90 Day Fiancé The Other Way Season 7 Episode 3

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90 Day Fiancé The Other Way Season 7 Episode 3  #90DayFiancé #RealityRealmUS Reality Realm US

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00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiance, he goes away.

00:04My name is Johnny.

00:05I'm from the beautiful island of Aruba.

00:10I love you. Love you.

00:11I'm leaving a six-figure job with my mom to move to Aruba.

00:15Okay.

00:16Even though I'm reassuring my mom that I know what I'm doing,

00:19the truth is, I do not.

00:24Bring your head up a little bit.

00:26I met Matthew on basically vegan Tinder.

00:30And I'm giving up a lot to move to the UK.

00:33I don't know how you're going to leave that sweet girl.

00:35I don't know either.

00:36Distressed about living with his parents.

00:39I'm not really good at living with families.

00:41A lot of people get in a situation that you're in,

00:43and they kind of panic about that.

00:45And you're a panicker.

00:49Yeah, about two arms.

00:51A little left.

00:52One and a half.

00:53The entire family, we're going to work together in a cafe.

00:56And it will be the main source of income for the entire family.

00:59What do you think?

01:00Like...

01:02They haven't done anything.

01:04The smalls.

01:08Today, we are moving to France.

01:12And I'm terrified.

01:14I felt like I've been doing, like, solo parenting.

01:18I already told you that I feel I'm bumming.

01:20You're saying that to me?

01:23I know you tried.

01:25And it's hard.

01:26That's why we're going to France.

01:28Let's put it on the side.

01:29But I'm not forgetting.

01:30Hello, hello.

01:31What's up, dude?

01:32I told them.

01:33No bachelor party.

01:34And what walks in?

01:35If Madeline found out about this before the wedding, she'd call it off and dump my ass.

01:56Nice.

01:57Oh, my God.

01:58Oh, my god.

01:59On the earth.

02:00Oh, my god.

02:01Oh.

02:02Oh, my gosh.

02:03Oh, my god.

02:05Oh, my god.

02:06It's terrible.

02:07Fuck, boy, I swear.

02:08But oh, my god.

02:09Oh, my god.

02:10Oh, my god.

02:11AND THE GAME-

02:24I got Chloe coming in, so now I got to get stuff ready.

02:36I got her pillow right here.

02:37She doesn't sleep without the silk, so just small things,

02:40getting her pillow ready.

02:41I got her a whole closet, you know.

02:43She has a lot of stuff.

02:44Like, I can't even explain how much stuff she has.

02:47I got the bathroom right here, and I put a bunch of shells

02:50for her.

02:51I'm nervous, man.

02:52I'm nervous.

02:52I hope it's up to her standards, you know,

02:54because she comes from a very high-end family and all that,

02:59so I'm trying to just, like, you know,

03:01making it comfortable enough where she wants to be here.

03:12The last woman I lived with was my mom,

03:15and so it was different, of course.

03:18You know, your mom is your mom.

03:20Three years ago, me and my ex decided mutually to break up on New Year's.

03:25Unfortunately, I caught her with somebody else.

03:27I didn't really have a place to go, so I moved back in with my mom,

03:31and a few months later, and my mom got really, really sick and had her heart attack.

03:40I spent a good year with my mom before she passed, and she was sick the whole time,

03:44and we didn't know what day she would go, and so when I lost her, it was a complete devastation.

03:50Like, I felt completely heartbroken and destroyed, and that was very hard.

03:57Now that she's gone, I'm really, really appreciating every little thing that she did for me.

04:03My mom was everything to me.

04:08Man, like, you know, I was with my ex, and when we broke up,

04:13and I saw her with somebody else and things like that, I thought that was heartbreak.

04:18I thought, I thought nobody could hurt me worse than that.

04:21But when I lost my mom, when I lost her, then I really realized what heartbreak really was.

04:33Sometimes I feel like I'm a very cold person because, like, I lost a lot of myself.

04:38And it's just, I don't know how to say it, but...

04:45Makes it hard. Makes it very, very hard.

04:51Chloe's my first serious relationship after my mom passed,

04:56and with everything that happened with my ex, of course, it kind of gave me a trauma.

