Married at First Sight UK Season 10 Episode 13

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00:00...and family...

00:01He is a puppy dog, realistically,

00:02that just wants to live.

00:03...prompted a breakthrough for Grace and Ashley.

00:06There's so much I do love about Ash.

00:08I am feeling way more hopeful now.

00:12Tonight...

00:14I'm first, I'm first.

00:17As In-Laws Week continues,

00:20an inquisitive mother...

00:22So have you had sex?

00:23When was the last time you had anal?

00:25...gets more than she bargained for.

00:27No, not that.

00:28Like, just sex in general.

00:31...and protective friends.

00:33I don't agree with people that, like, shout to communicate.

00:35You yelled at me multiple times.

00:38Did I not take accountability for it?

00:40I think it did.

00:41...pull Julia, Ruth and Devani further apart.

00:44If I feel like I'm being attacked verbally,

00:47my body will shut down.

00:48This isn't normal.

00:53...and two new singles.

00:55Getting married will change my life.

00:57It's just that final piece of the puzzle.

01:00Meet and marry at first sight.

01:03I actually fancy him.

01:04I love you late in, you know, I'm like, oh!

01:07But an overexcited bride...

01:09...rings alarm bells for her groom.

01:13She's 100 miles an hour.

01:15But I hope it doesn't turn to 1,000 miles an hour.

01:19Buckle up, because he's in for a good ride.

01:21Morning, wife.

01:29I love the energy.

01:31Morning, husband.

01:34How do you feel waking up with wife?

01:35I look nice.

01:36Is the face still on the finger?

01:38Yeah, I like having on.

01:39Yeah, same.

01:41Same.

01:41Waking up and looking at John, I was still just staring into his eyes.

01:45He still has the most amazing eyes, even in the morning.

01:49Does yesterday just feel like a bit of a mad dream?

01:52It was the best day, though, honestly.

01:54I couldn't have asked a better husband to wake up next to.

01:57Honestly.

01:58I feel a spark already with Abby.

02:00It felt so natural waking up with her this morning.

02:04And I'm just excited to learn more about her.

02:06As Abigail and John settle into married life,

02:11another hopeful single prepares to enter the experiment.

02:15Max!

02:16He's pretending to cry.

02:18He's such a little attention seeker, isn't he?

02:21Oh, my kids, aren't he?

02:24Hello!

02:27I would describe myself as bubbly, scatty, a bit crazy.

02:32I never stopped talking.

02:38Energy!

02:39Where's the air gauge?

02:40At school, I was constantly being told to.

02:45Did I listen?

02:46No.

02:48Bingo!

02:49Ready to move, girl!

02:51I work for a dental company.

02:55I have kissed guys in the past where I've thought,

02:57ooh, you've got gum disease.

02:59The reason why I am single is because I am oozing desperation.

03:07If I meet a guy that I even just a little bit like,

03:10I am full on, I am in love.

03:13First thing I say is, I want a family, I want a big house,

03:17I want this, I want that, and they go, whoa.

03:21She's a lot.

03:22That is what scares everyone.

03:24So I'm too much.

03:27You're a bit full on.

03:28Too much energy?

03:29Yes.

03:29I think, yes, you need to just turn it down a bit, yes.

03:33I love how positive you are of your daughter.

03:38I'm going to get married.

03:42I'm such a hopeless romantic.

03:44Anybody that knows me knows that I am desperately looking to find the one.

03:50And I feel like guys like the chase, they ain't chasing.

03:55I'm fricking chasing.

03:57I love the chase because then when I get them, it's like, yes, come on.

04:02And then when I give them my everything, they don't want me anymore.

04:09So have you been out there in the dating world?

04:12Unfortunately.

04:13Every single time I was with someone and thinking it was going to go somewhere and then for whatever reason, it just didn't, it was breaking me.

04:24I actually felt like it was ruining my confidence.

04:28Yeah.

04:28I felt like I was disposable, but I'm more than that.

04:36My most recent relationship, I was with my partner for six years.

04:41We split up because I wanted to start a family and we just weren't on the same page anymore.

04:48Like, I want to build a family.

04:49I want what my sister has and what my mum and dad have had.

04:53And I've just never...

04:55Oh, sorry.

04:57It's okay, darling.

05:00I just think I've never understood why.

05:03I've never been, like, I've never been chosen.

05:08I seem to give all my love to someone.

05:11And for them, it's like, oh, she's too much, she's too much.

05:14Do you think you are too much?

05:16Yeah.

05:18I don't think you are at all.

05:21You're not too much.

05:23All I want is to find someone.

05:28I come across really confident, but I'm a young girl at heart that wants to be loved and taken care of and nurtured.

05:37I'm missing that love.

05:39I feel like I really crave love.

05:44Oh, wow.

05:46Stunning.

05:47Gorgeous.

05:48If he doesn't like me in this, I've got no chance.

05:51Very true.

05:55My perfect husband would be good-looking, charming, good banter, masculine, good energy, hard-working, nice family, good values.

06:11I'm basically just describing myself in a male version, I think.

06:17Come on, let's do this.

06:18Bonjour.

06:23How are you doing?

06:24When people first meet me, their first impression, they might think I was a bit, like, maybe Flash.

06:32Why do you think that they think you're Flash?

06:34Probably because of the looks.

06:38Without a shadow of a doubt, I'd definitely consider myself to be a pretty boy.

06:41The checklist before going out is the barnet looking sharp, a few little squirts, a splash either side, maybe even one at the back in case they creep from behind.

