:55how much I give.
41:58He's never said anything like this before.
42:00I couldn't afford the life that you want.
42:02I'm engaged you for the money.
42:04Is that what you're saying?
42:08Aw, you're so cute.
42:10Sometimes.
42:11We're going to have a day night
42:13and we can put all the fighting behind us.
42:18I think I am stupid.
42:20I didn't do anything.
42:22I just...
42:26Ay, mi amadito.
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