05:01It made things a lot more harder to trust any woman, not only Chloe, but every woman.

05:06But at the same time, I love her, and I think I'm ready to open up my heart again and see where this goes.

05:14I pick her up every time she comes from the airport.

05:17Now she's going to be living with me. She's going to be moving in with me.

05:20So it's like, it's a different, it's a different feeling this time.

05:22It's more of a, more serious commitment.

05:24It's an exciting feeling. It's a feeling of like, yeah, you know, like, yeah, like, we can do this, you know?

05:31And lately, it's, of course, it's been a lot on edge because she's not here with me.

05:34She can't see what I'm doing, you know?

05:35And even though she has my location and all the access to my camera, it's still very hard for her.

05:40You know, it's because of my job, and I kind of understand that.

05:44But, you know, this time, I feel like the moment we see each other, we'll appreciate each other a lot more.

05:49Because we haven't seen each other in a long time, and I know we both really miss each other a lot.

05:53It's a weird feeling, you know? It's like an adrenaline feeling, almost.

06:04It's kind of like when you're surfing, and you're in the water, and you can feel that wave coming up to you,

06:08and you have to, like, really decide you're going to commit.

06:12Sometimes you're in the barrel, you get out with the pipe, you know, you catch some lip. It's great.

06:16But sometimes you eat it.

06:20Chloe never lived on her own.

06:22She never had to pay her own rent, her own electricity, her own water.

06:27Like, I don't even think her own phone bill.

06:29And, like, I'm not some rich guy, you know?

06:34Chloe's mom and Chloe has their minds so wrapped up on money, knowing she has a safety net there.

06:41Any day, she could just be like, hey, you know, I'm tired of this.

06:44I want something easier and just go off, then, yeah, it really does scare me.

06:55I know sometimes the worst is best as pictures fade to show the rest,

07:01but I don't see myself inside this frame.

07:06I'm hearing a love song in the back of my mind.

07:11This is my friend's place.

07:15I crashed here last night.

07:16It's super close to LAX, so very, very convenient.

07:21Getting real.

07:22The wedding is in just over three weeks, and I'm moving to Colombia today.

07:28Madelaine, she thinks I'm coming in two days, but I've changed my flight, so I'm flying out tonight,

07:33hoping to surprise her so that we can fix everything.

07:38You know, we haven't seen each other in months.

07:40And we've been fighting because of money challenges, and she blocked me.

07:45I made a big ordeal about it.

07:47I don't like the fact that she's doing that, you know, three weeks before we're supposed to get married.

07:52So I just want to get down there.

07:54How you doing there, boy?

07:58How's it going?

07:59You all set?

08:00All set.

08:00You taking all that?

08:01Well, it'll just, it'll fit in the back, yeah?

08:03In the back seat?

08:05Yeah, it should be, yeah.

08:06Yeah, it should be good.

08:10I feel like my move to Colombia is me taking one of the biggest risks in my life.

08:16I'm in debt because my investments haven't paid off, and I'm quitting my job.

08:22The distance has been really hard for Madeleine, and she's given me ultimatum where now I really need to move to Colombia.

08:30And because of that, I'm sitting in a position where I feel stressed out financially because I may not be able to provide the lifestyle that Madeleine has grown accustomed to.

08:42And I do worry that she'll leave me if all my investments go to s***.

08:48Can't believe it.

08:49That's all I'm scum, boy.

08:50I know.

08:52How's Madeleine today, boy?

09:01I mean, I think we're both stressed.

09:03I mean, the wedding planner came out with some more costs that we didn't expect.

09:08We're arguing about the finances, and then now she's saying, oh, well, I don't want to get married unless you put the property in both of our names.

09:15And she blocked me.

09:18Ouch.

09:19Right.

09:20I am planning to buy a property and build a boutique hotel.

09:25Madeleine and I are going to be equal partners in this new business, but I would prefer that my name is the only name on the property title.

09:34The reason I want everything in my name is because if it doesn't work out, then I have something to fall back on.

09:40I'm leaving a really good job.

09:42I'm leaving my life and my family.

09:43You're leaving everything.