06:53If I was to go for a certain woman, I would initially look at her teeth, her smile.

07:01I'd get a bit silly and start even looking into their walk, making sure they have a nice walk as well.

07:05A good walk for a woman is when the legs sort of go one by one, not side by side.

07:13With girls, I love talking about the universe, aliens.

07:17An absolute, like, sort of an alien would look like someone like Megan Fox, I would think.

07:21Like, even though I knew she was an alien, I probably would marry her, yeah.

07:29I might look like a stereotypical Essex boy, but there's a lot more to me deep down.

07:35You're a bit tarnished with the same paintbrush, don't you?

07:38I've got my own business. I do paint and decorate him.

07:41You do the ceiling.

07:43Even the back wall to the master.

07:44Lovely.

07:45Even though I am the boss, I still don't mind getting my hands dirty.

07:49I've never been shy of a bit of graph.

07:51I'm going to leave you to it.

07:52Happy days. Thanks, mate.

07:52Good man. I'll see you in a bit.

07:53In a bit.

07:55Wow.

07:56Where are you going?

07:57I don't know.

08:00Two lemon teas here.

08:01Thank you, darling.

08:02I'm very close to my family.

08:06Feeling lucky?

08:07Always.

08:09My nanny, my nanny Linda, she's like an angel.

08:12Honestly, it's like a woman falling from heaven.

08:15She's my rock.

08:16Love a game of chess with her.

08:17Are you ready for this?

08:19Are you ready for that?

08:22My nanny and granddad have had a romantic relationship for years, and I look up to that.

08:26You're never bickering.

08:27So that's what I'm hoping my marriage is going to be like.

08:30I would hope that for you.

08:31I'm an old romantic.

08:32When I'm with a girl, I always treat her very well.

08:35I talk to her nicely, open the doors, open chairs.

08:38My future wife-to-be, she's going to be impressed with all my romantic traits.

08:43You could be the perfect husband, actually.

08:46I've learned from the best, and I want a bit of that.

08:48I miss being in a relationship.

08:52You can't really beat it.

08:53I don't know if I've found the full package.

08:55I do choose the wrong girls.

08:57My last relationship, unfortunately, comes to an end because the bickering become too much.

09:02I've been heartbroken in past relationships.

09:04When a girl leaves you, I feel abandoned and just feel lost.

09:09Marrying a stranger will work because I'm willing to do anything to find the perfect one.

09:13Can you tell me anything about her?

09:14I cannot.

09:17No.

09:18Do you think she'll love me?

09:19Yeah.

09:21We want to see you happy, and we want to see you settle down.

09:24It's about time.

09:25And we want little pretty babies.

09:26Oh, yes, me too.

09:28You're ready for this?

09:29Yeah.

09:33When I get married, I don't want to be having kids and breaking up.

09:37No way.

09:38I want to do my best to keep that all bonded and sealed together forever.

09:41When I was seven years old, I found out that my dad wasn't actually my real dad.

09:49Looking back at the time, I was only a young nipper.

09:52I didn't really know what was going on.

09:54It was just a bit of a whirlwind.

09:55It was a lot to take in.

09:56That's why I've got to do it properly.

09:58I've got one shot at it.

09:59It's got to work.

10:00Why is this important to you?

10:04I need someone who's going to love me for me, and not just disappear when things get a little bit tough.

10:12I've been through that all before.

10:13I'm definitely ready to settle down, and now is the right time.

10:17I've been in love.

10:20I know what it feels like.

10:22Butterflies in your stomach.

10:23You get that buzz.

10:25The best feeling you could have.

10:27I want to be in love.

10:28I want to find my forever person.

10:30I want that fairy tale.

10:32I want all the love.

10:32I want all the trimmings.

10:33I want the whole shebang.

10:36My ideal wife.

10:38She's got to be beautiful.

10:39Nice smile.

10:40Someone who's kind, family-orientated, who loves me.

10:48To have someone who's the other half of you, someone who you can share all your dreams with.

10:54I would love to find the love of my life.

11:01Leesha and Rhys, this couple are a really interesting match.

11:05Lots of similar values and qualities.

11:06After pretty much a lifetime of romantic disappointment, Leesha's been looking for her soulmate to settle down and start a family with.

11:16And I'm confident we've found that in Rhys.

11:20Leesha is a real presence with bags of energy and a massive personality.

11:25She's worried that she can be too much.

11:28She wants to be paired with an equally unique character who won't be put off by her larger-than-life nature.

11:34Beneath that loud exterior is someone craving stability.

11:40Rhys is loyal.

11:41He loves his family.

11:42And he's someone who doesn't take relationships lightly.

11:45His experience as a child, learning about his biological father, has clearly created a desire for a solid family unit.

11:54He's ready to settle down.

11:56And just like Leesha, wants the house, the kids, and someone to grow old with.

12:00Looks are important to them both.

12:03But beyond physical attraction, Leesha will bring fun, warmth, and passion into Rhys' life.

12:10And Rhys will give Leesha the safety and commitment that she needs.

12:15They're not just ready for love.

12:17They're ready for each other.

12:19Rhys and Leesha.

12:22It's in-laws week?

12:36Yep.

12:37How do you think today's going to go?

12:38It's going to be interesting.

12:39Got a lot to talk about.

12:43Devon and I really just need to get on the same page in terms of how we move forward and progress,

12:48seeing that our values are so different.

12:49We had a tough week.