09:44But she wants it in both of our names because all her other friends, boyfriends, have infidelity issues.

09:52She thinks that I'm going to leave her for another girl, and what is she going to have?

09:56But you're giving up family, friends, job.

10:01You've got to stand your ground, otherwise you'll mincemeat already.

10:05Right.

10:06I'll have to send you a pair of nuts for Christmas.

10:08I don't want to lose her.

10:12And on top of all of that that's, you know, kind of stressing me out, I went over to David's the other day, and they had a stripper come over.

10:22It was a bachelor party.

10:23Yeah.

10:24And it was the one thing Madeleine didn't want me to do.

10:27If she found out...

10:29Oh, she'll go crazy.

10:30You know what?

10:31It's a partnership.

10:33You can't hold lies and tell little white lies.

10:36You've got to be honest for it to survive.

10:38The worst-case scenario for this move is that Madeleine would call off the wedding, and I lose out on the property, my dream, and everything that I've ever worked for.

10:50I don't know how I would get out of that hole, both relationship-wise and financially.

10:57Everything's on the line for me.

11:05Good.

11:06We need equipment for the cafe.

11:07So I called my friend, Rohit.

11:09Don't mind the garbage.

11:12Trash all over the floor.

11:14Dust everywhere.

11:15Look like a junk room.

11:17Can we not stand in here?

11:18It's really gross to me.

11:20For you Americans, everything is gross.

11:23Let's go, let's go.

11:26I just really wanted to feel like it's a new beginning.

11:29But right now, it feels like we are bringing a lot more baggage than the ten freaking luggages we have.

11:37Next time, we are going to be home.

11:39And the money is going to be home.

11:39It's awesome.

11:40We're going to be rich.

11:42We'll see you there.

11:43On our way to the airport, Anthony said to my face that he feels that he is the solo parent.

12:03And honestly, that's just like a dagger in my heart.

12:07Whenever we have a fight, Anthony, he's just like,

12:09OK, great, we had a little argument.

12:11OK, I apologize.

12:13It's done.

12:13We're good.

12:14I'm completely different.

12:16It's actually something that still hurts to me.

12:18I'm going to keep it in my heart.

12:19It's going to hurt.

12:20And I'm not going to forget.

12:22I just don't want to keep fighting before that long-ass flight

12:26and before what we have ahead of us.

12:28It's one step at a time.

12:32Yeah, it's happening.

12:35I'm excited.

12:36I didn't want to hurt Manon's feelings, but it's the truth.

12:42And it's not something I wanted to keep holding on to

12:44because she's already harping about money and finances

12:49and I'm worried that the same issues are going to be moving with us to France.

12:56Leaving LA is just bringing a lot of emotions

13:08because LA is not my home anymore.

13:11I wish that it was a little bit more compassionate.

13:14I just really wanted to feel like it's a new beginning for us.

13:17But right now, it really feels like we are bringing back a lot more baggage

13:21than the 10 freaking luggages we have.

13:23I don't know if we're going to work like this.

13:43We have to start figuring out what are our most important things

13:57that we need to get now to put in there and get it going.

14:03Let's see what he's offering.

14:06He's a friend, so he might expecting me to buy all his stuff.

14:10We need equipment for the cafe.

14:14So I called my friend Rohit.

14:16I used to work in his delivery kitchen, which he closed six months ago.

14:22So I know he's trying to sell his used kitchen equipment.

14:26He blamed you for that a lot.

14:29Why is it my fault?

14:31He always called you, my boss, that, oh, you need your boss permission.

14:36If you're coming to work here, you have to give all the time you have.

14:40I'm not sure about that.

14:42Seven days a week is going to be a big change for Jenny, too.

14:45Everything is happening like what Jenny wants.

14:48What Sumit wants, I also want to know.

14:51He's just jealous because he's still not married.

14:53And he's like, what, is he like 30-something years old?

14:58Rohit has opened so many different businesses.

15:01None of them work.

15:03He gives up on them.

15:06Look at what happened with him and Sumit.

15:08All of a sudden, Rohit decides, I'm going to shut this business down.

15:15Left Sumit out of a job, and now we can't afford our apartment.