12:51Both of us seeing our family and friends is going to be a reset for us.

12:56I literally can't wait.

12:57Just to be out of the apartment for a little bit.

13:00Yeah, I couldn't run any faster to go see them.

13:03Even if I wanted to.

13:05JJ and Drew are everything to me.

13:08They know me better than I know myself.

13:10I just want to talk to them about the honeymoon, everything that's kind of happened,

13:14all the challenges that we face to now.

13:15Hi.

13:19Hi.

13:20Hi, how are you doing?

13:21So nervous.

13:23After a strong start on their wedding day.

13:25Wow.

13:26It's love at first sight.

13:28I've got like soft lips.

13:30I'm just loving how this feels.

13:32On their honeymoon, Davani's energy levels...

13:38Growing up, I was always alone.

13:40...failed to live up to Julia Ruth's expectations.

13:43I think the worst thing is that I've always went through life questioning why certain things happen.

13:48...causing a series of conflicts for the couple.

13:52Just like a tornado of negativity.

13:54The last thing I want to do is have a talk about traumas and then like get into bed with you.

14:00There's trouble in paradise, isn't there?

14:03When we're traveling back to the resort, Davani just started shouting at me out of nowhere.

14:08One of my deal breakers that I said is a temper and anger.

14:11This is not how I wanted my honeymoon to go.

14:14It needs to be out there, what we've been going through.

14:17They'll hear all the tea.

14:18All right, well, I'm going to go get ready.

14:22I'm ready to face the noise or to maybe solidify and unify us into a stronger bond.

14:28I'm going to see my babies and I'll see you later.

14:31Enjoy.

14:31Bye.

14:32See you.

14:41Last night, Davi and I had a disagreement.

14:45We went out for some drinks.

14:48I put on Davi's jacket and he twice just told me that I needed to do it up, which then made me feel like I was being controlled.

14:57Then throughout the evening, I became very frustrated that I wasn't being heard to the point that I raised my voice.

15:02Just asking when I was going to be listened to or when my feelings were going to be heard.

15:06I got far too in my head about it.

15:10It's sorted and it's squashed.

15:13But yeah, it's just getting our groove back.

15:15Yeah.

15:17You all right?

15:25Obviously, there's a bit of awkwardness at the moment.

15:28Yeah, it feels weird.

15:30Yeah.

15:30Energy has changed a bit, but it's normal.

15:33We'll be okay.

15:33In-laws' week is coming just at the right time.

15:38I'm really excited.

15:39I miss my friends a lot.

15:41And I think he needs to see his family as well.

15:44There's a lot of good things that we've been through.

15:46It's not just this fight.

15:48We're good.

15:50Happy.

15:51You're seeing your mom.

15:53Yay.

15:54More excitement.

15:54No, I am.

15:57I'm excited.

16:08When I met any guy, I've said to them straight away, do I have a child with me?

16:12Yeah.

16:12Do you want to get married?

16:13I know what I want, and I think I might scare him off.

16:16Obviously, we're getting married, so you can't get much more forward than that, but I can

16:19be very direct and very, like...

16:22Full-on.

16:22Full-on, and the questions that I may ask him, like, there's no holding back.

16:28If I'm as a light-eyed, going for my husband right now, there's no tracker that's been through

16:33on his phone yet.

16:34Don't scare him off straight away.

16:37No, see, I think the opposite.

16:38I think scare him straight away, right?

16:40No, no, no, no.

16:40And then...

16:41Oh, God.

16:42You'll be like, oh, actually, she's quite nice.

16:44No, I feel like that's a really bad plan.

16:48Leisha is a lot to handle.

16:50She's very energetic, bubbly, intense.

16:54So, good luck.

16:58As soon as we see him, we'll know whether or not you fancy him or not.

17:01I hope he fancies me as well.

17:02I know.

17:04Oh, God.

17:07I'm scared that I'm going to see him for the first time and he's just going to be like,

17:12who is this?

17:13I'm like, who is she?

17:14I've just waited for this moment for so long, and rejection is so scary.

17:20So, everything is riding on this today.

17:23You're so ready to meet your person and your equal.

17:25I think that's all you want.

17:26I just want to be loved.

17:28Yeah, you do.

17:29Today is the biggest day of my life.

17:31I've always dreamt of the house.

17:33My husband coming home from work and me being the wife and the kids.

17:37So, I'm so excited.

17:38I've wanted this for so long.

17:39How are you doing, son?

17:44How are you doing, mate?

17:45You good?

17:45You all right?

17:46Good to see you.

17:47How are you feeling?

17:48Yeah, all right.

17:48Not too bad.

17:49Today is the day I'm getting married.

17:51I'm getting a little bit more nervous.

17:52But my pal, Charlie, my best man, is coming to help me get ready, make sure my tie is straightened up, make sure the barnet's looking fresh, and just give me a couple of positive words, I hope.

18:02It's mad to think that she's there, just around the corner.

18:12Yeah.

18:12And that gets me a bit, a little bit jittery.

18:15But I would know she's the one pretty soon.

18:17Why?

18:17I just feel like I know if I've got that click with someone within 24 to 48 hours, fast, yeah.

18:28Today means a lot.

18:30It means so much to me.

18:31I'm hoping to see the lady of my dreams, and this is definitely going to be the one.

18:37I've got big faith in it.

18:39Mate, to be honest with you, a single life, all that is done.

18:42This is something now to go to the next stage.

18:44Become an adult.

18:45You're having to commit to another person.

18:49Oh, a huge commitment.

18:50I'm ready now, though.

18:51I want to settle down.

18:53I want that married life.

18:54Slippers, dressing gown, newspaper, kids screaming.

18:58Dressing gown and slippers ain't that much to ask for.

19:03Mum, do you think this is a good thing for me?

19:06Like...

19:07I think you've got nothing to lose and everything to gain.

19:10And I would always support you, because I just want you...

19:13Oh, I love you.

19:15To be happy.

19:15Oh, I love you.

19:17I just want you to be happy.

19:19Oh.

19:20Oh, I love you.

19:21And I love you, too.

19:24This is all that Leisha's ever wanted.

19:26And as a parent, that's what you want for your child.

19:29I'm going to get quite emotional now, actually.

19:32And I just want my daughter to be happy.

19:37That's all I want.

19:39Oh.

19:40Oh, I love you.

19:43I love you, too.

19:53Leisha always looks gorgeous.

19:56Oh!

19:57I can see her point.

19:58Hello.

19:58Oh, you look lovely.

19:59How you doing?

20:00All right.

20:01You all right?

20:01How are you?

20:02Mwah.

20:02Yep.

20:03Good.

20:03Lovely.

20:03So lovely.

20:05So lovely, darling.

20:07Reese, to me, has always had a special place in my heart.

20:10Was you a bit nervous?

20:11Uh, no.

20:12I'm actually feeling all right.

20:13I'm not too nervous yet, ma.

20:15Very good.

20:16It's the proudest moment for me to see him looking like that,

20:19so handsome, on his wedding day.

20:22I think she's a very lucky girl.

20:25Kind of words.

20:25You always look gorgeous, Reese.

20:26Oh, thanks, man.

20:27You've been kind of words.

20:28You've grown into such a lovely, handsome man.

20:32To see my nan so happy for me, so pleased for me,

20:35it's beautiful to see.

20:37It's a special moment.

20:39Cheers to that.

20:40Cheers, darling.

20:40Cheers.

20:40Getting married will change my life.

21:08It's just that final piece of the puzzle.

21:12I want that fairy tale.

21:13I want all the love.

21:14I want just that sparks flying.

21:15It should be like a dream.

21:16Hello, I'm Reese.

21:38How's everyone feeling?

21:40Nervous.

21:40Yeah?

21:42Are you, uh, my future wife's mum?

21:45I am.

21:46Oh, wow.

21:46Yes.

21:46Okay, okay.

21:48This is crazy.

21:51He introduced himself, and to me, that's a 10 out of 10 in anybody's book.

21:56Okay.

21:56He's got nervous, Ted.

22:15I've wanted this day for so long, and it's finally happening.

22:18I have been rejected many times in my past, because normally I can be too much for guys.

22:26It's the worst feeling in the world.

22:29I want to be with somebody that truly just loves me for me.

22:33I hope that he looks at me and thinks I'm the beautifulest girl he's ever laid his eyes on.

22:43This is scary.

22:44Hi.

22:55Hello.

22:57How you doing?

22:58I'm good.

22:59How are you?

23:00How you doing?

23:01Yeah, I'm good.

23:02What's your name?

23:03Leisha.

23:03Leisha?

23:04Yeah.

23:04Reese.

23:05Nice to meet you.

23:05Lovely to meet you.

23:06How are you feeling?

23:07Yeah, nervous.

23:08Nervous, me too.

23:09Yeah.

23:09It's all good.

23:10I know.

23:11Wow.

23:12It's finally come, huh?

23:13Hi.

23:13You're lovely.

23:18You look so nice as well.

23:20First thing I noticed was her beautiful green eyes and her lovely smile.

23:24She's a beautiful girl.

23:27Oh, sorry, I'm just laughing because I'm so nervous.

23:29I'm really a little nervous.

23:30Halfway.

23:31It helps.

23:35Reese is gorgeous to look at.

23:38She's tall, masculine, kind eyes, really nice smile.

23:43Good breath.

23:45Nice breath.

23:46What more do I want?

23:47I'm happy.

23:52Welcome, everyone, to this very special and exciting wedding of Leisha and Reese.

23:58And now I'd like to invite you to read your vows.

24:06To my future wife, I'm looking forward to all the beautiful moments we will share, such

24:13as experiencing adventures, exploring countries and cities, getting up to mischief and waking

24:19up to you every day.

24:22I hope one day to start a family with you, with a few babies and a couple of doggies.

24:29From this moment on, I promise to care for you, protect you and comfort you.

24:33I pray we can make each other happy and laugh every day.

24:38I hope this is our happily ever after.

24:42Oh, that's lovely.

24:46That's so nice.

24:48What I've asked for, he has literally said in his vows, family, a dog, somebody to have

24:54adventures with, somebody to wake up every day with.

24:58They've matched us pretty perfect, to be honest.

25:00Oh, when applying for this process, they asked me what I was looking for.

25:09And it was an easy answer for me.

25:11Pause.

25:11Oh, no, sorry, I was supposed to...

25:13Sorry, sorry.

25:23I'm looking for a partnership, a best friend, a person to do life with, and someone that loves

25:29me for the person I am, inside and out.

25:33I'm a sociable, fun-loving, confident woman, who knows exactly what she wants, and I hope

25:39I'm staring at him right now.

25:40I know this process won't be easy, and we will have our ups and downs, but nothing in life

25:47is worth fighting for.

25:49No, it is worth fighting for.

25:50I really fancy him.