15:19I was upset because it's a big setback, but me and him are friends since a long time.

15:30Rohit?

15:31Rohit?

15:31And I think because of the good friendship we are having, that I expect that he's going

15:36to give me a good deal.

15:37Hello, how are you?

15:40Hi, Jenny.

15:41Hi, how are you?

15:42How are you?

15:43Hi, how are you?

15:44Do you remember me?

15:45No, no, I don't remember you now.

15:47Good.

15:47It's been a long time, one or two years.

15:50When me and Sumit started the business, it was running good.

15:54Then I asked him to run the business on his own, and I will look after on my other businesses.

15:59Then after one or two months, I don't know what happened, he started losing the grip.

16:04He only used to open a restaurant for two, three hours.

16:07And whenever I asked him, why you are not coming, he used to say, Jenny won't allow me.

16:10Jenny is not allowing me.

16:12We started losing money.

16:16Don't mind the garbage.

16:18How can I not mind it?

16:20It's everywhere.

16:21There's no mice in here, is there?

16:23Yeah.

16:24This one is gas, where you will cook food.

16:27Everything will be cooked on this thing.

16:29And this one is deep fryer.

16:31Grailer I have, mixer I have.

16:33All this stuff looks too big for our cafe.

16:36You have to make a space.

16:38Without this, you cannot start a business.

16:40Why are you keeping all this like this, man?

16:43Because I am selling it off.

16:44It's better you should give it to me.

16:47Are you thinking that you will get it for free right now?

16:54Can we not stand in here?

16:55It's really gross to me.

16:57Can we talk outside?

16:58For you Americans, everything is gross.

17:00Yes, we can go.

17:02Seriously, it looks like a bomb went off in here.

17:06Trash all over the floor.

17:08Everything, dust everywhere, dirty.

17:11That's all the stuff of his ex-businesses.

17:15Whatever he failed with, he could bring the stuff and throw it in there.

17:19It looked like a junk room.

17:21It looked like a junk space.

17:22So, what kind of stuff do you want?

17:26I want griller.

17:28I want deep fryer.

17:30We are doing mostly finger food, like sandwiches.

17:35We have french fries, burger.

17:37Coffee.

17:37Like, who will be your chef?

17:39She can cook.

17:40She can cook, you know, spaghetti.

17:42Yeah, I can make spaghetti.

17:43I have been to your house.

17:44Okay, it was very good spaghetti.

17:50Why is that funny?

17:52Nothing is funny.

17:55Well, your business was so good.

17:57It shut down, right?

18:00Okay.

18:00You can start a business without a chef.

18:04You both are good chefs.

18:06Yeah, we are.

18:07You can run.

18:07I know that you are not running the business.

18:10So, that's why I thought, like, I worked for you for so long.

18:12Now, you're going to give me something.

18:14Not for free.

18:15Like, I'm not asking you for free.

18:17I'm asking you on credit.

18:23It's not possible.

18:24I will not give on credit.

18:25Why are you not going to give?

18:26I don't know whether you will run the business good or not.

18:30It looks a little jealous to me that I was working for him

18:34and now I'm all going to open my own place.

18:37And that's why he didn't want to, like, see me successful

18:40in the same business where he is losing.

18:43I was hoping, just because of our friendship,

18:46he will try his best to make things work out for me.

18:49But I think jealousy is not letting him do that.

18:55I will give you a discount as it is secondhand now.

18:58$35,000.

19:00Let's lock the deal for $40,000.

19:03You don't want to help me?

19:05I am helping you right now.

19:06Why I called you here then?

19:08I'm saying that within two months,

19:10I'll give you money back.

19:12Let's make a deal for $35,000 as you are starting new business.

19:15I will not put pressure on you.

19:16$35,000 and first month is free.

19:19From second month, you have to pay my money back.

19:22Yeah, I'll give you.

19:23Okay.

19:25Sounds good.

19:25I don't think that they have any clue what they are getting into.

19:32Because running a restaurant here in India, it's very difficult.

19:36Like, whole family is working.

19:37And when a lot of people are there, there will be a clash.

19:41If they start fighting, then I don't know what will going to happen.

19:45I don't know.