25:59I can't even look at him.

26:00I'm really struggling to speak.

26:02I'm so nervous right now.

26:04Nothing in life is worth fighting for comes easy.

26:12I promise to be kind and respectful to you throughout this whole crazy journey, and hopefully fall

26:18in love along the way.

26:19Let's hope, the words of Kylie Minogue, that this is love at first sight.

26:28Leesha's vows, she's quite loud, a little bit over the top.

26:32That could drive me round the bend.

26:35Contemplating, am I going to be attracted to her?

26:38It's hard to tell.

26:40Leesha?

26:41Yeah?

26:42Do you take Rhys to be your husband?

26:44I do.

26:46Thanks.

26:46Leesha and Rhys, it is my huge pleasure to proudly pronounce you husband and wife.

27:03CHEERING AND APPLAUSE

27:05He kissed me on the cheek.

27:14I mean, I kissed my nan on the cheek.

27:18I kissed the dog on the lips.

27:19You know what I mean?

27:20I was like, where's my kiss on the lips?

27:24She's a beautiful girl, but I just want to get to know her to see if she is someone who

27:30I could see myself with for the rest of my life.

27:33At this stage, I'm not too sure what else is about to be unravelled.

27:36I think I was expecting him being, like, a little bit blown away.

27:41I don't think my husband fancies me.

27:44It actually really petrifies me, because I don't want to get, like, my heart broken.

27:48I can't wait to see her.

28:03It feels like it's been a lot longer than it has.

28:06Right.

28:06In central London, Julia Ruth is meeting up with best friends JJ and Drew.

28:11Do you think she will be happy?

28:12I hope so.

28:13Me and Drew are really honest as friends, so definitely we're going to give her some advice.

28:19On the wedding day, you could see that they had a spark, they had a genuine connection.

28:23But it's just going to be more interesting to see what day-to-day looks like.

28:27I want to hear everything about them.

28:28We want to know the tea.

28:31Baby!

28:34I'm so happy to have my friends JJ and Drew here to support me today.

28:43I trust their opinion, what they say.

28:47They give the best advice.

28:51So how are you?

28:52I'm good.

28:54I think.

28:57What was that?

28:58I think.

28:59I don't know.

29:02The wedding day was fab.

29:03Nothing happened, but we spent the night together and we were going to our honeymoon the next day.

29:09The reality of everything kind of like really set in.

29:12We're in Morocco and we go on a camel ride, which was amazing.

29:16And I ask him like, is there anything you're scared of?

29:19Like, what do you fear?

29:20He says completely opposite of where I thought he was going to go.

29:22He sits on the camel and he's like, nobody's ever going to love me.

29:25What?

29:27When I'm looking for the humour and the fun, I'm struggling because everything ends up feeling so fucking deep.

29:34Really?

29:35So we have dinner and I decide to sit down with him and talk things on.

29:39We end on a good note.

29:41We say tomorrow's a new day.

29:42Reset button.

29:43Start afresh, right?

29:44I head back to the van.

29:45I hear stomping and I look up and I open my eyes up.

29:48Devani's standing over me.

29:50Yelling at me.

29:52Yelling at you?

29:53Yeah.

29:59Oh, that's scary.

30:02The shout-in thing.

30:03For me, you don't shout at anyone, especially in fresh relationships.

30:07There's just certain things that you just don't do to people.

30:10Yes.

30:10Yeah.

30:10If you have to yell to communicate, you don't know how to communicate.

30:13You've lost.

30:14Yeah.

30:15That's my husband.

30:17Shit.

30:19I know Julia.

30:19The fact that he was yelling at her, for me,

30:23is definitely red flags.

30:25I'm really worried about her.

30:31I'm really, really excited to see Devani today.

30:33I have so many questions.

30:35I want to know everything.

30:36I'm here today to give any advice that I can.

30:39Hello.

30:44How are you doing?

30:45There's definitely a lot to catch up on.

30:48Welcome to my humble abode.

30:49She knows that I'm not here to sugarcoat stuff.

30:52I will be 100% transparent and honest about how our marriage is.

30:55So, how's everything been since the wedding day?

30:59It's been a rollercoaster.

31:02It's settled up.

31:03When we got married, literally, we shot off straight off to Morocco.

31:07But we had a hiccup.

31:09Really went south real quick.

31:11I opened up about, like, a sense of information about me.

31:15But it was too heavy, innit?

31:16And I felt like it was an overload at that moment in time.

31:20She took it as, like,

31:21I'm badgering about, okay, you've had a bad past

31:24and you're not acknowledging where you are now.

31:26It wasn't that.

31:27It was just me opening up.

31:28Because I want to have an emotional connection with her.

31:30After the camel ride, I approached her.

31:33But it was bad delivery because, obviously, my emotions were high.

31:37It got to a point where she must have thought that I was attacking her.

31:40I had to take a step back.

31:41And we did end up sleeping separately.

31:43It makes me sad to hear that you've had, you know, these tiffs.

31:47I can understand when you want to be open with your partner

31:51and in their eyes, they might have just needed a little bit more time.

31:55And it's gone left.

31:56I can appreciate that you tried.

32:01We did this task last week.

32:03We get given nine values and we have to rank them.

32:06The things are humour, intelligence, ambition, sex, looks.

32:09His list, this is what he values the least, is sex and looks.

32:16On her list of the first ones, she put humour.

32:20I put children.

32:22Obviously, I've got a son, so that comes before anything else.

32:24Anything.

32:25For her, sex was, I think, three or four on the list.

32:29Her looks was second.

32:30So that was a big difference between the two.

32:32He values work, occupation and money and a partner

32:36over someone you're physically attracted to and connect with.

32:40If he put it higher up, I think I would have respected it more.

32:43It just seems so fake.

32:44I am quite upset.

32:47The fact that children is last.

32:50Looks was right up there.

32:52There definitely is a difference in what she's looking for.

32:56I'm very worried that Devani gets hurt in this experiment

32:59because I know his character and it makes me feel uneasy.

33:03What's the sex like, then?

33:07Like, is any of it going well?

33:12Oh, shit.

33:14Oh.

33:17My toys have been in the box.

33:20My toys have been in the saloon.

33:26They're collecting dust.

33:27I feel for her because she's craving connection with somebody.

33:36The one thing that she wanted is the one thing that's missing right now.

33:40Being 100% honest, I don't think there is much compatibility.

33:46I'm not optimistic at all.

33:48We don't love what we've heard.

33:49None of it's cute.

33:51And we do have some questions for him.

33:53I thought that everything was really lovely at the wedding,

33:58but after telling me what you did for your values...

34:01Yeah.

34:02..that worried me.

34:03Mm-hmm.

34:04These things are not aligning.

34:07It'll be interesting to see his point of view

34:09on how those scenarios went down compared to yours.

34:12Yeah.

34:13I can't wait to hear his explanation.

34:15And arm around your bride there.

34:24That's it.

34:26There you go.

34:27Hang on.

34:27I'm nervous now.

34:29Yeah, but that's natural.

34:30Okay.

34:31Right.

34:31Just...

34:32And just looking at me here.

34:34Really nice.

34:36We didn't kiss.

34:37I have got no clue if he fancies me,

34:39which is, like, making me a little bit crazy,

34:42because I think, does he like me?

34:43Does he not?

34:44So, yeah, like, why didn't you kiss me at the end?

34:47Because your dad was there, your mum's there.

34:49I don't know.

34:50I feel like you offered your cheeks.

34:51I went for the cheek.

34:52No, I need you to take control.

34:55It's just, like, because I wasn't sure

34:56whether you like me or not.

34:56I wasn't getting that vibe.

34:57They were really hard to read.

35:00I'm going to meet a guy that I know instantly

35:01whether they, like, want me or not,

35:03and they're very, like, forward with what they want,

35:05and I'm like...

35:05Yeah.

35:06You know, and I didn't get that from you.

35:10I'm just a bit of a closed-booking accent.

35:12Going straight in for the smooch.

35:16It's just...

35:16It's just a bit...

35:17I don't know, too soon.

35:21What's your take?

35:22So, like, my go-to would be, like,

35:25someone with, like, a nice smile, nice eyes,

35:27someone I'm going to have a bit of banter with,

35:28someone who does take care of himself.

35:31Glamorous, but you look super glamorous.

35:33You definitely tick the eye box.

35:35Would you mind just a kiss for the camera?

35:37Yeah.

35:38Is that a kiss?

35:39That's it.

35:39Cheers.

35:51That's a long kiss.

35:52That's a long kiss.

35:53I didn't know.

35:53I just was like, oh, just continue on.

35:55That's right.

35:56I thought I'd leave you to it.

35:57You seem to be enjoying it.

35:59Kiss is good.

36:01I just kept going.

36:02I'm just kissing him, kissing him, kissing him.

36:03I was expecting him to, like, pull back, but he didn't.

36:07So I was like, he likes me.

36:09We're good.

36:13Really lovely there, guys.

36:14That was gorgeous.

36:16It was more like a pic.

36:17It wasn't really like an intimate kiss.

36:20It felt awkward because you could hear the cameras, like,

36:23clicking away and you're just there, like...

36:25It just wasn't a natural kiss.

36:27It was literally just locking lips, like...

36:29And that was it.

36:30There was no passion there.

36:33I will always have Devani's back.

36:44There's a lot of things that I want to ask Julia Ruth

36:46that are based around the well-being of him.

36:54You guys all right?

36:56I think the situation is really tense right now

36:58because he has heard Devani's side of the story.

37:00My friends have heard my side of the story

37:02and I think it's who's going to break the ice

37:06and get the conversation started and rolling.

37:09I'm curious, how did the honeymoon go?

37:21Um, the honeymoon was, like, a great start,

37:25but we definitely had our hiccups.

37:28I think for me, I was struggling with having a lot of deep,

37:33good chats, but then to find the balance

37:34in terms of having the fun moments.

37:38Right. Yeah.

37:38So then we go into the camel rides

37:41and then it turned into a spiral of negativity

37:45and him talking down about himself quite a lot.

37:51I'm really concerned about what Julia told me

37:53about you yelling at her.

37:55Mm-hmm.

37:55Personally, I don't agree with people

37:59that, like, shout to communicate.

38:02When it comes down to something

38:03that's heavy on my chest that I need to get off,

38:05what I've learned, obviously,

38:07I'm going to have to take a step back,

38:08basically just taking the space

38:09if there's any form of conflict,

38:11instead of just badgering and just,

38:13I guess, attacking, but...

38:15Okay, but you're not taking accountability there,

38:17so now you keep...

38:19By doing this, you're now taken away from it

38:20because, Devani, you've thought about intention,

38:23but acknowledge and accept and don't backtrack on it,

38:26but doing this now takes away from it.