19:46Okay.

19:47Thank you, sir.

19:56When I'm around you and Hazel, it's not even like I'm a third wheeler.

20:00It's like you two are a bicycle, and I'm just spectating.

20:04Matthew thinks that I love Hazel more than him.

20:08And that's true.

20:13Oh, look who it is, dude.

20:14It's mommy and puppy.

20:15I feel very optimistic being here.

20:19Like, it is the start of a new chapter for us.

20:22I bet you're here.

20:23No, it's not fun.

20:24No.

20:25No.

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20:49Hi, honey.

20:49How are you doing?

20:50Hey, darling.

20:51Yeah, I'm pretty well, but a little bit stressed.

20:54I've got you moving over in a few days.

20:58And I'm so stressed, it's even brought a massive pimple out of my nose.

21:01Holy .

21:03that's you don't worry honey i'll still hug you and make love to you even if you have a giant spot

21:09on your face you'll still love me you'll still love me okay that's reassuring good to know yeah

21:15are you looking at apartments for us

21:18i might still have to do that

21:29oh i've been very busy come on you know that yeah i mean you just know that you live with your

21:40parents and their house is really small i think the word is cozy i thought matthew would have an

21:49apartment locked down for us by the time i arrived in england so we wouldn't be stuck at his parents

21:53house for a long time they've always been very welcoming to me whenever i've stayed with them

21:58in the past but i always feel like i'm in their way plus they live in this little remote village

22:04like it takes an hour to walk to the store so when matthew's at work i'm going to feel like i'm

22:10stranded do your parents have space in the fridge for our food i can show you something

22:17one slight snag for the food arrangements is probably this freezer

22:23holy oh my god what is that

22:27this is an entire lamb rib cage

22:32my dad when i was growing up was a butcher so you open the freezer and there you are there's a

22:49morgue right in front of you but when i was at university i decided that i loved animals too much

22:55and i've been vegan for about eight years my family respect that although they do still eat

23:01a lot of meat that's just par for the course of country living that was hazel

23:06oh she was meow screaming at me all day today but tomorrow is when her new um owners come

23:18it'll be the worst day of my life you always have apple here apple is not hazel honey

23:26i'll go get it

23:31hi baby apple hi baby that's your mummy even though she doesn't want that's your mummy

23:39that's not true he's just not hazel

23:42i feel emotionally connected to hazel and she's extremely emotionally connected to me and we can't

23:52help that when i'm around you and hazel it's not even like i'm a third wheel it's like you two are

23:59a bicycle and i'm just spectating the love triangle that's a straight line between you and hazel

24:05matthew thinks that i love hazel more than him

24:09and that's true but i don't know what to do about that i don't want to make him feel bad or make him

24:18think that i don't love him because i do it's just that hazel and i have spent so much more time

24:24together and it's going to be a huge adjustment for both me and hazel when i move

24:29honey i'm very emotional about having to leave hazel in the states

24:35and this conversation is not helping

24:38there are any ways i can put you at ease i think i will be more at ease once we are together in the

24:48same place i'm about to change my whole life because matthew is a connection i've been waiting

24:54for i'm doing the best i can to be excited but i'm not going to sugarcoat what a sacrifice it is to

25:01leave my baby behind

25:04it's not going to be easy but i'm 100 confident that we'll get through it together

25:11oh there's a place right here boy

25:27hell yeah

25:28hell yeah

25:32thanks for driving though yeah no problem boy

25:34can't believe you're leaving your home country i don't think it's hit me yet

25:46nah i think it's more like when i when i get on the plane

25:49i'll probably cry like a baby driving home

25:52yeah nah it's a huge step but it reminds me of

25:59when i left england and go to south africa same thing

26:02huge leaving your family is so

26:06so hard

26:08because it ain't like we're stone slow away

26:12it upsets me to think that luke is leaving us

26:16i'm going to miss his company

26:18they grow up and they move out but it's tough to deal with you know because he'll always be my little kid

26:25i feel like the stakes are so high just please god you're doing the right thing

26:31he's scared it'll be absolutely heartbreaking for all of us if it fails and it is tough