38:29Because you're making it sound like it was intentional,

38:30like I came out and I was like,

38:31oh, yeah, I'm going to just go boom, boom, boom.

38:33I'm not saying you have a malicious bone in your body.

38:34I'm saying that was the situation,

38:37but that's what you did in that moment.

38:38Yeah, I took accountability.

38:39Did I not take accountability for it?

38:41I think you do, then. I'm sorry.

38:45You did apologise.

38:46I'm not taking away from that, Devani,

38:47but right now you're taking away from that

38:49by saying, if I shouted,

38:51you yelled at me multiple times.

38:53If I feel like I've got my back against the wall

39:09and I'm being attacked verbally,

39:11my body will shut down.

39:13I have never seen Devani like this.

39:31Hey, hey, hey, hey.

39:33Hey, I'm not like myself.

39:35Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey

40:05it's normal there's no connection we talk about it we like hash it out but the the penny doesn't

40:16seem to drop and he's not seeing it he's not i'm sorry that i made you feel this way

40:20this wasn't my intention to make you feel this way you know as simple as that

40:25it's not all on you it's not just the words as you're saying no i i i i understand that

40:38yeah i understand that and that's why i'm very much listening before i've got something to say

40:43okay but it's okay because i made you yeah okay good job

41:02i feel emotional because i'm not being heard

41:06and i'm not the person that she portrays me to be

41:07yeah he's feeling feeling it you know because it's a lot in sense of what he did

41:19was wrong i can put my hands up and say yeah the shouting the behavior but then there's certain

41:26things that was said today that have hurt his feelings as you can see

41:29i would think about the type of words that you use calling someone out on something can be really

41:41damaging to how someone is actually feeling too and these things can be a lot in sense of

41:50dragging someone's character

41:51yeah sorry but yes i understand yeah i feel like your gaslighting have feelings

42:03no

42:10that was gaslighting

42:14because your feelings are valid yeah i've told you that

42:16i don't trust julia ruth with the conversation the reactions body language

42:28something's just not sitting right

42:34i need to know your intentions

42:39i need to know where your head's at because if you want my support

42:42then you you got to be some type of ready

42:51my intentions into this is to meet someone to be out of the game

42:56i truly do want to find love

43:00coming in i hoped she was happy honestly i don't think she was as happy as i thought

43:07i feel like the way you communicate i honestly don't think this is okay

43:17the money he lacks on accountability he is very defensive and is not working i'm worried about julia

43:25i guess that's something i'm just gonna have to work on i really do want to make this work

43:30let's move on from it and just get down to why we're actually physically here and that's

43:36what i'm standing on we have done this quite a few times

43:41and the actions are not matching the words i don't need to hear anything let's just do it

43:47today was a lot my friends have my back they had given me a lot to think about so it doesn't make

43:53a break week for davani and i me being this emotional shows that i obviously do care about

43:59this relationship but i feel like every time i'm one step closer i'm getting one step back

44:03gets the point of what more can you do

44:07how excited are you very how excited are you i feel good i think we are out of the funk

44:26yeah i agree ah the mood has shifted the clouds have lifted because d and i have worked out the

44:38best way to get out of our funk when we are not in the same rhythm and that is with a bit of rhythm

44:43and blues sometimes you just need a bit of makeup sex and i've never really understood that before

44:49and now i very much do i think we were both very much on our heads yeah and the best way to get

44:55out of your head is to give some hair i am so excited to be hosting it is completely me and my

45:03element it is what i do at home and we're hosting our friends and family after not seeing them for

45:07such a long time like it's just it's all perfect yeah and finish

45:19it's all perfect yeah

45:29congrats guys yeah thank you very much

45:33i actually fancy him he said loads of right things he did he said everything right right for me

45:46i want to know everything as much as i can i'm super sexually attracted to reese i really like him

45:54i've got so many questions to ask him did you honestly think i was like super attracted when you

45:58first see me when you're like dead happy eyes on your eyes i was over the moon what's your exes been

46:03like what have they been like what are different so you don't have like a preference really it's just

46:07kind of like a mind connection okay yeah and do you get like a lot of attention yeah i'm so happy

46:17with the way things are going with me and reese it's in my nature to ask these questions so i'm just

46:22going to keep asking them i'm just truly wanting to get to know him to his core so how many exes have

46:28you had before lisha then four four exes any cycles luckily i've never actually done with a cycle

46:35so why have your exes not worked out why have your past relationships jealous are you quite jealous

46:41i started off as a grilling there's a lot to take him do you like the woman oh no i don't do that no do you prefer

46:53being in a relationship oh 100 percent so i take it you do want a family oh 100 yeah yeah so you like

47:02kids yeah i'm just i'm lost for words about it to be honest what would you call your child

47:08like frankie okay yeah frankie him telling me that he wants kids that's a massive turn-on for

47:17me like i love you later and you know i'm like oh well they're still talking i'm gonna say they're

47:23still talking yes he will need earplugs because lisha never shuts up she's like her dad do you like

47:30the outdoors though yeah yeah yeah me too so you let into the gym stuff yeah yeah i box really do you box

47:36oh see that's attractive can you cook yeah can you oh lovely lisha's got a lot of questions feels like

47:45getting analyzed she's 100 miles an hour but i hope it doesn't turn to like a thousand miles an hour

47:52i can't get my wrist and she's constant recently alicia and reese it's nice aye

47:58aye aye it is nice look off my seat you can't walk for you

48:07so what are your thoughts like now i'm speaking and he's just seems so genuine and nice oh definitely