26:38saying goodbye to him but it would have been a lot tougher if we weren't going down to the wedding in two weeks from now

26:46i know you're struggling with money and that so i've just got you a little

26:53that'll help with paying some of your bills that you're going to be going to

26:56yeah thank you dad

26:57and i sincerely hope that

26:59all your dreams come true

27:01you've got a heavy heart right now

27:05i really do boy

27:07i love you so much

27:09you're the best dad i love you so much

27:18my dad giving me three thousand bucks

27:24he didn't have to do that but i appreciate it so much

27:27i mean every little bit counts

27:29i have a really good dad still can't believe it though

27:36it sucks

27:37i know

27:40take care

27:42keep that check safe

27:44i'll freeze you in your place keep that image for all days

27:54i'll be bored

27:56keep it close to my chest

27:58just till it's all that we have left

28:01it's surreal i don't think it's really hit me

28:07i'm scared i have a little bit of doubt

28:11i'm happy at the same time

28:13i can't wait to see my girl can't wait to start a new life

28:17do you have room in the front bro could you hold my suit

28:21i'm getting married doc

28:23holy

28:25what am i getting into

28:27appreciate it

28:28thank you

28:30while i'm psyched to finally live everyday with a woman that i love

28:35i can't help but feel like i'm jumping out of a plane

28:38fifteen thousand feet in the air without a parachute

28:41and i'm scared of heights

28:43don't stray too far

28:46keep home inside

28:49good bearing

28:51how crazy is that

28:53girl i'm on your side

28:55together we will make it through i swear

28:58let's go man

29:06i'm so happy chloe's back in aruba

29:08but i don't know if she's ready for this

29:10whoa what's over the cone

29:11i'm sorry

29:12oh

29:14we just need more closet space

29:17did you get hot water

29:19all right i made it i'm so excited i can feel the warmth

29:24i took off my layers

29:26because i was dying on that plane it was literally 9000 degrees

29:31and i can't wait and now i have to go get my bag hopefully i don't lose it

29:35because i'll cry

29:36i just arrived in aranyastad aruba

29:37i just arrived in aranyastad aruba

29:38i just arrived in aranyastad aruba

29:42and this time i have like a one way ticket like i just am here and that's it

29:49so i feel i wouldn't say like anxious but i think equivalent to cheerleading when like

30:14when like my coach would be yelling at me

30:16and then she'd be like, okay, time to go on stage.

30:18And that feeling of like, oh crap,

30:21like I'm here, I have to go.

30:23It's literally, it's like the same.

30:41Chloe, Chloe.

30:44Chloe.

30:45Chloe.

30:46Chloe, how are you?

30:49Chloe, how are you?

30:51Chloe, how are you?

30:53Chloe, how are you?

30:54Chloe, how are you?

30:55Chloe, how are you?

30:56Chloe.

30:57Chloe, how are you?

30:58Chloe, how are you?

30:59I'm gonna have all my chapstick all over you.

31:00Yeah.

31:01Am I pale?

31:02No.

31:03We did it.

31:04You did it.

31:05Well, I did it.

31:06But I'll take one.

31:07I'll take both.

31:08I don't care.

31:09You just hold your powers.

31:10Oh.

31:11Oh.

31:12Are you excited?

31:13Come back.

31:14Yeah.

31:15Do you think I wasn't gonna come back?

31:16I don't know.

31:17Sometimes you argue with me and you tell me when.

31:18Ah, here we go.

31:19Love you too.

31:20I love you too.

31:21I love you too.

31:22Oh my god.

31:23Oh, watch over the cone.

31:24I'm sorry.

31:25Collision.

31:26Collision with the cone.

31:27I feel like my first step, I need a shower so bad.

31:30I feel just like a mess.

31:31And I'm starving.

31:32And then I'll go to bed.

31:33Don't wake me up.

31:34Maybe.

31:35I'll come at you.

31:36Yeah.

31:37I'll come at you too.

31:38Jonathan!

31:39What?

31:40What?

31:41What?

31:42What?

31:43What?

31:44What?

31:45What?

31:46Maybe.

31:47I'll come at you.

31:48Yeah.

31:49I'll come at you too.

31:50Jonathan!

31:51Oh my god!

31:58It feels good to be back.

31:59Yeah.

32:00It feels good to be back.

32:01It feels good back to be back with me.

32:04I would literally never come here if you weren't here.

32:06Oh.

32:07I think it's special.

32:13Oh!

32:14Oh!

32:15See it?

32:17I'm going to get bit by a squeed-o.

32:20I'm so happy Chloe's back in Aruba and that she's finally moving into my house.

32:25But I'm very, very worried because, you know, I don't know if she's ready for this.

32:31Every time Chloe came to Aruba, she was always in a vacation rental.

32:35And now that she's going to live with me and my home, I'm going to see, like, hey, are you in this?

32:43Are you ready for something real?

32:48You remodeled the place.

32:50Yeah, right.

32:51You ready to unpack a little bit?

32:53It's like a tomorrow thing.

32:55You want to do it tomorrow?

32:56I'm so tired.

32:57I need to find my other silk pillowcase because I know I had another one.

33:02I didn't even know silk pillowcases really existed before I met you.

33:07You don't get wrinkles when you use a silk pillowcase, like, right here?

33:11Hmm?

33:12No.

33:13Okay.

33:14And then the Botox helps.

33:16Wow.

33:18I mean, it is what it is.

33:22Honestly, we just need more closet space.

33:26We need...

33:27Did you get hot water?

33:31Oh, I have to still install that.

33:35We need hot water.

33:37Most people don't have hot water in Aruba because, you know, it's more of a...

33:40It's an expensive thing.

33:41In Aruba, it never gets that cold.

33:43I'll actually pay for the water bill if we get hot water.

33:47I will pay for it.

33:48I will.

33:49It's like...

33:50It's a lot, though.

33:51Imagine if it becomes, like, $100.

33:53Like, the most I'll pay is...

33:54I'll still...

33:55I'll pay the $100.

33:56I'll pay the...

33:57No, I'll pay the $100.

33:58In the States, when it's winter, hey, you need hot water.

33:59But here in Aruba, there's never any snow, ever.

34:00No winter.

34:01The coldest it gets is, like, 75 maybe, if it's raining and storming and the winds are blowing.

34:16So the water is never, never cold.

34:19I'm ready for bed.

34:20Let's go to bed.

34:23What scares me is that Chloe is spoiled.

34:27Chloe is spoiled.

34:28Like, she's so used to this luxury lifestyle.

34:31I'm kind of worried that, you know, when she lives with me, she kind of realized, like, oh, this is much more simpler.

34:37Time to shower?

34:38I'm gonna shower.

34:39I'm gonna shower.

34:40I'm gonna take it this hour.

34:42I don't know if she's gonna be satisfied with that, you know?

34:46Makes me think, like, hey, is she really ready for this?

34:49Watch the limbs.

34:51Watch all the limbs, right?

34:52Yes.

34:55After 10 years, I'm coming.

34:57Here you go.

34:59I cannot be like, yeah, Marseille.

35:01I love it so much.

35:02No, I don't.

35:03I promise to never come.

35:05It's true.

35:06But you're going to be with me, chérie.

35:07I thought you were going to be a big ****.

35:09No, no.

35:14Yeah.

35:16Oh.

35:17This is two, three.

35:30I don't see four.

35:32After a total of 17 hours with two flights and an extended layover, we've finally landed

35:40in Marseille.

35:41There you go.

35:43Choo-choo.

35:44Minona and I got into a big argument on the way to the airport.

35:48And I feel like she is a little bit distant.

35:51But I feel very optimistic being here.

35:55Like, it is the start of a new chapter for us.

36:01Oh, look who it is, dude.

36:02It's mommy and papi.

36:03It's mommy and papi.

36:08Oh, Tony.

36:10Oh, my God.

36:11It's mommy.

36:12It's a little bit too.

36:14Coucou.

36:15Hello.

36:16How is it?

36:20My beauty.

36:22My beauty.

36:23How are you?

36:24How are you?

36:25How are you?

36:26After 10 years.

36:27After 10 years.

36:28There you go.

36:29Oh, my goodness.

36:30Ah.

36:31It's alright.

36:33It's not too hard.