48:13look at him he's always speaking like my family and that that's so nice he's a proper gentleman

48:17everyone enjoyed himself you okay i'm fine how are you do you like him i know you like him yeah i'm

48:23getting good vibes i'm getting good vibes he's sexy of course i think you're gonna get a snuggle

48:28at night i need to have a shower though the whole day feels like a fair tale to me he is the perfect

48:38man for me literally i'm so happy i see a future with this man already i'm like buzzing so i'm chuffed

48:46and how are you reese i'm good i'm very well thank you i think reese is a genuinely nice guy

48:55but i hope he's somebody that will manage lisha's excitement because she functions on nervous energy

49:06and it can also be exhausting at times leash can be a bit full-on she's an open book she's

49:13very very open and honest yeah you wouldn't find that often as long as it's not constant

49:21see when he said he was a boxer i was like oh that's hot

49:26i might shadow me like i know you're a sister sister i might do it

49:33i might be too much for reese he's got no idea what he's got herself into it buckle up because he's in

49:40for a good ride

49:54we're hosting our first dinner this is super cute i know at the apartments david and kia are preparing

50:00for the arrival of their friends and family how amazing does this lasagna look so good now

50:08do you want this it's me it's me it's me it's my door good yeah

50:14yeah yeah i'm so happy hi guys oh my god please do come in to kiki d's treehouse

50:28how are you you're still together yeah lots of worries lots of concerns how many rows have

50:35there been has there not been rows are they eating properly are they looking after each other are they

50:38sleeping i am needing to know that they are okay we're very excited how have you both been good

50:47i now really love pda as you can tell it was from the wedding day we just kept it the same way we

50:54acted in the wedding we like we kept going so have you had sex not yet yvette i was actually

51:05going to ask you when was the last time you had anal oh do you know like over 10 years now i'm so

51:10sorry mum just like no not not that like just sex in general no no no oh my god seriously

51:20i'm i'm i'm done i'm done that's the season

51:26it's your time

51:37oh oh i'm gonna cry now because she's crying stop it mother drink your cremont

51:44i want to know if david my best friend is doing well and if he's not that will pose as obviously

51:55a red flag for me and i will want to know what's going on so one of the things that i think everyone

52:01noticed at the wedding like you had chemistry instantly and you are i would say quite similar

52:09in personality how has that been it just compliments so yeah it's so nice to just

52:17be a kid with someone and also have like these mature emotional chats and just we were literally

52:23running around down the street the other day with him giving me a piggyback pretending to be a t-rex

52:28chasing one of the other people in the experiment that is amazing like like and it's but then we go

52:33from that to sitting and having these deep emotional conversations about like traumas we've been through

52:38it's been very intense very emotional it was really easy to fall for him likewise

52:45has there been any volatility argument stuff we had a fight we're gonna like okay everyone does

52:51the whole experience is a lot and i think last week was incredibly intense yeah but we got back

52:57into our rhythm how did you i don't know d said something really hilarious yeah go on we want to

53:04know what was it tell me a really funny joke d it was great it was about this rabbit that goes in a hole

53:10and then suddenly everything's happy i love that my mom got the joke first

53:17i haven't read it oh my god i know where you get it from now i know where you get it from now oh yeah

53:30clearly they've been matched for a very good reason oh it's just really good to see them today

53:44they're adorable together i'm a happy mom of two boys right now

53:49how are you guys looking at the relationship like what's what what's it feeling like i've never

53:58had a relationship this strong or that i've been this open and myself in i'm not even slightly

54:04concerned anything like good or bad we go to each other like okay what is this about like why do you

54:08feel like that and we just talk about it it is is the l word there

54:13are you in love

54:23no i am in love with him yeah he knows that

54:34100 love him love him to pieces you can't imagine my life without him yes i'm i'm in love with david

54:39i've known i was in love with david from the moment i met david i can't lie to sahar i can't

54:44lie to my mom she's gonna see through it even if i do yeah i love him 100 completely completely

54:49in absolutely in every way completely besotted yeah besotted we just didn't say it because i think

54:56there was no need for it but i wouldn't change it sometimes you don't need the words because it's the

55:01feeling and it's the actions isn't it yeah i love him i love kia i fell in love with kia for kia

55:08we both want to make it back and i know he cares and loves me i know i can feel it i could honestly

55:14say i'm going home today i'm feeling incredibly proud of the two of you keep being open please

55:24explore all the issues that you've got and move forward together in such a positive way that you'll

55:30never look back and i'm going home with no worries oh give me a puppy that makes me happy that makes

55:38me really happy i'm just gonna apologize for feeling yourself feel those emotions girl okay

55:46going into the week ahead i'm excited we're in a really really great place we've both had that time

55:51with our friends and family and kind of got that stamp of approval and showing them and ourselves that we're

55:55happy and we're content and this is going in the right direction i mean we're in love what more could

56:00you want next time i've had relationships but never the kind that last forever the final bride and

56:12groom join the experiment there's so much riding on today i've never been more ready in my life

56:19cheers everyone cheers and as more couples reunite with loved ones have you discussed yet coming out

56:27maeve is forced to confront what lies ahead i've not actually had that talk yet i just hope it's not

56:35too good to be true were you disrespectful well i said that i'd got a bit of the ick

56:41it's fucking muggy while dean is left questioning his marriage to sarah i don't want to ever be

56:48disrespected she needs to not be allowed to say and get away with it do i let go or do i stay and fight

57:11so

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