36:34Benji, it's mommy.

36:35It's mommy.

36:36It's mommy, Sabrina and papi, Yolu.

36:39You remember?

36:40How is it?

36:41How is it?

36:42How is it?

36:43How is it?

36:44How is it?

36:45How is it?

36:46How is it?

36:47It feels bitter sweet.

36:48Okay?

36:49I cannot be completely ecstatic.

36:52I cannot be like, yeah, Marseille, I love it so much.

36:55No, I don't.

36:57I'm sorry.

37:01But seeing my mom and my dad, seeing Ben

37:05that they haven't seen in forever,

37:06they only seen Ben once,

37:08made me kind of like forget a little bit where I was.

37:19He's timid, he's timid.

37:22I'm actually home.

37:24It fills my heart with a lot of joy.

37:27In Los Angeles for nine years?

37:29And now they come back to Marseille.

37:31Like that, Marseille has called me.

37:35It's all right, it's all right?

37:36No, it's not going to go.

37:38You're going to be with us.

37:39I promised never to come back, that's all.

37:41You're going to be with us, Siri.

37:42I thought I was going to be a big ****.

37:45But no, but no, but no.

37:46It's all, it's hard.

37:48You're going to create a family, you're going to create a family, my dear.

37:51Yes, of course, of course.

37:54I'm happy, my daughter is here, I'm happy.

37:57My little son, my little son, my little son, my family.

38:00We're going to meet, it's great.

38:02We'll be back all, don't worry about it.

38:05Don't worry about it.

38:06She told us that she won't come back after nine years.

38:09She will always change her opinion,

38:12return to the USA or elsewhere, I don't know.

38:16We'll support her what they decide to do, all of them.

38:19All right, Benny.

38:21We'll make you discover your country, France.

38:25We land in France and immediately Menon's like,

38:29oh, here we are back in France, said I'd never come back.

38:33It's been a really rocky road to get to this moment

38:36and we need to try to make this work.

38:38I think time will really tell whether or not she's going to want to stick it out here.

38:42So, I'm just a little worried about that.

38:52Continue it.

38:53Oh, nice.

38:54No, I think it's...

38:57Well, it's 10 years of my life, OK?

38:58He says, valise for 10 years.

39:00When I am around my family, I feel easily triggered

39:05because I feel like I'm the Manon 1.0

39:09from when she was a teenager back home in France.

39:13It's the family.

39:16In French, we said,

39:17tu dois rentrer dans le moule.

39:18You have to fit the mould.

39:21My biggest fear is that it took me 10 years

39:25to really found who I am

39:27and really be happy with myself.

39:28And now I feel I'm regressing 20 steps backwards.

39:33What about the core person that I am?

39:37Like, am I going to actually lose myself again

39:41because I have to fit everybody else's idea of what I should be?

39:46So, I don't know what the f*** am I going to do?

39:55Next time on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.

39:58I need to at least eat first.

39:59Can you think you can manage making boil eggs?

40:03No, I don't like the noise.

40:04Don't, I'm afraid.

40:06I'm scared so much.

40:08Come in, come in.

40:09Please help me.

40:10Now we're living together,

40:11and I can't have her have this vacation mode all the time.

40:14Oh!

40:18Thank you for all the smiles and laughs.

40:21Saying goodbye to Hazel, it's like my heart is being ripped from my chest.

40:26Bye, Hazel.

40:28Now that I'm leaving for the UK,

40:30I'm going from living alone with my cat

40:32to living with my fiancé and his parents.

40:35I'm feeling super grateful to be moving in with Minot's parents.

40:44Bienvenue chez vous.

40:46But the house is a boîte à sardines.

40:49Oh my God, c'est petit!

40:51I could not sleep because I feel I'm never good enough.

40:55I'm here in France to save her marriage.

40:57I have a lot to work on and she has a lot to work on.

41:00I'm here to say you already send me more money when you don't.

41:14He never know where he take the money.

41:17Yo mandale por esto.

41:19Sí, claro.

41:19Mentiroso.

41:21Lo siento, pero es verdad.

41:23So don't get married, ya sin vos.

41:26No.

41:27No.

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